Do you ever hear of those urban relationship myths that talk about couples who get together while one of them was already in a relationship? They will be destined for failure because there has to be some retribution for the way they hooked up! I don’t know if that is because of some cosmic force or if it’s simply because the wrong people are getting in relationships.
Do you believe in dating karma? I have to admit, if I am sitting through some horrendous date being tortured by bad attitudes or boring men, I wonder if it’s payback. Did I do something in my dating past that is coming back to haunt me now? Who knows if karma really exists or if it is just our way of trying to make sense of things.
Have you ever made a dating mistake or committed some romantic crime that would result in some bad karma?
Do you think we should ever try to make amends and apologize to the ones we did wrong? Not only to ensure that karma loses our address, but to let the other person know we regretted it?
What about break up karma? Do you think leading someone on, pulling a disappearing act, or the jedi mind tricks comes back around?
Happy Friday!
I will be sharing some information about Halloween weekend parties, feel free to let us know of all the hot spots that you know about too!
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Dream_n
October 30th, 2009
3:02 pm
Maybe I’ll make a trip there to cop a squat and dine in.
lol @ cop a squat..
Cemeeli
October 30th, 2009
3:04 pm
Members Only jacket…i’m laughin’…i’m heaving…i’m done.
SexyCool - The Doors of the church are open.
October 30th, 2009
3:05 pm
czB – Somehow the wool trench nor the navy pea coat is going to jive with the sexy top, tights and knee high come get me boots I plan on wearing. It so not a good budget week for shopping.
(sighs)
Leggs
October 30th, 2009
3:05 pm
Just got 2 of the pics back. I look nothing like Ms. Ross! People lying to your face should be shot!
Ms. Main....popping in for a second
October 30th, 2009
3:08 pm
Cemeeli – Thanks…I’ll have to do the Cumberland location on my day off.
Turned 2 in August. His voice seems to come in clearer I guess as he exercise his voice…after waking up. He’s so funny. He looks at the pictures of his books during service and he never knows how to whisper, so he’s like “WHAT’S THAT?” or “OHHHH” or “THERE’S MY DADDY”…pointing across the church. If his mom says anything to him in a whisper, he ALWAYS responds loudly. Not over the top but enough for everyone to laugh. It’s sooo funny.
Dream_n
October 30th, 2009
3:08 pm
(I can’t stand to see someone dressed really nice and then throw a Members Only jacket on top of it. LOL)
with a pony tail smh….
Ms. Main....popping in for a second
October 30th, 2009
3:09 pm
Anyone every shops via Rue La La?
SexyCool - The Doors of the church are open.
October 30th, 2009
3:09 pm
Leggs – Squint your eyes and tilt your head to the left about 49 degrees.
Ms. Main....popping in for a second
October 30th, 2009
3:10 pm
Dream_n…not the ponytail…lol
Raqi
October 30th, 2009
3:11 pm
SexyCool
http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/3038701?tuid=000006cb-006f-0861-6c61-726765727669&id=9920776&largeImg=0&tname=product
http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/3055553?tuid=000006cb-006f-0861-6c61-726765727669&id=9935943&largeImg=0&tname=product
Tazzee - Ready for the weekend!
October 30th, 2009
3:11 pm
Leggs – I’m sorry but I’m in tears over here!!! You don’t have to send me a pic if you don’t want to.
SCool – Hawt to trot!!! I thought about getting some tights to wear tomorrow but I’ll go with my first mind and wear a skirt.
Cemeeli
October 30th, 2009
3:11 pm
The last name of my coworker is Stutdzenberger…soooo i call him Stud…he said he’d like for all to do that because it’s easier…umm…OR just you first name?, i said…Then he says naw don’t really like it either…which is Steph …well who knew.
Ms. Main....popping in for a second
October 30th, 2009
3:11 pm
Leggs (from SC) “Squint your eyes and tilt your head to the left about 49 degrees”
Now can you see Diana? LOL
THE INFAMOUS DK
October 30th, 2009
3:12 pm
Im going trick or treatin with my Son tomorrow.. He will be Batman and I’ll be joker.. Then tonight Im going to a party where Im doing the Beastie Boys Sabotage cop look, bad wig and mustache to boot..
