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The Chase Has Changed

It’s no secret that women enjoy being pursued. When it’s a guy we really like all the gestures, time, and effort he puts into spending time with us builds chemistry. It’s something we don’t like going without once we’ve had it.

Are guys still interested in chasing women, though? I think they are, to a degree.  I think the way they pursue women has changed. The chase style of men varies of course but what keeps a man engaged in the chase?

Guys there are totally new ways you pursue women but we don’t always know when it’s happening. What is your pursuit style? Does your pursuit style depend on whether you are pursuing a serious relationship or something casual? How would a woman know the difference?

Ladies, do you think the chase has changed? If so, how?  In your experiences, what do you love most about being pursued?

353 comments Add your comment

Wise Diva

September 29th, 2009
4:27 pm

Professor, yea, I was surprised Keri did a track with him, oh well to that

Professor...shine the spotlight on me

September 29th, 2009
4:28 pm

@Ared I don’t know what redtube.com is but it sounds seedy! If you are on redtube.com oh, well

Cemeeli

September 29th, 2009
4:28 pm

Leggs – they really are jacked-up to say the least. wow…jus…dag!

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

September 29th, 2009
4:29 pm

Melo – Don’t try to get me roped up in that high school ish. Ask a certain Cali resident if she wants to come out and play again with you if that’s the tip you on right now. Isn’t it enough at home with Queen & the kids to keep you occupied. I thought Demigod squashed you about that shiggity earlier.

I’m a grown azz woman with a life – livin like it’s golden!

Melodramatizulu

September 29th, 2009
4:30 pm

Ared,i think it is a lamashious site where u post “nice” videos.
My employer sponsored inenert blocked it!

Ms. Main

September 29th, 2009
4:30 pm

Healthcare, I shudder to think about it. Got pamphlets in the mail yesterday for 2010….if you make 50,000.00 or more you paying more outcha check, namebrand medicine copay going from $10.00 to $50.00 and some other horrific things mentioned but I was pretty much done after the first couple of lines. I almost what to drop my policy and pay out of pocket all together but that would be the one time something catastropic (God forbid) happens and I’ll need a hospital stay. I tell ya, can’t win for losing

Ms. Main

September 29th, 2009
4:31 pm

Uh uh..just saw the comment above mine…Melo you getting into trouble again?

Jamoca

September 29th, 2009
4:31 pm

LOL. Between shyte and syphillis. Okay RandyT. Heyheyhey…crazy.

Cee – LOL. Please stop giving away the family secrets on that pot liqqa. ;) Whatchu’ got over there in that skillet?…you know I’m still on strike down here? Lol

Melo – I’m glad you got the gist of what I was sayin’…now regarding that site…(smh)

debatin’ if I should say my piece or just “be still”…cuz some things were just evident, before the profile hit the scene. So what really is there left to say…(you justa salivatin’…aint cha Zulu? LOL

Melodramatizulu

September 29th, 2009
4:31 pm

Kimmie, yeah its almost time to go home, i need some high to beat this traffic!

Leggs

September 29th, 2009
4:34 pm

Haaaa, sorry, but just thought of the topic “The Chase Has Changed.” Yes indeed. Supposedly, the FBI agent is now being chased by women. That’s rich when you think about it! (sorry)!

Ms. Main

September 29th, 2009
4:34 pm

want not what…altogether not all together…

Dream_n

September 29th, 2009
4:37 pm

what you can teach her,what she can teach you

u getting mature by each blogging day Dream_N!
amenable to being taught??

That statement had nothing to do with what you think it did….. smh

Grace

September 29th, 2009
4:38 pm

don’t be tardy for the party oooh oooh don’t be tardy for the party

Leggs

September 29th, 2009
4:39 pm

Grace you are fined $2,000 for posting that mess!

Melodramatizulu

September 29th, 2009
4:39 pm

My Main Dream is to get it Gracefully!

hwz that rhyme??

