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Strange Turn-ons

When women want to really seduce their man, they can utilize all the senses: taste, touch, sound, and smell. So if a man walks in the door and he hears soft music, smells something good in the kitchen (and the cook!) he pretty much is a goner. Sometimes all a woman needs to do is just give that look.

Men are constantly saying that they are simple and uncomplicated. In some ways, I am inclined to agree, especially when it comes to turning them on. Since men are such visual creatures, women don’t have to work all that hard to get his attention. Yet, I am still surprised when I hear about the strange and random things that men are attracted to and what turns them on.

Truth be told, women are turned on by strange things too. I love it when a man that I am attracted to reads out loud. Yes, I’m a raging nerd, but I can’t help it. That gets me in the mood! What are some totally unique, strange things that turn you on? Have you ever been surprised to discover that something turned you on?

I’ve heard that there are a lot of foods that are considered aphrodisiacs! What are these foods!? Have they worked on you or for you?

What are some strange things that turn you off? Are there any weird mood-killers that made you lose that loving feeling?

Happy FRIDAY!

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"Longtime Lurker"

August 21st, 2009
12:51 pm

Any of you guys ever left at noon for lunch, went and got a “quickee” from a boo,ex,maint. man or woman or willing victim and then came back to work like nothin happened! Didn’t it seem as though the rest of the day went by so slow and you got absolutely nothing done!

Fulfilling Me

August 21st, 2009
12:55 pm

@LL

Ahh..Afternoon Delight. Come back smiling as if all my troubles had been erased :smile:

W8©('ret ta go)

August 21st, 2009
12:56 pm

@LL- or even better finding an empty conference room.

I like hittin her from the back and watching “her special place” be stretched..while I am “working it out”

..turns me on also when she turns red or flush or is just shaking after the fact…”ya gotta walk the sheets..ya gotta walk the sheets…pause then beat your chest”

Raqi...MIA is my twitter...

August 21st, 2009
12:58 pm

Major turn-on: thinking about grabbing the man and slipping away to do that thing while the folks are settling down, opening their baskets and coolers to get their lunch on.

East Point's Own

August 21st, 2009
12:59 pm

I am turned on by women who actually put forth effort to show that they are interesed e.g.; planning a date every now and then, wearing clothing that I may have mentioned in conversation that I like to see women wear, a surprise anything (that does not end up costing me more money), attempts to make plans with me before making plans to hang out with her friends.

And one other turn on is the first time a woman I am dating falls asleep on my chest/lap(especially in public)I get the feeling that she is really comfortable with me at that point.

W8©('ret ta go)

August 21st, 2009
1:00 pm

Go get some Raqi..you married….

Hey is it pre-maritial sex if you are not considering marriage

"Longtime Lurker"

August 21st, 2009
1:00 pm

@W8……..ok….that was T.M.I. for a mid day convo! Let’s keep it slighly PG! I had to lean back in my chair on that one, that something was gonna come out the screen at me..lol

W8©('ret ta go)

August 21st, 2009
1:02 pm

@LL- sorry the force is to strong….lol

Ms Main

August 21st, 2009
1:03 pm

The look of delight discovering I’m moist when we’ve not even entered the realm of getting at it or even gottn started. Just being got it going for me.

Where’s my 1st post?

W8©('ret ta go)

August 21st, 2009
1:03 pm

@LL- what’s the timestamp on the one that was T.M.I.?..just so that I umm dont go there again…lol

Professor

August 21st, 2009
1:03 pm

…stepping out of the blog. I am sitting here fanning and this office stay cold. Whew!

I am trying to place my lunch order, “I want the 12 inch special with extra cuumm on the side.” No I meant the 12 pc special with extra sauce on the side. Ma’am what kind of drink, “hmm we swallow” opps “Sprite.” Let me regroup and call go to another wing joint this is not working.

W8©('ret ta go)

August 21st, 2009
1:04 pm

LMAO@ Professor..you just made me spit out my ginger tea..lmao

Mo (aka Moeisha aka Katt)

August 21st, 2009
1:04 pm

EPO – “And one other turn on is the first time a woman I am dating falls asleep on my chest/lap(especially in public)I get the feeling that she is really comfortable with me at that point.” that she is, if I can fall asleep with you around then Im good. So if I fall asleep on your chest, Im GOOOOOOOD! LOL!

LL – yep, some quickees are the BEST!

W8 – Mr S&M

Black Mamba AKA Princess Xiomara

August 21st, 2009
1:05 pm

Good Day Blogsville….

