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Blame Angelina Jolie

There has been actual research on so-called “mate poaching”.  They found out that a lot of single women aren’t exactly hunting for other singles. Sometimes, they look for the coupled up men and “poach” them away from their current relationship. It’s like the Angelina Jolie syndrome because she supposedly began a relationship with Brad Pitt while he was married.

The results of the research: “Single women were more interested in the man when he was described as attached (90% interested) than when he was described as single (59%). Men showed no difference in interest between a single and attached woman.”

The thing about these studies is that don’t leave much room for the variables. It’s interesting nonetheless, to see the “scientific” analysis about why women are attracted to men who aren’t available. What are your thoughts?

When you meet someone you are attracted to, is it more appealing when you find out a person is involved with someone already? Have you ever pursued someone who had a significant other?

Have you ever been involved with someone and met somebody else that you felt you was the person you were meant to be with? How do you tell the person you are in a relationship that you are in love with another person?

614 comments Add your comment

Dan

September 30th, 2009
8:40 am

Good morning,

It isn’t the alcohol, it isn’t the lust, the only reason that people do things is because they choose to. Blaming a decision one has made on any outside stimuli is the last resort of the unrepentant.

I’m responsible for my decisions, I’ll suffer the consequences, and I’m dumb enough to leave “what I have” (no matter how bad it may be in the moment) for some that “could be better” (but usually isn’t), then that’s on me.

i'm swiss

September 30th, 2009
8:52 am

Good morning, folks.

So, who needed a scientific study to know that? Any guy could tell you that [some -- scratch that, lots of] women are more attracted to attached guys — and the hotter the girl you are with, the more “poachers” you will attract. Seriously, I get waaaaaaaaay more attention from other women when I’m out with Mrs. Swiss than I do when I’m rolling solo. And apparently my wedding band came complete with a pretty powerful magnetic force field, because now that we’re married it’s even more noticeable. I suppose these women see us and think “wow, if he’s with HER, he must really have it going on.” And, of course, I do but that’s beside the point. ;-)

mytw♥cents

September 30th, 2009
8:54 am

How did they quantify it? Did the women find men described the exact same way as more attractive or did the descriptors used make the taken men literally more attractive, so it was a no-brainer. Of course, a click of the link might reveal this, but… Finding out he’s taken is like finding out he has a negative attitude or his mentals ain’t right. Heavy sigh and move on.

I firmly believe that when it comes to knowingly vying for a taken man, the thrill of competition is a primary driver. Women who go this route allow the desire to beat out the other woma/en cloud her common sense, disregard the warning bells and press forward. They mute the voice sayung “That will be you in 6 weeks, 3 months or 2 years…” Ultimtaely, nobody can be poached if he isn’t willing to go.

Good day, PROFESSOR, if and when you stroll in. Missed your question til after the gates were closed. We posted at the same time and I was still typing. I use your name when I’m tossing sumthin your way so you’d be sure to catch it. Jay Z happened to be on my mind…

AmazonRed™

September 30th, 2009
8:57 am

I was gonna give this study the ” :???: ” face, but I assume these women were judging these men without knowing if they were single or attached up front. We’ve often said on here that we get more “play” after someone has already snatched us up, probably because we give off a different vibe when we are coupled up… so I get it.

There have been a few times where I’ve met a dude, and have been vibing with him only to have him bring up a girlfriend later on in the conversation. Happened to me a couple times in New Orleans this past weekend. That blows and that’s when he becomes off-limits and unattractive to me. But I can say that had he been single, I would have totally been open to pursuing something.

Nothing wrong with being attracted to someone who is unavailable. The problem is when you decide to pursue when you know he isn’t. I can’t do that…I won’t do that.

Morning all.

fred

September 30th, 2009
9:00 am

I have no idea as to why, but as soon as I put on that ring, more women paid attention to me, still do 20 years latter.

It felt good to be the one to say No, even if it was only once. (No, I have not said yes to anyone other than my wife.)

AmazonRed™ - got my human Snuggie for fall

September 30th, 2009
9:01 am

Welcome fall. It’s snuggling weather! :)

AmazonRed™ - got my human Snuggie for fall

September 30th, 2009
9:03 am

“wow, if he’s with HER, he must really have it going on.” And, of course, I do but that’s beside the point.

:lol: Morning Swiss.

MC

September 30th, 2009
9:03 am

So that’s how they get men? I see people get parking spaces the same way. They don’t want an empty one — they want one that somebody might be about to back out of, some time in the next half hour, and they’ll gladly wait for it, holding up traffic.

i'm swiss

September 30th, 2009
9:13 am

Morning, ARed. What? Did I say something funny? ;-)

Raqi

September 30th, 2009
9:18 am

Speaking bluntly, some people just want what they can’t have. It’s a challenge for them. Taking another woman’s man is like a badge of honor for some tricks…I mean chicks. And I guess she feels good about herself when she has a man that is risking it all for her. Which actually shows pretty low self-esteem.

Now on a softer side, LOL, married men are somewhat the epitome of a man that is not afraid of commitment. And he is marriage material to at least one woman. There must something great about him if a woman chained him. However, how much of marriage material is he if and when he cheats on his wife with a woman that finds his wedding to be a magnet.

Despite popular belief a great deal of married men are generally happy and more relaxed. Some of them give off a good air because they are being taken care of and women can pick up on that.

Married men have been trained by their wives already when it comes to household chores and activities, LOL, so a woman may see that as a ready made husband. He already knows the ropes.

But you know our married men just have to have stay focused because the trifling tricks are swarming all around us.

Cemeeli

September 30th, 2009
9:19 am

…it’s time to hibernate…

Morning!

Cee’s breakfast selection: Grits (cheese, butter, fish, sugar choose your tast)…just a nice bowl of good ole grits…

Swissman That “happy & bliss” condition is coming off you, that’s why women are more attracted to you now…It’s like a magnet like you said.

The flip side is…you better not treat/test/tip/try that other grass….you know Home Depot return policy is not good towards tainted/used merchandise. Better remember your grass “type” and why you bought it in the first place!

^^^a clue^^^

Kym aka Dominque Deveraux

September 30th, 2009
9:19 am

Good Morning All,

Never chased an attached man..got pursued by a few. Its flattering, the attention is nice and frankly if you are not interested in a full-time relationship then its easy to maintain. I don’t really blame Angelina because as Dan pointed out its all about choices. Brad had a choice and he made it. How many kids are he and Angelina up to now by the way?

Tripp

September 30th, 2009
9:21 am

Its totally the thrill of the chase. It’s more challenging to go after someone that is in a relationship. It’s also about not having to deal with the worst parts. If you hook up with someone that already has an “other” then you get only the best. If the sex is awsome, that’s even better. I’ve been on both sides, and I tell you, even if it’s only once in your life, that thrill is like getting on a coaster for the first time and loving it. Of course, I wont do it again, but it was fun while it lasted!

I know you guys are going to bash me for this, but I felt like I had to just say it like it was:)

Kym aka Dominque Deveraux

September 30th, 2009
9:25 am

Affair Humor

A woman was in bed with her lover when she heard her husband opening the front door. ‘Hurry,’ she said, ’stand in the corner.’ She rubbed baby oil all over him, then dusted him with talcum powder. ‘Don’t move until I tell you,’ she said. ‘Pretend you’re a statue.’ ‘What’s this?’ the husband inquired as he entered the room. ‘Oh it’s a statue,’ she replied. ‘The Smiths bought one and I liked it so I got one for us, too.’ No more was said, not even when they went to bed. Around 2 AM the husband got up, went to the kitchen and returned with a sandwich and a beer..’Here,’ he said to the statue, have this. I stood like that for two days at the Smiths and nobody offered me a damned thing.’

Raqi

September 30th, 2009
9:29 am

frankly if you are not interested in a full-time relationship then its easy to maintain

Yeah Kym I was thinking that too. A wife has to deal with every area of her husband, the good, the bad and the ugly. A woman on the side does not. She don’t have to be bothered with him all the time. She gets a “husband” without having to be the wife.

spinmonkey

September 30th, 2009
9:30 am

maybe they have decided that an attached male is easier to walk away from when it’s time to move on to a new partner… after all, i think we are talking about women who are still playing, not women who want serious relationships…

Raqi

September 30th, 2009
9:30 am

Tripp no need for bashing. We all have our story to tell and you are entitled to tell yours.

AmazonRed™ - got my human Snuggie for fall

September 30th, 2009
9:33 am

:lol: @ Kym’s joke.

Dream_n

September 30th, 2009
9:37 am

@ Tripp

I highly doubt anyone is living in a glass house/so no need for judgements…
You might get a side eye, but no bashing
:)

I myself don’t understand the logic of being with a “married man”. Like Dan said there’s no excuse as to why, you choose to do what you do. I am a full believer in karma. So when you do dirt it’s going to come back to haunt you.. it may not be right away but you’ll pay sometime in your life.

I never got the thrill of chasing a man that is attached?? *puzzles the hell outta me*. So when he goes home to his wife and prolly kids, what do you do??? Maybe these woman have some underlying self esteem problems idk.. just sad though.

aggwitty

September 30th, 2009
9:37 am

Chris Rock told us what this study is saying like 7 years ago

“now that you married and she took the crust out your eye, put a tic tac in your mouth you get calls from old girlfriends like ‘me and my girlfriend are having d-sucking contest and we want you to be the judge’”

JAMES

September 30th, 2009
9:40 am

I agree with Dan and Im Swiss. You are both very correct in what you’ve said.

i'm swiss

September 30th, 2009
9:42 am

“Better remember your grass “type” and why you bought it in the first place!”

Morning, Cee… Trust me, there is absolutely no danger of me forgetting that. Fortunately, I’m old enough & have romped around in enough other grass in my day that I can say with absolute certainty that there is no greener grass than Mrs. Swiss’s. ;-)

Ms. Main

September 30th, 2009
9:42 am

Aside from any asinine reason maybe given, it’s about choices….point blank. I don’t blame either side,one over the other. I blame both. If you go after and get, you’re selfish and greedy. If you’re sought after and gotten, you’re greedy and selfish. I’m going with Dan on this one. I don’t recognize (right who am I) the relationship of Angelina and Brad. I don’t think it’s cute by any means. They can do all the charity work they want, have/adopt all the babies they want and appear to be the epitome of bliss. What they did was wrong. I’m only happy Jennifer was such a lady and as graceful about it as displayed. I don’t think I would have been that nice about it. But yeah, it’s about choices…..from both ends.

Cemeeli

September 30th, 2009
9:43 am

Okay! aggw I ’bout chocked reading your post…

Good Girl in Atlanta

September 30th, 2009
9:49 am

When I read this story, I thought about the old cliché, “I’m going on a man hunt!” Sometimes, it was just a game to see if I could bait men (mostly married). This “experiment” would take place in settings like a club. I would see if I could get their phone numbers and meet afterwards. Ninety percent of the time, it worked. Another experiment was with ex boyfriends. I would find the places that they frequent and show up. Looking exceptionally good, of course! These ex boyfriends had either married or in committed relationships. I would put on my fabulous (sexy, of course!) outfits when we had our encounter. One hundred percent of the time, he was captivated and we hooked up (you know what I mean!) At that time in my life, it was a game. I didn’t want these guys. Especially when I knew how easy, it was to get them.

Raqi

September 30th, 2009
9:49 am

now that you married and she took the crust out your eye, put a tic tac in your mouth

Aggwitty I agree with that. After a good woman have buffed him up a bit he becomes more attractive.

Ladies don’t you hate when you get with a guy, spruce him up, dress him real nice, get him to shake some of his bad habits and then all of sudden women are coming out the woodwork at him. Especially the ones who would not give him the time of day before.

Ms. Main

September 30th, 2009
9:52 am

Dream_n you call it karma, I call it reaping what you sowed….for sure. No stones go unturned. You put it out there, you’re getting it back.

Sassy Me...juicy fruit...there can be only one :-)

September 30th, 2009
9:52 am

Ms.Main that 9:42 was the truth plain and simple.

AmazonRed™ - got my human Snuggie for fall

September 30th, 2009
9:52 am

I think folks are taking the blog title a little too literally. While I don’t disagree it’s about choice (and who would really), doesn’t really speak to the meat of the topic. IMO, of course.

Raqi

September 30th, 2009
9:54 am

Ms.Main I agree. It is both of their bad doings when they engage.

But my thing is with the women who knowingly go for the married men even when the men are not interested. There are men out there that don’t take the bait but it does not stop the women from trying. A lot of them are trying.

And we all know there are men that go after married women also.

Raqi

September 30th, 2009
9:56 am

Good Girl I choose to believe that married men hanging out at the clubs aren’t that hard to snag. Actually that’s probably what they are there for. No married man should be out clubbing.

He is inviting trouble and he is willing.

Ms. Main

September 30th, 2009
9:57 am

Raqi I may be way out in left field but I don’t necessarily agree with your statement of a woman grooming her husband which in turns sends his stock rises and the hunt begans. That sounds one-sided. It’s about choices. He nor she can cheat…unless they want to. No hooplah around that.

Kym aka Dominque Deveraux

September 30th, 2009
9:59 am

Well frankly I am not getting married if I have to fix boogers and wipe crust and put up with funky breath. I don’t want a fixer-upper for a house much less a husband.

Raqi

September 30th, 2009
10:02 am

Ms. Main you took it the wrong way. It was sorta tongue-in-cheek based off of what aggwitty said. And I was not saying that the man will cheat just because a woman finds him more attractive.

I was simply saying that some married just look better. LOL

And on the serious I have heard a few men say that a woman that they have tried to get with suddenly find them appealing when he moves on from trying to get her to one that will be with him. That does not mean or imply that he will cheat because of it.

Cemeeli

September 30th, 2009
10:03 am

“me and my girlfriend are having d-sucking contest and we want you to be the judge’”

Oh my!

My brother appreciates me sending him that early morning humor aggw.

Kym aka Dominque Deveraux

September 30th, 2009
10:03 am

Tazzee Mae..when you get a chance check your gmail. I am sending you some wedding inspiration that was passed on to me.

THE INFAMOUS DK

September 30th, 2009
10:03 am

Kym – Ummmm You do know theres a Porn Star named Dominique Devereax right.. What are you saying Kim?

Melodramatizulu

September 30th, 2009
10:06 am

Despite popular belief a great deal of married men are generally happy and more relaxed. Some of them give off a good air because they are being taken care of and women can pick up on that

RAQI??

girl, u took the words exactly outta my mouth.

we do give off a certain vibe..when i enter the room, im scanning it to see where the best seat might be at and not scanning the ladies in the seats(like a single horny dude wld) and i do it in such a nonchalant,”i dont care about ur all eyeing heifers” that,that in itself is what attracts them.Funny, aint it??!!!

Same with attached ladies.
They do what the do,not to attract the menfolk but coz she got some last nite,she relaxed and happy and domesticated so much that the guy sees her shiny azz,bouncy and all but she got this walk AND the ring and he says,”"shytt,she married?, NAW, I think she can give me play,why she so kinda flirty and talky talky”" And yeah,she smiles at u when u aproach,coz she confident and secure in herslef like that BUT ur horny wang reads it so waaay offside! Coz the unattached girl is so tense when u apprach her,hasnt got some in months and if she did, it was a quickie,no cuddling love at all.A married chic gives a different vibe.

Mytwo wld interpret that a lil differently than i did since she more physhological and technical,but yeah,thats it!

Morning folks!!

Ms. Main

September 30th, 2009
10:06 am

Raqi for the record a married man on the hunt is the worst. Believe that. They don’t get the N or the O. Both men and women that cheat are both knowingly going for what they shouldn’t. Just because you’re married doesn’t make it become emphatic to women. It’s a leveraged equally wrong pursuit whomever, whichever side (being male or female) that hunts.

You said —> ……married men even when the men are not interested. There are men out there that don’t take the bait….

A moot point. No?

Sassy I felt so bad for her but she was head and shoulders throughout that ordeal

THE INFAMOUS DK

September 30th, 2009
10:06 am

Well women like that smell a married man puts off.. They know he’s been trained and will commit. The problem I run into is the fact that I have been married women seem to think Im just dying to run down the aisle with them.. Yeah the dating game sucks but I want a girl in a committed relationship without all the lets get married mumbo jumbo..

Raqi

September 30th, 2009
10:06 am

Maybe I need to go back and read the topic again because I thought we were talking about women that are attracted to the unavailable. Why do they possibly find them attractive, appealing, interesting instead of going after a single man.

Not that men will find that a reason to cheat…

Ms. Main

September 30th, 2009
10:07 am

Raqi…gotcha…our posts are overlapping…

THE INFAMOUS DK

September 30th, 2009
10:09 am

Hey lets get something clear today.. Married women are out here too on the hunt for boyfriend number 2.. I meet so many married women its a shame.. I dont do married women though cause a dude will kill you bout a chick he done gave his last name to. And I just have principles and married women are off limits..

Raqi

September 30th, 2009
10:09 am

Well women like that smell a married man puts off.. They know he’s been trained and will commit.

Infamous that’s what I am saying right there.

Ms. Main

September 30th, 2009
10:12 am

Don’t blame it on the sunshine, don’t blame it on the moonlight, don’t blame it on the good times, just blame it on the boogie

Mo (aka Moeisha )

September 30th, 2009
10:12 am

Morning All!

ARed – cosigning this one ..”The problem is when you decide to pursue when you know he isn’t. I can’t do that…I won’t do that.”

I think there is something attractive about a married man that is committed to his relationship and not still shopping for opportunities. However I dont want to get involved with a married man, its just wrong

Sassy Me...juicy fruit...there can be only one :-)

September 30th, 2009
10:13 am

Ms.Main yeah Jen did handle herself and that situation very well.

Dan

September 30th, 2009
10:13 am

The other part of the equation is “the benefit(s) of being the other man/woman”.

Playing the role of the non committed party is easy. There’s no emotional need to fulfill (if you don’t want to), no time to give (if you don’t want to). From this position, it’s almost only about getting your needs met as an individual.

Dream_n

September 30th, 2009
10:13 am

Maybe I must be cut from a different cloth b/c when I encounter a married/attached man and they try to pusue me, it’s a turn off…

Dream_n

September 30th, 2009
10:15 am

@ Ms. Main

i love that song … MJ :)

Ms. Main

September 30th, 2009
10:16 am

Dream_n, just tryna find somewhere to lay the blame…lol

Ms.Sunshine

September 30th, 2009
10:20 am

Totally agree right here, mytwocents

“Ultimtaely, nobody can be poached if he isn’t willing to go.”

THE INFAMOUS DK

September 30th, 2009
10:21 am

Good Girl – You sound like a good girl that done gone bad..

Kym aka Dominque Deveraux

September 30th, 2009
10:22 am

@DK I know that Dianna Carroll played Dominque Deveraux on one of the all time best tv series Dynasty.

Raqi

September 30th, 2009
10:22 am

I think there is something attractive about a married man that is committed to his relationship and not still shopping for opportunities. However I dont want to get involved

Mo Exactly. Because really to get involved actually makes the reason for attraction void. And a lot of women find themselves a man that is not the man they thought. Which they are fooling themselves because how committed to his relationship is he if he is dealing with someone on the side. Some people just don’t get that.

If he/she cheated with you, he/she will cheat on you.

Ms. Main

September 30th, 2009
10:25 am

“Ultimtaely, nobody can be poached if he isn’t willing to go.”

Just pasting (no commenting) as I agree…

THE INFAMOUS DK

September 30th, 2009
10:25 am

Kym – Yeah yeah yeah.. I believe you got on you dominatrix outfit right now with the whip raring to go..

Raqi

September 30th, 2009
10:26 am

After whitebread and his wife divorced he tried to get back with me. Talking about we can be good together. HA. I had to remind him that I already knew that he is a liar. I knew that he will step out of a relationship. He is not to be trusted. Dude whatever.

Kym aka Dominque Deveraux

September 30th, 2009
10:28 am

@DK not my style at all.

