She’s Strapped
File this under It’s Not Your Father’s Dating Scene: Brandon calls me after his first date with Kira because he wanted to know if he should be worried about something he noticed. As Kira was getting into her car, Brandon spotted a firearm in her handbag. He wasn’t sure if she had it on her the entire evening or not but it definitely was a gun. She didn’t notice that he saw the gun so they sort of just said goodnight and parted ways.
He asked me if I had a gun (no, not yet) and if it was normal for single women in Atlanta to take a gun on a date. I’m all for protecting yourself as long as you do it responsibly and legally, especially women! I didn’t think it was a red flag, per se, but I told Brandon to definitely talk to her about it. She may have strong opinions about it. Oh, and I also told him to try not to tick her off.
What do you think? Would you be bothered if someone you were dating carried a weapon for protection? If it’s not related to their occupation, would you be ok with them carrying a concealed weapon when you go out?
Have you ever been out with someone and noticed they were carrying a gun? What did you do?
If you are a gun owner, do you mention this fact to people you are dating? How do you broach the subject?
Could a pro-gun person and an anti-gun person co-exist in a relationship?
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Raqi...Basking in Some Warm Delights
September 24th, 2009
8:30 am
I see nothing wrong with the young lady having a gun. In these days we are living in you better be cautious. I have never owned a gun but if I was dating now having a gun in my purse or in my car would not be a bad idea. People are just crazy now.
I don’t dislike guns but I am not too fond of them but I understand their purpose. I didn’t know my husband owned a gun until one night he pulled it out when we heard some disturbance downstairs. Can you imagine my shock when he went into the closet and brought that gun out? LOL Yeah totally shocked me. He has a permit and has told me that I need to get one.
A few days later we discussed him having it in the house and he has insisted on teaching me to use it. You have to protect yourself these days.
And you know as for dating if you ain’t planning on getting out of line why would it matter that a gun is within reach.
Mason and I were listening to the news when the 38 year old later went missing and we talking about how first women need to stop going places alone. If you want to go walking or jogging take someone with you. Heck take a few someones with you. Or carry protection, a gun.
AmazonRed™
September 24th, 2009
8:39 am
Morning all –
Having a concealed weapon is legal so I wouldn’t necessarily be alarmed. But yeah, I’d be bothered only by the fact that I don’t like guns and don’t see them often.
I think a pro gun and anti gun person could exist. This is the south, I’d probably expect it a little. I just read an article yesterday stating how there is a shortage of ammunition, the worst ever, since Obama came into office. All the pro-gun folks are afraid he’ll take away their guns.
DJ Demi
September 24th, 2009
8:55 am
Now when yuh heard about this girl, her name is Maxine
Her beauty is like a bunch of rose (But)
If I ever tell you bout Maxine
You would a say I don’t know what I know (but)
Murder she wrote (Murderation man)
Murder she wrote
Murder she wrote (Na na na)
Murder she wrote
Demi
September 24th, 2009
9:07 am
Things that p!sses me off…
My baby sister…walking out the house in a tank-top’n'bootie short’n'flip-flop…At ten o’clock at night…while I just finish doing some work on her car.
Yes she can rock the dang getup
…but I had to remind her…There are too many crazy men in Atlanta, for her to walk around late at night, wearing what I like to call her ‘youcanlookbutnottouchnorspeaktome’ getup.
Shoot…we need more women on death row…it may help keep some of these weak men in check.
NY2GA, Inc.
September 24th, 2009
9:22 am
This topic is right up my alley! lol.
What’s the problem with carrying a concealed weapon? I don’t see a problem. Women carry guns, tasers, knives, pepper spray, etc. to protect themselves. I just say that we should carry and use our weapons responsibly. Crooks are armed. Why shouldn’t you be?
Wise, I think your friends real issue is the fact that his date felt that she had to bring her weapon out on a date with HIM. She on the other hand may have thought nothing of it because it may be normal for her to carry. Men are protectors. So, her having a gun may have made him think or feel as if 1.) She may not have trusted him 2.) She was trying to ‘be the man’ and protect herself when she should’ve looked to him for protection if something just happend to jump off while they were out.
Well, the man I’m dating now is a former police officer so he has no problem with me being a ‘pistol packing momma’. He even told me what gun would be the best one for me to carry.
AmazonRed™
September 24th, 2009
9:23 am
There are too many crazy men in Atlanta, for her to walk around late at night, wearing what I like to call her ‘youcanlookbutnottouchnorspeaktome’ getup.
If she’s wearing that at 10 pm at night. She’s not going to be walking around randomly in Atlanta. She’s in the car going straight to “his” house!
Kym-likes the Geeks :-)
September 24th, 2009
9:24 am
Good Morning All,
No problem at all with a guy carrying a gun on a date. Protect me until I get my own. I don’t feel it is a needed discussion to have unless the two people are serious, or you are dating someone on probation who has no business around firearms. I actually plan to get a gun and start going to the range. I told a few of my other single friends, outings at the gun range can be our new thing.
Demi
September 24th, 2009
9:35 am
I actually plan to get a gun and start going to the range. I told a few of my other single friends, outings at the gun range can be our new thing.
Kym…can I watch? Women firing guns at the shooting range is HOT!!
NY2GA…are you packing a 9mmm or .45…with 36Ds plus?
And no you can’t use me for target practice
Demi
September 24th, 2009
9:36 am
AmazonRed…worse, she was going to her mail box…I was like WTH?!
Dream_n
September 24th, 2009
9:43 am
Good Morning All
I’m with the majority… I see nothing wrong with carrying a gun to protect yourself as long as it’s done legally and responsibly. Me personally I don’t own a gun and I’m really not too fond of them. Now a days.. you have to be on guard walking out of your house being a woman or a man. Times are hard and people are losing their mind….
I would like to go to a gun range and be a gun owner, but prolly when I get over my fear of the actual “gun” itself. I’ve held a gun one time, my police friend let me. It scarred me… lol.
I say protect yourself… hell most of the scum bags have one, why not us innocent citizens
Dream_n
September 24th, 2009
9:49 am
or you are dating someone on probation who has no business around firearms
THE INFAMOUS DK
September 24th, 2009
9:52 am
Tell that fool to introduce me to her.. I think its sexy.. A majorly cute chick with a pistol. Wow! Reminds me of Pam Grier.. Come on wit it Foxxy Brown..
Raqi...Basking in Some Warm Delights
September 24th, 2009
9:53 am
Brandon calls me after his first date with Kira
“first date” yeah she knew nothing about him and probably was just being careful. At least Brandon knows where she is coming from and where he better not go.
I am actually surprised he saw it as something negative rather than a smart woman being proactive when it comes to safety.
Would he be surprised also if she carried condoms in her purse or had them in her night stand? Safety first.
He could harm her a lot faster with his hands than he could by injecting her with vile fluids.
The gun is probably just the woman being safe.
THE INFAMOUS DK
September 24th, 2009
9:54 am
I have no problem wit it seeing as though I stay Strapped.. Licensed and concealed in a neighborhood or bar near you..
Compelling
September 24th, 2009
9:59 am
I have a gun license and I’ve been to the range a couple times with my guy. We actually enjoy it a lot. However, we disagree about whether to have it in our home. I’m all for it, but he’s worried about having it around our kids when that time comes.
Sexsaaayyyyyy....Cool
September 24th, 2009
10:00 am
Three Words Daily – Be the best.
Sexsaaayyyyyy....Cool
September 24th, 2009
10:03 am
I’m not a gun person. At all.
I was at my sister’s house few weeks ago. She and her bf keep their 9mm on the kitchen counter during the day and at their bedside at night. She always laughs when I ask her to move it out of my sight while I’m there.
Guns don’t kill people. Stupid ass people WITH guns kill people. Yeah, I know. However, I also know some stupid ass people. (Jokes, jokes.)
I’m just not that paranoid. And I hope nothing ever happens in my life to make me that way.
