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Real Men Smile

It’s never fun to date the serious, uptight, completely devoid of a sense of humor type person. Sure, they have their great qualities: reliable and dependable, practical and logical, blah blah. Whatever, I don’t trust people that don’t ever smile. Why so serious!?

I know that so many of us cope with day to day stress, some more than others. We all have things we are struggling with or trying to figure out, it’s called adulthood. However, when you lose your smile and can’t find laughter in your life, you become a lot less appealing to people you may want to attract.

The last time you were asked out on a date, were you smiling and having a good time? Yeah, there is reason for that! Who is going to approach the ice queen or the mean mugging man? I don’t care how hot you are, if you are walking around looking unhappy and uptight, you are turning folks off!

If you are in a social setting, make sure you are up to mingling and engaging with people…with a smile. I never understand why people go to parties or mixers and don’t bother to speak to anyone other then their own friends.

So what does it take to make you smile?

Ladies, when was the last time a man made you smile? Perhaps it was a random encounter or a sweet gesture that did the trick. How did you respond? Did you reciprocate?

Men, why do you insist on walking around like Mr. Tough Guy all the time? Is it lame for you to smile or something?

What has a woman done for you or to you that made you smile? insert your own naughty joke here

How can women bring a smile to your face if she is on a date with you?  What about when you are in a relationship or married? It’s the little things, right? DVR’ing your favorite shows, wearing nothing but your dress shirt when you get home, let us know how we can lift your mood and get a smile out of you!

Have you ever been on a date with someone and they just would not smile?

442 comments Add your comment

Kym

August 11th, 2009
4:46 pm

@W8 no it is not serious it is sad. Sick and very sad..Hell your blues are not like mine..I got my own problems..why in the world would anyone take the time to go back and try to piece together bits of nameles, faceless folks lives..just so they can have something to talk about between 9-5 the next day? That my dear sir is sad.

Magnum

August 11th, 2009
4:47 pm

*POOF*

Annnnnnnnnnnd — I’m BACK….

Page1908

August 11th, 2009
4:47 pm

LOL W8- tu no tiene un vida! lol

Beautiful♥

August 11th, 2009
4:48 pm

@W8
he was doomed from the start. poor thang.

Beautiful♥

August 11th, 2009
4:48 pm

lol @ magnum!

AmazonRed™

August 11th, 2009
4:50 pm

Kym – That’s why I chuckled when Longtime Lurker suggested that folks come back and “read some later” if they didn’t get it.

For what? :lol:

Magnum

August 11th, 2009
4:51 pm

@Beautiful: yeah, had to go get my azz kicked for the day right-quick….. WHEW!!!

Page1908

August 11th, 2009
4:51 pm

Like i said….why does it even matter? Folks always say the blog ppl don’t matter to them or what they do, so why does it matter anyway?

Angie- You will just have to cook enough food for everyone that is coming. Are they mostly adults or mostly kids?

Lady Low

August 11th, 2009
4:51 pm

However, there are a lot of wimpy dudes out there too. We were separated for a year before the final decree, seems like the ones I’ve met get all attached quick when I tell them this is just for kicks. Why is that?

Dance All Days Long | All Days Long

August 11th, 2009
4:52 pm

[...] Real Men Smile | Misadventures in Atlanta By Wise Diva That song makes me dance every time. So there I was moving to the rhythm of that sweet melody relaxed in my fav tank and b-shorts. I was just entranced in the air of the music when I felt from behind a hand grip my hip, ….. i like to see a man smile, but not too much. its not natural. i work with a lot of gay men and they smile all day long. now what i like to see is a man laugh. it lets me know he can open up a lil and relax. not be so serious all the time. … Misadventures in Atlanta – http://blogs.ajc.com/misadventures-in-atlanta/ [...]

ja bingo

August 11th, 2009
4:52 pm

Yall getting on beautiful but yall come on a blog to discuss how much partying yall doing together why don’t yall just pick up a phone and talk yall can do a conference call or sumthin

Beautiful♥

August 11th, 2009
4:56 pm

@Page
i would say mostly adults. the most of the kids that are coming eat like grown folks. i’ve been hittin’ up every tri tip, chicken, ribs and hotlink sale! lol. this is gonna cost me a pretty penny.