Professor...ahhh

September 30th, 2009
10:30 am

Hola!

Stepping in for a second…

I just remembered something as I read this post. A few years ago I was getting my eyebrows waxed and an older lady shared the “advice” she gave her daughter with us younger ladies. She mentioned that finding a husband was tougher and we need to think like men. Well she advised her daughter to go after this married doctor. Her reasoning was that he was about 45 and he is ready for a change, but most men and especially a doctor has been spoiled by a woman. So her daughter needs to stake her claim and take this other woman’s husband. Finally she told us that a married man around 40 an up is where we need to look, due to mid life crisis and them wanting a younger woman. After I saw all of these women looking like yea that is what we need to do. I spoke up and said you have a chance of 1) getting an @ss whipping by wifey 2) getting a switchblade pulled on you 3) getting a firearm fired at you 4) getting rejected because he is happy 5) getting rejected because you are not his type and 6) him clapping out in you and staying married. So, how do you like the odds? Well some of the ladies laughed but the others had already been brainwashed.

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

September 30th, 2009
10:31 am

Morning bloggers & bloggettes!

Raqi for the record a married man on the hunt is the worst. Believe that. They don’t get the N or the O.

Ms. Main – I second that! They are downright disgusting.

It’s a difference between being attracted and acting on the attraction. People that are HAPPILY married or in a satisfying committed relationship do give off a nice aura. And I do find committed, family men very attractive versus the single player-player guy, but the committed guy I WILL NOT give the time of day. People that are “frustrated” and unhappy are hard to be around. My boss is married and seems to be happy and he is a joy to work with, but I’m not attracted to him. I find that men & women that are not satisfied in their personal lives sometimes take it out on those around them – hate to generalize, but this is my opinion. Anyway, who would not want to be around someone that is pleasant and if a great spouse or SO contributes to that, so be it.

Excuses like it’s a challenge, don’t have to wash his dirty drawers cause the wife will, etc – well I don’t want to hear all that.

THE INFAMOUS DK

September 30th, 2009
10:36 am

Professor – Thats a prime example of the bad advice alot of women take for the gospel these days.. It happens more often than we like to think..

Good Girl in Atlanta

September 30th, 2009
10:36 am

You’re correct, Raqi. Some of these guys were in the club, but not all. We met at grocery stores, home depot (good place to meet guys!), pubs, etc. Although it was wrong at the time, it was a natural high!

Professor...ahhh

September 30th, 2009
10:37 am

Mytwo greetings to you as well,

I just thought I would ask, please excuse me I prefer Miles Davis to Jay-Z so I am not in touch with his lyrics…

Dream_n

September 30th, 2009
10:37 am

While I understand the logic of if he cheated on her he will cheat on you.. I do believe that a man can be re-formed and change…

@ Professor:
Glad someone had sense.. wtf kinda advice is that.

Dream_n

September 30th, 2009
10:39 am

Good Girl in Atlanta

If I may ask… Are you in a committed relationship now?

Professor

September 30th, 2009
10:41 am

@DK you are so right! I am looking at these ladies bobbing their heads and making comments like I never thought about that, and that makes sense. I wanted to yell STOP, so that is why I did the flip response with the options. I will respect vows even if the man or woman will not. Let me explain I say woman because I do not get into my married friends business. I do not give them recommendations because I respect their vows and I do not want the break up of their marriage on my hands. Of course I respect the man by not flirting, sleeping or doing anything that will disrespect his marriage or his wife.

Ms. Main

September 30th, 2009
10:43 am

Kimmie They’re out there and strong with it. I think it happens more often than we think from both genders.

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

September 30th, 2009
10:44 am

Ms. Main – Yep!

Raqi

September 30th, 2009
10:45 am

Infamous yes there a married women just as bad as the men.

Ms. Main

September 30th, 2009
10:45 am

Well she advised her daughter to go after this married doctor. A daggone shame. A misguided old woman. SMH

Professor

September 30th, 2009
10:45 am

@Dream_n I believe they took to her advice due to her age for the most part. She spoke to them with a lot of conviction and power in her voice. I am sitting there like WTF she is brainwashing and leading these ladies down the wrong path.

I will say this I knew this lady that used to run the abortion scam. Date married men and play like she was pregnant and get the money for an abortion. I am not sure if that game is still being played, but she used to run that one all the time on the same dudes to make it so bad…returning customers…lol

Dream_n

September 30th, 2009
10:46 am

@ Professor

Did she also explain to them that one day they would married to a guy and he will soon reach his 40’s.. and there may be a young tenderoni looking to catch her prey…. So will she step aside and let another woman have her husband b/c of the advise she took???

I’m sorry this just puzzles me that women would even sit and listen to that fooly-wang non-sense!

Dream_n

September 30th, 2009
10:47 am

lol.. Ms. Main

Nothing worse than a “misguided old woman” :)

Raqi

September 30th, 2009
10:50 am

Where is abc? He usually know the statistics on a bunch of random stuff.

I wonder what is the percentage of married men that actually leave their wife for the other woman? Some women be with those men for years thinking or being mislead into believing he is going to leave her, but you know it’s “complicated”. LOL Complicated my arse, he just stringing you along. If he is going to leave he would have already left.

In Hollywood you hear of it alot, but I wonder what is the actual percentage for us common folks.

Mo (aka Moeisha )

September 30th, 2009
10:52 am

Professor – those women agreeing with that woman were desperate for a man, any man so that is why they were so eager to take that in.

I had a girlfriend who grew up with her mother’s sugar daddy always around and she thought that was the way relationships were supposed to be. A man taking care of you but going home somewhere else….SMDH

THE INFAMOUS DK

September 30th, 2009
10:53 am

As a Parent you have to be sure you are not forcing your hopes and dreams on your children.. Because thats what a lot of parents do.. Because they couldnt marry a doctor theor daughter will.. Or because they couldnt play in the NBA their son will..

DJ Demi

September 30th, 2009
10:54 am

And I just have principles and married women are off limits…

We got the latin heat
For the ladies we meet
We lie, we steal, we cheat
When we fight, you get beat

What’s up ladies? It’s Chavo and Eddie
We came to have fun, and we’re ready
To get down with the mamacitas
Yeah, all the foxy senoritas
Come here girl, just take my hand
Even if you have a man
He can’t do the things we can

Dream_n

September 30th, 2009
10:56 am

@ DK

Your 10:53 is so true

Ms. Main

September 30th, 2009
10:56 am

Hollywood? Heck they change spouses as often as they change their drawers….lol

Professor

September 30th, 2009
10:57 am

Dream_n all of the women in there were between 23-33, so her point was to get a married man in his 40s because he is spoiled, and going through midlife crisis and tired of his older wife. So he will marry them and she did mention that “we” need to make sure we let him know that he will be spoiled and pampered. I remember her telling us that she told her daughter to make sure she cooked for that doctor and stuff like that…have the house ready when he comes over nice wine finger foods etc. Since the wife probably stopped doing these things the married man would like the attention. BTW she was not married, I did not see a ring so I made a point to ask her.

I am silly by nature so I was giggling until I saw these ladies buying in to this mess.

Ms. Main

September 30th, 2009
10:57 am

Dream_n Like they say…ain’t no fool like an old fool.

Melodramatizulu

September 30th, 2009
10:57 am

I had a girlfriend who grew up with her mother’s sugar daddy always around and she thought that was the way relationships were supposed to be

WOW

Professor

September 30th, 2009
10:59 am

@Mo not the sugar daddy! When you are raised one way (my parents had been married 30 years when my father passed)it is shocking after you grow up and see how some people do not mind wrecking a home knowingly.

Mo (aka Moeisha )

September 30th, 2009
11:00 am

Melo – exactly, I felt bad for my friend b/c her mother was pushing those same ideals onto my friend. Sad…..

Fan

September 30th, 2009
11:01 am

LOL @ MS. MAIN 10:57

Mo (aka Moeisha )

September 30th, 2009
11:02 am

Professor – I couldnt believe it! Eventually though I just had to understand that she didnt know any different and its hard to make a child see the error in a parents ways sometimes. Ridiculous…..

i'm swiss

September 30th, 2009
11:02 am

“Hollywood? Heck they change spouses as often as they change their drawers….lol”

They wear underwear?

DJ Demi

September 30th, 2009
11:03 am

A man taking care of you but going home somewhere else

You wanna suga-daddy, go get you an old ‘igga
I got money, I’m just here to bug you girl
Can’t get none, but you know I love you girl

She the one that wanna ride hot whips, huh
Same one that ain’t really got ish, huh
She want her hair done, then get her nails done
Go to Fifth Ave, just to shop for Shanell, huh

Compelling

September 30th, 2009
11:05 am

LMAO @ “ain’t no fool like an old fool” that was funny Ms. Main.

Good Morning ALL!

Yeah that lady sounds really crazy to say the least. The mere thought of someone being out there with such malicious intentions is beyond me. I said all the time that I don’t think I could marry someone in the limelight or an athlete, let alone date them. Not to say that there aren’t those out there with redeeming qualities, but to always wonder, to know, that somewhere in another state these groupie chicks are plotting and planning on hookin’ up with your guy. I don’t put all the fault on the other woman because it takes two to tango, but damn I couldn’t live like that. These women know where to show up, where to go, what city they’ll be in, where the parties are, where their hotels are, I mean that’s no way to live.

I also won’t date or marry a man with a dangerous profession, I scare way too easily. A little off topic, but you know how it is. ;-)

Professor

September 30th, 2009
11:05 am

Another point, please feel free to agree or disagree, but I feel a lot of the single folks that are not looking for other single folks are those with the guards up…hurt by love. I have asked a friend that pursued married men about this and she said at least I know what I am dealing with. It is difficult to explain, but from what I gathered she was okay being his only girlfriend, because a girlfriend and wife are two different things so it was not like she was being cheated on.

Cemeeli

September 30th, 2009
11:06 am

Mo We may have the same girlfriend.

Sugar Daddies and Sugar Mammas (yea, i speaking of gay women taking care of their partner).

sigh…

Demigod33

September 30th, 2009
11:08 am

Most suga pappis…have no boundaries…filthy old men…the main group known for molesting kids…I have no respect for men of there class.

Professor

September 30th, 2009
11:08 am

@compelling I get your point…that is a lot of stress to deal with. I think if I dated someone on that level I would want someone like Tony Dungy.

Tazzee

September 30th, 2009
11:09 am

Good Morning!

Interesting ’study’ – I didn’t check out the link but I will admit that seeing a man handle his business with his wife and children is attractive. It’s ‘attractive’ but I’m not ‘attracted’ to him.

I haven’t pursued an attached man since I was in college and like Good Girl said – it was a game. Especially if I didn’t like the female the guy was dating. But that was back during my foolish period.

I’ve never been in a relationship and then met someone I felt I was supposed to be with. When I’m content in a relationship, the possibility of someone else doesn’t exist. When I’m not happy, I’m on my way out and if I meet someone else at that point – I can’t entertain anything with the new guy until it’s settled with the old guy.

Dream_n

September 30th, 2009
11:10 am

Tony Dungy lmao… the retired coach hahahahaha…

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

September 30th, 2009
11:10 am

Professor – The majority of “bad advice” I’ve heard has been in the beauty/nail salon!LOL!! I have 2 hair stylist that I go to, one a guy I’ve been going to for years. He gives wonderful hair treatments and hair care but can’t style. The other is a lady I went to high school with that can style & cut fabulous. She owns the salon. She & one of her other stylist were trying to drop some “advice” on me last week. Trying to cast doubt on my relationship. Let’s just say if I had taken that advice, me & SO might not be together today! Granted she was working with very limited info(I don’t reveal much) and has not been around me & SO, but how she came to the conclusions she did reeked of jealousy!

THE INFAMOUS DK

September 30th, 2009
11:13 am

Thats what ya’ll ladies dont understand.. Half of your girlfriends dont want to see you happily married unless they are happily married.. If shes single she wants you to be single.. Misery loves company..

Demigod33

September 30th, 2009
11:13 am

Profess…she just doesn’t want the emotional attachment. Nothing is wrong with that…she is better off staying single and dealing with her past hurts.

A waste

Cemeeli

September 30th, 2009
11:14 am

lol I meant…lesbo women…but there are gay men doing the same.

How does a man, take care of another man i’on know.

It’s some mess, i tell ya.

Raqi

September 30th, 2009
11:15 am

Ms.Main Exactly. First you hear of them co-starring in a movie and next thing you know they have left their spouse or s/o and started a life together.

Dream_n

September 30th, 2009
11:16 am

Then those “friends” (and I use the term loosely) need to get the boot…

Good Girl in Atlanta

September 30th, 2009
11:17 am

Dream_n-

Currently, I’ve been in a committed relationship for 5 years…..and loving it! By the way, we are married. Neither my husband nor I was in a committed relationship when we met. We both were dating but it wasn’t serious. This topic isn’t new; however, it’s a good conversation piece. My beau and I have talked about this in length many times. Yes, I still consider myself a “Good Girl” more ways than one.

Fan

September 30th, 2009
11:17 am

Some mothers (older women) honestly think they’re doing right by you or minimizing your chance of heartache by what they advise. Example: my mother always told me to marry for money and keep the man I love on the side. Sad but true. I think she felt she would be saving me from heartbreak. She wasn’t telling me to be a who@e.

Demigod33

September 30th, 2009
11:21 am

Example: my mother always told me to marry for money and keep the man I love on the side.

That is some wise advice…

Melodramatizulu

September 30th, 2009
11:22 am

Half of your girlfriends dont want to see you happily married unless they are happily married

DK…i cosign…

i jus think females are more prone to group think than men-folk.
I may be biased but i do think that way.Jus coz females tend to have “more females” in their “circle of friends” than guys do.

Am i wrong ladies??

Dan

September 30th, 2009
11:23 am

@Fan (re 11:17)

Exactly.

It’s the “I don’t want my baby to hurt like I did” syndrome.

But what it creates is a generation of men (we get similar advice) and women that don’t know how to form real and meaningful relationships. It scars the child further than helps them.

It’s advice from a place of hurt, and it intentionally inflicting that hurt on a loved one, and it’s ridiculous.

THE INFAMOUS DK

September 30th, 2009
11:23 am

Demi – Would it be good advice if it was your wife? See it aint no fun when the rabbit got the gun..

Melodramatizulu

September 30th, 2009
11:23 am

Fan, ur mother was on the streets??

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

September 30th, 2009
11:23 am

DK/Dream – I’ve actually heard some worst advice from older women than younger women or women my own age. Only advice I’ve ever respected was from my mom & grandmother and one of my aunts. Also my godmother gave good advice. Other than that, I weed out what I choose to listen to from others. And consider the source.

Jennifer

September 30th, 2009
11:24 am

Enter your comments here
Women go for married and attached men because it is clear that they are prepared to commit. There is always a question mark over a single man “Why is he single and available”?

Deeva4Life

September 30th, 2009
11:26 am

Professor – re: your 11:05 post; although complicated to explain all of that is so very true.

Dream_n

September 30th, 2009
11:26 am

Example: my mother always told me to marry for money and keep the man I love on the side.

That is some wise advice…

?????? I’m confused

Demigod33

September 30th, 2009
11:27 am

Aint no sunshine my ‘igga, the sun aint gonna shine
Till I reach about a million
Talkin billions with Brazilions
I got this funny feeling that I’m gone be filthy rich
And I’m gone marry money cuz money’s a faithful bish

Sassy Me...juicy fruit...there can be only one :-)

September 30th, 2009
11:28 am

Would it be good advice if it was your wife? See it aint no fun when the rabbit got the gun..

Do it DK :)

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

September 30th, 2009
11:30 am

Melo – For the most part, you are probably right about the group-think, especially if the woman did not have a strong mother figure in her life or a dad around that set a good example. The greatest gift a parent can give a daughter(son too but especially daughter) is to teach her to be an independent thinker. Build her self-esteem and show her love so she won’t have to try and get it from teenage motherhood or some trifling dude. Not be easily led by other low-achieving females.

I constantly preach to SO’s kids and my own nieces & nephews – Be a leader, not a follower.

Professor

September 30th, 2009
11:31 am

@Dream_n Tony Dungy is a classy guy…I really enjoyed his book…LOL

@Kimmie you are so right…the beauty/nail salon! Why is that all of the advice they give, or at least I have heard is that the man is cheating or it is advice that will make you look like a fool? YES, you can see the jealousy!

@Demi you are right. I think it bothers her, but she is playing it safe I just hope she does not get hurt (physically).

Demigod33

September 30th, 2009
11:32 am

DK/Dream…I meant to post the above lyric…my bad.

Deeva4Life

September 30th, 2009
11:32 am

When I was married and going through some things with my ex-husband, I had an aunt share some advice with me. She told me…”Accept that at some point in time your husband IS going to cheat on you. Don’t get all upset about it…just accept it because it WILL happen.” I laughed at first…until it happened. However, just because he CHOSE his actions, I’d never spew that “knowledge” on another woman.

Ms. Main

September 30th, 2009
11:32 am

swissThey wear underwear? I know right…lol

compelling That’s what the old folks say

Raqi Relations and Hollywood ain’t a good mix

Margaret M.

September 30th, 2009
11:33 am

Good lord. Why must we bring up three people we know nothing about. I assume that this writer used Angelina Jolie’s name just to attract readers to her article. Why thoughtlessly cast aspersions on her? We don’t what happened in that situation except that if I recall all parties said that no one stole anyone. A marriage ended and a new relationship started. End of story.

As for the attraction of marrieds, I don’t think it is about “competition” for the male though they may not want to hear that. People behave differently when they are not on the hunt. Most marrieds start off as potential romantic partners and with that often comes a facade and behavior with an agenda that usually can’t last. When partnering up is not their goal people stop trying to impress potential mates and let their guard down. They become who they truly are. When that happens it is only natural that people get to know the real you and if they become attracted it’s to that real you, even just as friends, and that allows emotional intimacy to develop. This is why workplace relationships often bloom.

So, unfortunately, later relationships that were not products of the dating scene may yield better and more intimate matches.

Ms. Main

September 30th, 2009
11:35 am

Fan Are you serious?

Mo (aka Moeisha )

September 30th, 2009
11:37 am

Deeva4Life – DAYUM! But I have heard that before too, like its supposed to be okay (dont be shocked) that your husband cheats on you. WTH?!?!

Kym aka Dominque Deveraux

September 30th, 2009
11:37 am

Affair Humor

A married man was having an affair with his secretary.
One day they went to her place and made love all afternoon.
Exhausted, they fell asleep and woke up at 8 PM .
The man hurriedly dressed and told his lover to take his shoes outside and rub them in the grass and dirt. He put on his shoes and drove home.
‘Where have you been?’ his wife demanded. ‘I can’t lie to you,’ he replied, ‘I’m having an affair with my secretary. We had sex all afternoon.’She looked down at his shoes and said:
‘You lying jackazz! You’ve been playing golf!’

Dream_n

September 30th, 2009
11:37 am

…”Accept that at some point in time your husband IS going to cheat on you.

People act like monogamy is impossible… It irks me when people go around giving bad advice just b/c they were in a bad situation… Not all men cheat and not all women are ho#s..That’s just basic knowledge..

Deeva4Life (glad another sistah had since)

Demigod33

September 30th, 2009
11:37 am

Demi – Would it be good advice if it was your wife? See it aint no fun when the rabbit got the gun..

DK…Meaning…If a woman only marry me for money? I hope to be wise enough to see though her deceptions by then.

Ms. Main

September 30th, 2009
11:38 am

Margaret M We don’t what happened in that situation except that if I recall all parties said that no one stole anyone. A marriage ended and a new relationship started. End of story.

I ain’t tryna be funny but what rock did you crawl from under? We may not have been there but we know what happened….lol You said it yourself. A relationship started and a marriage ended. He went in married and came out having a hot torrid affair…lol…j/k but not really

Melodramatizulu

September 30th, 2009
11:38 am

Didn’t Fan say some, off the wall 2 days ago??

