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Bedside Manner

Most women will agree that the relationship with her doctor is not unlike the one she has with her man.  She has to be able to trust the person and feel comfortable with them.  When you consider bedside manner, very few women will put up with a rude, inconsiderate physician that makes her feel horrible.

That is why I find it so strange that so many women put up with the same behavior from the men that they date.  A man’s bedroom behavior says a lot about his personality and character. The same as for women, men probably pay attention to how she handles herself.

I found a list of tips that are recommended for doctors, imagine that these are bedroom tips:

  • Be a good listener, patients may need to be encouraged to express their concerns and anxieties.
  • Be non-judgemental, avoid stereotyping patients on appearance or cultural or social background.
  • Avoid making any unnecessary personal remarks or jokes, especially when the consultation involves matters of an intimate nature.
  • Acknowledge the patient’s emotions and that they may be feeling frightened or anxious and need reassurance.
  • Approach all patients in a caring and considerate manner.
  • Remember, patients have busy lives, be mindful of waiting time

What do you think is good bedside manner is? What would you do if someone’s bedside manner was awful? If you think the person is worth it, do you bring it up?

190 comments Add your comment

Melo

November 2nd, 2009
9:50 am

So guys are playing doc today,is that the topic WD??

Leggs

November 2nd, 2009
9:56 am

Good morning. Yes, if the bedside manner was awful and I’m really into this person, I would sit and discuss with him.

Dan -fighting for (inner) peace

November 2nd, 2009
9:58 am

Naw Melo,

I kinda get what (I think) she’s talking about.

It’s the “bedside manner” that states that a guy is not supposed to enhance whatever self esteem (or body issues) that the woman may have, and vice versa.

It’s the “love her [me] as I am”; and if you don’t keeping it (your concerns) to yourself.

A time honored tradition actually, for both sexes.

Cemeeli

November 2nd, 2009
10:06 am

good day…

What would you do if someone’s bedside manner was awful? If you think the person is worth it, do you bring it up?

I hear that song “Ego” …

SexyCool - Meant to be Mint.

November 2nd, 2009
10:11 am

Three Words Daily – God’s in control.

Melo

November 2nd, 2009
10:15 am

a guy is not supposed to enhance whatever self esteem (or body issues) that the woman may have, and vice versa

why get with a lady that u dont appreciate physically…thats like committing a fraud??

Dan: hey shaqueeta,why ur tatas look much smallewr than Keisha’s,my last girl..

shaqueeta: so what u saying Dan,u want deese or not??

Dan:jus saying…ok,neva mind??

queeta:OK THEN,GET WITH KEISHA THEN!!,U MUTHA*&^%$$CKA%%%!!

SexyCool - Meant to be Mint.

November 2nd, 2009
10:18 am

Bedside advice – Do not insert anything anywhere without lubrication.

Dan -fighting for (inner) peace

November 2nd, 2009
10:22 am

Cemeeli

November 2nd, 2009
10:25 am

@ SCool – okay…Bedside advice

…never say this even though you may have wanted to:

‘What do you want first? The good news or the bad news? Mind you the bad news means there can’t possible be any good news!’

Dan -fighting for (inner) peace

November 2nd, 2009
10:27 am

@Melo

I know a Shaqueeta (actually, something close to it).

But it’s not that, it’s the “I’mma git you sucka syndrome”.

It’s getting her (insert male pronouns for the ladies) back to the crib, outta of the clothes; only to find that her eyelashes are fake, her booty don’t look as good out of the jeans, all that hair ain’t hers, and that she had on Spanx and unleashed the deepest longest breath EVER when taking them off.

For the male/female fairness doctrine He wasn’t as “cut” as the shirt/outfit portrayed (take that in anyway possible).

THE INFAMOUS DK

November 2nd, 2009
10:30 am

Appropriate bedside manner is.. I get you a towel after we’re done..

Hopeless Romantic Diva

November 2nd, 2009
10:31 am

SexyCool – Meant to be Mint 10:11- thanks for the reminder…..so true!

THE INFAMOUS DK

November 2nd, 2009
10:31 am

with warm water..

SexyCool - Cloud status - 7.13

November 2nd, 2009
10:33 am

Bad bedside manner will get you dismissed; so will bad foreplay.

I have tried discussing it with one person in the past. But, er, um, well, yeah, NEXT.

Cemeeli

November 2nd, 2009
10:37 am

…something i would be comfortable with him or my Doc saying to me…

“Dealing with nervous patients is always a present.”

…well calm my nerves!

THE INFAMOUS DK

November 2nd, 2009
10:45 am

Yawn…. Topic change please..

On Bedside manners.. Find what your partner likes and do that.. Communication is the key to a vanglorious sexual experience..

Lady J

November 2nd, 2009
10:47 am

Hey SexyCool!!! Love that God is in Control!!! Also how was the concert???

abc

November 2nd, 2009
10:49 am

While it’s being referenced as ‘bedside manners’ and compared to a doctor who likely is that way out of professional courtesy, I’d say a genuine interest, concern, and graciousness in all ways and things is preferable in a romantic partner.

Or, one could say, “don’t be a self-absorbed jerk”.

Leggs

November 2nd, 2009
10:50 am

So, InfamousD, which one is getting up to get the towel? Or are we wiping each other off?

Cemeeli

November 2nd, 2009
10:50 am

@ Infamous – Okay.

I’m sleepy today too…that extra hour…where is it?

