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Unpredictable

I had a date Sunday night with an interesting fellow, I’ll call him Vince.  We met through some mutual friends a few weeks ago.  The evening went pretty well for a first date. I noticed that Vince seemed to have this running theme during our conversation: spontaneity. As in, the more spontaneous a woman is the more attractive she becomes to him.

Interestingly enough, I didn’t get the spontaneous vibe from him at all when we first met. He seemed as if he was a quiet, conservative type. So here is the guy with the Conservative Uniform on, telling me that he likes a woman who can be unpredictable. He “gets bored” easily so if the woman he is dating isn’t able to be spontaneous, they probably wouldn’t get along very well.

Ladies, apparently men don’t want to be stuck with a snorefest, no matter how hot she is. Do you think that you are unpredictable and spontaneous..um, in a completely sane way?

Guys, do you really dig unpredictable women that much? Are you looking for women who can pick up and go on a whim? Do you think that women who play it too safe are too uptight?

How unpredictable are you? Do you consider yourself spontaneous?

399 comments Add your comment

Leggs

October 13th, 2009
4:22 pm

Not burning the food :lol: burning yourself! :lol:

Cemeeli

October 13th, 2009
4:23 pm

Pretty brown eyes…you know…

SexyCool...Update - Maintaining at 3....

October 13th, 2009
4:23 pm

And Raqi – Stop that baby talk. Because I rarely meet a man that makes me even think about reconsidering my indifferent stance on birthing a baby.

But I tell ya what…………..

czBrat

October 13th, 2009
4:23 pm

Melo actually, it’s more of a move to keep the relationship. seems when things get rocky he springs the ring. definitely not a financial move on his part because he ends up paying.

Leggs

October 13th, 2009
4:24 pm

I burnt crescent rolls the other night. I felt so bad cuz lil leggs had a friend over and I made them so they can have with their eggs in the morning. I put them in the oven and never thought about them again until the smell of burnt bread reached me in the living room glued to Extreme Makeover Home Edition!

Cemeeli

October 13th, 2009
4:24 pm

@ Leggs – 12-13 years old do burn food! I’ve only burned myself 2-3 times then…yea…let the hot pan fall on anything but me!

SexyCool...Update - Maintaining at 3....

October 13th, 2009
4:24 pm

Oh, dang…all you peoples, stop with the baby talk…………

Mo (aka Moeisha)

October 13th, 2009
4:26 pm

SCool – you know Mint Condition is my favorite and I made plans to go out of town that weekend…..so not a happy camper right now. :mad:

SexyCool...Update - Maintaining at 3....

October 13th, 2009
4:27 pm

He asked me what I wanted for my birthday. I’m thinking I’m going to tell him Mint Condition tickets.

Demi

October 13th, 2009
4:28 pm

Willie Dynamite…you should see her girl friend, LOL

Cemeeli

October 13th, 2009
4:29 pm

I do not leave the kitchen when making bread…just sit and read or something.

czBrat

October 13th, 2009
4:29 pm

Professor, Ms. Main, Melo, thanx for your input. have a wonderful evening!

ciao

Melo

October 13th, 2009
4:30 pm

czBrat:

rather than get with a recycled man,i suggest u get urself a younger man.That may mean learning to do the stanky leg dance and hanging in those young clubs but once yu snag a young dude,they have no wish to be under/over a young tenderoni lady coz of ur(cougar) ways.

Cougars can handle their bizz and young fellas,once they sample,no going back.

Raqi

October 13th, 2009
4:30 pm

Thanks ladies.

Heck, we have to be careful, it’s those little beauties that gets you to thinking hmmmm, what if….

One of my best friends has a 3 and 2 year old that I got see and hold at least once a week, then before I knew it I was pushing one out. Now my other best friend is due to deliver in December. Our oldest friend who is 43 with 2 teens told all of us “yall better take that shyt some where else away from me”.

I blew the last of my baby dust over at Mrs. PoppaGrande.

