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Jealous Much?

Yesterday we talked about how to draw the line on flirting and being too tempted. Today, I wanted to touch on how to handle being with someone who is extremely insecure. I’ve had a jealous boyfriend before and it’s not always an easy feat to reassure someone that you are just friendly and flirty by nature. What do you think about asking a person to change that part of their personality so that you can feel more secure about the relationship?

There is only so much jealousy a person can handle. Have you dated someone who was jealous? What were the signs that they were that way? Is there a way to spot this red flag before you are in a relationship with someone?

Have you ever struggled with jealous and insecurity personally? How did it impact your dating or your relationships? What can one do to let the jealousy and insecurity go?

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Leggs

September 9th, 2009
4:54 pm

@Page, kicking you off the bus. You always spell my name with 2g’s! Acting dumb ain’t cute. :lol:

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

September 9th, 2009
4:55 pm

Amred – I’ve actually read the book. Interesting perspective and pictures/diagrams too!LOL!! She’s a married woman now, did you know? I think she married that Eddie Winslow dude!

AmazonRed™ - tanned to a nice toasted almond brown

September 9th, 2009
4:55 pm

Superhead couldnt keep me as her man..but she sure could try as long as i had on 3 condoms and there was no kissing…lmao

:lol: :lol: :lol:

That’s what I thought. But I guess some dudes actually don’t care about a girls past (isn’t that what you dudes preach on here? :lol: )

Page1908- Boo'd up

September 9th, 2009
4:56 pm

lol leggs, i didn’t realize i was spelling it with 2 g’s.

lol @ eddie winslow.

Leggs

September 9th, 2009
4:56 pm

I Believe… (dedicated to Taliq, sex addict)
That maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you’ve had, and what you’ve learned from them and how you act upon them…..and less to do with how many snatches you snatched!!!

W8©(CLD)

September 9th, 2009
4:57 pm

@Ared- you so nasty thinking like me….shots to tha dome..fiyah…fiyah..fiyah

Page1908- Boo'd up

September 9th, 2009
4:57 pm

lol @ “snatch”!

Lioness- Envy is a BIYATCH!!!

September 9th, 2009
4:57 pm

SMDH @ Ared & W8.. I thought ol boy was getting RAW with Ared too til he typed Kush :???:

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

September 9th, 2009
4:58 pm

Leggs – Profound!

W8©(CLD)

September 9th, 2009
4:59 pm

shiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiid….I want a seasoned woman..not a sour expired woman…..besides how you gone marry superhead…then she tells you no to giving you head….lmao…..thats not a good look….lmao

AmazonRed™ - tanned to a nice toasted almond brown

September 9th, 2009
4:59 pm

Kimmie – Why did you read her book? :lol:

And yeah, I head she was engaged to Eddie Winslow, but I also heard they broke up before the wedding. Wonder who her hubby is? (and why she keeps THAT under wraps when she tells everything else!)

W8©(da numba 7 cross town)

September 9th, 2009
5:00 pm

AmazonRed™ - tanned to a nice toasted almond brown

September 9th, 2009
5:00 pm

thinking like me

W8 – Stop saying that! :evil: :lol:

Melo

September 9th, 2009
5:00 pm

haha taliq is one of the bloggettes? i think i know who now!

ANGIE

Lioness- Envy is a BIYATCH!!!

September 9th, 2009
5:00 pm

W8- If she denies you then tell her to take that, take that, take that

Taliq

September 9th, 2009
5:01 pm

For Real,
lol I cant remember ever using a pickup line, there are HOs everyehere. If not why do so many marriages etc relationships fail. I think being a HO is man’s natural state. A lot of us just learn to become good liars etc about it. Again almost all of my buddies seem to cheat on their wives. And I can’t count how many peoples girl friends i’ve boned. I don’t do wives or anyone that’s got kids, i want no part in breaking a happy home.

Lioness- Envy is a BIYATCH!!!

September 9th, 2009
5:01 pm

Melo- Don’t think so

Compelling

September 9th, 2009
5:02 pm

LMAO @ Lioness……WHEW this day flew by while I was reading this blog today. HAHAHAHA. Goodnite yall. :-)

Ms. Main

September 9th, 2009
5:02 pm

Amred – I’ve actually read the book. Interesting perspective and pictures/diagrams too!LOL!! She’s a married woman now, did you know? I think she married that Eddie Winslow dude!

….and that was probably comeuppance for him…lol

Taliq

September 9th, 2009
5:02 pm

“haha taliq is one of the bloggettes? i think i know who now!”

lol … i am me … not angie or melanie etc … and how come i gotta be a broad, y not call me Dan … he seem col

Page1908- Boo'd up

September 9th, 2009
5:03 pm

ha, either angie or 2 other blogettes that have been mia for a while.

