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Strange Turn-ons

When women want to really seduce their man, they can utilize all the senses: taste, touch, sound, and smell. So if a man walks in the door and he hears soft music, smells something good in the kitchen (and the cook!) he pretty much is a goner. Sometimes all a woman needs to do is just give that look.

Men are constantly saying that they are simple and uncomplicated. In some ways, I am inclined to agree, especially when it comes to turning them on. Since men are such visual creatures, women don’t have to work all that hard to get his attention. Yet, I am still surprised when I hear about the strange and random things that men are attracted to and what turns them on.

Truth be told, women are turned on by strange things too. I love it when a man that I am attracted to reads out loud. Yes, I’m a raging nerd, but I can’t help it. That gets me in the mood! What are some totally unique, strange things that turn you on? Have you ever been surprised to discover that something turned you on?

I’ve heard that there are a lot of foods that are considered aphrodisiacs! What are these foods!? Have they worked on you or for you?

What are some strange things that turn you off? Are there any weird mood-killers that made you lose that loving feeling?

Happy FRIDAY!

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dw

August 21st, 2009
8:36 am

That pooch! Everybody is in the gym trying to get that hard body, but there’s something about a girl with that little pooch that drives me crazy!
And stretch marks on the booty, not the ones you can feel but the ones you can see, that looks like she got a little thicker faster than her body was expecting.

mytw♥cents

August 21st, 2009
8:36 am

Oooh, makes me think of CeeLo’s Closet Freak… that song is the biz.

Reading is a good one, Wisey. Especially when he has a nice, rich tone. Or I’ll just ask to hear a story over again and again. Lemme marinate on this, tho.

Have a Frisky Friday Y’all ;)

Fulfilling Me

August 21st, 2009
9:02 am

Ooohhh Wise!

Strange turn-ons…hmmm..I like it when a man sings to me. I know that may not be strange, but I haven’t experienced that often and its sexy. :smile:

Professor

August 21st, 2009
9:05 am

Happy Friday!!

I think I will just listen to the fellas to day. Is that okay?

I will say that I like small moles are freckles in private areas or a little birthmark or something…that is a turn on to me. Of course eating off each other’s plate while dining…just a few nibbles here and there sets the tone for me.

@WD I actually like sharing the newspaper that is a turn on to me…there is nothing like a hot cup of coffee or tea and sharing the paper.
@dw ahh that stretch marks on the derriere I would have never guessed!

Professor

August 21st, 2009
9:07 am

@Fulfilling…that is a good one! I love that my ex would do that to me all the time (ahh memories) that just made my heart smile.

Pretty Wings ()

August 21st, 2009
9:09 am

Kalima and Happy Freaky Friday Bloggers!
There is something about a tool belt and fixing things that is so sexy!

De Angelo
(How Does It Feel)

Girl it’s only U
Have it your way
And if U want U can decide
And if you’ll have me
I can provide everything that U desire
Said if U get a feeling
Feeling that I am feeling
Won’t U come closer 2 me baby,
You’ve already got me right where U want me baby
I just wanna be your man

How does it feel
How does it feel
Said I wanna know how does it feel
How does it feel
How does it feel

AmazonRed™ - mentally tough

August 21st, 2009
9:10 am

Happy Friday!

So if a man walks in the door and he hears soft music, smells something good in the kitchen (and the cook!) he pretty much is a goner. Sometimes all a woman needs to do is just give that look.

When a man does this for me, I’m a goner as well. :lol:

Other “strange” things that turn me on:
When he wears glasses.
When he tells me “no.”
When he’s driving and handling a stick shift. :lol:

Fulfilling Me

August 21st, 2009
9:16 am

@Pretty Wings..

That song takes my mind back. Love me some D’Angelo.

Fulfilling Me

August 21st, 2009
9:16 am

@Ared

Glasses are hot! Another one is a man in uniform. Just exudes power to me.

Fulfilling Me

August 21st, 2009
9:17 am

@Prof…

A man voice is just plain sexy and when he can carry a note..OMG :wink:

Randyt (aka Been there, Done that, Got a Closet FULL of t-shirts)

August 21st, 2009
9:18 am

For me…ankle bracelets and pretty feet, rubbing her bare foot up my leg under the table at a restaurant, finding an excuse to bend over with a pretty backside, the back of a women’s neck when she is cooking, the two inch gap between the lady’s pants and her shirt with a little bit of the small of a woman’s back showing, a woman (preferably pretty) with her face two inches from mine looking straight into my eyes…the list is long but not particularly kinky.

After having said that, I am always a bit amazed at what turns a seemingly straight arrow woman on when she trusts me enough to confide. I won’t share those, but lets just say that the first thought is “okay, I sure never saw that coming” and second thought is “okay, works for me”, LOL.

Pretty Wings ()

August 21st, 2009
9:20 am

@ Full – I know, that song was in my head when I woke up this morning! Do you remember the video?

@ARED – Eye contact- Yes! So sexy……………

WD – I have a great appreciation for the sexy, I’m not sure about the strange…………….TBC

Fulfilling Me

August 21st, 2009
9:22 am

@PW

Who can’t remember the video? I had a outta body experience with that video.:evil: Whew, bout to go to youtube to refresh my memory!

i'm swiss (aka Buckshot Prior)

August 21st, 2009
9:27 am

Morning everyone…

Ahem… [clearing throat]

“See Spot run. See Spot bark. See Jane pet Spot. The end.” So, Wise, does that make you horny, baby? :lol:

On a (somewhat) related note — how’s this for a turn off:

http://www.ajc.com/news/gwinnett/threesome-results-in-120469.html

Talk about c@ck-blocking… sheesh… :lol:

Leggs

August 21st, 2009
9:30 am

Good morning everyone!

Boy it’s going to be popping in here today.

Turnons = hugging me ever so tightly. I luvs it! Eye contact with that look of lust.

AmazonRed™ - mentally tough

August 21st, 2009
9:32 am

LOL @ swiss – see those are YOUR cousins. :lol:

Texas Boy

August 21st, 2009
9:49 am

A woman with nice thick eyebrows is defiantly a turn on especially if she has pretty eyes.

Le Siren

August 21st, 2009
9:50 am

Amazon

I also like to see a man in the kitchen…
I love it when my man speaks patois- so sexy!
I love it when I look up and see him looking at me with adoration in his eyes:)
I love the way he wakes me up randomly in the middle of the night to make love…

Blow Me ....Please don't feed the MONKEYS!

August 21st, 2009
9:51 am

Good Morning All

Things that turn me on about a man

From his elbow to his hand…That part of a man is so sexy…See what he is handling me with…I love muscular forearms and big hands. That is so sexy to me.

When he tells me “no.”
When he’s driving and handling a stick shift.

I can agree to this. I love seeing a man drive a stick shift…This is taking me back.

He definitely needs to have the ability to tell me no. I need to see that I am not able to walk all over him. Because I will if he lets me!! lol!

Grace

August 21st, 2009
9:51 am

Good morning, Strange turn on? beard stubbles rubbing against my neck, it tickles me everywhere.

Leggs

August 21st, 2009
9:56 am

@Swiss, he didn’t know the two personally but recognized them from his place of employment for causing fights and he let them in anyway! Having a 3some 4 in the morning with strangers in the house and doors open. He got what he deserved just for being stupid!

AmazonRed™ - mentally tough

August 21st, 2009
9:58 am

Le Siren – None of those are strange. :lol:

i'm swiss (aka Buckshot Prior)

August 21st, 2009
9:59 am

ARed — I know & it’s a d@mn embarrassment. ;-) By the way, I drive a stick, I need glasses & I say “no” a lot. Is that doin’ it for you? :lol:

Leggs — In his defense, when 2 chics decide they’re going to do you, you don’t really care what the mitigating circumstances are… :lol:

Fulfilling Me

August 21st, 2009
10:00 am

@Grace

Yes, stubble is nice on the right places.

@All

I love when I can feel a man’s love for me and not talking actions. When he walks in the room and the sun comes out. Love it!

Melo

August 21st, 2009
10:01 am

When he’s driving and handling a stick shift=yeah,thats me! i like to rub on her knee a lil,then stroke the inside of her thigh just a tad,with my naughty lil index..hehehe. :lol:

When he wears glasses=thats me, again(dang!!,well then, i rescind my “non-phlucking u” declaration yesterday) Lets jus do it then.

:lol: :lol:

On topic,My turn Ons:

1.nice,shapely leggs.She dont have to be short nor tall but as long as she sporting a short skirt,legs are looking nice and lotioned….my heart beats faster!
2. a pony tail,that gets me
3 nice teeth
4 a smile.. i luv a woman with an endless,ear to ear smile smile
5 intelligent,cerebral talk…just talk to me about anything,u got me.

6. stretch marks at the back of ur lower legs,now that really messes up my dyckk,no kidding! :lol:
7 nice,good size tatas,not too big,not too small…mwa mwa mwa,Got milk!! :lol:

8 some cute,well manicured feet.i dont like big,long feet(size eternity shoes) on a woman.The strereotype in me says that means her sexx is wack! Blame that on ur mama genes! :lol:

9. a nice lil booty!i aint a big fan of the jack azz huge booty.If u sport some jeans,and it pops out nicely,good enough for me.Work it for me.
10. ur eyes…when u look at me,do i see sme in there…..

Now, leme take my shoes off! :lol: :lol:

AmazonRed™ - mentally tough

August 21st, 2009
10:03 am

By the way, I drive a stick, I need glasses & I say “no” a lot. Is that doin’ it for you?

swiss – It would be, but the “fiance” thing is the libido killer. ;)

Why does WD do this? Get us all charged up on a Friday, then releasing us into the wild where we are meeting up with dates and such? No fair. :lol:

Grace

August 21st, 2009
10:05 am

Fulfilling Me you know it! :wink:

Other than that I’m just an ordinary turn me on kinda girl….

Compelling

August 21st, 2009
10:06 am

Great topic WD! It always interests me to hear what others find sexy.

@ARed- The thing about a man saying “no” definitely gets me. There’s just something about a man being able to put his foot down.

@RandyT- The back of a woman’s neck while cooking, huh?

I actually like to see a man in jeans and a a white t-shirt with no shoes on. I think that’s sooo sexy. :-)

Pretty Wings ()

August 21st, 2009
10:08 am

When my friend put me “in Check” on something I said……..strangely enough that was real sexy! lol

AmazonRed™ - mentally tough

August 21st, 2009
10:09 am

(dang!!,well then, i rescind my “non-phlucking u” declaration yesterday) Lets jus do it then.

:lol: :lol: :lol:

How bout hell no. ;)

Raqi...Blackberrying

August 21st, 2009
10:11 am

It’s a turn me on watching him fold the laundry. Especially my delicates. He tends be extra kind to my softer pieces. He sits on the rug in our bedroom and folds the laundry and have it all laid out in piles but when he folds my delicates he puts them on the table or chair and not let them touch the floor. And just handles them with extra care.

Le Siren

August 21st, 2009
10:13 am

Amazon

You’re right…I guess I just got caught up in my own five-minute fantasy:)

Some others…A man who takes charge at work and handles his business.

Old school chivalry…like waiting until I sit at a restaurant before he sits down, walking on the “street side” when we’re out in public, always opening doors…

One-two days of stubble creating that sexy shadow:) Everybody can’t pull this off though:)

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

August 21st, 2009
10:15 am

Good mornting blog!

Let’s see:

Glasses – (oh yeah, Amred!)
Shades
Nice muscular arms & chest in a nicely tailored dress shirt. This combined with the shades or glasses – HOT!
Nice teeth!
Nice deep voice (you don’t have to be Barry White, but sound like a man!)
Nice cologne
Great kisser
Kind eyes (I’m not into the intense, killer thing)
Intelligence
Quirky sense of humor
Nicely shaped butt, but not a big, high one like Arsenio Hall.
Not too conservative

Raqi...Blackberrying

August 21st, 2009
10:15 am

When he offers his arm to help an elderly woman on or off the curb.