THE INFAMOUS DK
October 30th, 2009
3:12 pm
with the polyester suit and cop shades..
Raqi
October 30th, 2009
3:13 pm
I look nothing like Ms. Ross! People lying to your face should be shot!
LMBO
czBrat
October 30th, 2009
3:13 pm
people, don’t start on the ponytails! i’ve decided i’m gonna grow up, go find me a Dominicana & get my hair did
THE INFAMOUS DK
October 30th, 2009
3:14 pm
SC just the tights and Fcuk me boots.. Yep Id say that qualifies as a gosh darn over here.. Or a good googly moogly..
Tazzee - Ready for the weekend!
October 30th, 2009
3:14 pm
Dream_n – You not gon’ start on us ponytail wearers today. Ponytails can go very well with a nice outfit. Simple accessories, nice make-up. I’ve pulled it off plenty of times.
THE INFAMOUS DK
October 30th, 2009
3:15 pm
CZB – Yeah!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! All hail the Hair Gods… I just hope they dont want a sacrifice now..
Angie aka Beautiful
October 30th, 2009
3:16 pm
happy halloween beauties!
i believe in Karma. seen it up close and personal. hehehe. i love her.
Cemeeli
October 30th, 2009
3:17 pm
@ Ms. Main – At 2 years old they love “What’s DAT Auntie”…i’m like Girl please! She like to go in my purse and get my lip gloss…well she loves my purse period!…she likes to comb my hair…you know girls are different.
Your nephew is adorable too, i’m sure.
Yeah, they have NO volume..they are just LOUD!
Ms. Main....popping in for a second
October 30th, 2009
3:18 pm
SC just the tights and Fcuk me boots.. Yep Id say that qualifies as a gosh darn over here.. Or a good googly moogly..
Well, I was just gonna comment on the “come get me” boots with only an “oh my” but it seems the aforementioned statement sort of trumped that….nevermind
Cemeeli
October 30th, 2009
3:18 pm
Beastie Boys Sabotage cop look, bad wig and mustache
Hunh!…
i’m heavin
Ms. Main....popping in for a second
October 30th, 2009
3:19 pm
Cemeeli – Yes aren’t they just the sweetest at that age? I have two pics saved in my blackberry where he’s digging through my purse for candy. He’s a greedy little something too.
Ms. Main....popping in for a second
October 30th, 2009
3:20 pm
Naaah, we won’t start on the ponytails today…lol Anything can be rocked if done right
Dream_n
October 30th, 2009
3:27 pm
Tazzee
lol.. no not today..
THE INFAMOUS DK
October 30th, 2009
3:28 pm
Cee – Its gonna be funny as heII.. Im telling you cause the wig and mustache are so obvious its like a bad disguise.. Oh and the Polyester suit.. Hilarious.. Its a white dudes wig too.. That ish is gonna trip people out..
Cemeeli
October 30th, 2009
3:29 pm
@ Ms. Main – My neice will be at my house tonight..i’m takin her and my son to the Church for their festival …i’m removing my water fountain cuase she’d put her cup, hand, foot…all that in that thing…then she takes all the rocks out and line them up to play with ‘em…
My son never did all that…
Cemeeli
October 30th, 2009
3:31 pm
@ Infamous – I’m already knowin’ bruh…i already know…
How about my coworker said he and his girl are going as sushi…i’m still stuck on that one…it might be an inside joke i don’t get.
Tazzee - Ready for the weekend!
October 30th, 2009
3:31 pm
Raqi – I have that trench in royal blue. Love that coat, I’ve only worn it once though.
Dream_n
October 30th, 2009
3:33 pm
Cee
Talk about leaving your beauty items out while you’re getting dressed…
I come back and she has blush, lip gloss,eye liner, and mascara everywhere… saying “Look Mommy I look like you”… then I put her up to the mirror and point to her face.. Does that look like me???? and we crack up!!…
I can’t wait to pick her up today.. That girl was too excited about being cinderella today!!