Lioness- Envy is a BIYATCH!!!

September 9th, 2009
5:03 pm

Remember Everyone, tomorrow is TAKE YOUR MEDS THURSDAY!!!

Chow ;)

AmazonRed™ - tanned to a nice toasted almond brown

September 9th, 2009
5:03 pm

Y’all got my dander all up. ;)

Night y’all.

W8©(da numba 7 cross town)

September 9th, 2009
5:03 pm

@lioness- I was trying to play the simp roll. I am very BOLD…take that take that take that…it;s the remix baybayyyyyyyy….it weezy f baby…dont forget the f baby….lol

Professor

September 9th, 2009
5:04 pm

I m not sure if Taliq is a regular, but these clowns change monikers and say crap all the time so I would not be surprised with all of that foolishness and being a coward. I know I am not a man but I have nig balls so I don’t understand that hiding crap.

Melo- I hope that is not Angie, but I don’t thinks so…LMAO because I thought of that pic of Angie that was on here.

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

September 9th, 2009
5:05 pm

Amred – I read it out of curiosity and to see a different perspective. Actually some of her stuff is kind of practical. I have biographies on all different types of people. I like to see how others different from myself think. If you did not know “who” she was and have that preconcieved notion about her, she comes off rather intelligent in the book. Maybe she’s had some type of epiphany!LOL!!

Page1908- Boo'd up

September 9th, 2009
5:05 pm

lol @ ARed’s dander flaring up.

Professor

September 9th, 2009
5:06 pm

…stepping out and wishing all the insecure cowards a courage pill hell I am paying the copayment for a lifetime supply. No games or gimmicks stop pretending you need the pill.

Wise Diva

September 9th, 2009
5:07 pm

wait, did Professor say she had nig balls!? I’m dying LOL!! I just can’t, you guys were outrageous today *whew*

AmazonRed™ - tanned to a nice toasted almond brown

September 9th, 2009
5:07 pm

Actually some of her stuff is kind of practical.

kimmie – Which is why I can’t completely hate. Heck, Steve Harvey is not a model husband, but has some sage advice in his book.

Wise Diva

September 9th, 2009
5:08 pm

Have a great evening everyone

Professor

September 9th, 2009
5:08 pm

Yeah WD they are like big ballons!!!!

Professor

September 9th, 2009
5:09 pm

I meant to say BIG typo but I will take the other too, though

Taliq

September 9th, 2009
5:09 pm

[I Believe… (dedicated to Taliq, sex addict)
That maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you’ve had, and what you’ve learned from them and how you act upon them…..and less to do with how many snatches you snatched!!!]

I agree … I consider myself very immature and look for the same in my partners

Sybil

September 9th, 2009
5:10 pm

You got NIG Balls?? – B9tch, you stoopid.

Professor

September 9th, 2009
5:11 pm

And, B9tch you you should have read the correction!!!

Sybil

September 9th, 2009
5:12 pm

And you’re still stoopid.

Taliq

September 9th, 2009
5:14 pm

No I am not a regular blogger … and i seriously hope i dont become a regular on here … i sure as hell know i dont wanna be talking relationship issues on d regular … my blog addiction is reserved strictly for the lakers

Professor

September 9th, 2009
5:14 pm

And, your mama! So go sit down and mind your own business

Professor

September 9th, 2009
5:18 pm

Sybil, I will handle your split personality azz tomorrow, because your dumb Azz missed the point heifer.

Sybil

September 9th, 2009
5:19 pm

That was mature.

You really don’t realize how entertaining your posturing and mini-tantrums are.

Girl, stop!

Sybil

September 9th, 2009
5:22 pm

Now WE (me and my personalities) are REALLY laughing at your ass. How you gone “handle” somebody on a blog?

Are you fckg kidding me?

OUR sides are splitting.

Professor

September 9th, 2009
5:23 pm

You were mature to respond in the first place so again go sit down!!!! I will handle you later if I feel up to it, so if you cannot grasp the concept behind what I said well you are just dam.n dumb.

Professor

September 9th, 2009
5:25 pm

Well bytch I have a life you can stay on this blog and argue with your many personalities, but I am gone. So find you something to play with and don’t comment on everything dummy

Sybil

September 9th, 2009
5:27 pm

And she will be back in five, four, three, two………..

Sybil

September 9th, 2009
5:28 pm

Takes a bow….

And trembles with fear cause I’m gone git dealt wit’ tomorrow…..on a blog, no less.

Hi-fckg-larry-us!