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Real Men Smile

It’s never fun to date the serious, uptight, completely devoid of a sense of humor type person. Sure, they have their great qualities: reliable and dependable, practical and logical, blah blah. Whatever, I don’t trust people that don’t ever smile. Why so serious!?

I know that so many of us cope with day to day stress, some more than others. We all have things we are struggling with or trying to figure out, it’s called adulthood. However, when you lose your smile and can’t find laughter in your life, you become a lot less appealing to people you may want to attract.

The last time you were asked out on a date, were you smiling and having a good time? Yeah, there is reason for that! Who is going to approach the ice queen or the mean mugging man? I don’t care how hot you are, if you are walking around looking unhappy and uptight, you are turning folks off!

If you are in a social setting, make sure you are up to mingling and engaging with people…with a smile. I never understand why people go to parties or mixers and don’t bother to speak to anyone other then their own friends.

So what does it take to make you smile?

Ladies, when was the last time a man made you smile? Perhaps it was a random encounter or a sweet gesture that did the trick. How did you respond? Did you reciprocate?

Men, why do you insist on walking around like Mr. Tough Guy all the time? Is it lame for you to smile or something?

What has a woman done for you or to you that made you smile? insert your own naughty joke here

How can women bring a smile to your face if she is on a date with you?  What about when you are in a relationship or married? It’s the little things, right? DVR’ing your favorite shows, wearing nothing but your dress shirt when you get home, let us know how we can lift your mood and get a smile out of you!

Have you ever been on a date with someone and they just would not smile?

442 comments Add your comment

mytw♥cents dba d♥s centav♥s

August 11th, 2009
2:55 pm

Happy Place…

W8 – You would probably know by now…she’d have given you a blog rose lmao!
Angie- I used to luv when you did that for some reason. Oh yeah, cuz the bleep was entertaing as hell, girl.

Beautiful♥

August 11th, 2009
2:56 pm

this right here is the reason why i’m saving myself for the man who wants to spend the rest of his life with me.

giving my goodies to a man (1) who is not mine and (2) who will tell my business is not gonna happen anytime soon.

like TRUTH said, if you don’t treat your stuff like gold, no one will.

W8©

August 11th, 2009
2:58 pm

@My2- that was a joke on my part…

But today is not the day I am okay but just in a foul mood for some reason, done my research…I am lock and loaded ready to fire..

AmazonRed™

August 11th, 2009
2:58 pm

giving my goodies to a man (1) who is not mine and (2) who will tell my business is not gonna happen anytime soon.

LMAO. Angie, are you calling W8 messy? :lol:

AmazonRed™

August 11th, 2009
2:59 pm

I am lock and loaded ready to fire..

W8 – Then what are you aiting for?! You were provoked! :twisted:

Kym

August 11th, 2009
2:59 pm

Okay did I miss something? W8 we all know who it is..there are only two shiddy starters(regular shiddy starters) in this piece.

I am smilling now because I heard from a old coworker who brought back great memories..

Beautiful♥

August 11th, 2009
3:00 pm

@MY2
i forgot how to make the rose. :o (

W8©

August 11th, 2009
3:00 pm

LOL @Ared- me messy naw…if i do or if i have slept with someone from here I know that the both of us are mature enough not to blog about it…lmao…unless it was that good then i might just tell the world (like old boy did with Sunshine in Harlem Nights)

Sexy@Cool.com

August 11th, 2009
3:01 pm

Get ya’ popcooooorrrrrrn ready! lol!

W8©

August 11th, 2009
3:02 pm

@Ared- because I would purposely ruin that persons life…just cuz

@Kym- aint nothing wrong with making sure..lmao

AmazonRed™

August 11th, 2009
3:03 pm

or if i have slept with someone from here

:twisted:

I’m only talking because I popped a fresh batch of popcorn and I don’t want it to go to waste. Don’t let some folks start playing guessing games cuz they guess wrong. :lol:

Beautiful♥

August 11th, 2009
3:03 pm

kinda. how did their nekkid game of twister get to this blog? hmmm.

mytw♥cents dba d♥s centav♥s

August 11th, 2009
3:03 pm

W8 I know, man. Mine too – I like to bring up the blog rose phenomenom. I know ya gonna keep ya composure…

Cuz iffn you don’t… OMG :eek: OMG :shock: OMG

Lord Velonese (insert trendy Quote here)

August 11th, 2009
3:03 pm

WD Wrote:
“Why so serious!?”

