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No, Seriously

I was asked what the dating scene in Atlanta was like recently. I smiled and said, well, you need three things: healthy dose of self-esteem, loads of patience, and a sense of humor. I think that is pretty much going to keep your dating drama to a minimum.

In your opinion, when you are getting to know someone, is it a waste of time to get to know someone that you think has little potential for “MVP status” with you? I ask because, I think so many times we completely miss the mark on who is actually a good match for us.

Have you ever met someone who seemed like a colossal waste of time, then they turned out to be a great thing?

Are we not willing to take risks in dating anymore? Does that make us big chickens when it comes to match in love and romance?

If you are brave enough to want an actual relationship with someone, how long does it usually take before you take the person seriously? Is it more about their behavior and consistency or the amount of time they have managed not to repulse you? Perhaps a little of both? What are your thoughts?

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The Real Rell

August 4th, 2009
8:44 am

loads of patience

- biggest problem with me…i have none

Is it more about their behavior and consistency

- consistency!!!

mytw♥tatas

August 4th, 2009
8:52 am

I always take fellas seriously…until shown that I cannot. Not sitting around thinkin every dude’s playing games. BUT. Time is of the essence because it’s so precious and my frolicking 20s are over. Not tryna waste it on anyone who can’t add non-monetary value.

I think it’s definitely wise to factor in how much or how little the person has done to repulse you, Wisey. That’s a fabulous gauge! Who the bleep are we to have the magnanimous standards and 12 feet walls for potentials to scale if/when we can barely crest the minimun requirements across the board. There will be high arcs where we excel and then spots where we need improvent. Basically when you factor it all in, we’l mostly be average or slightly above average. But you’re probably some kin to it no matter how you slice it.

Today’s soapbox statement sponsored by the Producers and Participants last night’s episodes of “Dating in the Dark…” Have a lovely day, all.

The Real Rell

August 4th, 2009
9:07 am

this is why he is my favorite comic

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QC

August 4th, 2009
9:26 am

Morning Bloggers..i’m with you Relly Rell it’s my PATIENCE…I’m trying to do better :( Have a great day bloggers

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 4th, 2009
9:27 am

Mernin Ya’ll

I date just long enough to get you in your birthday suit. I’m kidding maybe.

Seriously it depends on the person as to how it goes. If shes intriguing enough to make keep me wanting to date her I will. If not I guess I wont. Oddly enough I have found myself putting women in the dreaded friend zone after things do pan out the way I thought they should.

In today’s society it instant gratification and thats what we want but the sooner we realize fine wine takes time to ferment then it will happen for us.

AmazonRed™

August 4th, 2009
9:28 am

Morning all –

people ask me all the time how the dating scene in ATL is. I tell them it’s very easy to get a date, and harder to lock someone down. There are a lot of choices here. All in all, I enjoy it.

Yes, I think it is a waste to time to date someone who has little potential. Folks will show you who they are, and if they’re not to your standards, why go there? If someone is going to magically morph into someone you’d eventually date, there is no need to be put through the ringer while it happens. Have him holla back.

As for taking someone seriously, you will get that from the beginning. I’ll take you seriously until you prove you are not to be taken seriously, then you’re an afterthought.

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 4th, 2009
9:29 am

I’ll be forever mackin’
Heart cold as assassins, I got no passion
I got no patience and I hate waitin’
Mami get your a$$ in
And let’s RI-I-I-I-I-IDE

Professor

August 4th, 2009
9:39 am

Happy Tuesday!

I do not have a lot of patience, nor do I have a lot of time however I am serious from the start. I am one of those that know what I want so that is not a problem for me sitting in limbo and always changing things up. Simply put, I know who I am and I know what I want.

As for allowing someone to waste my time…never that, but I really try to give men the benefit of doubt. One more point I have learned that every wo/man you meet is not for relationship purposes even if they look good on paper. So normally if things are not going well and dude is good people I will still keep in contact and for other networking opportunities. This rule of thumb has been beneficial to me on the business side and making some good connections.

Confession: I am working on my patience and I have done okay this year with carving out time for myself.

M.

August 4th, 2009
9:42 am

This is my theory on the dating scene in Atlanta (I have used this for years): It is alot like shopping at Marshalls; you know there is a great deal in here somewhere (a cashmere sweater, cologne, set of wine glasses whatever!) but you will get so exhausted looking through all the misc. stuff that when you do find something, you may be to tired to want to deal with it!

I know for a fact my biggest dealbreaker with Atlanta women is the FLAKINESS! It has costed me plenty of girls who I thought were cool then they act like they are to busy or its fast paced in the beginning and then mellows out quickly.

Am I somewhat right people?

Professor

August 4th, 2009
9:43 am

Let me address these…

Are we not willing to take risks in dating anymore? I am, never scared of taking a risk in dating or loving. One of my favorite songs by Lee Ann Womack states

Lovin’ might be a mistake
But it’s worth making
Don’t let some hell bent heart
Leave you bitter

So I have no problem taking a break and getting back on the field.

Does that make us big chickens when it comes to love and romance? No me I AM a lion, tiger and bear all in one!

Professor

August 4th, 2009
9:47 am

@ M…I love the shopping at Marshall’s analogy. I agree with the fast pace beginnings and the mellowing out (I call that evaporation).

IMO I really think that is just part of the game the person is playing especially for those that have motives (looking for a sugar daddy or sugar momma, sex etc.)

Page1908

August 4th, 2009
9:48 am

I just realized (or maybe I forgot) over the weekend while out with Staceye that when it comes to dating, she sees it in a way that the dudes start off, they automatically have an “F” grade, until they show and prove they can work themselves up to an “A” grade. For me, I see it in a way that when the dudes start off, they automatically have an “A” grade, until (or if) they show and prove otherwise and at that time I will adjust accordingly. I thought this was interesting.

SexyCool/W8/Staceye- LOL at me not be able to say I lost. Ok, so me and Staceye won in Taboo, but I guess “I didn’t technically win” when I played W8 in “rock, paper, scissors”. LOL. All these years I have been winning with “knife”…I had no clue I couldn’t use that one! lmao.

Tazzee - looking for Friday

August 4th, 2009
9:53 am

Morning Folks!

I give guys the benefit of the doubt. Personally I try to look for the upside in everyone. Now if a dude is blatantly disrespectful he gets nothing.

There’s one guy I met that seemed to be too obnoxious for me. I still think he is, but he’s now a nice associate. After our first few interactions I intuitively knew we could never date but he’s a cool guy overall.

As for risks in dating – it doesn’t take long for the ‘issues’ to manifest. You know, those things that turn a potential love interest into a ‘DNA’. The times that I did take a ‘risk’ with someone I didn’t think I would like…well my initial thoughts were confirmed.

SexyCool - If you knew the path I've traveled ...

August 4th, 2009
9:54 am

Three Words Daily – Instinct or Logic?

The Real Rell

August 4th, 2009
9:56 am

@M

Atlanta women is the FLAKINESS! It has costed me plenty of girls who I thought were cool then they act like they are to busy or its fast paced in the beginning and then mellows out quickly.

- not just atlanta but most WOMEN ARE FLAKES

Page1908

August 4th, 2009
9:59 am

LOL @ “most women are flakes”. wow

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

August 4th, 2009
10:01 am

Morning good blog people!

