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Too Soon?

After a break-up, it’s natural to want to get back out there and have a fling. It’s also normal to want a distraction from the misery and void the person has left in your life.

The problem is that sometimes you have post-relationship goggles. You see someone who is probably far from the ideal mate for you as The One, simply because they take your mind off, well the last The One.

Rebounding from a serious breakup takes time and it really needs to be realistic. I have been the rebound girl before and it only bothered me because the man didn’t tell me how recent the break up was. Actually, it turned out being “a break” not a break up, and our short-lived romance ended with a reconciliation with his ex-girlfriend. The one that I had no idea existed in such recent history.

If you want to return to dating after a break up, what do you think is too soon? If you are still having angry outbursts about your ex, is it really a good idea to start a relationship with someone?

Do you disclose your relationship resume, including dates, to the person you are seeing?

Do you think it’s possible for a new romance to have a good chance if one of you just got over a break up?

Do you think men and women rebound at different rates? Or is it more about rebounding in a different way?

481 comments Add your comment

770

August 20th, 2009
8:41 am

You need to get out of the house and mingle but you should always be mindful of others and disclose the truth. You can’t sit home and morn your misery, the situation will get worse. Every song played will tend to have a meaning towards you.

It’s Ok to date but you have to tell the truth.

Fulfilling Me (Back in Action)

August 20th, 2009
8:49 am

Morning All!

On Topic:
If you want to return to dating after a break up, what do you think is too soon?

I think it all depends on the circumstances of the break up. For me, whether good or bad, I allow myself time to breathe and just do me. It allows me to reflect and heal, then move forward. It takes however long it will take to get to that point.

If you are still having angry outbursts about your ex, is it really a good idea to start a relationship with someone?

No. All you energy is being directed at one person, which means you have not recovered, which means you will end up bringing baggage to the next person. To take time to relax ,relate, and release.

Do you disclose your relationship resume, including dates, to the person you are seeing?

No. As long as I have moved on and healed not necessary. Leave the past in the past and focus on the present.

Do you think it’s possible for a new romance to have a good chance if one of you just got over a break up?

Anything is possible. Will it be healthy, maybe not. I think its all in the persons mindframe and approach to the situation. Where does their motives lie.

Do you think men and women rebound at different rates? Or is it more about rebounding in a different way?

I don’t think men and women rebound at different rates. I think its the approach in rebounding. Again, I think it depends on the nature of the breakup that will determine the rebound approach.

Off Topic:

@Professor…computer crashed out yesterday. To answer your question, I am not in the HR field as of yet. Still trying to get the entry into it, but it will come. Just keeping my skills up by pursuing my Master’s and will work on getting my certification.

Stan

August 20th, 2009
8:50 am

I had broken up with a fairly long term on-again/off-again girlfriend about 2 weeks or so before I met the woman I would marry. She had recently become single as well and we were up front about the fact that we were looking for a rebound and nothing long term. We were both 21 by a matter of weeks. 4 months later we married. That was 15 years ago this October.

Sometimes the “rebound” is The One.

dw

August 20th, 2009
8:53 am

I don’t think that there is a certain period of time you need to wait, but you should be emotionally available to the next person. Once you break up, you become physically available and detached from your previous mate. However, you are still emotionally attached for a period of time and as long as you are emotionally attached you should not try to start a new relationship.
I think as guys, we welcome the new distraction and try to hide the emotional attachment from everyone, not just the new person and that’s unfair. I’ve been there and I’ve found myself getting extra angry at the new person because they did something similar to what the old person did. I say extra angry because I should not have been that angry at the first time that, that person did what they did, but since the old person had done it so often and I had not emotionally detached from them it made me that much more angry, and the new person was confused by it.
Be fair to yourself and your new mate by making sure you are not still emotionally attached to your former mate.

Randyt (aka Been there, Done that, Got a Closet FULL of t-shirts)

August 20th, 2009
8:59 am

Hi WD interesting topic with some personal ramifications (unfortunately).

EVERYONE (notice the caps) think they are ready to get into a new relationship, and usually a lot sooner than they really are. I thought I was ready after my divorce. My “transition” relationship was probablly ruined before it ever had a chance to truly grow because I really was not ready to get involved (socializing good okay and helpful, but getting involved was not). Important point…It is not a matter of being over the “other person” particularly, it is a matter of being over the ANGER and the resentment still remaining from the hurts and injustices that brought the relationship down. This is where I messed up and many others I have witnessed also. Sure you are glad that azzhole or that biotch is out of your life, but chances are if they still emote the kind of response that makes you feel ANYTHING then you still have unresolved issues. I still had them and though the lady was incredible (my transition lover) she was human, and sooner or later humans are going to trip over any remaining raw nerve endings. She did, I blew up, and things were never the same. Bad part is that I thought I was justified getting upset…don’t we all?

Bottom line, it is not the person that you have to be “over” it is the unresolved anger or issues.

Randyt (aka Been there, Done that, Got a Closet FULL of t-shirts)

August 20th, 2009
9:03 am

@DW, I wrote my comment before seeing yours. Your illustration is exactly what I did and for the same reasons. Been there, done that (and fugged up).

Fulfilling Me (Back in Action)

August 20th, 2009
9:06 am

@dw

Couldn’t have said it better.

Grace

August 20th, 2009
9:20 am

Good morning! DW you nailed it on the head!

Grace

August 20th, 2009
9:20 am

Good morning! DW you nailed it on the head!

AmazonRed™ - so what?

August 20th, 2009
9:21 am

Mornting!

If you want to return to dating after a break up, what do you think is too soon?

Well, I’m always the one doing the breaking up. Either I walk away, or the guy has decided to make the relationship uncomfortable enough where I go ahead and end it. Either way, the end date is on me, so I have enough time to mentally prepare for the next phase. Once it’s over, I can be open to recieving another relationship.

If you are still having angry outbursts about your ex, is it really a good idea to start a relationship with someone?

Yeah, that is why I cut off all contact with my exes after we break up. No risk of that there!

Do you disclose your relationship resume, including dates, to the person you are seeing?

If he asks, yes. I typically operate under the assumption that if we are not exclusive, we can see other people.

Do you think it’s possible for a new romance to have a good chance if one of you just got over a break up?

Yes.

Do you think men and women rebound at different rates? Or is it more about rebounding in a different way?

Each person is so different I wouldn’t even want to make it a men vs. women thing.

Grace

August 20th, 2009
9:23 am

WOW a double post! sorry bout that I’m downloading a software…

AmazonRed™ - so what?

August 20th, 2009
9:24 am

That’s an awesome story, Stan!

Blow Me

August 20th, 2009
9:34 am

Good Morning ALL

Smh @ **ARED** Do you think it’s possible for a new romance to have a good chance if one of you just got over a break up?

Yes.

I do not think she is including flings. If you have had a good significant relationship and NOT a fling…Which I see you always seem to have those. It will take you a while not forever to process your feelings and to displace those properly. If you have not had a significant bond it is ALWAYS easy to walk away. I think you get relationships and FLINGS confused. lol!

M. (pronounced M dot)

August 20th, 2009
9:37 am

For me, I think rebounding is not that great because breakups are terrible. I read in a study once that psychologist found that the feelings of breaking up or being dumped are almost equivalent to mourning a loved one. It is really heavy on people.

What I think is to soon is about 2-3 months. The person and their routine is still somewhat in your system. 1 thing I always do after a breakup is take what I call a “reflectionary celebratory period” i.e., do what you want to do without worrying about your ex and other people. Not hurting people, but just shooting from the hip. Go out, have fun, do different stuff and all the stuff you wanted to do but didn’t get to because you were in a relationship. I usually try to do something different, change up my look, upgrade my wardrobe, and also work out and just get ready to get back in business. Its like losing the super bowl I’m sure. You take a few months off then refocus and try to come back better.

I definitely disclose my dating resume because I want to open up and not be mysterious in this area.

I think guys (if they got dumped) rebound slower because they don’t want to deal with the same ordeal again so they take their time and are more cautious.

AmazonRed™ - so what?

August 20th, 2009
9:44 am

LMAO @ Blow. You’re tarting early this morning.

No, I am not talking about flings. See Stan’s 8:50. I can happen for some people. You need to get out more. Just because it doesn’t happen in your world doesn’t mean it can’t happen.

Blow Me

August 20th, 2009
9:57 am

Never said what could not happen. Follow my post correctly.

My point was we are referring to R-E-L-A-T-I-O-N-S-H-I-P-S not FLINGS. Huge difference.Those short lived stunts you call relationships are NOT. Rebounding is harder when you have true invested feelings and Love.

Everything that’s broken needs time to heal.

No one is tarting just sick of reading your off the mark post everyday…You miss up the whole groove with your smack.

But please don’t respond and just carry on.

SexyCool - If you could feel my joy.

August 20th, 2009
9:59 am

Three Words Daily – Peace. Be still.

AmazonRed™ - so what?

August 20th, 2009
10:00 am

Blow…goodness, you are putting 20 on 10 today.

WD’s question was if it was POSSIBLE. She didn’t say definite, she didn’t even say LIKELY. She said POSSIBLE.

All I answered was “yes.” As in yes it is POSSIBLE. Not definite, not absolute, not even likely.

You, in turn, took it and ran with it.

I know you need time to heal after a relationship. DUH!!!! That’s not what the question was about.

Get a grip, dude.

SexyCool - If you could feel my joy.

August 20th, 2009
10:01 am

Casual dating after a breakup? Sure. Why not?

Looking to jump into another relationship without some time for whatever you really need time for? Not a good look.

You can become a serial monogamist without even realizing it.

Professor

August 20th, 2009
10:02 am

Good Morning Ladies and Gentlemen:

I have disclosed that I like to sit on the bench. So you all know that I do the self-imposed timeouts. I like taking that time to reflect and to look at what I did wrong and what I did right. I do not date casually so I don’t do the flings unless a fling can be considered getting to know someone and finding out he is a liar and a loser and I take off running.

@Stan great story! It gives me hope and a reason to stop questioning everything.

@Fulfill thanks for answering me…

@ARed…naw I am not going to say nothing…never mind.

Magnolia Peach

August 20th, 2009
10:04 am

I need to know the answer to this as well! I recently called it quits (FOR REAL THIS TIME) with an on again/off again beau for the past 4 years. Although I am enjoying this “reflective” time to get my thoughts together and focus on my wants, needs and desires (cliche, I know), I am sooo ready to get back in the saddle and paint the town red with a new, hot(ter) guy on my arm.

AmazonRed™ - so what?

August 20th, 2009
10:05 am

@ARed…naw I am not going to say nothing…never mind.

Professor – Aw shucks. I think you should say it. ;)

Leggs

August 20th, 2009
10:08 am

Good morning.

I like this topic simply because so many in blogsville say the best way to forget about someone is to get under someone and I vehemently disagree. After a breakup one should take time off and heal the emotional wounds before entering into another relationship. If you’re hurting so badly that you need to get under someone else to make you feel better then you need to step back, look hard at the mirror and start loving yourself. Just because one is horny is not enough reason to get under someone just for the hell of getting under someone. MHO!

Mike Jones (who)

August 20th, 2009
10:08 am

Magnolia
I’m with you on that. I’ve just finished dealing with a similar on and off relationship. The on and off makes it seem like you have been single longer than you really have. Its time to get off the bench.

PUT ME IN THE GAME COACH!

SexyCool - If you could feel my joy.

August 20th, 2009
10:14 am

I do not heart people who lie about how long it’s been since their last relationship.

Professor…Miles Davis is playing

August 20th, 2009
10:15 am

@ Magnolia Peach- I feel like it depends on you and the type of relationship you came out of. A lot of relationships were dead for months before the break up became official so there is no magic number. I will say reflecting and allowing time to breathe is key.

@Ared, nope it is too early to let you borrow my vest…Lol.

***When is Friday coming and why is it taking so long???***

Leggs

August 20th, 2009
10:15 am

@ARed, forgot to put this is my last post. Did you really do all the breaking up in your relationships? That’s somewhat admirable, but you might be the only person where the guy never did the breaking up.

Blow Me

August 20th, 2009
10:17 am

**Ared** I knew it you can’t follow directions if it was pasted on your forehead….smh! I specifically said please do not respond…Carry on with your day! Geez! Stop it.

Wise Diva

August 20th, 2009
10:17 am

Good morning everyone!

AmazonRed™ - so what?

August 20th, 2009
10:19 am

That’s somewhat admirable, but you might be the only person where the guy never did the breaking up

Leggs – As stated, there are some guys who won’t break up with you, but will check out of the relationship or make it uncomfortable enough where the woman gets fed up enough to break up with them.

So just because I initiated “the talk” doesn’t mean that I was the first one to realize it wasn’t working.

SexyCool - If you could feel my joy.

August 20th, 2009
10:20 am

Wise Diva

August 20th, 2009
10:21 am

new rule! No battles before noon, retract all claws, and play nice for like 90 more minutes LOL

AmazonRed™ - so what?

August 20th, 2009
10:22 am

I specifically said please do not respond

And who are you heffa? No one. I don’t have to follow your directions. Are you serious? You probably are. BWA HA HA HAHA!!!! @ you thinking you can call shots in my life :lol: :lol: :lol:

Do some yoga, learn tai chi, get laid. You really shouldn’t walk up in to the blog so hostile. Breathe chile.

Newsflash – I am entitled to my opinion whether you agree with it or not. Accept that or sit over behind your computer screen getting “sick” at my posts. Hilarious!!!

Mike Jones (who)

August 20th, 2009
10:25 am

Ding Ding Round 2!

Fulfilling Me (Back in Action)

August 20th, 2009
10:27 am

Ya’ll whew…I tell you what…interesting

AmazonRed™ - so what?

August 20th, 2009
10:27 am

WiseDiva – All I did was come in this morning and answer your blog questions.

*smiles sweetly*

Leggs

August 20th, 2009
10:28 am

@ARed, I definitely know about those who won’t do the breaking up but makes the relationship so unbearable that you wind up doing the breakup. As many MLBs have stated here, they like to leave you with the impression that it was actually your idea when in reality they already did the breakup without saying the words!

Ok, ladies, most of us still have the sleep in our eyes. Claws are out too early today!

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 20th, 2009
10:29 am

A lie dont care who tell it..

AmazonRed™ - so what?

August 20th, 2009
10:32 am

As many MLBs have stated here, they like to leave you with the impression that it was actually your idea when in reality they already did the breakup without saying the words! </i.

Leggs – Exactly. It was just my way of saying I’m hip to that game and recognize that it’s been run on me a time or two.

Even still, since the ball was put in my court, I can get my strategy together too.

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 20th, 2009
10:34 am

At any rate..

I have said it before and I’ll say it again.. You have to be ALONE for a while to get you back.. Get by yourself to get to yuorself because so much of you has been intertwined with this other relationship.. Reel yourself in give yourself time to grieve and then get out there.. You aint missing nothing.. Its only fair to the next chick or dude.. Then once you get out there be honest.. What have you got to lose?

Blow Me

August 20th, 2009
10:35 am

I am with you **Infamous** It don’t not at all.

Ared- Told ya…can’t do it. You always got to run the big mouth of yours…

Leggs- Ok just for you. lol…You always had a way with me. But really YOU know she DOES all the dumping! In her beautiful mind. I’ll give you til noon Miss Leggs…Claws will be back out after lunch.

Melo

August 20th, 2009
10:35 am

they like to leave you with the impression that it was actually your idea when in reality they already did the breakup without saying the words

clap clap!!

as long as u agreeing to getting laid,u maybe on the ride for smetime.

I,melo,neva broke up with my ladies.
I always let ‘em break up with me. :lol:

AmazonRed™ - so what?

August 20th, 2009
10:37 am

Ared- Told ya…can’t do it. You always got to run the big mouth of yours…

Blow – I don’t HAVE to do anything. Again, you are no one to me.

But since you feel folks have to follow directions. Let’s see if you can stop blowing your hot air.

Professor…Miles Davis is playing

August 20th, 2009
10:38 am

ARed a nod to you if you are dumping them dudes like “Waste Management” when you see the “mess” not working. I truly agree with moving on when you see game being administered.

SexyCool - If you could feel my joy.

August 20th, 2009
10:38 am

I would like two ringside seats for the afternoon blog battle. Bout begins at 1201p. ~Teasing~

AmazonRed™ - so what?

August 20th, 2009
10:38 am

I,melo,neva broke up with my ladies.
I always let ‘em break up with me.