W8©

August 11th, 2009
4:58 pm

what it do Magnum…i got my workout in this morning..i dont know how you do it in the middle of the day..it’s my second day…im still in it..lol

Sexy@Cool.com

August 11th, 2009
4:58 pm

Dance – said, work with a lot of gay men and they smile all day long.

Now THAT is funny to me.

They gay ain’t they supposed to be happy?

W8©

August 11th, 2009
4:59 pm

Leggs

August 11th, 2009
4:59 pm

Goodnight everyone!

An invisible man marries an invisible woman. The kids were nothing to look at either!

Peace!

Beautiful♥

August 11th, 2009
5:00 pm

@ja
sup? lol. why waste your keystrokes? these bloggers love to hate beautiful. i was told cause i’m too honest. now that’s sad. i refuse to travel in their pack. i will continue to be me.

AmazonRed™

August 11th, 2009
5:00 pm

Page – Is your 4:51 directed to anyone in particular? Cuz I have an answer. :lol:

Alas, the blog is closing for the day. :lol:

Til tomorrow peoples!!!

AmazonRed™

August 11th, 2009
5:01 pm

Angie no one hates on you and no one things you’re “too honest.” Get real. :lol:

Magnum

August 11th, 2009
5:01 pm

@Beautiful: I don’t hate you… I don’t know you- nor shall I judge you… Now, AL DAVIS – I hate him. LOL

W8©

August 11th, 2009
5:02 pm

Live ya life…ayaya ayaaaaaaaaaaaa

Beautiful♥

August 11th, 2009
5:03 pm

@AR
then you one blind azz mf then.

W8©

August 11th, 2009
5:04 pm

@Magnum-don’t her just walk on the other side of the street when you pass her…lmao

Beautiful♥

August 11th, 2009
5:04 pm

@magnum
i like you too. you funny!

W8©

August 11th, 2009
5:05 pm

Someone needs to invent a drink that tastes like Asian Ginger salad dressing

W8©

August 11th, 2009
5:06 pm

@Angie- you know is my alias on here…

Just kidding..I am not Magnum…lmao

AmazonRed™

August 11th, 2009
5:06 pm

Meet Angie…the blog victim. Woe is her. :lol:

LMAO @ Magnum’s hating on Al Davis. It’s gonna be a loooong season pal!

Beautiful♥

August 11th, 2009
5:07 pm

AmazonRed™

August 11th, 2009
5:09 pm

Someone needs to invent a drink that tastes like Asian Ginger salad dressing

W8 – I’m with that. It’s my favorite dressing.

I had some strawberry lemonade ginger martinis recently, they were goot! (yes, goot!)

W8©

August 11th, 2009
5:09 pm

Beautiful♥

August 11th, 2009
5:10 pm

i admit, i used to feel like the blog victim. now *middle finga* to you and you and you. lol.

thanks for the smiles today.

W8©

August 11th, 2009
5:10 pm

@Angie- Magnum is my brother and we swap women…….

AmazonRed™

August 11th, 2009
5:12 pm

Aw…look at Angie…her testicles have dropped. :lol:

Beautiful♥

August 11th, 2009
5:12 pm

especially you AR! lol. i can’t stand yo azz.

@W8
really? send me a pic of you two.

AmazonRed™

August 11th, 2009
5:14 pm

i can’t stand yo azz.

Sounds like a personal problem to me!

Magnum

August 11th, 2009
5:14 pm

@ARed – long only if he lives through it! But if he doesn’t…. SHOTS ON DECK, SONNNN !!!!

@W8 – TRUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUE DAT.

Beautiful♥

August 11th, 2009
5:17 pm

a personal problem is when you can’t pay your mortgage.

i just remembered that i need music for saturday!

Beautiful♥

August 11th, 2009
5:19 pm

good night W8! nite Magnum!

Magnum

August 11th, 2009
5:20 pm

REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEERRRRRR * CAT FIGHT !!!!! *

Magnum

August 11th, 2009
5:20 pm

AmazonRed™

August 11th, 2009
5:21 pm

Magnum – We have some good ones.

Pre-season shots son!!!

W8©

August 11th, 2009
5:26 pm

@Magnum- when they get started just step back…it’s funny watching these fiesty women