SexyCool - Cloud status - 7.13

November 2nd, 2009
10:56 am

LadyJ – The concert was off the meter. Ledisi ROCKED it. She is a bad, bad girl!!! Her energy is amazing. LOVED her!!!

Mint Condition – what can I say? Stokely is DA TROOF!!! They are the best band in all the land. The guitar riffs and the sax playing. I almost lost my damn mind.

Then E.Benet came out all mellow and smooth and sent everybody home in love. Oh, baby, wrap them chocolate legs round me.….

Mo (aka Moeisha)

November 2nd, 2009
10:56 am

Morning All!

Ummm yeah, what ya’ll already said! :smile:

SCool – how was the show??

Lady J – I cant make it tonight chica, Lil Mo has a horrible cold (and Im still trying to recoup from my weekend in B’ham). However I will be cheering my Birds on tonight!!

Mo (aka Moeisha)

November 2nd, 2009
10:57 am

okay sorry SCool, got the review!! Glad you enjoyed!!

Ms. Main

November 2nd, 2009
10:58 am

It’s not today’s topic but I bought some hawt leather and suede boots Saturday…mmm mmm mmm

THE INFAMOUS DK

November 2nd, 2009
10:58 am

Leggs – whoever.. It doesnt matter. I like when you clean me up and I clean you up, but thats just me..

SexyCool - Cloud status - 7.13

November 2nd, 2009
11:01 am

IDK – I co-sign on the cleaning. And it going both ways.

Cemeeli

November 2nd, 2009
11:02 am

@ Main – You…rock that.

@ LadyJ – Hey girlie.

Professor

November 2nd, 2009
11:03 am

Happy Monday!

I hope that all of the blog kiddies had a safe Halloween…lil dream, lil leggs, lil mo and all the others.

I don’t have much to say on this topic I guess my mind is somewhere else. I will try to lurk and see if I come up with anything.

Cemeeli

November 2nd, 2009
11:03 am

..n’ the concert sound like it was the place to be…

Sassy Me...juicy fruit...there can be only one :-)

November 2nd, 2009
11:06 am

Appropriate bedside manner is.. I get you a towel after we’re done..

Funny…but true…

Lady J

November 2nd, 2009
11:10 am

Hey CeeCee!!!!!:) Mo hope he feels better!!! I went three weeks dealing with a sick child….lol Yeah I will be chearing them on!!!! Hope that they will slip up like the Giants! LOL

WOW SexyCool You had a ball and it was a great show!!!!! Glad you enjoyed and thanks for sharing!!!! I will be in the house to see Kem and Willon Dec 30th!!!!! Can’t wait!!! Ive never missed Kem when he comes to Atlanta!!!

SexyCool - Cloud status - 7.13

November 2nd, 2009
11:11 am

MND and I went to my church yesterday and are going to his church next week. Is attending church with someone you are dating important to you?

Leggs

November 2nd, 2009
11:11 am

That was the right answer for me. I know some men would have simply said “the towel is for him” and leave it at that. Reciprocity is key!

THE INFAMOUS DK

November 2nd, 2009
11:11 am

SC/Leggs- Hey the cleaning is erotic within itself and if done properly can lead to a round 2 jumpin rather expeditiously…

SexyCool - Cloud status - 7.13

November 2nd, 2009
11:12 am

Mo (aka Moeisha)

November 2nd, 2009
11:15 am

SCool – on the church thing, its important in me getting to know him. He’s sharing another part of himself is how I look at it.

Lady J – I think Im gonna go see that show as well with Kem/Will Downing/Kindred.

Leggs

November 2nd, 2009
11:16 am

EXACTLY, InfamousD!!!

@Prof ~ she had a blast w/her friends only to top it off watching Paranormal Activity and sleeping with me last night! She said the movie was very scary and she had to put her head under the covers on some parts.

@Mo, sure hope he feels better soon.

SexyCool - Cloud status - 7.13

November 2nd, 2009
11:18 am

Mo – sometimes, we think so much a like, I swear you are in my head.

OH and on the Will Downing – did y’all know that he has been really, really sick?

Cemeeli

November 2nd, 2009
11:18 am

@ LadyJ – Thanks for posting that…didn’t hear about Kem and ‘em :) . …his song “Heaven” is that lick, for real!

THE INFAMOUS DK

November 2nd, 2009
11:19 am

Now let’s see – Deltron Z
Art avenger, let’s start the adventure
Hit ya with nerve gas, absurd blasts
Crashin space craft, I’m bio-enhanced
Hiero advanced series, monstrous evolution
Headed, tooth and nail, scoop the trail
Super-sleuth, a new race
Mad creator, savage nature
World Wide Web, the ebb and flow
Light years from watchful eyes while my thoughts provide
objectives to ostracize the pompous prophecies
Underground societies are hard to lead
Asteroid surfing, castor-oil burping
The darkest side of humanity animated
The grand awakening, plan to take it in
I demand your patronage, mobilize my battletanks
With clusters small, NTR’s to empty Mars
Many MC’s cruise low earth orbit
Easier for me to use my search warrant
Drift by a star, absorb it, and store it
Leave tourists pourous, my galaxy’s gorgeous
Quantum jump – I’m right at your doorstep

Sassy Me...juicy fruit...there can be only one :-)

November 2nd, 2009
11:20 am

Alright then Infamous….you’re speaking the truth as always!

Leggs

November 2nd, 2009
11:22 am

@SCool ~ yes, he’s been very sick and is bouncing back. He tried to hide it from his children for a long time and even his wife, but she noticed things just weren’t right. He remained in a wheelchair for quite some time, but his faith, his love and his love for his craft has helped him to forge ahead!