:lol:

Ms. Main

August 20th, 2009
10:40 am

If you can roll like that, then do you. I personally still have residual stuff going on. Just from the outside looking, men seem to be the gender that bounces back quicker. Not that some don’t and not that women can, just what it appears to be overall.

Ms. Main

August 20th, 2009
10:42 am

not that woment can’t…is what I meant

Professor…Miles Davis is playing

August 20th, 2009
10:42 am

Melo never telling the ladies bye-bye!

Leggs

August 20th, 2009
10:42 am

“Get by yourself to get to yuorself” If I knew how to needlepoint, I would put this on a pillow (only I would spell the word correctly). :wink: I firmly believe in that statement. Much love, Infamous!

@Blow, {{{hugs}}}. Luv ya!

AmazonRed™ - so what?

August 20th, 2009
10:43 am

ARed a nod to you if you are dumping them dudes like “Waste Management” when you see the “mess” not working. I truly agree with moving on when you see game being administered.

Professor – Thanks. Isn’t that what you’re suppposed to do tho? Everyone eventually gets that lightbulb moment on their own time.

Or they go off and get pregnant. :lol:

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 20th, 2009
10:43 am

My Ex and I were together 12 years.. 6 dating and 6 married.. So it took me a little time to shake her. Only because our lives were so interconnected with families, friends, finances and events. We built a world together. It took sometime just sorting out which friends were going with who. There was a definite line drawn in the sand amongst families. Some of her folks wanting to talk to me and some of mine wanting to talk to her.. Eventually everything worked out they way it was supposed to but it took a ton of healing and we still arent at a point where we can actually be cool but it will get there one day.. There were also phases I had to go thru because it was like a death. Its a song out there called Love Can Damage Your Health, I think thats a true statement when its the wrong love.

Melo

August 20th, 2009
10:44 am

Once it’s over, I can be open to recieving another relationship

I think u had urself covered coz u indicated that smetimes the guy ends it be4 u recognize and move away.
The qstion to be asked is:how long does it take u to get back into it or accepting another dude once u have walked away from the previous.This is where, i think, u lost BlowMe and myself in semantics.
Do u get back right back tmrw once u leave dude physically today or u have a waiting period of sme sort? Do u recognize the break up,mentally and chew it up be4 u verbalize it to him and end it,whats ur strategy for always cming out smooth and seemingly clean with it??

Wise Diva

August 20th, 2009
10:45 am

There is a song named “Love Can Damage Your Health” <<<— I need this on my ipod, don’t even care what it sounds like or who sings it, LOL

mytw♥cents

August 20th, 2009
10:45 am

WISEY Kinda makes you miss the free babysitter – I HATE ATTENTION WHOR3S, doesn’t it? Or, maybe that’s just me.

Let’s face it, some folks are kinda very much delusional. They think themselves a greater commodity than they really are and try to sell high when potentials should buy low. They’re so busy tryna broker the next half baked deal that they have no flippin clue why the last one fell through. Furthermore, they don’t want anyone else to try to analyze it either.

BLOW – I get what you’re saying about the confusion of flings and relationships, though I tend to think it’s cultural. Who was Wisey’s counterpart? Blanca? Bella? One of em tickled me more than the other with all the ‘relationship’ angst. Chick, you went to Starbucks twice. Not calling him back does not a break up make. A brush off, maybe, but not a break up. On the other hand, I know some of us who procreate and errythang ‘but he say she just a friend…Ohh ba-by yoouuuuuuu…

Melo

August 20th, 2009
10:45 am

Hey leggs,Proff!!

Professor…Miles Davis is playing

August 20th, 2009
10:45 am

*** Just from the outside looking, men seem to be the gender that bounces back quicker.*****

I have seen certain races that appears to bounce back faster as well, but that is just my opinion to what I have witnessed.

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 20th, 2009
10:47 am

Leggy you knows I gots major love for you.. ;-)

Wise Diva

August 20th, 2009
10:47 am

oh man, that’s right, mytw♥cents , wonder what happened to AW? Or maybe they are still with us under a different name hmmm. I admit, those excessive exclamation points and the all caps made me giggle a couple of times

anonymousella

August 20th, 2009
10:48 am

If you want to return to dating after a break up, what do you think is too soon?

i think it depends on how painful the breakup was. if you are still at the point where half the city reminds you of your ex, you ain’t ready.

If you are still having angry outbursts about your ex, is it really a good idea to start a relationship with someone?

worked for me … lol. seeing what a good relationship feels like helped me realize just how awful my last relationship was.

Do you disclose your relationship resume, including dates, to the person you are seeing?
nope. not until we’ve had The Talk and laid claim.

Do you think men and women rebound at different rates? Or is it more about rebounding in a different way?

i think we rebound differently. i think men will hide their pain by playing the field and treating women like crap for awhile. women just drink copious amounts of wine (or tequila), chocolate and / or ice cream. and spent lots of quality time with kleenex. i spent way too many weeks just lounging around, drinking and crying post-breakup…mostly because i didn’t see it coming.

Melo

August 20th, 2009
10:49 am

My Ex and I were together 12 year

INFAMOUS DK,what ws the major cause for the demise of ur long marriage??
Ur trifling or hers,infidelity or what,seeing that u seem to have built up a rather nice and close family and relationships both sides??

AmazonRed™ - so what?

August 20th, 2009
10:50 am

Do u get back right back tmrw once u leave dude physically today or u have a waiting period of sme sort? Do u recognize the break up,mentally and chew it up be4 u verbalize it to him and end it,whats ur strategy for always cming out smooth and seemingly clean with it??

melo – Of course I take time for myself. But remember, I’ve always been in the practice of putting me FIRST. I don’t have a problem saying “no” to people. A lot of women do and feel they are pulled in so many different directions that they have nothing to give other people. I don’t have that problem.

I have a lot of “me time” to think and reflect on my relationships, even while I’m in them. I don’t do ANYTHING hastily. And I’m not an emotional person, so I think about things rationally. I think about the consequences, I think about the worse case scenarios.

The funniest thing is, I’ve NEVER disagreed with taking time to heal. EVER. When everyone was encouraging Rell to get out there, I was the one that was saying he should sit his azz down for a minute and regroup.

So yeah, I’m just laughing at folks who think they have me all figured out.

mytw♥cents

August 20th, 2009
10:53 am

Patience is my most fervent prayer, but I feel like I rival Job with it. So I’ll regroup much longer than I’m in the thick of foolishness cuz I’m not gonna be an active participant in wasting valuable time. we can’t get it back and tomorrow’s not promised.

770 I get a lil 90 second black n white movie reel playin’ through my head when certain songs come on. I’m often smiling just cuz I’m thinkin of cherished memories – even if shii went far left, I’ll treasure ‘the good times.’

FILTHY VILLANOUS I like your methodology, but it probably works best with people who are actually likable. You ever notice that some people are so stank actin’ they don’t even seem to like themselves? But who’d put those 2 and 2 together to figure out if this adversely affected the relationship…

AmazonRed™ - so what?

August 20th, 2009
10:55 am

whats ur strategy for always cming out smooth and seemingly clean with it??

melo – Miss this one. I really count my blessings. Honestly. There are people who have things worse off. Always. There are people who have lost loves to death and disease. I just remember that my problems are that bad.

As for breaks being clean, you can’t control what the other person does, but you can control what he does. I don’t have to blow up his phone. I don’t have to answer his call. I don’t have to slash his tires.

I think about what the outcome of such behavior would be if I did it and I don’t want to look like the crazy chick. Really.

AmazonRed™ - so what?

August 20th, 2009
10:56 am

Should have read “my problems aren’t that bad”

Dan

August 20th, 2009
10:57 am

DW and Randy T hit it on the head.

And DW, it is mourning a loss; at least by the chemical responses of the brain (and no, the D is not going that deep).

I try and give myself the time to resolve that emotional attachment to an -ex. If not, the next person that I “date” is the “rebound chick”. Having been the cleanup hitter (male term for the “rebound guy”), I’ve seen that without that emotional release, no new attachments can be formed.

Think of it (the post breakup period) like emotional diarehha. One has to git that last lil bit out before thinking about eating again.

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 20th, 2009
10:57 am

Melo – Honestly it was a series of things that we didnt address. We let stuff go and just let it fester below the surface. I ude to say it was finances and that was a part of it but the larger picture was we never resolved any major issues we had. I resigned to the notion that it will work itself out but nothing works its sself out. You have to actively want to pursue a solution together. That dont let the sun go down on your anger is a truth I know all too well.. Once one situation was glossed over and another arose now we were dealing with both situations masked as the current situation. After all of that the lines of communication completely broke down and I never would have thought we would stop talking to each other because we were best friends before we got married. Never underestimate what resentment can do to a relationship. Unresoved issues breed resentment.

For Real

August 20th, 2009
10:59 am

Psst!!! Ared and Blow gon fight at 12:05 by the marry-go-round!!! I hope both of their shirts are made of cheap material.

AmazonRed™ - so what?

August 20th, 2009
11:01 am

women just drink copious amounts of wine (or tequila), chocolate and / or ice cream. and spent lots of quality time with kleenex

ella – I keep the Brian McKnight on repeat!

Blow Me

August 20th, 2009
11:02 am

**mytwo** GO SAT DOWN! SAT DOWN SOMEWHERE! LMAO
Let’s face it, some folks are kinda very much delusional. They think themselves a greater commodity than they really are and try to sell high when potentials should buy low. They’re so busy tryna broker the next half baked deal that they have no flippin clue why the last one fell through. Furthermore, they don’t want anyone else to try to analyze it either

Stop the madness. This is so much on point! Good post.

East Point's Own

August 20th, 2009
11:03 am

Y’all did get tarted early today…
Is it Friday yet????

http://hispointofview.com

Professor…Miles Davis is playing

August 20th, 2009
11:03 am

@DK…well said! There is so much truth in your 10:57 in which I have experienced first hand or witnessed.

East Point's Own

August 20th, 2009
11:04 am

Ya’ll neet to top it!

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 20th, 2009
11:04 am

Melo – also our marriage on the outside was the look of love. No one knew our home was in such turmoil.. I slept downstairs and she slept upstairs.. We spoke only in passing and concerning our son.. Ahhh but let an event or family function pop up.. We were there with bells on and playing the role.. Thats why I ended the relationship.. Honestly because I loved her too much to see her go thru her life miserable with me and I didnt want to be the dude that made my sons mother miserable or her to be the woman that turned her sons father into a broken man. Besides everything else that happened.. One day she’ll understand it but now she doesnt get it. She just thinks “How dare you divorce me”. All jokes aside..

AmazonRed™ - so what?

August 20th, 2009
11:04 am

For Real

August 20th, 2009
11:05 am

Getting over a relationship and getting over a marriage is two very different things.

In a relationship she snatches the chain off your neck she bought and dude breaks the heels on your shoes and then both of you move on.

In a marriage she gets the law to put you out with a garbage bag full of clothes and no underwear.

See totally different. I never understood why it took women so long to get over a relationship when this is not the first relationship they have gotten over!

Like my paw-paw use to say “The sun will rise tomorrow whether you want it to or not”

Melo

August 20th, 2009
11:06 am

I’ve NEVER disagreed with taking time to heal….I’m not an emotional person, so I think about things rationally

i think u nailed it,u do take time to heal.

I think other chics on here were proly seeing a spin on ur 1st post and saying,”hw she do it??”,looking sideways at u and envious ofcourse! :lol:
As ur no#1 backer, all i was gonna say was,”oh,ARED dates like a man,Phluck ‘em and dump ‘em,no sweat!”

:lol: :lol:

Grace

August 20th, 2009
11:06 am

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

August 20th, 2009
11:06 am

Morning Gang

A good friend of mine lost her husband yesterday to illness. They were high school sweethearts. He was a nice guy, only 36 years old. Life is precious. Makes a lot of this mess we go back & forth about seem petty.

I always take time after a major breakup. I like to “cocoon” – just be by myself at home or the homes of close family & friends. Watch funny movies & listen to uplifting songs. I’ve been the rebound girl before and it was a disaster. Never again.

I don’t believe men ACTUALLY bounce back sooner or better than women at all. They may get back in the game physically, but mentally – no. A lot don’t really give themselves time to GRIEVE. They jump back into something, but 20 years later they’ll still have ole girl on their mind. The rebound girl will have to deal with it and a lot of times she does not realize that is actually what she’s dealing with, especially if its years down the road and about a woman he never really got over.

As to men making it uncomfortable so a woman will do the breaking up, oldest trick in the book. I remember abc coming on here quoting some statistics about how more women file for divorce and such, as if the women are not willing to work things out! This stupid phenomena came to my mind as the real reason!

AmazonRed™ - so what?

August 20th, 2009
11:07 am

i think u nailed it,u do take time to heal.

melo – I’ve never said otherwise. :)

Oh and I don’t date like a man. I just can’t wallow for too long. Too much living to do. I’m a woman of faith, so God sees me thru. ;)

Grace

August 20th, 2009
11:08 am

melo you need to stop! wipe the shid off your nose :lol:

AmazonRed™ - so what?

August 20th, 2009
11:09 am

I never understood why it took women so long to get over a relationship when this is not the first relationship they have gotten over!

:lol: @ For Real

Maybe some folks never really get over any of them.

AmazonRed™ - so what?

August 20th, 2009
11:11 am

Makes a lot of this mess we go back & forth about seem petty.

It is!

kimmie – So sorry to hear about your friend and her husband. How blessed was she to have such a love though. Wow!!!

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 20th, 2009
11:14 am

Nicola Conte is Playing.. Thats why ya’ll getting all this good juice this morning..

Blow Me ....Please don't feed the MONKEYS!

August 20th, 2009
11:14 am

MELO- Please do not give her an invitation to jump on a soap box with her bullhorn. Please do not feed the monkeys! Please MELO stop it. She hops on her righteous beloved Soap box to anyone who is willing to listen to the garbage she spits everyday.

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

August 20th, 2009
11:16 am

Amred – Thanks. They were a nice couple. They were one of the couples that was with us in the mountains back in March. I’m still in shock. It’s kinda been a rough summer for me. I’ll be glad when it’s over, been real uneasy.

I gotta stay prayerful.

AmazonRed™ - so what?

August 20th, 2009
11:16 am

Yet Blow Me states the other day how she and I are so much alike.

Hilarious. :lol:

For Real

August 20th, 2009
11:17 am

DK: Great honest post bruh. It’s always the small thing we look for in the beginning of the relationship and it those same small things we take for granted once the relationship is exclusive.

Kick Em: “Maybe some folks never really get over any of them.” – True, I had an ex-friend tell me she had to lie to herself to get over me. I asked her when did she stop lying? She hung up!

AmazonRed™ - so what?

August 20th, 2009
11:17 am

It’s kinda been a rough summer for me

kimmie – Sorry to hear that. Prayerful indeed. :)

AmazonRed™ - so what?

August 20th, 2009
11:20 am

I asked her when did she stop lying?

:lol:

For Real – Well, let’s hope those words made the healing process over you much easier! Jerk. She was already sad enuf! :lol:

For Real

August 20th, 2009
11:22 am

Kimmie: You have had one rough summer. Here is a song that I listen to that seems to put back whatever I have lost.

There’s a time of the day when the sun is going down
That’s the golden time of day
It’s a time that the sun turns a gold all around
That’s the golden time of day
At the end of the day when the wind is soft and warm
Don’t it make the flowers sway

When the sun settles down and it takes a lovley form
That’s the golden time of day

People let me tell you
There’s a time in your life when you find who you are
That’s the golden time of day
In you mind you will find your a bright shining star
Ooh that’s the golden time of day
When you feel deep inside all the love your lookin for
Don’t it make you feel ok
Like the time of the day when the sun is going down
That’s the golden time of day
That’s the golden time of day
That’s the golden time of day

Shining can’t you see it shining ooh ooh ooh ooh
Shining can’t you see it shining ooh ooh ooh ooh

Blow Me ....Please don't feed the MONKEYS!

August 20th, 2009
11:23 am

**FOR REAL**

In a marriage she gets the law to put you out with a garbage bag full of clothes and no underwear.

FUNNY…Gosh with no underwear though…LMAO

For Real

August 20th, 2009
11:24 am

Kick Em: I wasn’t being a jerk. She didn’t let me finish… my point is lying is never the solution especially lying to yourself. Once you tell one lie then you will another one to support it. So, when you start lying when do you stop?