I’ll start toward the end of the topic. I am not afraid to take small risks in dating & love. I did that with the current SO. I met him in a way that was unconventional for me. I took a chance and it is paying off. But yes, if people are chickens in love & romance, there is reason for it. People used to meet at church or school and kind of grow up with a person. Or you met people thru others in your small family/social circle. There was safety there. Now theres the internet & facebook & night clubs and other ways that are not the most safe & reliable. It’s a big, cruel, dog eat dog world out there now. You have more options, but it’s not necessarily more quality with all the quantity.

As for the scene in ATL, I took myself out of the conventional scene soon after college graduation. I was turned off by the fake, phony and the games out in the cruel streets that come with any major metropolitan area, not just ATL. I am a native ATLian and I concentrate my social scene around mostly other natives or friends of those natives. My college friends which are life friends, a few friends from work, & those I’ve made doing things I enjoy & hobbies. This is a scene that is more comfortable for me to navigate in. The people I deal with on the regular are real and humble and share my values. The ATL I know & love.

SexyCool - If you knew the path I've traveled ...

August 4th, 2009
10:03 am

People are reasons, seasons, or lifetimes. I have learned appreciate for each encounter, contact, conversation, relationship, friendship and so on. I take what I need, give what I can and let the world keep turning on its axis.

As to risk, it’s like DasK always says, “Life is full of risk.” I add to that, if you’re not taking risks, you’re not really living. We attempt to be risk-averse to protect ourselves, but what we really do is tie the hands of the Universe and stifle our growth.

Page – Paper, scissors, rock, knife – who knew? I guess the knife is for stabbing. LOL!

AmazonRed™

August 4th, 2009
10:06 am

I am one of those that know what I want so that is not a problem for me sitting in limbo and always changing things up. Simply put, I know who I am and I know what I want.

Word.

M.

August 4th, 2009
10:07 am

@The Real Rell: True that

@Women: What’s with the Flakiness thing? Is this your way of wanting to be pursued or do you just like being chased around 285 to stroke your egos? :)

Page1908

August 4th, 2009
10:08 am

LOL SexyCool! You know I was pissed when I told W8 that knife beats rock and he was like “WTF Page! There is no knife…what are you doing”! I was like “uh?….Oh…my bad”. lmao

SexyCool - If you knew the path I've traveled ...

August 4th, 2009
10:08 am

Rell – There are some flaky-ass dudes around as well. (Notice, I said some – not broadstroking at all).

Hell, sometimes, I look at your blog posts and think, “Yeah, he’s really unstable today.”

Page1908

August 4th, 2009
10:10 am

LOL M. OMG I get lost on 285 all the time. Not because someone is chasing me around to stroke my ego, but because I have a horrible sense of direction. lmao.

SexyCool - If you knew the path I've traveled ...

August 4th, 2009
10:10 am

PageStab, stab, stab. Die, die, die.

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

August 4th, 2009
10:12 am

What’s with the Flakiness thing? Is this your way of wanting to be pursued or do you just like being chased around 285 to stroke your egos?

M. – The absolute same thing could be said about quite a few men here. You have so many choices, it’s hard for a lot of you to chose one. I agree with Amred in that it’s easy to meet people to date, but hard to close the deal with a commited relationship or marriage. But since you’ve put every woman here in that catagory in your mind, that’s the energy you now give off. Now that’s probably all you are attracting. Start looking at the man in the mirror before you make generalizations – just something to consider!

Professor

August 4th, 2009
10:13 am

Not to turn this into class, but usually when you have a bunch of flakiness, jive talking or acting, trivial-mindedness, being a know-it-all etc. it is the ego. The ego tends to make us feel like we know more than we do, we look better than we do and it has to be stroked even if the stroking is solicited.

Ok, class is over.

M.

August 4th, 2009
10:13 am

@Page1908: I meant that jokingly as in chasing women around Atlanta…lolol

The Real Rell

August 4th, 2009
10:15 am

Yeah, he’s really unstable today.”

- WORD??…dayum really?

M.

August 4th, 2009
10:16 am

@kimmie-livin my life like it’s golden!: Relax! Its only tuesday and it was a general question not an accusation! I did ask a question and of course everyone knows the story on the Atlanta guys here so no need to go there!

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 4th, 2009
10:17 am

M didnt ask yall about dudes he asked about women. Stop twissting the question and shifting it back to dudes. Just answer from a womans perspective..

AmazonRed™

August 4th, 2009
10:19 am

@Women: What’s with the Flakiness thing? Is this your way of wanting to be pursued or do you just like being chased around 285 to stroke your egos?

M – The man leads, therefore he sets the tone. I am a lot of things, and flaky has NEVER been one of them. But I do get me a nice flaky golden crust cooked at 375° when I encounter a dude that brings his B-game or below.

A focused man gets a focused effort.

lurker

August 4th, 2009
10:19 am

I was turned off by the fake, phony and the games out in the cruel streets

I’m so agreeing with your post but this statement is pivotal. I CANNOT deal with the fake fake, be it man or woman. And yes, I find some women to be as phony as a $3.00 bill. Well, don’t let me discriminate, men too. We’ve ventured into a day and age where folks are all for self and all about self. I mean you should be to some extent but not at the cost of others. I have absolutely no patience for foolishness and will write someone off quickly, man or woman, seeing that we’re grown folks and all. Patience for me, is reserved for some youth approaching life. A need to not entertain/enable foolishness doesn’t necessarily equate to being afraid. I’m all for love and navigating through the novelty of, however there’s a fine line between the new new (with someone new….not necessarily new experiences) and bullcrap. Not afraid at all to have a go at unchartered territory with a new person but the bullcrap meter still keeps a running.

mytw♥tatas

August 4th, 2009
10:20 am

M. Marshall’s is a grrrreat analogy. Sometimes you have the patience for it, other times you go straight to zee mall. And uhm, please define Flakiness. Gracias!

PAGE EXACTLY on the grading curve. But I also see the glass of wine as half full, so…

SexyCool - If you knew the path I've traveled ...

August 4th, 2009
10:20 am

As to any flakiness in females that I have experienced or exhibited on the level that you all referring to, my experience has been that, just like in a romantic relationship people send their representatives, chicks can send their representatives to sistergirl relationships as well.

Then, over some time, I realize that your negative, whining, complaining, dragging me down, always broke, mooching ass has no place in my life.

OR

If I have a crisis/emergency/situation and call on you and you’re not there, that lets me know that you just dropped from friend status to associate. And I really don’t care to associate with that many folks that are not friends.

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 4th, 2009
10:20 am

ARED – Good Answer

AmazonRed™

August 4th, 2009
10:22 am

Hell, sometimes, I look at your blog posts and think, “Yeah, he’s really unstable today.”

There are manic depressive people in real life. They perhaps can post on blogs too.

Melo

August 4th, 2009
10:23 am

M is a lady,is she not??

Pretty Wings

August 4th, 2009
10:24 am

Hola!
I feel like doing the Salsa this morning….go figure.

@WD -Your topics; sound like you are in my head sometimes, seriously! LOL

I agree I am working on my patience. I’m usually able to discern rather quickly if someone is for me or not and because of that, I’ve developed some good frienships and business associates that would have made disaterous relationships. Although I’ve had to revisit it, I came to my “Great Therefore” along time ago on wasting my time.

Have a Great Day!