Sassy Me...juicy fruit...there can be only one :-)

November 2nd, 2009
11:22 am

That Kem concert is gonna be the boooomb! Along with Will and Kindred that’s going to be an awesome show….can’t wait!

Atlanta Gentleman

November 2nd, 2009
11:29 am

Be a good listener, patients may need to be encouraged to express their concerns and anxieties.

If she says ‘A little more to the left’, I listen and respond.

Avoid making any unnecessary personal remarks or jokes, especially when the consultation involves matters of an intimate nature.

If I happen to say something and hear an echo when I am ‘Tipping the Velvet’, I don’t say anything about it out of respect.

Cemeeli

November 2nd, 2009
11:33 am

….hol” up…LadyJ – What do you know about Will and KEM?…you only like 12 years old…they don’t play his songs on Nick At Night.

Lady J

November 2nd, 2009
11:46 am

CeeCee STOP IT!!!!!! LOLOL Love Calls is my FAVORITE SONG!!!!!! #10 on his first CD was played @ my Wedding You Are….I saw him @ the Fox and in Lithonia when he came!!!! LOL Kem is apart of my commute daily along with Luther’s Superstar!!! LOL I like Will too….I have his Greatest Hits!!!! Calling me out I am a HUGE FAN and I am happy to be 30 baby! Loving my Youth! LOL Second chance to have a great time but much wiser! LOL

Mo (aka Moeisha)

November 2nd, 2009
11:49 am

Leggs – Thanx, kids always bounce back faster than us grown folk! If this weather would go ahead and decide what it wants to do then Lil Mo would be cool!

SCool – yeah I did read that Will Downing had been sick. My folks saw him last year for a Christmas concert w Lalah Hathaway, they said he sounded great.

Professor – my mom took Lil Mo out to a Harvest Festival where he got to trick or treat. And she made me take the candy home! I have hidden it to keep that child from bouncing off the walls! Lil Mo had a blast though

Cemeeli

November 2nd, 2009
11:51 am

@ LadyJ – You’re 30?!! I didn’t know you made it to the 30s club!

Okay, i see ya over there…you got a good genre of music. lol :cool: cool.

…didn’t remember the ‘bells’ either…

Professor

November 2nd, 2009
11:53 am

…stepping in.

I love Kem, but wish the concert was on the 31st NYE instead of the 30th. I love going to concerts on NYE, but I am thinking about going out of town this year because so far I don’t see anything good going on in Atlanta

Cemeeli

November 2nd, 2009
11:54 am

btw – …i’ve heard couple of KEM tracks song at weddings myself…yeah, his songs are great for that venue.

Cemeeli

November 2nd, 2009
11:57 am

…almost lunch time…whew

@ Mo – Give lil man somma that liver oil or castor…caint have the lil men under the weather.

Professor

November 2nd, 2009
11:58 am

Worshipping together is very important to me, however the Bible and the Word is dear to me. So it is difficult for me to share this with a SO unless we are on the same page…I don’t want foreplay making me late for church….that makes me feels like I am playing with God…especially if we are both sitting there together. My conscious is a mess!

Lady J

November 2nd, 2009
11:58 am

I married in 04 CeeCee then stumbled along the blog when the madness started during the sepration/divorce….lol glad that is long behind me….just moving forward and listening to great music over that time has helped me through seriously….Kem sings about real life situations…He always has a deep message only a few understands….most of my friends don’t feel him like I do but I truly connect….Yep this past Aug I turned the big #) and it is different I must say….I call it doing grown woman things…lol:)

SexyCool - Cloud status - 7.13

November 2nd, 2009
11:58 am

My bff wants to throw a whole party for NYE – on an old promote and pre-selling tickets type deal. I’m feeling more of an intimate three to five couples inside kinda event.

What to do? Support my bff? Go with my gut?
I’m liking my original thought much better.

Bibay

November 2nd, 2009
11:58 am

Ledisi, Mint Condition and Eric Benet make you continue to appreciate what “real” music is. I was surprised to see a lot of empty seats at the Fox- but I know folks are being careful where they spend their money.

Lady J

November 2nd, 2009
11:59 am

meant 30…lol

SexyCool - Cloud status - 7.13

November 2nd, 2009
12:00 pm

Prof – “My conscious is a mess!”
Mine should be. LOL!

SexyCool - Cloud status - 7.13

November 2nd, 2009
12:02 pm

Bibay – I did notice a lot of empty seats up in the balcony section. That must be why Stokely was on damn near er’ radio station in Atlanta on Friday.

Cemeeli

November 2nd, 2009
12:05 pm

I call it doing grown woman things!

…as i’m listening to USHER on my playlist..

LadyJ I got chu…might i add – KEM does have chemistry in his tracks…yea..that’s what you connect with.

czBrat

November 2nd, 2009
12:07 pm

Good Noon All!

visiting each others place or worship is more personal to me than meeting each others family.

SexyCool – glad to hear the concert was a hit!

Mo (aka Moeisha)

November 2nd, 2009
12:08 pm

Cemeeli – my mother-in-law gives him Cod Liver Oil so Im doing the same! I’ve never taken the stuff but hey it works for him! :smile:

Professor – I wish that concert was NYE also but oh well. I havent heard of much going on for NYE either and thats a bummer.

