In Between Men
Ok, not literally between men. The title refers to the time when a single woman is not in an exclusive relationship but has a couple of suitors on deck who could definitely make a great candidate. I think for a lot of women this time can extend longer than expected or desired. Then she’s left with the dilemma: do I pursue casual hookups in the meantime or wait for Mr. Right (aka Mr. Right around the corner, Mr. Right for you, Mr. Right on TIME).
I don’t think this is an issue for men as much, is it? Do guys ever consider the idea of casual hooking up with one woman a deterrent to having a long-term relationship with another one? Is it necessary to do the meaningless booty calls and random hook ups if you actually want to build something with someone you feel connected to?
What do you do in the time that you are between relationships? Focus energy on finding the long term relationship that you actually desire or hit up the single people buffet until you get full?
What do you think is the best course of action if you really desire a long term relationship?
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Wise Diva
August 28th, 2009
4:33 pm
ok great! Thanks Lioness, I will check it out *peeking through my fingers*
Lioness
August 28th, 2009
4:33 pm
Melo- I’ve had ONE mfer put his balls in my mouth & if I wasn’t so stunned by the ENTIRE situ I would have caught a case! I just went with the flow but I was PISSED when it was all over!
It was a question Melo..
AmazonRed™
August 28th, 2009
4:34 pm
Page – All those damn quizzes irk the HELL out of me. Why do folks have to publish them all to their newsfeeds? I’m anti-quizzes. My azz is probably Shug Avery.
LURKER
August 28th, 2009
4:35 pm
LADIES SOME THINGS SHOULD BE BENEATH YOU. YOU TEA BAG AND THEY’LL BE CALLING YOU A SLUT THE NEXT WEEK
W8©
August 28th, 2009
4:35 pm
@Melo-di u just say “finger him and clutch his balls”? hell no…aint nobody fingering me
Page1908
August 28th, 2009
4:37 pm
LOL Ared- yeah the quizzes are dumb but i still do some of them. lmao Shug Avery
W8©
August 28th, 2009
4:37 pm
So yall will put a wang in your mouth but not nuts..do you atleast lick the nuts?
Lioness
August 28th, 2009
4:38 pm
Teabaggin is a bit much!
Lioness
August 28th, 2009
4:40 pm
Who doesn’t lick nuts? Like for real.. I could understand not licking tail but nuts is a GO
Melo
August 28th, 2009
4:40 pm
hell no…aint nobody fingering me
W8,If u sensitive to it,must be soem u hiding….u got one ball?
WD, hush,i meant pvt lessons.
W8©
August 28th, 2009
4:40 pm
You better be as nasty and as freaky as you mate requires you to be whether you are male or female..because if that desire is there it will get quenched somewhere…………..
chink
August 28th, 2009
4:41 pm
That Hill Harper book sound interesting
AmazonRed™
August 28th, 2009
4:42 pm
Who doesn’t lick nuts? Like for real.. I could understand not licking tail but nuts is a GO
Lioness – That’s a good azz question. I thought that went hand and hand with oral pleasures. LOL
Melo
August 28th, 2009
4:42 pm
W8,coz for me, i aint phlucking nor licking on a chic unless i finger her and see what her labia and all look like etc.
thats some of what i explore prior and leading up to fore play…
Lioness
August 28th, 2009
4:42 pm
W8- And your point Is??????????????????????????????? Dude could get the hell on & get his quenched cause BET she can get he cupcake frosted & defrosted
Lioness
August 28th, 2009
4:43 pm
Melo- I am going to call you diggums.. Hope you wash your hands first
LURKER
August 28th, 2009
4:44 pm
You better be as nasty and as freaky as you mate requires you to be whether you are male or female..because if that desire is there it will get quenched somewhere…………..
SOOOO I SHOULD HO DOWN A NOTCH OR TWO TO QUENCH HIS THIST AND WHEN I’M ALL USED UP HE’LL FLOG SOME OTHER WENCH? I TROW NOT! YOU CAN BE AS EVENTIVE AND CREATIVE WITHOUT SOMEONE HO-ING YOU OUT. YEAH, I’LL DO IT IF YOU LICK MY BUTT HOLE. WHAT DO I TELL THE DOCTOR WHEN I’M EXPLAINING MY ILLNESS IS A RESULT OF BOO BOO GETTING DUMPED BY A MISTAKE AND WAS ALL IN THE NAME OF FUN. PLEASE! IDLE THREATS. IF IT’S GONNA MAKE ME NASTY, I’LL GET THE DOOR FOR YA!
W8©
August 28th, 2009
4:45 pm
Melo- I got two nuts but still aint nobody fingering my butt
Lioness
August 28th, 2009
4:45 pm
Ared- Howsa about licking tail? That is something that I would need to take a Xanax to do..
Lioness
August 28th, 2009
4:46 pm
Lurker- You lick your tail licked?? I think I may need a xanax for that too..
