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Blame Angelina Jolie

There has been actual research on so-called “mate poaching”.  They found out that a lot of single women aren’t exactly hunting for other singles. Sometimes, they look for the coupled up men and “poach” them away from their current relationship. It’s like the Angelina Jolie syndrome because she supposedly began a relationship with Brad Pitt while he was married.

The results of the research: “Single women were more interested in the man when he was described as attached (90% interested) than when he was described as single (59%). Men showed no difference in interest between a single and attached woman.”

The thing about these studies is that don’t leave much room for the variables. It’s interesting nonetheless, to see the “scientific” analysis about why women are attracted to men who aren’t available. What are your thoughts?

When you meet someone you are attracted to, is it more appealing when you find out a person is involved with someone already? Have you ever pursued someone who had a significant other?

Have you ever been involved with someone and met somebody else that you felt you was the person you were meant to be with? How do you tell the person you are in a relationship that you are in love with another person?

614 comments Add your comment

Leggs

September 30th, 2009
12:36 pm

Sorry, Dan, didn’t mean to leave you off my list. Thanks, buddy!

SexyCool - I take life as it comes.

September 30th, 2009
12:36 pm

Have been unknowingly placed in a poaching situation – being younger and dumber and with many lessons to learn (and I am still learning), there were signs I should have paid attention to but didn’t.

By the end, I would have gladly returned that dog to its previous owner.

Elijah ( Professor! What a woman????)

September 30th, 2009
12:38 pm

Hey we do not know if Brad hooked up with Angeline before he and Ms. Anniston were divorced!

Brad is still a good man maybe he just made a mistake! I’m just sayin!

Just asking

September 30th, 2009
12:38 pm

Look who pop in :)

Page1908

September 30th, 2009
12:39 pm

SexyCool- what signs were there that you didn’t want to pay attention to? they always say hind sight is 20/20.

Melodramatizulu

September 30th, 2009
12:39 pm

Elijah,did u send me an email few days ago??

Melodramatizulu

September 30th, 2009
12:40 pm

i luv the dramatic irony on this blog!!

:lol: :lol:

Elijah ( Professor! What a woman????)

September 30th, 2009
12:40 pm

Easy Melo….Yes I sent you an e-mail a few days ago, but now its time to mature up and move on!

Mr. Big Mouf (I got the Whole Scoop & Nothing but The Scoop...so help me Blog)

September 30th, 2009
12:41 pm

I’m ready to hang each and every one of the these full grown but silly hoes out to dry. Man I’m neutral with nothing to lose. I know about yall and them meet n greets and the one on ones. And to the ones who fell for it, the game was looking yall right in the face and since nobody questioned none of it and just decided to run with whateva, well shyt you got what you deserved. It was rare the dude ever heard the word NO. Yall chickens lying about being victimized.

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

September 30th, 2009
12:42 pm

MsMain – I liked Brad, still will probably watch his movies. But with all the good he has done and is still doing, he is starting to come off as sort of a jerk. He’s been on a few talk shows talking about how he does not believe in God, is an atheist. Everyone is entitled to their beliefs, but he bragging about it. I just watched him and thought, he might be a real B to live with, probably did Jen a favor. Everybody kept talking about how Jen WOULDN’T give him a baby. I heard they had been trying but it just had not happened yet. That’s no reason to cheat, though. If she didn’t want to have one, that should have been worked out before they got married. But hey, what do I know?LOL!!

Leggs

September 30th, 2009
12:44 pm

@Melo, if you saw me in person, you would see very much that my excitement is contained. I don’t wear my emotions on my sleeve. Never have, never will! Am I looking forward to the date, Yes. Will I be acting like a giddy little school girl. NOT. When I was one, I didn’t act like one so won’t do it now!

Melodramatizulu

September 30th, 2009
12:45 pm

but now its time to mature up and move on!

Elijay
i dont know what u saying..Move on on what??

the answer is Yes, i guess….

i just wanted to know.

Melodramatizulu

September 30th, 2009
12:46 pm

I am happy for u….Leggs

i know u good!

Raqi

September 30th, 2009
12:48 pm

Brad and Jennifer got divorced in October 2005.
Brad adopted Zahara Angelina’s daughter in January 2006.

Yeah he was married when they got together.