Lady J

November 2nd, 2009
12:09 pm

LOL You are right honey!!!! LOL

Professor

November 2nd, 2009
12:11 pm

SC my conscious has always been like that…I think it comes from my early years I was grounded in my faith and prayed for a lot of things and I received them. So, I feel bad about how He continues to bless me and I am so unworthy…it’s me so skip over my blogs on that topic.

As for NYE if I don’t do the concerts or a sporting events, I like doing the small event with a few couples…in the past when I have done this we did seafood…lobster and crab legs and fried shrimp plus the fixings…played cards…music etc., and a few times we did a breakfast food with champagne and made mimosas.

Bibay

November 2nd, 2009
12:12 pm

SC- I sat down below in the Orchestra section in the center just in front of the sound board. During one of the intermissions was when I saw all of the empty seats.
Eric Benet tickled me with the stories before each song. And Ledisi, she is just on fire.

Cemeeli

November 2nd, 2009
12:12 pm

@ LadyJ – You “freed yourself”…Trust, we all need to have that epiphany at some point in our life…I thank GOD daily that i had mine waaaay young.Now…life is much clearer.

Professor

November 2nd, 2009
12:15 pm

Mo’ it looks like I need to plan on being out of the Atlanta area unless I decide to do a bowl game. I am going to look online and see where something good is happening at and maybe go to Miami, Orlando or Vegas or something. Otherwise I will see Kem on the 30th and chill out on the 31st

THE INFAMOUS DK

November 2nd, 2009
12:16 pm

Lady J – How long were you married… and when did you get divorced

SexyCool - Cloud status - 7.13

November 2nd, 2009
12:18 pm

Prof – No, really. I am >>here<< with you on that. Being raised so strictly in the church and all. (Who would know, right?) Anteeways, I struggle sometimes with feeling worthy. None of us really are. We are worthy simply because we are His own. Nothing more, nothing less. I just have to keep reminding myself that it is because of His grace and mercy and not my worthiness.
But I didn’t REALLY have to say all of that. You know it already. lol

Cemeeli

November 2nd, 2009
12:18 pm

Cod Liver oil is so rank!

@ Mo – Orange Juice and a mint helps with the fish taste.

Yea, mamma gave it to me as a kid as well.

Dream_n

November 2nd, 2009
12:20 pm

Afternoon folks… :)

Meetings/Training…. are a bore sometimes..

Professor… thanx for asking.. the lil one did not go trick or treating.. it was sooo cold here!! but she went to a Halloween party at my aunt’s where she was traumatized b/c my uncle put on a warewolf mask! She was holding on to me for dear life!!! lol.. it was so funny..

As for the topic..ummm I have nothing today…

THE INFAMOUS DK

November 2nd, 2009
12:20 pm

Ya’ll gonna kill me but I dont like KEMs voice.. All that over singing and howling irks me.. Sorry..

SexyCool - Cloud status - 7.13

November 2nd, 2009
12:20 pm

Bibay – OMG, the story about the high school talent show and the chick following him around the school the next day was hilarious.

And the way he had the fellows singing “I wanna be loved.” MND was singing so loud and so off key. It was too funny. I heart that dude.

SexyCool - Cloud status - 7.13

November 2nd, 2009
12:23 pm

Oh and Ledisi with that Tina Turner/James Brown/Fantasia bo-bo dance she was doing was hot.

I practiced it for MND while I was making Sunday dinner yesterday, stepped in a spot of water I had dropped on the floor and damn near slid under the pantry door trying to keep from falling.

SexyCool - Cloud status - 7.13

November 2nd, 2009
12:23 pm

Oh and Ledisi with that Tina Turner/James Brown/Fantasia bo-bo dance she was doing was hot.

I practiced it for MND while I was making Sunday dinner yesterday, stepped in a spot of water I had dropped on the floor and damn near slid under the pantry door trying to keep from falling.

Mo (aka Moeisha)

November 2nd, 2009
12:23 pm

Lady J – girl you had me laughing with this one..”I married in 04 CeeCee then stumbled along the blog when the madness started during the separation/divorce”! I did the same thing chica!

Professor – I feel you on that.

Cemeeli – yeah I at least provide a starburst or something! LOL

SexyCool - Cloud status - 7.13

November 2nd, 2009
12:23 pm

Double posts? I NEVER do that. LOL….

Cemeeli

November 2nd, 2009
12:24 pm

It’s all good Infamous.

funny though

Lady J

November 2nd, 2009
12:24 pm

@THE INFAMOUS DK my friends feel the same way….your not alone but it works for me!!!! LOLOLOL

Cemeeli

November 2nd, 2009
12:32 pm

“visiting each others place or worship is more personal to me than meeting each others family.”

czBrat How so? If you visit his/her church you might not get a real good view of where they came from…family can sometimes fool around and give you more than you need to know. The Usher board and Pastor only know as much as been shared.

i guess it can go either way…

SexyCool - Cloud status - 7.13

November 2nd, 2009
12:37 pm

Cemeeli – I agree with the “more personal” sentiment of what czB is talking about.

My relationship with God is very personal. And allowing somebody into my worship time is important to me because I want to know whether or not, he will worship in like ways, whether he will be free to express himself in praise or whether he could possibly make me feel uncomfortable in expressing mine.

When I am before Him, I am naked and vulnerable. And I really want to know if I can share that vulnerability with him and whether he trusts me enough to let his guard down in the same way.

czBrat

November 2nd, 2009
12:38 pm

Cemeeli what i mean is, i’ve met the families of guys i’ve dated (and they’ve met mine) … not a huge deal. but when you reach the point of attending church(s) together that is a very personal step in the relationship for me. that says so much more, IMO.

Angie aka Beautiful

November 2nd, 2009
12:43 pm

hi ladies! Lady J, Ceemee, SexyC…

long distance lover, how y’all feel bout that? i’m torn.

bbl.

Melo

November 2nd, 2009
12:44 pm

I think I need to go to church some time soon,jus so i see whats gon on over there and see some of my friends.Havent been inside of church in close to nine months.
Some of the pple that go to “my” church tho are dwright scandalous.
Wonder why they even bother?

Melo

November 2nd, 2009
12:45 pm

long distance lover, how y’all feel bout that?

I think its the best for u and ur type.

U come across as an easy lay!

SexyCool - Cloud status - 7.13

November 2nd, 2009
12:45 pm

Ange – LD, I’d pass. But that’s just me.

Angie aka Beautiful

November 2nd, 2009
12:48 pm

that rap song *gucci bandanna* is hot! giggle.

Cemeeli

November 2nd, 2009
12:49 pm

just a light thought with that “personal note” him getting close and fellowshipping with my family…cause they would be more able to tell him if i’m faithful to love, or how indignant or stressed i might get in times of trouble verses my church fam.

czBrat – Yes maam, i can understand your attending one another’s church, and then sharing that personal relationship with God with your SO speaks volumes as well.

Melo

November 2nd, 2009
12:51 pm

how did ur foootball teams do this weekend??

Mine lost,again….

Looking frward to tonite’s funreal in Atlanta. :lol:

Melo

November 2nd, 2009
12:52 pm

Cemeeli

November 2nd, 2009
12:52 pm

@ Beautiful – If you really like him it might work.

Angie aka Beautiful

November 2nd, 2009
12:54 pm

*U come across as an easy lay!*

that wasn’t nice. and you know that’s not true. :(

@SexyC
yea, i think imma pass.

Ms. Main

November 2nd, 2009
12:56 pm

Cemeeli – @ Main – You…rock that.

I’ll try my bestest!

Angie aka Beautiful

November 2nd, 2009
12:56 pm

@Ceemee
i do like him a lot. it hurts that i can’t touch him though. oh well. what is a gal to do?

Angie aka Beautiful

November 2nd, 2009
12:57 pm

and being friends isn’t an option. or is it?

Angie aka Beautiful

November 2nd, 2009
12:58 pm

Kym- No Scrubs

November 2nd, 2009
12:58 pm

Good Afternoon All,

I think what you posted Wisey pretty much sums it up for me. Treat me right and I will Treat you right. The End.

czBrat

November 2nd, 2009
12:59 pm

If you really like him it might work.

Cemeeli, stop it. just stop it! :lol:

Cemeeli

November 2nd, 2009
1:04 pm

@ SCool – Yes… family is very important to me…my folks know if i “bring him home” there is prominent role. They also know if i leave my old man in their care, whatever they say or do is cool…

But him attending church with me is special but not AS important.

Kym- No Scrubs

November 2nd, 2009
1:10 pm

Rant for today…

I understand corps are understaffed..I understand you had to bring on younger, inexperienced staff but could you for the sake of all that is right, train these jokers on some from of customer service. Saying I don’t know and passing the call off…ughhh!! Someone just wants to get cussed out today.

SlimOne

November 2nd, 2009
1:15 pm

(In walks Slim with cowboy boots, a neck time, and a jock strap on awaiting the 2-fanga backdoor test)

Hiya folks….long time no blog! Whew it shole iz drafty in here. :-D I miss you guys!

Professor

November 2nd, 2009
1:23 pm

@Dream I am glad the little one had a good time. Why you you Ms. Chi-town could not handle this little pixie weather we had…LOL?

@Melo…As for the funeral tonight it is going to be a jazz style funeral because we are going to bury the saints. I look forward to the falcons messing up that record. I am going to watch the game tonight, but I really want to stay home and chill so that when the game goes off I can turn off the lights

Dan -fighting for (inner) peace

November 2nd, 2009
1:29 pm

Yooooooo!!!!

SlimOne!!!

If it’s drafty, put ya clothes back on gal!

How you doing?

Leggs

November 2nd, 2009
1:29 pm

How did the time jump from 1:23 to 2:16??

Melo

November 2nd, 2009
1:32 pm

How did the time jump from 1:23 to 2:16??

Leggs,if it did,u must be in Mras then.

Mine jumped the other way,2.16 to 1.23 in an instant.
Or,ooohhhhh, are u saying some about some comma inducing, cob web cleaning event this past weekend?
Share than!
:lol: :lol:

Melo

November 2nd, 2009
1:33 pm

dang Leggs,i meant Mars!

Melo

November 2nd, 2009
1:34 pm

Proff?? ull just be watching by urself??

Melo

November 2nd, 2009
1:36 pm

Oh i see what SexxyCool is doing with the time.

Girl u must have had a toe curler this weekend and u aint untangled yet….thats why the time is the way it is..u on some zone for sho. :lol:

Melo

November 2nd, 2009
1:39 pm

SlimOne..cowboy boots,thong and neck tie and some feathers.

Slim?? u work nights now, I suppose??

where??????

Leggs

November 2nd, 2009
1:48 pm

WOW, Melo. Manipulate 123 and 216 to your liking and play Cash 3.

The clock is going back in time and ahead to the future. Present time is stuck somewhere.

Leggs

November 2nd, 2009
1:49 pm

Don’t know about you guys, but my posts are appearing just above Cemeeli’s post (stamped 2:16).