Dream_n

September 30th, 2009
11:39 am

*sense* not since… what’s the name for words that sound the same but are spelled differently.. my mind went blank…

Fan

September 30th, 2009
11:39 am

Yes, Main. I’m serious. However, my mother married her high-school sweetheart and divorced after 25 years. I married my high-school sweetheart and divorced after 13 years. Like I said, I think it was her way of advising me to avoid the heartache because you know no one can hurt you like the one you truly love. It’s just my point of view on where and why some of this twisted advice is being handed down.

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

September 30th, 2009
11:39 am

Deeva/Mo – I have heard that mess too, countless times! One lady told me when I was in high school ALL husbands cheated, including my daddy, so just accept it. She did not even know my daddy, but she said everybody’s daddy had cheated on their mama!

Ms. Main

September 30th, 2009
11:39 am

Margaret M I’m sorry for coming off harsh…Welcome!

Melodramatizulu

September 30th, 2009
11:40 am

You lying jackazz! You’ve been playing golf!’

LOL,good one Kym!

he gives it good,…to both!

Ms. Main

September 30th, 2009
11:41 am

Fan It’s just my point of view on where and why some of this twisted advice is being handed down

gotcha

Compelling

September 30th, 2009
11:43 am

LOL @ Professor. Tony Dungy wouldn’t cheat on anyone. :-) Neither would Lovie Smith. ;-)

I agree Ms. Main, married individuals need to end their current state before entering into another relationship. Damn being separated and/or emotionally checked out. Break one relationship off completely before starting another. Be respectable, honest, and upfront.

Professor

September 30th, 2009
11:44 am

@Kimmie you are 100% on your post. I do the same with my niece.

@Deeva…whoa! I would not pass that advice on either.

I have not given one of my friends the boot although she is negative when it comes to relationships…every man is a dog…cheater…crazy etc. I have learned to put a lid on her meaning I do not take her advice and I tune her out when she gets started. We were out one time she was sitting on my right and a guy was sitting on my left. Well dude struck up some small talk and the entire time she said…what is he saying…he is lying…yea right…I don’t believe him. It got so bad dude ask me are you with her, what is wrong with her? I was so embarrassed.

Demigod33

September 30th, 2009
11:46 am

…”Accept that at some point in time your husband IS going to cheat on you. Don’t get all upset about it…just accept it because it WILL happen.”

The real secret is out…THIS is how granny and pop-pop marriage lasted 30 years, LOL.

THE INFAMOUS DK

September 30th, 2009
11:47 am

Demi – I suggest you listen to Devin the Dudes “Somebody elses Wife”

Margaret M.

September 30th, 2009
11:47 am

No problem, Ms. Main. Thanks for the welcome.

But you misquoted me. I said a marriage ended and a relationship started. I think the order makes an important difference. I’ve learned in life never to judge the intimacies of another person’s marriage nor to think I know who is to blame in a break up. Often the one trying to come across as the injured party was no such thing.

This is an interesting topic.

Demi

September 30th, 2009
11:48 am

Mo…i is having a ten year party with yo company…sad part…I am just finding out about it…oh well, free food.

Deeva4Life

September 30th, 2009
11:48 am

Margaret M. the last two paragraphs of your 11:33 post said a WHOLE lot. Not popular with the masses, but truth nonetheless.

Compelling

September 30th, 2009
11:48 am

Furthermore, I HATE sharing. I’m not going after anything that I cannot have all to myself. Trust me, I’m not even entertaining you or looking your way if you’re attached. As soon as I find out that I’m not the only sun in your sky, I’m gone. I like to shine brightly all by my lonesome thank you very much. Lol.

Elijah ( Professor! What a woman????)

September 30th, 2009
11:49 am

Good Morning!

It is true about these married women out here they are on fire! I have encountered plenty of married women wanting to get dizzle both from the workplace as meeting some at the gym.

One of my partna from back in the 1990’s married right after college and boy the ladies were beating the door down slinging him the panties!

We do have a choice to show, honor, respect and commitment even every relationship. I believe when we dishonor any relationship it shows a true character flaw!

Professor

September 30th, 2009
11:50 am

Dream_n those words are called homonyms

THE INFAMOUS DK

September 30th, 2009
11:51 am

Demi – It might not even be about the money… Just picture you being married.. You know you couldnt handle finding out your wife is being gutted like a rainbow trout by another dude..

Fan

September 30th, 2009
11:52 am

Anyway, I agree with the posts that have said that “taken” people have a certain pep in their step that makes them attractive to others.

Professor

September 30th, 2009
11:54 am

Hey Elijah!

After reading all of this stuff I think I will save some money and my future husband some problems. I will not buy him a ring and we can use that money to buy something nice for me like some earrings to go with my ring.

Fellas is that alright? (I am saying that in my southern belle voice)

THE INFAMOUS DK

September 30th, 2009
11:55 am

Margaret M – WOW!!!! Both Posts..

Kym aka Dominque Deveraux

September 30th, 2009
11:55 am

@Elijah so if your friend caught the panties was not his character flawed?

Dream_n

September 30th, 2009
11:55 am

@ Professor

thanx chica!

Leggs

September 30th, 2009
11:56 am

@Professor, love each and everyone of your comebacks to that advice. See, not all elders are full of wisdom!

“If you think you’re lonely now, wait until tonight.” Trying to catch a married man will forever have the other side of your bed EMPTY!

Since this is a dating column, I have some news. I have a date tonight and will report the evening’s activities here tomorrow (that is if you’re interested in hearing them). ARed always states that no one reports on their dating experiences. It’s been a while since I’ve been on a date, so this should be extremely interesting!

Ms. Main

September 30th, 2009
11:58 am

Margaret M No I didn’t misquote. I was being facetious and reversed….but I hear you.

Good Girl in Atlanta

September 30th, 2009
11:58 am

Peace everyone! Have a great day. Don’t blame Angelina. She was working her magic and Brad fell under her spell!

Deeva4Life

September 30th, 2009
11:59 am

Have a great time Leggs!!

THE INFAMOUS DK

September 30th, 2009
11:59 am

Prof – No thats not alright.. Your selfishness is showing.. You gotta you errings to go with your ring. I mean you cant breing yourself to spend that money on him instead of yourself..

Professor

September 30th, 2009
12:00 pm

@Leggs thanks! BTW I would love an update on your date tonight…I hope you have fun. I need to set a reminder in my phone so that my nosey behind will pop in. Is this your first date with the lucky fella?

Kym aka Dominque Deveraux

September 30th, 2009
12:00 pm

alright Leggs going out on a school night! LOL

Just asking

September 30th, 2009
12:00 pm

I though ARED was a part of the W8 cut, surely she knows something since her & Page was so called BFF, funny.

Mo (aka Moeisha )

September 30th, 2009
12:01 pm

Demi – Congrats Chocolate Baby! Eat up that free food on AT&T’s tab!! :smile:

THE INFAMOUS DK

September 30th, 2009
12:01 pm

Dan

September 30th, 2009
12:02 pm

Congrats Ms. Leggs

THE INFAMOUS DK

September 30th, 2009
12:02 pm

Just Asking – She is but everybody is playing dumb right now..

Professor

September 30th, 2009
12:03 pm

@DK I am just saying if a ring brings all these chicken heads out…why not use that money on me? LOL! You know I am trying to keep our union drama free…I was just playing when I typed that by the way. I am not that big of a brat.

NY2GA, Inc.

September 30th, 2009
12:03 pm

You never know who you may meet and end up connected to. Sometimes things happen that we don’t expect. BUT, I’ve always been told to not open another door until the other one is closed. If you really want to be with someone and treat ‘em right why would you want to bring them into your mess? Clean it up, first. Get divorced, tell your girlfriend or boyfriend that it is time to part ways before you get all hot and bothered with someone else. That’s the mature thing to do.

Also keep in mind that ‘poaching’,'cheating’ or whateveryouwannacallit these days can be deadly. Just look at the Steve McNair story.

THE INFAMOUS DK

September 30th, 2009
12:03 pm

Just – Everybody is running from this thing because it stinks to high h3ll… And nobody wants to admit they were that stupid eventhough they get on a dating blog and rant about how tough and on it they are..

Just asking

September 30th, 2009
12:04 pm

@DK, I know, but why are the ones that use too post on a regular stop posting.

THE INFAMOUS DK

September 30th, 2009
12:04 pm

Prof – That doesnt mean spend the money on you.. You dont have to buy him a ring but you can buy him something.. ;-)

Melodramatizulu

September 30th, 2009
12:06 pm

It’s been a while since I’ve been on a date, so this should be extremely interesting!

ok,since u share, i ll give advice….cool?? i think so..

dont be overtly touchy touchy with him,if u so smitten,as to give it away that u are “gutting”(ohh, i luv DK’sterm there) ur nickers down there coz of the attraction!

Chilly it babeh and make it classy! Coz at the end of the day,u got the prize for killing him softly..in hiz pants!( a trbled and outa control wang is messy for a dude) :lol:

Happy hunting Leggs and congrats!

THE INFAMOUS DK

September 30th, 2009
12:07 pm

Just – they are embarrased.. They dont know who knows what.. Thats the beauty of it..

Professor

September 30th, 2009
12:08 pm

Just asking/DK …that whole thing is a mess from what I have gathered. I guess some folks don’t want to bring in that vortex of problems. I have said it before and I will say it again if it started on the blog let it end on the blog…messy, but true! Like my mom used to do if you act up in Rich’s I am going to whip your behind in Rich’s.

Melodramatizulu

September 30th, 2009
12:11 pm

LOL:

at our collective attention deficit disorder.

Is the topic done?? I think today’s topic is interesting..lets get on on it folks!

Just asking

September 30th, 2009
12:12 pm

@Professor, LOL. U are so correct. Why hide,its so obvious who was a part of it. Something didnt seem right with him from the jump, Like someone said the other day a FBI blogging ALL day, yea right, & was quick to set up get togethers.

Professor

September 30th, 2009
12:12 pm

@DK no I will buy him a ring…something nice!

Yep they are embarrased, and I am shame for them because any playboy or playgirl should have been able to see that coming!

THE INFAMOUS DK

September 30th, 2009
12:12 pm

Prof – Nah everybody got something on everybody so theyre nervous the flood gates will open..

Kym aka Dominque Deveraux

September 30th, 2009
12:12 pm

@NY2 I am not saying that young girl was right but I understand. Steve McNair(and I loved me some Steve McNair) brought that drama to his own door. The loveshack in the city, hooking up with that young girl(she was 18 when they met), taking her on vacations, buying or cosigning on a car with her, bailing her out of jail. He was going around like it was nothing. Any young girl who came from nothing would go batty if some big timer flashed hope in her eyes like that. Sad Sad story all around.

@Professor were you the one who posted the I tried to warn them post on Don’t Date him? I read that drama last night. I don’t know why the folks involved feel shame for coming back to the blog..hell we all have gotten got before. Lesson learned share your story..release the shame..and move on. It started on the blog might as well finish it full circle.

Professor

September 30th, 2009
12:14 pm

@Melo I say your advice to Leggs…LOL. What are you telling her to do again for the record?

Melodramatizulu

September 30th, 2009
12:15 pm

Proff,to keep her excitement inside,not be too obvious that she excited.

Elijah ( Professor! What a woman????)

September 30th, 2009
12:16 pm

@Kym a.k.a. Dominatrix….. in regards to my married partna as far as I know he resisted the temptation to accept the panties! He is man of good character. Still married with 3 kids for 13 years and counting!

Now one of our boys who also married his college sweetheart was knocking everything that moved and he is still married! Major character flaw.

Ms. Margaret good posts! A relationship ends and another relationship begins! Take this advice to heart when your the relationships is over you need to keep it moving!

Ms. Main

September 30th, 2009
12:17 pm

I’m slow. I still don’t know what happened. Just know what I read on don’t date him. Someone post full blow by blow details so we can all be in the know, learn (to run) and move on.

Kym aka Dominque Deveraux

September 30th, 2009
12:17 pm

@DK well damn did they have a threesome with the dude? Was there an orgy? I mean other than dude spat the game and they fell for it what else is left to say?

I wonder if he is going to drop out of FFootball? I need some major help at QB and WR..the jokers I got are just hit or miss.(Wait is it to soon?) On a happy note I am winning in my pay league.

THE INFAMOUS DK

September 30th, 2009
12:17 pm

Melo – Leggs aint a rookie.. She has presented herself as nothing but a lady out here.. Oh and she hasnt been caught out there in the blog messiness so Im sure she’ll be OK..

THE INFAMOUS DK

September 30th, 2009
12:19 pm

Kym – Ha ha ha ha ha!!!

Melodramatizulu

September 30th, 2009
12:20 pm

Kym aka Dominque??

like i said yesterday, and u correct,there is nothing embarassing about giving somebody money and them not giving it back.

Nothing…

but put a man,sexx,money and more than one woman…

Theeeeeen..u get embarrassment!

Melodramatizulu

September 30th, 2009
12:21 pm

then not getting it back!(correction)

Professor

September 30th, 2009
12:24 pm

Nah everybody got something on everybody so theyre nervous the flood gates will open..

***I know that is a bad spot to be in ****

@Kym I posted my warnings on the ajc blog I restated my quote yesterday about getting played like Madden. I pretty much know who got played because a lot of these heifers would come after me for no reason at all…which really let me know what time it was. Not to mention I called one of them out a few weeks ago for sitting on the blog popping her gums knowing she is foul…pretending to have game.

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Raqi

September 30th, 2009
12:26 pm

Ms.Main I actually thought he got with Jolie while he was still married. So I think your reversed statement was correct. I think.

Professor

September 30th, 2009
12:28 pm

Melo…you got me rolling over here when you add all of that stuff to the pot.

I would like to make a toast to all of the folks that were smart enough to avoid this, and to all of the folks that fell for it better luck next time…and a nod to the man for pulling it off and running them like triple crown race horses.

Page1908

September 30th, 2009
12:29 pm

Is this still on topic?

Mo- There was a lady who was sitting at the table across from us at your bday at Jillians with those group of guys watching the game. When I went to the restroom, she was talking with another lady about the gentleman that she was with and how she was ok with him being married because his wife was stationed somewhere in the military.

Raqi

September 30th, 2009
12:29 pm

JustSaying you are correct. I think the first day on here he (W8) was offering to meet up with some of the folks that get together.

He either lurked for awhile and then made his entrance, or he had a different moniker that we no longer read and changed it to W8 and presented himself as the new guy ready to meet folks off the jump. Either way he probably staked out his targets.

But that’s all I gotz to say about that. LOL

Page1908

September 30th, 2009
12:30 pm

That’s what I thought, too, Raqi. It seemed like it happend when they filmed the movie they were in together.

Leggs

September 30th, 2009
12:31 pm

You guys are a riot!

@Deeva, thanks.

@Professor, yes this will be our first date. Been talking on the phone where the vibes and laughter seem to mesh. We had as a topic discussion chemistry v. physical chemistry. I’ll soon find out.

@Kym, imagine that. Going out on a school night. Too funny. Thank goodness I cooked a dinner last night for this evening so when I got the call this morning, I saw a window of a couple of hours to play with.

@Melo, only you. Don’t worry, no touchy feely tonight. The only thing I’ll be giving away will be my pretty smile! You good with that???

@Infamous, thank you. That was nice!

Raqi

September 30th, 2009
12:32 pm

she was ok with him being married because his wife was stationed somewhere in the military

I bet that is happening more times than not.

Melodramatizulu

September 30th, 2009
12:32 pm

who posts that google link?? WD??

I think Ms Margaret is right tho, Raqi!

Pple have a tendency of looking at a marriage or break up from afar and then make judgements on who is right or wrong…
The truth is usually further from “their truth”
Jen played the victim by stating quiet altho i think Brad was too good for her,in the marriage..too selfish for that relationship to make it work.
Maybe im biased coz i like Brad more than i like Angeline and Jennifer combined.Brother has a good heart.
But a brother can put those Angelina lips to some naughty work tho!

Ms. Main

September 30th, 2009
12:33 pm

Page,Raqi Yep, he was foul. To think, I use to dig Brad

Raqi

September 30th, 2009
12:33 pm

Yeah Page. I thought they got together during Mr. & Mrs. Smith and he was still married.

Elijah ( Professor! What a woman????)

September 30th, 2009
12:33 pm

@Professor tell us how you really feel! :wink: I will use my money to buy you matching earrings for the ring, so when can we get this started?

:lol:

Look I say let it be, sometimes you win and sometimes you lose in the game of luv! Some folks are hurting from whatever the loss maybe so lets give me them a break!

@Kym…. How are the Steelers going to recover this year from that beatdown they received from the Bengals? :smile:

Sexy is obvious. Cool sneaks up on you.

September 30th, 2009
12:33 pm

Three Words Daily – All is well.

Ms. Main

September 30th, 2009
12:35 pm

So? Was it a threesome with money in the mix with W8? Dern, he was good. Money and the kitty(s).

Page1908

September 30th, 2009
12:35 pm

Some of my friends used to only date military guys and they would often say it comes with the territory, especially for those that are stationed somewhere very often and far away for a long period of time.

Raqi- ok, I never saw that movie, but I think it’s on tv now lol.

Leggs

September 30th, 2009
12:36 pm

Sorry, Dan, didn’t mean to leave you off my list. Thanks, buddy!

SexyCool - I take life as it comes.

September 30th, 2009
12:36 pm

Have been unknowingly placed in a poaching situation – being younger and dumber and with many lessons to learn (and I am still learning), there were signs I should have paid attention to but didn’t.

By the end, I would have gladly returned that dog to its previous owner.

Elijah ( Professor! What a woman????)

September 30th, 2009
12:38 pm

Hey we do not know if Brad hooked up with Angeline before he and Ms. Anniston were divorced!

Brad is still a good man maybe he just made a mistake! I’m just sayin!

Just asking

September 30th, 2009
12:38 pm

Look who pop in :)

Page1908

September 30th, 2009
12:39 pm

SexyCool- what signs were there that you didn’t want to pay attention to? they always say hind sight is 20/20.

Melodramatizulu

September 30th, 2009
12:39 pm

Elijah,did u send me an email few days ago??

Melodramatizulu

September 30th, 2009
12:40 pm

i luv the dramatic irony on this blog!!

:lol: :lol:

Elijah ( Professor! What a woman????)

September 30th, 2009
12:40 pm

Easy Melo….Yes I sent you an e-mail a few days ago, but now its time to mature up and move on!

Mr. Big Mouf (I got the Whole Scoop & Nothing but The Scoop...so help me Blog)

September 30th, 2009
12:41 pm

I’m ready to hang each and every one of the these full grown but silly hoes out to dry. Man I’m neutral with nothing to lose. I know about yall and them meet n greets and the one on ones. And to the ones who fell for it, the game was looking yall right in the face and since nobody questioned none of it and just decided to run with whateva, well shyt you got what you deserved. It was rare the dude ever heard the word NO. Yall chickens lying about being victimized.

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

September 30th, 2009
12:42 pm

MsMain – I liked Brad, still will probably watch his movies. But with all the good he has done and is still doing, he is starting to come off as sort of a jerk. He’s been on a few talk shows talking about how he does not believe in God, is an atheist. Everyone is entitled to their beliefs, but he bragging about it. I just watched him and thought, he might be a real B to live with, probably did Jen a favor. Everybody kept talking about how Jen WOULDN’T give him a baby. I heard they had been trying but it just had not happened yet. That’s no reason to cheat, though. If she didn’t want to have one, that should have been worked out before they got married. But hey, what do I know?LOL!!

Leggs

September 30th, 2009
12:44 pm

@Melo, if you saw me in person, you would see very much that my excitement is contained. I don’t wear my emotions on my sleeve. Never have, never will! Am I looking forward to the date, Yes. Will I be acting like a giddy little school girl. NOT. When I was one, I didn’t act like one so won’t do it now!