Demi
September 24th, 2009
10:03 am
A majorly cute chick with a pistol. Wow! Reminds me of Pam Grier.. Come on wit it Foxxy Brown…
Amen Amen Ameeeen…Demi is now doing Mr. Brown’s church dance
THE INFAMOUS DK
September 24th, 2009
10:05 am
I have a prime example of women doing to much.. Hanging out at Vino Libro with babe friends and we decided to go to the Majestic for something to eat afterwards. We all jump in our cars and get moving. I lead, two babes follow me and our other friend was following them.. Unbeknownst to us she stops to get gas at the Texaco on Memorial and Moreland at 1:00 in the morning.. Story short they robbed her. Saw her in a CLS and got her.. Took her purse with her keys and phone in it so the car wouldnt move so we had to get it towed. I just happened to be riding back by when I saw her sitting there with police crying.. The one amazing thing I noticed is chicks were running in and out of there like it was ok and we were there to 5 in the morning. Ladies when ya dude tell you dont do that please dont cause we would never forgive ourselves if something happened to you on our watch.. Oh and she had a gun in the car but they got the drop on her..
Randyt (aka Been there, Done that, Got a Closet FULL of t-shirts)
September 24th, 2009
10:08 am
I have never, as far as I know, ever dated a woman who was packing (but admit to a hint of excitement when I got pulled over by an attractive lady cop a few years ago…gun was turnoff but the handcuffs…another subject, LOL). I would suggest that the first consideration for me would be “is she being sensible, or is she a psycho biotch”. Have seen both and I REALLY am uncomfortable around an armed “PB”.
Grace
September 24th, 2009
10:09 am
I grew up in a household with guns and rifles, my dad even carried a gun in the glove compartment of the family car and his truck, I found that out one day when I was snooping around. lol….. I don’t have a problem with my date carrying a gun when we’re out on the town, he’s thinking ahead for protection. What I do have a problem with is if my date decide to show his gun off around me being cocky and me standing/sitting in fear of it going off.
Sexsaaayyyyyy....Cool
September 24th, 2009
10:10 am
IDK – THAT was an unfortunate outcome of bad planning.
Randyt (aka Been there, Done that, Got a Closet FULL of t-shirts)
September 24th, 2009
10:11 am
Hello All from an extremely unappealing Eastern Ohio,
I have never, as far as I know, ever dated a woman who was packing (but admit to a hint of excitement when I got pulled over by an attractive lady cop a few years ago…gun was turnoff but the handcuffs…another subject, LOL).
I would suggest that the first consideration for me would be “is she being sensible, or is she a psycho biotch”? Have seen both and I REALLY am uncomfortable around an armed “PB” so would stay a safe distance away until I have completed my evaluation.
Actually if I stay much more in this place, I might seek out a woman with a gun and borrow it to shoot myself…not a fun place like DC, Europe, etc.
Demi
September 24th, 2009
10:13 am
having a gun will stop most men who value their lives…it will only give you a fighting chance against boys ages 9 – 16 who have never been taught the value of a human life.
The most dangerous age group…
aggwitty
September 24th, 2009
10:13 am
In my dating life I liked crazy broads so guns are a no go.
Randyt (aka Been there, Done that, Got a Closet FULL of t-shirts)
September 24th, 2009
10:13 am
Sorry for the double entry, Internet got squirrelly.
Randyt (aka Been there, Done that, Got a Closet FULL of t-shirts)
September 24th, 2009
10:14 am
Demi…how ya doing?
Demi
September 24th, 2009
10:28 am
Ladies when ya dude tell you dont do that please dont cause we would never forgive ourselves if something happened to you on our watch…
Like women know the meaning of what you are truely saying…
DK…I am a dude and I don’t stop anywhere on moreland…not even for FoxyLady
Raqi...Basking in Some Warm Delights
September 24th, 2009
10:33 am
Infamous yeah that is crazy to be by yourself at that time of the morning.
When I am out with my friends my husband wants me to call him when I am headed home. And let him know when I get there if he is asleep. Which he never is. I can appreciate that.
It’s just crazy out there.
JtJ
September 24th, 2009
10:34 am
Morning All…..
I concur with DK and others….I think the guy felt offended because she chose to bring the gun on the date with HIM. Heck, I don’t blame her one bit. Safety 1st. You never know who the crazies are until it is too late. Just make sure you have a permit to carry a concealed weapon…..so you don’t do something stupid like Plaxico Burress!!!!
I grew up in a house with guns, my step-dad used to take me to target practice in out in the country and we would shoot at anything that moved. I had my own 22” Long Rifle by the time I was 12 and shot an AK-47 when I was 13. I quickly lost my gun privileges when I was overheard threatening a boy who used to bully me. My step-dad was quick to tell me……any fool can shoot a gun, just make sure it warranted and justified.
My fiancé’s dad is an army man and has several guns, but my fiancé is not comfortable with us having one in the house….he is too afraid of the kids getting to it…..I am all for it, as long as we keep it hidden and locked away.
Demi
September 24th, 2009
10:39 am
Randyt…I am doing well…it has been a rough month, but am just going to keep it move.
will admit…the storm put a hole roof…the ceiling in my kitchen, dining room and living room look a hot mess…carpet done for and my house smells like ish
Thanks God for All State!!!
LOL
Demi
September 24th, 2009
10:40 am
>>>>moving
Demi
September 24th, 2009
10:46 am
Hello All from an extremely unappealing Eastern Ohio
RandyT…it’s a good time to break out your ‘Barack Obama’ tee…I am sure you will start a few riots…I am calling FOX NEWS now.
Lioness
September 24th, 2009
10:57 am
Good Morning All
I agree w/ Sexy’s 10:03!
DK- Homegirl wasn’t thinking AT ALL!!
Sexsaaayyyyyy....Cool
September 24th, 2009
11:03 am
Speaking from Brandon’s date perspective – why would she buy a gun for protection and leave it at the house? Doesn’t she need protecting when she’s out?
And to be a smart butt – what was Brandon’s nosey behind doing looking in her purse? and why didn’t he just ask her why she carries? Brandon sounds kinda………..(um, yeah…that.)
Randyt (aka Been there, Done that, Got a Closet FULL of t-shirts)
September 24th, 2009
11:06 am
“Ladies when ya dude tell you dont do that please dont cause we would never forgive ourselves if something happened to you on our watch..”
This is a sore spot for me…please ladies, LISTEN. When I am walking around downtown ATL or really any big city with a lady, I try as subtly as I can to tell her that if we are approached by someone, or are about to be threatened perhaps (and the important point here is BEFORE something happens) if she sees me move, I want her to run like Hellz instantly, find lights, people, cops, and don’t wait for me…I will strike first, hopefully delay/disarm, injure as quickly as possible and be right behind her eventually.
I don’t want to sound like Rambo to her or to anyone on this blog, but I was trained at Ft. Bragg many years ago and there is a method to the madness in the Army. That stuff they teach you ALWAYS remains there just under the surface about how to kill or disable. A few rules about confrontation:
1) ALWAYS, ALWAYS, ALWAYS be aware of everything going on around you. Always be doing a threat assessment if you are in an area that might pose a threat. Your eyes should always be sweeping just like radar…these are dangerous times.
2) When you do notice anything even mildly discomforting ALWAYS start making a plan of action, who do you take down, how, take a knee out, knife edge of hand to Adams apple, can you slam the heel of your hand driving one’s nose up into brain (this one is for lethal situations only because if done correctly almost always kills the other)…escape route, the point is KNOW what you are going to do BEFORE you encounter trouble so you can ACT not REACT.
3) If action is inevitable don’t wait, strike first. The one who swings first ALWAYS has the advantgage.
4) One of the biggest bravest men I ever knew told me as a teenager, “a good run is better than a bad stand any day”. Use the time you have delayed them to run like a MUFR (see above “plan…escape route”).
As I said before ladies, please just LISTEN, don’t argue, sometimes even men know somethings.
Compelling
September 24th, 2009
11:14 am
I shut down in situations like that, I can’t help it. My family always say they’d hate to be in a serious situation with me because they’d have to be the person to get us out of it. I don’t know, I just get intensely afraid and I panic.
Dream_n
September 24th, 2009
11:19 am
My sister is the same way you are Compelling…. I would never want to be caught in a situation with her, b/c she would definately panic… (and she’s older)…..
terri
September 24th, 2009
11:19 am
carring a gun brings the spirit of confrontation
Randyt (aka Been there, Done that, Got a Closet FULL of t-shirts)
September 24th, 2009
11:20 am
@ Compelling … I don’t know what part of town you live in, but truthfully self defense is a lot like taking swimming lessons, you learn something that could save your life someday. I would really suggest to you and all ladies on the blog to find a self defense class for exactly the reason you just stated, to let instinct and training take over. Even if nothing happens bad to you ever, it empowers you and gives you a confidance that is always a good thing. Worst come to worst, it is good exercise.