Cemeeli

October 13th, 2009
4:31 pm

@ Leggs – gotta 5:15…need another joke…nah for real if they don’t get my training lingo this time…i’m doing it virtual Microsoft Media…this is ridiculous.

Raqi

October 13th, 2009
4:32 pm

But I tell ya what…………I think I have met him.

I finished your sentence for you SexyCool.

Mo (aka Moeisha)

October 13th, 2009
4:33 pm

Cemeeli – LMAO @ your 4:29 but I do the same thing!

SCool – go for it chica, should be a great concert

Anyone going to see Erykah Badu on the 25th?

SexyCool...Update - Maintaining at 3....

October 13th, 2009
4:33 pm

Get
out
of
my
head,
Raqi.

Professor

October 13th, 2009
4:34 pm

@ Mo check online you maybe able to check out Mint Condition in another city if they are on tour…I love doing that…like a weekend getaway and do some shopping and watch the show in another city.

SexyCool...Update - Maintaining at 3....

October 13th, 2009
4:34 pm

Mo – are you coming out for GNO – Martinis and a Movie on Friday?

Cemeeli

October 13th, 2009
4:35 pm

Mo – Erykah will be at Civic Center of aaaaaall places…ugh!

Leggs

October 13th, 2009
4:37 pm

Perhaps I’ll start doing that, Cee because baking rolls takes no time at all. I can’t remember the last time I burnt something before burning those rolls. I looked at them like they were a foreign object wondering how I let that happen.

Melo

October 13th, 2009
4:39 pm

so,is head more emotional for a women than vagee sexx…??

is it : head 1st
then vagee sexx

or its reverse for u ladies??

AmazonRed™ is sexy legs...

October 13th, 2009
4:41 pm

My Myers Briggs tells me that I’m ESTJ. Folks in that type are “pilers” I like to keep mail and stuff. That’s what I hoard til the piles get to big and then I file them or throw em out.

My sentamental side keeps just about every sweet letter I’ve gotten. I still have them all from my HS sweetheart.

Yahoo Mail says I never have to delete another email…so I don’t. :lol:

AmazonRed™ is sexy legs...

October 13th, 2009
4:43 pm

PG – I was flying back into Atlanta yesterday and was all settled in my exit row seat. The flight attendant asked if any of us would be willing to switch with a man upfront. He was 7 feet tall. I remembered a past convo we had about that.

Everyone declined tho. Poor guy.

Cemeeli

October 13th, 2009
4:43 pm

4:39 is where Zuluan has gotten on SCool’s nerve.

:lol:

Ms. Main just getting in

October 13th, 2009
4:43 pm

I blew the last of my baby dust over at Mrs. PoppaGrande.

I think you should have blown over all the blog ladies…lol Heck, I’m feeling ready after see Little Libby

SexyCool...Update - Maintaining at 3....

October 13th, 2009
4:43 pm

ARed – that sounds a lot like me.

I had dumped Shthead’s emails in a folder and had just gotten sick of seeing the folder everytime I opened my email. Hence, the deletion.

Leggs

October 13th, 2009
4:43 pm

I’m singing at the top of my lungs in this big ole empty space thinking I might be discovered by someone walking down the halls wondering where that melodic voice is coming from. Isn’t that how a lot of folk are discovered? NOT!!!!

DJ Demi

October 13th, 2009
4:43 pm

@SexyCool…I am in the mood to climb trees…

Half on a baby
All I need is your body next to me
Singing ooh, na, na, na, na, na, na, na
Give me your body, your body, na, na, na, na

Half on a baby
All I need is your body next to me
I’m singing ooh, na, na, na, na, na, na
Give me your body, your body, na, na, na, na

Now tell me what the deal is
Are you ready to bump
It’s gonna take a lifetime
To give you all of this love
So baby, open up
And get ready to receive
A miracle of love
Gettin’ down wit me

Like a baseball field
Wanna hit a home run
Me and you get together babe
And raise a little one

DJ Demi

October 13th, 2009
4:44 pm

SexyCool is now beating DJ Demi to the white meat…with his DJ Booth

Cemeeli

October 13th, 2009
4:46 pm

Thanks to Ms. Main…now mytwo has someone else to pick on.