Melodramatizulu

September 30th, 2009
12:45 pm

but now its time to mature up and move on!

Elijay
i dont know what u saying..Move on on what??

the answer is Yes, i guess….

i just wanted to know.

Melodramatizulu

September 30th, 2009
12:46 pm

I am happy for u….Leggs

i know u good!

Raqi

September 30th, 2009
12:48 pm

Brad and Jennifer got divorced in October 2005.
Brad adopted Zahara Angelina’s daughter in January 2006.

Yeah he was married when they got together.

Kym aka Dominque Deveraux

September 30th, 2009
12:49 pm

All I know is this place is better than Reno 911 any day. Straight comedy. W8 friends pop in to say hello. Pass messages. He comes in under a new name..classic.

Ellijah..My Steelers will be just fine thank you. And don’t bring it up again less you bring out PoppaG..who has not come into rub it in my face that my Steelers lost to the Bungals after 9 straight wins against them in Bungal land.

Ms. Main

September 30th, 2009
12:50 pm

Kimmie He’s been on a few talk shows talking about how he does not believe in God, is an atheist

Really? Are you serious? You’re right…to each his own. You’re right again, no matter the circumstances between the two, it does not justify cheating.

Alright then Mr. Big Mouf

Ms. Main

September 30th, 2009
12:51 pm

Raqi….mmm hmmm, I thought so.

Professor

September 30th, 2009
12:51 pm

@Elijah…LOL you got me! I guess I will be quite now. Since my appetite is back now would be a good time to go get me some wings and french fries.

Dang I just turned to page three and I guess these hunger pangs will just have to wait! Mr. Big Mouth is in the blog building.

@Kym this place is one Fire! I like the blog better than reality tv. Can you say it with me…messy?

Ms. Main

September 30th, 2009
12:51 pm

I think Big Mouf is W8…he’s ready to spill his guts…

What’s stoppin ya?

Ms. Main

September 30th, 2009
12:53 pm

I like the blog better than reality tv

I had to stop highlighting numbers on my spreadsheet for this one…lol

Kym aka Dominque Deveraux

September 30th, 2009
12:53 pm

@Wisey D and you might as well use this whole mess as a marketing tool for Misadventures. There is a book in this whole mess I know it is.

Professor-GET YO' HANDS OUT OF MY POCKETS!

September 30th, 2009
12:54 pm

Straight comedy. W8 friends pop in to say hello. Pass messages. He comes in under a new name..classic.
******KYM, YESSSSSSS YESSSSSSS YESSSSSS******

Just asking

September 30th, 2009
12:54 pm

Mr Big Mouth. SPILL IT, whats your side?

Raqi

September 30th, 2009
12:56 pm

Yall are a trip!!!!

Ms.Main,Gurl move over let me sit down. Kym, Professor one of yall pass me some of that popcorn. JustSaying, you gon eat the rest of those Raisinettes?

Just asking

September 30th, 2009
12:56 pm

Finally some entertainment :)

Ms. Main

September 30th, 2009
12:56 pm

Mr Big Mouth. SPILL IT, whats your side?

Pure comedy

Tazzee

September 30th, 2009
12:57 pm

Dang – just when I thought we would get through a day without this W8 drama…. oh well.

Kym – he did make some moves in the FF league, so he hasn’t dropped off the face of the earth. Speaking of, I need to do my update for the week.

As far as Brad – I try to separate the entertainment from the personal. Unless the person is doing something heinous like molesting children, beating up on the women, etc, I will view them as entertainment. If I were to stop watching movies, shows, etc because someone committed adultery or didn’t share my spiritual beliefs I’d have to just resort to reading books…and then my book selection would be limited.

Just asking

September 30th, 2009
12:57 pm

@Raqi, No have some :)

AmazonRed™ - got my human Snuggie for fall

September 30th, 2009
12:58 pm

Oh snap. I left off on page 1 and we’re already on page 3. What did I miss.

Oh well, get ready for some old news.

I think there is something attractive about a married man that is committed to his relationship and not still shopping for opportunities.

@ Mo – exactly. The sad part is when the married guy lets you know he’s willing to break his vows with you. Turns him into Shrek!

Elijah ( Professor! What a woman????)

September 30th, 2009
12:59 pm

@PG…. You need to come and represent your Bengals! They could be 3-0 this year!

@Kym I think your Steelers are in trouble this year!

@Professor…..This is a like one of the T.V. realty shows!

@Raqi….Lamar Odom married a Kardishan in one month! Brad was ready to do the do with Angie, it does not always take a lifetime to make a quick decision in regards to a relationship!

Melodramatizulu

September 30th, 2009
12:59 pm

He’s been on a few talk shows talking about how he does….

just as well u talking bout Brad!

For a moment, i thoght,Daaaamn..who??? WD pple doing Opraah??
But i have a feeling,WD is geting a promo at her job soon.

Raqi

September 30th, 2009
1:00 pm

oh well

Tazzee Here have a seat beside me ’cause it just seems to not want to die out. We may as well watch too.

Sassy Me...juicy fruit...there can be only one :-)

September 30th, 2009
1:01 pm

Hey Eli…how you doin?….

Compelling

September 30th, 2009
1:01 pm

Yeah this has been goin’ on so long, I wanna hear it. Please put it ALL out there.

W8©

September 30th, 2009
1:02 pm

Wow..this is me right here…no need for me to come in under another name…Do i keep personal things personal…yup…I do owe a debt to someone on this blog..and i have had a personal relationship with someone on this blog…i have been getting texts daily..and phone calls..and those who called can share the response I gave if they like…and for those who are wondering..”it was if someone needs to get in contact with me they know how to, I dont care what people who dont know me or have any impact on my life think about me” I am glad I am entertainment for the masses though…but I can be reached the sameway I always have..and honestly I havent been on the Blog for quite a few weeks…and as I always say…Dont Yall Judge Me…lol…if you have the cell number it’s the same…and the email is to..att_rr@yahoo.com

Dream_n

September 30th, 2009
1:03 pm

@ Ms. Main
had to stop highlighting numbers on my spreadsheet for this one

LOL.. you’re silly..

man i hate being enticed by drama.. but this is interesting :)

Professor-GET YO' HANDS OUT OF MY POCKETS!

September 30th, 2009
1:03 pm

@Raqi this popcorn is a little buttery but here have some, and we have some gobbers and Tabs too. Help yourself

Just Saying

September 30th, 2009
1:03 pm

If you thought it was ugly before, it’s about to get even uglier. My prediction is that this blog will not survive this debacle.

Sassy Me...juicy fruit...there can be only one :-)

September 30th, 2009
1:03 pm

Ms. Main

September 30th, 2009
1:04 pm

Raqi…there’s enough room on the front row for all…lol

I’ll patronize (i.e. movies) Brad but I don’t see like I do after his greener grass move

Sassy Me...juicy fruit...there can be only one :-)

September 30th, 2009
1:05 pm

If you thought it was ugly before, it’s about to get even uglier. My prediction is that this blog will not survive this debacle.

:shock: :shock: :shock:

Professor-GET YO' HANDS OUT OF MY POCKETS!

September 30th, 2009
1:06 pm

In the words of Jr. from “That’s My Mama”

OOOOOOOOOOOOOOoooooooooooooooooooooooooooWWWWWwwweeeeeeeeeeeee

8-O

Ms. Main

September 30th, 2009
1:06 pm

I do owe a debt to someone on this blog..and i have had a personal relationship with someone on this blog

Cash and Kitty

Kym aka Dominque Deveraux

September 30th, 2009
1:08 pm

Oh the blog will survive of this I am sure. I like coming here..I have met nice people here..and I am not going to let someone else’s foolishness ruin it. All this drama had nothing to do with the blog other than it was common ground where all the loonies involved met. Well now…loonies have come back here for sympathy and they are not getting it like they want. Oh well. Have that pity party off the blog.

Demigod33

September 30th, 2009
1:10 pm

Dayum…the food was good…

ra

September 30th, 2009
1:11 pm

Ms.Main doesnot recognize?who are u?the pope?pls it is as old as the world ,mankind falls in and out of love,deal with it.It is not like BP and JA had kids.People let go of this topic already!

SexyCool - I take life as it comes.

September 30th, 2009
1:11 pm

Oh well, into each blog some drama must fall. C’est la vie.

Sassy Me...juicy fruit...there can be only one :-)

September 30th, 2009
1:12 pm

Oh well. Have that pity party off the blog.

:shock: :shock:

Oh the blog will survive of this I am sure.

Mr. Big Mouf (I got the Whole Scoop & Nothing but The Scoop...so help me Blog)

September 30th, 2009
1:13 pm

Ladies ladies ladies I never said I was that dude. Look at yall. LOL I just know a few on here and too many details than I care to share. But for real what do yall really want to know? This here is hysterical and sad at the same damn time. LMAO

Mo (aka Moeisha - on a sugar high )

September 30th, 2009
1:14 pm

Demigod33 – Thanx Chocolate Baby, hope you enjoyed yaself…..

alrighty then……LOL!

Raqi

September 30th, 2009
1:15 pm

Marcus/Malcom is that you?

Leggs

September 30th, 2009
1:15 pm

@SexyC, I had one sign that told me something wasn’t right. I will say this and I’ve kept this to myself. He would post about how he’s always “dapper” when he steps out, from head to toe. Said he never misses a beat. Well our one and only meet and greet said something different to me. The black suit he had on was wrinkled (I hate wrinkles) and looked like it came from K-mart even if it hadn’t. There wasn’t anything “dapper” about him that night and that stood out for me! I can see that suit like it was yesterday! That’s all I have to say on the situation.

Tazzee

September 30th, 2009
1:16 pm

Popcorn and plain M&M’s – that’s the ticket

W8©

September 30th, 2009
1:17 pm

@Leggs I was quite sweaty and wrinkled that night..but Kmart nope

Melodramatizulu

September 30th, 2009
1:17 pm

I really hate bright red lipstick on a dark skinned woman.

Add bright red nail polish and it gets uglier.

Is it just me??

AmazonRed™ - got my human Snuggie for fall

September 30th, 2009
1:17 pm

Since this is a dating column, I have some news. I have a date tonight and will report the evening’s activities here tomorrow

Yay Leggs! Have a great time! You can email me the details if no one wants to hear them here. I’d love to know how you guys met and all that. :)

Cemeeli

September 30th, 2009
1:18 pm

Cee now kickin’ sweettea over…

scuchin over….Leggs long as he aint old…

Elijah ( Professor! What a woman????)

September 30th, 2009
1:18 pm

Hello Sassy! What’s cooking at the CDC?

Kym aka Dominque Deveraux

September 30th, 2009
1:18 pm

The prodigal blogger returns!!!

Cemeeli

September 30th, 2009
1:21 pm

it does not always take a lifetime to make a quick decision in regards to a relationship!

ah, Elijah not a lifetime…not a lifetime…i agree.

Elijah ( Professor! What a woman????)

September 30th, 2009
1:21 pm

@Cee some of these old dudes have a lot of firrrrre! Why are you hating on the old dudes? :smile:

By the way ladies when some men reach 40 plus years old age they want a young tender to keep them young! :wink:

Raqi

September 30th, 2009
1:21 pm

Yeah, yeah, yeah Leggs we get it, date, tonight, reports that’s all good but tell us more about that wrinkled bargain basement suit. Was his shoes at least on point?

LOL Just kidding. Have fun chica.

Professor-GET YO' HANDS OUT OF MY POCKETS!

September 30th, 2009
1:21 pm

I am going to faint if I don’t get something to eat, but I will be back!

I am going to need someone to tivo this for me…lol.

Where is angie?

Tazzee

September 30th, 2009
1:22 pm

Leggs – enjoy your time tonight, I can’t wait to read about it.

I have a date tonight – it’s with some friend girls but I’m going out on a school night too ;-)

Mr. Big Mouf (I got the Whole Scoop & Nothing but The Scoop...so help me Blog)

September 30th, 2009
1:22 pm

LOL at some of yall getting the hell out of dodge or just straight shut the hell up real quick. Even got the dude to come out and say a few words.

Sassy Me...juicy fruit...there can be only one :-)

September 30th, 2009
1:23 pm

What’s cooking at the CDC?

Everybody is totally consumed with the H1N1 vaccine trials….we’ll be getting the shots ourselves in about two weeks but I’m not sure I want to. I’ve never had the flu and have only gotten a flu shot once so we’ll have to see how that plays out. I may just get the regular shot and leave the new one alone…I haven’t made up my mind yet.

AmazonRed™ - got my human Snuggie for fall

September 30th, 2009
1:24 pm

I though ARED was a part of the W8 cut, surely she knows something since her & Page was so called BFF, funny.

Ahh…here we go.

Nope. Not part of it at all. Page is my BFF cuz she cooks Mexican food. Like I’ve long stated on here, I have my own life and own friends. Doesn’t mean it doesn’t intersect with others, but I’m always on the fringe, never a main player.

Oh, but do I know more than what’s been posted on here. Yup. But it’s all just gossip and doesn’t involve me in the least.

Do better, sweetie!

Cemeeli

September 30th, 2009
1:24 pm

Lijah “Old” and “fire” in the same sentence don’t even sound right! lol :)

Sassy Me...juicy fruit...there can be only one :-)

September 30th, 2009
1:25 pm

LOL at some of yall getting the hell out of dodge or just straight shut the hell up real quick. Even got the dude to come out and say a few words.

:shock: :shock:

Demigod33

September 30th, 2009
1:26 pm

My prediction is that this blog will not survive this debacle.

Says who?

W8…your ‘Pimp of da Year’ cup is being made per order…you put in some work this summer…when is your book coming out?

Dream_n

September 30th, 2009
1:28 pm

@ sassy..
please stop doing that icon… I am cracking up over here… Lioness does that all the time…

by the way where is that chica!!!

Cemeeli

September 30th, 2009
1:28 pm

Sassy – I’ve never gotten the flu either…never had the shot. They are administering it (influenza shots) here at work in the Health Center but i have reserves about that shot.

Same way i feel about chicken pox…never had it…don’t want to see what a vaccine would do to my immune.

Demigod33

September 30th, 2009
1:29 pm

By the way ladies when some men reach 40 plus years old age they want a young tender to keep them young!

I see those dudes all the time…buying puddy…old pimpin my foot!

Raqi

September 30th, 2009
1:30 pm

Tazzee I also have a date tonight. It’s with a hot bowl of chicken and dumplings, my favorite pair of flannel lounging pants and a one hour slot of CBS comedy.

AmazonRed™ - got my human Snuggie for fall

September 30th, 2009
1:31 pm

Any other questions Just Asking

Any other wrong scenarios DK?

Looks like y’all the one who’s quiet now. Maybe cuz that foot’s in your mouth? :lol:

Just asking

September 30th, 2009
1:32 pm

Why we got to email u W8, tell your side to us so we know the truth, lol, yea right

SexyCool - I ain't even mad.

September 30th, 2009
1:32 pm

I will also NOT be taking the H1N1 shot and am leery about taking the regular flu shot. The one time I’ve taken it I got as sick as I would have if I’d just had the damn flu.

Kym aka Dominque Deveraux

September 30th, 2009
1:32 pm

Well my date is with a test for fam law. This will not be hot at all. It will be lukewarm at best.

Just asking

September 30th, 2009
1:33 pm

AMAZON, no one’s foot’s in their mouth Trick, you are boring & not worth me typing.

W8©

September 30th, 2009
1:34 pm

Do i keep personal things personal…yup……and for those who are wondering..” if someone needs to get in contact with me they know how to, I dont care what people who dont know me or have any impact on my life think about me”

Just asking

September 30th, 2009
1:34 pm

SO W8, Big Mouth, which one or ones you took money from?

AmazonRed™ - got my human Snuggie for fall

September 30th, 2009
1:35 pm

Cash and Kitty

:lol:

Sassy Me...juicy fruit...there can be only one :-)

September 30th, 2009
1:35 pm

Dream my bad…..it’s like a reflex or sumthin’.

Cameeli I understand about the shot,I only got it the one time I did b/c it was here at work,it was free and my older co-worker TOLD me I was going to get it so she took me with her. My younger sister is a nurse and she got the flu shot and it made her kinda ill so I advised her to defenitely NOT get the H1N1 shot.

Miss Moni

September 30th, 2009
1:36 pm

Melodramatizulu

September 30th, 2009
1:36 pm

‘Pimp of da Year’??

Dude is single and playing 2 or more chics at once,last time i checked has real honor in playadom.I wldnt hate dude on that.
My commiserations wld go to the blog chics,if any, who got played on the finger like a yoyo.
The only real “blemish” on dude maybe the money thing,if true.
Now,as a former hoe myself,thats one thing i neva did,feed off a woman’s flow.
Infact,i fed chics on pork chop and steak on my dime.But thats kinda old,when playas were real gentleman too!

Raqi

September 30th, 2009
1:37 pm

After having the flu a few years ago that resulted in me aching, throwing up for two days straight, getting dehydrated and spending a day in the hospital I get flu shot. I have heard of people having a bad reaction to it but I haven’t yet.

Now this new one, I don’t know.

AmazonRed™ - got my human Snuggie for fall

September 30th, 2009
1:37 pm

AMAZON, no one’s foot’s in their mouth Trick, you are boring & not worth me typing.

Your posts prove otherwise. You’re the one who came up in here with my name in your mouth.

Do better hon. :D

Sassy Me...juicy fruit...there can be only one :-)

September 30th, 2009
1:38 pm

which one or ones you took money from?

:shock: :shock:

Okay Dream_n I quit….for real this time….I think

W8©(alot howl at the moon..but can the moon hear them)

September 30th, 2009
1:39 pm

Ciao’, I have other things to tend to now…

Mac

September 30th, 2009
1:39 pm

Who cares!
Brad is wit a beautiful Jolie..Bat face Jen was a downer and shun her responsibilities as a wife and partner to Brad.
Brad left her and he is very happy living with his family that he wanted so badly!
Jen said Brad never cheated.
It think the ex wife Jen would know..lol
So Brad and Jen are over big deal.
The love wasn’t that strong or great.
Jen is living the life she wanted.Tanning,Eating lettuce and making bull shit movies that bombs!
So is life!!

AmazonRed™ - got my human Snuggie for fall

September 30th, 2009
1:39 pm

Oh and by the way. I called Page my BFF and I don’t even have her phone number! Y’all fall for the okey doke so easily. It’s funny! :lol:

Mo (aka Moeisha - on a sugar high )

September 30th, 2009
1:40 pm

Sassy/SCool – I have never had the flu or the flu shot and I dont think i will be participating this year either. Everyone I know that has had a flu shot has gotten sick. Im even weary of allowing Lil Mo to get one but I would rather be safe than sorry with the kid.

Raqi – care to share some of those chicken & dumplings chica?? Havent had that in ages!

Mr. Big Mouf (I got the Whole Scoop & Nothing but The Scoop...so help me Blog)

September 30th, 2009
1:41 pm

Dream_n did it ever occur to you that Lioness may be in hiding with few other ones? As a matter of fact the last time she was on here was when so called blog regular called her out on some factual information. Though she never replied to it. And by the way blog regular, that’s not just hearsay. That there is the truth. Yeah, I caught that. Like I said, some of these women got what they deserved. If they would just pay attention alot could have been avoided. Shaking my head.

AmazonRed™ - got my human Snuggie for fall

September 30th, 2009
1:43 pm

:lol: @ Mr. Big Mouf.

Kym aka Dominque Deveraux

September 30th, 2009
1:44 pm

You know what is really funny. Oh W8 posted once that he likes the crazy women. He wanted to date oh girl from the Real Housewives..well now it appears he has a whole collection of crazy women. If you crazy he will come Enjoy!!!

Miss Moni

September 30th, 2009
1:47 pm

LOL @ the Great Debate!!!

Cemeeli

September 30th, 2009
1:47 pm

Sassy – Thanks for that additive. I’m very careful on those shots…

The last time i was “sick to the bed” that ghetto doggon AppleBees food poison me! My life was on the line…i was messed up for days!