Just do it…trust me on this one.
Dream_n
September 24th, 2009
11:24 am
carring a gun brings the spirit of confrontation
Yes I agree for some people it does …
For Real
September 24th, 2009
11:29 am
“it empowers you and gives you a confidance that is always a good thing. ” – Except when confidance meets experience!
Demi
September 24th, 2009
11:29 am
I was trained at Ft. Bragg many years ago and there is a method to the madness in the Army. That stuff they teach you ALWAYS remains there just under the surface about how to kill or disable.
And then our govament release these folks back into our society…AIN’T THAT SOME ISH!!
RandyT is now bustin his GI Joe skills on a Demi
Tazzee - under the weather
September 24th, 2009
11:32 am
Morning Folks!
I have a gun and my fiance’ took me to the range and taught me how to shoot it. We need to go back though – my aim wasn’t what I want it to be. He’s licensed to carry a concealed weapon although he only carries it when he’s working.
So, as you can see, I have no problem with guns or people that have them. Hopefully Brandon will mention it to Kira if it concerns him.
Randy your 11:06 post is H-O-T!
Demi
September 24th, 2009
11:33 am
Sexsaaayyyyyy….Cool…I just love the way your screen name rolls of my tongue, LOL
How are you sir?
Lioness…wazs the delly sonz?!
Melo
September 24th, 2009
11:33 am
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/africa/8272450.stm
This sounds like more fun to discuss!
Leggs
September 24th, 2009
11:34 am
@RandyT, very informative!
THE INFAMOUS DK
September 24th, 2009
11:34 am
Randy – Im Ex Military also.. Air Assault and Jump School at Benning and Desert Storm 90-91..
Thats funny cause I used to tell my EX wife “If anything goes on you just make it to the car. I’ll call you later to come pick me up”..
kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!
September 24th, 2009
11:34 am
What’s up great blog people?
As the regulars know, I am currently taking martial arts classes with my SO and his children. We are halfway to black belt and SO is now an assistant instructor. Along with the regular training on the art itself, our instructor teaches self-defense techniques. What to do if someone comes up behind you and grabs you in a certain way, comes at you in a certain way, etc. One day SO’s son & daughter were playing around after class, rough-housing. The boy(9) grabbed the girl(7) arms and the next minute, boy was flat on the floor. Baby girl just had a natural reaction! Boy was stunned, but not hurt and had to give her her props. The master saw it and has not stopped talking about it and it happened back in May! I cannot tell you how empowered it makes me feel! I know if I am caught in a situation, I have some way to get out of it enough so I can RUN!
I have a good friend in law enforcement that is going to teach me how to shoot. I am very afraid of guns, but I want to know how to use one.
Compelling
September 24th, 2009
11:34 am
@Randyt- Yeah maybe I should take a few classes. I’ve always thought they were a bit impractical because it doesn’t mirror a real-life situation. I guess if anything it could help me get over the fear I have.
@Dream_n- Maybe ur sister needs to hit up the same class I do huh?
Deeva4Life
September 24th, 2009
11:42 am
It makes me feel better to know I’m not the only one afraid of guns. Like someone else stated, I know it’s people that use the guns that kill people but the sight of a gun really makes me nervous. I’ve never even held a gun in my hand…I’d probably pass out…LOL I know that I need to learn how to shoot a gun, but at this point I’m scared of them.
Wings()
September 24th, 2009
11:44 am
I’ve Carried a gun in my former career but I did not like the false since of power that it gave me…..I felt really aggressive…prefer not to carry, but it’s a must have for the home.
@Demi – I scored a 98 on the range and my favorite stance is the Isosceles….oh yeah!
I probably would not go out with someone that I did not feel safe with.
Wings()
September 24th, 2009
11:46 am
Morning Everyone!
Dream_n
September 24th, 2009
11:46 am
@ Kimmie
aww that was so cute…. Sometimes I think my lil one was supposed to be a boy.. She runs around the house play fights with us and can really hold he own (lol)… I think that would be good to get her into martial arts classes….
Wings()
September 24th, 2009
11:47 am
@Randyt – What part of Ohio are you in?
Demi
September 24th, 2009
11:51 am
Mr Mbele is said to own about 100 cows and 250 goats, livestock is seen a sign of wealth in rural traditional communities.
oooooooh…wait ’til I get my money right.
When a man wants to take another wife, the first wife is usually involved in the discussions on who should be married and often needs to give her blessing.
American women needs to get with the program!!!
Demi body was found ten months later…ridden with bullet holes…with the initials: WLB…cut into his forehead
Wings()
September 24th, 2009
11:53 am
@Kimmie – The thought of you becoming a black belt – I love it! So Charlie Angelish……now that I think about it, for women that is more appropriate form of self defense….no one expects to get their butt kicked by a woman………humm
Demi
September 24th, 2009
11:55 am
@Demi – I scored a 98 on the range and my favorite stance is the Isosceles….oh yeah!
Awwwwww…skeet skeet!!!
Wing…Amen sister!!!
Wings()
September 24th, 2009
11:56 am
Demi – OMG! Do you seriously think the EX is going pick the best? Even if all her stats are good, the heart wants what it wants……..go figure.
kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!
September 24th, 2009
11:59 am
Dream_n – I am a believer of martial arts for kids now. Not only are they able to defend themselves, but it teaches them respect and raises their self-esteem. I see the difference in SO’s kids when they have not been to class in awhile. And no, they don’t go around thinking they can beat up everyone either- part of the pledge we say at the beginning of every class is that we promise to not misuse what we learn in class. The kids have to pledge to respect their parents, school teachers and their martial arts instructors. The class also gives them an outlet for all that energy!
There is a guy in the class about 14 that has grown tremendously over the past year. He was shy and lacked confidence. All that has changed and he is now a jr instructor, halfway to black belt.
They start kids as young as 4. You should see them, they are very good!
Demi
September 24th, 2009
11:59 am
no one expects to get their butt kicked by a woman
True…I’ve dated a few heavy female body builders in the past…I alway felt safe with them…tee-a-heehee
kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!
September 24th, 2009
12:00 pm
Wings – Yeah, I do feel kinda powerful, “Angelish”!LOL!!
Dream_n
September 24th, 2009
12:06 pm
kimmie
I just might try that with her… oh tell me about the energy of a 3 yr old.. She starts when she wakes up and doesn’t finish until she falls asleep…
I take her to the park sometimes to get all that energy out… come home.. take her a bath and she’s out like a light lol….
thanx for the idea
Demi
September 24th, 2009
12:06 pm
Wings…culture differences…we americans are way too selfish to share OUR puddy/wang…period.
see Melo for more info on the ART of Zululism
Wings()
September 24th, 2009
12:11 pm
@Demi – That’s not being selfish……but it is a religious/cultural difference. Would you want to share your wife?
Wings()
September 24th, 2009
12:13 pm
I’ll check in with you guys later……..
Demi
September 24th, 2009
12:23 pm
Would you want to share your wife?
Wings…with another woman, YES…another man, NO.
too bad I have renounce my lesbian ways
So the answer is no…for now. If I hit the lotto…I may become the first short zulu in Zulu history, LOL
Raqi...Basking in Some Warm Delights
September 24th, 2009
12:27 pm
Where is Melo?
Randyt (aka Been there, Done that, Got a Closet FULL of t-shirts)
September 24th, 2009
12:30 pm
Hey, sorry I had to duck out for awhile.
Wings – Waverly, Ohio…do work for the Nuke site in Portsmouth (help, get me outta here!!!!)
Compelling – I think that anything that helps build one’s confidence is great. it may sound stupid, but one of the best confidence builders is sky diving. Conquer thaat fear and dayum near nothing will ever scare you again. One of the best “rushes” you can ever experience too. Make it to the gorund and you are confident from then on that you can always “make it ot the ground” from then on, no matter what life throws at ya.
@ DK …way to go man!!! What was it they used to say about Ft Benning and Jump School…
“The first week they separate the men from the boys (PT week)
The second week they separate the idiots from the men (tower week)
The third week the idiots jump )LOL, Jump week).