(You have to say it like the joker first) Because life is serious.

WD wrote:
“I never understand why people go to parties or mixers and don’t bother to speak to anyone other then their own friends.”

Because they are there for there friends. DUH

WD wrote again:
“Men, why do you insist on walking around like Mr. Tough Guy all the time? Is it lame for you to smile or something?”

Because some of us DON’T like to be messed with period.

WD wrote yet again:
“What has a woman done for you or to you that made you smile?”

Staying the hell away.

WD keeps on writing:
“So what does it take to make you smile?”

Me, myself, and I.

Their is nothing a woman can do for me that I can’t do for myself and I like it that way as some other men. I am strong independent man hear me roar as it blows your eardrums to pieces!

AmazonRed™

August 11th, 2009
3:04 pm

because I would purposely ruin that persons life…just cuz

W8 – You scare me sometimes. :lol:

Why don’t we stop short of that. It is just a blog. Just busting their regular screen name out should be embarrassing enough. :lol:

AmazonRed™

August 11th, 2009
3:05 pm

“What has a woman done for you or to you that made you smile?”

Staying the hell away.

:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

AmazonRed™

August 11th, 2009
3:07 pm

kinda. how did their nekkid game of twister get to this blog? hmmm.

:???: Angie, when did it?

Are you confusing your offline gossiping with what is really happening ON the blog. We know you’ve made such mistakes before….

Or maybe I’m just not paying close enough attention cuz I don’t see why it MATTERS!

W8©

August 11th, 2009
3:08 pm

@Ared- nope…folks get over embarrassment..I like to leave memories…daily memories

mytw♥cents dba d♥s centav♥s

August 11th, 2009
3:08 pm

Say it ain’t so, Angie. Ya know I can’t tell ya how.

Mo (aka Moeisha)

August 11th, 2009
3:10 pm

Okay I have my caramel popcorn now can anyone spare a pepsi?? Where is Staceye when you need her? ARed arent you a pepsi drinker too?

Beautiful♥

August 11th, 2009
3:10 pm

at 2:02 today smart azz! lol.

Sexy@Cool.com

August 11th, 2009
3:10 pm

My actual thought on all this is – the place to be when it comes to grown folks’ business that does not involve me is not in it.

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

August 11th, 2009
3:11 pm

I always wanted to make one of those roses, but I never had the patience to figure out how!LOL!!

AmazonRed™

August 11th, 2009
3:11 pm

Angie, you’re putting credibility in an internet troll? :lol:

AmazonRed™

August 11th, 2009
3:12 pm

ARed arent you a pepsi drinker too?

Mo – My house is stocked with Coke, but only because I’ve been brainwashed. I still love a good Pepsi! :lol:

"Longtime Lurker"

August 11th, 2009
3:13 pm

@LV’s 3:03..LOLLLLLL

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

August 11th, 2009
3:13 pm

I love fine AA men with nice biceps.

Beautiful♥

August 11th, 2009
3:14 pm

you make me sick. lol. i’m playin’ along jus like you! now pass the popcorn!

Beautiful♥

August 11th, 2009
3:15 pm

bottom line, who cares. glad it ain’t me. i’ve been topic enough on here. lol.

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

August 11th, 2009
3:16 pm

You gotta be my friendzo, if you wanna ride in the Benzo!

"Longtime Lurker"

August 11th, 2009
3:17 pm

@kimmie…Uhhh..I have nice arms, with two big ole “hooks” on both and I am AA and been called fine a few times… You like me better now..lol

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

August 11th, 2009
3:20 pm

LL – Well you better be ripped if you wanna use the initials LL!LOL!!

You need to be tall too, need to add that!LOL!!

Beautiful♥

August 11th, 2009
3:20 pm

@kimmie
it’s something like this: ((0))–<–<—

W8©

August 11th, 2009
3:21 pm

I wonder if my stock is going to soar or plummet because of today’s blog…lmao..I think I am beginning to start smelling myself…..(laying out the bait now cuz I really want to play)

"Longtime Lurker"

August 11th, 2009
3:21 pm

Kimmie, we are actually the same size same build! I am 6-2, 227. Measurements 48 – 36 Coat to waist

Leggs

August 11th, 2009
3:22 pm

Awwwww, the first sip of Fanta Orange is so refreshing!

The Real Rell - operation vanilla pudding is on!!!

