Do you remember when The Secret was all the rage? You could not escape the law of attraction discussion about making a shift in your thoughts to draw better things in your life. Even though I was skeptical about the commercializing and consumerism involved in the whole “movement”, I can still appreciate the message.
When you apply the law of attractions to dating, it’s difficult to apply the concepts to the reality of single life. Are we all responsible for the love life we have right now? Are we the reason that people come into our lives? If we are carrying emotional baggage, are we destined to pull in the same individual into a relationship? If we are happy and in a good place, will the same kind of person be drawn to you?
Even though we have a desire for one type of person, why do you think the complete opposite lands in our lives?
Do you agree with the statement that the person you are dating is a reflection of you? If that is the case, do you “look” like the person who is looking back at you these days? If not, is that a good thing or a bad thing?