I got my commission about the time Vietnam ended so did not stay for much active duty, but spent time at Bragg, Carson, Huachuca, Gordon, etc. You’re the hero man, not me. But the training stays with ya.
Black Mamba
September 24th, 2009
12:34 pm
Hola Blogsville…..I’m just dropping in on ya!
ON Topic…with all the no good succubuses in ATL a girl can’t be too careful. She should be strapped. Some these dudes lie so much they start to believe their own lies! If they can lie that can be physically dangerous…so as Madea said….”Piece be still”…and the Black Mamba is getting her “piece”!
DJ Demi
September 24th, 2009
12:47 pm
and the Black Mamba is getting her “piece”!
You lying…bout got 10 guns now…Yellin Staceye Bone and sing…
Mo murda mo murda
Come come again
[Repeat 8x]
Dear Mr.Ouija,
Let ‘em know who the boss is
So ‘igga you wanna get tossed in the river?
Me show ‘em the Bone when I grab that chrome,
Gotta haunt that dome,
Folla me roll stroll down East 1999
Gotta find these row O’es,
Lioness
September 24th, 2009
12:48 pm
Demi- Hey
i'm swiss
September 24th, 2009
12:53 pm
“…with all the no good succubuses in ATL…”
Staceye — shouldn’t that be succubi?
Actually, just checked & either are acceptable — I’m a nerd.
Thanks, now I’m going to have that word on the brain all day. When I accidentally refer to my boss as a succubus & get fired, I’mma make you pay my rent. 
DJ Demi
September 24th, 2009
12:54 pm
Lioness…I am looking for some New York gangsta lyrics, that doesn’t require a whole lot of editing…but y’all NY folks got some jazzy mouths, LOL
Raqi...Basking in Some Warm Delights
September 24th, 2009
1:00 pm
but one of the best confidence builders is sky diving
That’s a lie. My husband did it and it did not build MY confidence. It nearly gave me a heart attack.
DJ Demi
September 24th, 2009
1:08 pm
Raqi…sky driving is SAFE and FUN…ask RandyT and DK.
Tazzee - under the weather
September 24th, 2009
1:13 pm
Yeah, skydiving is a no-no for me. I’ll do other things to build my confidence…like look in every mirror I pass
Raqi...Basking in Some Warm Delights
September 24th, 2009
1:17 pm
like look in every mirror I pass
LMBO yeah. That’s pretty good.
THE INFAMOUS DK
September 24th, 2009
1:19 pm
Raqi – Its the silence after the jump that I love.. Its the most peaceful thing..
Raqi...Basking in Some Warm Delights
September 24th, 2009
1:19 pm
What’s ailing you today Tazzee?
Raqi...Basking in Some Warm Delights
September 24th, 2009
1:22 pm
Infamous Nope you all can have it.
I was not even there when my husband jumped but the thought of it just…man I tell ya.
I told him if he came home to me dead I was going to kill him.
M'
September 24th, 2009
1:22 pm
Hey peeps…I see DJ Demi be back…lol
On Topic: No, the gun toting would not bother me…maybe that is b/c my pops carried one on and off duty…and my Grandmother, also in law enforcement with Cook County, never left home without her gun as well…and my Grandfather, also City of Chicago PD…it is not the gun, but the intention behind having the gun that is the issue.
Tazzee - under the weather
September 24th, 2009
1:25 pm
Raqi – I don’t know what it is but I woke this morning with pain when I swallow. It hurts like the dickens! Plus a little headache and nauseau. I took some advil so I can swallow and the headache is gone – for now.
Melo
September 24th, 2009
1:30 pm
prego!
Tazzee - under the weather
September 24th, 2009
1:31 pm
Yeah, umm nausea
Raqi...Basking in Some Warm Delights
September 24th, 2009
1:32 pm
Tazzee sounds like it could be sinus related. Those are three common symtoms of a sinus infection.
Tazzee - under the weather
September 24th, 2009
1:34 pm
Melo – NOT!!! And I’m putting The Color Purple fingers on you for even saying that
Tazzee - under the weather
September 24th, 2009
1:35 pm
Thanks Raqi – I’ll grab some sinus meds on the way home. Never had one of those before. I googled my symptons and a host of things came up (prego was NOT one of them Melo!)
Melo
September 24th, 2009
1:41 pm
Tazzee..wheeeeew!(Tazzee, wiping her brow),it was close then
Randyt (aka Been there, Done that, Got a Closet FULL of t-shirts)
September 24th, 2009
1:43 pm
Raqi once you get out of the plane, there is no sense of falling, it is like your floating in the sky. Awesome rush and you finally get a real sense of just how big the sky is.
Raqi...Basking in Some Warm Delights
September 24th, 2009
1:43 pm
Tazzee my oldest suffers from sinus infections so I know the symptoms well. Try Sudafed or something for post nasal drip.
Raqi...Basking in Some Warm Delights
September 24th, 2009
1:48 pm
RandyT, until I get to heaven and the Lord gives me my wings I ain’t trying to fly nor touch the sky.
THE INFAMOUS DK
September 24th, 2009
1:50 pm
Tazzee – Thats what rapping on the mike and championship wrasslin will get ya..
I’m sorry I couldnt help it.. That was too easy..
Randyt (aka Been there, Done that, Got a Closet FULL of t-shirts)
September 24th, 2009
1:53 pm
Raqi …quote from Ian Fleming’s “You Only Live Twice” (James Bond 007 – a haiku…
“You only live twice,
once when you’re born,
and once when you look death in the face”
…or as written on a t-shirt at the Ocoee White Water Rafting Center, “If you aren’t living on the edge, you are just taking up space” LOL.
…or as written on the backs of a cell phone tower crew, “A Life Lived In Fear Is a Life Half Lived”.
Melo
September 24th, 2009
1:59 pm
rapping on the mike ???
that wld be a good qstion to ask a girl..
Melo:so, sweet chica,do u rap??
Chica: ummm,by rap u meaaaan,eeeeehh.. ooooh yeah,sure!
Angie
September 24th, 2009
2:03 pm
waving to ev1!
Tazzee - under the weather
September 24th, 2009
2:06 pm
Sudafed – check!
Melo – wasn’t even close.
DK – no rapping on the mike over here. That’s one thing I have never experienced. Although I do remember the first time I heard that term. I was playing truth or dare in college and I was like ’sure!’ because I wanted to be a rapper in my former life. My friends that knew better throught that was hilarious.
Angie
September 24th, 2009
2:11 pm
*looking around for 2C*
if he is here in CA i wouldn’t mind seeing him, but we would either end up fightin’ or breakin’ headboards! giggle.
i don’t and won’t ever carry a gun.
Angie
September 24th, 2009
2:14 pm
have a fab day all!
Kym-likes the Geeks :-)
September 24th, 2009
2:15 pm
Okay For Real..I think this story is just too cool.
http://www.nydailynews.com/lifestyle/health/2009/09/24/2009-09-24_woman_is_pregnant_with_two_babies_not_twins_rare_case_of_superfetation_say_docs.html
Demi
September 24th, 2009
2:17 pm
in my best Mr. Brown voice
Oooooooooooh…My blog ladies be rapping!!!
That’s one thing I have never experienced.
Awwwwwww…My Tazzee is not a supafreak. How cute!!
Tazzee - under the weather
September 24th, 2009
2:19 pm
Kym – I just saw that story. That is wild!
Melo
September 24th, 2009
2:20 pm
That’s one thing I have never experienced
compared to u, my past lyfe really resembles a 2 yr old’s soiled diapers.
Ur lyfe has been pretty much str8 up lady.No edge,like RandyT and u- know-who.
I really heart u!
Casey
September 24th, 2009
2:22 pm
He that live by the sword shall die by the sword. That means weapons of all sorts. Carry Jesus, he’ll see you through
Lioness
September 24th, 2009
2:26 pm
http://www.cnn.com/2009/POLITICS/09/24/lowery.fist.bump/index.html
Rell - In a mackish mood
September 24th, 2009
2:27 pm
and u- know-who.
naw we dont know?!?!?!
THE INFAMOUS DK
September 24th, 2009
2:30 pm
Casey – Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil: for thou art with me; thy rod and thy staff they comfort me.
kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!