W8©
August 28th, 2009
4:47 pm
@Lurker- aint nothing wrong with being a ho for your man or woman…i mean you are supposed to be everything to that person right?..Yeah I will lick my womans azz…so what?
Melo
August 28th, 2009
4:47 pm
Hope you wash your hands first
if thats the only concern u have Lioness,we got no problem sweetie..
u know how to catch me
chink
August 28th, 2009
4:47 pm
Looks like w8 thought u met some anal action on male
Lioness
August 28th, 2009
4:48 pm
Lurker- On the real, any woman who listens to idle threats needs some esteem! Dude could get the hell on & get serviced the way he likes cause there is ALWAYS someone better out on these bricks that will take his leftovers & LOVE every bit of her
LURKER
August 28th, 2009
4:49 pm
LIONESS
NOT PARTICULARLY BUT IF IMMA BE THE LICKER I AIN’T GONNA BE THE ONLY SUCKER SUCKING
AmazonRed™
August 28th, 2009
4:50 pm
Ared- Howsa about licking tail?
Lioness – Howsa about PASS ON THAT ISH!
Lioness
August 28th, 2009
4:50 pm
The TAIL subject is one that makes my stomach queezy
Just the wetness back there & how it tickles..
LURKER
August 28th, 2009
4:52 pm
Lurker- On the real, any woman who listens to idle threats needs some esteem! Dude could get the hell on & get serviced the way he likes cause there is ALWAYS someone better out on these bricks that will take his leftovers & LOVE every bit of her
NOW THAT’S REAL. FOR A THREAT WOULD ONLY MAKE BE UP THE ANTY
chink
August 28th, 2009
4:52 pm
Sorry comments all messed up good weekend to all
Lioness
August 28th, 2009
4:52 pm
Lurker & Ared-
Damn.. I am not a HUGE fan of fellatio but if I see a pretty wang.. Boy o Boy!!! It is ON!!!
Mo (aka Moeisha)
August 28th, 2009
4:53 pm
Have a great weekend ya’ll!
W8©
August 28th, 2009
4:54 pm
u are supposed to lick er’thang from azzholes to elbows…lmao..from the rooter to the tooter….it amazes me when you run across women who dont do oral…they still make yall? lmao
AmazonRed™
August 28th, 2009
4:54 pm
LMAO @ “Pretty Wang”
Now I’m going to be calling “Pretty Wings” that…:lol:
I would wish all a good weekend, but I’ll still be sitting here waiting on my damn flight. Damn rain.
W8©
August 28th, 2009
4:55 pm
Enter your comments here
Melo
August 28th, 2009
4:55 pm
Just the wetness back there & how it tickles
so like Angie,u in a drought Lioness?
Wise Diva
August 28th, 2009
4:56 pm
Lioness & W8, I blame you two for the spiral into extra freaky talk. *smh* LOL
have a WONDERFUL weekend everyone. Be safe
Lioness
August 28th, 2009
4:56 pm
Melo- Go teabag something
Tazzee
August 28th, 2009
4:57 pm
AmRed – I was Shug Avery on that dern quiz…. I do them when I get bored.
I am SO EXCITED about seeing my Falcons tomorrow night. Even if it is preseason.
Have a great weekend everyone.
W8©
August 28th, 2009
4:57 pm
@Wise- Well it is Friday..and i do have a wang…lmao
Melo
August 28th, 2009
4:58 pm
Melo- Go teabag something
OK, I included u on the spreadsheet!
Melo
August 28th, 2009
4:59 pm
I included ur name on the spreadsheet Lioness…..
trying to match that with the fellow thirty male hustlers
Lioness
August 28th, 2009
4:59 pm
Diva-
Will shoot you an email on Sunday..
Melo-
Lioness
August 28th, 2009
4:59 pm
Have an EXTRAORDINARY weekend All
LURKER
August 28th, 2009
5:01 pm
they still make yall?
YEP AND AS HARD AS YOU MAY FIND IT, WE CAN GET SERVED UP, ALL THE WAY FROM STICKING TO LICKING. IT’S A FEW OF YA’LL STILL OUT THERE THAT WILL OBLIGE AND NOT RAISE A STINK IF YOU AIN’T HIS LOLLIPOP QUEEN
W8©
August 28th, 2009
5:05 pm
@Lurker- I really dont think about it past..”okay you dont suck d*ck…see ya later…kick rocks”
W8©
August 28th, 2009
5:07 pm
yall have a good one
W8©
August 28th, 2009
5:08 pm
@Lurker- I really dont think about it past..”okay you dont suck wang…see ya later…kick rocks”
W8©
August 28th, 2009
5:11 pm
“Dueces…thanks for the azz”- Derwin from “The Game”
W8©
August 28th, 2009
5:15 pm
This reminded me of a girl I met a few years back who thought that doing it doggy style was disrespectful to a woman…I never even knew yall existed
W8©
August 28th, 2009
5:16 pm
lmao