Sassy Me...juicy fruit...there can be only one :-)

September 30th, 2009
1:48 pm

This is better than when that crazy chick shot Victor on The Young and the Restless last week…

Sassy Me...juicy fruit...there can be only one :-)

September 30th, 2009
1:51 pm

Cameeli I’m wary of it,too that’s why I’m not breaking my neck to go and get it. Whatever you decide I hope it works out for you.

Tazzee

September 30th, 2009
1:52 pm

AmRed – just noticed your tagline, me likey ;-)

Raqi

September 30th, 2009
1:52 pm

Mo the God-mother-in-law made it last night while she sat with the baby. I tell you that woman is a godsend. LOL She also made what was Mason’s favorite cake as a little boy for his birthday, Peanut butter. I thought it was caramel icing until I got close enough to smell it. He had to tell her that he could not have the cake because of my allergy but I told him to go ahead and at least eat one slice. Being that he likes it and it is his birthday.

I encouraged him to eat it all the while thinking ‘dude, I ain’t trying to kiss you, hug you, love you or nothing tonight. I just want to go to bed’. So he had his cake and slept in the guest bedroom. Happy Birthday to him.

But yeah those dumplings are calling my name and I don’t have to cook tonight.

AmazonRed™ - got my human Snuggie for fall

September 30th, 2009
1:55 pm

LOL @ Tazzee. Thanks.

Sassy Me...juicy fruit...there can be only one :-)

September 30th, 2009
1:55 pm

Ohh Ohhh Ohh..just throw it in the bag…

THE INFAMOUS DK

September 30th, 2009
1:56 pm

Ok.. Right..

Come on wit it Big Mouf..

Just asking

September 30th, 2009
1:58 pm

Ok W8, if I email you then will you tell :)

Melodramatizulu

September 30th, 2009
1:58 pm

me too Tazzee!!

let us know what that snuggie look like Ared!

NY2GA, Inc.

September 30th, 2009
1:59 pm

@Kym
i hear u on that 12:12PM

On the debacle-

If I’d gotten ganked, hoodwinked, tricked, bamboozled and let astray by a person to the extent that I gave up money, puddy, or anything else I wouldn’t come on a blog and put myself on blast either. After putting the dudes prom picture up on the website, the world knows who is involved now. But even after doing all of that, it still won’t stop him from finding the next woman that will be receptive to his advances. G-A-M-E.

BTW, Why didn’t ya’ll use the picture from his FBI identification card for his profile?

I kid, I kid.

Toodles!

Compelling

September 30th, 2009
2:01 pm

LMAO @ prom picture!!!

Leggs

September 30th, 2009
2:02 pm

@W8 ~ I did say even if it didn’t come from KMart. You set the record straight!

@Raqi, he said it didn’t come from the basement of Kmart. Since I didn’t buy it I can’t comment. LOL

Enter your comments here

AmazonRed™ - got my human Snuggie for fall

September 30th, 2009
2:02 pm

let us know what that snuggie look like Ared!

:lol: Once again, let’s not read too much into these things, melo. :lol:

THE INFAMOUS DK

September 30th, 2009
2:02 pm

Ok Lioness your turn..

Page – Ur up next..

Lets get it..

Ms. Main

September 30th, 2009
2:02 pm

RAMs.Main doesnot recognize?who are u?the pope?pls it is as old as the world ,mankind falls in and out of love,deal with it.It is not like BP and JA had kids.People let go of this topic already!

Heck yeah, it’s Ms.Pope to you…lol. This is a freakin blog. Speaking on topic is odd to you becauuuuuse? Staying on topic shouldn’t be thought of as bizzare. Rare but not bizarre. Gheesh! I could give a rat’s azz about folks falling in and out of love, if you’re married….YOU LOST THE FREAKING RIGHT TO RANDOMLY SWAP AZZ at will. The ordination of marriage is as old as the world as well, thus keeping your vows shouldn’t be rocket science neither should it be as simple as changing drawers. Marriage and mankind (as you stated) all came along about the same time. Being ho-ish was brought by the thinking and the likes of folks like you.

Alvin

September 30th, 2009
2:03 pm

I would like to take the time to publicly apologize to a “BRUH” for any negative words I’ve spoken concerning this….Buuuuullish!!!

Melodramatizulu

September 30th, 2009
2:03 pm

BTW, Why didn’t ya’ll use the picture from his FBI identification card for his profile?

Now thats hilariouuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuus!

Joe Claire is in town,is that u NY2GA, Inc???????

:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

Cemeeli

September 30th, 2009
2:03 pm

Tazzee – The Snuggie…for-real is quit thin take it to a football game tryna stay toasty …yeah maybe the first few minutes…the entire game yo’ull be a shakin in that thing….its thin/lanky and my kid even talks about how you can see through it.

They have them in TJMaxx, same price…we got ours as a gift last year.

Kym--Football and SOAP fan.

September 30th, 2009
2:04 pm

You know what this is not like Young and the Restless at all. This is more like the old tv show SOAP. Remember SOAP? Benson was the spinoff. Yep, unbelievable drama and comedy.

Elijah ( Professor! What a woman????)

September 30th, 2009
2:04 pm

This is some funny ish! Now some of you ladies are stating W8 was not all cracked up to be all he was stating, but now some you are stating you new the obvious! This brother made a lot of you tingle up in here!

Leggs

September 30th, 2009
2:05 pm

@Ms. Main ~ alrighty then! Anybody else need a toke on the peace pipe??

Kym--Football and SOAP fan.

September 30th, 2009
2:07 pm

@Cee excuse me but I am a snuggie owner..and I will not listen to ill type about the Snuggie. It works wonders for me and lying on the sofa watching tv and taking naps its the bomb.

Professor---eating a wing or tow

September 30th, 2009
2:09 pm

Big Mouf…you said a mouth full.

How about a toast to you…and we will pour some out to all of our homies that are hiding…may they find the courage of a lion to slither out…

Cemeeli

September 30th, 2009
2:09 pm

lol “tingly” fellin…Why is the word so popular?

Sassy Me...juicy fruit...there can be only one :-)

September 30th, 2009
2:12 pm

Anybody else need a toke on the peace pipe??

Ummm, what’s IN the pipe?….

Professor---eating a wing or two

September 30th, 2009
2:12 pm

Elijah,

Please explain tingle..lol

I cannot do the snuggie for some reason it looks spooky to me

Cemeeli

September 30th, 2009
2:13 pm

Kym – Use a Throw maam…then comeback and tell me you were not ‘as’ or, ‘more’ comfy/warm with it.

If my kid offers that to me when i’m dozzin off to sleep while i’m reading/t.v watchin…I just look at him …then he puts the throw around me…

…~thank you momma’s big man

Raqi...I Prefer a Snuggler

September 30th, 2009
2:14 pm

Are the snuggies made out of fleece? They look like fleece on the tv. I know aggwitty stated the other week that they are dryclean only which is a bit much for a thin see thru fleece draping.

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

September 30th, 2009
2:14 pm

Yeah Cee, you know I told yall I gotta homemade Snuggie and it’s ALL GOOD!

Raqi...I Prefer a Snuggler

September 30th, 2009
2:16 pm

tingly

Cemeeli it’s so popular ’cause if feels so good. LOL

AmazonRed™ - got my human Snuggie for fall

September 30th, 2009
2:16 pm

This brother made a lot of you tingle up in here!

I think those ladies are the ones not saying much at all on here.

Other than that, one person’s black text on a white screen really ain’t all that different than another.

Cemeeli

September 30th, 2009
2:17 pm

plus…when your arms are not in the sleeve they all hanging and going everywhere…just lay a blanket on me…

Kym--Football and SOAP fan.

September 30th, 2009
2:17 pm

@Cee I like my Snuggie thank you I own a throw, blankets and my son has a handmade poncho. But for a quick nap Snuggie works. I can read in my Snuggie, type in my Snuggie. It makes me happy and really that is all that counts.

Elijah ( Professor! What a woman????)

September 30th, 2009
2:19 pm

@Prefessor….. You are killing me over here! How did your operation go? Also how is the recovery coming? Do I need to bring you some lemon pepper wings this weekend? :wink:

W. Diva can you pull up some those tingling comments from some of the ladies from the blog when W8 was taking over the blog? :lol:

AmazonRed™ - got my human Snuggie for fall

September 30th, 2009
2:20 pm

Yeah, I don’t think Snuggies were really designed for the outside. Though it shows it can go anywhere in the commercial.

AmazonRed™ - got my human Snuggie for fall

September 30th, 2009
2:21 pm

Elijah – Why don’t you name names since you’re so sure about this tingling thing. Clearly it stuck with you.

Raqi...I Prefer a Snuggler

September 30th, 2009
2:22 pm

I was just looking online and I see the Snuggies come in sports themes. At $20 a pop I know what I will be giving to all the sport fans on my Christmas list. LOL

Dream_n

September 30th, 2009
2:22 pm

I cannot do the snuggie for some reason it looks spooky to me

looks like a monk’s rob IMO…. i’ll stick with my blankets….

tingle: lol

Ms. Main
You okay chica!!!!

Cemeeli

September 30th, 2009
2:23 pm

Don’t worry be happy…ooooo…oooo…

Kym We’ll you, Jr., and Lil Cee can coordinate the Sunggie Club and have group hugs, lunches around the campfire, and toast some marshmallows wearing it. I’mma stick to old fashion blanket/throws…

I think it’s the Gadget Gal thing you got going, they missed me with the Snuggie perk… Now once i get the Kindle and try that on for size, we can form a new support group…

THE INFAMOUS DK

September 30th, 2009
2:23 pm

Scary People please post under your real name.. Y’all cant get beat thru the computer.. That button has not been invented yet..

Raqi...I Prefer a Snuggler

September 30th, 2009
2:24 pm

Ms. Main

September 30th, 2009
2:25 pm

Leggs LOL…yeah, this ain’t the day. Aunt Flow came in kicking the door down a couple of hours ago. Folks kill me, when you won’t/don’t condone what’s obviously wrong, looking atcha sideways. I mean heck yeah, it’s the freaking USA, do whatcha feel. Don’t get mad though because someone call it for what it is.

For W8 – scandoulous written all over his posts. Especially the day he made mention of skipping folks posts…I guess….he felt beneath him. A joke!

AmazonRed™ - got my human Snuggie for fall

September 30th, 2009
2:26 pm

Raqi – Yup, I bought a college themed Snuggie for one of my friends.

If you buy several at once, the price goes down. So it’s a good idea for folks who want them for Christmas.

Queen Bee

September 30th, 2009
2:26 pm

Never mess with a married person ever, not even if they are legally separated. A spouse will hurt you if they find out.

Sassy Me...juicy fruit...there can be only one :-)

September 30th, 2009
2:26 pm

DK stop it I say…..hey that rhymed…..

AmazonRed™ - got my human Snuggie for fall

September 30th, 2009
2:26 pm

To clarify, the price goes down on the Snuggies if you buy em on line. You can’t get all the college ones in local stores, so online is the way to go.

Melodramatizulu

September 30th, 2009
2:27 pm

W. Diva can you pull up some those tingling comments from some of the ladies from the blog when W8 was taking over the blog?

gossip is addictive, aint it Elijah??

i thought u said we moving on…………….

where is Regular blogger and Sybil…?? that makes 2 females…

Add in the other crickets..2 or three..we got some sexx orgy and lots of stamina on here!

eeeky,eeeky,eeeeky,eeeeeky!! thats the noise of some springy mattressess, bouncing inside the apartments in the burbs around the A!

:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

:lol: :lol: :lol:

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

September 30th, 2009
2:27 pm

Cee – I’m a Gadget girl too. I confess. I want the little Krystal burger frying pan I see them advertising. Imma get it too.

Ms. Main

September 30th, 2009
2:27 pm

I missed my daggone cut off…reading this blog

THE INFAMOUS DK

September 30th, 2009
2:27 pm

Prof – Yes may they have the courage..

pui

September 30th, 2009
2:28 pm

sick Angelina!

Mr. Big Mouf (I got the Whole Scoop & Nothing but The Scoop...so help me Blog)

September 30th, 2009
2:29 pm

@Just ask first off I didn’t take one red cent from anybody. I got bread and thankful enough- a job.

Before I answer who because it was more than one even though dude implied there only being one individual. Ill just venture to say everyone on here knows the woman wasn’t as tough as she put on. But I know she hurt. But she is grown. And the so are the other birds.

But what I don’t get is from what I see on here and sometimes read is that alot of these women read like theyre workin’ with something. More advise then a little bit given on here five days a week. And some of them still can’t get right?

I’m disappointed in a way but at the same time I give a head nod to those who can pull it off in such a small circle. So with that Ill just say Staceye and Lioness I hope yall get it right next time. But for real yall played yourselves on some real uck shyt and for that you gets no pass. But dont fret because yall know yall werent the only ones.

And a forehead kiss to the ones who recognized game and like a lady decided to retreat. And there aint nothing wrong with that considering the circumstances.

Cemeeli

September 30th, 2009
2:29 pm

@ Raqi – You know moms. Yes, I have washed mine it is the same it was when we got it.

Ms. Main

September 30th, 2009
2:29 pm

Dream_n

yeah, just gotta pull a few strings here at work to make something happen that I was suppose to do….foolin ’round laughing at folks on da blog. I been in my job tooo long to be failing. I’m getting off this mug…(I’ll be back).

Kym--Football and SOAP fan.

September 30th, 2009
2:30 pm

I already told my friends and family due to the current economic crisis everyone is to only give gifts of 20.00 or less(cause that is all I am paying) So everyone is getting a Snuggie.

Professor---eating a wing or two

September 30th, 2009
2:30 pm

Scary People please post under your real name.. Y’all cant get beat thru the computer.. That button has not been invented yet..
********I think some of them know that if they do post it is going down…lmao!******
@Elijah, my surgery went well and my recovery is going great. I still do not have my stamina 100%, but at least my sense of humor is back. Thanks for asking..
I did not realize that you delivered wings…do you deliver Krispy Kreme doughnuts and cold milk too?

Leggs

September 30th, 2009
2:30 pm

Yes, Kym, more like SOAP than anything else. Loved SOAP. Great laughter much like when Saturday Night Live was in its heyday. Constant laughter!

@Elijah, I certainly give that to you. Quite comical!

Professor---eating a wing or two

September 30th, 2009
2:31 pm

@Kym do you have a large family? My friends and I stopped exchanging gifts for the most part some years ago. As for my list I usually have 6 names at the most and I start in October.

Just asking

September 30th, 2009
2:32 pm

LOL @ Ms Main

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

September 30th, 2009
2:32 pm

Leggs – Do you remember that show Mary Harmann?

THE INFAMOUS DK

September 30th, 2009
2:32 pm

Mouf – Like Gucci Mayne say “Well Damn”

Care to eloborate on who else..

AmazonRed™ - got my human Snuggie for fall

September 30th, 2009
2:34 pm

While I always applaud those who will go head and “name names…”

Big Mouf, who are you? Cuz it’s not fair to name drop while hiding. ;)

Just asking

September 30th, 2009
2:34 pm

Thanks Big Mouf

Professor---eating a wing or two

September 30th, 2009
2:34 pm

@Melo whatcha talking about Willis? LMAO I just read what you wrote…

Cemeeli

September 30th, 2009
2:35 pm

Kimmie – I remember you comment about Mr. Snugg…auh, imma okay with babysitting The Teacups just in case. :)

lurking

September 30th, 2009
2:36 pm

I am guessing that even though the blog family is viewing this as entertainment. Someone is bitter, pissed off and feeling vengeful. You all log off at 5 everyday. Either “w8″ is pissed off planning some get back and reading this stuff, getting angrier by the post. Or some woman/women are hurt, venting and planning revenge on him. More than likely him because the women have taken their turn and he has yet to, that we know of. At some point everything was mutual between the parties involved. I really do not know, but now I actually think we may be causing more harm than good right now in the real world right now.

Lurking

September 30th, 2009
2:36 pm

SO How did he play them exactly Big mouf

Leggs

September 30th, 2009
2:38 pm

The Mart Hartman Show….yes!

Lurking

September 30th, 2009
2:38 pm

Hey lurking, they put it out there.

Tazzee

September 30th, 2009
2:39 pm

I wouldn’t mind having a Snuggie – it seems that the benefit of a snuggie over a throw is that when I want to read, my arms won’t get cold. And when I move around, my feet will still be covered. The downside is – it looks like an inconvenience when I have to use the bathroom. A MAJOR inconvenience.

With that said – I have a three Falcons throws (got all the same year for Christmas) and a Falcons Snuggie would complete the package ;-)

Melodramatizulu

September 30th, 2009
2:39 pm

oh, oh!!

name dropping ha??

Jamoca

September 30th, 2009
2:40 pm

Oh my dayum!!! LMAO at all o’ ya’ll. LOL but I’m tryin’ not to laugh…but dang!

I cain’t look…I cain’t look!

The topic…what’s the topic? Oh being attracted to married men. Naw!…becaue as soon as I find out, dude suddenly looks like a leper.

People in general that are happily involved in committed relationships not necessarily married. The same goes for longterm….it puts a smile on my face everytime! Especially because the man’s there simply because he wants to be not because a piece of paper says he’s expected to be…just as much as the married folk wanting to take it a step further being binded by law. Either way, it’s the committment of it all…and the actions that speak so loud, that you couldn’t hear the words coming out of their mouths anyway.

I need a triscuit….bad. Just dayum!

lurking

September 30th, 2009
2:40 pm

Lurking, I just dont want to have someone getting physically hurt off the blog due to our wanting to be entertained.

Kym--Football and SOAP fan.

September 30th, 2009
2:41 pm

Okay so Big Mouf is W8 undercover(no shocker there) figured it was either Elijah or Big Mouf could be both. So Lioness and Staceye are the ones he humped and jacked for their paper? Wow.

Dream_n

September 30th, 2009
2:41 pm

This is like a bad car accident… It’s tragic to look at, but you can’t help but watch.

AmazonRed™ - got my human Snuggie for fall

September 30th, 2009
2:41 pm

Tazzee – I don’t think your feet really get covered. It’s really a blanket with arms. That’s the appeal folks got cold arms when they had to reach for the remote or were on the laptop. Now its’ all together.

Seems like using the bathroom would be pretty easy as you just lift up the blanket.

THE INFAMOUS DK

September 30th, 2009
2:42 pm

Alright who wanna meet Infamous? Im picking up where W8 left off.. I am breaking my Blog anonymity for this here.. Whats ya’lls favorite bar and I’ll meet ya there.. How ever many of ya’ll wanna come out come on.. I got the bar the entire night.. Its time ya’ll see how a sho nuff do it.. Atlalien@yahoo.com Make sure you got on heels cause I wont be checking for you if you dont.. And the Tan leather in the Car looks good with that fancy lipstick.. Dont worry I’ll never ask you for money..

Sassy Me...juicy fruit...there can be only one :-)

September 30th, 2009
2:44 pm

:shock: :shock: :shock:

I’m sorry Dream….

Compelling

September 30th, 2009
2:44 pm

Dang…I never thought the names would actually come out. But there you have it…

Tazzee

September 30th, 2009
2:44 pm

lurking – that is why this isn’t entertainment for me. These are people’s lives. And folks wonder why people don’t talk about their personal experiences on here…

IMO – if you aren’t transparent enough to share yours, you have no right to comment on others but this blog is like a big peep show where folks can comment other folks’ shortcomings while keeping theirs under wraps.

I know some may say – well they shouldn’t put it out there if they don’t want others to comment – but I say, why take so much pleasure in the pain, hurt, embarassment of others? What does that say about you?

It’s really sad to me – but hey, to each his own. I never took pleasure in shows like RHOA, or Being Bobby Brown either. I just don’t think someone’s real life is for entertainment, even if they choose to put it out there.