September 24th, 2009
2:33 pm
On Essence.com there is a column called “It’s a Man’s World”. There is a dude on there that is an ex-basketball player that played in Europe. He is nice-looking, no doubt tall and has his degree and is a senior executive at a marketing firm and lives in the ATL. He says nobody appreciates that he’s Mr. Nice Guy and won’t give him a chance. He admits when he was a baller he was selfish and juggled several women. Now he says he’s ready to settle down, but women won’t give him the time of day & everyone he meets is superficial.
Most of the bloggers, including the men, are saying he’s used to women falling all over him and is now looking for sympathy love. They say he’s spitting game. Whatchall think?
Demi
September 24th, 2009
2:34 pm
He that live by the sword shall die by the sword. That means weapons of all sorts</i.
Why are folks always misquoting this verse?
Lioness
September 24th, 2009
2:35 pm
Kimmie- I don’t believe him..
Sexsaaayyyyyy....Cool
September 24th, 2009
2:39 pm
I’ma go with you, Lioness. He needs more people.
kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!
September 24th, 2009
2:40 pm
Lioness – Me either. Plus, somebody made a point – now that he’s published his picture and all in Essence.com, with his “Imma Nice Guy” sob story, he’s going to be inundated with offers from the desperate. Somebody said he’s probably got like 2000 “friends” on Facebook already!LOL!!
mytw♥cents.
September 24th, 2009
2:40 pm
FILTHY VILLANOUS DK You, sir, are a heathen of the highest sort. The Lawd ain’t thu wit us yet!
KIMMIE Europeans are very liberal with man on manly pleasures… I think he tasted upon it and no mere woman will do.
Dream_n
September 24th, 2009
2:41 pm
Yup… not buying it…..
Have you guys noticed that some people always try to change bible verses to make them fit their life…..
hilarious
Randyt (aka Been there, Done that, Got a Closet FULL of t-shirts)
September 24th, 2009
2:42 pm
Off topic. On the news this morning, a lady in Indonesia had an almost 20 lb baby. Dayum I bet that hurt.
ignorant speaks...(not Demi)
September 24th, 2009
2:45 pm
kimmie…that dude is still playing game…LOL
Now he says he’s ready to settle down, but women won’t give him the time of day & everyone he meets is superficial.
A man who ready to settle down is not on a hunt…that woman will come to him…but if you still have issues that you haven’t dealt with…she will pass you by…and you won’t even notice her passing.
that is my ignorant speak of the day
kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!
September 24th, 2009
2:46 pm
Randy – I saw that baby, with a normal-sized baby next to it! He’s ready for kindergarten!LOL!!
Lioness
September 24th, 2009
2:47 pm
The women that are currently dating him are in
right now cause they probably had no idea dude wasn’t content with their relationship..
Lioness
September 24th, 2009
2:48 pm
That alley cat like boys
Randyt (aka Been there, Done that, Got a Closet FULL of t-shirts)
September 24th, 2009
2:50 pm
Kimmie, i was only 5 lbs, so that means that baby was FOUR TIMES my weight at birth. Dayum.
Demi
September 24th, 2009
2:50 pm
Randyt…she had the baby via c-section, right?
Lioness
September 24th, 2009
2:50 pm
Demi- Of course
Dream_n
September 24th, 2009
2:50 pm
alley cat
LMAO…. I can’t take that word today.. I was craking up yesterday at my desk!!
Lioness
September 24th, 2009
2:51 pm
Pilot Arrested For Stalking Girlfriend With Flyovers
http://www.ktvu.com/news/21103101/detail.html
Lioness
September 24th, 2009
2:52 pm
Dream- I am going to use that word from now on..
I LOVE it!!
Lioness
September 24th, 2009
2:54 pm
Library books infected by bed bugs
http://www.thedenverchannel.com/news/21095953/detail.html
Randyt (aka Been there, Done that, Got a Closet FULL of t-shirts)
September 24th, 2009
3:00 pm
Demi …I didn’t hear. Hope so. Makes sense.
Demi
September 24th, 2009
3:00 pm
Lioness…now ladies will need to start carrying anti-aircraft weapons.
I had a chance to watch the birthing of a ten pounder a few days ago…all I could say was, “WOW”
THE INFAMOUS DK
September 24th, 2009
3:03 pm
Example of classic music.. It is still relevent today..
Tenement buildings and skyscrapers
All polluted and often invaded
With troubled heart and weakened mind
Livin their lives and hopin to find
The golden key to prosperity
Never have a grip on reality
This makes day-to-day living hard
Jump in your fate, never keeping the card
You’re just going through life without a trace
When the answers you seek are in front of your face
You’re blind
You’re blind
Tell ‘em D
You’re headed for the top or so you think
But that’s not true for you, your life’s on the brink
Of self-destruction, total corruption
You better get out or die from consumption
Sweatin’ for a dollar to get nothin back
Cause at the end of the week, you still get taxed
You’d even sell your soul to make your life correct
But with the rate of inflation, you should eat your check
So you try to make a hustle to get ahead
But the only thing you manage is to stay in the red
Concrete-front job to sell to wrecks
And your Jones for success puts your life in check
You’re blind
You’re blind, And you can’t see
You need to wear some glasses like DMC
You’re blind
THE INFAMOUS DK
September 24th, 2009
3:07 pm
My TWO – I remember when, I remember, I remember when I lost my mind
There was something so pleasant about that place.
Rell - In a mackish mood
September 24th, 2009
3:08 pm
DUDE IS SIMPIN IS WAY TO LOVE…with all that “mr nice guy stuff”..women dont like nice guys…can we move on from that….be 100 percent with yourself…its not about her its about the man….HE ALL ON NET with that ish…yeah he prolly got about 100 “big backs” hitting with i am a “good godly women ish”…simpin
ooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo and tazzee…you not busting up nathan…can a playa get down…can i get sick….i lost in all my ff stuff for two weeks…i am out of my funk now…..i will start to seperate myself from you lanes in the W/L column!!!!!
Sybil
September 24th, 2009
3:13 pm
Where is w8?
Demi
September 24th, 2009
3:17 pm
“I have no intention of paying a dime,” the retired minister said.
Goffeney said he’s considering filing a lawsuit to get his library privileges back
You gotta love our “white christian conservative” folks.
Dream_n
September 24th, 2009
3:17 pm
simpin
lol….. I like that
Lioness
September 24th, 2009
3:18 pm
Demi- That is just plain NASTY.. He lives with bugs
Leggs
September 24th, 2009
3:19 pm
Very good song by Gnarles Barley (sp?).
Lioness
September 24th, 2009
3:22 pm
Recession Making Women Think Twice About Babies
http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,554860,00.html?sPage=fnc/health/women
Demi
September 24th, 2009
3:26 pm
Randyt…for real.
Rell…but, he does get points for putting himself out there…in hope of panties flying his way.
Melo
September 24th, 2009
3:28 pm
I had a chance to watch the birthing of a ten pounder a few days ago
u are a strong man buddy…..
i cldnt stand to watch that, i looked the other way when my kids were born..the nurses and doc were saying,”come over here,help us”" I said “No, i aint paid to do that..my job is to lay the pipe,now its on u to clean up,my insherance will cover uall,go ‘head”….
Demi,wld u be courageous enough to lay wit her again and do the do after seeing it wide open like that,like its a 3 wheeler python,swallowing a rabbit..wide open.
U strong boy!
Blog Regular
September 24th, 2009
3:30 pm
I’m looking for w8 too. He owes me money.
Rell - In a mackish mood
September 24th, 2009
3:30 pm
DEMI..he gets no points for going the weenie route…its better to keep your pride intact alone then stick out a bleeding hearts ad to bang some wounded birds…period
Demi
September 24th, 2009
3:33 pm
At the same time, many women said they were skimping on birth control, switching to a cheaper method or even going without as a way of saving money, according to the survey by researchers at the not-for-profit Alan Guttmacher Institute, which studies sexual and reproductive health.
either those women doing a lot of free humpin…dating losers…or don’t believe in using condoms at all…
If she is my girl…i’ll go half and half on some pill.
Dream_n
September 24th, 2009
3:35 pm
I bet there are woman breaking there backs to try to get a chance at him….. lol…
Guys never cease to amaze me…
Lioness
September 24th, 2009
3:38 pm
What You Need to Know About Beer Bellies<– They are not SEXY!!
http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,553182,00.html?sPage=fnc/health/men
Demi
September 24th, 2009
3:39 pm
Rell…that’s the type dude SOME women likes…The same way you keep crazy women off the market…dude is just playing his role, LOL.