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

August 20th, 2009
11:25 am

4 Real – Frankie Beverly! That’s so sweet of you, thanks!

Mike Jones (who)

August 20th, 2009
11:25 am

Got a question…
Most breakups are bad some worse than others.
If someone does something malicious not physically but emotionally tries to attack you. Do you ever give them a chance to explain. I’ve chosen to stay far away from that person, but just curious.
The reason I ask is that most times you want an explantion especially when you have a close bond with someone.

Raqi

August 20th, 2009
11:26 am

We let stuff go and just let it fester below the surface.

That right there has murdered a many of relationships. I have learned you have to stay mindful of not letting stuff get swept under the carpet. And you are correct it will not take care of itself and it never just goes away.

It’s better to deal with it right then and there and move on. Feelings may get hurt and tempers may flare but if that’s what it takes to deal with the issue and get passed it then that’s what you have to do.

I function better getting passed having my feelings hurt than I do being eaten away from on the inside from bottled up unresolved issue.

A little hurt feelings may get your plate noticeably dropped in front of you but stewing resentment will get a cup full of salt with every bit.

Die mutherflucker. LOL Not really but…

AmazonRed™ - so what?

August 20th, 2009
11:27 am

For Real – She should have let you finish. :lol:

But you can see why she might have taken it the wrong way!

Question for you tho. I know lying isn’t the answer, but what could she have done if she’s not over you, but you aren’t willing to be with her? You can’t pine for someone forever.

Melo

August 20th, 2009
11:27 am

INFAMOUS!

thanx for ur response.
I was the same thing in my first marriage.On the outside,everybody said,what a wonderful thing we had but me personally,i was hurting.
One day i just went back home,took my stuff and put it in storage and moved in with a friend and then called her on the job to tell her,”im out!”
In lyfe u got please Urself coz if u dont but please other outsiders,u die internally.

For Real

August 20th, 2009
11:27 am

None Monkey feeder: FUNNY…Gosh with no underwear though…LMAO – Yeah my boy was so fuggin mad when the popo showed up and they gave him 10mins to get his ish and leave. All he was thinking about was clothes for work. That’s why you got to love Walmart!

Professor…Miles Davis is playing

August 20th, 2009
11:27 am

@DK…keep her on repeat…I am really feeling your entries today.

Shoot I am trying to stick around for this match I love boxing and I hear ARED-ALI is warming up to Bone Crusher, “Never Scared”

@ Kimmie my heart and sympathy goes out to you and your friend.

Melo

August 20th, 2009
11:32 am

Please do not feed the monkeys! Please MELO stop it

BlowMe,one thing i like about Ared(no,i aint trying to get in her pants) is that she different and not shy to state her postion and defends it logically and vigorously unlike some ladies here who like to sing kumbaya to evry other female mate or keep quiet for some unknown reason. I hate that.

We all different so let it come out in the posts.Ill defend ur right to feel and write the way u do.
I like u too BlowMe coz u dont mind verbally biaatching anybody on here!

AmazonRed™ - so what?

August 20th, 2009
11:33 am

In lyfe u got please Urself coz if u dont but please other outsiders,u die internally.

Schizo angry ranters aside, there has been some good discussion and gems today.

melo – I forgot that you had been married before.

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

August 20th, 2009
11:34 am

Professor – Thanks.

Professor…Miles Davis is playing

August 20th, 2009
11:35 am

@ Mike I run as if I Jason were behind me, and no I don’t fall. There comes a time if someone hurts me that I do not want them to say “sorry” because I know you are sorry as in pathetic and I do not want to hear an explanation. Whatever logic justified their decision to hurt me in that “little peanut brain” I don’t want to know or care…just goes Go GO!

AmazonRed™ - so what?

August 20th, 2009
11:35 am

Shoot I am trying to stick around for this match I love boxing and I hear ARED-ALI is warming up to Bone Crusher, “Never Scared”

Professor – There will really be nothing to see. She can think what she wants about me. At the end of the day, I stick up for myself, but I really don’t care what folks think of me. I post my opinion and either you can get with it or get funky with it. The choice is yours if you want to waste energy on someone who is gonna keep doing her cuz she likes who she is and is secure in herself. ;)

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 20th, 2009
11:36 am

Awwww Man My song is on.. Le Femme Parallel by Thievery Corporation.. Its a good day ya’ll. I got good music on, had a great nights sleep and I feel sharp as a tack today. Jumpin Back to Kiss Myself and yellin “Ohhhh Glory” like Aunt Ester

Chink

August 20th, 2009
11:36 am

Mike — if I want a explanation it might be because I was suprised by the breakup. My last relationship ended because it was too much (drama) going on…I didnt want to explain I thought it was evident by my actions that I was through.

It took me about 6 months to really heal…9 months later I met someone who trumped him in every way!

But I do wonder about those relationshops that were long 5-10 yrs and then they break up and they marry someone else immediately …what happened? What did the new person do that would make them take that extra step?

For Real

August 20th, 2009
11:37 am

Kimmie: Umm you can’t be callin me sweet on the blog I got rep to keep. Are you wearing a fitted blouse today? If so, can you sigh deeply for me?

Kick Em: That’s a difficult question to answer and the answer will vary base upon the person. That being said, I agree no one should ever pine for another person. I think she should accept the truth: One she know from day one and it was repeated 100’s of times that I was not going to be in a relationship. Two accept the fact the we both grow and learned thing about ourselves when we were together. Three stop lying about the fact that I was good for her.

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

August 20th, 2009
11:41 am

Ooops, sorry 4 Real, yeah you gotta keep your street cred!LOL!! No, a denim sundress today with a cardigan sweater.

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 20th, 2009
11:41 am

Professor – Nah now I’m listening to Skye “Stop Complaining” of the album “Mind how you go”.. Awww I got a fool IPOD..

Blow Me ....Please don't feed the MONKEYS!

August 20th, 2009
11:41 am

Why is everyone waiting for the so called bf? lol!

For Real

August 20th, 2009
11:42 am

Mike: Like my paw-paw use to say “Some foke jes don’t mean you no good” those are the people to stay away from. Why would you need an explanation from a person that wants to hurt you. Run Forrest Run!!

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 20th, 2009
11:43 am

Skye – Stop Complaining

I don’t know why
But I cant seem to find the right melody today
I can’t make the words fit how I feel
I don’t know when
Was the last time that I slept the whole night through
And when morning comes around I feel tired

I woke up from the strangest dream
With a dancing dog and a beauty queen
They said nothing, nada, niente
I’m empty

But Your here and I’m here
So I stop complaining it could be raining
And I see the answer in your eyes
Your here and I’m here
I keep on singing just keep on singing
Singing

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

August 20th, 2009
11:43 am

But I do wonder about those relationshops that were long 5-10 yrs and then they break up and they marry someone else immediately …what happened? What did the new person do that would make them take that extra step?

Chink – That’s always amazed me! Never understood it but that’s one of those hurting things – mine was 3 years though.

AmazonRed™ - so what?

August 20th, 2009
11:44 am

For Real – Thanks for answering.

I think with time and experience you get better at accepting the truth. Like, she probably never should have dated you in the first place, if she wanted a relationship. But you gotta go thru it to learn.

For Real

August 20th, 2009
11:45 am

Kimmie: How you gon let demi in your sundress… umm wait, (denim) nevermind… Well can I at least squeeze by you reallllll slow?

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

August 20th, 2009
11:47 am

4 Real – LMAO!!!

AmazonRed™ - so what?

August 20th, 2009
11:49 am

But I do wonder about those relationshops that were long 5-10 yrs and then they break up and they marry someone else immediately …what happened?

Chink – There is a theory that folks who are out of “difficult” long term relationships latch on to the person who is seemingly simple. Like if your ex was a nag, and the new girl doesn’t complain about anything, you feel you hit the jackpot. And because you’ve been in such a long relationship, you are already commitmentminded, so it feels natural to take the next step.

Blow Me ....Please don't feed the MONKEYS!

August 20th, 2009
11:49 am

blah blah blah blah blah. But so secure and stop responding…Silencio. You can feel however you want to feel. That’s fine. I am just gonna call you on the carpet with your stupidness…

Pretty Wings

August 20th, 2009
11:49 am

Afternoon !

Y’all are HOT today!!!!

@ ARED – Nice Pics!

@Kimmie – There is value in the valley – just look up girlfriend!

@Professor – Miles D. always centers my thoughts and soothes whateva ails me
(usually with a lil vino)

On Topic:
Be honest, clear your path then move forward! If someone does not take the time to heal, lets be honest, they are just looking for their next vic (victim) and no one wants to be a casualty of the dating game.

Because I’ve been there, I can usually spot someone who is on the rebound after talking with them. If I bring what I know to their attention and they respond honestly, friendship and understanding will be offered, if they want to play,I keep it moving.

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 20th, 2009
11:50 am

Aqualung – MorCheeba

Battle cries
We make the swift retreat
Paradise
It don’t come cheap
Square up to fight
Like dynamite

The flight is young
We’re getting deep without an aqualung
Our will is strong
We got to work at where we’re goin wrong

Buttercup
I think we missed a turn
Back it up
You’d think I’d learn
Your gel ignites
Sets truth alight

The flight is young
We’re getting deep without an aqualung
Our time is long
We got to find where we’re coming from

Square up to fight
Like dynamite

The flight is young
We’re getting deep without an aqualung
Our will is strong
We’ve got to work at where we’re going wrong

Light years from here
We’re gonna burn up in the atmosphere
It’s crystal clear
We’re coming swinging on the chandelier

Professor…Miles Davis is playing

August 20th, 2009
11:50 am

@ARED thanks for letting me know because I will head to lunch (lemon pepper wings I am craving) and step out of this blog for a minute. I will say this I do admire you for posting your thoughts and experiences even if they go against the norm on this blog. Most of us were taught this, but somewhere along the line we either lost it or never really had it so good for you.

Personally I try not to post certain things on the blog because I know it goes against the grain, and I don’t feel like “virtually” dragging folks around…it would be different if they would meet me on Sylvan Rd and we could do the darn thing.

AmazonRed™ - so what?

August 20th, 2009
11:51 am

I am just gonna call you on the carpet with your stupidness…

And I will do the same.

For Real

August 20th, 2009
11:51 am

Kick Em: I know alot women think it’s a waste of time if the end result isn’t marriage but I believe if you learn something especially about yourself it’s never a waste of time cause the more you know yourself the better choices you make. Since we met her career has taken off, she has rid herself of some friend that were holding her down, she stop focusing on what she doesn’t want and now she has a better understanding of what she wants from a man. See I don’t call that a waste of time at all. Hurt feelings yeah but feelings are like gas, it passes.

Cuse Me!!

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 20th, 2009
11:54 am

Hey where is W8 and the crew!!! I hadnt heard from them since their wild party.. Thats right!

Mike Jones (who)

August 20th, 2009
11:54 am

Thanks fellow bloggers

I already laced up my NIKES!

AmazonRed™ - so what?

August 20th, 2009
11:58 am

Most of us were taught this, but somewhere along the line we either lost it or never really had it so good for you.

Professor – Thank you for your words. And at the above, that’s why it always baffles me that so many folks take issue with common sense. :lol:

Enjoy lunch!!!

Professor…Miles Davis is playing

August 20th, 2009
11:59 am

@PW yes Miles is smooth! I agree about offering friendship if the dude is honest!

@DK you are going to have me downloading some of those tunes

***Like my paw-paw use to say “Some foke jes don’t mean you no good”****

Paw-paw hit the nail on the head

AmazonRed™ - so what?

August 20th, 2009
11:59 am

Hey hey hey For Real…I didn’t say it was a waste of time. I know you made it general to women but I think with maturity we see it your way.

Hurt feelings yeah but feelings are like gas, it passes.

You know I’m with you there!

Randyt (aka Been there, Done that, Got a Closet FULL of t-shirts)

August 20th, 2009
11:59 am

This does lead to an interesting side speculation. If one has been through the “breakup” routine too many times, does one get to the point where he/she will not let oneself get in too deep? My last serious relationship in many ways was my best and should have been the one to go the distance, and yet deep down I think I was unwilling to let my guard down and fully care. I wonder this because I got over her toooooo easily. That is scary.

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 20th, 2009
12:00 pm

Mike – Most times people arent explaning to you.. They are explaining for themselves.. Unloading the extra baggage from the relationship. I mean after my relationship was over I wrote my EX on several occasions to just clear the air and get some stuff off my chest. Im sure she got a great kick out of it and laughs her a$$ off til this day but it wasnt even about her, it was about me giving her back to her because I didnt want to carry it anymore. It was part of the healing process.

Melo

August 20th, 2009
12:05 pm

I wonder this because I got over her toooooo easily. That is scary.

the other day,maybe 2 weeks back,u said u were meeting 40 yr olds that were really good etc and my playa sense was like,why aint he settling on one then?,hes playing the field then and enjoying his lunch,dinner and desert.
:lol: :lol:

i think u answered my unasked qstion.
Enjoy the horny ride bro! :lol: :lol:

For Real

August 20th, 2009
12:06 pm

Writing styles of DK:

Dear Yvette,

I’m writing you with me on my mind. Giving you back what I can’t carry. No, no, I got tested for that remember… anyway, here is the bill to yo visa.

Love
DK

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 20th, 2009
12:08 pm

For Real – Thats about the size of it..

Pretty Wings

August 20th, 2009
12:09 pm

For Real – your 11:51 was funny and on point!

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

August 20th, 2009
12:11 pm

Thanks Wings!

Professor – I’ve been wanting some lemon pepper wings lately, think I might go try to find some!

Mike Jones (who)

August 20th, 2009
12:14 pm

Infamous

That makes sense.
The old saying “standing back from situations gives you the perfect view” is true

Sometimes I want to talk to her and get some things off my chest. But then I think…WHATS THE POINT?? Thats like getting bit by a Snake and asking the snake for a reason

AmazonRed™ - so what?

August 20th, 2009
12:15 pm

Shyt. I was *dead* at Yvette! :lol: :lol: :lol:

SexyCool - If you could feel my joy.

August 20th, 2009
12:16 pm

Coming in late like Julie Lucas with the big fur coat on.

How many rounds did I miss? Can I place a bet?

More teasing.

mytw♥cents

August 20th, 2009
12:16 pm

I’m confused about why people treat it like a novelty that someone posts like they’ve been posting, whether that’s for the good, the bad or the ugly. It’s really not. For the most part, folks are consistent whether they fall under Positive Patty, Bitter Betty, Flip Flopper, Wise but Weary or whatever. Some people just enjoy the sport of pickin others apart no matter how consistent or common sensical that are.

MELO How long was your first marriage and would you have married Queen if she had been divorced? Or was it like a ring-less but under God marriage that was immediately dissolved with your phone call?

KIMMIE Hugs! Be happy that was Blessed to experience a love like that for most of her life. Some will live twice as long and not have the opportunity.

Chink

August 20th, 2009
12:16 pm

ARED Hmmm that makes sense

Melo

August 20th, 2009
12:16 pm

Sorry about ur friend Kimmie

Pretty Wings:what pics?? i dont have them.

AmazonRed™ - so what?

August 20th, 2009
12:20 pm

Sometimes I want to talk to her and get some things off my chest. But then I think…WHATS THE POINT?? Thats like getting bit by a Snake and asking the snake for a reason

Mike Jones – That’s strength.

Sometimes you have to find closure all on your own. Some times people’s behavior simply does not make sense.

Ms. Main

August 20th, 2009
12:20 pm

Kimmie I don’t believe men ACTUALLY bounce back sooner or better than women at all. They may get back in the game physically, but mentally – no. A lot don’t really give themselves time to GRIEVE.

That’s why I said “it appears”…I think men hurt (if truly loved) like women, I just think they take a different route during the grieving process….I concur

Professor Personally I try not to post certain things on the blog because I know it goes against the grain, and I don’t feel like “virtually” dragging folks around…it would be different if they would meet me on Sylvan Rd and we could do the darn thing.

Which is why I post like I do…doesn’t matter who cosigns, agrees, likes or dislikes. Its’ my story, my life, my take, my outlook, my opinion…like it or lick it. Melo said it best in his 11:32. Not necessarily the fact that’s he’s cosiging Ared in particular but the kumbaya-ing

Pretty Wings

August 20th, 2009
12:21 pm

@My Two – Say That!!!!!!!!!!!!!I know it sounds trite but misery loves company.

@Melo- Wouldn’t you like to know!!!!!!!!!!

