Comments on: Sex, Food & Silence

By: Paddy

Paddy — Tue, 03 Nov 2009 22:37:52 +0000

Pare the list to just two items. Thats all. Don’t need the 3rd. Silence is over rated. In a great love affair since ‘71. It works for us. Simple rules like don’t ever lie and solve your problems before turning in for the night.

By: Wise Diva

Wise Diva — Tue, 03 Nov 2009 22:15:40 +0000

You have to meet all women to know if they have low self-esteem, though. I am sure they exist, just as cowardly men do. Doesn’t mean it applies to everyone. and sorry, *Kanye shrug* Hi

By: Cemeeli

Cemeeli — Tue, 03 Nov 2009 22:01:25 +0000

@MsM thanks for that…all nicely laid out n stuff.

…join us more oft.

Good night folk.

By: MsM

MsM — Tue, 03 Nov 2009 21:54:53 +0000

Interesting topic… my ex-husband cried more than I did through 20 years of marriage… He didn’t know how to deal with any thing. I was soooo tired, and finally came to the conclusion that it had to be him… example: written up for being late for work at most every job he’d ever had, his response they are picking on him! WTF. Man, I couldn’t get a cry in edgewise LOL!

When I met my S/O I was still in the mind that I needed to hear everything on his mind/bothering him, and thank God he quickly let me know…NO… I’ll let you know if its something you need to be concerned about. Don’t get me wrong we talk a lot and sometimes he’ll ask MsM what she thinks… and MsM is thoughtful and honest, he’s asking. When I can tell something is bothering him I’ll let him be and what ever it was passes.

By: Lurker

Lurker — Tue, 03 Nov 2009 21:54:16 +0000

Sybil…. Such an expression of anger will get you everywhere! Zipppppppp!:lol:

WD…. I see you like to eat a lot! Are you a big girl? I do likem big?

By: Leggs

Leggs — Tue, 03 Nov 2009 21:49:47 +0000

Gotta go…good night.

“Quit waiting on others to give you the answers…and start finding the answers for yourself! If what you are doing isn’t working for you…then quit it!” (Verunda Jackson ~ Motivational speaker)

Peace!

By: The Truth-Somewhere in the desert playing

The Truth-Somewhere in the desert playing — Tue, 03 Nov 2009 21:49:25 +0000

Wise, all women have low self esteem. They spend their ENTIRE life trying to figure out how to get under a man then get their worth from said act. Men love getting inside of women too but it doesnt define us. It just relaxes us. LOL As soon as a chick gets a man she takes out an ad in the ajc to let everyone know she’s worth something to someone. Her life begins after she gets a man. These are all acts associated with low self esteem. And hi to you too.

By: abc

abc — Tue, 03 Nov 2009 21:45:27 +0000

Now, yall get on each other’s nerves just typing into the blog. It’s easy to imagine the kind of crap you give to SO after awhile, if you’ll be that caustic with strangers on the Internet. Talk about lack of peace and tranquility! It ain’t that divisive of a topic, folks, and even if it was, it’s just talk. Not even that, it’s just type.

Truth has a good point in that people will only treat you the way you allow them to treat you. If you don’t get the treatment you want, and it persists, it’s your own fault.

By: Wise Diva

Wise Diva — Tue, 03 Nov 2009 21:43:12 +0000

and I see The Truth is back with another installment of controlling low-self esteem chicks series

By: Wise Diva

Wise Diva — Tue, 03 Nov 2009 21:41:37 +0000

Wise Diva choke holds require dinner first and a background check