Lioness…naw, that dude is beyond that point.
WTH?! W8 got blog folks looking for a bailout?!
Rell - In a mackish mood
September 24th, 2009
3:41 pm
@demi…good point…..lol@me keeping crazy women off the market….lol…thats a good one too homie…straight funny!!!
Lioness
September 24th, 2009
3:42 pm
WTH?! W8 got blog folks looking for a bailout?!
Don’t lend money to ppl if you KNOW you can’t live without it
Leggs
September 24th, 2009
3:44 pm
“…even going without as a way of saving money.” I have now heard it all. So, now you get pregnant and have to pay for the cost of rearing this child which is 100 fold more expensive than popping that daily pill. Talking about priorities!
Melo
September 24th, 2009
3:44 pm
Guys never cease to amaze Dream_n,the same way guys never cease to be amazed by Dream_n and her eeeewh_Na!
opposites attract!
Tazzee - under the weather
September 24th, 2009
3:44 pm
melo – I heart you too.
Rell – talk smack AFTER you win at least one game
Personally, I prefer Kym’s term of alley bat. I think Kym is the one that introduced me to that word.
Wings() (Listening to Conya Doss)
September 24th, 2009
3:45 pm
A lil’ sumthin for ya! Enjoy…
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xh8D-EXz-II
Demi
September 24th, 2009
3:46 pm
Melo…she is just a friend of mines…her dude was too weak to even hold her hand…sad.
That was my third live birthing event…I grain a lot of respect for women each time.
Tazzee - under the weather
September 24th, 2009
3:46 pm
Don’t lend money to ppl if you KNOW you can’t live without it
AMEN!
Lioness
September 24th, 2009
3:47 pm
French Kissing Increases Risk of Oral HPV Infection
http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,520037,00.html?sPage=fnc/health/sexualhealth
Rell - In a mackish mood
September 24th, 2009
3:48 pm
in the words of ray lewis tazz – same thing make you laugh make you cry!!
its on bo pep
Lioness
September 24th, 2009
3:50 pm
Former Inmate Sues Prison Nurse Over 55-Hour Erection<–
http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,525382,00.html?sPage=fnc/health/sexualhealth
Melo
September 24th, 2009
3:51 pm
Demi:
with that beer belly,u got no chance of full penetration.
eve time u try,the belly gets there be4 u even get close to her thighs….u only get 1/2 the head in and thats it.
chic wil be angst
trying kick herself in and boy is like: aaaagh,aaaaagh,aaaaagh..im coming,im coming!! 
Chic: u come already?? aggghhhhhhhhh!!!!!
any chic here WD, dating a guy like that??????
Blog Regular
September 24th, 2009
3:52 pm
It’s not about the money. I’m good with that. He has grossly misrepresented himself. At this point, it’s on principle alone.
Lord Velonese
September 24th, 2009
3:52 pm
As member of the NRA I think everyone should carry a gun. It’s the one thing that keeps this country from being invaded because almost everyone and their grandma has one. Also if someone breaks into your house you need to be able to defend yourself. I feel no sympathy for fools who get broke in on and are murdered and have nothing to defend themselves, it’s like your asking for it.
If I were to date I would tell the chick straight up I have one and I would show my carriers license followed by my counselors license. She doesn’t like it, fine it’s no skin off my teeth. Being mugged, broke in on, or to stop a crime (like a Robbery) is not going down on my watch. I have no problem stopping Barbie Bandits either and to those who want guns banned, you will have to pry them from our cold dead hands first.
Lioness
September 24th, 2009
3:54 pm
Melo-
Blog- I guess you another one of those ppl who like to voice your problems on a blog instead of with the person.. WOMP WOMP
Lioness
September 24th, 2009
3:55 pm
Lord- You are Off the CHAIN!!!
Randyt (aka Been there, Done that, Got a Closet FULL of t-shirts)
September 24th, 2009
3:56 pm
@ Lioness re: French Kissing Increases Risk of Oral HPV Infection …
Oh Shyte!!! “Houston, we have a problem!”
Demi
September 24th, 2009
3:59 pm
And Melo…I am not strong. I just know I am not capable of ‘bringing the pain’…like a human head…soooooo, I just choose to bring as pleasure as I can…as long as I know I can do that…I am da Mayne
Lioness
September 24th, 2009
3:59 pm
Douching Ups Risk of Sexually Transmitted Diseases
http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,493726,00.html?sPage=fnc/health/sexualhealth
Lioness
September 24th, 2009
4:00 pm
Woman in Intensive Care After ‘Restoring Virginity’ for Sixth Time
http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,527058,00.html?sPage=fnc/health/sexualhealth
Melo
September 24th, 2009
4:01 pm
Just say, “Yes, yes, yes…”
I second that Research study findings, Lioness!
The study is on point.
Tazzee - under the weather
September 24th, 2009
4:02 pm
Blog Regular – well I would think that if you knew him well enough to loan him some $$$, you would know how to get in touch with him. I’ve never loaned money to someone that I could not walk up to their front door to get it if need be. It’s never come to that though because I don’t loan what I don’t need and sometimes a few bucks is worth finding the true character of a person. You may have gotten bamboozled this time, but I’m sure you’ve learned your lesson and it won’t happen again. That, to me, is priceless.
Lioness
September 24th, 2009
4:04 pm
Taz- EXACTLY!! That is probably someone he knows that is hiding behind the computer.. WOMP WOMP!!
DJ Demi
September 24th, 2009
4:04 pm
I have no problem stopping Barbie Bandits either and to those who want guns banned, you will have to pry them from our cold dead hands first.
Wha, Wha, Wha, Wha, (Gunfire) Wha, Wha, (Gunfire) Wha
Wha, Wha, Wha, (Gunfire) Wha, Wha, Wha, Wha
Holy, Bible, assault, rifle
Thou shalt, not kill, unless they make you feel
Like they, superior, naw brah, who you wit’
Raqi...Basking in Some Warm Delights
September 24th, 2009
4:07 pm
I agree Blog Regular. Just because I can make it without does not anyone the right to not pay when they owe.
It’s your money and he owes it to you. If you have $1mil in the bank that ain’t nobody’s business and no reason for anyone that takes a loan not to pay.
I can’t stand that. “You don’t need it anyway.” What the hell you know what I need and what difference does it make if I need it or not? I need it because it is mine.
LOL Sorry I went off on that little rant. I guess you all can I have had folks not pay me back.
JtJ
September 24th, 2009
4:08 pm
Hey Lioness…..How you doing” (spoken like Wendy Williams)
Ok…so now douching increases the risk…..wow!!
Kym-likes the Geeks :-)
September 24th, 2009
4:08 pm
Running back For Real Style;
@Tazzee I am not sure if I would be mad about the two bambinos in the womb are not. But its still rather cool.
@ Rell I am losing too this season and I am very grateful to Ms. Tazzee for not bring it up during debriefing..I am hoping the football gods anger has passed.
@Blog Regular. Yeah what Tazzee said. You don’t loan money expecting to get it back from friends. some stuff you just count it joy and move on.
@ Anyone..who has the story of the 20lb baby? I would like to see the little fellow?
Dream_n
September 24th, 2009
4:08 pm
@ Lord Velonese
posts are priceless…
Lioness–
at your links…
You learn something new everyday…
Melo
September 24th, 2009
4:09 pm
LIONESS:??
whats douching?
can i douch my balls??
JtJ
September 24th, 2009
4:10 pm
@ Raqi…..that point about the money touched a nerve…..yes indeed!!
Raqi...Basking in Some Warm Delights
September 24th, 2009
4:11 pm
Tazzee BlogReg stated that he misrepresented himself so I would assume he or she thought they knew him well enough. But like you said sometimes it’s the price we have to pay getting to know people.
Lioness
September 24th, 2009
4:13 pm
Kym-http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,554809,00.html
Raqi- I feel you BUT why not contact that person instead of coming on a blog talking about it?? Can’t get paid by telling us??
JtJ
September 24th, 2009
4:13 pm
@ Kym….20lb Baby pic is on MSN homepage. He is huge!!!!!!OMG, He looks like he could he that little normal-sized baby next to him!!!