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 20th, 2009
12:23 pm

Mike – I felt like that. i felt like that would be a sucker move.. but when i did it.. It allowed me to move forward and put the past in perspective. I became more relaxed and my aira changed.. I felt an instant change in me. See its one thing to tell a friend but when you get it off you.. its gone.. I feel if more people sat down and discussed differences, more relationships would be saved and there would be less animosity in separating..

AmazonRed™ - so what?

August 20th, 2009
12:24 pm

Which is why I post like I do…doesn’t matter who cosigns, agrees, likes or dislikes. Its’ my story, my life, my take, my outlook, my opinion…like it or lick it.

:idea:

Only to add, I don’t care if it sounds strange, delusional or on my high horse to anyone else either.

SexyCool - If you could feel my joy.

August 20th, 2009
12:25 pm

What? No fight? I’ma start one.

Sexy: You stupid.

Cool: You lame.

Sexy: You smell funny.

Cool: You smell just like I do.

Sexy: Shut up.

Cool: Make me.

Sexy: I’ma tell you daddy.

Cool: I ain’t got no daddy.

Sexy: You stupid.

Cool: You said that already.

Pretty Wings

August 20th, 2009
12:26 pm

Gotta go……..1pm meeting ……..hope I can get back b4 5.

Melo

August 20th, 2009
12:26 pm

mytw♥cents:

she actually had a ring(queen has no ring but all others :arrow: ) a court wedding + traditional rites. Union was like,hmmmm 3 yrs.She was good woman,we had no kids but i wasnt ready for marriage, i was playing the field and did not want the “being tied down scenario” Unfortunately,she died after our seperation and be4 we dissolved it.
If Queen had been divorced,its possible, i still wld have married her coz my feelings/thoghts on women with kid(s),divorced etc had shifted by then.
Be4 i even married 1st one, i had a good romp with a divorcee with one kid.One of the best women i ever dated.She died in a car accident tgether with her hubby and 2 kids i believe.
My dear uncle just bullshytted that relationship and i benched her.
One of the finest fillet mignon puddsy i ever had in my bachelor days,that divorcee,holy jesus! :lo: :lol:

SexyCool - If you could feel my joy.

August 20th, 2009
12:27 pm

Yes. I have too much time on my hands today.

AmazonRed™ - so what?

August 20th, 2009
12:29 pm

LMAO @ Sexy vs. Cool.

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 20th, 2009
12:30 pm

Ok Sexy Here you go..

I dont dig you three words daily.. Here are three words.. OMG!

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 20th, 2009
12:31 pm

or

I dont care

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 20th, 2009
12:32 pm

or

Sexy is Hot!

AmazonRed™ - so what?

August 20th, 2009
12:32 pm

Or:

Eat my shorts!

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 20th, 2009
12:32 pm

or

I loveded U

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 20th, 2009
12:33 pm

or

i still do

For Real

August 20th, 2009
12:35 pm

Getting it off your chest with Mike:

Umfoofoo I would like to talk to you!!! Stop the car right now!!! Umfoofoo I ain’t playin wit you!!! Girl!!! Imma!! Oh ish!!!

Umfoofoo now reaching 50mph and thinking to herself “Goonie goo-goo he fast to deaf!”

SexyCool - If you could feel my joy.

August 20th, 2009
12:36 pm

That’s not news.

Melo

August 20th, 2009
12:37 pm

Mytwo: 3 years
yes i cld marry a divorcee or one with kid(s)
Be4 my 1st marriage, i had dated a divorcee with 1 kid and she was one of the best women i ever dated.My thoghts on those had shifted by then, i believe.
My uncle killed the relationship! But one of the finest fillet mignon nana i ever had in singledom,beautiful woman too.

Professor…Miles Davis is playing

August 20th, 2009
12:39 pm

I will say this…still trying to get these wings for lunch so be patient with me.

On this blog you have cliques and some folks laugh when it “aint” funny and scratch when they don’t itch just to be congruent with their friends. So for the most part I do not post certain things because I really don’t feel like being bothered with foolishness. Not to mention some folks are slower than others so you have to S-P-E-L-L things out to them. I don’t have time for that either. At the end of the day I could careless, so if I feel like saying something I will. If I have to let a fool know to find something else to play with. No problem. Do I feel like giving someone a virtual TKO everyday? No that gets old, but I will if needed because you have to recondition some folks. Now that is why I stated I do not post certain things that go against the grain. Just look at how that entire 60K went down? So I am sure you all feel me?

Tazzee - The Point of it All (on repeat)

August 20th, 2009
12:40 pm

Afternoon folks!

kimmie I’m so sorry to hear about your friend’s loss and your bad summer. I’m praying for your friend AND you.

I think all my thoughts on this topic have been expressed.

DK Thanks for sharing your story. I’m taking notes.

After my last break up I STAYED in the gym and had Keyshia Cole on repeat. Looking back, I probably should have been listening to India Arie’s CD because those songs are really ‘positive’ break up songs.

AmazonRed™ - so what?

August 20th, 2009
12:40 pm

But one of the finest fillet mignon nana i ever had in singledom

:lol: :lol: :lol:

Melo

August 20th, 2009
12:40 pm

Mytwo,she had ring,court marriage and traditional rites marriage.
Queen has no ring but the other 2.
US$$$$$ is too precious to waste on a lil thingy on the finger.U knw kids need to go college route,u know hw that is.

:lol: :lol: :lol:

mytw♥cents

August 20th, 2009
12:41 pm

MS. MAIN >>> Which is why I post like I do…doesn’t matter who cosigns, agrees, likes or dislikes. Its’ my story, my life, my take, my outlook, my opinion… I concur, but I thought that’s what the majority were doing. Then again, I’m naive.

ARED Did you think my statement about folks being very much delusional was towards you? Nah. Now if I hadn’t crossed out the “kinda,” yeah, I could see the fit… We know our own version of our lives better than anyone else here but once you paint in the rest of the numbers, it can drastically change the picture.

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Mike Jones (who)

August 20th, 2009
12:43 pm

ARED and Infamous

You both made good points, each coming from different directions.

Ared–Thats the moment where you are like WTH were they thinking????

Infamous–LOL I felt the same way. (that would be a sucker move) I could picture her and friends enjoying that one. But like you said it isn’t about her, its about getting it off my chest and moving on.

AmazonRed™ - so what?

August 20th, 2009
12:43 pm

On this blog you have cliques and some folks laugh when it “aint” funny and scratch when they don’t itch just to be congruent with their friends.

So true.

It’s a more difficult road to be out there on an island…but at the end of the day, it’s still a freakin blog. The seriousness of it to some is a constant source of amusement.

AmazonRed™ - so what?

August 20th, 2009
12:44 pm

Did you think my statement about folks being very much delusional was towards you?

mytwo – No I didn’t. And you are usually good at directing post towards me at me.

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 20th, 2009
12:45 pm

Sexy – Now Anna Mae dont get to sassa frassin off now..

Tazzee - The Point of it All (on repeat)

August 20th, 2009
12:46 pm

Melo I didn’t know you were on your second marriage. This is only the second isn’t it?

SexyCool - If you could feel my joy.

August 20th, 2009
12:46 pm

Kimmie – Sending you tons of love and waves of good vibes.

Professor…Miles Davis is playing

August 20th, 2009
12:47 pm

@Tazzee…good point on positive music (Keshia Cole/India Arie).

@ARED…yep the seriousness can be comical at times.

@Melo do you think you will ever buy Queen a wedding ring?

Tazzee - The Point of it All (on repeat)

August 20th, 2009
12:47 pm

Professor – you and those lemon pepper wings!!! Now I want some – that’s what I’ll have while watching the Falcons tomorrow. That is if I still want them.

AmazonRed™ - so what?

August 20th, 2009
12:48 pm

You both made good points, each coming from different directions.

Mike Jones – I make no bones about it. I have never experience divorce, I’m not even a child of divorce. So yes, I can not post from a place of devistating heartbreak.

However, there are things we know we should be doing and don’t do. There are signs we have long seen and miss. You have to work on your mental fortitude to control your emotional output sometimes.

Tazzee - The Point of it All (on repeat)

August 20th, 2009
12:49 pm

One more time and I’ll let my iPod go to the next song…

I can´t stay away from you too long
Even if I do I´ll always call
Checkin’ on you make sure you´re ok
Be the one to brighten up your day

And the point of it all
Is I love you
You know I love you baby

My days seem long
whenever we’re apart
it´s like someone had
thrown away my heart
you´re a major part of my life
And no matter what the
storm may bring
I´m fine with you,

And the point of it all
Is I love you
And the reason for it all
Is I love you

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 20th, 2009
12:50 pm

Ya’ll know I dont care who agrees or disagrees with me.. Ive been almost banned a couple times.. I am consistently censored too, so most times people dont get the unadulterated.. They get the moderated..

SexyCool - If you could feel my joy.

August 20th, 2009
12:51 pm

What you go do, Ike? You gone beat me? You gone hit me?

After running from the limo – I don’t have any money. Take my ring. I promise I’ll pay ya’ back.

Namyo renge kyo

Professor…Miles Davis is playing

August 20th, 2009
12:51 pm

@Tazzee that is my SONG! BTW, maybe I should wait on those wings until the Falcons play…decisions decisions.

mytw♥cents

August 20th, 2009
12:54 pm

Lawd, not the finest filet mignon nana…

Look Ladies ^^^^^^ it takes more than that to snatch a ZULU Warrior King, in case ya didn’t know lol

Now how is it that men have so many names for it. I hate the sudsy pudsy coota kat punani… alla that terminology. Oddly, thanks to N.W.A., I’d rather just hear p—- if ya can’t wrap your tongue around vagina. :razz: It really tickles me to be a wordsmith, sometimes!

Melo

August 20th, 2009
12:55 pm

This is only the second isn’t it?
if she dont dump me,this will be the last.Number 2,yes it is.I aint doing the Larry King thing..6 and counting.

@Melo do you think you will ever buy Queen a wedding ring?
My thoghts on that are evolving and mellowing..dang!! that may be good for her.Problem is,she wants a ring and wedding soooo bad.I hate being paraded like a cow…
But im tempted to want to surprise her,allocate a small budget for ring,invite few folks and do it,once and 4 all.
She really is a good mom and wife,cant complain(altho im a WIP,myself)
Soooo……wl see!

Beautiful Loves Philly Eagles

August 20th, 2009
12:56 pm

lol @ eat my shorts! lol.

i’m prayin’ that i never read like Blow Me. what was the cat fight bout again?

@Infamous
something happened at that party and at the other gatherings and i want to know what went down. someone please enlighten us. post under lurker if you have to.

i’m going to always stand by *to get over the ex, get under the next*. i’m proof it works.

Mike Jones (who)

August 20th, 2009
12:59 pm

Ared

Yeah there are always signs, that the person might be F’in Crazy!!! lol The question is whether you choose to read it or not. But we all learn from experience, sometimes you have to touch that stove to see if its hot. I burned my hand once, won’t do it again.

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 20th, 2009
1:00 pm

Sexy – Yes Anna MAe I am gonna beat you then Im gonna has sweaty stinky s3x with you.. Im even gonna defacate on the sheets and make you clean it up because King Kong aint got nothing on me.

mytw♥cents

August 20th, 2009
1:00 pm

I guess I’m so used to blending in with multiple groups of people that ‘clique’ is another term I’m not a fan of. Not in middle school and not now. I have some of the strongest disagreements with people I vibe with the most with. And I don’t believe disagreement necessitates confrontation. More like a precursor to dialogue. But that’s just me.

AmazonRed™ - so what?

August 20th, 2009
1:02 pm

sometimes you have to touch that stove to see if its hot. I burned my hand once, won’t do it again.

Mike Jones – so true.

Some people have to touch it several times.

Some people won’t touch it at all, chosing to heed the warning in the first place. I fall into this group.

Professor…

August 20th, 2009
1:03 pm

@Melo I think that would be nice having a dinner party and giving her the ring! How romantic would that be? I knew my Zulu buddy had it in him somewhere…now I just need for you to release it and get the ring

Blow Me ....Please don't feed the MONKEYS!

August 20th, 2009
1:04 pm

Back from lunch. I see ARED has been making subliminals about me since my lunch. Wow! It doesn’t get to you but you are still harpering on it hours after said comment. Get a grip! It’s MORE to my amusment to put you on the carpet. You are the one who goes crying to everyone about WOE IT’S ME….Chill girl.

AmazonRed™ - so what?

August 20th, 2009
1:05 pm

Angie – You can’t come in being messy. I’m sure you have your off blog network that can tell you what happened at the party. We don’t have to hash it out on the blog.

Did you sleep last night?

mytw♥cents

August 20th, 2009
1:05 pm

BEAUTIFUL Did you chop some of that hair off yet? I gotta laugh at your advocating someone to post under lurker. NO, if somebody got sumthin to say, they should post under their usual moniker. Remember that time you had forgotten to switch back? COM-I-CAL! I wasn’t gonna point it out, but TRUTHY doesn’t have as much couth as I do…

SexyCool - If you could feel my joy.

August 20th, 2009
1:06 pm

Sweaty, stinky s#x? You promise? Just don’t be mashing my face up against the recording booth window again. That hurted.

But the shttng on the sheets thing, you’re on your own. AND you nasty.

AmazonRed™ - so what?

August 20th, 2009
1:06 pm

Blow – I don’t do siblimals. If I was talking about you, I know how to direct it to you.

I guess you just felt it was directed at you.

And no, I don’t play the victim role either. Do you just make this stuff up? :lol:

Professor…

August 20th, 2009
1:08 pm

***something happened at that party and at the other gatherings and i want to know what went down. someone please enlighten us. post under lurker if you have to****

Now that would be funny Angie if someone did that, but they are probably too afraid to do it. Not to mention I would probably miss the posting anyway

@My two…I think it would be fair to say that the cliques on this blog will not disagree with each other. In fact I have seen them bobbing their heads like those big head dolls when a “man” or one of their own say something but cut a fool two weeks later when the same thing is said by someone else. I have coined the name “Blog High” for this joint. You, maybe the exception.

AmazonRed™ - so what?

August 20th, 2009
1:09 pm

NO, if somebody got sumthin to say, they should post under their usual moniker.

mytwo – Thank you. There are enough cowardly lions on here as is.

mytw♥cents

August 20th, 2009
1:09 pm

Aww MELO, has KIMMIE – Perfect Queen broken you down some? You should apologize for all your harassment tell her thanks for helping you see the light. Lemme know if you need a planner for the big day. I already have a vision. ;)

Beautiful Loves Philly Eagles

August 20th, 2009
1:10 pm

@Ared
why not? and Infamous started it! and i slept like a baby. :o )

@My2
lol. that was eons ago and i was posting for Unknown. hehehe. i wonder how she’s doin’?

Melo

August 20th, 2009
1:12 pm

I think that would be nice having a dinner party

Party?? thats the part that gets to my obstinate skull.Doing stuff so others can see….i been neva the showy,see me please type.Thats why weddings etc dont vibe with my soul.
But knowing u women,u thrive on that.
If i buy a ring and dont do the wedding,its gonna be us 2,at a restaurant and then the ring,as she gets off the car or in the living room when we get back home.
She can go ahead and show if off herself! :lol: :lol:

AmazonRed™ - so what?

August 20th, 2009
1:14 pm

Angie – He did not start it. He just asked where they were. Many of them are on vacation.

Glad you slept well. I take it mission accomplished? Good job.

Beautiful Loves Philly Eagles

August 20th, 2009
1:14 pm

yep i’m being nosey as h3ll, so what. i want to know what happened! whatever happened chased another blogger away. if they want to post under lurker and not say names, just say what happened i’m cool wit that. lol. and i promise i won’t call them a coward.

Party Report

August 20th, 2009
1:16 pm

Just a few orgies with plenty of booze, EX and butt naked midgets running around. Nothing worth talking about really.

mytw♥cents

August 20th, 2009
1:16 pm

PROF Oh I absolutely see it being done. But overall, it seems to be an anomaly among those who actually contribute something of merit. So on the one hand I’m giving the benefit of the doubt and on the other I’m saying those who are prone to it ain’t talkin’ bout shii anyway…

I just don’t subscribe to it myself. And I do think that more folks would keep it 100 without the protections of the screen. At least I’d hope.

AmazonRed™ - so what?

August 20th, 2009
1:18 pm

i want to know what happened!

Angie – I’m just asking why it has to play out on the blog. I know you have folks you can contact off line.

