20 months ago, while visiting my hometown, some 400 miles away, I saw her in the small mall where I grew up. She looked wonderful. Like me, married for 25+ years, but never really happy. We both longed for more, but were too scared to say anything.

Fast forward to February of this year. She joins Facebook, and well, that opened the doors. Although she is still miles away, we’ve found a way to meet up again, and realized that this was as real as it ever was.

I am not embarrassed, nor ashamed. I’ve reconnected with someone that is the love of my life, as I am to her. We are literally obsessed with each other, and we are quickly resolving our souring marriages. Mine amicably, her’s less so.

The lesson I learned, is that life it too short to live with “comfortable”. Its time to live life to its fullest with partners that want to live our lives, kicking and fighting our way to find happiness. Its time to start living.

I’ve been faithful for 30 years. Its time I started being faithful to myself and to allow those that refuse to be happy, to live their lives as they see fit.

Judge me as you see fit, but I’m more happy now than I’ve been in many, many years. Life just got 1000% better.

He came from somewhere back in her long ago
The sentimental fool don’t see
Tryin hard to recreate
What had yet to be created…once in her life

She musters a smile
For his nostalgic tale
Never coming near what he wanted to say
Only to realize
It never really was

She had a place in his life
He never made her think twice
As he rises to her apology
Anybody else would surely know
He’s watching her go

But what a fool believes he sees
No wise man has the power to reason away
What seems to be
Is always better than nothing
And nothing at all keeps sending him…

Somewhere back in her long ago
Where he can still believe theres a place in her life
Someday, somewhere, she will return

She had a place in his life
He never made her think twice
As he rises to her apology
Anybody else would surely know
Hes watching her go

But what a fool believes he sees
No wise man has the power to reason away
What seems to be
Is always better than nothing
There’s nothing at all
But what a fool believes he sees…

That gal on here talking about cooking for a man, she needs to be cooking for that baby. Forget that man. He’ll live.

You may want to go back and read the posts… Never once said I neglected cooking for my chica… She eats believe me. (it may be mac and cheese, it may be burgers, or it may be something else less complicated, but she eats) lol KRAZIES!!!…….