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Horrors of Dating: Karma

Do you ever hear of those urban relationship myths that talk about couples who get together while one of them was already in a relationship? They will be destined for failure because there has to be some retribution for the way they hooked up!  I don’t know if that is because of some cosmic force or if it’s simply because the wrong people are getting in relationships.

Do you believe in dating karma? I have to admit, if I am sitting through some horrendous date being tortured by bad attitudes or boring men, I wonder if it’s payback. Did I do something in my dating past that is coming back to haunt me now? Who knows if karma really exists or if it is just our way of trying to make sense of things.

Have you ever made a dating mistake or committed some romantic crime that would result in some bad karma?

Do you think we should ever try to make amends and apologize to the ones we did wrong? Not only to ensure that karma loses our address, but to let the other person know we regretted it?

What about break up karma? Do you think leading someone on, pulling a disappearing act, or the jedi mind tricks comes back around?

Happy Friday!

I will be sharing some information about Halloween weekend parties, feel free to let us know of all the hot spots that you know about too!


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Leggs

October 30th, 2009
10:57 am

Oh yeah…..love the phrase “color of burnt butter.”

Tazzee - Ready for the weekend!

October 30th, 2009
10:58 am

Upgrade is confirmed – first class to New Orleans!!

czBrat

October 30th, 2009
10:58 am

I plan to place a big bucket of candy on my stoop. Don’t care if the first kid takes all the candy, just as long as they leave my bucket.

true confession …. couple years ago when i lived in an apartment complex i forgot it was halloween (since we never celebrated). halfway up to my floor i saw one of those buckets outside someone’s door that said “please take just one”. i kindly took that bucket home with me. then i was ready for the little ghouls & goblins :(

Ms. Main....popping in for a second

October 30th, 2009
10:58 am

We have candy everywhere but I’m good. I’m more disciplined than I used to be. I’d be on candy bar number 6 or 7 by now. No candy at all. 1 fried egg, english muffin, coffee and a few raisins….yeah. I’m boycotting candy this year.

THE INFAMOUS DK

October 30th, 2009
10:58 am

Wise – I see why your dating is down.. You hang out in Midtown too much.. With all the happiness going on down there youre practically in a sausage factory and you dont eat pork..

Raqi

October 30th, 2009
10:59 am

Tazzee I’ll be home tomorrow but after 9 years of living in my neighborhood the kids in the area pretty much know we don’t do Halloween. I may get one stray every year.

Leggs

October 30th, 2009
10:59 am

New Yorkers say “stoop”. I haven’t heard that in a long time. Let’s go sit on the stoop!

Cemeeli

October 30th, 2009
10:59 am

@ Tazzee – You and bucket-o-candy…so nice and convenient. I remember getting big ole fat pickles from the candy lady and penny candy…cuase in out neighborhod we’d start at the CANDY LADY house fo’ sho’.

:)

For Real

October 30th, 2009
11:00 am

For Real now slapping the ish out of Sexy Cool for copyrighting purposes

SexyCool - The Doors of the church are open.

October 30th, 2009
11:01 am

Kid trick or treating in Raqi’s neighborhood: “That’s not a good house. They NEVER give out any candy. Let’s go down to the Johnson’s. They give out the good stuff!”

Cemeeli

October 30th, 2009
11:01 am

Go head to N’Awlins…bring me back a crawfish…just one…

Dream_n – I believe i’ll have one tootsie roll, i love ‘em…and i’ll eat 3 wingettes…some fruit and maybe a cookie.

I brought a strawberry pie from the Publix.

Ms. Main....popping in for a second

October 30th, 2009
11:02 am

I can’t recall the last time kids knocked for candy. Maybe the first couple of years but now that I think about it….nothing in the last few years.

SexyCool - The Doors of the church are open.

October 30th, 2009
11:03 am

Hay, For Real – I stay slapped, huh?

I am humbly grateful for what leaks from my mind and falls from my fingertips. This stuff comes way to easy. I almost do it without thinking. I just feel it and it’s there.

