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We took it there, now what?

It doesn’t matter what kind of modern day dating mantra single people chant, sex changes a situation.  Whether you admit it or not, something is happening in the aftermath of an encounter.

It can get frustrating because we don’t always understand the “whys’ and the “whats” that are involved after you are intimate with someone. What do you think changes after sex has been introduced in a dating relationship?

I would say that the primary reason things change for women is the emotional value we assign to it.  In a lot of cases, it appears to  not match the guy’s level of emotion, which in turn brings on a different set of reaction and behavior.

What happens after you seal the deal? Do you act differently? Do you have a discussion about it? If it is casual only, do you make that clear at that point or before you even take it there?

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For Real

October 21st, 2009
4:52 pm

Grad: I never said you were a Captain. I just pointed out a timeless battle among men.

Dream: “false pretenses” – Yeah but when are women going to stop being fooled? Speaking of which zippppppp peeka boo!

“I honestly believe I would be a stalker after that. Shoot I act like that after I kiss a guy and I have only done that four times in my life. So I can only imagine after sex.” – Note to self!!

“Needless to say, if I had to be anywhere near someone like you, I would rather shoot myself with my own 12-gage shotgun!!” – For Real now standing beside Ripple. Now there are two less people in the line at Walmart.

KP: You got that last post from Al Greene’s Love and Happiness song didn’t you?

Leggs

October 21st, 2009
4:52 pm

Ok, you’re being funny, Date!

Dream_n

October 21st, 2009
4:53 pm

Professor

You are a nut!!! lmao!!!

Dream_n

October 21st, 2009
4:57 pm

For Real:

Let’s just agree to disagree on this one!
You had me dying today… good comic relief from a stressful work week so far…. Friday I can see you :)

Leggs

October 21st, 2009
4:57 pm

Good night everyone!

By being more considerate and a little less demanding, this dark old world would very soon eclipse the “Evening Star”, if everybody Brightened Up The Corner Where They Are! (Helen Steiner Rice).

Everyone’s corner can be brighter if folk just stop using folk. As was stated earlier this morning, do what works best for you without hurting others! If you can’t get the honey pot w/out hurting her, then move on.

Chardonnay

October 21st, 2009
4:58 pm

Wanted to wish everyone a great evening. I have the flu (not Swine flu yet–I hope not!!) but I enjoyed reading some of the posts although I think Ms. Main and Rell were the only ones who responded to my prostiution post/discussion!! I know, it’s such a controversial and taboo topic, I just like to hear different opinions on it!!

Have a great rest of the week everyone!

Ms. Main

October 21st, 2009
5:00 pm

Yes it would take a lot for me to handle to give away sex so I am sticking with giving it away in marriage. I couldn’t handle it any other way.

IWLDLIKE2DATE….you’re on the right track….many would say don’t listen to me but treat your body like the temple it is. I have a SO but witout being in a relationship, heck no, no random azz here. No “testing”…just the way I’m wired.