Heck, I don’t even want to know certain things but some of you bloggers just won’t leave me alone up in my attic. :lol:

Beautiful Loves Philly Eagles

August 20th, 2009
1:20 pm

for bloggers to be MIA the stories gotta be nice and juicy. lol. oh well, hope it was worth it. *shrug*

AmazonRed™ - so what?

August 20th, 2009
1:20 pm

I just don’t subscribe to it myself.

mytwo – It shows. We know you have your blog friends but you aren’t a sheep. You’ll cross enemy lines and such to make your point. :lol:

Professor…

August 20th, 2009
1:22 pm

Angie I am with you (ohh that sounds funny), but let them use monikers they been doing it. And, Ared I disagree it started on the blog (all the hype and promotions) it might as well end on the blog. If what Angie said is true about something happening…for some reason I thought I saw others posting after the party, but I have not been on here much in the past two weeks. For the most part I don’t care…maybe not shall I post my email address to get some of this National Enquire?

Beautiful Loves Philly Eagles

August 20th, 2009
1:23 pm

@Ared
i want to know who is trif, who blogs out the side of their neck, who showed their azz, who is a simp, who is wide open, who don’t think their shiitt don’t stink and who was off the mf chain . . . lmao.

Leggs

August 20th, 2009
1:23 pm

@Infamous, I know of a marriage EXACTLY like the one you got out of. I chuckle every time I see them. She opted to stay in this marriage although she’s miserable. Now, I can only listen when she needs a sounding board. Sometimes, she seems to realize that she’s wearing me out. I like the part about getting out before becoming a “broken man” because those are the words she used for her husband. SMDH!

Too much to read. Had to stop at 11:49 post. What happenend BlowMe? Thought you were given me until noon. :lol:

Scrolling along, not seeing any fighting words, guess both parties backed down (hopefully???)

Blow Me ....Please don't feed the MONKEYS!

August 20th, 2009
1:24 pm

Beautiful It’s been agreed you are the most fanatical blogger we have. No ONE..I mean no one can top your foolishness. The biggest kicker is the fact that are 40 and still behaving like a child. lmao!

Beautiful Loves Philly Eagles

August 20th, 2009
1:25 pm

*it might as well end on the blog*

YEP!!!

Beautiful Loves Philly Eagles

August 20th, 2009
1:27 pm

@Blow Yo Self
not feedin’ you today. ———–>

AmazonRed™ - so what?

August 20th, 2009
1:29 pm

Ared I disagree it started on the blog (all the hype and promotions) it might as well end on the blog.

Professor – Good point.

You could see it coming couldn’t you. :lol:

AmazonRed™ - so what?

August 20th, 2009
1:30 pm

i want to know who is trif, who blogs out the side of their neck, who showed their azz, who is a simp, who is wide open, who don’t think their shiitt don’t stink and who was off the mf chain . . . lmao.

Angie – You could tell who was who just by the way folks posted after the party was over. I guess you didn’t pay attention that day. A lot of folks were trying to get their ego stroked. Some folks were talking about folks at the party like they had never seen a real live woman before. :lol:

Melo

August 20th, 2009
1:32 pm

EX and butt naked midgets running around.

:lol: u aint incognito with ur desciptions,some of us have pics of bloggers, u know,we know who is midget and who aint…just now reconciling that with attendees :lol:

On another note,just went downstarirs for lunch and saw this phine lady,tall,brownish,wearing pants and her hair pulled back.
Dang,kid was looking nice!!!
I was in angst as i looked at her walk past…
To calm that storm and the nerves and to bring closure to that loss, i just put my left hand in ma pocket,tapped lil buddy as he was fumming and causing pants havoc and re-assured him:
forget her melo,she must suck real bad, in bed!
That did the trick! :lol:

Beautiful Loves Philly Eagles

August 20th, 2009
1:33 pm

@Ared
ok. that’s what i missed. i gotta go back and read that day. i wasn’t on that week. had a lot going on for some reason.

Blow Me ....Please don't feed the MONKEYS!

August 20th, 2009
1:35 pm

Beautiful- Sorry…I thought you meant today. I jumped the gun a bit What party? What happened? Please fill me in.

mytw♥cents

August 20th, 2009
1:36 pm

You’ll cross enemy lines and such to make your point. <<< I am truly Equal Opportunity and United Nations with it.

PARTY REPORT Umm there wasn’t an X at the party I attended. A lil cocaine, but that’s about it.

BEAUTIFUL If you can’t already tell who falls into which slot, then you ain’t been reading right.

W8©(W8©'s clone)

August 20th, 2009
1:37 pm

If you want to know about the Blog party all you have to do is read the blog the days after the party. There were people there that still post daily here and there are pictures all over facebook. It was not a blog party as there were many more people there who out numbered us from the blog who were. I think everyone is on vacation, traveling or just doing their own thing. Hell I think all of us who were there came back on here and talked about it and the fun that was had. So basically if you want to know go to facebook and or go back to the blogs after 8/09/09 and read up.

Beautiful Loves Philly Eagles

August 20th, 2009
1:40 pm

@My2
i have been payin’ attention, but you know how folks are. and i gotta say that this blog has been and will continue to be messy. that’s why i don’t give a dayum!

my fav saying i hijacked: i know what i am and i know what i am not!

Chink

August 20th, 2009
1:41 pm

I am kind of curious also …I mean they were on here daily talking about all the fun they having. Might be some good gossip if its posted on the blog.

AmazonRed™ - so what?

August 20th, 2009
1:41 pm

Tazzee - Is it Saturday?

August 20th, 2009
1:42 pm

Melo – you so nasty…

Leggs

August 20th, 2009
1:44 pm

What is the topic? Don’t have to provide me with a breakdown, just the topic.

SexyCool - If you could feel my joy.

August 20th, 2009
1:46 pm

We’re still having Big Fun.

AmazonRed™ - so what?

August 20th, 2009
1:47 pm

What is the topic?

Nosy people.

Professor

August 20th, 2009
1:47 pm

@ARED…that is just the way I see it.

@Angie…girl you are funny, but let me know what you find out chas18c6@gmail.com

Beautiful Loves Philly Eagles

August 20th, 2009
1:48 pm

thanks W8! you cleared up why folks are MIA.

SexyCool - If you could feel my joy.

August 20th, 2009
1:49 pm

Besides, Angie – Even if you received a report such as that, it would still be colored by that individual’s opinion.

And as others have pointed out, the last party, as most other off blog gatherings have been, was discussed on blog. If you really gotta know, check the archives.

Otherwise, pull up off this one. It’s childish and pointless.

Leggs

August 20th, 2009
1:49 pm

@Beautiful, :arrow: “i want to know what happened! whatever happened chased another blogger away.” Now, how would you know that. Seems like you already know certain things about the party to even know that tidbit.

Going back to reading!

Beautiful Loves Philly Eagles

August 20th, 2009
1:51 pm

@Sexy
it is not! who says. you? anything assoc wit this blog is my business. *giggle*

lol @ prof.

Jamoca - "Be" That Voodoo Chile

August 20th, 2009
1:52 pm

(skimming/sifting thru)…

What is the topic? Don’t have to provide me with a breakdown, just the topic.

One big, hot…stanka than hog thighs rubbed together of a MESS. <— Period. …with it’s shyt already hittin’ the fan. Smdh

AmazonRed™ - so what?

August 20th, 2009
1:52 pm

you cleared up why folks are MIA.

:lol: Goodness. He said “I think everyone is on vacation, traveling or just doing their own thing”

Which was a given and happens all the time on the blog. Do you really think he was gonna say there was some drama and make a big scene about it?

Beautiful Loves Philly Eagles

August 20th, 2009
1:53 pm

@Leggs
i know some things. but not enuf darnit! shiitt, i wish i was there. i hate missing out on the gatherings.

Chink

August 20th, 2009
1:54 pm

LOL at the speculation…

Melo

August 20th, 2009
1:54 pm

Uall killed the nice convo..u Beautiful esp!

wusa Biaatch :lol: :lol:

now its all crickets,crickets crickets

Anybody with a real juicy inside on the party..juicy to me, is,who phlucked who??
Dont email me with stories on pple drinking liqor and dancing etc,what u understand about party??
Who phlucked who and is still phlucking who,thats real gossip there…??

Leggs

August 20th, 2009
1:54 pm

@Melo, literally cracking up at your 1:32.

@Beautiful, you are truly giving yourself away (1:23).

Party Report

August 20th, 2009
1:55 pm

If your ass wasn’t invited, don’t worry about what happened at the party.

Beautiful Loves Philly Eagles

August 20th, 2009
1:55 pm

@Ared
gurl, imma spank you! lol. when was the last time we had two pages at 5:00?

eggsactly.

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 20th, 2009
1:56 pm

Sexy – Thats why i luvs you baby.. Yeah lets make up and I promise not more mashing of the face or top of the cranium shinanigans again.. Cause you curl my toes girl…

Wise Diva

August 20th, 2009
1:56 pm

oh Beautiful go turn on Jerry Springer for daytime drama! nothing to see here, LOL. If people meet off the blog, I prefer the drama does not come here. You guys never know who is reading what, so it’s best to keep your offline business to yourselves. Trust me with this, please.

Professor

August 20th, 2009
1:56 pm

@Melo LOL

Hell it is my understanding all of ATL was on the invite list…

Beautiful Loves Philly Eagles

August 20th, 2009
1:56 pm

i have to go now. so don’t submit another comment until i get back. lol.

muah!

Leggs

August 20th, 2009
1:57 pm

Thanks ARed! I now see that’s the topic!

SexyCool - If you could feel my joy.

August 20th, 2009
1:58 pm

I know, DK, I know.

Leggs

August 20th, 2009
1:59 pm

@mytwo….thanks. :arrow: “BEAUTIFUL If you can’t already tell who falls into which slot, then you ain’t been reading right.”

(Can you guys tell I love using the :arrow: ) Ha ha ha!

Leggs

August 20th, 2009
2:02 pm

@Beautiful, what’s wrong with you today? Seriously!

Wise Diva

August 20th, 2009
2:02 pm

no no, it’s NOT the topic, it’s another side convo that gets started after tiring of the first topic LOL, but Beautiful can’t let it go so she extends the shelf life.

Anyway, change of topic, are men opposed to using toys/food/extras in the bedroom? I’m asking for a specific reason, but ladies, do you get resistance? Men do you feel comfy with some “aides”

Blow Me ....Please don't feed the MONKEYS!

August 20th, 2009
2:03 pm

Ok fine…

Me and Truth are getting Married 2010.

I am gonna make him an honest wholesome man.

Professor

August 20th, 2009
2:03 pm

I will step in later…

SexyCool - If you could feel my joy.

August 20th, 2009
2:06 pm

I don’t do food in the bedroom. Bad experience with the wrong brand of dairy based whipped cream. (It soured quickly. Who knew?)

Blow Me ....Please don't feed the MONKEYS!

August 20th, 2009
2:07 pm

Wow! WD…getting down and dirty!! LOL! I haven’t notice men to have a problem with the food thing i.e. Fruit Roll ups…lol or Strawberries and Whip cream. But the TOYS…its a No go. For some reason alot of guys do not approve of the toys.

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 20th, 2009
2:07 pm

Did I do That?

Grace

August 20th, 2009
2:08 pm

Wise I will not use any fruits, acid against the walls no no….but I’m open to whip creme, fudge, caramel, and occasional drips of alcohol :) never used any toys :oops: but tempted to try handcuffs. I’m being bad today :evil:

Grace

August 20th, 2009
2:09 pm

oh yeah I forgot about the ice cube :lol:

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 20th, 2009
2:10 pm

Wise – As long as the toys are for you and not me.. Food um hmmm.. Hot Candle Wax.. A light feather tickler.. Oh yeah… I like to get er done..

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 20th, 2009
2:11 pm

Ice cubes, chocolate, a blind fold but no handcuffs.. I dont do handcuffs..

THE INFAMOUS SUPERFREAK DK

August 20th, 2009
2:14 pm

Yeah I like to turn in to Rick James in that B!tch.. From the windows to the wall.. With my Patented baby boy bounce baby bounce move..

AmazonRed™ - so what?

August 20th, 2009
2:15 pm

i wish i was there. i hate missing out on the gatherings.

Angie – You really think you would have gotten an invite if you lived here? :lol:

mytw♥cents

August 20th, 2009
2:16 pm

WISEY Did Young Buck ask you what was with the strawberry sauce and whipped cream??? I knew a dude who didn’t see the point, but ya know some prefer going Zero to 90 in 2.8 seconds (Heavy Sigh)… But isn’t the edible stuff more along the lines of aphrodisiac? Cuz when you mention ‘aides’ I start to thinkin of other thangs…

LEGGS It’s so okay to Luv the arrow. I luvs the heart and the stickin’ out the tongue emotie. But what I’d really luv doesn’t exist. Imagine an emotie with a raised brow or a hand on hip!?! That would be so “me.”

Randyt (aka Been there, Done that, Got a Closet FULL of t-shirts)

August 20th, 2009
2:17 pm

Okay WD talking about “toys” now huh. “Anyway, change of topic, are men opposed to using toys/food/extras in the bedroom? I’m asking for a specific reason, but ladies, do you get resistance? Men do you feel comfy with some “aides””

I have no trouble at all with it, and never have. When a guy is comfortable in his masculinity (and I am, thanks to a very patient and experienced teacher years ago). Toys, great…cool whip…awesome if used properly…and let’s face it, more Redi-whip is sold at Kroger than there are strawberry pies…that stuff is going somewhere.

I can truly say that I have never had a moment’s heartburn about bringing a vibrator or any other toy into the bed (unless I had to go out and buy some more Duracells at midnight in the cold rain). If a “rabbit” or something else enhances one or the other’s pleasure, why not? I never could see the resistance to this one at all. Now I suppose it is possible for a lady to develop somewhat of a “toy” habit and start to ignore a man, but even that would only be if the man has no imagination. But that is me, and I have few inhibitions unless serious pain or scarring is involved.

Melo

August 20th, 2009
2:19 pm

Leggs,Beautiful’s 1.23 has some dramatic irony twist to it,assuming some happened.

Reminds me of this story that happenend to me,waaay back(im trying to take u away from this foolishness)

Im wrking at some location, out in the cntry,on a farm and one of my phine wrkmates(lady) hooks me up with this philandering chic.Everything was supposed to be on the low low coz she had a boyfriend that i knew(long story)
My wrkmate,one nite,escorts the chic to my bachelor pad,with her young,2 yr old daughter on her back.She dumbs her there(the chic), i follow later to milk that cow and then escort her back to her house.
The young daughter has not forgoitten,everthing was in her eyes, thoghts,the movements etc.
The angst was that, after that philandering episode,every time the kid saw me, and im in the company of my boss,other wrkmates or local folk(it was a small cmmunity),she wld mutter some crazy nonsense(other folk had no idea what it meant) but the nonsense wld make sense to me and her mum and caused so much angst to me.
Her mum,my wrk mate was a coy biaatch.She wld just simply smile at me! :lol: :lol:

mytw♥cents

August 20th, 2009
2:20 pm

Oh, LEGGS, this one is precious, too. :oops: Maybe I like it cuz I blush a lot.

Leggs

August 20th, 2009
2:20 pm

Oh snap, awww suki suki. Thanks WD, cuz I surely did not want to hear anymore on what Beautiful wants to know about.

YES, YES, YES, use of gadgets in the bedroom! You know I’ve never given it much thought on who should bring the toys, men or women and if man did would I look at him sideways. Well, I know I wouldn’t but that’s me. Can’t speak on the food thingy, never experienced that, but I’ve been listening to people. What exactly is the fascination with whip cream???

@Grace, I will use one handcuff. Can’t have both my hands in cuff!

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

August 20th, 2009
2:22 pm

Back from getting my wings – they are good, got them from Taco Mac, although I prefer the ones from the little hole in the wall places, but you don’t have many of those in Alpharetta!LOL!!

THANK YOU everyone for the kind words. They mean alot.

Melo – I KNEW you would break!LOL!! I think I remember telling you a ring would be a nice anniversary or renewal-of-the-vows gift! Just get her something nice within your means, don’t have to break the budget! Have a nice little party!

Blow Me ....Please don't feed the MONKEYS!

August 20th, 2009
2:22 pm

See thats why i don’t mind snapping on her ass. She on that self righteous ISH. Regardless of the smiley you stay on that funny style self righteousness
i wish i was there. i hate missing out on the gatherings.

**Angie – You really think you would have gotten an invite if you lived here?**

But again you know who you can try that with though. lol!