AmazonRed™

September 29th, 2009
4:40 pm

LOL @ Leggs.

So far, sounds like a typical story to me. Man and woman meet, woman trust man, woman gives man money. Check bounces. Man disappears. Man ends up on dontdatehimgirl.com

I would say that we should be too old to fall for such things, but having a friend in a similar situation this year…apparently not!

Grace

September 29th, 2009
4:40 pm

Professor...shine the spotlight on me

September 29th, 2009
4:41 pm

I found the whole thing very comical. Who fell for that mess? When I told folks on this blog they were being played like Madden they got upset and tried to run ol’ professor out of town…I was just trying to save the chicken heads! Hey there is nothing like a bought lesson, and it seems like they bought in on the dream.

Jamoca

September 29th, 2009
4:42 pm

I think I’ll be still…and let the others frolick in this mess.

But really Melo, ain’t no undercover…that’s just all around advice no matter the circumstance. Folks just need to be more aware and open their mouths. We all live and learn…I’m sure we’ve all “paid” dearly for our life’s lessons in some form or fashion. Ain’t shyt for free…well not the good shyt = (meaning certain things/lessons we can carry with us throughout our lives to help us to make wiser decisions and choices. Even a bottle of water cost a $1.00…heck clean air cost a pretty penny. And life’s lessons are paid with all forms of “tenders”…unfortunately some folks pay with their lives. But thankfully money can be made (again)…whereas a person life…there’s only one.

Melodramatizulu

September 29th, 2009
4:43 pm

Ared/Proff,if u read it the way u do,why do we have 4 regular blog females all missing??

Dream_n

September 29th, 2009
4:44 pm

My Main Dream is to get it Gracefully

lol.. melo you are pure comedy

Melodramatizulu

September 29th, 2009
4:45 pm

coz look,if its all about the money,why post sexx on the site!

gotta be about more than 1 woman,sexx and then money

=
all 4 woman pleading the fifth!(mouf shut)

Professor...I knew this would happen!

September 29th, 2009
4:45 pm

@ Ared I totally agree!!! Not to mention all the players we have on here that know the game…I guess we have some old timers getting played.

This is some BS let me go and get my rest. I was summon from my recovery to look at this…

Jamoca

September 29th, 2009
4:45 pm

Grace between that “tardy for the pardy” and taking single, not looking but open for $100…you need timeout! LOL

AmazonRed™

September 29th, 2009
4:46 pm

Professor – I also believed that all the blog kicking it would only end in drama. I don’t see why folks are so thirsty for companionship they’ll look for it anywhere. Not to say there aren’t good folks on this blog, but always be wary of finding friends in a place where you can be whomever you want to be AND have no accountability for anything you say!

Ms. Main

September 29th, 2009
4:46 pm

So far, sounds like a typical story to me. Man and woman meet, woman trust man, woman gives man money. Check bounces. Man disappears. Man ends up on dontdatehimgirl.com

You getting blasted? It ain’t that simply. A chick angry? Hell hath no fury. I’d venture to say more went on than writing a bad check. She made mention of him being no good and that his little girl can’t see him for what he truly is. I think the bad check thing just caught someone’s eye enough to spread the news…oh and the fact that she put him on that website.

Professor...I knew this would happen!

September 29th, 2009
4:47 pm

Dammitt melo make them talk. Now is the time to work your zulu mojo…LOL

Page1908

September 29th, 2009
4:47 pm

Ughhh hectic schedule. i’m sure no one is on topic by now, but sexy cool, i hear you on the health care issue. i remember about six months ago my coworker cancelled her insurance because she heard what was coming down the pike, then she got into an accident.

AmazonRed™

September 29th, 2009
4:47 pm

why do we have 4 regular blog females all missing??

melo – Who are the 4 missing females?