East Point's Own

September 30th, 2009
2:45 pm

OK, so like I have a job which requires me to work…. so I can go weeks/months without checking the MIA blog… soooo who hooked up (met up) with who? and what did I miss????

Ms. Main

September 30th, 2009
2:45 pm

Folks being physically harmed? Trick or treating ain’t new to this planet. Sometimes you win sometimes you lose…it’s all chance. Chuck it up to life and keep it moving. Please don’t let no one get hurt over some frackle nackle….seriously

mytw♥cents

September 30th, 2009
2:45 pm

Is AS the World BLOG TURNS on yet??? My ZULU summarizer, can you help me out with any missed tidbits?

I almost miss the days of temping when I could refresh more than once evry 3 hours. Tempin’ ain’t easy, but it sure is fun…

Sassy Me...juicy fruit...there can be only one :-)

September 30th, 2009
2:46 pm

Now see there DK…..you ain’t right :(

Tazzee

September 30th, 2009
2:47 pm

AmRed – I can’t imagine having to lift a blanket to use the bathroom

I still want one though – I’ll probably keep my H2O consumption to a minimum when I’m under the Snugster.

THE INFAMOUS DK

September 30th, 2009
2:48 pm

Get at me… Im in a flirty mood today..

Leggs

September 30th, 2009
2:48 pm

Ummm, what’s IN the pipe?… The only thing that goes w/peace pipe and toke in the same sentence…that green leafy like stuff.

@BigMouf, I’m giving you your own Bong. Goodness Gracious! Do you feel better getting all that off your chest.

Sassy Me...juicy fruit...there can be only one :-)

September 30th, 2009
2:48 pm

Heeey Mytwo I read what you said about cocktails yesterday but I was gone by the time you posted it….that’s cool just keep me in the loop about details.

Cemeeli

September 30th, 2009
2:49 pm

Tazz Mae – Girl, you’re taking blankets with to the bathroom?

Kym--Football and SOAP fan.

September 30th, 2009
2:50 pm

@lurking lurker whoever. All parties involved love this drama..that is why they are involved. You have the run tell that person who is playing both sides. The one trying to plead his case to anyone who will listen..and the ones who feel shame(cause that is what it is) cause they got caught up. Now the anger was on the airwaves from the start and is still on the airwaves. I am pretty sure those involved know how to contact ole boy..they have broken bread and did the humpy dance so all this acting brand new stuff is getting old. Matter of fact it was not W8 who brought the drama to the blog it was someone undercover who mentioned he owed them money who brought this all out. So all this spill over to real life. Hell from the looks and language of this they were in living color all along.

lurking

September 30th, 2009
2:50 pm

Ms. Main, as in the news, people are not logical female or male. Especially when they feel they have been wronged or made out to look like a fool. Even though a fool they may be.

Dream_n

September 30th, 2009
2:51 pm

@ sassy lmao..

@ Tazzee you are so right on your post,
but to play devils advocate.. Some people put their lives on a “blog” and expect not to be ridiculed a lil… I know I got my share of bashing when i first came on here, but didn’t let it bother me b/c everyone has their own skeletons (just as you said).

Compelling

September 30th, 2009
2:51 pm

My thing is this…everyone here is an adult. We all makes decisions and we all have to live with the consequences. I say you live and you learn. Take what you can from the situation, even if it’s just experience, and move on. At the end of the day…this is just a blog.

Leggs

September 30th, 2009
2:51 pm

Hurtful! Everyone involved is hurt. Some more than others. This, to say the least, has been RI DIC U LOUS, comical, sad, eyes wide open moments with mouth dropping to the floor, etc. Let’s iron over this wrinkle and move along! Whatcha say??

THE INFAMOUS DK

September 30th, 2009
2:52 pm

[Chorus 1]
I don’t want to move too fast, but
Can’t resist your sexy ass
Just spread, spread for me
(I can’t, I can’t wait to get you home)
Don’t want to come on too strong, but
I’ll play in you all day long
Just spread, spread for me
(I can’t, I can’t wait to get you home)

[Verse 1]
I… I can’t read minds, but I can read yours
I think she says that she wants to pour your..
your… yourself all over me
What you think? I could be wrong, but peoples don’t lie
And if they do, bu God, they must fry! (fry?!)
You know, like electric chair
The way you stare (yeah I’m there)
You committed a crime and I’m the victim

[Rap]
I’ve got an eye out for she who cries out passionately
We’ll do things backwardly, forwardly, horizontally
I’m too young to be settling down
quick to change my mind tomorrow
So now can I borrow your timid torso
More so than your soul, honest me gotta be how I roll
Fuck the rhythm, tuck the rhythm under your bosom
You’re the prism, Shirley Chislom
Was the first, let’s rehearse making a baby
Put in your order, I want a baby daughter
Dance on the tip of my tongue
Shake the clouds ’til there’s no more wetness in them
Tell your homegirls that you will send them
A postcard from 3000… HARD!

[Hook 2]
Don’t want to make you feel strange, but
Don’t let these words be in vain, so
Spread, spread for me
(I can’t, I can’t wait to get you home)
Nature knows that I want you, but
Not unless you want me too, so
Spread, spread for me
(I can’t, I can’t wait to get you home)

Ms. Main

September 30th, 2009
2:52 pm

Let’s tag this time next year to the Annual Blogfest…meet and re-meet and greet

Willie Dynamite

September 30th, 2009
2:52 pm

WoWWWWWWWWWWWW

Dream_n

September 30th, 2009
2:52 pm

@ Kym

co-sign your post….

@ DK tsk tsk lol

Melodramatizulu

September 30th, 2009
2:53 pm

And folks wonder why people don’t talk about their personal experiences on here

Tazzee,actually they do!

i dont think Staceye wld fall for that,that aint true..She seemed kinda tougher than that.Cant imagine her suckking dude dyckk. :lol:
But what do i know??

I have phluckked some really nice but tough women myself in the past, after showing them my benign side.So it does happen.

Besides,every man or woman has a weakness.
And for a woman,,yeah,u can buy and stimulate urself on toys all u want.
But at some point, u want the thrill of some real warm, drip down gush, down ur cootie!

Leggs

September 30th, 2009
2:54 pm

I’ll let anybody who’s interested in knowing….I want a Snuggie for my B-day or even Christmas.

AmazonRed™ - got my human Snuggie for fall

September 30th, 2009
2:54 pm

I never took pleasure in shows like RHOA, or Being Bobby Brown either. I just don’t think someone’s real life is for entertainment, even if they choose to put it out there.

Tazzee – I think it just shows that it’s so common now, that one can get desensitized to it. I mean, am entertained by reality shows and this stuff.

You just gotta be smart. I was probably one of the most vocal saying that all the blog kickin it was probably not a good idea. Of course I got branded as hatin’ or something. I mean, you gotta think about what happens when you get familiar with folks you don’t really know.

Hope folks can learn from it, and I never want folks to be harmed or hurt, but some of it is comical too.

Tazzee

September 30th, 2009
2:54 pm

Cemeeli – :lol: I’m talking about if I had on a Snuggie and had to use the bathroom. When I’m under the throw/blanket – I just jump up, go and then run back under the blanket. If I had on a Snuggie, it would go with me and I’d have to hike it up to go.

Anyway, TMI…

Sassy Me...juicy fruit...there can be only one :-)

September 30th, 2009
2:54 pm

The only thing that goes w/peace pipe and toke in the same sentence…that green leafy like stuff.

Like the song says… Pass di dutchie p’on di left hand side :)

Ms. Main

September 30th, 2009
2:56 pm

lurking Oh, I agree….scorned folks always tipped the scale a bit more than merited. I guess now, when the Rico Suaves pops in and attaches (all flirty and giggly, meetin and greetin….cause ya been tagged) to certain monikers, beware.

THE INFAMOUS DK

September 30th, 2009
2:56 pm

I don’t want to move too fast, but
Can’t resist your sexy ass
Just spread, spread for me
(I can’t, I can’t wait to get you home)
Don’t want to come on too strong, but
I’ll play in you all day long
Just spread, spread for me
(I can’t, I can’t wait to get you home)

[Verse 1]
I… I can’t read minds, but I can read yours
I think she says that she wants to pour your..
your… yourself all over me
What you think? I could be wrong, but peoples don’t lie
And if they do, bu God, they must fry! (fry?!)
You know, like electric chair
The way you stare (yeah I’m there)
You committed a crime and I’m the victim

Kym--Football and SOAP fan.

September 30th, 2009
2:58 pm

@Tazzee I am not taking pleasure in it I am just applying logic to it. Think about it all of us have been hurt and wanted to lash out to those who hurt us. I know I did..heck still do if given air and a opportunity. So this is the forum they found to express it in. Only problem they want the blog to serve as advisor and amen corner for their pain. So they come back to where it all started for that support. Problem is no one here is giving that support. Oh sure folks are saying Karma will come around, The Lawd will get you, but most folks are looking at the situation and saying “I knew dude was not right,” I knew something was funky, blah,blah. No one started the W8 aint great club. And the ones hurt are still seeking a audience for support. Like I said last week even if no one else will say it. “We don’t care, we just nosy.”

Compelling

September 30th, 2009
2:58 pm

Love that album by Andre 3000 :-)

Leggs

September 30th, 2009
2:58 pm

@Melo, I’m going to design a snuggie for you with big letters saying “Need Meds” on one side and “HUSH” on the other side…wait, there’s no other side!

Cemeeli

September 30th, 2009
2:58 pm

@ Tazzee – Do you know where to get good Italian Pizza? :)

above the fray….

Willie Dynamite

September 30th, 2009
2:59 pm

I really want to know whats so Sad about all of this. I mean these are Grown folks that had a Misadventure nothing more nothing less. Am I wrong or did I miss something.

mytw♥cents

September 30th, 2009
3:01 pm

W :shock: W S E R S … no summary needed, afterall. That’s more of a plotline than I bargained for…

THE INFAMOUS DK

September 30th, 2009
3:01 pm

Cemeeli – Go to Fletchers at South Dekalb.. The Pizza wings and lasagna is great..

Jamoca

September 30th, 2009
3:01 pm

…what to say, what to say. Really all jokes aside…I just can’t believe this is really, really happening.

Seriously, I can’t watch this. I’m bout ready to shut my computer down…take my triscuits and occupy my mind with something less…less…dayum, this shyt is just awful.

Big Mouf – Alright, you lived up to your moniker today…but c’mone nah… And yes, like it was previously stated, someone else pretty much started it…but dayum. Just dayum…I’m embarassed for them now. I truly am.

Melodramatizulu

September 30th, 2009
3:02 pm

“We don’t care, we just nosy.”

u just about summed it!

u come on the blog,u phlucck with smebody from the blog,it will come back to the blog!!

ENTER AT UR OWN DISCRETION(OR SECRETION OR ERECTION)

so,who jus turned 16 in here who needs a lesson on adulthood???
:lol: :lol:

Kym--Football and SOAP fan.

September 30th, 2009
3:02 pm

Tazzee the back of the Snuggie is out so you can potty. Cool in the back Warm in the front.

Cemeeli

September 30th, 2009
3:06 pm

Snuggie = “Hospital Gowns Gone Mad”

@ Kym – “the back of the Snuggie is out so you can potty.” I am cryin!!! lol

Leggs

September 30th, 2009
3:06 pm

@Cee/Infamous ~ If Fletcher is still making the pizza he made when he owned “Al’s Pizza” that’s not even close to real pizza (unless something has changed over the years). The Pizzeria on Chamblee-Tucker Road is very good, especially there stuffed. Felini’s on Ponce and in Buckhead is satisfying. I give you that Fletcher’s wings are good, but if it’s the same pizza he was making back in the day….don’t want none of it.

Tazzee

September 30th, 2009
3:06 pm

Melo – I guess I should have said ’some’ people. I know I don’t share a lot of things on here because I don’t play all that lurking making comments on my stuff. I believe in reciprocity so I share with folks that share. Even on my blog, the folks that comment are folks that I know if and if someone comes out of left field then they get deleted.

And we all know that Staceye was ripe for the picking, even though she talked tough – we all knew what the real deal was. That’s why if it was actually her, I hate it even more.

AmRed – you’re right, the nation is desensitized to a lot nowadays. I refuse to watch the video of that young man in Chicago getting beaten – just hearing about it is enough to break my heart. I can’t watch a show like the First 48 (or whatever it’s called) – once I realized that it was a real dead person, not an actor, I had to turn that off.

Perhaps I’m in my own little world over here – but I like it. I like the fact that I still cry (intensely) in movies and that my heart can hurt for folks that I’ve never met.

SexyCool - I ain't even mad.

September 30th, 2009
3:09 pm

Tazzee – Well said.

mytw♥cents

September 30th, 2009
3:10 pm

Did y’all know the original product was called a Slanket – invented by some college kid. The Snuggie folks basically patented sumthin similar and went harder at the Marketing… Dude still made his million(s) per Joan Rivers How’d You Get So Rich show.

Tazzee

September 30th, 2009
3:11 pm

Tazzee the back of the Snuggie is out so you can potty. Cool in the back Warm in the front.

I’M SOLD!!! :lol:

Cemeeli – I like good pizza, but I don’t know where the best is… as long as the place has good salads (preferably Greek salad) I’m usually good. Oh, and Coke products, can’t have pizza and Pepsi…

Cemeeli

September 30th, 2009
3:11 pm

Infamous – Thanks.

I’m just messin’ with Mae, i am the schoolgirl tonight…

Compelling

September 30th, 2009
3:12 pm

Slanket? That’s a bad name. Lol. I always wonder why I didn’t come up with this type of stuff first. Do you ever see an info commercial and go, “I was just thinking of something like that, I coulda made a lot of money!”

Sassy Me...juicy fruit...there can be only one :-)

September 30th, 2009
3:12 pm

Tazzee I have yet to watch that video either…just can’t look at a person losing thier life like that. The sad thing is it was posted on Youtube like entertainment or sumthing and that disturbed me. The whole thing is sad and vicious.

AmazonRed™ - got my human Snuggie for fall

September 30th, 2009
3:13 pm

Tazzee – You know I feel you on that. You know I’m a robot too. ;)

I watched that little boy’s beating video. It would be a good idea for you not to watch it. Trust. :cry:

THE INFAMOUS DK

September 30th, 2009
3:14 pm

As Pootie Tang would say “Thats a cold Tony, My Damie”…

Raqi...I Prefer a Snuggler

September 30th, 2009
3:14 pm

Did y’all know the original product was called a Slanket

TwoLincolns when I was looking up the reviews on the Snuggie I saw that a lot sites actually calls is a blanket. So yeah I can see the Slanket.

Professor-GET YO' HANDS OUT OF MY POCKETS!

September 30th, 2009
3:15 pm

@Ared, I agree common sense would tell a fool that all of that meeting up and partying together, even when you add the factor that a federal agent would be there was trouble. Most of us that said something were ridiculed. I remember one flunky really taking a bite out of you when you said something. Yes it is a shame that these grown lonely and desperate folks were allegedly swindled. Hell this is the year of Bernie Madoff everyone should have a tight fist surrounding their money…RECESSION!?!

I will say this and I have said it before on this blog…our thinking or lack of is what gets us in trouble.

@Elijah you never responded to my question

Alvin

September 30th, 2009
3:16 pm

At the end of the day…this is just a blog.

Bullish…I reading 6 different blogs…this ish is real…shoot, feds are working on new cyber laws now.

Lurking

September 30th, 2009
3:16 pm

LOL @THE INFAMOUS DK 2:42

Raqi...I Prefer a Snuggler

September 30th, 2009
3:17 pm

Cemeeli I am not a big pizza eater but if I had to eat it I would get Fellinis. My son loves it. It better than the stuff that comes in a thick cardboard box delivered to your door.

Professor-GET YO' HANDS OUT OF MY POCKETS!

September 30th, 2009
3:18 pm

Melo the legal age is 18, did I miss something with the 16 and adulthood

Leggs

September 30th, 2009
3:18 pm

@Tazzee ~ “Perhaps I’m in my own little world over here – but I like it. I like the fact that I still cry (intensely) in movies and that my heart can hurt for folks that I’ve never met.” I’ve met and the hurt is unbearable!

Sassy Me...juicy fruit...there can be only one :-)

September 30th, 2009
3:18 pm

All this talk of wangs and pizza….hmmmm some lemon pepper wangs would be nice tonight.

AmazonRed™ - got my human Snuggie for fall

September 30th, 2009
3:18 pm

Professor – Didn’t you send an email to get invited to one of the meet ups tho? :lol: Weren’t you at the Dave and Busters one?

THE INFAMOUS DK

September 30th, 2009
3:18 pm

Alvin – Feds aint got nothing to do with the misadventures..

Melodramatizulu

September 30th, 2009
3:18 pm

i told u, its not about money…….

Now u knaaaaaaaw!

Cemeeli

September 30th, 2009
3:19 pm

I don’t drink soda either! Dang…when are you going to start paying attention to me?! :lol:

Professor

September 30th, 2009
3:19 pm

Alvin, are the 5 other blogs you read this crunk?

THE INFAMOUS DK

September 30th, 2009
3:20 pm

AmazonRed™ - got my human Snuggie for fall

September 30th, 2009
3:20 pm

I’ve met and the hurt is unbearable

I would imagine so. I mean, it may have started on line but doesn’t mean real feelings can’t develop.

Let me say, though I didn’t know one of the players before, when I saw one, she seemed really happy. I was excited for her.

This too shall pass tho.

Mo (aka Moeisha )

September 30th, 2009
3:20 pm

It really is gorgeous outside

Tazzee – I said yesterday that I wished I hadnt watched the video of the beating of that young man…..just chilling how cruel it was. ^5 on your 3:06

Infamous – is Fletcher’s really the truf like that? I thought the place was closed actually.

Sassy Me...juicy fruit...there can be only one :-)

September 30th, 2009
3:21 pm

Alvin I see you and in the words of MC Lyte….you paper thin. Not in a bad way but on the real….I see YOU….we still cool “bruh”, no worries.

Professor

September 30th, 2009
3:21 pm

I sure did I went to one and only one to watch a game at Jocks and Jills, but I was never trying to make friends I like putting a face with a name…nothing more nothing less. It was never a habit and I have never eaten out of these folks kitchen and had them making me meals and stuff.

Melodramatizulu

September 30th, 2009
3:22 pm

Dang…when are you going to start paying attention to me?!

hey CEE??

Compelling

September 30th, 2009
3:22 pm

@ Alvin

Yeah I can believe that. What I’m referring to is someone having the ability to hurt you via the computer. IMO I can’t let anything that a stranger says to me go to my head. This blog is a tool I use to get through my day. I come here to talk, laugh, shoot the breeze, and talk about situations. I know who I am, I know who my friends are, I know where my family is. I hardly put any stock into what others think of me, I could care less. Yeah all that went down was pretty messed up, but as an adult, OWN IT and keep it movin’. :-)

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

September 30th, 2009
3:22 pm

Taz – Your posts have been the few “Posts of Reason” today, especially your 3:06.

I’m not entertained by other peoples’ business, especially their pain. I have not been desensitized at all either. And that video I know would give me nightmares.

THE INFAMOUS DK

September 30th, 2009
3:22 pm

Mo – Nah Playa its all good..

Kym--Football and SOAP fan.

September 30th, 2009
3:22 pm

Also I will send this shout out to the person who is playing both sides..you know who you are..texting and typing and keeping stuff going. You are maybe the worst of all..because you are smiling in both sides face and running with the bone from side to side…you are really the worst because those seeking comfort and support are coming to you and you are using the info to feed both sides for your own amusement and warped enjoyment because hey its not you right? In the end you are going to be caught right smack in the middle.

Cemeeli

September 30th, 2009
3:22 pm

@ Raqi – The cardboard box only come over when the dude has guest OR i can’t make it to the Warehouse to gang up. I understand….