THE INFAMOUS SUPERFREAK DK

August 20th, 2009
2:22 pm

Leggs – I’ll bring some Whipped Cream to Fletchers this evening..

THE INFAMOUS SUPERFREAK DK

August 20th, 2009
2:23 pm

Leggs – I’ll have to show you I cant even explain..

Tazzee - Is it Saturday?

August 20th, 2009
2:24 pm

Melo – you had sex while a toddler was watching?!?!? Shame on you!!!

Randyt (aka Been there, Done that, Got a Closet FULL of t-shirts)

August 20th, 2009
2:25 pm

LOL @ Leggs lets just say it brings a whole new meaning to the topic of “tasty” ;-) .

Strange Woman...Not Elizabeth's Mother

August 20th, 2009
2:25 pm

kee,kee,keeing @WiseDiva while covering the baby’s eyes.

RediWhip, Real honey, chocolate sauce…oils, feathers, silk scarf(s)…

Tazzee - Is it Saturday?

August 20th, 2009
2:26 pm

Kimmie – I don’t like the lemon pepper wings at Taco Mac. Too ‘wet’ for me. But I’ll take American Deli any day of the week. JR Crickets would be my second choice – though they charge 59 cents extra for lemon pepper. That’s discrimination!!! :lol:

Leggs

August 20th, 2009
2:26 pm

I actually spit on my keyboard reading your (ARed) 2:15. Be nice! :lol:

@Melo, reading that story gave me a headache. Luv you nonetheless!

AmazonRed™ - so what?

August 20th, 2009
2:28 pm

I actually spit on my keyboard reading your (ARed) 2:15. Be nice!

:lol:

Leggs – I was just askin… :lol:

Tazzee - Is it Saturday?

August 20th, 2009
2:28 pm

Doesn’t it get sticky when you use all that sweet stuff in the bedroom? I mean, do you use it and then ‘partake’ while sticky? I would think your bodies would stick together. Then mix the sticky with the sweat…

OK, I’m grossing myself out

Wise Diva

August 20th, 2009
2:29 pm

bwahaha! No Mytwo, LOL not yet? I am over here wondering why I haven’t proposed to RandyT, I’ve long ago figured out he is the ideal man for me. Marry me RANDY!!

AmazonRed™ - so what?

August 20th, 2009
2:29 pm

no no, it’s NOT the topic,

Sorry WD – I thought she was asking what the topic changed to.

Wise Diva

August 20th, 2009
2:30 pm

sticky stuff is best used at hotels, the *ahem* raunchier the better. Mess up their sheets!

Strange Woman...Not Elizabeth's Mother

August 20th, 2009
2:30 pm

I dont do handcuffs

Infamous even if she wore a sexy little po-po outfit and wanted to shackle you for sexual assault, Not even then?

Wise Diva

August 20th, 2009
2:31 pm

and after sticky stuff usage, you go directly to the shower, preferably together *blushing*

Lord Velonese (insert trendy Quote here)

August 20th, 2009
2:31 pm

WD wrote:
“Do you think men and women rebound at different rates? Or is it more about rebounding in a different way?”

Women are masters of this, you ought to know.

Randyt (aka Been there, Done that, Got a Closet FULL of t-shirts)

August 20th, 2009
2:31 pm

:-) at WD…thanks.

Strange Woman...Not Elizabeth's Mother

August 20th, 2009
2:32 pm

I would think your bodies would stick together.

Ah, yeah.

THE INFAMOUS SUPERFREAK DK

August 20th, 2009
2:32 pm

Tazzee – Yes it does get sticky and the sound it makes when the two bodies are separating is outrageous. Yeah but dont forget to throw a shower curtain over the bed so you dont make too much of a mess..

Wise Diva

August 20th, 2009
2:32 pm

Infamous, what’s wrong with handcuffs to you? You don’t trust anyone enough? Because I think that is my opposition for them LOL

AmazonRed™ - so what?

August 20th, 2009
2:32 pm

Anyway, change of topic, are men opposed to using toys/food/extras in the bedroom? I’m asking for a specific reason, but ladies, do you get resistance?

WD – I don’t do toys. I don’t need anything that vibrates or needs batteries. So I can’t speak to that. And the only electronic device ever present has been a video camera. :twisted:

So in terms of things like food, it cleans up and it relatively harmless so I haven’t gotten any resistance on that one.

Wise Diva

August 20th, 2009
2:33 pm

a shower curtain! Why didn’t I ever think of that?

Randyt (aka Been there, Done that, Got a Closet FULL of t-shirts)

August 20th, 2009
2:33 pm

Word of caution though. Fruit stains the hellz out of sheets…so make sure you get some really cheap ones at Big Lots if you use the strawberries with the RediWhip.

Fulfilling Me (Back in Action)

August 20th, 2009
2:34 pm

I say allow your wildest fantasie to come true. Be open to the experience…Be a human sundae!

Strange Woman...Not Elizabeth's Mother

August 20th, 2009
2:34 pm

sticky stuff is best used at hotels

WiseDiva, Mason always leave a big tip for housekeepers when there more to clean. LOL

And you should always get a room with two beds. One for resting and one for play.

Melo

August 20th, 2009
2:35 pm

Melo – you had sex while a toddler was watching?!?!?

Nope Tazzee!

the toddler wld recite the episode of chic going to my house…..she left with her mum be4 i got there so she didnt know the derty derty like that.

But the fact that she wld say sme incoherent but placing the chic at my house is what broght the angst out!

Wise Diva

August 20th, 2009
2:35 pm

human sundae, man that brings back memories *sigh*,

Amazon, oh ok, then again, I was skimming and could have read it wrong, no worries :)

Captain Underpants

August 20th, 2009
2:36 pm

To beat or not to beat, that is the question.

Wise Diva

August 20th, 2009
2:36 pm

wow, great tips, shower curtain, big lots cheap sheets, and second bed in the room. GOT IT

Strange Woman...Not Elizabeth's Mother

August 20th, 2009
2:36 pm

Fruit stains the hellz out of sheets

No Randy, red rose petals are the devil to get out.

THE INFAMOUS SUPERFREAK DK

August 20th, 2009
2:38 pm

Raw-qi – No ma’am.. Youre not locking my hands up.. I likes ya alot but you aints doin that.. Being in handcuffs is not sexy to me..

Leggs

August 20th, 2009
2:38 pm

@Infamous, thanks but don’t think I want Fletchers to be my first experience. :wink:

Fulfilling Me (Back in Action)

August 20th, 2009
2:38 pm

Yes, Wise…it uh makes for an interesting hide and seek adventure.(insert devil face)

Tazzee - Is it Saturday?

August 20th, 2009
2:39 pm

taking notes….

only at the hotel with two beds or put down a shower curtain – good advice, because my next question was going to be the bedding.

On that shower curtain…um, now I would think you would stick to the plastic – or do you mean the cloth shower curtains. I’d think towels would be better because you can just throw those in the washer.

Randyt (aka Been there, Done that, Got a Closet FULL of t-shirts)

August 20th, 2009
2:40 pm

“red rose petals are the devil to get out.”

Thanks @ Strange, I’ll remember that (cheap thought, roses are really cheap at Aldi, but if they are spread out and the Aldi bag has been hidden….hmmmmm…who says romance is expensive?).

Tazzee - Is it Saturday?

August 20th, 2009
2:40 pm

Melo – thanks for that clarification, I was about to put you down for real.

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

August 20th, 2009
2:41 pm

Taz – Okay, thanks for the tip & there is an American Deli over here too! Yes, they were a little too wet, I had to blot them! JR Crickets ought to be ashamed!

Chink

August 20th, 2009
2:43 pm

Kimmie one of my favorite wing places in alpharetta is Express Wing & More they changed their name a couple of times but I think they kept the recipe… On Hwy 9 off windward pkwy

Melo

August 20th, 2009
2:44 pm

Mason always leave a big tip for housekeepers when there more to clean. LOL

WOW!!

Strange Woman...Not Elizabeth's Mother

August 20th, 2009
2:44 pm

On that shower curtain…um, now I would think you would stick to the plastic – or do you mean the cloth shower curtains. I’d think towels would be better because you can just throw those in the washer.

LMBO at that entire statement. Tazzee you are being to neat and meticulous. When you are doing that thing you ain’t time to keep stopping making sure the towels are still in place. Like someone said just buy you some sheets for play and throw them on top of the others and hope for the best. Or just do it on the shower floor. LOL

Jamoca - "Be" That Voodoo Chile

August 20th, 2009
2:44 pm

im trying to take u away from this foolishness)

Who knew the (occasional) shyt stirrer would help clean up the mess, altho I know you did not act alone…but more of a group effort (this here’s gettin’ real old, IMO). Good job Melo…although I’m still looking at you sideways. LOL but n/r.

Tazzee – The last time I checked, the best sex is already nice n’ sticky all it’s own (the man can spare that other sweet stuff)… cuz “she’s” sweet (& sticky) enough already. ;) A little extra sweetner wouldn’t hurt the situation either.

Wisey – Now you want to get pointers on foods being compared to what’s succulent and “edible”. You cold have asked this 2 days ago. But nice decoy…anything else was better than the previous subtopic(s).

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

August 20th, 2009
2:45 pm

Thanks Chink, will check them out too!

Wise Diva

August 20th, 2009
2:45 pm

LOL @ Tazzee, you are SOO much like me. We probably over think it too much.

Strange Woman...Not Elizabeth's Mother

August 20th, 2009
2:47 pm

Infamous Really? Have you ever been cuffed by the man? Is it a stereotypical thing?

mytw♥cents

August 20th, 2009
2:47 pm

FULFILLING – The devilish face is the word evil between two colons, without any spaces.

Anybody every had someone try to introduce an ingredient/element that they were forced to reject? Hey, closed mouths don’t get fed…

THE INFAMOUS SUPERFREAK DK

August 20th, 2009
2:48 pm

Tazzee – A cheap clear shower curtain so you can throw it away when youre done.. Theres extra sliding on it and theres no mess.. Keep the towels on the floor if youre really going for the gusto because your cup/shower curtain will runneth over.. Well if the clear is a little too much you can use a clothe on thats water proof.. I like the human slip and slide myself..

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

August 20th, 2009
2:48 pm

I’m taking notes up in here today!LOL!!

Chink

August 20th, 2009
2:49 pm

I dont like toys why do I need it if I have the actual in the vicinity???

THE INFAMOUS SUPERFREAK DK

August 20th, 2009
2:49 pm

Raqi – Yes I have so thats why I dont do cuffs.. You missed my post the other day about my past..

Strange Woman...Not Elizabeth's Mother

August 20th, 2009
2:50 pm

Melo Sex in front the babies? LOL

I say once they too big for the bassinet all interactions in front of babies should cease.

Now kids walking in during the midnights hours is a whole other episode of The R.H.O-MIA.

Leggs

August 20th, 2009
2:50 pm

@WD, I too said AHA at the shower curtain! I heard stories and always visualized a hot dang mess!

Sticky and the sound the bodies make pulling apart. Oh my! Okay MLBs, you will love this one. I always wanted to be like, no more like in the position of the lady on The Ohio Players album, Sweet Sticky Thing! Those were the days gone by. :lol:

mytw♥cents

August 20th, 2009
2:51 pm

NOT Elizabeth’s Mother – I think it was a hotel excursion that resulted in a baby who’s not named Elizabeth. I distinctly remember an afternoon excursion months before we browbeat it outta ya, when you kindly brought us all souvenirs. And obviously, kept a few gazillion for yourself!

Tazzee - Is it Saturday?

August 20th, 2009
2:52 pm

Wise Diva – I’m trying to make sure I get it right the first time. You know I’m a perfectionist :lol: AND I don’t want to be thinking about the mess the entire time, wondering if my sheets will be stained or if I’ll have a rash from some honey afterwards…

Strange Woman...Not Elizabeth's Mother

August 20th, 2009
2:52 pm

LOL TwoLincolns. Lawd, lawd those afternoon hotel deposits. happy sigh

Wise Diva

August 20th, 2009
2:53 pm

Well Chink, I’m no expert, but I think that toys are used for different things though, not necessarily to replace, but enhance. Things might get dull from time to time yanno.

Wise Diva

August 20th, 2009
2:53 pm

bwahahaa! *dead* at a honey rash. Stop it!! LOL!!

Chink

August 20th, 2009
2:55 pm

ahem …I mean I dont dislike them but only in emergency situations..

Professor…

August 20th, 2009
2:55 pm

Strange Woman...Not Elizabeth's Mother

August 20th, 2009
2:56 pm

don’t want to be thinking about the mess the entire time

Tazzee you are thinking about the mess then you need to up the foreplay. LOL

And hell…I mean heck, Macy’s always has home sales on sheet, towels, comfortors.

Chink

August 20th, 2009
2:59 pm

Well I definitely don’t need 2 “richards” in the room but the other stuff is ok I guess….I like the real thang!

Strange Woman...Not Elizabeth's Mother

August 20th, 2009
3:00 pm

Tazzee you are thinking about the mess then you need to up the foreplay. LOL

Commenting on my own comment…I can remember a few times that I would not have cared if my mother walked in…j/k, but only a little.

Compelling

August 20th, 2009
3:02 pm

I’ve been laughing non-stop today at this blog. My co-workers think I’m crazy.

Can’t do food of any kind in the bedroom….it does not work for me. I just feel like I’d be sick and uncomfortable after it’s all said and done.

Now blindfolds and restraints of some sort, I can get with those.

Professor…

August 20th, 2009
3:04 pm

I could not resist making the devil face…

Strange Woman...Not Elizabeth's Mother

August 20th, 2009
3:04 pm

Yall better stop it before yall make me tell Hoke Colburn to pull this van over on the highway. He has already asked me what am I laughing at. Yall gonna have us in the Carolina lock-up public naughtiness. LOL

THE INFAMOUS SUPERFREAK DK

August 20th, 2009
3:05 pm

Leggs – Thats my favorite album cover.. The inside sleeve of the album was the best..

Randyt (aka Been there, Done that, Got a Closet FULL of t-shirts)

August 20th, 2009
3:06 pm

Hey Chink, the toys don’t replace they intensify. Often they speed things up or take things to a higher intensity. TMI, but those “hand massagers” for instance (for sore necks etc.), that slip over the hand and vibrate cause a vibration through the fingers to whatever those fingertips are touching (helps to know the way around a woman’s anatomy at this point actually). The vibration really can intensify the stimulation for the woman but can be almost too strong so the man needs to pay attention to the woman’s reactions and know when to back away (and maybe pull out the Koolwhip for a few minutes or something, LOL).

Melo

August 20th, 2009
3:07 pm

I can do the lil sweet licking stuff as long as its on the vejay…i think i bought sme at Insurrections, sme time back when i went to Reynolds for Queens birthday.She liked that…i can do the other jelly like stuff,as long as that enhances her feelings and makes her veins more receptive etc.

But too much food stuff in bed?? im with Chink on that,cant have too much of that in my bed.

THE INFAMOUS SUPERFREAK DK

August 20th, 2009
3:11 pm

Well I like the lady to use the toys on herself while I watch.. Then I come on in like a song being mixed or the blending of your favorite drink.. With the fruit and other sauces to make that thang kick into another gear.. Go from a rolling start to hyperspace.. The Space rips the the atmosphere and dips..

i'm swiss (aka Buckshot Prior)

August 20th, 2009
3:12 pm

Ahhhhh…. me likey, Wise… You just knew that topic flip would bring the freaks out of the woodwork… ;-)

BTW, don’t fret about the handcuffs, boo… I’ll let you put the handcuffs on me… :lol: Speaking of naughty accessories, I’ve got some left over from the bachelor party (including handcuffs), so you just let me know what you’d like… ;-) :lol:

Wise Diva

August 20th, 2009
3:12 pm

Compelling, you have to be a little crazy to read this blog regularly, LOL, if they look at you strange, tell your co-workers to mind their business, at least you are throwing staplers at them!

Wise Diva

August 20th, 2009
3:14 pm

I knew you would chime in I’m Swiss, hahahaha! Do the bachelor party cuffs have a real lock and key? If so.. um No bueno

Professor…

August 20th, 2009
3:14 pm

Whew it is reading like a Freaky Friday in here…ya’ll are going to make WD clutch her pearls (say pearls like the old folks say it puls).