AmazonRed™

August 4th, 2009
10:24 am

ARED – Good Answer

DK – Thanks.

There is nothing wrong with dating and having a team and all that. But you can’t approach a woman and want to be taken seriously if you call sporatically, can’t make dates, etc because you are managing a roster. Women pick up on half-azzness and will respond in turn.

Start strong and the woman will either fall in line or get left behind! :lol:

Page1908

August 4th, 2009
10:25 am

LOL M.

LOL SexyCool @ stab, stab, stab. BTW, sorry…I mooched your wine opener from you and I still have it lol. I’ll have it today! *I swear, I am not a moocher* lmao

SexyCool - If you knew the path I've traveled ...

August 4th, 2009
10:25 am

Yes, Rell, really. Like yesterday, when you came on here talking about “b*tches who wanted to be friends.” I’m sure you were just venting. However, it read REALLY CRAZY.

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

August 4th, 2009
10:25 am

M. – Take note of my moniker – livin my life like it’s golden so no need to remind me to RELAX!LOL!! You asked a question, I answered it, sorry you don’t care for my answer.LOL!!

DK – I did answer from a womans perspective – how can I answer about HIS dating experience? I don’t know what kinda vibe he’s giving off to the women he keeps meeting up with!!! But it must be something if everyone suddenly gets very BUSY when he meets up with them. Then its the women – they’re all FLAKEY now! Upgrade your selection process then!LOL!!!

Page1908

August 4th, 2009
10:25 am

LOL @ manic depressive.

M.

August 4th, 2009
10:26 am

@Ared: Good answer and I see what you mean.

@mytw♥tatas: Flakiness to me could be alot of things sending mixed signals, acting like you know someone, then disappearing like David Blaine its all based on who you ask.

I asked a friend what would happen in dating if everyone really kept it 100 with everyone and he said the truth….The CRIME RATE would go up. Some people just cant deal with the reality of someone not being interested in them etc…

Melo

August 4th, 2009
10:27 am

ARED…
flakky is what?? as in, “u see me now and now,u dont??”

is that it??

lurker

August 4th, 2009
10:27 am

But you can’t approach a woman and want to be taken seriously if you call sporatically, can’t make dates, etc because you are managing a roster. Women pick up on half-azzness and will respond in turn.

I can’t do the smiling emoticons but you should mentally see about 3 right about here—->

Page1908

August 4th, 2009
10:28 am

Dos Centavos- I agree with seeing the glass half full.

ARed- I agree with your 10:24.

AmazonRed™

August 4th, 2009
10:29 am

flakky is what?? as in, “u see me now and now,u dont??”

is that it??

melo – Yes. Generally flakiness means inconsistancy.

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

August 4th, 2009
10:29 am

Melo – I think you might be confusing M. with M’karyl, who sometimes goes as M – it confused me at first too.

The Real Rell

August 4th, 2009
10:30 am

A focused man gets a focused effort

- WHY do people have this mindframe…this is flaky…why you waiting around to react to what i do or dont..DO YOU….its like i have to put on a show before you make a move…dont get it

why do we play on words..all/some/many/majority…we all know what we are trying to say – buddy – asked a question about whats up with the flaky behavior – from jump – women jump to say “i am not like that” or “its not me”…etc….so none of you have ever flaked on anyone?…let me be the first to say i have flaked and when i did it was a variety of reason….but bottom line was after i thought i made a good purchase the remorse set in and i was like a i am cool

can we all stop getting our panties in a bunch over wordplay…we(men) know that we have the creme de la creme on this blog and all negative or flakiness does not apply to you wonderful perfect women…we just need some guidance with dealing with these other wayward a$$ women out here….

THANKS!

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

August 4th, 2009
10:30 am

Amred – Yeah, you’re putting it down today!:)

M'

August 4th, 2009
10:30 am

@Melo

That M. is not ME…M’…lol

Page1908

August 4th, 2009
10:30 am

M- I need a translation for “kept it 100″. Are you saying the crime rate would go up to 100%? I’m lost.

W8©

August 4th, 2009
10:30 am

In Atlanta you have to have a good dating filter and the ability to walk away for the greater good even if it does hurt or bother you. A whole new level of trust in your potential mate. Also don’t catch feelings to soon…these women are smart or so they think…so fellas play your part..play your part (MESSAGE!!) 285 is a circle says alot about you if you get lost on a circle…just saying…

@Page- There were three people on you all’s team to our two..but Marcus and I lost we accept defeat..I thought SCool was our secret spy on your team. Hell Angie, Andrea and Staceye beat me on Playstation American Idol not to long ago…but umm I can’t sing anyway. I need a win streak bad..spades anyone?

Bibay

August 4th, 2009
10:31 am

Dating in the ATL- since I have matured, I have less patience for BS. I don’t have an issue with taking risks (living in the ATL and surrounding areas has become quite risky lately). I try to be clear about what I want up front and see where there head is. But, you just never know what will be revealed.

M'

August 4th, 2009
10:32 am

Well, if most women are flakes then a lot of men are the milk that makes them soggy…lol

Grace

August 4th, 2009
10:32 am

Good morning Folks, I ususally take it slow seeing where the guy is coming from and most def where he is going. I’m not so serious since my seriousness, when I say serious I men micro-managing things, it tend to send a negative vibe with the guy.

Rell in my case I’ve ran across some flakey guys too.

You said it best Ared @ 10.24.

C tha 1

August 4th, 2009
10:32 am

People love to rationalize the purpose one meets anyone is for a reason, season, or a lifetime. That sounds nice but overgeneralizes human interaction. I think today’s topic is asking us to look deeper than that. The truth of the matter is everyone has placed someone in the wrong catagory without taking a chance on them. At the same time we all have highly overated other people we dated simply because they was phine as hell but turned out to be dumb as rocks.

If we meet people for a reason, season, or a lifetime that’s all based on decisions we make. I mean the girl you accidentally got pregnant is now a lifetime partner weather a dude likes it our not…and she could be the bane of your existance. Still you share a child. How about the dude that burned you with whatever “curable” STD that women keep secret and pray to God a worthwhile man doesn’t find out? You can only have so many yeast infections without something being seriously wrong.

Ultimately, the dating scene in ATL is a contact sport that requires keen perception to manuever. It can leave the faint of heart apathetic, but dating in general really is for those who pursue a thrill…whether temporary or otherwise.

AmazonRed™

August 4th, 2009
10:32 am

@Ared: Good answer and I see what you mean.

M – thank you.

I mean, the reality is that many women, maybe even MOST want a fulfilling relationship! At the very least we’re gonna try to keep the momentum going! So if she’s acting flaky, there has gotta be a reason. Look to what YOU are not doing as a man and if you are bringing the A game! If you are doing what you say you are gonna do and bringing more than trying to get in to her pants as quick as possible, then either she is not worty OR someone else is bringing his A-game too.

If she’s not interested that will be determined quickly. So if she interested and acting flaky then there is a reason.

Grace

August 4th, 2009
10:33 am

Oops I meant “when I say serious I mean micro-managing things”

M.

August 4th, 2009
10:33 am

@The Real Rell: True that

@kimmie-livin my life like it’s golden! I just asked a question then my dating life is on trial? Wow….