Dream_n

October 30th, 2009
11:03 am

Leggs

I have tights on under the costume… Fish Nets are for tomorrow night!!!

From the past

October 30th, 2009
11:05 am

@WISE-I use to read the blog back in the day. Do u ever hear from MIA, does she has a blog in NY if she’s still there. Those were the good blogging days.

Sassy Me...juicy fruit...there can be only one :-)

October 30th, 2009
11:05 am

Aye, WHY in the Sam nation ya’ll didn’t tell me what “Becky” meant…i been lost on that one…

Cameeli baby girl the lyrics to the song says it all but I guess if you haven’t heard it you might not know….knowing is half the battle….G I Joooooooeeeee

So do you Sassy Me take Han Solo to be your lawfully unwedded boyfriend until death do you part

Oohh yes I dooo :)

THE INFAMOUS DK

October 30th, 2009
11:07 am

Sassy – I got the millenium falcon double parked outside.. lets do this..

Ms. Main....popping in for a second

October 30th, 2009
11:08 am

Leggs – Are you wearing big hair?

Melo

October 30th, 2009
11:09 am

Upgrade is confirmed – first class to New Orleans!!

yeah, yeah, Bring us back the Falcons 4-2

Nice drubbing in advance Tazzee!!
:lol: :lol:

Tazzee - Ready for the weekend!

October 30th, 2009
11:10 am

SCool – you are getting me right for seeing my man this evening. He’ll thank you tomorrow…

czBrat – shame on you!!! :lol: One Halloween I bought a bunch of candy, but as I thought about all those kids I started to twitch. So I took the candy to my neighbor’s house and headed to the movies.

Sassy Me...juicy fruit...there can be only one :-)

October 30th, 2009
11:10 am

With all the happiness going on down there youre practically in a sausage factory and you dont eat pork..

Yeah that is a quite “happy” part of town for real.

I just looked out my window and saw that it’s raining…….CLAP CLAP!! :)

Cemeeli

October 30th, 2009
11:11 am

Sassy – I’m not a real listener to that kind of song lyrics until i hear the song more than once…So “Becky” had me :shock:

Tazzee - Ready for the weekend!

October 30th, 2009
11:11 am

Leggs – send me a picture of your Diana Ross look…pretty please.

czBrat

October 30th, 2009
11:11 am

i made arroz con pollo for our food day here … i can smell them digging in already.

right, Raqi, we’ve never done halloween either. no matter how dark i leave the house and yard those kids stumble their way to the door looking for treats.

Raqi

October 30th, 2009
11:11 am

SexyCool my kids didn’t have too many friends the first few years we lived in our neighborhood. Their mom is the uncandy lady.

Sassy Me...juicy fruit...there can be only one :-)

October 30th, 2009
11:12 am

I got the millenium falcon double parked outside.. lets do this..

Now that’s what I’m talking ’bout….lemme get my purse….

Kym- Early Voting Ends Today!!!

October 30th, 2009
11:13 am

We do the trick or treat thang at my house and it is big in my neighborhood. One street goes all out with decorations and coffins…fun times. I laugh at the idea of trick or treating because Bill Cosby in Fatherhood(i think that is the video) called it begging. He said parents dress their kids up in funny costumes and send them out into the streets to beg for candy..LOL!! My son is not one for candy but he enjoys the dress up and begging part.

Sassy Me...juicy fruit...there can be only one :-)

October 30th, 2009
11:15 am

I’m not a real listener to that kind of song lyrics until i hear the song more than once…So “Becky” had me

Cameeli I only hear it in the evening when I listen to 107.9 but even then when it comes on I always think that’s one of the most asinine songs I’ve heard.

Dream_n

October 30th, 2009
11:15 am

czBrat

Now you’re talking… go ahead and Fed Ex a pot of that to the Chi :)

Raqi

October 30th, 2009
11:16 am

But you know czBrat I always buy candy because I can get it on sale at the time. I just don’t buy for the beggers, it’s for the house.