Randyt (aka Been there, Done that, Got a Closet FULL of t-shirts)

August 21st, 2009
10:15 am

@ Compelling …yup. A glass of wine and a slow dance in the kitchen while food is simmering. Mucho better than plopping one’s lazy backside on the couch watching TV while the lady does all the cooking…sometimes the “appetizer” can really be great, LOL ;-) .

Mo (aka Moeisha aka Katt)

August 21st, 2009
10:18 am

Morning All! TGIF!! I never thought friday would get here. Now WD is starting early with this topic……

Turn ons:

My guy in gray sweats, sleeveless shirt and nice sneakers (the basic-ness is sexy to me)

Washing his hair (if he has any)

Reading erotic literature to him

Nice arms (the kind you just lay in) and great hugs

the whole raising-one-eyebrow thing

when i say ‘give me a kiss’ out the blue and he just obliges with no hesitation no matter where we are or what we are doing

Fulfilling Me

August 21st, 2009
10:18 am

Watching a man workout, fix a car, do yard work, or playing with kids.

Le Siren

August 21st, 2009
10:20 am

Randyt…A glass of wine and a slow dance in the kitchen while food is simmering. Mucho better than plopping one’s lazy backside on the couch watching TV while the lady does all the cooking

I agree 100%!!!

AmazonRed™ - mentally tough

August 21st, 2009
10:20 am

I guess we’re over “strange” turn-ons and just on to turn-ons now.

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

August 21st, 2009
10:23 am

My man in a black T shirt
Him picking up his sleeping little girl to put her to bed
The sight of him working in the yard, all sweaty
Him working the grill
A man that can work a classic tuxedo and a drink, like James Bond
A man that knows how to dress, period!

Le Siren

August 21st, 2009
10:23 am

When he tells me to look in his eyes during imtimate moments…like he wants me to know EXACTLY who’s making me feel this good;)

Booger Bandit

August 21st, 2009
10:23 am

My girlfriend is turned on by, floggers, leather restraints, collars, canes, paddles, being chained to the bed, asphyxiation, hair pulling, riding crops, ropes, wax, heat, biting…pretty extreme butt oh so fun and never makes for a dull moment.

Can ya dig it?!!

Professor

August 21st, 2009
10:24 am

@Melo your list was too funny!

I agree with most of the ones listed here…I did not realize so many things turned me on. I love it when a man gives me a soft kiss on the forehead or an Eskimo kiss.

Leggs

August 21st, 2009
10:24 am

@Swiss, yeah you’re right on that point. Greedy arse! :lol:

I love it when a man kisses me on the forehand. When he takes the back of his finger and strokes my cheek. I love it when he sucks my toes. Ut oh, that’s not a turn on that’s foreplay….carry on!

Blow Me ....Please don't feed the MONKEYS!

August 21st, 2009
10:26 am

**Mo** **the whole raising-one-eyebrow thing

when i say ‘give me a kiss’ out the blue and he just obliges with no hesitation no matter where we are or what we are doing

My guy in gray sweats, sleeveless shirt and nice sneakers (the basic-ness is sexy to me)**

Yeah it’s nothing sexier than a dude in sweats with a wifebeater on or him in his basketball shorts and a beater.

Black Men are so sexy to me. I must say Men can be my weakness. lol

Grace

August 21st, 2009
10:27 am

Le Siren your strange turn ons are YOUR strange turn ons, how dare you Ared tell her that her turn ons are not strange?

Le Siren

August 21st, 2009
10:28 am

…having my neck squeezed (yes, I’m slightly into asphyxiation) during sex- What, you asked for strange turn-ons right? lol

Raqi...Blackberrying

August 21st, 2009
10:31 am

Watching him right now help his single cousin and her two kids set up their beach chairs and umbrella.

AmazonRed™ - mentally tough

August 21st, 2009
10:32 am

…having my neck squeezed (yes, I’m slightly into asphyxiation) during sex- What, you asked for strange turn-ons right? lol

:lol: @ Le Siren.

I think we talked about folks who were into that on here one day.

Raqi...Blackberrying

August 21st, 2009
10:33 am

When he watch me get dressed.