Melo

August 4th, 2009
10:33 am

can’t make dates, etc because you are managing a roster

i like that Ared.And a player shld be the last person to complain that a girl is being flaky.
I also think that some chics are flaky(to pick on Rell’s point) becoz they are used to being abused.So when they see what seems like similar type tendencies(they may read wrong),they quickly recognize and move on,leaving the dude :shock:
I cant blame them for it,myself.Every person got do what they got do,smetimes u right,other times u wrong.Its lyfe.

W8©

August 4th, 2009
10:35 am

“can we all stop getting our panties in a bunch over wordplay…we(men) know that we have the creme de la creme on this blog and all negative or flakiness does not apply to you wonderful perfect women”

@Rell- let me preface my comment with this..I am nowhere near perfect or where I need to be…but “hell nawwwww” unless you were being sarcastic

The Real Rell

August 4th, 2009
10:35 am

OO and on the slick a zz comments…I SEE YOU and i will respond in person – bee lee dat

M'

August 4th, 2009
10:35 am

Hmmm…and why did I stop “dating” in the ATL in like 1986????…lmao…NO FUN!!!!!

Kym-Don't want no Paper Gangsta

August 4th, 2009
10:35 am

Good Morning All,

I just had a discussion like this with a few friends. I think half of the reason I don’t dig the ATL dating stage is really there is too much foolishness out there. I have patience but I am just not trying to search around “Marshall’s for a good baragin on a coach bag when if I want it I am willing to go all in and pay for it.” It doesn’t mean I don’t date but I am pretty sure that the man that does finally catch me will not come from ATL. I don’t see some of the dudes I run into as flakes..more like fakes.

W8©

August 4th, 2009
10:36 am

If a man or a woman is acting flakey with they other there is a reason..obviousl he or she is not interested enough in the other to make an impact…take the lost and move on.

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 4th, 2009
10:37 am

Kimmie – Up your nose with a rubber hose. You are the funniest.

W8©

August 4th, 2009
10:38 am

@M’- Dang I was 13 in 1986

M.

August 4th, 2009
10:38 am

@Page1908 I mean if everyone kept it real with people they date then he said the crime rate would go up because people cant really handle the reality like if a guy met you and said you cool, but I am dealing with 3 other women and you can be #4 if you like. This kind of stuff could not fly in the dating scene. This what me and my friend were talking about.

Page1908

August 4th, 2009
10:40 am

LOL W8- Ok, I know it’s a circle but still! You are lucky I didn’t come through for the American Idol showdown because if I had, everyone woulda lost lmao. Oh btw- I agree with your 10:36.

M’- LOL @ dating back in 1986.

The Real Rell

August 4th, 2009
10:41 am

bringing the A game!

- WHAT DOES THIS KIT INCLUDE..for or can i just say what do women look for in the A game

Page1908

August 4th, 2009
10:42 am

Ohhhhhh ok M. So kept it 100 means keep it real. Ok, gotcha. Yes, I can see what you mean. But you know what…if the person is being flaky, then I already know I am number 4 or whatever like you said. It wouldn’t take a conversation or the dude to tell me for me to get that….even with my helmet on! lol

AmazonRed™

August 4th, 2009
10:43 am

Some people just cant deal with the reality of someone not being interested in them etc…

My cousin was in Dallas this weekend. She witnessed a young lady being shot in a Denny’s parking lot because a dude was trying to holler and the young lady expressed that she was not interested. :???:

Grace

August 4th, 2009
10:43 am

M. if I meet a guy and he told me upfront that he wants to put me on the rotation I don’t see where that deems me to commit a crime against him. I’d rather him tell me than lead me to thinking I’m the only one when it’s not even close to being true, not that might make me commit a crime.

Melo

August 4th, 2009
10:43 am

thank uall on the definition of M!

not feeling smebody the way they feeling u cant be regarded as flaky either.

but bottom line was after i thought i made a good purchase the remorse set in

Now For Real,thats flaky!! unless the purchase was made after just five minutes or so of rumination.

When u make a purchase,make sure it is a deliberate and serious decison!

W8©

August 4th, 2009
10:43 am

Rell check your text msgs

M'

August 4th, 2009
10:44 am

RIP Naomi Sims…what a fabulous life, career and woman.

Page1908

August 4th, 2009
10:45 am

ARed- omg that’s horrible.

AmazonRed™

August 4th, 2009
10:45 am

Amred – Yeah, you’re putting it down today!:)

Thank you.

M.

August 4th, 2009
10:47 am

@Grace I dont mean committing a crime against them right then and there. We meant when people get lead on and their feelings get hurt, that’s when bad things happen.

@Page1908 LOL got you with the helment thing but how you know he is flaky if you just met him, what if he came to you correct? Do you have a 7th sense we dont know about? ;)

Bibay

August 4th, 2009
10:47 am

Grace- your 10:43 response to M are my exact thoughts. Then you can decide if you want to be a number or walk away. Sometimes folks make things harder than they need to be.

M'

August 4th, 2009
10:48 am

@w8

Yeah, Iwas doing 13 in 1973…lol…I said I is an oldhead…hehehe

@Page

Yeah…did not start until 1983…and stopped 3 years later…lol…I was just so turned off by it…absolutely had no fun with it…so I pulled out my “single shimmy” boots…and kept steppin’…went out solo and found my own good time…lol…and ain’t looked back since.

W8©

August 4th, 2009
10:49 am

@M’- disco disco

Raqi

August 4th, 2009
10:53 am

These M’ & M. s are getting me confused.

M'

August 4th, 2009
10:53 am

@W

Keep on when the force stops…don’t stop til you get enough…and my force ain’t stop and I ain’t got enough…lmao.

Mo (aka Moeisha-)

August 4th, 2009
10:54 am

Morning All

Im speed reading so Im trying to catch up

ARed – on your 10:43, I had a friend in college get shot by a guy that she had been seeing when she tried to break up with him. its crazy how rejection can make some people really lose it.

Page1908 – “So kept it 100 means keep it real”…you are so funny chica!

Page1908

August 4th, 2009
10:56 am

LMAO M’ @ dating from 1983 to 1986! Dang, that’s a long time ago. But, I bet there are still some of the same ole cat daddies on the scene too. lol. Do you still have any 80’s outfits? lol All I remember from that time was jerry curls, ruffled mini skirts and stockings, leather pants and jackets, and mullets. LOL

Kym-Don't want no Paper Gangsta

August 4th, 2009
10:56 am

@Raqi apparently there is a M. and a M’ I think M’ is a woman Mkaryl and I don’t know who the hell M. is.

W8©

August 4th, 2009
10:57 am

Um let’s not forget that psycho women far out weigh psycho men during breakups or rejection…..but oh I know it’s always the mans fault right..lol

If he cheats he’s a dog…if she cheat’s that means he did something to make her cheat…lmao

Page1908

August 4th, 2009
10:57 am

Hey Mo! LOL Girl, you know I needed a translation on that one. I’m thinking to myself soooo…”ok, so why not just say keep it real”? *ctfu*

Grace

August 4th, 2009
10:58 am

M. that’s why I ended my comment with it may be a crime if he misleads me. Let me decide where/what I want to be, who knows I might be alright being on a rotation. (not talking bout physical here)

Leggs

August 4th, 2009
10:59 am

Well, if most women are flakes then a lot of men are the milk that makes them soggy…lol HOW TRUE, HOW TRUE!

AmazonRed™

August 4th, 2009
11:01 am

Sometimes folks make things harder than they need to be.

Amen.