Lioness
September 24th, 2009
4:16 pm
JtJ- Hey girlie
Congrats on your upcoming nuptials!!!!!
Melo- No fool!
Raqi...Basking in Some Warm Delights
September 24th, 2009
4:16 pm
don’t loan money expecting to get it back from friends
Kym why the hell not? If they are a true friend they would not take your money and not pay it back. If they fall on hard time they owe it to you to ask for an extension to pay it. Then if you find it in your heart to forgive the debt then so be it. Other than that friends, family or whomever needs to pay when they take your money as you loaning it to them.
A person that doesn’t keep their word is not a true friend. Friendships are usually founded on our words but maintained thru doing what you say you are going to do.
Demi
September 24th, 2009
4:16 pm
Melo…LOL
To all, Demi does not have a beer belly
Funny skit tho.
Raqi...Basking in Some Warm Delights
September 24th, 2009
4:18 pm
Shole did JtJ. People will owe you walk right by you and not say a word.
It’s funny how they know how to find you when they need something, but will act like they don’t see or know you when it’s time to pay it back.
THE INFAMOUS DK
September 24th, 2009
4:20 pm
See another prime example of how messy the blog can be.. You should have never came online with something that happened offline. If W8 owes you get at him, dont hide behind a computer and try and trash the dude.
JtJ
September 24th, 2009
4:21 pm
@ Lioness….thanks darling! Hoping to keep nice and simple.
Lioness
September 24th, 2009
4:21 pm
Raqi- I can’t stand that. “You don’t need it anyway.” <– Are you still cool with this person?? I haven't EVER heard anyone say that before..
Sh!t, I have paid a former friend's georgia power bill in the summer & she was two months behind.. After 3 months, I had to ask the chick for my money back (which I can't STAND to do) and she finally paid me.. We don't speak any longer..
Randyt (aka Been there, Done that, Got a Closet FULL of t-shirts)
September 24th, 2009
4:21 pm
@ Lioness re: Woman in Intensive Care After ‘Restoring Virginity’ for Sixth Time
This made me think of something. I had a vasectomy after the birth of my third child. It is a delicate operation but they can be reversed sometimes. After my divorce I was dating a lady who had grown children and had NO ZERO NADA intentions of ever having children again. So, one morning, laying together in the “afterglow” and knowing how she felt about having any more children, I said to her in my most sincere sounding voice I could muster, “you are incredible, so wonderful, so nice, I am thinking about having my vasectomy reversed so you can have my baby”. She jumped out of bed and grabbed her robe so fast you would think she had been shot in the butt with a pellet gun!!! I was laughing my azz off, she got so scared. I know it is one of those things you just had to be there to appreciate but it was so funny. Took her months to realize that when I sound as serious as a heart attack, there is a 90% chance I am jerking your chain.
Kym-likes the Geeks :-)
September 24th, 2009
4:22 pm
Raqi I understand..believe me as my uncle said..All you have really in life is your word. But not ever one keeps it(especially family). Frankly I think Blog Regular on that stuff.(trying to stir stuff up) cause if someone owes you loot…why not just call them and say hey you owe me. Putting ole dude on blast gets you nada.
Lioness
September 24th, 2009
4:22 pm
DK- I agree!! Ppl are messy for NO reason.. LAME Alley Cats
Blog Regular
September 24th, 2009
4:23 pm
I have learned that most of what he posted here on the blog was lies and garbage.
If the dude hadn’t disappeared, I wouldn’t be on the blog. And by his word, he says that you claimed to know him intimately.
Raqi...Basking in Some Warm Delights
September 24th, 2009
4:23 pm
Lioness evidently he/she cannot contact him. That’s why they asked where is he. I know, people can get ghost when they know you are looking for them.
I don’t know W8’s situation. That may not be the case for him. But I do know about some db I have dealt with and that is what I am speaking.
I have had someone owe me money and I have had to ask someone else that I know knew how to get in touch with them to tell them I was looking for them.
I think W8 has associates that he mingle with on here.
THE INFAMOUS DK
September 24th, 2009
4:28 pm
Ya’ll better stop before Blog reg puts ya on blast..
Raqi...Basking in Some Warm Delights
September 24th, 2009
4:29 pm
Kym I agree putting someone on blast on a public forum is not the way to go about it. However like I told Lioness I have read on here where a few of the bloggers get together and hang out. Maybe BR have tried to contact him and couldn’t. Maybe one of his onling/offline buddies can let him know he is being called to the front line.
I am sorry about the rant, but someone owes me money right now.
And kinda off of W8 but yet on the money lending topic, don’t owe me money, tell me you cannot pay me right now, but walk by me with a new pair of shoes on and then brag about how you got them on sale a few days ago. Oh hell no.
Dream_n
September 24th, 2009
4:29 pm
@ LAME Alley Cats
lmao!!
I am such an advocate of giving and helping people in need… but I have also learned when it comes to money… never lend with the intentions of DEFINATELY getting it back…. don’t lend money if you can’t afford to not see it again… Friend or Family… b/c that day can come and there will be another excuse as to why you have to hold out to get your money back… So when I lend… I lend money that I know I’m okay w/out seeing.. not money I need..
Blogs and messy people… lmao
Sexsaaayyyyyy....Cool
September 24th, 2009
4:29 pm
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Melo
September 24th, 2009
4:29 pm
Blog Regular
so whats ur real blog name,girl???
are u hiding for our sake or for W8 sake…if he borrowed u money,he knows u anyway,right..unless if we have a case of multiple victims??
crickets??
THE INFAMOUS DK
September 24th, 2009
4:30 pm
Blog – Who done did the grown up, bumped uglies and whatnot.. I dare you to tell it.. Gone and shut it down.. They might not let you post it but my email address is atlalien@yahoo.com
JtJ
September 24th, 2009
4:30 pm
@ Raqi…that is my oldest sister all -day-long!! She only calls when she is in need! Now, my youngest sister (half-sister) sent me a text saying….”Quick….I need to borrow $200…..I said..”Quick, DELETE MY NUMBER….she texted me back and said “Are you for real”……I replied…”Are you?”.
My dad said she said I hurt her feelings…..I said she hurt mine, too thinking I am just going to give her that kind of money knowing she don’t have a job……SOL!!
Kym-likes the Geeks :-)
September 24th, 2009
4:30 pm
@Blog Regular who claimed to know him intimately? Did you have sex with him or something? I mean did he give you cooties?
Dream_n
September 24th, 2009
4:31 pm
@ Randyt
lmao at ur story…
Blog Regular
September 24th, 2009
4:32 pm
Multiple victims.
THE INFAMOUS DK
September 24th, 2009
4:34 pm
BR – Heck you telling everything else gone and spill it.. I love it..
Now if ya’ll had sex and you gave him money.. Dont be mad that was a even swap and no swindle..
Raqi...Basking in Some Warm Delights
September 24th, 2009
4:35 pm
never lend with the intentions of DEFINATELY getting it back
Dream_n it’s called a loan. Lending. Not giving. If you know you can’t or have not intentions of paying it back, just so say. Ask the person if they can help you out. Don’t take money in the name of a loan and knowing you will not repay.
Your word is your bond.
Melo
September 24th, 2009
4:36 pm
Multiple victims.
ok,,sooooo how many of u did he sleep with and borrow money from as well??
Atlanta women??
Uall neva learn!!
And ur name???
ok,anybody wanna sleep with me and pay my car note??
Kym-likes the Geeks :-)
September 24th, 2009
4:36 pm
@DK you are sooooo wrong! Funny as hell but wrong!!! LOL.
Why not just spell it all out Blog Regular. Cause all this cyberchase guessing is just highschoolish. Otherwise…leave the blog out of it. We don’t care..we just nosy.
Rell - In a mackish mood
September 24th, 2009
4:37 pm
Atlanta women??
Uall neva learn!!
- wow, now shaka zulu passing judgement…smdh
THE INFAMOUS DK
September 24th, 2009
4:38 pm
Raqi – Please folk dont honor their word anymore.. Thats why I aint loaning you nothing.. No sugar, no toothpaste, no air if ya need it.. Seriously if I give out money I give it away cause i will fall out with you bout my lil money cause I worked for it and its hard to come by.. I’m gonna see bout ya..