MELO…you are not a fan of big booties…STOP LYING! You stared at my a$$ all night when you met me! :lol:

LLE SIREN…I like to be the one doing the choking. I have asthma and it woudl not be a turn on to anyone but a necrophiliac if I was on the receiving end of the choking. :shock:

ARED…somebody is gonna walk in your office and see you kissing your ankle and get really turned on and say, “gurl I knowed it…I just knowed it…youz a freak like me”. Then he will snatch off his clothes to reveal a leather leopard thong with a smiley face on the tip! :lol:

Let’s see…what I like is being in charge…whips, blindfolds, chocolate dipped guess that fruit when a blindfolded man is eating them from the “valley”. I get turned on by blood..vampires movies such as Bram Stokers Dracula. I like to bite…suck on necks…lick on the back of a guy’s kneecaps while digging my nails into his inner thigh (real close to the wood). Make him squirm and ask, “now who’s my b*tch”? I liek to watch his reaction to the the altoids and ice BJ’s…applying just the right pressure…..

Oh and I love a man that smells good (Gautier) is my favorite on a man. I like them big buff and strong. He is confident in his manhood enough that he doesn’t feel threatened by my strong nature.

Randyt (aka Been there, Done that, Got a Closet FULL of t-shirts)

August 21st, 2009
1:05 pm

@LL re: the Scorpio I was seeing. We had had a disagreement and kind of been “cutoff” for a couple or weeks once. One night we were invited over to her best friend’s house for dinner so she came over to my apt to lay out at the pool. It got near time to go and we went back to my apt and started kissing in the kitchen. I sat on the floor, pulled her bikini bottoms down, and sort of “took care of her” (see yesterdays posts if you aren’t sure what I mean) while she stood over me….didn’t even take care of me, just her. We went to her friend’s house and every time she would look over at me her face would turn red. Friend knew something had happened but was afraid to ask, LOL. I got an email from her several years later…she definitely remembered that day.

Professor

August 21st, 2009
1:05 pm

@Longtime Lurker…Of course! I remember giving a curve on a test…they better be glad I had released one before class!

Raqi...MIA is my twitter...

August 21st, 2009
1:06 pm

Compelling I know this crowd too well. LOL But I was just stating the subtlety of it in the biggest turn on.

Like this right here. Imma say this very line in about two minutes.

“Hey it looks like you are starting burn a little out here (while tenderly rubbing his shoulder). Let me put some sun screen on your back and shoulders. There is some up in the room.”

And what it will make that even hotter is some folks will know why we disappeared for ???? amount of time. They will give that naughty grin when we return.

Raqi...MIA is my twitter...

August 21st, 2009
1:08 pm

Oh yeah Compelling it is somewhat cloudy today. The sun isn’t that fierce.

AmazonRed™ - mentally tough

August 21st, 2009
1:08 pm

Staceye – LOL!!!

My co-workers don’t even wonder what weird things I do anymore. I’m just the Cali hippie now to them. Don’t put that thong image in my head, I’ma look at all of them weird now!!! :lol:

Fulfilling Me

August 21st, 2009
1:08 pm

@Professor….LOL

Professor

August 21st, 2009
1:11 pm

@W8 I really need to calm down for real.

Sorry for making you spit out your tea..

W8©('ret ta go)

August 21st, 2009
1:11 pm

Man thongs..who wears those?…Hell I hardly ever wear draws

Black Mamba AKA Princess Xiomara

August 21st, 2009
1:11 pm

ARED…girl the dudes is going to have on cowboy boots with that thong…oh and a bowtie! :lol:

"Longtime Lurker"

August 21st, 2009
1:12 pm

@W8..12:56 PAHTNA! Cause of you, some folks spit they lunch out reading that play by play!

@Professor, you got me thinking now why some days, when I was in grad school my lady professors were real generous and some days they were absolute itches..hummm!

W8©('ret ta go)

August 21st, 2009
1:12 pm

(starts to sing)…”cuz i’m freeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee….freeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee ballin!!”

Randyt (aka Been there, Done that, Got a Closet FULL of t-shirts)

August 21st, 2009
1:13 pm

I thought I might have crossed the TMI line until I read the post from Black Mamba…guess I am okay, LOL.

Black Mamba AKA Princess Xiomara

August 21st, 2009
1:13 pm

Man thongs? EWWWW! I hate those as much as I hate “Manties”…aka briefs! UGH! I only like Boxer briefs or boxers.

W8©('ret ta go)

August 21st, 2009
1:15 pm

@LL- If ya man aint stretching you out..he aint thick enough…and if you can put both hands on his wood and still have the head showing…you might need a new man…ZIP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

W8©('ret ta go)

August 21st, 2009
1:15 pm

Mo (aka Moeisha aka Katt)

August 21st, 2009
1:15 pm

Black Mamba – back in the day I used to ‘heart’ Farenheit, it seemed like it smelled good no matter who wore it. dayum Im fanning at the thought. Love a good smelling man!!

AmazonRed™ - mentally tough

August 21st, 2009
1:16 pm

I think I am done with the blog for today. :lol:

Black Mamba AKA Princess Xiomara

August 21st, 2009
1:17 pm

RANDY…I wasn’t that bad…..I didn’t even tell all! :wink: :lol:

I like getting my mine while driving…or outside on the hood of cars…bathrooms, etc.