Yesterday on Facebook one of my friends changed her relations status to “it’s complicated.” Someone asked her what meant and she went into a story about how she’s with this guy but not really with himm… :???: I’m like “is this chick reading her own foolishness and is she really broadcasting it proudly for all to see???”

Some folks just like drama in their lives, apparently.

M'

August 4th, 2009
11:02 am

@Page

My fashion sense is “immortal” in that it transcends all time periods…lol…I do not do “trends” so much…and most 80’s fashions were hideous trend moments…I like to rock the classic lines of the 50’s, the mod of the 60’s and the hippie chic of the 70’s…I hook it up and make it work, chirl…lol…I do M’Fashion so well…lmao.

As far as the old cat daddies…yeah, dem lame sums of bishes are still out there…with the same game, lines and foolishness…seriously…I had no need for it then and truly less patience for it now…it is like being stuck on a bad movie rerun…it was not good the first time you saw it and it gets worse every viewing of it after that…lmao

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 4th, 2009
11:03 am

You know I always hear women say if a dude just told me what his intentions are I could have made a better decision. No you wouldnt have and on top of that ya’ll never tell us what ya’lls intentions are. Ya’ll cant expect what ya’ll not giving.

Ya’ll tell us only what ya’ll think we should know and we do the same.

Mo (aka Moeisha-)

August 4th, 2009
11:04 am

W8 – I think the psycho men, as of late, are creeping on a come up in outweighing the pyscho women. There have been more men losing it and killing women recently than I ever remember hearing.

Page1908 – its funny b/c you are soo sincere, like ‘huh?’ And I LMBAO @ Mullets! :smile:

ARed – like your 10:32

AmazonRed™

August 4th, 2009
11:04 am

I had a friend in college get shot by a guy that she had been seeing when she tried to break up with him. its crazy how rejection can make some people really lose it

Damn.

If something like this every happened to me it’d probably be from someone on this blog. :???:

W8©

August 4th, 2009
11:05 am

@Mo-Men just have more bite than women..thats all

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 4th, 2009
11:07 am

W8 – “If he cheats he’s a dog…if she cheat’s that means he did something to make her cheat…lmao”

Man preach on.. I’ll say amen if nobody else does.

M. (pronounced M dot)

August 4th, 2009
11:08 am

@Grace I agree with you.

M'

August 4th, 2009
11:09 am

@W8

Uh…me thinks the pyscho men and women are in balance…hehehe…they are equally represented.

What I want to know is why do I seemed to have the psychos that can not handle rejection without the relationship…just a simple NO and they nut up…geesh…hate to see what would happen if I did get involved with the nuts…lawdy.

W8©

August 4th, 2009
11:09 am

@DK- yeah they live in there own little world..lol

On another note it’s funny how these teams with few quarterbacks are having there quarterbacks get hurt…I am hoping this helps Vick get on

SexyCool - If you knew the path I've traveled ...

August 4th, 2009
11:11 am

Having been the victim of a psycho breakup dude, I am grateful to be alive.

W8©

August 4th, 2009
11:11 am

@M’- at what point are you rejecting them and when are you realizing that they are psycho?

The Real Rell

August 4th, 2009
11:11 am

Vick get on

- he is getting black balled for some reason…even john clayton was like “vick not even close to getting on with a team”…and has a bunch of contacts…zilch!

W8©

August 4th, 2009
11:13 am

Man I have had one psycho break up woman…man o man o man…

Sassy Me...juicy fruit :-)

August 4th, 2009
11:13 am

think the psycho men, as of late, are creeping on a come up in outweighing the pyscho women. There have been more men losing it and killing women recently than I ever remember hearing.

What’s up with that?….it seems like all these BIG egos are kinda fragile.

Men just have more bite than women..thats all

Wishful thinking……at best ;)

W8©

August 4th, 2009
11:14 am

I think they are just driving his price down and someone will get him for cheap also folk keep getting hurt..and I think the will to win will eventually overcome the hesitation of signing him…but I could be wrong

Melo

August 4th, 2009
11:15 am

why do I seemed to have the psychos that can not handle rejection without the relationship

If u dikkmatize chics,then bench them,u run the risk of being shot or being set up and shot here in the A.And esp if u have other things going on for u…coz they will be already dreaming of that cindirella lyfe.
Just my observation playa! Be careful!

The Real Rell

August 4th, 2009
11:16 am

@W8..did you see the clip of him throwing to hs players…he still got that proper form and snap wrist release…foot work was way off..but hell he just got out…but he will play qb for someone and excel…he talked with the kids – it was not about football…

Mo (aka Moeisha-)

August 4th, 2009
11:17 am

Sassy Me – ‘Wishful thinking……at best’….. LMAO! ^5 on that one chica

SexyCool – after seeing how dude was with my friend, I wouldnt wish a that kind of horror on anyone

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

August 4th, 2009
11:18 am

Melo – I think you got the M’s mixed up with your last post!

Kym-Don't want no Paper Gangsta

August 4th, 2009
11:20 am

@ARed Dr. Berry at the book conference said this about drama..”Sometimes we create drama so we have something to star in.” I think that is so true in some cases.

Sassy Me...juicy fruit :-)

August 4th, 2009
11:20 am

What I want to know is why do I seemed to have the psychos that can not handle rejection without the relationship…just a simple NO and they nut up…

That reminds me of the the young lady that got shot in the face recently for the same thing. I understand that we live in a society with a quasi “microwave mentality” that has given rise to a breed of men that have been accustomed to getting their way(whatever that entails) and aren’tuse to hearing the word no….BUUT I’ve also seen some women reject a man harsh enough to where I wanted to say ease off. Nevertheless the growing violence against women is quite alarming.

SexyCool - If you knew the path I've traveled ...

August 4th, 2009
11:20 am

Yeah, Mo – Having a dude look you and the eyes and tell you he’s going to kill you….is pretty horrible, especially when you’re down a dark ass country road with no one around. Yeah. I’ve got angels watching over me.

BTW – how did Day#2 go for the little man?

For Real

August 4th, 2009
11:21 am

What up Blog Fam!

I read some of the analogies and that’s part of the problem but the main reason for people not getting what they need/want is that they in fact don’t know what they want. Now I’m sure by now 13% of the chicks on the blog have all said they “know who they are and want they want” but funny how they keep looking for steak on the can goods isle. Dayumit another analogy. Bottom line it’s all about “your decision making or not making ability” and how accountable you are for your decisions.

By the way can yall define these terms I keep reading from the chicks:

BS =

Foolishness =

Wasting Time =

A game =

Ladies I really want to know how each of you define those things.

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 4th, 2009
11:21 am

Im gonna say this and I know ya’ll aint gonna like it. I dont advocate violence but sometimes ladies ya’ll push a dude to a point where he feels like he wants you to feel the pain he feels because he has taken way more than he should.

EX: My Dude and his wife are divorcing. She shows up to a mall in his neighborhood with her new dude where grew up. She sees me and jets out of the mall dragging dude who clearly didnt know what was going on or what she had put him in the middle of. She looked like she had saw a ghost. Now I know she can go where ever she wants but a dude looks at that as blatant disrespect. Now say he was in the mall and saw it. Knowing how hurtful and dirty she has been up to this point I could see that situation going horribly wrong with him ending up on the news. Not because he wants her back but now youre adding insult to injury. But you know what a friend of mine told me (A Female). She said “its ok because theyre separated and she is moving on with her life”. Its OK that shes moving on but she’s not even divorced yet and showing up in public where that mans whole family frequents that mall and knows the situation. I had to calm him down because he was about to do the mother to her because he said out of all the stuff she’s put me through she just wont stop and Im tired of playing with her. I’m telling you as a man we look at that as blatant disrespect and we just dont do too well with that. Ya’ll look at snapped and homie had that look in his eyes.

