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Real Men Smile

It’s never fun to date the serious, uptight, completely devoid of a sense of humor type person. Sure, they have their great qualities: reliable and dependable, practical and logical, blah blah. Whatever, I don’t trust people that don’t ever smile. Why so serious!?

I know that so many of us cope with day to day stress, some more than others. We all have things we are struggling with or trying to figure out, it’s called adulthood. However, when you lose your smile and can’t find laughter in your life, you become a lot less appealing to people you may want to attract.

The last time you were asked out on a date, were you smiling and having a good time? Yeah, there is reason for that! Who is going to approach the ice queen or the mean mugging man? I don’t care how hot you are, if you are walking around looking unhappy and uptight, you are turning folks off!

If you are in a social setting, make sure you are up to mingling and engaging with people…with a smile. I never understand why people go to parties or mixers and don’t bother to speak to anyone other then their own friends.

So what does it take to make you smile?

Ladies, when was the last time a man made you smile? Perhaps it was a random encounter or a sweet gesture that did the trick. How did you respond? Did you reciprocate?

Men, why do you insist on walking around like Mr. Tough Guy all the time? Is it lame for you to smile or something?

What has a woman done for you or to you that made you smile? insert your own naughty joke here

How can women bring a smile to your face if she is on a date with you?  What about when you are in a relationship or married? It’s the little things, right? DVR’ing your favorite shows, wearing nothing but your dress shirt when you get home, let us know how we can lift your mood and get a smile out of you!

Have you ever been on a date with someone and they just would not smile?

442 comments Add your comment

Raqi

August 11th, 2009
3:41 pm

WiseDiva did you ever figure out that poll figure? There are a couple of polls I would like to see ran on here.

Beautiful♥

August 11th, 2009
3:41 pm

@Page
ain’t no rules on here. stop!

W8©

August 11th, 2009
3:41 pm

Me and my penis are really important…i’m feeling the love..lol

AmazonRed™

August 11th, 2009
3:42 pm

Who said that I am out of a relationship..who said how deep of one I am in if I am in it..who said if this person is from the blog or not…and who said anything about jumpoff booty?

W8 – Meet Angie. She takes stuff on here, adds her own stuff and then runs with it.

The most I’ve heard you say was that you were “off the market.” Which can be intrepeted as being unavailable but we all know how quickly that can change!

W8©

August 11th, 2009
3:42 pm

@Angie- it doesnt bother me..and like you said there are no rules…i just play a way more serious game…lmao

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

August 11th, 2009
3:42 pm

Yall remember that song, “I Love Your Smile” by Shanice Wilson, who married Flex Alexander? A nice, happy little tune!

I’m gonna put that new black mini on my charge anyway, cause I love your smile!

JoyFulOne aka Sidelines

August 11th, 2009
3:44 pm

W8…lol, I didn’t take it all, just one slice!!! :)

Kimmie…uh, huh, I thought so!!! I ain’t mad atcha, girl! That cake was sooooo good and you know they only got a pinch of it, right? I had to fight for the rest of the cake!

Page…I saw the pics, thanks…all the pics came out nice!!!

I look forward to seeing you guys again, y’all are too much fun!!!

And, wheres Magnum…”May I have your attention please….shots on deck”!!!!! lmao…everytime he said that…I was like whaaaa’…is something wrong??

W8©

August 11th, 2009
3:44 pm

@Ared- thank you..

@Angie- I am still “off the market” interpret that how you want…lmao…moon starts quasars…lol

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

August 11th, 2009
3:44 pm

W8 – It’s an ancient Chinese secret!LOL!! I’ll tell you offline!

Mo (aka Moeisha)

August 11th, 2009
3:44 pm

Page1908 – so glad you didnt tell Butterball to call me. I like his music but easy on the eyes he is not!! LOL!

Kym – LMAO @ your last post!

Kimmie – that song is sooo cute, cant help but like it

Tazzee - back to reality

August 11th, 2009
3:45 pm

I’m glad you guys had a ball this weekend. Next time, please check my vacation schedule before setting the date. TYVM ;-)

Kym

August 11th, 2009
3:45 pm

@W8 Look don’t brang (Now the day is dragging and filled with blog foolishness..let me go see who done shot who today!

And my son just called to say he is too old to take his lunch to school..I don’t know if I want to smile or cry.

AmazonRed™

August 11th, 2009
3:46 pm

I’m gonna put that new black mini on my charge anyway, cause I love your smile!

kimmmie – That song is a classic!

Mo (aka Moeisha)

August 11th, 2009
3:46 pm

And Sidelines – good to meet ya chica

Page1908

August 11th, 2009
3:46 pm

LOL Mo- Girl, you know Butterball is taller than you, so you should be ok with that! lmao.

Angie- Ummmmmm ok well. whatever. I’m trying to understand you, but, ok.

Sexy@Cool.com

August 11th, 2009
3:48 pm

Joyful One – Cool of you to get off the ’sidelines’ and into the game. ~~lol~~

Mo (aka Moeisha)

August 11th, 2009
3:52 pm

Page1908 – yeah you know I dont do eye level, swinging feet is only cute on one us: me! LOL!

JoyFulOne aka Sidelines

August 11th, 2009
3:54 pm

Mo…you too!!!

Sexy…lmao, yeah I know!!!! lol…thank you wiseone!!! Please keep the 3 Wrds of the day coming! I really do enjoy them…:)

W8©

August 11th, 2009
3:54 pm

@Kimmie- I can cook but I cannot bake..thanks for the secret..but I will not attempt to duplicate your masterpiece’s ..ever

@Tazzee=”sorry i wont be able to make it I am at the beach”

@Kym- my daughter still likes taking her lunch to school for some reason…she has like 3 different funky looking UGA lunch bags/boxes

W8©

August 11th, 2009
3:55 pm

@Mo- who is taller you or NJ?