Being a belly dancer I can move my lower body while keeping my upper body still…so I could do a “great lap dance”! :lol:

MO…Iused to love the cologne too girl…in high school when a guy wore that I was like flies to sh*t….drawn to them!

Leggs

August 21st, 2009
1:17 pm

@LL, your story is right up there with Truth’s and his pineapple story.

Yes, left work for a quickee on many occasion. You sit at your desk with eyes rolling back in your head remembering. You sit there wondering if anyone can smell the sex on you even though you’ve washed up. The freakiest place I’ve done it was one of the most fun places in terms of creativity.

W8©('ret ta go)

August 21st, 2009
1:18 pm

Oh..another turn on..when a woman tells you..you smell good consistently and you havent ever worn any cologne around her

Kym

August 21st, 2009
1:19 pm

Ever wanted to talk to someone but not really sure what to say to that someone..but you have a feeling that you need to say something to this someone?

"Longtime Lurker"

August 21st, 2009
1:20 pm

@Randyt, on your 1:05, been in that sitchiation too pahtna! Back in the day when I was really horrible, I remember sitting across from a mom and a daughter and I was kicking it with the mom who was 44 and the time and she had a stupidly fine 22 year old daughter that kept trying to press me on the side, so one day we finally hooked up while the mom was out of town.

The next day the mom returned and as we sat at the dinner table, the mom kept looking at me, then looking at the daughter as if something was up! The daughter kept kicking me under the table and laughing, it was hilarious!

W8©('ret ta go)

August 21st, 2009
1:21 pm

@Kym- yeah..silence is a killer..just go with the flow..step out there and talk

Professor

August 21st, 2009
1:21 pm

@Staceye I like them off…let him go w/o anything.

@LL yea that is correct…really they better hope he is waiting for me while I am actually preparing the test, quiz or grading papers. Some good…nevermind…I trying to calm down.

Mo (aka Moeisha aka Katt)

August 21st, 2009
1:22 pm

Black Mamba – ‘outside on the hood of cars’…..flashback!! :smile:
And that Farenheit was my ish! Stayed all up on dude when he wore that!!

Fulfilling Me

August 21st, 2009
1:22 pm

@Kym

Been there, done that. Just do it, but approach slowly and read em.

Professor

August 21st, 2009
1:23 pm

@Kym…have you flirted with him at all? If so just whisper something nasty in his ear. Girl don’t take my advice today.

Leggs

August 21st, 2009
1:23 pm

After reading everyone’s post, all of you need a cold shower, especially you Professor :oops: :lol:

Black Mamba AKA Princess Xiomara

August 21st, 2009
1:24 pm

PROFESSOR…oh you so fresh! :lol:

One time I was driving and my man was in the passenger seat….I gave him a BJ while he stirred the wheel and told me when to hit the gas or breaks. It was freaky, fun and scary. He had to keep his eyes open! :lol:

Jamoca

August 21st, 2009
1:24 pm

I recollect once having a heated debate before leaving for work…and all that I remember is taking an extended lunch, just to show up at his place (on his day off) to give my final thoughts and hopefully squash the issue…only to find myself thrown on top of the washer and dryer for some stress relief. Never realized one could get so comfortable up there…

Black Mamba AKA Princess Xiomara

August 21st, 2009
1:26 pm

Grammar correction…I said breaks…when I meant Brakes.

Ok…back to our regualary scheduled programming….

i'm swiss (aka Buckshot Prior)

August 21st, 2009
1:26 pm

Okay, here are a few of mine (in increasing order of strangeness). Note that all of these apply either exclusively or especially to Swiss Miss:

Standard fare:

** Booty
** Athletic, muscular (but not mannish) legs
** Neck

Slightly more fetish-ish

** Feet, especially the bottom of Swiss Miss’s feet & those cute little toes…
** The way Swiss Miss won’t ever use any profanity, but says “F me, baby” — literally just the letter F — in that cute little French accent

All little on the odd side:

** Armpits. Especially if she’s got just a little bit of hair growth there. No idea why, but it drive me crazy.

Dang, now I can’t get up from my desk….

Jamoca

August 21st, 2009
1:27 pm

Ms. Main – Your initial post is probably in spam with a few others, to include a few of mine.

LL – Scandalous!!!

W8©('ret ta go)

August 21st, 2009
1:27 pm

@Kym- “When in doubt whip it out”

@MO- BULLLCHIT…how are you going to get bent over a hood with your short behind…was it a prius?

Black Mamba AKA Princess Xiomara

August 21st, 2009
1:30 pm

SWISS…You are a straight up freak! :lol:

Randyt (aka Been there, Done that, Got a Closet FULL of t-shirts)

August 21st, 2009
1:30 pm

W8* … the old VW Beetles worked great for that, LOL.