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Strange Turn-ons

When women want to really seduce their man, they can utilize all the senses: taste, touch, sound, and smell. So if a man walks in the door and he hears soft music, smells something good in the kitchen (and the cook!) he pretty much is a goner. Sometimes all a woman needs to do is just give that look.

Men are constantly saying that they are simple and uncomplicated. In some ways, I am inclined to agree, especially when it comes to turning them on. Since men are such visual creatures, women don’t have to work all that hard to get his attention. Yet, I am still surprised when I hear about the strange and random things that men are attracted to and what turns them on.

Truth be told, women are turned on by strange things too. I love it when a man that I am attracted to reads out loud. Yes, I’m a raging nerd, but I can’t help it. That gets me in the mood! What are some totally unique, strange things that turn you on? Have you ever been surprised to discover that something turned you on?

I’ve heard that there are a lot of foods that are considered aphrodisiacs! What are these foods!? Have they worked on you or for you?

What are some strange things that turn you off? Are there any weird mood-killers that made you lose that loving feeling?

Happy FRIDAY!

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i'm swiss (aka Buckshot Prior)

August 21st, 2009
10:34 am

“I guess we’re over “strange” turn-ons and just on to turn-ons now.”

Yeah, I was thinking the same thing, ARed. Now I’m afraid to even start to spill some of my strange turn-ons… I might get run out of this joint — I’m a white boy and a scorpio… I’m a little on the freaky side, even for my people… :lol:

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

August 21st, 2009
10:35 am

Watching him shave or just do “guy” things!

Blow – No one does it for me like the Brothers!

Raqi...Blackberrying

August 21st, 2009
10:36 am

When he takes charge and tells the family we will have a short day at the beach because the weather is not in our favor today. Protector.

Tazzee - Is it Saturday?

August 21st, 2009
10:40 am

Morning All!

I really don’t have any ’strange’ turn-ons. I do like the slight musty smell of a guy after he’s been working out. I hate when he smells like the gym though. Unfortunately (fortunately?) my guy doesn’t get musty, so I’ve never smelled his ‘funk’.

When my guy helps others – the other day we were leaving to go to the gym and he says, ‘I’m going to go help this lady change her tire if you don’t mind’ – that was SUCH a turn on.

Other things:

– nice strong hands
– a nice smile
– when he lifts my hair and kisses me on the back of my neck
– when I see him interact with his daughters (interaction with the sons does nothing for me)
– when he cooks for me and then is anxious to see if I like it
– when he sings to me, he can’t carry a tune to save his life, but I love it when he tries
– when he does push-ups. I just want to get under him and sneak kisses.

That’s enough for now.

AmazonRed™ - mentally tough

August 21st, 2009
10:43 am

I might get run out of this joint — I’m a white boy and a scorpio…

swiss – I didn’t realize you were a Scorpio. Makes so much sense now! Freak.

Yeah, with the white boy angle I’m sure some of your strange turn ons involve farm animals. :lol:

AmazonRed™ - mentally tough

August 21st, 2009
10:46 am

I really don’t have any ’strange’ turn-ons. I do like the slight musty smell of a guy after he’s been working out.

Tazzee – that just reminds me of one of my biggest turn-offs. Sweat. I mean a little glisten is normal, but there are some folks who are excessive sweaters. Like you are just sitting at dinner and he is just sweating away! The big guys out there always seem to have that problem.

Mo (aka Moeisha aka Katt)

August 21st, 2009
10:47 am

Blow – I love my dude in some sweats! And if can rock a white polo w jeans and some sneakers…..thats another one that will have my blood pressure high!

Musicians – soft lips and good with his hands/fingers

I dont know about choking but something about a repetitive stroking (light finger brushes) across the small of my back, right at my spine…..dayum….

Texas Boy

August 21st, 2009
10:48 am

A woman wearing a pair thong panties is a turn on especially when they are peeking out of the back of her pants.

Tazzee - Is it Saturday?

August 21st, 2009
10:55 am

Oops, I almost forgot today was payday. I need to get to reconciling…

Randyt (aka Been there, Done that, Got a Closet FULL of t-shirts)

August 21st, 2009
10:56 am

@ Im Swiss … there IS something about Scorpios, ;-) . I’m a Scorpio too and was in a relationship with a Scorpio for two years…two Scorpios together……the ktichen floor, the dining room floor, the den floor, the stairwell, the shower, the back porch, the dining room table, upside down, hellz, there were weeks when we wouldn’t even make it to the bedroom…frankly I miss those days. Dayum, now I’ll be thinking about that the rest of the day.

Fulfilling Me

August 21st, 2009
11:00 am

@RandyT

Reading your 10:56, all I could hear was “from the windows to the wall” Lol..Yeah you scorpios are something else.