The Real Rell

August 4th, 2009
11:22 am

M'

August 4th, 2009
11:24 am

@W8

When I am not interested in someone…I tell them no right up front…period…NO…NO THANK YOU…NOT…period…I do not waste time or words with a dead issue.

When I encounter a male entity who expresses an interest in getting to know me on a more personal or intimate level there is absolutely no equivocation on my lack of interest…but it seems that my always being solo and never with anyone conveys to them the “possibility” of my being available with enough persistence…NEVER, truly…and what was once an irrational infatuation becomes the fodder to intense “rejection”…uh, hte last NO was just like the first one…and I have seen this shtye go on for months and sometimes even years after the fact.

Melo

August 4th, 2009
11:24 am

Kimmie..M in bold is female and plain M is?????

i get it now,thanks.

Kym-Don't want no Paper Gangsta

August 4th, 2009
11:25 am

@W8 I think he should head to Minnesota.

The Real Rell

August 4th, 2009
11:26 am

@dk…been there…an surprisly…i did nothing..no need to lose my freedom over something crazy…i mean my crazy not going to stop the world…life goes on…and so will you boi…and trust fam..i have been done waaaaaaaaaaaaaaay dirty for my lack of attention…i mean stuff i share with you guys is stuff i have made peace with…there is more that i am dealing with now…but i dont share it all…it would be a dayum mini-series if i did…lol…hows that for crazy….

W8©

August 4th, 2009
11:28 am

At some point everyone, including me, notices the pscyho tendancy before it happens..its just if we take heed or not

Grace

August 4th, 2009
11:28 am

DK why did you tell your friend about seeing his wife at the mall? See it’s stuff right there that causes more problems….Didn’t your mother teach you not to snitch? In a case as sensitive as your friends, you should have withheld that information. Even though he’s your friend you have to look out for his best interest and his best interest is not to bring information that could lead to as M. said a crime. JMO

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 4th, 2009
11:28 am

And no I didnt call him and tell him.. It had already gotten back before I could talk to him.. By the time I talked to him he was Hot as Fish grease and on the warpath. So I drove over tooks his keys to look him out of his house and we took a drive ending up in Alabama soewhere. I couldnt bring myself to tell him I saw her too because that wouldve amped the situation more so I kept it underwraps. I will tell him one day.

M'

August 4th, 2009
11:29 am

@Melo

M’…M apostrophe is female

M., M dot…is male

tay bro???

W8©

August 4th, 2009
11:30 am

@Rell- your 1126 is real talk..same here

AmazonRed™

August 4th, 2009
11:31 am

Im gonna say this and I know ya’ll aint gonna like it. I dont advocate violence but sometimes ladies ya’ll push a dude to a point where he feels like he wants you to feel the pain he feels because he has taken way more than he should.

DK – Three words

GET. OVER. IT.

Life isn’t fair. So homechick was in a MALL. So what?! They are divorcing and yes she is moved on. There would NEVER be a valid excuse for her to meet physical harm for that. And in addition, the chick LEFT! She didn’t flaunt that dude proudly in your face.

He needs some anger management or therapy if he was driven to violence over that.

And the fact that you thought that was a good example of how it could end in volence is a bit distrubing.

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 4th, 2009
11:32 am

Grace – That wa ssome rotten B!tch Ish though.. Hey ya’ll call ya’ll girls about if a dude aint in walmart but next door shoe carnival. I had to tell him its not embarrasing you its embarrassing her and she’s not the woman you used to know. She’s someone else now.

SexyCool - If you knew the path I've traveled ...

August 4th, 2009
11:33 am

So, are we going to have M?, M:, M: or M@ show up as well? LOL

And yes, I peeped dude’s psycho tendencies about a week before all this happened and immediately distanced myself from him.

Grace

August 4th, 2009
11:33 am

Good going DK I was gonna make you go and pick out your own switch for that one!

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 4th, 2009
11:34 am

ARED – You say that but its alot I’m leaving out. He has endured alot with her. See its ok if something like that happens to a dude like me cause I’m sure Ive done it before but a bonafide good dude that wouldnt harm a fly and worshipped the ground his wife walked on is another story. I’m telling you I could see the snapped look in his eyes.

Raqi

August 4th, 2009
11:35 am

Now I know she can go where ever she wants but a dude looks at that as blatant disrespect.

GTFOH If we aren’t together then I can do and go where I please, especially if it is on my side of town. Now I would never go thru the foolishness of making the effort to go out of my way where I know where you will be or your family. But if the area is where I reside I am not going out of my way to try to avoid you.

The Real Rell

August 4th, 2009
11:35 am

I think he should head to Minnesota

- Me too…hell they have a vick knock off up there…why not get the real thing..can you imagine AD and VICK in a backfield…WOW

Kym-Don't want no Paper Gangsta

August 4th, 2009
11:35 am

@DK it sounds like there is some deeper issues there. It is not about her being at the mall. She must have dipped out on him with some other dude or something. I mean I can understand the hurt feelings. I have had plenty of “I’d rather go blind moments” in my youth (song by Ms. Etta James) but all that don’t walk through my mall what if my uncle sees you, is some bs(bs define as excessive dramatics, out of focus thinking, behavior, speech that only makes sense to the moron(s) who are spouting it and or agree with it.)

M'

August 4th, 2009
11:37 am

SCool

So, are we going to have M?, M:, M: or M@ show up as well? LOL

Too funny…I was thinking the same thing…hehehe.

One thing that I always pay close attention to is the need to be in control and how my explicitly autonomous expression can “trigger” a negative reaction…usually does not take long…there are certain regional cultures where I am not deferential enough for the male mentality…so any indication that their inability to control me or the situation is an immediate red flag that ole boy will nut up at some point.

Mo (aka Moeisha-)

August 4th, 2009
11:37 am

SexyCool – Day #2 was a lil more dramatic for Lil Mo, mommy had to leave him with tears in his eyes. I hate to see him like that but i know he’s alright. Im sure he’ll have a million things to tell me again today. I got a play-by-play yesterday.

Rell – i heard about dude and the superglue this AM, reminded me of the Bobbitt chick that just cut it off.

INFAMOUS – dayum……

Leggs

August 4th, 2009
11:38 am

BS = Making empty promises or even empty desires with “boiler plate” language!

Foolishness = Saying you’ll come by at 6:00 to pick me up only to call at 11:00 w/some foolishness as to why you didn’t show nor call. E.g., I already knew you were mad so saw no reason to call to explain myself.

Wasting Time = Well, I thought I was liking you but not quite sure so I wanted to really figure this out but still keeping my options open until I’ve decided. Just one example because this could be stated upfront and not after 5 months of what someone thought was exclusive dating.

A game = See “Wasting Time.”

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 4th, 2009
11:38 am

ARED – I not saying it should ever end in violence but I am saying thats one of the reasons dudes get out of control. Animal instinct takes over and they loose it. Come on now ya’ll got a whole show about women snapping and Ive heard women say yeah she shouldve snapped on his a$$.. This ish is ridiculous.