…love Fellini’s on Howell Mill…

Professor

September 30th, 2009
3:23 pm

@ ARED BTW I did not send an email to get invited I was texted several times and requested to come…I don’t invite myself to anything…I decline a lot of invites so there is no need for me to ask for them.

Lurking

September 30th, 2009
3:24 pm

LOL @Melodramatizulu

“We don’t care, we just nosy.”

u just about summed it!

u come on the blog,u phlucck with smebody from the blog,it will come back to the blog!!

ENTER AT UR OWN DISCRETION(OR SECRETION OR ERECTION

Cemeeli

September 30th, 2009
3:24 pm

Lol – I am not checkin’ what popped up in my inbox…lol…too cute!

AmazonRed™ - got my human Snuggie for fall

September 30th, 2009
3:25 pm

Professor – Cool. I just asked so that I didn’t get it wrong and start making baseless assumptions like DK. :lol:

DJ Demi

September 30th, 2009
3:25 pm

Venom, all I spit is venom, a cobra
Richmond team and I’ma ride till its over
I’m never sober, I’m f’ed up now
Say you want pistol play well then its Blah! Blah!
Cause I’m the pastor leader of a wicked church

In my city ain’t no games, we learn your name
And where you went to school at and where you used to hang
And when I run across ya is where I’m going to drop ya
Breaking your punk a$$ off something proper

Well this that city, this that city, this that city
Well this that city, this that city, this that city
WellWell this that city, this that city, this that city
this that city, this that city, this that city

THE INFAMOUS DK

September 30th, 2009
3:26 pm

Ceeme – What you know about that Flips over there off Howell Mill..

Mr. Big Mouf (I got the Whole Scoop & Nothing but The Scoop...so help me Blog)

September 30th, 2009
3:26 pm

The way I see it this wasn’t no different then blasting some cat on dont date him.com. Tit for tat and if you ask me both parties involved were just as grimey for doing so because nobody would have ever known who where when and what. So Sybil and the rest of you self proclaimed victims- by coming on here th e way you did you must have expected a different ending. Because by showing him up you in turn showed yourselves up. Just do better next time.

Dream_n

September 30th, 2009
3:26 pm

agree common sense would tell a fool that all of that meeting up and partying together, even when you add the factor that a federal agent would be there was trouble.

lmao… u silly

Cemeeli

September 30th, 2009
3:26 pm

u come on the blog,u phlucck with smebody from the blog,it will come back to the blog!!

So FALSE — FALSE GENERALIZATION!

It is not every person…i repeat…it is not every person!

Melodramatizulu

September 30th, 2009
3:28 pm

but who says anybody is hurt tho,xecept the one alleging loan default??

all we have are anonymous allegations.Somebody saying dude crooked themn off their money and dude says,it aint so.

the other stuff,all allegations altho with no rebuttal!

Professor

September 30th, 2009
3:28 pm

@ARED, In conclusion I guess I can say unlike you I do not have folks on the blog cooking for me, and I think you mentioned going to more than one event. My record is very clear! I don’t laugh if it ain’t funny, nor do I scratch if it don’t itch. My writings are pretty clear on here when I say something so there is nothing to wonder about.

Cemeeli

September 30th, 2009
3:29 pm

@ Infamous – Once before we went from Flip to, Vickery’s to Circa, then The Wine Bar (Vino Libro) in one dinner night/hangout night with the girls. I’m to old for all that.

btw – Tazzee thanks for the pronuciation of Vino Libro…i can say it now…yay.

THE INFAMOUS DK

September 30th, 2009
3:31 pm

ARED – You love me dont you? I heard you long and lean like I like em… So im gonna give you the opportunity of a lifetime. You live on the northside right.. Meet me at Aria’s and lets shut your mouth..

Sybil

September 30th, 2009
3:32 pm

Y’all have called my name enough times today. So, check this out:

I know for sure that Big Mouf is not w8 because he NEVER met me and doesn’t owe ME anything. I was simply a mouthpiece for one who came to me.

So, kudos for the part of the story you know, Big Mouf.

But, you need more people, because only part of the story has been told. As to that, I will leave to the speculators. I’m sure the speculation is more interesting than the truth anyway.

Professor

September 30th, 2009
3:33 pm

Dang, I really agree with you Big Mouf!

Angie

September 30th, 2009
3:34 pm

hi bloggers! it’s nice and chilly outside. :o )

Angie

September 30th, 2009
3:35 pm

what is that? let’s try again . . . :)

Tazzee

September 30th, 2009
3:35 pm

I’m a Fellini’s fan too. They have a good greek salad.

Mellow Mushroom is one of my favorite pizza joints – their ultimate veggie is really good and the calzones are good too (just too much).

Cemeeli – you know my favorite drink it water, but I just can’t do water with certain foods. Pizza and lemon pepper wings are two of them.

Sassy – this is the first time you’ve mentioned the LPW and I didn’t want any. Probably because I just had some 2 weeks ago ;-)

AmazonRed™ - got my human Snuggie for fall

September 30th, 2009
3:35 pm

and I think you mentioned going to more than one event.

Professor – Not exactly. You know I said from the get go I had no interest in blog meet ups.

Just happened to run into some bloggers out on the town. Happened by chance. That’s how I got to have conversations with a couple of them. Had that not happened, I wouldn’t have met em.

Willie Dynamite

September 30th, 2009
3:35 pm

For the Fellas – Did we see the play by play right. Ole boy went straight outta the textbook. He touched a couple that acted like they couldnt get touched. Only problem with the whole thing was the money angle. I mean he get a flag for excessive celebration.

Blog – Now that the names and most of the story is out can we move past this as a blog.

Raqi...I Prefer a Snuggler

September 30th, 2009
3:35 pm

Cemeeli and Infamouse my friends and I attempted to go to Flips. We pulled up and there were people standing outside waiting to be seated so we got back the car and kept on driving.

The place looks pretty small so I guess it will always be a bit of a wait. Maybe we will try again some other time.

Professor

September 30th, 2009
3:35 pm

Hey Angie! I asked about you earlier

AmazonRed™ - got my human Snuggie for fall

September 30th, 2009
3:37 pm

Meet me at Aria’s and lets shut your mouth..

DK – I’d rather have a root canal with no anesthesia.

THE INFAMOUS DK

September 30th, 2009
3:38 pm

ARED – So now we know you dont know me and you never will so please stop speaking as if you know me.. You can meet me in person and I can tell you all about me.. Until then my sweet keep my name from between ya teeth..

Angie

September 30th, 2009
3:38 pm

@sybil
i feel for your friend. i really do. but she ain’t street smart huh? cause i smelled the bs when W8 first came on here.

AmazonRed™ - got my human Snuggie for fall

September 30th, 2009
3:38 pm

It’s called “Flip” not “Flips” :lol:

Leggs

September 30th, 2009
3:38 pm

@Cee, are all those places close to each other?

Raqi...I Prefer a Snuggler

September 30th, 2009
3:38 pm

Tazzee, Mellow Mushroom is okay. IMO Johnny’s make the best Calzones and Strombollis (sp?).

I have found at my age I can’t eat too much of that kind of stuff. Give me heartburn.

lurking

September 30th, 2009
3:39 pm

Now the dumbest chica “Angie” is on here with her simple horse mouth looking self.

Kym--Football and SOAP fan.

September 30th, 2009
3:40 pm

Wait hold up..Did W8 ask ya’ll to invest in some kind of business with him or something?

Angie

September 30th, 2009
3:40 pm

@Prof
what i do now?

AmazonRed™ - got my human Snuggie for fall

September 30th, 2009
3:40 pm

please stop speaking as if you know me..

DK, acting brand new I see.

I mentioned u cuz you mentioned me first. You were soooo sure I was involved in this on page 2. Shut your mouth unless you know what you’re speaking about. Trust, I’m not bringing your name up out the sky. You went there first and I’m not afraid to call you out on it.

Sybil

September 30th, 2009
3:41 pm

And I’m calling bs on some who say they saw the bs upfront. Next time you see bs call it bs.

THE INFAMOUS DK

September 30th, 2009
3:41 pm

Dynamite – Aint nothing wrong with getting ya blog Boogie on but dont come on here talking bout you got it and you aint nothing but a car thief.. We grown aint nobody gotta sell no dreams.. Chicks dig honesty. If you aint got it you aint got it..

Tazzee

September 30th, 2009
3:41 pm

Raqi – Johnny’s New York Pizza? I get coupons for there, I haven’t tried their calzones though. I’m like you – I can’t eat too much of it, I usually get a slice and a salad.

You gotta go to Flip on the ‘off’ time if you don’t want to wait. Like 2 in the afternoon on a Wednesday, LOL

Cemeeli

September 30th, 2009
3:42 pm

@ Tazzee – God gave us water to drink…thou shalt drink it, be merry and die happy! :)

spkn of LP – i shoulda stuck to my staple there too…

Professor

September 30th, 2009
3:43 pm

I was just asking about you…if you did anything I don’t know about it.

Angie

September 30th, 2009
3:43 pm

@Sybil
i call the bs every single time missy. sometimes i may slip up cus i’m scrollin’ too fast.

lurking

September 30th, 2009
3:44 pm

Thank you, Sybil. Angie is loca anyway. Nobody saw any of this coming. I am really looking forward to his side of the story though. If he responds back to my email. :)

Melodramatizulu

September 30th, 2009
3:44 pm

He touched a couple that acted like they couldnt get touched. Only problem with the whole thing was the money angle

about right altho still,”allegedly”" :lol:

But thats the nice,juicy and exciting thing about sexx gossip,nobody has to confirm nothing.

“”Ray Ray is said to have phlluccked Shamneeka,ohh damn and they say she got a biiiig and wide vjay”"
sadly tho,staceye now seems like she was all talk and no action untill she says it aint so!

Like Chris Rock on Janet’s snaging by Jermaine,”Damn, hw did I miss that one!”

Kym--I don't care, I'm just nosy!

September 30th, 2009
3:44 pm

Nancy’s Deep Dish Pizza..wait did I say that already. I don’t want to go to class..I want my snuggie.

Willie Dynamite

September 30th, 2009
3:44 pm

DK – Thats what I’m saying. Thats the only flag on the play. Car Thief, thats funny and classic and so true.

THE INFAMOUS DK

September 30th, 2009
3:44 pm

ARED – Dummy Ive been coming to this blog way before you so you dont actually know who I know or what I know.. Did it ever occur to you that I speak to people offline.. And besides I know you talk alot so I just knew I could get you to say something because you always run your mouth..

SexyCool - I take life as it comes.

September 30th, 2009
3:45 pm

To throw my two pennies into this discussion, I will say this. The situation certainly underscores the need to have some sort of probationary period when you are getting to know someone.

(For me, I will now include this to mean friends as well.)

Seems as if the Jock and Jills outing which was the first w8 sanctioned meet and greet (that I attended) was back towards the end of June.

And now here we are…3 months later. Having lived and learned. (Or so we hope.)

Dan

September 30th, 2009
3:45 pm

All this up in hurr….

Is why I don’t watch reality shows. It’s entertaining like watching an old person fall down a flight of stairs – because you laugh and feel really guilty afterward.

@Willie D

I’m calling a flag on play for Staceye. Dude that’s like killin Bambi. If you gone do it – hunt big game.

Mo (aka Moeisha )

September 30th, 2009
3:47 pm

Tazzee – Im a lover of Mellow Mushroom too but it depends on which one you go to. And I thought I was the only person that thought water didnt go with certain foods.

ARed – LMAO @ your 3:37!!

Angie

September 30th, 2009
3:47 pm

so none of y’all knew he was up to no good? gtfoh. lol.

good day!

AmazonRed™ - got my human Snuggie for fall

September 30th, 2009
3:48 pm

Dummy Ive been coming to this blog way before you so you dont actually know who I know or what I know..

DK – I don’t give a damn what you talk about offline. You brought me up, so I shut your azz down cuz you were talking out your azz. No more no less.

Leggs

September 30th, 2009
3:48 pm

@SexyCool, I thought Barleys was the first meet and greet. Well, it was my only meet and greet when I met you. Thought you guys went to Jock and Jills afterwards.

Raqi...I Prefer a Snuggler

September 30th, 2009
3:48 pm

It’s called “Flip” not “Flips”

STFU you know what I mean. Flips, Flip, Flap what difference does it make.

LOL Amazon yeah I know. I saw that after I posted it. But I have been wanting to tell somebody to STFU all day. Sorry it had to be you. :lol:

I have a friend that always says Targets instead of Target.

Kym--I don't care, I'm just nosy!

September 30th, 2009
3:50 pm

Maybe we should have a blog confessions day or something. Cleanse your souls, smooth the funky spirit.

Leggs

September 30th, 2009
3:51 pm

@Dan – I’m calling a flag on play for Staceye. Dude that’s like killin Bambi. If you gone do it – hunt big game! THANK YOU! As Leona Lewis would say, I keep bleeding, keep keep bleeding. Sheesh everyone needs to heal and now rehabilitation for her will take even longer!

Professor

September 30th, 2009
3:51 pm

I always say Targets too…I don’t know why and once said I correct myself.

AmazonRed™ - got my human Snuggie for fall

September 30th, 2009
3:51 pm

ARed – LMAO @ your 3:37!!

:lol: ;)

THE INFAMOUS DK

September 30th, 2009
3:52 pm

ARED – You couldnt shut me down if your name was Ga Power.. I knew your ignorance knew no bounds so you would bite but I have to admit you held out longer than I expected..

Good Girl.. Pats ARED on the head Now fetch..

Melodramatizulu

September 30th, 2009
3:53 pm

And now here we are…3 months later. Having lived and learned. (Or so we hope.)

SexyCool,3 mothns later??

this is about the time u blog ladies say, sexx shld proly happen.
It seems,if it did,it went down pretty quicky.

All ur ladies blog lessons have gone down the drain.

Lets jus say then thatthese 3 or 4 ladies who gave it away to the FBI recruit didnt graduate then!! :lol: :lol:

AmazonRed™ - got my human Snuggie for fall

September 30th, 2009
3:53 pm

No problem Raqi. You can STFU too. :lol:

Lord Velonese

September 30th, 2009
3:53 pm

Angelina Jolie is not your escape goat ladies! This very common with women in general these days, I thinks it because women see another woman having something special (or the man) and just want to screw things up for both parties. It’s like they think “Well if I can’t have The Life then no one can” this is very common with the lady friends I have, because one thinks the other is out doing the other and they get salty about it.

But when it boils down to it they know I want nothing to do with them in that way anyway. As I have said before I don’t date anymore for various reasons but I have to admit it is rather entertaining watching these women fight each other about it especially when it’s a lose/lose situation. I guess they think they can change my mind or prove me wrong, well the jokes on them. It’s funny when you don’t anything they ignore you but when you become successful and are worth something, it’s like oh you remember me let’s get it on. You had your chance ishes now you can sit and drool at window at something you can’t have now, oh that gets women every time! Women = Salt Shakers

Kym--I don't care, I'm just nosy!

September 30th, 2009
3:54 pm

or one of those say what you feel days.. Wait I do that all the time.

Lawd ARed and DK when are yall gonna meet and get it over with.

Cemeeli

September 30th, 2009
3:54 pm

@ Leggs – No Flip is northwest, and Circa/Flickery’s/Libro is east and downtown.

Tazzee – Told me about Circa…looooong time ago.

Leggs

September 30th, 2009
3:54 pm

Hell, it’s like some called a “grief counselor” to the blog!

Tazzee

September 30th, 2009
3:54 pm

Cemeeli and MyTwo umm, mail call.

THE INFAMOUS DK

September 30th, 2009
3:55 pm

Kym – Honestly I wouldnt meet that chick cause I know I would prolly splash her with my drink on sight..

AmazonRed™ - got my human Snuggie for fall

September 30th, 2009
3:55 pm

Sheesh everyone needs to heal and now rehabilitation for her will take even longer!

It was a good thing she was able to open her heart to someone. We knew she could do it.

Now she might never.

DJ Demi

September 30th, 2009
3:55 pm

Professor/DK/Sassy…this is the only dating blog I follow…those Foxnews/cnn/huffingtion/politico/rushlim/wallstreet…blog can get rough.

SexyCool - I take life as it comes.

September 30th, 2009
3:55 pm

Melo – SOME blog ladies. I’ve never particularly subscribed to that line of thought about sex. Although, for some, it seems advisable.

I do, however, admittedly keep a guard on my feelings for a while.

Professor

September 30th, 2009
3:56 pm

Kym if we have confession day on the blog I am taking bets on the number of entries, because these cowards hide.

AmazonRed™ - got my human Snuggie for fall

September 30th, 2009
3:57 pm

I knew your ignorance knew no bounds so you would bite but I have to admit you held out longer than I expected..

DK – You should really get a life.

Cemeeli

September 30th, 2009
3:58 pm

….4 minutes til closing time for east coast accounts….I’m bout to dip…

@ Tazzee Mae – I’ll have the pie on warm for ya.

Holllaaaaa!

~ Ya’ll be easy!

AmazonRed™ - got my human Snuggie for fall

September 30th, 2009
3:58 pm

Lawd ARed and DK when are yall gonna meet and get it over with.

Kym – Get what over with?

Raqi...I Prefer a Snuggler

September 30th, 2009
3:58 pm

Kym I’ll start the confessions right now. I’z feeling a little tingly right now. Happy Belated Birthday to my hunk of burning love. LOL

That’s mine. What’s yours. j/k

Professor

September 30th, 2009
3:58 pm

@Melo you said a lot right there.

I guess if you are slow you need three months to figure game out, as for me nahh ol’ professor got street smarts.

Tazzee

September 30th, 2009
3:58 pm

Melo – 3 months was my timeframe for starting to trust someone, you know some folks change with the seasons.

I’m in tears over here with ‘Targets’ hearing it tickles me but seeing it typed is even worse.

Thanks for the laugh Raqi and Professor.

AmazonRed™ - got my human Snuggie for fall

September 30th, 2009
4:00 pm

Honestly I wouldnt meet that chick cause I know I would prolly splash her with my drink on sight..

Looks like someone is taking words on a blog too seriously. :lol:

Leggs

September 30th, 2009
4:00 pm

It was a good thing she was able to open her heart to someone. We knew she could do it.

Now she might never.

That’s it in a nutshell!

Dream_n

September 30th, 2009
4:02 pm

Damn…. ya’ll older individuals are messier than me… tryna call ME a young’n lmao :) :) :) :)

Angie

September 30th, 2009
4:02 pm

@lurking
lol. and i look cute today. i’on no what you talkin’ bout. *hair flip*

Professor

September 30th, 2009
4:02 pm

Tazzee with my southern drawl “Targets” is sounds really funny I think that is why I catch myself when I say it

Raqi...I Prefer a Snuggler

September 30th, 2009
4:02 pm

I hope it ain’t Staceye. Heck I hope aint’ anyone just somebody playing games for the hellofit.

SexyCool - I take life as it comes.

September 30th, 2009
4:03 pm

Kudos to you for being so quick on the uptake. However, I never outlined a particular timeframe. I said “some sort.”

I only alluded to three months as it is almost the exact amount of time from the Jock and Jills deal to the opening of Pandora’s box this past week.

Professor

September 30th, 2009
4:05 pm

Dream_n how old are you?

Angie

September 30th, 2009
4:05 pm

@Prof
^5 to cowards.

ok gotta really run now. see ya!

Dream_n

September 30th, 2009
4:07 pm

Kym--I don't care, I'm just nosy!

September 30th, 2009
4:07 pm

@Raqi lets see..I have gotten taken in by a dude who said he had his own private jet yet ask me for 20.00 dollars.

I have cussed out folks and had regret later but was too prideful to say sorry.

I have one man in my past who I love with such passion that if he asked me to marry him I most likely would say yes.

I am not as big a itchy on line as I put on..but I am no ones fool so don’t try me.

I went to a Falcons Preseason game this year–hence my Fantasy Football losing streak.(I was cursed)

I didn’t learn to drive until I was 25, I cant roller skate, I have dimples in my shoulders, and one boob is bigger than the other.