Kym

August 21st, 2009
11:04 am

Good Morning All,

Grass, the smell of a man after he has finish working in the yard does it for me. Butts I have a thing for butts..so a man with a nice bottom turn on..Football pants on said butts is worth extra points. Smells each man has a unique smell and I don’t fancy men who wear heavy colonge. Clean,natural phermones works fine. Let’s see uniforms(military, police) they do it for me. Razor stubble, something about a man looking well manly. Voices…I love men with deep baritones. Look like a man then sound like one.

Leggs

August 21st, 2009
11:06 am

Give me some nice biceps! Love it.

A man who wears his clothes well is a turn on!

"Longtime Lurker"

August 21st, 2009
11:07 am

May sound wierd but here it goes in no particular order…

What turns me on about a woman it the way she eats her salad!

Second, I always am attracted to a woman who drives a nice car, that is clean and “hooked up” like a dude would do it!

Third, the sound of the rain always does it for me as well, no matter what chick I am with!

Confidence in a woman with her head held high and back, a nice walk in some heels and a smart business suit that fits just right…hummmm the visual just made me sit up strait!

AmazonRed™ - mentally tough

August 21st, 2009
11:11 am

Football pants on said butts is worth extra points.

Kym – That does it for me too.

I watched a lot of Bucs games with the ex, and I think the pewtered colored pants were my favorite ones. :lol:

Fulfilling Me

August 21st, 2009
11:11 am

@LL…yeah the smell of a fresh rain is wonderful. Then going out in and running wild like two kids. I love a man who can let his guard down and just enjoy the simple things.

Magnolia Peach

August 21st, 2009
11:12 am

I love it when a man smells of the following three things: spearmint gum, soap, nice cologne. It’s just something about a clean man that drives me wild!

Chink

August 21st, 2009
11:16 am

Strange Turn On …Loud Laughing I love to see a man just laugh loud and doesnt care…LL Cool J does this also and I love it!

Blow Me ....Please don't feed the MONKEYS!

August 21st, 2009
11:16 am

Randy T, Swiss are Scorpios too? I am SCORPIO as well…lol!

Mo (aka Moeisha aka Katt)

August 21st, 2009
11:16 am

Oh yeah rain is definitely a turn on and I also like….whew….the smell of burning leaves in a distance (too close and it smells like an overbearing incense)

And if he has a great walk (Denzel-like even) then that is definitely a turn on

Jamoca

August 21st, 2009
11:18 am

Morning…

My “Strange” Turn-ons:

The smell of a cigar…or watching a man or a group of them stand/sit around smoking one and the way that they sometimes hold the cigar on the side of their mouths between their teeth.

The rich, robust aroma and atmosphere of a nice little quaint coffee shop (not Starbucks)…or just taking a stroll down the coffee isle will do it for me.

A man with (“visibly obvious”) fangs – it’s erotic and somewhat supernatural…I just want him to bite me.

Watching a man eat…especially the way “he” eats meat.

Play wrestling – causes the heart to race and makes the both of us breath heavily in each other’s face and ears.

When I’m unable to reach something and he comes along a grabs it, hands it to me…saying “Here you go baybeh..”

A man interacting with children and/or the elderly (whether their his relatives or not).

The smell of his “man scent” on my upper lip after a good bye kiss…and I get a “wiff” each time that I “scrunch” my lips towards my nose.

A man washing or working on a car.

When he gets a little hot tempered when someone just “pyssed” him off.

The way a nice watch looks and fits around his wrist.

Watching a man shave or especially when he lets me edge him up nicely, while I stand between his lap and he holds me subtly around my hips.

When he holds/guards me by gently grasping the small of my back…

Professor

August 21st, 2009
11:22 am

I like a man that drives a powerful car…something about him handling all of that horsepower!

There is something about flying back from vacation and solving a word puzzle together…just being close after sharing a weekend.

I love those silent moments when I am laying next to him (sofa, bed…wherever) and our souls connect without any words.

A man helping out with the housework especially mopping and bringing in the groceries is always a turn on.

…a man knowing what I need and providing that for me…I am not talking about material things it maybe a hug or a slap on the butt. The fact that he knows me speaks volumes to me.

Raqi...Blackberrying

August 21st, 2009
11:25 am

Random turnons…

Distance humming noises

The sound of the rain beating against the window or pavement when all else is silent.

The smell of cucumbers.

The smell of apples and cinnamon cooking.

Grace

August 21st, 2009
11:25 am

I’m watching a new show Wedlock or Deadlock, girlfriend suspects boryfriend is gay….guy just admits he’s not gay but he’s bicurious, he had sex with another man! this is where guys lie and don’t accept their gayness. It’s all in the words. This is Deadlock!