Randyt (aka Been there, Done that, Got a Closet FULL of t-shirts)

August 20th, 2009
3:14 pm

I need to back away from this…however one more comment. The fruit thing definitely works the best when you just throw a cheap sheet or blanket on the floor or on the dining room table or something. That way you are not worrying about staining that $1000 Select Comfort. Just a thought

SexyCool - If you could feel my joy.

August 20th, 2009
3:14 pm

So, um, Wise – What exactly are you saying, huh? giggling…

i'm swiss (aka Buckshot Prior)

August 20th, 2009
3:15 pm

They’re self-release, Wisealthough, that kind of defeats the purpose, doesn’t it? :lol:

AmazonRed™ - so what?

August 20th, 2009
3:16 pm

Compelling, you have to be a little crazy to read this blog regularly, LOL

If it weren’t true, I’d be offended. :lol:

Raqi

August 20th, 2009
3:19 pm

Infamous I bet 3Wishes sell a po-po outfit sexy enough to make you change your mind. Or at least give it a long thought.

That is with the right woman wearing it, I must add.

Leggs

August 20th, 2009
3:19 pm

@WD ~ you swung that pendulum far wide. This is such a better topic. No one seems to be “clutching their pearls.”

@Infamous, I’m not surprised. It was the favorite for a lot of men!

Church lady

August 20th, 2009
3:19 pm

now knocking the heathens over the heads with vial in right hand ready for sprinkling to regain order in this joint

Melo

August 20th, 2009
3:19 pm

a cheap sheet or blanket on the floor or on the dining room table

lol at Randyt!!

to actually see u crouching on the floor,strt8ning that blanket?? one wld think u onto smething real honorable Randyt!!?? :lol:

u just want to up end smebody’s daughter and make her open her leggs wide open,on the floor,just for u!

Brother has no shame :lol: :lol:

Wise Diva

August 20th, 2009
3:21 pm

Wait, you guys want to pretend that the crazy doesn’t come out on the blog AT LEAST once an hour? LOL, I really can’t act that well. Hey, I embrace it all, even when It’s like a bad VH1 reality show at times, LOL!! it’s our cast of characters and for the most part, it’s pretty harmless, in my opinion, anyway.

Randyt (aka Been there, Done that, Got a Closet FULL of t-shirts)

August 20th, 2009
3:21 pm

@Infamous…you mean you have never been pulled over by a hot lady cop and at least thought for a moment aout those handcuffs? I have ;-) , but that 9MM kind of put me off a bit.

THE INFAMOUS SUPERFREAK DK

August 20th, 2009
3:22 pm

Raqi – Well as long as they are the plastic ones. I can play Dr. Bruce Banner say “Dont make angry you wouldnt like me when Im angry”, then bust up out the cuffs and as Sexy Cool says “Commence to ravishing each other”.. I really like ravishing one another..

AmazonRed™ - so what?

August 20th, 2009
3:24 pm

I bet 3Wishes sell a po-po outfit sexy enough to make you change your mind. Or at least give it a long thought.

:lol:

They do. I won sexiest costume at a halloween party in it!

SexyCool - If you could feel my joy.

August 20th, 2009
3:24 pm

You remember, I dropped the “Crazy” part of my blog name for a reason.

(whispering) – I’m trying to keep that ish under wraps.

Raqi

August 20th, 2009
3:24 pm

Seagrass carpet gives an helluva rug burn. Use a blanket, pillow or something.

AmazonRed™ - so what?

August 20th, 2009
3:25 pm

it’s our cast of characters and for the most part, it’s pretty harmless, in my opinion, anyway.

*sigh* You would think. :arrow:

Melo

August 20th, 2009
3:25 pm

Is Ceemeli on vacation?

Leggs

August 20th, 2009
3:25 pm

@Professor, HA HA HA, I just saw your “clutch the pearls” post.

Church lady

August 20th, 2009
3:25 pm

now knocking the heathens over the heads with vial in right hand ready for sprinkling to regain order in this joint

I AIN’T PLAYING HEATHENS!

Randyt (aka Been there, Done that, Got a Closet FULL of t-shirts)

August 20th, 2009
3:25 pm

Melo I don’t plan these things…sometimes life just happens. I’m not a player, just can think quickly if the moment happens.

Church lady

August 20th, 2009
3:26 pm

SexyCool - If you could feel my joy.

August 20th, 2009
3:26 pm

~LMAO~ – DK – I haven’t said that mess in FOREVER.

But you’re absolutely correct, Let the ravishing commence.

THE INFAMOUS SUPERFREAK DK

August 20th, 2009
3:28 pm

Randy – I used to date a copper.. She was bossy and crazy.. She screamed at me one day because I was walking out the house.. Like “You get back here right now!” “Do you hear me?” and nope I would never let her put them cuffs on me.. Dang the memories.. She was crazy.. She used to grunt like a dog and scream really loud during the act. She used to try and spank my butt while we were doing it even though I told her heyyyy I dont get down like that..

Church lady

August 20th, 2009
3:28 pm

ahem, church lady now standing at tip of pulpit to get a perfect view. every heathen in the house will get sprayed. not sprinkled, yall need spraying!

mytw♥cents

August 20th, 2009
3:29 pm

CHURCH LADY? OMG :lol: OMG :lol: OMG I’ve missed you so much! I know you’ve got a few Incense and Candle stories in yo pocketbook. < (Hush, SexyCool!) And how is your daughter, Sistergurl?

THE INFAMOUS SUPERFREAK DK

August 20th, 2009
3:30 pm

Randy – But the copper was also from Haiti..

Randyt (aka Been there, Done that, Got a Closet FULL of t-shirts)

August 20th, 2009
3:31 pm

Dayum DK, that is a vision that will be with me from now on every time I see a lady cop. Thanks for the warning. That IS scary.

SexyCool - If you could feel my joy.

August 20th, 2009
3:33 pm

My222222222222222222 – Oh LAWD!!! Don’t make me explain “The Pocketbook.”

I’m laughing so hard I can’t breathe. That is one crazy ass white boy. I totally HEART that dude!!!!

Church lady

August 20th, 2009
3:34 pm

mytw♥cents, if they don’t hursh wit all dis her evil nasty talk, imma start da rebuking. i ain’t playing. too much heathenism on dis thang. folks ain’t got no mo respect des days. just nasty. relations should be had wit yo husbum or wife. dats all. all da rest is out right wron and evil. i ain’t playing wit chall. ahhh glory

Raqi

August 20th, 2009
3:34 pm

Let me ask you all’s opinion. If you are spending a few days at a relative’s or friend’s house, is it disrespectful to be intimate under their roof as long as you keep it quiet?

Church lady

August 20th, 2009
3:36 pm

see what chall made chuuch lady do? don got off my right gramma. whas my smelling sauce? ahhhh glory

AmazonRed™ - so what?

August 20th, 2009
3:36 pm

If you are spending a few days at a relative’s or friend’s house, is it disrespectful to be intimate under their roof as long as you keep it quiet?

:lol:

This is why I have a water proof mattress pad in the guest bedroom. :lol:

The only sucky part about it is that the relative or guest is the one washing the sheets.

Church lady

August 20th, 2009
3:37 pm

be decent and keep yo relations at home! yo mama ain’t told you betta? lawd help des yung folks

Randyt (aka Been there, Done that, Got a Closet FULL of t-shirts)

August 20th, 2009
3:37 pm

Raqi…don’t ask me why, but the stranger the place the harder the wood. It was always a major turn on for me for some reason. As you said, good idea to keep it quiet if you want another invitation (remembering biting down hard on a pillow many times to keep from screaming out loud).

Fulfilling Me (Back in Action)

August 20th, 2009
3:37 pm

Yall got me thinking bout some wonderful times..
Chair, silk ties, handcuffs, blindfold, ice and a wild imagination ;devil;

Fulfilling Me (Back in Action)

August 20th, 2009
3:38 pm

Fulfilling Me (Back in Action)

August 20th, 2009
3:38 pm

@Mytwo…thanks…I will be super expressing myself now!

Church lady

August 20th, 2009
3:39 pm

lawd, help us. da harder da wood?! i rebuke you right now! get thee back oh evil one. get thee behind me. i rebuke right now! ahhh glory

Leggs

August 20th, 2009
3:39 pm

@Raqi, at Grandma’s house yeah. No seriously, I think it’s disrespectful. Now if you have permission from your friend, go for it. But a short visit one should be able to keep their sex drive on ice!

THE INFAMOUS SUPERFREAK DK

August 20th, 2009
3:40 pm

Raqi – Just like when kids in the house..

Raqi

August 20th, 2009
3:41 pm

but the stranger the place the harder the wood

Randy I know. LOL

Professor…

August 20th, 2009
3:41 pm

I used to lurk…I remember reading a church lady story. Hmmm let me say something nasty :evil:

Church lady

August 20th, 2009
3:41 pm

aaaammmmaaaazeeegrace how sweeeet da sound.
dat saved aaaah retch liiiike meeee.
i once wuz lost but now i’mmm found.
wuz blind buuuut know iiiii see.

ahhh glory!

Randyt (aka Been there, Done that, Got a Closet FULL of t-shirts)

August 20th, 2009
3:42 pm

@ Church…”da Devil made me do it”, LOL.

Melo

August 20th, 2009
3:42 pm

Melo I don’t plan these things

playa, i aint hating..im just picturing what we do smetimes!

If ur mama stumbled on u laying the blanket on the floor(re Raqi) she wld think u want to iron clothes :lol:

mytw♥cents

August 20th, 2009
3:43 pm

Simmer down now, y’all! CHURCH LADY Please uplift us all in the prayer circle. Now, about those stories. Did you give in to the Deacon’s advances a the Church picnic this summer? He’s gotta be wearing you down.

RAQI Plese don’t be overnighting costumes to his Auntie nem’s house for a raucous nite of passion! But hey, I’m not mad that you’re giving your road warrior a lil motivation to finish the last leg of the trip.

Church lady

August 20th, 2009
3:43 pm

thank da lawd for Leggs

Professor gul dontchu do dat! where’s my vail? you just come on. i’z ready fa yo evil speakins

Raqi

August 20th, 2009
3:44 pm

Permissions Leggs. Who ask permission to have sex in someone’s house? I don’t think I could do that.

When couples stay at my house for more than a couple of days I just assume it. The only couple that was not been allowed to stay together in my house is my husband’s female cousin who is ghey. She has to stay at a hotel or whatever. Other than that just keep it quiet.

Church lady

August 20th, 2009
3:44 pm

mytw♥cents, i’m still yet holding on. ahhhh glory

Melo

August 20th, 2009
3:44 pm

is it disrespectful to be intimate under their roof as long as you keep it quiet?

knowing u Raqi, better u abstain coz u too loud! :lol:

unless u and the friend-cpple and ur hubby,joke like that!

Raqi

August 20th, 2009
3:45 pm

Just like when kids in the house

Yeah.

i'm swiss (aka Buckshot Prior)

August 20th, 2009
3:45 pm

SexyCool / My2 — Hold up, now — what’s this about pocketbooks? I thought we agreed the term should be purse-y :lol:

AmazonRed™ - so what?

August 20th, 2009
3:46 pm

:lol: @ melo. Yeah, I don’t think I’d know how to do it quiet anymore. Heck I live alone, I can be as loud as I want, you get used to that.

Melo

August 20th, 2009
3:46 pm

Church lady=Fee????

Tazzee - Is it Saturday?

August 20th, 2009
3:47 pm

Raqi – I don’t think I could partake in someone else’s house. I would have a fit if someone did at my house. I can’t remember the last time I had a couple visit – but if they did the do, they better stick those sheets in the washer before they leave.

Raqi

August 20th, 2009
3:47 pm

LOL TwoLincolns. Nah we are staying in a hotel.

Church lady

August 20th, 2009
3:47 pm

Randyt ain’t no tshurt fo whut yous doing yous mocking me son? jus git ready fo one mo tshurt if yous keep playing like dat. you heah me?

Professor…

August 20th, 2009
3:47 pm

I am the only person that do the nasty in my house. I do not let couples spend the night…get a room. I will meet you for dinner or attend an event with you, I can also advise you on some nice hotels, car services and where to park at the airport.

@Leggs I just remember some nasty talk going on in Blog High and folks were complaining because it was not Friday.

mytw♥cents

August 20th, 2009
3:49 pm

WTH?! I think askin’ permission is a bit much. I say go for it and if you get caught it’ll just have to be a good laugh. But only if you’re gonna tell us the story later lol. Just try to hide the evidence.

PROF A fornication tale? Oh my!(see I need a blinkin’ eyed emotie with long lashes too.) Church Lady is sure to faint now…

Church lady

August 20th, 2009
3:50 pm

Melo whatchu you means asking foz a fee i’z not no strumpet. i rebuke you. what kinda mess is dis? lawd dis gul got otha folks spendin da night having group relations under ha ruf. i need my prayer cloth now to wip da sweat yalls cauzing me. whew, i got da shakes now.

Melo

August 20th, 2009
3:51 pm

Ared,that divorcee i was talking about that i dated:

shes the women that taught me/awakened me to the fact that its okay to cry when making luv.
I think her vejay sensors were some of the best and baddest in da bizzness.

AmazonRed™ - so what?

August 20th, 2009
3:52 pm

I would have a fit if someone did at my house. – Tazzee

I am the only person that do the nasty in my house. I do not let couples spend the night…get a room. – Professor

Tazze and Professor – You guys were also the ones who didn’t want to share bathrooms with your S/Os either right?

THE INFAMOUS SUPERFREAK DK

August 20th, 2009
3:52 pm

Professor & Tazzee – I’ll get sum at ya’ll house.. Ya’ll could be having a dinner party with friends and we’ll sneak in the bathroom and cut a fool right quick..

And Tazzee I’ll get your booty in a burger king bathroom.. I dont give a dam.. I’m like Janet.. Anytime, Any Place..

AmazonRed™ - so what?

August 20th, 2009
3:52 pm

shes the women that taught me/awakened me to the fact that its okay to cry when making luv.

This made me holler, for real. :lol:

Church lady

August 20th, 2009
3:53 pm

mytw♥cents chuuch lady is bout to pass out. lawd what iz dis wurl coming to? folks having unmarried relations, doing all kinds of immoral thangs to deys bodies. yall yung folks get married and do thangs da right way. nuthin good will come of yalls shenanigans. ahhhh glory. chuuch lady gotta go. yalls too immoral fa huh

Raqi

August 20th, 2009
3:53 pm

Tazzee everybody knows stripping down the bed you use before leaving is a standing rule in my house.

But uh, sometimes things just happen you know sleeping in those little full size guest beds with no air conditioner just the sound of the window unit humming and the smell of cucumber melon candles…LOL

SexyCool - If you could feel my joy.

August 20th, 2009
3:53 pm

Swiss – you are not the only crazy ass white boy I know. But you definitely count. *LMAO*

Leggs

August 20th, 2009
3:54 pm

@Randy, because being bad is an aphrodiasiac. One of the major components of people having sex in weird places. It such a turn on being bad!

Wise Diva

August 20th, 2009
3:55 pm

churchlady, please! I am a PK, I know how some church ladies get down, LOL

mytw♥cents

August 20th, 2009
3:55 pm

RAQI Oh, so you’re just pulling the rental over to the first Family Dollar you see when you get to town to get a couple of those shower curtains. Gotcha!

SWIZZ BEATS Yeah, purse-y was cute! I’ll take that over pudsy any day. Wait, I don’t mean I want purse-y… You know what I meant. SexyCool & Jamoca had to learn me about that phrase.

Professor…

August 20th, 2009
3:55 pm

@melo are you saying that church lady gives it up for a small fee or a large fee? I want to know because I respect church lady and I don’t want her walking the Ave. for collection plate money.

So, Mr. Melo, please advise?

THE INFAMOUS SUPERFREAK DK

August 20th, 2009
3:56 pm

My Two – Exactly.. If you catch me then cool but if you dont then you’ll never know.. I’ll even send you some loot for new sheets..

Randyt (aka Been there, Done that, Got a Closet FULL of t-shirts)

August 20th, 2009
3:56 pm

@Tazzie, etal… I’m not proud of it, honestly. There is just a “pull” that happens. If I bring a lady to my Mom’s house and she has me sleeping on the couch and the lady in my old bedroom, I can’t help it. It may be right beside my Mom’s bedroom but I WILL be scratching on that door at 2:00 AM. I don’t plan it, but the draw is so strong.