Kym aka Dominque Deveraux

September 30th, 2009
12:49 pm

All I know is this place is better than Reno 911 any day. Straight comedy. W8 friends pop in to say hello. Pass messages. He comes in under a new name..classic.

Ellijah..My Steelers will be just fine thank you. And don’t bring it up again less you bring out PoppaG..who has not come into rub it in my face that my Steelers lost to the Bungals after 9 straight wins against them in Bungal land.

Ms. Main

September 30th, 2009
12:50 pm

Kimmie He’s been on a few talk shows talking about how he does not believe in God, is an atheist

Really? Are you serious? You’re right…to each his own. You’re right again, no matter the circumstances between the two, it does not justify cheating.

Alright then Mr. Big Mouf

Ms. Main

September 30th, 2009
12:51 pm

Raqi….mmm hmmm, I thought so.

Professor

September 30th, 2009
12:51 pm

@Elijah…LOL you got me! I guess I will be quite now. Since my appetite is back now would be a good time to go get me some wings and french fries.

Dang I just turned to page three and I guess these hunger pangs will just have to wait! Mr. Big Mouth is in the blog building.

@Kym this place is one Fire! I like the blog better than reality tv. Can you say it with me…messy?

Ms. Main

September 30th, 2009
12:51 pm

I think Big Mouf is W8…he’s ready to spill his guts…

What’s stoppin ya?

Ms. Main

September 30th, 2009
12:53 pm

I like the blog better than reality tv

I had to stop highlighting numbers on my spreadsheet for this one…lol

Kym aka Dominque Deveraux

September 30th, 2009
12:53 pm

@Wisey D and you might as well use this whole mess as a marketing tool for Misadventures. There is a book in this whole mess I know it is.

Professor-GET YO' HANDS OUT OF MY POCKETS!

September 30th, 2009
12:54 pm

Straight comedy. W8 friends pop in to say hello. Pass messages. He comes in under a new name..classic.
******KYM, YESSSSSSS YESSSSSSS YESSSSSS******

Just asking

September 30th, 2009
12:54 pm

Mr Big Mouth. SPILL IT, whats your side?

Raqi

September 30th, 2009
12:56 pm

Yall are a trip!!!!

Ms.Main,Gurl move over let me sit down. Kym, Professor one of yall pass me some of that popcorn. JustSaying, you gon eat the rest of those Raisinettes?

Just asking

September 30th, 2009
12:56 pm

Finally some entertainment :)

Ms. Main

September 30th, 2009
12:56 pm

Mr Big Mouth. SPILL IT, whats your side?

Pure comedy

Tazzee

September 30th, 2009
12:57 pm

Dang – just when I thought we would get through a day without this W8 drama…. oh well.

Kym – he did make some moves in the FF league, so he hasn’t dropped off the face of the earth. Speaking of, I need to do my update for the week.

As far as Brad – I try to separate the entertainment from the personal. Unless the person is doing something heinous like molesting children, beating up on the women, etc, I will view them as entertainment. If I were to stop watching movies, shows, etc because someone committed adultery or didn’t share my spiritual beliefs I’d have to just resort to reading books…and then my book selection would be limited.

Just asking

September 30th, 2009
12:57 pm

@Raqi, No have some :)

AmazonRed™ - got my human Snuggie for fall

September 30th, 2009
12:58 pm

Oh snap. I left off on page 1 and we’re already on page 3. What did I miss.

Oh well, get ready for some old news.

I think there is something attractive about a married man that is committed to his relationship and not still shopping for opportunities.

@ Mo – exactly. The sad part is when the married guy lets you know he’s willing to break his vows with you. Turns him into Shrek!

Elijah ( Professor! What a woman????)

September 30th, 2009
12:59 pm

@PG…. You need to come and represent your Bengals! They could be 3-0 this year!

@Kym I think your Steelers are in trouble this year!

@Professor…..This is a like one of the T.V. realty shows!

@Raqi….Lamar Odom married a Kardishan in one month! Brad was ready to do the do with Angie, it does not always take a lifetime to make a quick decision in regards to a relationship!

Melodramatizulu

September 30th, 2009
12:59 pm

He’s been on a few talk shows talking about how he does….

just as well u talking bout Brad!

For a moment, i thoght,Daaaamn..who??? WD pple doing Opraah??
But i have a feeling,WD is geting a promo at her job soon.