"Longtime Lurker"

August 21st, 2009
11:25 am

@Randyt on your 10:56, I definitely agree!!! I am a Scorpio and the longest and strangest relationship I was in was with another Scorpio, from Long Island N.Y.! The chick was 10 years older, but booooy, ole boy! Had the looks and body of chick from Brasil.

Lemme just say this, in over 10 years, I have never met another chick like her!

Everything was great with us, BUT the fact she could never get over the age thing and she felt like she always had to compete with the chicks my age. She was the closest thing I ever came to marriage and I would have wifed her if we could have got over that hump! It’s been 8 years now since we parted ways and I still think about her from time to time.

Le Siren

August 21st, 2009
11:26 am

Jamoca-A man with (“visibly obvious”) fangs – it’s erotic and somewhat supernatural…I just want him to bite me.

Ok, since you brought it up…I have always thought vampires were SUPER SEXY…True Blood is my new soft porn:)

Chink

August 21st, 2009
11:27 am

Strange turn on…watching a man eat a big plate of food. I might have to let this one go though…

Fulfilling Me

August 21st, 2009
11:29 am

I love those silent moments when I am laying next to him (sofa, bed…wherever) and our souls connect without any words.

@Prof…yes those quiet moments are wonderful…

Leggs

August 21st, 2009
11:31 am

Walking hand in hand with my man or even walking with my hand in his back pocket (do people still do this)?

A confident man is a turn on!

Gotcha on that distant humming, Raqi. It’s so assuring cuz it says “I’m in a good place.”

Always laughing at you Jamoca with “and I get a “wiff” each time that I “scrunch” my lips towards my nose.”

Tazzee - Is it Saturday?

August 21st, 2009
11:34 am

Chink – I love a good loud laugh too. My guy’s laugh is loud and deep. Add those pretty teeth to it and I sometimes try not to laugh so I can watch/hear him laugh.

i'm swiss (aka Buckshot Prior)

August 21st, 2009
11:40 am

ARed — RE: farm animals…. Uh, yeah, some of my cousins have some issues. But I’m not that kind of freak. My freakiness is confined to female humans only, thank you very much… :lol:

RandyT / Blow Me — Yeah, most scorpios I know definitely live up to that part of the sign’s traits. Two scorpios together = not much getting done around the house (except each other)… :lol:

i'm swiss (aka Buckshot Prior)

August 21st, 2009
11:43 am

“The smell of his “man scent” on my upper lip after a good bye kiss…and I get a “wiff” each time that I “scrunch” my lips towards my nose.”

Um…. exactly what are you kissing goodbye, Jamoca? :lol:

W8©

August 21st, 2009
11:49 am

Chink

August 21st, 2009
11:49 am

Not much into pretty teeth since mine isn’t perfect just have teeth that are not too crooked and clean and we good…dimples would be a plus.

Tazzee I just love that ..I laugh loud also and its hard for me to contain it sometimes…plenty of situations where my laughter got the best of me..lol

W8©

August 21st, 2009
11:50 am

i guess my list is to strange it wont post..lol

Raqi...Blackberrying

August 21st, 2009
11:51 am

When he gets up in the middle of the night to go drain the line and I turn over and smell he wonderful aroma on his pillow or the sheets. When he returns he knows if I snuggled up with his pillow or wrapped in the sheets on his side of the bed I want to get close to him.

Leggs

August 21st, 2009
11:52 am

Once again, how do you do the scratch out?

Jamoca

August 21st, 2009
11:53 am

Okay, blog is at it again…release my post oh great pharoah!

LOL Swiss! A good bye kiss depending on the time spand apart, can sometinmes mean a kiss so raunchy, we’re damn near trying to take each other’s tonsils out. Nice, sloppy and wet…with a nice tug at either my upper or bottom lip with his teeth.

I like the smell of his breath. Granted that it’s clean, but a normal man scent…the smell that lets you know “A Man was just here”. ;)

i'm swiss (aka Buckshot Prior)

August 21st, 2009
11:54 am

Leggs — here’s your blog cheat sheet:

http://karaokebus.tzo.com/blog_formatting.txt

W8©

August 21st, 2009
11:55 am

Strange Turn Ons:

I like it when a woman kisses the inside of my left ankle…I dont know why…but that is the one spot that well drive me over the edge…I never knew that until like 6 years ago…sent me over the edge…I would try and kiss my own ankle but I dont think i can reach it…lol