I hope I wasnt counted in that when I was out in New Orleans. I already told y’all I don’t go for blog azz. :lol:

Leggs

September 29th, 2009
4:49 pm

“…they were being played like Madden” ~ @Professor, those were your exact words. Anyone can get “got” at any point in life until life you have no more. Not just the young and dumb, or old and senile. If you’re human, then you can get “got!”

Melodramatizulu

September 29th, 2009
4:49 pm

I already told y’all I don’t go for blog azz

Dream_n

September 29th, 2009
4:50 pm

I already told y’all I don’t go for blog azz

F’n hilarious….

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

September 29th, 2009
4:50 pm

But really Melo, ain’t no undercover…that’s just all around advice no matter the circumstance.

Jam – That’s where I was coming from. Don’t have the time/inclination for all the side shiggity going on. And folks trying to stir up shyt & live vicariously thru others.

With that, I’m out. Lovely day out there. Drive safely, everyone!

Professor...I knew this would happen!

September 29th, 2009
4:50 pm

Gurl YES! Ared you are reading my mind.

Page1908

September 29th, 2009
4:50 pm

she got into a car accident, then when the hospital bills came, she didn’t have any insurance to cover it.

Melodramatizulu

September 29th, 2009
4:52 pm

mars,venus,pluto and saturn

Professor...I knew this would happen!

September 29th, 2009
4:52 pm

Not to mention some of them were slobbing over everything he said and someone else could say something similar and they were ready to fight. Shoot I bet he got a nice amount. W8, hook me up on that alleged ponzi scheme…I am just saying!

Ms. Main

September 29th, 2009
4:54 pm

Not to mention some of them were slobbing over everything he said and someone else could say something similar and they were ready to fight. Shoot I bet he got a nice amount. W8, hook me up on that alleged ponzi scheme…I am just saying!

Yep, that’s how I read as well. Sending photos and stuff…too funny What a shiester…so I hear

AmazonRed™

September 29th, 2009
4:55 pm

Yeah, Professor, I heard folks were trying to silence and discredit you! LOL

Wise Diva

September 29th, 2009
4:55 pm

Yeah, well I look forward to the day when that misadventure is behind us all. *sigh*

Ms. Main

September 29th, 2009
4:58 pm

He should reinvent himself and come back as someone else….lol Bet no one would ever catch it…he’s got skills…lol

AmazonRed™

September 29th, 2009
4:58 pm

LOL. WiseDiva, you should use your mod powers to delete posts that ever ask for a blog meetup again. :lol:

Melodramatizulu

September 29th, 2009
4:59 pm

mnisadventure behind u???….not even when u marry a priest.
Maybe the Pope!

:lol:

AmazonRed™

September 29th, 2009
5:00 pm

This is all….JUST DREADFUL! :lol:

Professor...I knew this would happen!

September 29th, 2009
5:01 pm

Professor is beating her little bird chest! Yep, they tried to make it seem like I was a hater. Hell, ol professor is a dime and I get plenty of attention from dudes so it ain’t nothing…hell I wanted to tell those nickels and pennies what was up. Shyte they were ready to fight me…LOL. I see he got in them flea market coach bags…ROTFLMAO

Ok I am calm now. Melo who is missing and you better not have me on that list you know I had my surgery and I am on the sick and shut in list.

Professor...I knew this would happen!

September 29th, 2009
5:03 pm

This is all….JUST DREADFUL!

This is sooo funny to me! I like his profile pic on that site…gone boy do your thing

Jamoca

September 29th, 2009
5:04 pm

Kimmie – I know….it’s just Melo being Melo. ;)

G’nite you all.

Page1908

September 29th, 2009
5:04 pm

omg what is going on now?

AmazonRed™

September 29th, 2009
5:05 pm

I guess it’s nice to know there are so many trusting people in this world. :D

Night all.

Professor...I knew this would happen!

September 29th, 2009
5:06 pm

They are not trusting they are just fools! The Bible states a fool and his money will depart. Wisdom is the key…ol’ professor is not crazy.