THE INFAMOUS DK

November 2nd, 2009
1:50 pm

Angie – ya’ll can be together long distance but just know you gonna be sharing him with someone..

Unless he can fly for free and come see you but then even that gets old going thru the airport every weekend.. It almost becomes a job.. I know..

Melo

November 2nd, 2009
1:59 pm

Leggs, we gota be careful with this technology.

One day,u might be at home,on a day off, in ur bedroom,nekked and playing poses in front of the mirror.
Then u decide to post a quick thoght on the MIA blog,ur lap is on the couch in the bedromm with u and u go ahead and post sme.Unbeknown to u,the web cam was recording ur in-front of the mirror poses and after u done,BAM,ur nekked pic is posted on MIA blog,just below ur post and it wont go away,the way Scool’s 2.16 came about.

UN-EXPLAINABLE(if thats a wrd??)

That will be the day! :lol:

SlimOne

November 2nd, 2009
2:01 pm

Dan I’ve seemed to have misplaced my fishnet catsuit but I guess this hand towel will do for now. I’m good & just taking it one day at a time.

Melo – sorry to disappoint. Not working nights. Mon-Fri 830-5pm, weekends off. I work at an auction.

Leggs

November 2nd, 2009
2:03 pm

@Melo ~ Too funny, first off, no couch in my bedroom. Second off, no web cam to get me into any trouble.

Dan -fighting for (inner) peace

November 2nd, 2009
2:08 pm

@Slim

Good isht!

Cemeeli

November 2nd, 2009
2:16 pm

@ czBrat – :lol:

I need to finsh my Crimmus shoppin…we got more babies in the family.

SexyCool - Cloud status - 7.13

November 2nd, 2009
2:16 pm

I think for me, they are about equal.

Ange – While long distance deals are not for me, my advice to you would be to feel the situation out. See where this dude really is with it and know whether or not you can get what you want out of the situation.

Is this something he suggested? If it is a mutally agreed upon situation, with understandings and perameters (sp?) and deal breakers outlined and all that, don’t nothing beat a failure like a try. (This goes for friendship as well.)

Cemeeli

November 2nd, 2009
2:17 pm

stuck…stuck…stuck in the middle…

Cemeeli

November 2nd, 2009
2:19 pm

Ms. Leggs. Since it’s after 2:16 try now.

Hey SlimOne.

Melo

November 2nd, 2009
2:21 pm

Angie,in my opinion and at this stage in ur lyfe,the most important thing is to be under a man’s belly.,with a strong arm bringing u closer.

Long distance wont do it for u.
Thats jus a whole lot of cobweb gathering under ur nana and lots of angst for nothing.

SexyCool - Cloud status - 7.13

November 2nd, 2009
2:21 pm

I, too, was stuck, Cemeeli.

I kept getting a WordPress error that said “You are posting too fast. Please slow down.”

I was like – Double-you Tee Eff?

Melo

November 2nd, 2009
2:22 pm

Angie,in my opinion and at this stage in ur lyfe,the most important thing is to be under a man’s belly.,with a strong arm bringing u closer.

Long distance wont do it for u.
Thats jus a whole lot of cobweb gathering under ur nana and lost of angst for nothing.

Cemeeli

November 2nd, 2009
2:24 pm

“I was like – Double-you Tee Eff?”

Aaaaahaahaaaaahahah! Hayo naw!

SexyCool - Cloud status - 7.13

November 2nd, 2009
2:25 pm

LOL – Cemeeli – MND says that all the time. It cracks me UP!!!

i'm swiss

November 2nd, 2009
2:28 pm

LMAO @ Melo… Dude, you have definitely got a way with words. Matter of fact, I’d like to write a memoir in your voice — I’ll cut you in on the royalties… what do you say?

Cemeeli

November 2nd, 2009
2:29 pm

lol…complete with tears…

SexyCool - Cloud status - 7.13

November 2nd, 2009
2:36 pm

Melo gets the Comment of the Day award!

Melo

November 2nd, 2009
2:40 pm

swiss,its okay bro..

I got so much left over corruption from my youth, i think i gotta be a lil more entrepenuaerial with it…..

u think playboy,hustler or the porn industry might have some for my imagination??
better make money with this “talent”,at least more than what i make, what u think??

THE INFAMOUS DK

November 2nd, 2009
2:40 pm

Slim – What Auction because Im a broker..

THE INFAMOUS DK

November 2nd, 2009
2:41 pm

Atlanta is sooooo crazy.. We all prolly know each other because we travel in the same circles..

For Real

November 2nd, 2009
2:46 pm

Slim: Zippppppppppppppppppppp! How much do you think I can get for this!

Cemeeli

November 2nd, 2009
2:47 pm

Cupid Shuffle comes on my playlist and who do i think of? The Token.

What up Swiss?

Beautiful

November 2nd, 2009
2:49 pm

@DK
yea, i thought of that —–> sharing him. idk. this sounds like a bad idea.

and y’all know how needy i am. he already goes a day w/o calling and that shiit drives me kwazy. lol.

and this too shall pass.

Beautiful

November 2nd, 2009
2:51 pm

**Thats jus a whole lot of cobweb gathering under ur nana and lost of angst for nothing.**

i’ve never met a man in my life that wanted my puddy so bad. do you realize you talk about my stuff every week??? lmao. lawd!

Leggs

November 2nd, 2009
2:52 pm

Let’s see where I fall??

Leggs

November 2nd, 2009
2:54 pm

My alignment has been successful!