Cemeeli

October 30th, 2009
11:16 am

i’m using my Oprah coupon today and buying all 500 of my nieces and nephews that are 8 & under some’n…

SexyCool - The Doors of the church are open.

October 30th, 2009
11:17 am

The bass line on “That Becky” gets me er’time. I could totally listen to it without lyrics.

Leggs

October 30th, 2009
11:18 am

We’re having lunch w/all the Board members and individual pictures will be taken then. As soon as I get it, I’ll send to you, Tazzee.

@Ms. Main ~ I’m wearing a wig in the style Ms. Ross wore before the big hair, an asymentrical bob like style. It’s looks really nice. (I forgot the dang eyelashes)!

@czB ~ I love, love, love arroz con pollo! I WANT SOME!

SexyCool - The Doors of the church are open.

October 30th, 2009
11:19 am

Leggs – Put me on the distribution list for the picture of the lady that sings the blues.

Thx…

Cemeeli

October 30th, 2009
11:20 am

@ Sassy i was on the VeeVee103 one day…and all i wanted to do was call in…kid do listen to that station faithfully…onto Sirius though…

Dream_n

October 30th, 2009
11:20 am

That Becky song is officially boycotted…

SexyCool - The Doors of the church are open.

October 30th, 2009
11:21 am

AND I ALMOST FORGOT!!!!

The teachers fighting in Clayton County are named Chaka and Ebony.

Any questions?

czBrat

October 30th, 2009
11:22 am

you my gurl Dream_n!! just luv it when folks have a taste for my native dishes :)

and Leggs over there talking bout ’stoops’. yeah! it’s Back Home Friday :lol:

Kym- Early Voting Ends Today!!!

October 30th, 2009
11:23 am

@Sexy Stop..hold up!!! You mean to tell me…well I… Okay reason number 30 not to buy a home in Clayton Co.

czBrat

October 30th, 2009
11:23 am

Any questions? no. and no comment either.

THE INFAMOUS DK

October 30th, 2009
11:23 am

Kym- Early Voting Ends Today!!!

October 30th, 2009
11:26 am

@Cee you have Sirrus in your car? I had a rental for work last week with satellite radio..I got to hear stuff on NPR Talk, and (this is the part that makes me mist up..) I got to listen to the Steeler game on my drive. Oh praise white Jesus!!!(said in my best Uncle Ruckus voice) it was awesome.

I am thinking satellite radio is going on the bucket list of things I want but don’t have to have right now.

Cemeeli

October 30th, 2009
11:26 am

Yolanda, Marcus D, and Larry are real good in the moring though…as far as morning ride…

For Real

October 30th, 2009
11:27 am

Hey, hey, hey now, what’s wrong with the Becky song? Yall chicks did not seem to mind “My neck, my byck,….”

Dream send me a pic of you in your costume. I just bought brand new 93oz bottle of vanilla scent lotion and a ca-ro-mel candy apple scented candle.

“The teachers fighting in Clayton County are named Chaka and Ebony.

Any questions?” – Are they mexicans?

Cemeeli

October 30th, 2009
11:27 am

Comedy Radio is a BLAST! Plum fools!!!

SexyCool - The Doors of the church are open.

October 30th, 2009
11:32 am

For Real – Same thang with the Neck/Back song. Digging the track. Hating the lyrics. Especially on the uncut version.

THE INFAMOUS DK

October 30th, 2009
11:34 am

Man you get all the comedy on here everyday..

For Real – Are they Mexican?? Man Im sitting here literally crying I was laughing so hard.. I just was like that was stooopid.. Chaka and Ebony = Mexicans..

Cemeeli

October 30th, 2009
11:34 am

@ Steelers Nation Chic Snap out of it! You tearin up and all…

THE INFAMOUS DK

October 30th, 2009
11:35 am

If I rolled up on two mexicans and their name was Chaka and Ebony.. Man I would have a heart attack..

abc

October 30th, 2009
11:36 am

That Clayton story… dude hits as many as he can, lies to all of them, and the chicks scratch each other’s eyes out. WTF. Par, though.