W8©

August 4th, 2009
11:38 am

Yup Vick and the Vikings are a match made in heaven

Grace

August 4th, 2009
11:40 am

Leggs :lol: :lol: :lol: you nailed it on the head! and bringing back memeories :evil:

AmazonRed™

August 4th, 2009
11:40 am

ARED – You say that but its alot I’m leaving out.

Of course. But the example you chose to give, was a BAD EXAMPLE.

Newsflash. Even after the divorce is final, she’ll still be moving on with her life. Acceptance will have to come at some point.

Folks, and men, often don’t realize that NOT getting mad is often the quickest way to prove a person is not affecting you. No one looks at folks like the chick that offed Steve McNair with admiration. Only scorn and pity. And when it’s a dude, it’s even more sad and bytchmade!

lurker

August 4th, 2009
11:41 am

Im gonna say this and I know ya’ll aint gonna like it. I dont advocate violence but sometimes ladies ya’ll push a dude to a point where he feels like he wants you to feel the pain he feels because he has taken way more than he should.

I going to agree with this statement but I will add, the same applies to men. I cannot say for both men and women, the crazies are deemed but just like the chick in your scenario may be adding salt to an open wound or as you put, adding insult to injury, theres a ton of dudes out there pretending not to know from which the crazies a chick is dishing came. IMO, a great majority of the time somebody did something to bring out the crazies. Now, you may have thought it was all funny and fun and games and didn’t know the level of crazy with which you was dealing but none the less, I think a lot of crazies are the fallout from some ill played game. Like the scenario where the dude shot the chick in our building and killed himself….well no one knew she’d had an abortion without telling him. Now, there’s NEVER a reason to kill a person but just because you’ve played the game for umpteen years without ramifications does not mean you’ll meet one that will let things ride like all others.

SexyCool - If you knew the path I've traveled ...

August 4th, 2009
11:42 am

“Often don’t realize that NOT getting mad is often the quickest way to prove a person is not affecting you.”

I tell people all the time, “The opposite of love is not hate. It’s indifference.

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 4th, 2009
11:42 am

Raqi – Ok if she didnt think she was wrontg why did she leave when she saw me? Like she saw a ghost leaving.. Dudes feet were shuffling. I’m not saying she cant go where she wants but at least get the paperwork right first. Come on now if that had been a dude he would be all kinds of dirty doggs and low down B@stards.

The Real Rell

August 4th, 2009
11:43 am

@DK/RED

anger management or therapy if he was driven to violence over that.

- that anger comes from the fact as a man of feeling powerless in a situation you thought you had control over…nobody wants to harm anyone..but the intial shock of first losing your life..yes you build a life in a marriage…two the reality of being alone again…three you feel like a failure as a man…then after all that going on..you see your lady in the mall with a new dude that did not work to make her who she is today get a free pass..but you get her a zz to kiss…that right there will drive any man crazy…and again i have seen and been there..and i got mad but i went home and did so many pushups my harms where sore for two weeks….i drank so much beer i dont like the taste of it no more..and i did this while doing pushups…sometimes i get so angry i throw up or worse start getting blurry vision..so now what i do is just work out in the morning and when i get off…that helps with the anger….but i do feel that situation DK and have been there MANY times!!!

SexyCool - If you knew the path I've traveled ...

August 4th, 2009
11:45 am

DK – the issue that sticks out in your example is the dude she was with allowing himself to be lead out like that. I can’t imagine dealing with the caliber of dude that would be okay with running from another dude.

DasK

August 4th, 2009
11:45 am

well, speak of DaDebi, (that’s me)l and one of my many creeds, Life is Full of Risk. (chuckling)

on the day I decided to make the effort to drop by to say HELLO to all my TOSers.
(Been way too busy to even get online nowadays, from work)

W8©

August 4th, 2009
11:45 am

Word of advice for men and women..dont ever let it get physical..my dad always taught me if it gets to that point..just go sit in the car…dont go anywhere ..just turn on some music and relax…I say men and women because some women think it’s okay to slap a man…nope that aint right either..you do not do any physical harm to anyone out of anger..what surprises me is when a woman states on record that she hit her man and he hit her back..yeah he is a chump for hitting her back but all that could have been prevented if she didnt hit him in the first place. Yall may get mad at me for this..but I will state this to any woman I am dating..yeah I may do something that may warrant you to slap me I will take that…but if you ever come hit me with a fist, come at me with a knife, gun or anytype of weapon you have placed yourself in a whole other category.

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 4th, 2009
11:48 am

ARED – Yeah but dudes feel too. Ya’ll always talk about showing our feelings but then we B!tchmade when we do.

SexyCool - Only thing that's on my mind is who's gone run this town tonight...

August 4th, 2009
11:48 am

Oh and not from the standpoint of forcing a confrontation or a dyck measuring contest, but simply from the standpoint of this being a free country and we got to dip cause you saw some other dude. GTFOH, seriously.

Grace

August 4th, 2009
11:48 am

W8 are you saying you’re ok with getting slapped?

AmazonRed™

August 4th, 2009
11:48 am

I tell people all the time, “The opposite of love is not hate. It’s indifference.

SexyCool – Amen.

Folks should try it sometime. It’s so liberating! :lol:

For Real

August 4th, 2009
11:50 am

W8?Rell: Mark my words there will be more qb injuries this year than any other time in the history of the NFL. Here are my NFL predictions:

1. Romo will get hurt to cover up his poor play

2. Brady will have a horrible year. Knee surgery is 20% phyiscal 80% mental just ask Palmer.

3. Vick will land in Denver

4. Superbowl teams: AFC – Ravens vs NFC – Saint

DK: Good thing you talked your boi down odds are she was never anything that HE believed her to be.

Kym: “(bs define as excessive dramatics, out of focus thinking, behavior, speech that only makes sense to the moron(s) who are spouting it and or agree with it.)” – You just described every “girls night” event that has occurred since the beginning of time. Funny how your definition butts up to my statement “Women are irrational, unaccountable, and logic-less

W8©

August 4th, 2009
11:50 am

@Grace- it turns me on..lol

W8©

August 4th, 2009
11:51 am

@For Real- been trying to hit you up for a few days..check your text also..lol

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 4th, 2009
11:51 am

Sexy – Thats what was triple funny to me. Cause dude was gone with her and I’m sure she had som splainin to do cause they looked back and I waved at them. Yeah I did keep an eye on them standing in the middle of the hallway until they left but it was funny cause I wouldve been like we aint going nowhere.

AmazonRed™

August 4th, 2009
11:52 am

ARED – Yeah but dudes feel too. Ya’ll always talk about showing our feelings but then we B!tchmade when we do.

DK – Getting enraged to the point of violence or “snapping” is not what is meant by that.

Seriously, if the h0 drives to that point, seek help.

W8©

August 4th, 2009
11:52 am

ohhh Vick in Denver…that would be nice on the surface I have to do a bit more research to give an opinion on that

SexyCool - Only thing that's on my mind is who's gone run this town tonight...

August 4th, 2009
11:52 am

DasKrait – If I knew that all I had to do was type your name to get you to show up, I would have done that long ago.

Good to read you, dude.