A woman’s neck

If she can drive a stick

Knows football

Panties and Bra always matching

If she moans while performing or*l sex

If she can be tough at times but still a kitten at other times

When she wears her hair down whether it’s short or long..i just like hairstyles that go down and that are not reaching for the sky

Self Confidence

Thighs..mmm..im not a behind man or a breast man..i like nice legs

An educated woman who can speak on current events…not just “gossip columns or shows”

A woman who can handle hers and doesnt need a man…but yet she doesnt sing that tune all of the time

A woman who can just put me in my place sometimes really turns me on…just me sit down and shut up…lol

A woman who lets me make mistakes and isn’t always so quick to point them out to me…when we both know I am wrong…lmao

I will say necks again because that is my favorite part of a woman’s body…i dont know why..I like nice and smooth somewhat long necks…not those e.t. nexks with all of those rolls and etc

Necks..Necks..necks..

Hmmm..I like to be “handled” rough and clawed, bitten and scratched all over…even better if you break skin and draw some blood er’now and then…

W8©

August 21st, 2009
11:55 am

it wont post..ughhh

Foots

August 21st, 2009
11:56 am

Happy Friday everyones! Thinking about my strange turn-ons with my boyfriend, I’d have to say:
- him running his fingertips lightly down my back or running his nails along my spine
- how he looks in a black t-shirt or his tight workout shirt
- light S&M and wrestling
- seeing him excited about a credit score increase
- the size of his wrist and how my hand can’t fit all the way around it
- the way he forgets to breathe if my lips are anywhere near his ear

W8©

August 21st, 2009
11:57 am

Strange Turn Ons:

I like it when a woman kisses the inside of my left ankle…I dont know why…but that is the one spot that well drive me over the edge…I never knew that until like 6 years ago…sent me over the edge…I would try and kiss my own ankle but I dont think i can reach it…lol

A woman’s neck

If she can drive a stick

Knows football

W8©

August 21st, 2009
11:57 am

Panties and Bra always matching

If she moans while performing oral sex

If she can be tough at times but still a kitten at other times

When she wears her hair down whether it’s short or long..i just like hairstyles that go down and that are not reaching for the sky

Self Confidence

Thighs..mmm..im not a butt man or a breast man..i like nice legs

An educated woman who can speak on current events…not just “gossip columns or shows”

A woman who can handle hers and doesnt need a man…but yet she doesnt sing that tune all of the time

A woman who can just put me in my place sometimes really turns me on…just me sit down and shut up…lol

A woman who lets me make mistakes and isn’t always so quick to point them out to me…when we both know I am wrong…lmao

I will say necks again because that is my favorite part of a woman’s body…i dont know why..I like nice and smooth somewhat long necks…not those e.t. nexks with all of those rolls and etc

Necks..Necks..necks..

Hmmm..I like to be “handled” rough and clawed, bitten and scratched all over…even better if you break skin and draw some blood er’now and then…

Happy Friday :)

Leggs

August 21st, 2009
11:58 am

@Swiss, thank you!

W8©

August 21st, 2009
11:58 am

If she can be tough at times but still a kitten at other times

When she wears her hair down whether it’s short or long..i just like hairstyles that go down and that are not reaching for the sky

Self Confidence

An educated woman who can speak on current events…not just “gossip columns or shows”

A woman who can handle hers and doesnt need a man…but yet she doesnt sing that tune all of the time

A woman who can just put me in my place sometimes really turns me on…just me sit down and shut up…lol

A woman who lets me make mistakes and isn’t always so quick to point them out to me…when we both know I am wrong…lmao

I will say necks again because that is my favorite part of a woman’s body…i dont know why..I like nice and smooth somewhat long necks…not those e.t. nexks with all of those rolls and etc

Necks..Necks..necks..

Hmmm..I like to be “handled” rough and clawed, bitten and scratched all over…even better if you break skin and draw some blood er’now and then…

Happy Friday :)

Lynn

August 21st, 2009
11:59 am

Watching a dance scene in a movie, i.e., Richard Gere in Shall We Dance, Robert Redford in The Horse Whisperer, Al Pacino in The Scent of a Woman.
Listening to Trace Adkins sing a couple of his “bedroom” songs that they certainly don’t play on the radio!

W8©

August 21st, 2009
11:59 am

umm okay sorry for the double posts..lol..but yeah

AmazonRed™ - mentally tough

August 21st, 2009
12:01 pm

I would try and kiss my own ankle but I dont think i can reach it…lol,

W8 – So you had me up in my office trying. :lol:

Turns out, I can still reach it.

Did nothing for me tho. :lol:

AmazonRed™ - mentally tough

August 21st, 2009
12:03 pm

Thighs..mmm..im not a butt man or a breast man..i like nice legs

:lol: This explains a lot now! :lol: