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City & State or ZIP Tonight, this weekend, May 5th...
City & State or ZIP
City & State or ZIP Tonight, this weekend, May 5th...
City & State or ZIP

Location, Location, Location

I don’t know how to explain it but I call it the Panera Hottie Phenomenon. In the last couple of weeks, whenever I go in to a Panera Bread restaurant, I always spot a great looking guy. Not only is he great looking but he catches my eye in that “he could be my boo” kind of way.  It’s like the guy is literally in Panera bread waiting for me to walk in!

I firmly believe that where you reside, spend time, or hang out has a tremendous impact on who you meet and date.  If you find that these locations are not working for you, it’s time you shake things up! Go to a different part of your side of town, visit friends in their area, volunteer for a different organization.

Where do you spot the best potential dates? Where are the people who want a relationship congregating? Do you think your location is conducive to finding a date?

When I suggested this to a friend of mine, she scoffed at the idea of doing something to increase her chances of meeting someone.  She thinks that if it’s meant to be, then things will align and fall into place on it’s own.  What do you think? Is it better to leave it to chance or should we lend fate a hand?

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Tazzee - Nice win Falcons!

October 12th, 2009
4:29 pm

SCool – Hey!!! I know you have some excitement planned for this weekend.

Leggs

October 12th, 2009
4:29 pm

@Raqi, you got mail.

Melo

October 12th, 2009
4:32 pm

Melo I so resent that statement lol

not personal babey

SexyCool...At about Cloud 3 and rising

October 12th, 2009
4:35 pm

Taz – I’m going to keep it kinda simple.

All this week, I’m working short days and taking a Me Day on Friday.

Friday Night – Girls Movie Night or Girls Night In – we are either going to see Good Hair as a group or stay in and watch movies and get tipsy.

Saturday Night – Couples Partying – Dinner and Dancing – going to OSS.

Sunday – Church and football and a kiddie party at whick I have to make an appearance.

Let me know if you wanna hang out Friday or if you two wanna hang out Saturday.

Dream_n

October 12th, 2009
4:39 pm

Did anyone see Oprah with Chris Rock as a guest… There was this one girl that was offended by the movie. Although she hadn’t see it, she was really mad about giving away our “secret”.

SexyCool...At about Cloud 3 and rising

October 12th, 2009
4:41 pm

I saw that show, but don’t remember that guest. Oh, wait. I saw the show earlier in the week. Wasn’t he back as a guest on Friday? Being mad about our ’secret’? Hilarity.

czBrat

October 12th, 2009
4:43 pm

saw the ‘movie’ friday. i thought it was hilarious! sooooo much i didn’t know about the weave world. yeah. i think all the secrets are out there now. i had no idea about the “don’t touch!” rule. LOL

Tazzee - Nice win Falcons!

October 12th, 2009
4:48 pm

SCool – I thought OSS was this past weekend. We were talking about going out this Saturday so we might have to join you guys. We’ve never gone dancing and I feel like shaking my tailfeather.

Dream_n

October 12th, 2009
4:48 pm

SexyCool
Yes he came back on again. It was pure comedy! I was trying to understand why she was so upset, but just couldn’t grasp it… lol

The weave world in other countries is kinda sad :(

Mo (aka Moeisha)

October 12th, 2009
4:49 pm

Afternoon All!

Hope everyone had a great weekend! AT&T is working a sistah so I will talk with you all tomorrow, hopefully! :smile:

Tazzee - Nice win Falcons!

October 12th, 2009
4:54 pm

Dream_n – Sybil on the TJMS said she was upset that he revealed the ’secret’ too. I haven’t seen the movie but I want to.

Tazzee - Nice win Falcons!

October 12th, 2009
4:55 pm

Hi Mo! Bye Mo! :lol:

Leggs

October 12th, 2009
4:56 pm

Good night everyone!

Speaking about chocolate, here’s what confuses me:

How does a two-pound box of chocolate and make a person gain five pounds. ~ deciated to Dream_n.

Hopefully no one will have to get out boat and oar to get home. Be safe and pay attention!

czBrat

October 12th, 2009
5:00 pm

i’m just guessing, but i would assume anyone being upset about the ’secrets’ getting out are the chicks who really want onlookers to believe it’s their own natural hair. i, for one, could not BELIEVE the costs of these services!! i would never guess the average woman could find that kinda $$$$ to afford store-bought hair AND its upkeep.

Melo

October 12th, 2009
5:00 pm

Hopefully no one will have to get out boat and O to get home

:lol: :lol: :lol:

yeah,some females have big ones! :lol:

Leggs

October 12th, 2009
5:01 pm

You are so twisted!!!

Dream_n

October 12th, 2009
5:02 pm

Tazzee I have yet to see it either, but I would like to.. Prolly this weekend!

Dream_n

October 12th, 2009
5:03 pm

Leggs

I’ll get back to you on that one.. :)

Tazzee - Nice win Falcons!

October 12th, 2009
5:04 pm

Have a great evening folks!!!

SexyCool...At about Cloud 3 and rising

October 12th, 2009
5:10 pm

Riding around in a hoopty, broke as hell with a fiyah ass weave that she just got off layaway….

smdh….

czBrat

October 12th, 2009
5:15 pm

LOL. or she’s lookin fly on someone else’s dime. they spoke to some men who pay for the beauty but are not allowed to mess with it. chick wont go anywhere she might get wet or sweat, so dude’s just plan their lives accordingly.