A reader emailed because she wants help getting out of the doghouse with her boyfriend. This past weekend, he heard her on the phone discussing their relationship with a close friend. He was particularly upset because she was talking about their bedroom activities as well.
His point was that you don’t give explicit details about what we do in private. He doesn’t understand her need to talk about it, especially if there are no problems. Now he doesn’t think she is trustworthy and he thinks she’s immature. She is in her early 20s, so it’s probably a hard lesson to learn but at least she learned her lesson.
Would it bother you if someone you were dating constantly talked about your relationship with other people? How would you handle it?
Guys, have you ever dated someone who would discuss your sex life with other people? Did it bother you? If so, why?
Ladies, do you think that it’s good practice to talk about your man’s skills to other women? Why do so many women do that? Would it bother you if your man or husband shared details about your sex life with his friends?