SexyCool - The Doors of the church are open.
October 30th, 2009
3:35 pm
Yep, Raqi – That is EXACTLY what I need.
SexyCool - The Doors of the church are open.
October 30th, 2009
3:35 pm
In red or black.
Cemeeli
October 30th, 2009
3:36 pm
this is not cute…but it was funny…now remember she’s 2 years old.
I tucked my neice in bed one night she was over and told her to go “night-night”…she just stood staring at me…and i was like “Poo- go to sleep”…she looks and don’t move or say a thing, i just turned the light off and turned the hall light on so she can see and fall asleep….so i’m walking down the hall she yells…”Auntie – “I boo-boo…I stink..i cain’t sleep!”…her saying it with her raspy voice AND it’s was holy quiet in there…i almost fell out!
Leggs
October 30th, 2009
3:36 pm
I’ll send, just hope other pics are little more flattering. I was told I should have put a part in the wig.
Yeah, I’m squinting…my eyes now hurt.
Cemeeli
October 30th, 2009
3:37 pm
@ Dream_n – That’s too cute..My sister in law wont tell me what my neice will be…they are gooing to surprise me.
We’ll see.
Raqi
October 30th, 2009
3:40 pm
“I boo-boo…I stink..i cain’t sleep!”
Raqi lying on the floor sobbing looking into her future
Raqi
October 30th, 2009
3:41 pm
SexyCool and Tazzee, yeah I like both of those. May need to take a trip Nords tomorrow.
Cemeeli
October 30th, 2009
3:43 pm
Raqi – Yea it’s coming…You know i wanted to call and wake my brother up, and his wife up…i wanted to wake my son up..i even wanted to call my SO.
boo-boo?!~?! Where is that pamplet again?
Ms. Main....popping in for a second
October 30th, 2009
3:51 pm
i’m removing my water fountain cuase she’d put her cup, hand, foot…all that in that thing…then she takes all the rocks out and line them up to play with ‘em…
Cemeeli – makes me ALMOST want to have another one….even if they’re naughty sometimes…sigh
Dream_n
October 30th, 2009
3:51 pm
boo-boo?!~?! Where is that pamplet again?
lol… ur crazy
Melo
October 30th, 2009
3:57 pm
Is Halloween a celebration of Michael Jackson??
Ms. Main....popping in for a second
October 30th, 2009
4:01 pm
Cemeeli – I’m sure your niece will pleasantly surprise you..:)
Dream_n
October 30th, 2009
4:02 pm
Melo
Michael Jackson is off limits…
SexyCool - The doors of the church are open.
October 30th, 2009
4:02 pm
I do believe that I have put in enough time on the plantation this week.
Enjoy your weekend. Kiss the baby. Don’t get arrested.
My mind is in Mint Condition.
Dueces!
Kym- Early Voting Ends Today!!!
October 30th, 2009
4:04 pm
Boo-Boo and stinks<<<<Reason 900 not to have another kid.
Ms. Main....popping in for a second
October 30th, 2009
4:08 pm
Boo-Boo and stinks<<<<Reason 900 not to have another kid.
A jolt back to reality….lol
Melo
October 30th, 2009
4:16 pm
Michael Jackson is off limits…
how about James Brown??
I wld think that makes more sense since he was from Augusta/savannah..many ghosts and goblins with bloody moufs walking the streets at nite over there, i hear??
what u say Dream_n?
Ms. Main....popping in for a second
October 30th, 2009
4:16 pm
Well my daughter called and said she didn’t fair so well in math on her report card. The conduct being good, she gets a pass. We’re gonna have to kick it up a gear and get her going. I revoked her allowance the first week of school but haven’t had any problems so I think I’ll encourage just a bit and surprise with reinstating. Ahhh, children and good behavior. I can deal with academic issues. As long as we’re building character, I’m good.