Beautiful

November 2nd, 2009
2:54 pm

at this moment, i’m hoping and praying we’ll end up really good friends. betta than nothin’.

hey Slim!

i'm swiss

November 2nd, 2009
2:56 pm

“Cupid Shuffle comes on my playlist and who do i think of? The Token.”

Hi, Cee… I’m just living the dream — what’s up with you? Now, why would Cupid Shuffle make you think of me? You trying to say something about my dancing abilities? ;-)

“better make money with this “talent”,at least more than what i make, what u think??”

Melo — I’m all for getting paid for one’s talents. Seriously, one of these days I’m going to write a book w/ a narrator using your blog language as a model — I love it… it’s like A Clockwork Orange, with less violence & more horn-dog…. :lol:

Melo

November 2nd, 2009
2:56 pm

ur puddy so bad??
u ask a qstion, i give u a mature,40 sme answer and now i want ur puddy??

so why u dissing me, if thats the conclusion u reach….??

scratch my back, i scratch and clean ur shaft,thats a win win,watchuthink??…….

Cemeeli

November 2nd, 2009
3:03 pm

Yeah, i know your dance skills are not much farther than the “cupid shuffle” Swiss…i have enough info to go on…:)

How’s the Mrs.?

i'm swiss

November 2nd, 2009
3:07 pm

Yeah, if you saw the wedding pics, you’d have visual evidence, Cee. There’s about 5 shots of everyone on the dance floor, in perfect unison — except me right in front, completely off-step with a look on my face like WTF?!?! :lol: The d@mn photographer even snapped a pic of me knocking over one of the DJ’s light stands… :lol: Uh… yeah… my bad….

Otherwise, the Mrs. & I are both doing quite well, thanks. Closing in on finally having a new house… Everything’s on schedule at the moment to close on my b-day. :-D Fingers crossed…

Cemeeli

November 2nd, 2009
3:11 pm

Swiss

Funny. When is your birthday? Congrats on the new home!

SexyCool - Cloud status - 7.13

November 2nd, 2009
3:17 pm

Swiss – straight comedy. I heart you, dude!

i'm swiss

November 2nd, 2009
3:18 pm

Thanks, Cee… Though, I don’t want to get too excited until it closes — don’t want to jinx it (’cos it would be a sweeeeeeet deal if it goes through). Though, really, the only thing outstanding now is the appraisal, and that shouldn’t be an issue at all (it’s a foreclosure that we’re getting for way less than it’s worth). B-day (& tentative closing date) is Nov. 20.

Melo

November 2nd, 2009
3:20 pm

why wld any rational and avid Falcon fan go to New erlens unless they are addicted to pain,angst and suffering???

u think coz of long history of losing with the thrashers,hawks and falcons,atl team fans are numb to pain of losing???

next time i visit my dentist or in surgery, i wld want that kinda of anaesthetic…… :lol:

Cemeeli

November 2nd, 2009
3:21 pm

Have faith!

And use it!

Leggs

November 2nd, 2009
3:29 pm

@I’m swiss, those type photos are comical, yes, but priceless nonetheless! Keep on trucking with your two left feet. :lol:

Cemeeli

November 2nd, 2009
3:30 pm

@ Melo – That’s a low blow. You don’t think Falcons can pull it off hunh.

Cemeeli

November 2nd, 2009
3:34 pm

Swiss – I’m sure you know to treasure even those not so becoming wedding photos they tell a part of it that you so conveniently forget to mention when folks look at them.

I have some pictures where i’m dancing at a white party and one of your cousins came rollin’ up behind me and when the photographer took that shot it is in a not so good angle. So yea…i know those type you kinda look sideways when you see ‘em again.

THE INFAMOUS DK

November 2nd, 2009
3:35 pm

Melo – Cause we own the saints and thats Fulton County Stadium West.. Thats why we go to New Orleans.. Transplant NO just got good..

Cemeeli

November 2nd, 2009
3:36 pm

lol @ Transplant…

THE INFAMOUS DK

November 2nd, 2009
3:40 pm

Melo

November 2nd, 2009
3:41 pm

CEE:

If they cldnt beat dallas,who have a third rate and erratic QB,why u think they can beat a first rate offense/QB…??

The falcons are over rated coz Mr Arthur Blank is such a nice guy.
Nothing to do with football….

Willie Dynamite

November 2nd, 2009
3:45 pm

Um, the same fate awaits the falcons as was handed to the Dogs over the weekend.

Melo

November 2nd, 2009
3:45 pm

IDK…u in new erlens right now..u too??

cant believe that…unless u went for jazz..

Mo (aka Moeisha)

November 2nd, 2009
3:46 pm

Infamous – a guy on Ryan Cameron’s show just said the same thing about “Fulton County Stadium West”!

GO FALCONS!!

THE INFAMOUS DK

November 2nd, 2009
3:46 pm

Melo – Again because regardless of the record.. They beat us sometimes and we beat them most of the time.. WE OWN THEM and a record cant tell ya.. New Orleans fan geeked cause they know we been killing them since before the Gritz Blitz.

Cemeeli

November 2nd, 2009
3:47 pm

I don’t think they are overrated by far…

I don’t know about the peg on Authur Blank “beef up” either…they pretty much got here on their own…

…buuuuut, I do know i’ll be posted tonight!

Dan -fighting for (inner) peace

November 2nd, 2009
3:47 pm

The Falcons problems may lie with their secondary;

But offensive for offense, I’ll take the Falcons.

