I don’t know how to explain it but I call it the Panera Hottie Phenomenon. In the last couple of weeks, whenever I go in to a Panera Bread restaurant, I always spot a great looking guy. Not only is he great looking but he catches my eye in that “he could be my boo” kind of way. It’s like the guy is literally in Panera bread waiting for me to walk in!
I firmly believe that where you reside, spend time, or hang out has a tremendous impact on who you meet and date. If you find that these locations are not working for you, it’s time you shake things up! Go to a different part of your side of town, visit friends in their area, volunteer for a different organization.
Where do you spot the best potential dates? Where are the people who want a relationship congregating? Do you think your location is conducive to finding a date?
When I suggested this to a friend of mine, she scoffed at the idea of doing something to increase her chances of meeting someone. She thinks that if it’s meant to be, then things will align and fall into place on it’s own. What do you think? Is it better to leave it to chance or should we lend fate a hand?