August 11th, 2009
3:25 pm

@BOOTIFULL

ITS LIKE THIS @>->–

Page1908

August 11th, 2009
3:26 pm

LOL @ W8- smelling hisself. OMG your stock probably did go up. lol

Beautiful♥

August 11th, 2009
3:27 pm

@W8
i’ve read you a couple of times saying you have someone special in your life that you are gettin’ to know. why ruin it with jump off booty? are you weak when it comes to controlling your urges? is she not that special to be exclusive? are you not seeing her anymore?

what happened?

or are you saying that this didn’t happen and/or a lie?

JoyFulOne aka Sidelines

August 11th, 2009
3:28 pm

lmao…sigh!!!

Afternoon everyone…I’ve been lurking for a minute, but I wanted to pop in and say heyyyyyyy to you guys, especially Sexy Cool, Mytwo, Mo, Page…lets see, Rell, For Real, W8, Magnum and Demi…Oh and Sassy, I read yestrdys blog and see that she lft for vacay!!!! I really really enjoyed myself and wanted to pop in to let you guys know!

I know I’m a day late on the subject, but I had a blast meeting everyone saturday evening…it was so nice to finally put names with a face, and Kimmie I know you weren’t there, but OMGoodness…that rum cake was delish…uhmm, can I put in an order in or sutin’…lol??? I brought a piece home and everyone who had a piece was asking for your recipe…I was like I don’t think she’ll give the recipe, but I’ll see about an order.

ON Topic: I’ve read you guys today and I can agree with most of your points! However, IMO…nothing says more about a perception (being the key word here) of a person and where they are in life than when you walk by and they smile and say hello…even if your not feeling your self that day, it tends to brighten yours…and how does the saying goes “even exchange (no matter what it is…a smile, a favor, money…etc.) ain’t grand larceny”! With that being said, I totally hear you ARed when you say that how one person feels or what ever the perception they give off has nothing to do with another. If you ain’t feel’n it, you ain’t feel’n it!!! So, jus’ keep it movin’….in the end all you can do is YOU, you don’t have control over other folks’ actions. Sometimes you just have to let it be and not take it personal.

Kym

August 11th, 2009
3:28 pm

This whole thread from top to bottom filled with Foolishness I tell you High School Musical Foolishness!! –if you are not mature enough to screw and not feel compelled to tell the damn world or a gossiping ass–then you should not be screwing.

JoyFulOne aka Sidelines

August 11th, 2009
3:29 pm

lmao…my bad for the long post!!! I know blog citation….lol!

W8©

August 11th, 2009
3:33 pm

@Beautiful-Who said that I am out of a relationship..who said how deep of one I am in if I am in it..who said if this person is from the blog or not…and who said anything about jumpoff booty? I didnt say any of those things so what you are saying and asking me is purely speculation…because I have not spoken on any of that…just like this post right now..I am not saying nothing anything because it’s my personal business

@Kym- exactly I havent said a thing on here..but yet speculation has become fact….for some…lmao

AmazonRed™

August 11th, 2009
3:36 pm

I wonder if my stock is going to soar or plummet because of today’s blog…lmao..

W8 – If someone has gotten to you already on here, you’re damaged goods now.

I vote for plummet.

W8©

August 11th, 2009
3:36 pm

@Joyful/Sidelines- lol you startled me when you said hey “W8″ cuz in person folks call me by my name…I spoke back and then I asked who was that..they said “sidelines” from the blog…still didnt know who you were..but it was nice to meet you :) and you were the one who took the rum cake huh…besides Demi..lol

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

August 11th, 2009
3:37 pm

Joy – Thank you, I’m glad you enjoyed it, yes you can put in an order anytime, but the recipe is “patent pending”!LOL

Page1908

August 11th, 2009
3:37 pm

Hey Sidelines! Nice meeting you too. The pics came out cute!!

Page1908

August 11th, 2009
3:39 pm

LOL W8- Yeah, you know I never call u W8!

Angie- Ok, well, you posted that stuff, then later on you said “who cares”. Soooo, if you don’t care, why bother posting anything on it. Why would it matter either way if he did or didn’t?

Beautiful♥

August 11th, 2009
3:39 pm

@W8
i’m just asking questions that others are not comfortable with asking. you’re the topic, deal with it!

if it’s not true, it’s not true. now you know what i go thru. lol.

W8©

August 11th, 2009
3:39 pm

Kimmie- you have a heavy hand with the rum..but its not overbearing….how do you do that?