Wheww!!!

SexyCool - I take life as it comes.

September 30th, 2009
4:08 pm

My apologies – I just remembered that it was during playoff time. So, it was the first few weeks of June.

Professor

September 30th, 2009
4:08 pm

Lesson 101: Don’t holla it let folks know you got hit!

Alvin

September 30th, 2009
4:08 pm

Nobody saw any of this coming.

Sad…folks are really this foolish.

Y’all be easy…This ish is old news…

Mr. Big Mouf (I got the Whole Scoop & Nothing but The Scoop...so help me Blog)

September 30th, 2009
4:08 pm

Sybil baby, if I say anymore (just to prove my credentials) it will only make you flock of pigeons look even dumber. Because you and I both know yall walked right into it with both eyes opened and all dude had to do was ask (apparently). With ya silly looking selves. And lets be clear yall knew it wasn’t no investment. True enough it was a loan. Yeah the money should have been repaid (in cash) instead of phony checks. I’m with ya to a certain extent.

But to help A GROWN MAN with his bills…yeah. Say it ain’t so. Guess what? Yall cant because there is some truth in there. I wont even name what for.

AmazonRed™ - got my human Snuggie for fall

September 30th, 2009
4:09 pm

I am not as big a itchy on line as I put on..but I am no ones fool so don’t try me

:lol: Amen.

Melodramatizulu

September 30th, 2009
4:10 pm

It was a good thing she was able to open her heart to someone

that kinda made me think of my auntie,my mom sister.
she grew up a goo kid,str8 As at school and then came to the big city and got ngaged by a good for nothing crook,just the same kinda profile painted of W8,unemployed,smooth,good dresser(nit wally mally tho) and a piner for puddsy.She gave it away hoping it was gon smewhere untill sherealized it was no goood and her sister advised her to get an abortion.It was a back door abortion coz they are illegal over there and til now,the aunt has no kids altho married.

This story kinda broght it home 4 me.
I hope nobody,if really phlucked by crook dude,got any disease for the road!

Ms. Main

September 30th, 2009
4:10 pm

Compelling IMO I can’t let anything that a stranger says to me go to my head. This blog is a tool I use to get through my day. I come here to talk, laugh, shoot the breeze, and talk about situations. I know who I am, I know who my friends are, I know where my family is. I hardly put any stock into what others think of me, I could care less. Yeah all that went down was pretty messed up, but as an adult, OWN IT and keep it movin’.

Cosign Cosign and Cosign.

I personally don’t know anyone on here, I’ll share what I think is “shareable” but I’m not divulging what I deem intimate life details. Life’s lessons? Yeah but that’ about it. I don’t want to see anyone physically harmed but stuff happens. I know for certain I’ve not lost touch with humanity but real life is real life. It just ain’t reality to come on here day after day with just alllll sweetness. Slanging bullcrap ain’t either but it’s more in touch with the way the real world evolves. I notice some days if the discussion is heated some folks get gone and on other days if we’re talking hair pressing, nails, food, weight, great entertainers, great loves….and stuff…those folks are in full attendance. Nothing wrong with that but it’s just not reality if you think you’re gonna hop on here and it’s all kumbaya…on the daily. Everyday there are battle scars, whether it’s love, money, family, etc. We’re all adults and by now have experienced or should have experienced enough to be thick skinned to hone in or endure conversations, giving real opinions without having to walk on eggshells.

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

September 30th, 2009
4:10 pm

Kym – I didn’t learn to drive till I was about 23. Late bloomer.

Professor

September 30th, 2009
4:11 pm

Dream_n you are young!

Wise Diva

September 30th, 2009
4:11 pm

I’m going to add this incident to the list of “let’s not talk about it again” category, right after the topic about soul mates!

mytw♥cents

September 30th, 2009
4:13 pm

COMPELLING I have invented everything from DVR when I missed my soaps during highschool cuz I didn’t have a VHS tape to mini cans of Coke (which studies have actually been conducted on the world enjoying most with pizza) since I rarely drink 12 ounces to cellpnes with text back when my Skypager went off but I didn’t have change for the pay phones. We should be rich!

RAQI Maybe I shoulda majored in Marketing cuz I think it was the name that helped the other folks eclipse him. It came from the idea of a blanket with sleeves. But Snuggie just sounds friendlier and makes ya wanna curl up in it.

CEE Ain’t nobody gonnaa let you have Green Tea Fuse with that mushroom n pepper slice. And sound like schoolgirl took some truth serum tryna tattle. On self. We gon skip past Anutha and go straight to Futha….

Flip is tasty. We had no wait. Wanna go back n try the shrimp poburger.

Sybil

September 30th, 2009
4:13 pm

Big Mouf believes that he can name that tune in five notes.

Big Mouf, Name that tune.

Melodramatizulu

September 30th, 2009
4:14 pm

Lesson 101: Don’t holla it let folks know you got hit!

there is no shame in getting ur phluck on,arent most of u single??

AmazonRed™ - got my human Snuggie for fall

September 30th, 2009
4:15 pm

Compelling IMO I can’t let anything that a stranger says to me go to my head. This blog is a tool I use to get through my day. I come here to talk, laugh, shoot the breeze, and talk about situations. I know who I am, I know who my friends are, I know where my family is. I hardly put any stock into what others think of me, I could care less

Ms. Main – Amen. This is supposed to be fun for all of us. The moment it isn’t is the day you should find entertainment elsewhere. Seriously.

Leggs

September 30th, 2009
4:15 pm

I got tired of people telling me they teach me how to drive and at the tender age of 25, I let my fingers do the walking and paid for driving lessons. (Never needed a car in NY).

Compelling

September 30th, 2009
4:15 pm

@ Ms Main I totally agree with you. :-) Good nite everyone. Peace to you and yours.

Wise Diva

September 30th, 2009
4:16 pm

In other news, we are in real fall temps today! I love it. It’s boo season, time to snuggle up!

AmazonRed™ - got my human Snuggie for fall

September 30th, 2009
4:16 pm

Big Mouf believes that he can name that tune in five notes.

Big Mouf, Name that tune.

*hollers!* :lol: :lol: :lol:

Ms. Main

September 30th, 2009
4:16 pm

I am not as big a itchy on line as I put on..but I am no ones fool so don’t try me

Raising my hand too!

Raqi...I Prefer a Snuggler

September 30th, 2009
4:16 pm

I learned to drive when I was 16.

Mr. Big Mouf (I got the Whole Scoop & Nothing but The Scoop...so help me Blog)

September 30th, 2009
4:17 pm

Like I said before, had you paid some attention some of you to include the ones who still remain nameless would have saw something wrong with the setup. But from where I see yall probably thought dude had bread, position to name a few and the gift of jab didnt help the situation. His economic ’status’ clouded your better judgements. So yall came on in flocking each time he beckoned and the competition began. Sad you didn’t see that before ya literally decided to break bread and give ____. Im sincerely asking you to let it ride.

Chad Ochocinco

September 30th, 2009
4:17 pm

Kym…..you must stop calling us the Bungles. After all, the Steelers are looking up the Bengals and the Ravens. You should be thankful the Cleveland can’t seem to get right.

Professor

September 30th, 2009
4:17 pm

@Demi this is the only dating blog I go on the rest are political. During the election I was very active blogging on those other blogs…I had to take a break because at times I am too passionate in my beliefs.

Ms. Main

September 30th, 2009
4:18 pm

The moment it isn’t is the day you should find entertainment elsewhere.

Amen sista

Dream_n

September 30th, 2009
4:18 pm

@ WD Time to get boo’d up lol..

mytw♥cents

September 30th, 2009
4:18 pm

WISEY ~ Don’t forget “The Butteerflies!”

Raqi...I Prefer a Snuggler

September 30th, 2009
4:18 pm

Yeah WiseDiva but these cooler temps makes it hard to get out of bed in the mornings. Make you wanna stay snuggled up with your boo. :wink:

Man I can’t wait for the Christman holidays. Just a feel good season.

Ms. Main

September 30th, 2009
4:20 pm

I love this time of year. Of course, EVERY year, I get sick at the changing of the season….as I am today.

I learned to drive at 18

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

September 30th, 2009
4:20 pm

if we’re talking hair pressing, nails, food, weight, great entertainers, great loves….and stuff…

Ms.Main – But that’s all I’m interested in talking about really. I like to cook, so I like to swap recipes & talk about fashion & a little bit of politics, oh and my cool boyfriend. Rag on the exes & tell about a few harmless experiences(misadventures) in dating. I don’t come here for therapy.

Dream_n

September 30th, 2009
4:22 pm

Ms Main/Compelling/ Ared

Amen girlies….

I find this blog very entertaining.. We all have enough mess in our lives to come on here and have even more mess…
In the words of my little one

“Clean up this Mess”!!!!!!

Kym--I don't care, I'm just nosy!

September 30th, 2009
4:22 pm

@Chad..You are the Bungals..because as a Steeler fan I have to call you the Bungals it says so in the handbook. We will rise up..it could be worst we could have gotten spanked like the Cardinals. Seriously Peyton 500 plus yards..really dude.

Sybil

September 30th, 2009
4:22 pm

Classic con man moves. Professional v. Amateurs.

And I am out.

Leggs

September 30th, 2009
4:23 pm

@Alvin, are you being funny on this blog???

AmazonRed™ - got my human Snuggie for fall

September 30th, 2009
4:23 pm

I mean, how much money are we talking about here?

Poppa Grande

September 30th, 2009
4:24 pm

Good Afternoon all.

Kym, I have no reason to rub your face in the Steelers lost to the Cincy. I have friends on both teams. I am just happy for Marvin Lewis. He needs any help to keep a job. Tomlin is safe.

In other news, I saw a special viewing of Chris Rock’s movie “Good Hair” over the weekend, and it is a good documentary. I was impressed. It didn’t really teach me anything different, but it is a good discussion starter.

Melodramatizulu

September 30th, 2009
4:24 pm

thought dude had bread, position to name a few and the gift of jab didnt help the situation

dude even put on a job posting for an accounting job one time! I remember Foots asking her to forward it to her.Shema on him tho if its true.
I wld wish Page wld say some about what she know, i wld truly hate this on Staceye..or if it were my own sister getting played.

Professor

September 30th, 2009
4:25 pm

there is no shame in getting ur phluck on,arent most of u single??

***at melo that is not what I was talking about*** why do you have a dirty mind sometimes???

SexyCool - I take life as it comes.

September 30th, 2009
4:25 pm

Poppa – speaking of Good Hair, Chris Rock is on Oprah today to talk about the movie.

aggwitty

September 30th, 2009
4:26 pm

What I miss?

besides “escape” goat.

Chad Ochocinco

September 30th, 2009
4:27 pm

Well, someone needs to tell Troy P. to get some voice in his voice. I saw him in Bristol CT (ESPN studios) and was reminded of how much he sounds like Mike Tyson.

Who Dat say they gonna beat dem Bengals? Yeah…it sounds like New Orleans, but we do it better.

Kym--I don't care, I'm just nosy!

September 30th, 2009
4:27 pm

@Poppa well could you tell my defense to wake up. I am pretty sure I am going to have to slap Ike Taylor. And James Harrison is in too many commericals it working his judgment. Troy..lawd Troy please hurry back. Offense scores point..Defense wins games.

Raqi...I Prefer a Snuggler

September 30th, 2009
4:28 pm

Speaking of football, it sounds like somebody is going to a foot to the balls.

You all have good evening.

Ms. Main

September 30th, 2009
4:29 pm

Kimmie Don’t get me wrong…nothing wrong with those discussions. I just think it shouldn’t be earth shattering if drama pops off. Heck, it’s just a blog. I feel if a person is going to go personal by meeting and hooking up, then yeah the door is opened for a lot more…but those are the stakes. I’d rather chat and stay anon..lol

Poppa Grande

September 30th, 2009
4:29 pm

SexyC

Yeah, I know.

Leggs

September 30th, 2009
4:29 pm

“why do you have a dirty mind sometimes???” Sometimes, all the time!

Professor

September 30th, 2009
4:33 pm

@Kimmie your recipes are the bomb! I am still getting tipsy off those sangrias and that lemonade was good too! So please keep sharing…you should write a cookbook.

@PG I do want to see “Good Hair” at first I was against seeing it but I do want to see it.

@ARED I know right, how much?

Melodramatizulu

September 30th, 2009
4:33 pm

why do you have a dirty mind sometimes???” Sometimes, all the time!

:lol: :lol:

u get in the blog with all these beautiful women and u dont have a derty mind?? Ever? and u a man??

which man wld that be?? :lol:

Leggs

September 30th, 2009
4:34 pm

That post was talking about Melo, not me!

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

September 30th, 2009
4:35 pm

Professor – Thank you! And yes, a cookbook is definitly in the very-near future plans!

Poppa Grande

September 30th, 2009
4:35 pm

Kym

Safety makes a big difference. Remember the difference that Indy defense has with their normal safety that year that they won the Super Bowl. Patriots bigger lost may have been Rodney Harrison last season than Brady. Patriots continued to score with Cassel but had trouble stopping folks.

Missing Troy Palumalu is huge. I agree with Ochocinco, that Troy’s voice is kinda surprisingly high. He is a great player, but the voice doesn’t fit. I know women with more bass in their voices.

Professor

September 30th, 2009
4:36 pm

Melo you get in here and cut up!!! I will say it makes me laugh

Professor

September 30th, 2009
4:37 pm

@Kimmie well you have a buyer here!

Dream_n

September 30th, 2009
4:38 pm

Troy’s voice is kinda surprisingly high

lol..

Rodney Harrison… Was that the guy commenting on Sunday w/ Tony Dungy?
I thought he used to play for the Giants

Rodney Ha

Grace

September 30th, 2009
4:38 pm

which man wld that be?? abc :lol: :lol: j/k

Good day yall……back to regular programming

Melodramatizulu

September 30th, 2009
4:38 pm

He is a great player, but the voice doesn’t fit. I know women with more bass in their voices

u being kind to him..trust after he retires,we proly hear more! :lol:

Ms. Main

September 30th, 2009
4:39 pm

Melo’s bark is bigger than his bite. I think he’ll bite but not as big a chunk as he puts out. He’s a softie on some days. I better be careful saying that. Somebody might think I’m gonna fall for the okey doke and take the bait when he’s posting his personal email addy…lol

Poppa Grande

September 30th, 2009
4:39 pm

Professor – I learned a few things ( a correction from my earlier post) human hair is what is making india’s economy go. It is their leading export.

I also learned that there is a layaway plan for weave.

ARed is from the weave capital of the world aka LA.

Melodramatizulu

September 30th, 2009
4:40 pm

Poppa,did u see Terrel press comnference after the loss???
Rodney called him clown and that was kind too

TRUE!!!!!! lol:

Poppa Grande

September 30th, 2009
4:41 pm

melo… to make it worse, he does hair shampoo commericials about his hair.

Tazzee

September 30th, 2009
4:42 pm

These are my confessions

I got my license at the tender age of 22 (almost 23) and failed my test the first time around.

I’m not as even-tempered in person as I seem online. Thank God for the delete button and this distraction called work.

I still can’t believe that I’M GOING TO BE SOMEONE’S WIFE!!!

Kym--I don't care, I'm just nosy!

September 30th, 2009
4:42 pm

Troy is soft spoken..but hits like thunder..I like the combo. Indy is missing Bob Sanders now..(me too) All these jokers this year are just working me. Braylon Edwards one of the top WR can’t catch nothing..maybe now that Brady Quinn is sitting down he can get a little something. sigh..

Melodramatizulu

September 30th, 2009
4:42 pm

Ms Main,it hasnt changed!

takpat78@gmail.com

Poppa Grande

September 30th, 2009
4:43 pm

Well, I am out. I gotta support some kids by go to their 8th grade football game. I told them that I’d go to one of their games. The weather is just right for today’s game.

Have a good one…

Leggs, enjoy yourself.

Melodramatizulu

September 30th, 2009
4:43 pm

I’m not as even-tempered in person as I seem online. Thank God u got GOD

Ms. Main

September 30th, 2009
4:45 pm

Melo, and yet again, I’ll pass…number of times offered in all…3

Ms. Main

September 30th, 2009
4:46 pm

I’m softer in real life than I appear online. Well, I dunno. I’m softer with some more than others.

Ms. Main

September 30th, 2009
4:46 pm

Alright, I guess it’s straight working and turning up my music from here on out..the rest of you folks are already in the wind

Leggs

September 30th, 2009
4:47 pm

Thanks PoppaG!

Poppa Grande

September 30th, 2009
4:47 pm

Melo….

I am not a big Terrell fan, but Rodney was letting his personal feeling get involved with this current issue. Terrell wasn’t in the wrong with this week’s incident. The press was trying to get something out of him.

I don’t care for him because he is usually selfish, but this week he did the right thing.

One more thing, Rodney is wrong for calling Terrell a clown when Rodney himself was busted for steroids a number of times. He is a cheater!!

Melodramatizulu

September 30th, 2009
4:47 pm

number of times offered in all…3

ok,but its not like ur qualification is automatic.

Unless ur photo is edited good! :lol:

Professor

September 30th, 2009
4:47 pm

Well I am out…you folks have a good evening!

Tazzee

September 30th, 2009
4:49 pm

I used to love Rodney Harrison, but seeing him as commentator has dulled his star in my eyes. Oh and the steroid thing too. Can’t stand a cheating ‘a’ cheater. But I shouldn’t be surprised – it stars at the top for those Patriots.

Poppa Grande

September 30th, 2009
4:50 pm

One more thing about Terrell, you never hear about him hitting women, you don’t hear about him getting DUI, you don’t hear about him fighting dogs, you don’t hear about him shooting folks.

He takes care of his grandma, who has alzheimer’s. That doesn’t get airplay.

He may be a terrible teammate, but he seems to be a good human away from the game.

Tazzee

September 30th, 2009
4:51 pm

Melo – that’s the truth, thank God I got God. But honestly, I don’t encounter as much ‘foolishness’ in life as I do online, so I guess it all evens out.

Dream_n

September 30th, 2009
4:52 pm

Me too Tazzee… and still kinda do though…

Tazzee

September 30th, 2009
4:52 pm

PoppaG – and that’s why I think Terrell will always have a job. He’s good at what he does and I truly think he has a good heart.

Elijah ( Professor! What a woman????)

September 30th, 2009
4:53 pm

@Kym….. I have return and no Eli is not Mr. Mouf! I would not blasted anyone on this blog!

@Professor….. Yes I do deliver and what type of Krispy Kreme donuts would you like this weekend? :wink:

Melodramatizulu

September 30th, 2009
4:53 pm

Poppa, i dig that!

good nite

Dream_n

September 30th, 2009
4:53 pm

Hope you have fun on your date Leggs… I’ll be tuned in for the play by play tomorow lol…

Peace and Safety all :)

Ms. Main

September 30th, 2009
5:09 pm

Melo…all blog love

Leggs

September 30th, 2009
5:11 pm

Good night everyone!

All involved in this supposedly ponzi, please stay strong!

Kelley

September 30th, 2009
7:36 pm

We are all attracted to others no matter if we are in a relationship or not. However, I think that if one gets attracted to another who is in a committed relationship, then we should not pursue it. I think women are more guilty of this than men but that is just a thought. I think the “challenge” of “getting him” is what is intriguing. Many people I know just like the “win” and after they break up a marriage they lose interest. Sad but true.

Ms Gunshy

October 1st, 2009
2:15 am

My personal experience and observations reveal another possibility – that women who are apprehensive and hesistant to actually marry or have a real desire to be in a committed relationship find the possibility of having a fling or more with a married man appealing. It provides excitement, intimacy and romantic intrigue without obligations, long term commitments or the “inconvenience” of major changes of lifestyles. Of course, sometimes it results in the unexpected and is always a poor choice. But it’s very magnetic for those of us who are gun-shy due to negative prior commitments/marriages or simply psychological issues, etc.