Leggs
September 24th, 2009
4:39 pm
“Your word is your bond.” The first time I posted that, some actually disagreed with me. Too funny! The character of the person showed themselves to me right then! I definitely agree with you!
Lioness
September 24th, 2009
4:40 pm
DK-
THE INFAMOUS DK
September 24th, 2009
4:40 pm
I care I wanna know.. Tell it.. Tell it all.. Shut the blog down!! I know I said you shouldnt have but hey Im allowed one contridiction per day..
Raqi...Basking in Some Warm Delights
September 24th, 2009
4:40 pm
LOL Infamous. Maybe the sex was whack and she went home thought about it and wants her money back. j/k
BlogReg I hope you get in touch with him soon and get your money back. Or at least an acceptable explanation or excuse.
Lioness
September 24th, 2009
4:41 pm
wow, now shaka zulu passing judgement<–
THE INFAMOUS DK
September 24th, 2009
4:41 pm
contradiction
Leggs
September 24th, 2009
4:41 pm
Cold 10, Man Down!
Dream_n
September 24th, 2009
4:41 pm
Why do I get sucked into these things time and time again… hilarious…
Raqi…
Speaking from my experience…If I lend.. sorry loan money to anyone… I only loan money if I can stand to lose it. a 20 here maybe 40 or 50 there, but if I have to choose between bill money and a loan… I’ll pay my bills.
Chill I didn’t take your money
DK: lmao… u wrong
Lioness
September 24th, 2009
4:41 pm
LOL Infamous. Maybe the sex was whack and she went home thought about it and wants her money back.<– HILARIOUS!!!
Leggs
September 24th, 2009
4:42 pm
Code 10, Man Down!
Lioness
September 24th, 2009
4:42 pm
Dream- That was my point..
Raqi...Basking in Some Warm Delights
September 24th, 2009
4:44 pm
Infamous people should just ask for it and not call it a loan.
See yeah you give it knowing they will not give it back, but it kills the level of trust that I have in a person when they do not at least try to pay it back. I took their word.
Blog Regular
September 24th, 2009
4:45 pm
Directly involved parties know who they are. I promise you that they don’t have to guess at all.
Melo
September 24th, 2009
4:45 pm
wow, now shaka zulu passing judgement
well, blog regular is coming to the blog for resuce,how can u not pass judgement??
THE INFAMOUS DK
September 24th, 2009
4:45 pm
Raqi – Aint no excuse..
Blog – Tell the truth and Shame the devil Baby.. thats what my Grandma says.. So guess what you gotta do.. Shame him.. Telll hom he is a liar.. Hallelujah!!! Rashonomonicka blah blah blah.. DK rolling around on the floor speaking in tongues
Melo
September 24th, 2009
4:46 pm
Directly involved parties know who they are
so why are u here then??
Raqi...Basking in Some Warm Delights
September 24th, 2009
4:47 pm
I don’t care if it is $3. If you say you will pay it back then you are obligated to do so. Let me be the one tell you that’s okay. Keep it. Other than that you owe me my money.
It’s the principle of the thing.
Melo
September 24th, 2009
4:47 pm
is his number disconnected??
Sexsaaayyyyyy....Cool
September 24th, 2009
4:48 pm
Well, dayum. I thought….hmphf….well, I knew…..he said…uuuummmm….
On second thought, I’m just gone sit back and watch this trainwreck unfold.
I will say this though – the dude parties like a ROCK STAR!!!
JtJ
September 24th, 2009
4:48 pm
I get you Raqi….it’s the “principality” of it…..MANNNNNN!!!
Lioness
September 24th, 2009
4:49 pm
STRAIGHT HILARIOUS!!!
THE INFAMOUS DK
September 24th, 2009
4:49 pm
Raqi – One thing though you aint never got to worry about a person that owes you to ask you for nothing else..
Blog – Gone and send that to my e-mail.. I can get your money back.. Actually how much he owes you.. I’ll pay for all your knowledge.. hee hee!!
JtJ
September 24th, 2009
4:50 pm
11 mins and counting……
LOL @ SexyC…..
Melo
September 24th, 2009
4:51 pm
will say this though – the dude parties like a ROCK STAR!!!
phoine call:ngreeeeeeeee,ngreeeee
toro rieeeeengreeeee..the number u calling has been disconnected!
Dream_n
September 24th, 2009
4:51 pm
Actually how much he owes you.. I’ll pay for all your knowledge.. hee hee!!
lmao!!!
Leggs
September 24th, 2009
4:51 pm
The Zen of Sarcasm….
If you lend someone $20 and never see that person again, it was probably a wise investment.
Gd nite!
Angie
September 24th, 2009
4:52 pm
@blog reg
when i loan $ to folks, i consider it gone. if it comes back, i look at it as extra.
Demi
September 24th, 2009
4:53 pm
Now if ya’ll had sex and you gave him money.. Dont be mad that was a even swap and no swindle..
True.
Dream_n
September 24th, 2009
4:53 pm
@ Angie
ME TOO….but 1 thing is for sure… you can never get another dime from me
Kym-likes the Geeks :-)
September 24th, 2009
4:54 pm
All I know is if he owed me money..depending on the amount is the level of pisstivity. 20 dollars its a wash. 200 I may have to call my cousins. 2000 and he is missing for good. LOL. Seriously though Blog Reg..you may have to cut your loss and charge it to the game. I will leave you with this little message..if someone does you a evil turn just know eventually they will have to make good on that evil. Seven times over.
THE INFAMOUS DK
September 24th, 2009
4:55 pm
Naw shawty we gonna keep this train right on rollin..
You mean to tell me somebody has been led astray, run amuck and bamboozled. The innanet wasnt keepin it 100. Gosh Darnit…
Melo
September 24th, 2009
4:57 pm
W8 number works, i know that,why dont u call him
U lying!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Alvin
September 24th, 2009
4:58 pm
Blog Regular…just walk away.
Blog Regular
September 24th, 2009
4:58 pm
“All I know is if he owed me money..depending on the amount is the level of pisstivity.” That’s where I am with it.
I doubt he will slither from behind the keyboard any time soon, if ever again. Fortunately, I have a legal remedy to the situation and will be dealing with it in that manner.
THE INFAMOUS DK
September 24th, 2009
4:59 pm
Ok now the story gets interesting.. So dude aint hiding he just like F you.. Oh yeah ya’ll did it and you gave him money, so ya’ll even then..
THE INFAMOUS DK
September 24th, 2009
5:00 pm
Well Damn.. Legal.. this is serious. he must really owe you some bread
Dream_n
September 24th, 2009
5:01 pm
@ Blog Regular
I don’t want to know the details…but How much we talkn about??
Blog Regular
September 24th, 2009
5:01 pm
Then Melo call him and tell him that somebody put him on blast on the blog about their money and that he should call that person to square up because he is certainly not answering my calls. Although, I don’t need another lie about it anyway.
Alvin – Tell ya’boy to pay what he owes and I will.
Sexsaaayyyyyy....Cool
September 24th, 2009
5:02 pm
What? No more Blog Parties? Seriously?
Dream_n
September 24th, 2009
5:04 pm
damn… lioness how do you do that big eye icon…. I need it asap!!!
lmao!!!!
Alvin
September 24th, 2009
5:04 pm
Alvin – Tell ya’boy to pay what he owes and I will.
K
W8..you owe BR some money!!
Happy?
BR…life is wild…choices are yours.
Melo
September 24th, 2009
5:06 pm
What? No more Blog Parties? Seriously?
well,next yr, when Page turns 34
Blog Regular
September 24th, 2009
5:08 pm
BR…life is wild…choices are yours…..
And people lie.
W8©
September 24th, 2009
5:13 pm
LOL..yep I am a liar a fraud…i sell sex for money and i like to do it raw…and i always hit on the first date and I take pics of all my victims with my Blackberry..just to keep things straigh…my number is the same and I answer all calls
W8©
September 24th, 2009
5:14 pm
Let me stop…before he shows up for real
Blog Regular
September 24th, 2009
5:15 pm
Prove it – send me my picture. Matter of fact, post the link on the blog.
Compelling
September 24th, 2009
5:21 pm
LMAO!!!! I can’t take it!
Dream_n
September 24th, 2009
5:33 pm
?
Tazzee - under the weather
September 24th, 2009
5:39 pm
Oh My Land!