Raqi

September 30th, 2009
1:00 pm

oh well

Tazzee Here have a seat beside me ’cause it just seems to not want to die out. We may as well watch too.

Sassy Me...juicy fruit...there can be only one :-)

September 30th, 2009
1:01 pm

Hey Eli…how you doin?….

Compelling

September 30th, 2009
1:01 pm

Yeah this has been goin’ on so long, I wanna hear it. Please put it ALL out there.

W8©

September 30th, 2009
1:02 pm

Wow..this is me right here…no need for me to come in under another name…Do i keep personal things personal…yup…I do owe a debt to someone on this blog..and i have had a personal relationship with someone on this blog…i have been getting texts daily..and phone calls..and those who called can share the response I gave if they like…and for those who are wondering..”it was if someone needs to get in contact with me they know how to, I dont care what people who dont know me or have any impact on my life think about me” I am glad I am entertainment for the masses though…but I can be reached the sameway I always have..and honestly I havent been on the Blog for quite a few weeks…and as I always say…Dont Yall Judge Me…lol…if you have the cell number it’s the same…and the email is to..att_rr@yahoo.com

Dream_n

September 30th, 2009
1:03 pm

@ Ms. Main
had to stop highlighting numbers on my spreadsheet for this one

LOL.. you’re silly..

man i hate being enticed by drama.. but this is interesting :)

Professor-GET YO' HANDS OUT OF MY POCKETS!

September 30th, 2009
1:03 pm

@Raqi this popcorn is a little buttery but here have some, and we have some gobbers and Tabs too. Help yourself

Just Saying

September 30th, 2009
1:03 pm

If you thought it was ugly before, it’s about to get even uglier. My prediction is that this blog will not survive this debacle.

Sassy Me...juicy fruit...there can be only one :-)

September 30th, 2009
1:03 pm

Ms. Main

September 30th, 2009
1:04 pm

Raqi…there’s enough room on the front row for all…lol

I’ll patronize (i.e. movies) Brad but I don’t see like I do after his greener grass move

Sassy Me...juicy fruit...there can be only one :-)

September 30th, 2009
1:05 pm

If you thought it was ugly before, it’s about to get even uglier. My prediction is that this blog will not survive this debacle.

:shock: :shock: :shock:

Professor-GET YO' HANDS OUT OF MY POCKETS!

September 30th, 2009
1:06 pm

In the words of Jr. from “That’s My Mama”

OOOOOOOOOOOOOOoooooooooooooooooooooooooooWWWWWwwweeeeeeeeeeeee

8-O

Ms. Main

September 30th, 2009
1:06 pm

I do owe a debt to someone on this blog..and i have had a personal relationship with someone on this blog

Cash and Kitty

Kym aka Dominque Deveraux

September 30th, 2009
1:08 pm

Oh the blog will survive of this I am sure. I like coming here..I have met nice people here..and I am not going to let someone else’s foolishness ruin it. All this drama had nothing to do with the blog other than it was common ground where all the loonies involved met. Well now…loonies have come back here for sympathy and they are not getting it like they want. Oh well. Have that pity party off the blog.

Demigod33

September 30th, 2009
1:10 pm

Dayum…the food was good…

ra

September 30th, 2009
1:11 pm

Ms.Main doesnot recognize?who are u?the pope?pls it is as old as the world ,mankind falls in and out of love,deal with it.It is not like BP and JA had kids.People let go of this topic already!

SexyCool - I take life as it comes.

September 30th, 2009
1:11 pm

Oh well, into each blog some drama must fall. C’est la vie.

Sassy Me...juicy fruit...there can be only one :-)

September 30th, 2009
1:12 pm

Oh well. Have that pity party off the blog.

:shock: :shock:

Oh the blog will survive of this I am sure.

Mr. Big Mouf (I got the Whole Scoop & Nothing but The Scoop...so help me Blog)

September 30th, 2009
1:13 pm

Ladies ladies ladies I never said I was that dude. Look at yall. LOL I just know a few on here and too many details than I care to share. But for real what do yall really want to know? This here is hysterical and sad at the same damn time. LMAO

Mo (aka Moeisha - on a sugar high )

September 30th, 2009
1:14 pm

Demigod33 – Thanx Chocolate Baby, hope you enjoyed yaself…..

alrighty then……LOL!