52-48 Falcons

Mo (aka Moeisha)

November 2nd, 2009
3:48 pm

Willie D – dayum that was low! The Dogs got the GYOT-DAYUM brakes beat off them down in FLA! I was like :shock:

Cemeeli

November 2nd, 2009
3:49 pm

WillieD – That score was 41-10 or 17, i think…Why so HARD on ‘em?!

Hard bunch here…

Melo

November 2nd, 2009
3:54 pm

IDK..I hear u on the record but this match wont be won on the record tho,but on current form.

This year and maybe for another year or 2,falcons got nothing on new erlens.
how much u want to put down,this maybe my only chance of making sucker money.
My house on it!

Leggs

November 2nd, 2009
3:55 pm

Big wager….you know the rules to betting is “never bet unless you know you’re going to win.”

@Melo ~ your house?

THE INFAMOUS DK

November 2nd, 2009
3:57 pm

Melo – I can tell youre a Transplant because the first thing you learn with the Falcons and the Saints is not to make Sucker Bets.. You will lose every time.. They will lose to a team they are supposed to beat and Cream a team they aint got a chance to win against..

Angie aka Beautiful

November 2nd, 2009
3:57 pm

*i really don’t see why i bother, but…*

@Melo
yea, your comment was ok, but you seem to always throw my stuff in your post. why is that? can we just get past this hump? and move on from you tellin’ folks about my nana every week.

please.

ok, you dislike me. noted!

THE INFAMOUS DK

November 2nd, 2009
3:59 pm

Melo – There is a history of Janky-ness between the Falcons and the Saints..

Melo

November 2nd, 2009
3:59 pm

Leggs:

Queen is winding up in 3 minutes. I put a special order for dinner.

I may have to run her that bubble bath today..kinda feeling cold and special……

Angie u still here??? wanna run sme by u be4 i come to cali in a few……..

THE INFAMOUS DK

November 2nd, 2009
4:00 pm

Angie – Stop letting people chump you off and then asking them to get off you.. F that get em up off you.. I know youre nice but damn that..

Melo

November 2nd, 2009
4:02 pm

but you seem to always throw my stuff in your post. why is that?

coz i like u :wink:

Cemeeli

November 2nd, 2009
4:08 pm

Why even spar with Melo? he’on know, the Saints issa Soccer team from Spain and Beckham is the QB.

Melo

November 2nd, 2009
4:08 pm

They will lose to a team they are supposed to beat and Cream a team they aint got a chance to win against..

I see u a die hard bwa fo sho..but thats all dutch courage there! watchu gon say….

Drew Brees wants a championship and this maybe the year…i dont see him letting up…

does vegas do nfl bets..i got bret,peyton,drew brees and that philly witch to decide on for QB making it to super bwl this year.

Melo

November 2nd, 2009
4:13 pm

ceem, i dont like Beckam..

he aint a soccer star BUT a soccer ramp model…

he been long gon past his expired date…

Cemeeli

November 2nd, 2009
4:17 pm

he aint a soccer star BUT a soccer ramp model”

So is New Orleans Saints…’BUT a “ramp model” to NFC South’.

Melo

November 2nd, 2009
4:20 pm

Ceemeli,ok…

gimme ur mobile #. Tonite,eve time Drew brees scores, i just wanna dial in and sream,TouchDown!!!!!!!!!!

U dont have to answer.

Ms. Main

November 2nd, 2009
4:40 pm

Angie (to Melo) – but you seem to always throw my stuff in your post. why is that?

It’s called baiting….just ignore it

i'm swiss

November 2nd, 2009
4:48 pm

“It’s called baiting….just ignore it”

That’s tough though… Melo is a master baiter;-) :lol: (Sorry, I couldn’t resist):lol:

Melo

November 2nd, 2009
4:51 pm

swiss??…i dont musterbate :lol:

oh,neva mind.. :lol:

Leggs

November 2nd, 2009
4:54 pm

EXCELLENT, I’M SWISS! :lol: :lol: :lol:

Ms. Main

November 2nd, 2009
4:56 pm

I ain’t gon touch that one i’m swiss

Dream_n

November 2nd, 2009
4:57 pm

Hey Leggs/ Ms. Main!

lol… look what you started Ms. Main!!

Leggs

November 2nd, 2009
4:59 pm

Hi, Dream_n

Any play on words is exciting and funny!

Dream_n

November 2nd, 2009
4:59 pm

I forgot what working was :)

Go ahead and leave us with a nice quote this evening Ms. Leggs!!!

GOOD NIGHT ALL!

Angie aka Beautiful

November 2nd, 2009
5:00 pm

@Ms.Main
gotcha!

Angie aka Beautiful

November 2nd, 2009
5:03 pm

@DK
there’s something about me. ppl love to hate/whatever. i’m jus being me.

Leggs

November 2nd, 2009
5:05 pm

Good night.

“Quit blaming each other for things that in the big picture aren’t going to matter three weeks from now! Talk solutions…and then implement them! (Author unknown)

Ciao ~

Angie aka Beautiful

November 2nd, 2009
5:06 pm

is it ok to be friends with a man you like? a man you want to be close to? a man you can possibly love one day?

Leggs

November 2nd, 2009
5:07 pm

I like that ^5

Leggs

November 2nd, 2009
5:07 pm

Not that, 5:05.

Angie aka Beautiful

November 2nd, 2009
5:08 pm

i don’t want to be his friend! (brown sugar)

jus venting…

Leggs

November 2nd, 2009
5:17 pm

Nice night to go out and get some ice cream and do something decadent with it!