Church lady

August 20th, 2009
3:57 pm

WDchurchlady, please! I am a PK, I know how some church ladies get down,

knah you knows ain’t nuttin wrong wit two clean folks having relations. 2 clean folks cain’t get nuthin durty. IT’S DES IMMORALS HEATHENS BRANGING SHAME! lawd help us

mytw♥cents

August 20th, 2009
4:00 pm

WISEY Everybody says/knows that PKs, Catholic schoolgirls, and girls with glasses are Woooooooooooooooooooooo. I say just embrace it and move on…

Jamoca - "Be" That Voodoo Chile

August 20th, 2009
4:00 pm

…now the milli dollar question now would be: Has anyone ever been caught?…and YES, almost does count (in this particular case scenario).

i'm swiss (aka Buckshot Prior)

August 20th, 2009
4:00 pm

In my best Beavis & Butt-head voice:

Huhhuhhuhuhuh… My2 likes purse-y… huhhuhuhuhuh ;-)

Melo

August 20th, 2009
4:02 pm

Proff,no no,??

There is a blogger by the name FEE.She happens to be a spiritual/church lady too,if im not mistaken.
I was asking if church lady is one and the same thing as FEE.

SexyCool - If you could feel my joy.

August 20th, 2009
4:02 pm

I don’t care about grown folks having relations at my house. The only thing disrespectful about it is how loud/wild/vocal they get with it. Don’t be at my house acting like Tarzan and Jane of the Jungle.

If ya mess up my sheets, take them off the bed and throw ‘em in the washing machine.

Save the extra for your house or get a room.

(Besides, sometimes, that silent, intense coupling is the sweetest.)

Randyt (aka Been there, Done that, Got a Closet FULL of t-shirts)

August 20th, 2009
4:03 pm

@ Jamoca … meekly raising hand. Play the game too much and you WILL eventually get caught…the hard part is stopping in mid stride.

Leggs

August 20th, 2009
4:05 pm

@Melo, ChurchLady and Fee cannot possibly be the same. Well, technically they can be, but I doubt it very much!

THE INFAMOUS SUPERFREAK DK

August 20th, 2009
4:05 pm

Sexy – Im with you.. I dont care, do you.. And dont be mad if me and my sweetie are doing us.. Just dont be doing all that over the top hokey pokey..

Leggs

August 20th, 2009
4:06 pm

Who caught you Randy?

i'm swiss (aka Buckshot Prior)

August 20th, 2009
4:06 pm

“…now the milli dollar question now would be: Has anyone ever been caught?”

{raising hand} :oops: That would be a big 10-4, Jamoca. Got caught in high school once — by my mom — buck naked with girl on all fours & face buried in that booty… :lol: Mom ’bout fainted…

Melo

August 20th, 2009
4:08 pm

Randyt,if at ur age,u broght a chic to ur ma house,why wld she insit on u sleeping apart from ur lady,married or single?

Chink

August 20th, 2009
4:08 pm

Is it disrespectful to be intimate under their roof as long as you keep it quiet?

I would say yes if its your parents

AmazonRed™ - so what?

August 20th, 2009
4:09 pm

buck naked with girl on all fours & face buried in that booty…

swiss – Please tell me you are joking!!! :lol: :lol: :lol:

THE INFAMOUS SUPERFREAK DK

August 20th, 2009
4:09 pm

Jamoca – I got caught in High school too.. She was straddling me and her mom ran into the front room and started wailing on both of us.. I had my pants down around my knees and she had her shorts around one ankle. Man I never ran so fast in my life.

Church lady

August 20th, 2009
4:09 pm

with girl on all fours & face buried in that booty… Mom ’bout fainted

wow

THE INFAMOUS SUPERFREAK DK

August 20th, 2009
4:10 pm

Swiss – Now that was funny.. Girl on all fours and face buried.. Wow!! I bet your Mom bout had a stroke..

AmazonRed™ - so what?

August 20th, 2009
4:11 pm

I was a virgin in high school. I would have gotten sent to boot camp had my parents caught me doing those things!!! :lol:

Jamoca - "Be" That Voodoo Chile

August 20th, 2009
4:12 pm

LOL RandyT – You too?!!! I was hoping that I would not have to give the first confession, but I definitely have…more than once. Heck, in one case scenario, I/we actually turned down his family member’s offer of allowing the two of us to stay the night, since it had gotten so late after spending the whole day with his family. Then she busts out of nowhere with —>”Ohhhh, no ehhhh???!!!…ya’ll just wanna go off to do some “ol debilment” (devilment) that’s all!” And we’re looking at each other like, “Heyyyyaaallll yeeeaaaahhhh!” LMAO.

…and may I ask by whom? I’m still embarassed at both times that we were caught, I don’t even want to say who it was…two different people, but significant individuals. Good thing that I…let me hush…LOL.

i'm swiss (aka Buckshot Prior)

August 20th, 2009
4:12 pm

ARed — I never joke about booty-munching… :lol:

Deacon Such in Such

August 20th, 2009
4:13 pm

Church Lady Go sit yo fat AZZZZZZZZZZZ down!

Randyt (aka Been there, Done that, Got a Closet FULL of t-shirts)

August 20th, 2009
4:14 pm

Mom…several times. Did play it smart and at least had the sheet over the anatomical parts. I think it shocked her so much she pretended that she didn’t see anything. Sister-in-law (when married) at least once (actually that was sort of stimulating).

Professor…

August 20th, 2009
4:14 pm

…same here I still had my V-card too, so no worries during that time.

AmazonRed™ - so what?

August 20th, 2009
4:15 pm

ARed — I never joke about booty-munching…

:lol: !!! Goodness gracious.

Randyt (aka Been there, Done that, Got a Closet FULL of t-shirts)

August 20th, 2009
4:16 pm

Hellz Melo, I guess she still thinks I’m a minor.

Melo

August 20th, 2009
4:17 pm

Is it disrespectful to be intimate under their roof as long as you keep it quiet

Its neva a diss,unless u getcaught.

Now i know some ladies cant shut ther mouf, u just clos the mouf,stick it in and hurriedly leave ur deposits…..
Now it can be messy for uall still on those juvenile condoms….. :lol:

(ladies,tmrw on dateline,they have a story on singles hunting, successfully, for men with BIG pockets,on the internets,dont miss it)

Poppa Grande

August 20th, 2009
4:18 pm

Wow! It looks like Skinamax has created a blog on the AJC, and I walked right in it.

Not to be left out
I guess that I’ve been lucky because I wasn’t caught and really got bold with it.

Like doin’, doin’ it, and doin’ it well in her parent’s driveway. Not in the car, either, outside where we could be seen. It was about 9:30 PM in the middle of July. I was 17 at the time. Her parents told her to not let any boys in the house when they weren’t there, so we followed instructions. :grin:

Melo

August 20th, 2009
4:18 pm

same here I still had my V-card too, so no worries during that time

dang,dont tell me who snatched it,i may commit a murder..

:evil: guy! :lol:

AmazonRed™ - so what?

August 20th, 2009
4:19 pm

Now it can be messy for uall still on those juvenile condoms…..

:???:

Chink

August 20th, 2009
4:20 pm

That is something that ya’ll are still alive I guess its that double standard thing “boys will be boys”

AmazonRed™ - so what?

August 20th, 2009
4:20 pm

Not in the car, either, outside where we could be seen. It was about 9:30 PM in the middle of July.

PG – :evil:

mytw♥cents

August 20th, 2009
4:22 pm

SWIZZIE I’m gonna have to buy you a few beers to get more of these stories. Probably have to start smokin’ cigarettes after the first couple ;)

I’ve walked right up on a few others. Nobody I would stay to sneak n watch, but they carried on when I made my exit…

Melo

August 20th, 2009
4:22 pm

My friend Brian was caught by his dad,screwing a chic that he later married,on his parents’ bed,in their house.

It neva lasted 3 yrs.
I believe they neva forgave her for that tackyness,even tho she apologized to his mum and dad.
She committed the ultimate african and ZULU No No!

Leggs

August 20th, 2009
4:25 pm

I’m not even going to ruin this afternoon with a corny joke! This right here is pure d laughter!

Randyt (aka Been there, Done that, Got a Closet FULL of t-shirts)

August 20th, 2009
4:26 pm

Not quite the same, but my “transition lover” was a haile of a gin rummy player. One day on the back porch of her townhouse with just that little two foot privacy fence between tne neighbors, she tore me up in a game of “Strip Gin Rummy” and there she is fully clothed and I’m sitting there buck naked with cards in my hand when the neighbor started around the fence…then “somehow” changed his mind. He never looked at my girlfriend quite the same after that.

Poppa Grande

August 20th, 2009
4:27 pm

AR

You are right. It was :evil: , but it definitely made me :grin: on the way home.

She lived in a neighborhood around Lake Spivey near Stockbridge. It was a pretty well to do area on the Southside.

What’s even crazier, her parents are really good friends with Gen. Colin Powell. Gen Powell finished his military career at Ft. McPherson and they met there. I think that they were actually out to dinner with the Powells that particular night.

Professor…

August 20th, 2009
4:27 pm

Melo…LOL!

Dang Big Poppa now that was BOLD…

Tazzee - Is it Saturday?

August 20th, 2009
4:28 pm

AmRed – yes I prefer my own bathroom, although I broke that rule with my current.

I just got this thing about other folks’ fluids and such. I hate when I got to clean my guest bathroom after someone was there and I find a little curly hair…GROSS!!!

Church lady

August 20th, 2009
4:28 pm

Deacon deacon, you mad cause i’z speakng against da evil in her? we need to bind tagether against the strong hold of heathenism des people committin. you wit me now? or yous mad at me still? a little suga make it betta? alright now, don’t start nuthin in her. oh, by da way, i’z nowhere ner fat.

Poppa Grande

August 20th, 2009
4:28 pm

Corny Joke:

There is this lady and she is struggling having a baby so the doctor brings out these pills and he tells her each of these pills takes away a quarter of the pain, but sends it to the father of the baby.

So she takes one and her husband says “Women are wimps, I feel no pain”

Then she takes another and her husband says “Man this doesn’t hurt.”

So she takes, two more and has no problem having the baby and neither her nor her husband are in pain.

Two days later they come home with the baby and the milk man is dead on their doorstep.

Church lady

August 20th, 2009
4:30 pm

Deacon Such and Such iz zat cho name fo real? call me deacon, i feelz a lil heat brewin. 777-9311, any ara code will do

AmazonRed™ - so what?

August 20th, 2009
4:31 pm

Poppa Grande

August 20th, 2009
4:33 pm

Professor

Dang Big Poppa now that was BOLD…

That was just the beginning.

It is what led to the afternoon delight on the midtown condo balconies in the middle of the day when you could see office workers at Colony Square looking at us.

AmazonRed™ - so what?

August 20th, 2009
4:34 pm

It is what led to the afternoon delight on the midtown condo balconies in the middle of the day when you could see office workers at Colony Square looking at us.

That’s hot tho.

Jamoca - "Be" That Voodoo Chile

August 20th, 2009
4:34 pm

Okay, fair is fair…shyt it happened.

The first time was over at his place. His mother comes over for a while. I’m in his bed asleep. I’m awakened with a nudge and some other things. We’re about to begin. I’m on top, no cover. All of sudden…someone (his mother) busts through his bedroom door to let him know she’s “officially leaving” . He’s like I thought you had already left…and I’m sitting there on top, naked and “busted”. I was literally “froze”…I couldn’t move, but it’s not as if he took me down either.

The last scenario was over to his uncle’s…where we hung out pretty late as well. We ended up getting into it on the sofa in the den. Pitch black darkness, with a little shine through the windows. No covering for me. I’ll just call the individual “an old head” comes up and opens to door to the den and asks “Man, is that you?..I heard something…” Scared and nervous…we both come to a complete pause, while I’m biting on his neck to keep from heard by breathing too hard and hoping that “she” does not flip the lightswitch to find me bare as the day I was born on top of her beloved, most favorite…of all.

Leggs

August 20th, 2009
4:34 pm

777-9311, any ara code will do – COMEDY!

Professor…

August 20th, 2009
4:35 pm

Poppa!!! I knew you were a bad ^$#@…shut yo mouth!

@Church lady that is my phone number :evil:

Leggs

August 20th, 2009
4:38 pm

@PoppaG, I never forgot that story

Church lady

August 20th, 2009
4:40 pm

i’z cain’t take no mo of dis her immorals. on da balcony in da middle of da day laaaawd help us! dis stuff on her is like cryptonite. gotta get out of dis her chat room. not healthy fa da chuuch lady.

Professor is yous sayin yous want to join hands wit me? ahhh glory. help is on da way

Jamoca - "Be" That Voodoo Chile

August 20th, 2009
4:41 pm

…good the blog pharoah decided not to let my post go…Whew!

Infamous, Randy & Swiss AND PoppaG – LMAO!

Yes, while in high school I remember two students getting caught by the school deputy sherrif and another couple getting caught by one of the Asst Principals (and one of the students were relatives with the AP).

Beautiful giving the middle finga to Amazon

August 20th, 2009
4:43 pm

of course!

lol.

Leggs

August 20th, 2009
4:44 pm

I can honestly say I’ve never been caught. I was too scared to do much of anything. No boys in the house, meant no boys in the house! I broke that rule once never to let it happen again (and he came in for koolaid)!

Professor…

August 20th, 2009
4:45 pm

Church lady I do not want to join hands with you! I am a girl and I don’t think the good deacon is ready for two of us @ the same time. So this little sweet pea will let you eulogize the good deacon as you ride the glory train!

AmazonRed™ - so what?

August 20th, 2009
4:45 pm

Aw…Angie, you dedicated your screen name to me.

Church lady

August 20th, 2009
4:45 pm

see iz knew it, thank da lawd fa Leggs. come on ova to da bright side

Melo

August 20th, 2009
4:46 pm

although I broke that rule with my current.

I just got this thing about……

u dissappointed me Tazzee….the ending was not what i was expecting,esp after u said u broke rule!

i was thinking,daaaamn,it finally went down during the vacation.

poor me!

Leggs

August 20th, 2009
4:47 pm

I’m laughing so hard, I’m snorting.

AmazonRed™ - so what?

August 20th, 2009
4:47 pm

No boys in the house, meant no boys in the house!

Leggs – My mom would let me have my boyfriend over. She’d even left us alone. She left us alone on prom weekend. I was a virgin so we didn’t have sex but he stayed pretty late.

She’d always leave and say “respect the house.”

So we’d do it in her mini van. :lol: (this was after hs though, when I was home for breaks). :lol:

Beautiful giving the middle finga to Amazon

August 20th, 2009
4:48 pm

get ova yourself. lol.

ok, yea.

Beautiful giving the middle finga to Amazon

August 20th, 2009
4:51 pm

hello Jamoca! you can insert my name if you like. giggle.

i’m j/k, but not really.

read y’all tomorrow.

Jamoca - "Be" That Voodoo Chile

August 20th, 2009
4:51 pm

I’m laughing pretty hard myself…and again, nothing…I mean nothing…is what it seems. HA!

AmazonRed™ - so what?

August 20th, 2009
4:51 pm

How can I get over myself when you actually did dedicate your screen name to me.

I’m special. :D

Raqi

August 20th, 2009
4:52 pm

Caught? Yes, by my late mother-in-law.

Caught once by my dad when my pre-hubby was checking out my new thong.

Beautiful now giving middle finga to Moca

August 20th, 2009
4:52 pm

another lol day. i love it! nite.

Professor…

August 20th, 2009
4:53 pm

…stepping out and wishing everyone a good evening.

Jamoca - "Be" That Voodoo Chile

August 20th, 2009
4:55 pm

Blog pharoah must know better today…

Again, unless I’m reading you wrong…why would I insert your name Angie?

Leggs

August 20th, 2009
4:58 pm

Goodnight everyone!

Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don’t save it for a special occasion. Today is special!

Peace out…(my cheeks hurt)!

mytw♥cents

August 20th, 2009
4:59 pm

VOODOO CHILE What you got abrewin??? LMBAO

Church lady

August 20th, 2009
5:00 pm

Leggs i see we’z dun lost yous too. chuuch lady now sad

Jamoca - "Be" That Voodoo Chile

August 20th, 2009
5:02 pm

MYTWO – Like the pharoah of the blog, you already know…hence “him” being on the lookout for all the VooDoo Chile submits…love that he knows me well…just like yourself. ;)

Compelling

August 20th, 2009
5:13 pm

@ WD- Yeah, they’ve just learned to deal with my random fits of laughter throughout the day. It’s been a tough day at work…I’m so happy that Friday is right around the corner. I live for the weekends.

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