The Real Rell - operation vanilla pudding is on!!!

August 11th, 2009
3:57 pm

@w8….Mo…lol..that chick was short..cute but short…but “white shorts”…now that lil stick of dynomite….is ummmmmmmmm good!!

Beautiful♥

August 11th, 2009
3:58 pm

@W8
i was giving you a hard time and i must say you took it like a true champ!

@kimmie
i love that song too. i met her before she hit it big. her and my ex were good buds.

Jamoca

August 11th, 2009
3:58 pm

Jamoca walks into the blog lounge…looks to her left, then to her right…and back to her left again

One. Hot. Stankin’. High School Musical. Mess. What in da heyal??? Folks just need to stop. This here is just sad…worrying about the wrong dayum thang…

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

August 11th, 2009
3:59 pm

I remember we always had to eat in the cafeteria, so the few times my mother packed us a lunch, we went crazy!

W8©

August 11th, 2009
4:00 pm

lmao@Rell- Yeah Mo was finally taller than another adult…I have to figure out a way to get those “white shorts” in front of you again..lol

@Angie- I know who I am and who I am not :)

Sexy@Cool.com

August 11th, 2009
4:00 pm

Oh, I knew there was something else I wanted to say about ’smiling men’.

I really don’t care if a man walks around grinning all the time. A pleasant expression can acceptable. Flashing your pearly whites? You may look a little short-bus-ish.

All I care about is that when mine looks at me, he smiles.

Page1908

August 11th, 2009
4:01 pm

LOL no one is taller than Mo, NJ, or white shorts. I’m gonna put NJ in my purse because White shorts is way too hyper. LOL she is like 10 times more hyper than I am. That is why we always talk loud and get hyped when we talk to each other lol.

W8©

August 11th, 2009
4:02 pm

Hmm Dungy has said today that Vick should be signed THIS week…no thing is Dungy is hella credible…I hope Vick doesnt end up in our division

Mo (aka Moeisha)

August 11th, 2009
4:03 pm

W8 – you really didnt ask me who was shorter did you?? LOL! If there were no kids there then it would have been me, even w heels!

W8©

August 11th, 2009
4:03 pm

lol@page go see what NY said under that picture of she and I..lol

W8©

August 11th, 2009
4:03 pm

@Mo..you are taller than white shorts and NJ

Kym

August 11th, 2009
4:05 pm

@Beautiful..”You aint got to lie chick..you aint got to lie..you were not giving that man a hard time for the fun of it..you just nosy as hell. You troll for info so you can go back and gossip and speculate..and keep stuff fired up…all the way in Cali. Mind your tired behind business..keep up with your shiggdy..stay in your lane.

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

August 11th, 2009
4:05 pm

SCool – I tell you this, I’m a sucker for some nice teeth! So if a dude does smile a lot, his teeth better be pearly white – not gold, crooked, missing, rotten, blinged-out, etc!LOL!!

The Real Rell - operation vanilla pudding is on!!!

August 11th, 2009
4:05 pm

awww white shorts…..white shorts….i am going to bust a song out like dude from hangover..about white shorts..lol

Page1908

August 11th, 2009
4:07 pm

LOL Jolly W8 Giant. LOL NJ is so cute.

AmazonRed™

August 11th, 2009
4:07 pm

I have to figure out a way to get those “white shorts” in front of you again..lol

Aw…how sad. :lol:

Beautiful♥

August 11th, 2009
4:07 pm

@Big One aka Kym
lol. what?

Sexy@Cool.com

August 11th, 2009
4:07 pm

Kimmie – feelin’ ya’ lady…

Page1908

August 11th, 2009
4:08 pm

Lmao Kym! Ok. Angie just came out of left field with that one, then said “oh well, who cares”. lol

LOL Kimmie- i agree with u!

Page1908

August 11th, 2009
4:09 pm

White shorts is spoken for.

AmazonRed™

August 11th, 2009
4:09 pm

you were not giving that man a hard time for the fun of it..you just nosy as hell

:lol: No one bought that “giving you a hard time” excuse in the first place though.

Beautiful♥

August 11th, 2009
4:09 pm

if W8 didn’t know i was messin’ with him, that’s his issue. but he did what i expected and seen right thru me.

W8©

August 11th, 2009
4:10 pm

@Ared- Rell is my patna dem…and she is single…and I am the go between…so yup we are gonna make it happen..lol

CMB!!!! We all we got….not to be confused with CLD..lol

Kym

August 11th, 2009
4:11 pm

@Beautiful sweetheart really do you want to go there will me. Fine I’m bored and have 30 mins to spare.

Full figures come and go but stupid..stupid is forever. But hey Beautiful I must say you wear stupid well.

W8©

August 11th, 2009
4:11 pm

@Page- no she isnt..I talked to her and she is single and I asked her if she was entertaining new men and she said yup…stop hatin…LOL

.

August 11th, 2009
4:11 pm

Backpedaling burns a lot of calories.

AmazonRed™

August 11th, 2009
4:12 pm

and I am the go between…so yup we are gonna make it happen..lol

W8 – You and Page already provided the venue. If folks didn’t make it happen for themselves…well…

Nevermind. :lol:

Godspeed, homie. :lol:

Beautiful♥

August 11th, 2009
4:12 pm

@Page
if it did happen, who cares? but i wasn’t bout to waste this opportunity to get him back for playin’ wit me in the past. lol.

Page1908

August 11th, 2009
4:13 pm

LOL ok W8. whatever you say then. go for it. no need to hate. *trust*. only one dude has her heart.

Beautiful♥

August 11th, 2009
4:14 pm

@Kym
poor baby! lol.