You like babyshowers Main?

SexyCool...Update - Maintaining at 3....

October 13th, 2009
4:46 pm

Cemeeli – I was like….when did we start talking about that?

Even though, we know I don’t mind talking about head/sex whatever. LOL…

Melo – My answer to that question is that it depends on the person/situation/mood, so on.

Professor

October 13th, 2009
4:46 pm

…stepping out.

Have a good evening gang!

AmazonRed™ is sexy legs...

October 13th, 2009
4:48 pm

I had dumped Shthead’s emails in a folder and had just gotten sick of seeing the folder everytime I opened my email. Hence, the deletion.

SexyCool – :lol: @ you calling him Shthead.

Yeah, some of my exes and I emailed so much that I just gave him a folder so everytime a message came in it would automatically go there. It was nice to see X number of messages in the “sweetie” folder.

The relationships didn’t end badly so I keep em. Sometimes I can go read back on how silly in love I was which lead to silly in love decisions. :lol:

Don’t blame you for deleting yours tho. Shtheads must be eliminated! :)

Melo

October 13th, 2009
4:49 pm

Leggs/Proff

good nite u 2..

when u get home,go head and head st8 to the bathroom,since u been holding it all day..

take it aaaaaaaall off and toast to me afterwards.

Then dump!

:lol:
good nite uall

Ms. Main just getting in

October 13th, 2009
4:50 pm

Cemeeli yep, when they’re hosted like a cookout…lol The last one I went to was laced with frat brothers, a deep fryer, music and drinks. I was preggos too at that one and didn’t even know it.

Tazzee - Predictable Cryer

October 13th, 2009
4:50 pm

SCool – we got 5th row center tix for the Eric Benet, Mint Condition, Ledisi concert. I can’t wait!!!

BFF and I are double dating that one and then the next morning BFF and I (sans the men) are hopping on a plane to NO for the game.

Ms. Main just getting in

October 13th, 2009
4:50 pm

Cemeeli I kid I kid…I’ve since grown. I like princess type baby showers now.

SexyCool...Update - Maintaining at 3....

October 13th, 2009
4:53 pm

Taz – that is going to be a night for LOVE!!!

Leggs

October 13th, 2009
4:54 pm

Good night ALL!

Q: How did the exterminator get fired?

A: he bugged his boss… (dedicated to Ms. Cee)

Don’t hog the road, let someone get in front of you. Be nice!

Cemeeli

October 13th, 2009
4:55 pm

The last one I went to was laced with frat brothers, a deep fryer, music and drinks.

Ms. Main

Uh…and where was my invite!? That’s my kind of shindig! The debutante friend of mine have started incorporate more simple pleasures to their Waterford W. ParTies lately…i like i like…you can be classy with your “grown and sexy”…

Tazzee - Predictable Cryer

October 13th, 2009
4:56 pm

On the phone with the resort making plans for my weddingmoon.

Cemeeli

October 13th, 2009
4:58 pm

Go Tazzee!!!

Mo (aka Moeisha)

October 13th, 2009
5:00 pm

Professor – tried other cities for the concert, no go for me!! :sad:

SCool – I plan on it chica!! Getting a sitter now! :wink:

Tazzee - Predictable Cryer

October 13th, 2009
5:07 pm

SCool – And you know it!!! My guy isn’t into concerts but I told him he would be into this one. If you guys go – we should all meet for dinner before. Harlem Bar has a pre concert special, $5 appetizers and $5 drink specials.

SexyCool...Update - Maintaining at 3....

October 13th, 2009
5:08 pm

I’m so excited for you, Tazzie Mae.

SexyCool...Update - Maintaining at 3....

October 13th, 2009
5:09 pm

Taz – You are reading my mind. Way cool. It’s a plan.

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