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Too Good to be True

One of the tricky things about dating is figuring out who is authentic and who is not. It’s hard not to become a cynic after meeting the phonies and the crazies. When we actually the meet the totally normal, completely sane individual, we aren’t always prepared!

Have you ever met someone that seems like the ideal match for you? You are attracted to them and vice versa, you have wonderful chemistry together, and they even seem to have everything you’ve been looking for. Then doubt creeps in. The uninvited thing that makes you question if the person is too good to be true.

Why do you think we do this so often? Is there really such a thing as too good to be true? I have even been in a situation where I started to expect “the other shoe to drop” so to speak.  You know when you start looking for signs that the person isn’t as great as they seem? Most of the time, it’s not the other person that has the issue, it’s you! (ok, it’s me as well but I’m not alone, right?)

What is a good way to combat the cynicism in dating and relationships? Has anyone ever told you that you were too good to be true?

Happy Friday!

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Page1908

September 18th, 2009
4:45 pm

LOL Leggs, i need to borrow somebody’s be-be’s kids. lol cookies and grapefruit is goooood! the grapefruit cancels out the cookies. kinda like how people get a supersize combo meal with a diet coke. lol

aggwitty

September 18th, 2009
4:46 pm

Swiss I was just talking about that case with some of my friends. I am trying to figure out if the law should be more strict for people that falsely claim sexual abuse of anykind. I have several friends who will not work with children because they are afraid that if they discipline a child or grade them fairl the kids just have to CLAIM inappropriate contact and their life is over. The crimes are terrible but so is the false accusation. And the media is just as bad.

Page1908

September 18th, 2009
4:47 pm

i;ve never heard of someone so obsessed with an azzhole. *sickening*

Melo

September 18th, 2009
4:48 pm

now u have Page

Page1908

September 18th, 2009
4:50 pm

im still trying to figure out why u r still talking to me? you are on some harassment-type stalker-type ish. time for me to make a phone call.

Dream_n

September 18th, 2009
4:50 pm

I am trying to figure out if the law should be more strict for people that falsely claim sexual abuse of anykind.

That should be a given… it kills me when women call call “rape” so quickly and the police jump at the chance to get the man that is “accused”… Yet if its murder there is an actual investigation taken place before someone is crucified (in most instances)…. I think they should have to do time, because even though they are found to be innocent… they will always be the boys that were accusd of rape… and who wants to date a guy that was accused of rape inoocent or not… smdh

Leggs

September 18th, 2009
4:51 pm

Her picture should be plastered all over the media. She was fine with ruining 4 men’s lives. Someone needs to be the poster child for falsely accusing men of rape when in fact it was consensual. I nominate her!

Melo

September 18th, 2009
4:51 pm

i like u Page :lol:

Grace

September 18th, 2009
4:51 pm

people get a supersize combo meal with a diet coke-:lol: :lol: :lol: I am NOT guilty of that!

Dream_n

September 18th, 2009
4:52 pm

@ Leggs

I so agree….

i'm swiss

September 18th, 2009
4:53 pm

“thank god for the truth!!!!”

Dream_n — Yeah, and thank god for cell phone cameras! Apparently she only fessed up when she realized that at least part of the encounter was captured on a cell phone video… Something for all the playas out there to remember — if you’re going to get freaky w/ some random ho, you better get some evidence that the ho was consenting….

Page1908

September 18th, 2009
4:53 pm

LOL grace yes you are. you know that diet coke cancels out that combo meal. lol

Leggs

September 18th, 2009
4:54 pm

I Believe…
When a person is abrasive, you closed the door on being persuasive!

Nite!

Melo

September 18th, 2009
4:56 pm

get freaky w/ some random ho, you better get some evidence that the ho was consenting….

thats some freaking hoe advice Swiss

thanx!

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