Comments on: Fake it till you make it

By: Gheeghee

Gheeghee — Mon, 05 Oct 2009 21:12:04 +0000

I have never, ever been able to nor could i EVER fake chemistry. Which to me, is THE most important criteria. Everybody has their own personality quirks, which are revealed over time, and I can accept those. The second thing is that I cannot fake knowing whether or not we both want the same thing…other than spending more time together, Over time, I can see whether or not we want to work on the relationship and bring each other deerp into each other’s lives by being emotionally vulnerable. But sometimes you don’t need to say anything. When the relationship has “jumped the shark” and neither of us want to “hurt” the other, we just naturally spend less time sharing and time together. I have found that although we can start out wanting the same thing, over time, one of us may change his/her mind. I only want to be with people who want to spend time with me. I completely agree that “Life is too short”…

By: Leggs

Leggs — Mon, 05 Oct 2009 21:08:21 +0000

Hey, I’m finished working…where’s everyone going. I want to play! Aww shucks, I’m left on the playground all by myself.

By: Ms. Main

Ms. Main — Mon, 05 Oct 2009 21:08:08 +0000

dream_n I second your 5:06…I think quite a few folks can back away from the keyboard for a couple of days…lol

By: Dream_n

Dream_n — Mon, 05 Oct 2009 21:07:45 +0000

Jamoca

Took the words right out of my mouth!!!

By: AmazonRed™ - logic over emotion

AmazonRed™ - logic over emotion — Mon, 05 Oct 2009 21:06:13 +0000

Night all.

By: Dream_n

Dream_n — Mon, 05 Oct 2009 21:06:04 +0000

@ Ms. Main

I need to take your advice from last week and miss a day or two to catch up on some work..lol

@ Randt: lol funny!

i say regardless of everyone’s opinion.. whether we agree, disagree, or agree to disagree. Whatever works for you and your S/O…. Some people are traditional and some are not…as long as the house is clean.. food is kept on the table… kids are clean..everything is all good no matter who has to take on the respobsibility

By: AmazonRed™ - logic over emotion

AmazonRed™ - logic over emotion — Mon, 05 Oct 2009 21:05:44 +0000

Oh and Jamoca, Jada once stated in an interview that she’s never done the cooking. And remember she wasn’t always rich and famous either.

That one just tickles me when a guy states a woman “must” cook and then mention Will and Jada as some type of prototype. LOL

By: Leggs

Leggs — Mon, 05 Oct 2009 21:05:35 +0000

@RandyT, I started to post “lack thereof” but thought it was obvious. I don’t know of anyone who asked for a divorce because there was too much sex and too much money!

By: Jamoca

Jamoca — Mon, 05 Oct 2009 21:03:41 +0000

…and I’mma say this

It kills me when folks acknowledge that there indeed is somebody for everybody…additionally recognizing that every man or woman may not be in sync with your way of getting it done, but the same folks will turn around and question you and your tactics if you don’t “do it like Will & Jada”. Heyal, first off…Will was obviously in the market to “buy” what Jada was “selling” and Jada in turn agreed to “follow” his lead. That’s them.

But how do folks turn around and have the nerve to question why “Fred Sandford” would rather wait for Elizabeth instead of getting his very own “Jada”. Heyal, he’s obviously content with how Elizabeth rolls…even if that chick only cooks & cleans Monday – Wednesday and only “smucks” Fred’s brains out Thurs & Friday.

He’s cool. She’s cool. They’re cool. But folks steady questioning….

sigh… Good night.

By: Ms. Main

Ms. Main — Mon, 05 Oct 2009 21:01:19 +0000

that “WASN’T” a jab…. I need to go home and start over tomorrow