Sassy Me...juicy fruit :-)

August 4th, 2009
11:53 am

…but it seems that my always being solo and never with anyone conveys to them the “possibility” of my being available with enough persistence…

Lawd…lawd…lawd. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve suffered through that. It’s like sometimes when I try to be nice it falls upon deaf ears but the milli-second I come out my bag with some ish then they look at me like I’m crazy.

Kym-Don't want no Paper Gangsta

August 4th, 2009
11:53 am

@Rell sorry work to make her where she is today? Did I just step into a ghetto version of My Fair Lady or something? Seriously is that the what goes on in the minds of dudes. We breaking up or divorcing and you moving on in after I made you what you are today? <<<<<<<<This is foolishness. (Foolishness define as the actions, sayings or beliefs, that would rival the dreams of the most insane schizo person..)

M'

August 4th, 2009
11:54 am

@W8

IMO when it gets to the point that much anger and violence are present…then I should have been gone long ago…I do not linger in situations where I have to let unresolved differences fester…when the ability to communicate is not openly and readily available…then it is time to bow the pop stand and leave a fork cuz it is done…I may not choose what another person will do to try and make me angry…but I can choose whether or not I will allow myself to stay in the path of that behavior and attitude.

The Real Rell

August 4th, 2009
11:56 am

I can’t imagine dealing with the caliber of dude that would be okay with running from another dude.

- YOU WOULD BE SURPRISED…i have confronted plenty that pleaded for there life and i just knocked on there FRONT DOOR or WAITED for them in there THERE drive way…trust me i have backed a plenty of these back door bandits..but i should have just left instead of either catching a charge or losing my life…neva again

@DASK…whats up mayne!

AmazonRed™

August 4th, 2009
11:56 am

I have not talked to a dear friend of mine in several months because of the situation she’s gotten herself into with this dude.

I saw her this weekend and she told me how we needed to catch up. She proceeded to tell me how she had vandalized her car a few months back and spray painted “man wh0re” and “bytch nigga” on his ride.

This is relationship she knowingly entered into. I’ve long said she’s needed some therapy. We will have a sit down and talk, but I just gotta figure out how to broach it. I don’t believe in telling grown folks how to live their lives, but ish is ridiculous.

For Real

August 4th, 2009
11:58 am

W8: “yeah I may do something that may warrant you to slap me I will take that” – Dayumm that keep your hands to yourself and I will keep my hand to myself. A lot of women think their bodies are more valuabe than men and that’s BS. Ack like a lady and I will ack like a man. Ack like a man and I will still be a man.

Grace

August 4th, 2009
11:59 am

W8 hold still – ssssllllaaapp! turned on yet!?!

lurker

August 4th, 2009
12:00 pm

YOU WOULD BE SURPRISED…i have confronted plenty that pleaded for there life and i just knocked on there FRONT DOOR or WAITED for them in there THERE drive way…trust me i have backed a plenty of these back door bandits..but i should have just left instead of either catching a charge or losing my life

WOW

AmazonRed™

August 4th, 2009
12:00 pm

I can’t imagine dealing with the caliber of dude that would be okay with running from another dude.

Depends on what she said. Danger is danger, and if I was like, “yeah, homie ain’t stable, maybe we should bounce” I’d hope he’d put his bravado aside and roll out.

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 4th, 2009
12:00 pm

Rell – I have been there myself.. So mad I wanted to spit in my ex wifes face and I know that is the worst. I just had to go do something anything just to clear my mind. You know in the end though I look at her now and she has been through so much over the years that karma is a MF and I know its her turn to feel the mess she put me through in the divorce. She came to me recently and asked if we canget back together. I asked her where were the cameras because I must be getting punk’d pulled out a stack, counted slowly and paid for dinner…

The Real Rell

August 4th, 2009
12:00 pm

@KYM…making her what she is today

meaning when i meet her she was one way…but along the way she picked up some of my mannerism, taste…etc etc…now she takes that package to another person…how is that crazy…people say this all the time…have you not heard a women say..when i meet him he was not ish…i stuck by him….then when he gets on….he does me like this…etc etc…thats all it is

and again this is post feelings..that i am sharing…i am not feeling that way now…but thanks for your breakdown

W8©

August 4th, 2009
12:01 pm

Yeah alot of dudes run…you can spot a punk from a mile away…

DasK

August 4th, 2009
12:02 pm

SC – you mean that is the FIRST time you have mentioned my creed there(life is full of risk)? LMAO

Hi Rell, didn’t want to mention “Tell us how you REALLY feel” (something on page one here, somethin’ about flakes) not familiar with the new format. for italics and bold..

AmazonRed™

August 4th, 2009
12:03 pm

Did I just step into a ghetto version of My Fair Lady or something? Seriously is that the what goes on in the minds of dudes. We breaking up or divorcing and you moving on in after I made you what you are today? <<<<<<<<This is foolishness.

:lol: Agreed. Folks need to get over themselves and stopping given them props for doing the job they signed up to do!

For Real

August 4th, 2009
12:04 pm

(Foolishness define as the actions, sayings or beliefs, that would rival the dreams of the most insane schizo person..) – Is that kinda like when a chick says this about every relationship she has been in “I’mma good women and if he can’t see that den it’s his loss”

The Real Rell

August 4th, 2009
12:04 pm

@lucker..why the wow…why do women want you to b itch up all the time..but act “thug” when she wants to show off her bad boy…i dont get that…if you man enought to creep with my wife then you man enought to take th is a zz whipping coming your way or some form of property damage…da hell!!!!

M'

August 4th, 2009
12:04 pm

@Sassy

Yo…now I am the crazy bish…the frigid lesbian…the contaminated C.U.N….uh-huh.

I have 3 levels of not interested rhetoric:

1) NO not interested in you agenda of pursuit.
2) I prefer being single and I am not looking to be involved with ANYONE (including you).
3) [insert whatever personally rude, disrespectful and vulgar thing I can say] to humiliate him into leaving me alone.

TOO MUCH NOISE for the same nice no I gave up front.

SexyCool - Only thing that's on my mind is who's gone run this town tonight...

August 4th, 2009
12:04 pm

ARed – Somehow my next post got lost. I agree, there is no use in forcing a confrontation or a d*ck measuring contest. But to just turn around and haul ass. I know Mine would not be feeling that.

Melo

August 4th, 2009
12:06 pm

Seriously is that the what goes on in the minds of dudes

this is what goes on in the minds of the more agrieved party,male or female.

AmazonRed™

August 4th, 2009
12:06 pm

IMO when it gets to the point that much anger and violence are present…then I should have been gone long ago…I do not linger in situations where I have to let unresolved differences fester…when the ability to communicate is not openly and readily available…then it is time to bow the pop stand and leave a fork cuz it is done…I may not choose what another person will do to try and make me angry…but I can choose whether or not I will allow myself to stay in the path of that behavior and attitude.

This needs to be said again!!!!

I have never, ever, felt threatened in ANY relationship I’ve ever been in. Recognize the signs and bounce out. Most importantly, don’t spend time throwing salt in the wounds of an already hurtful situation. Just roll!

That’s when the “indiffernce” side comes in handy.

W8©

August 4th, 2009
12:06 pm

Yep once a good girl goes bad…she’s gone bad forever…i’ve turned many a good girl bad…I didnt realize this until during the process a woman told me that

@Grace- you are funny..lmao

@DK- That was the low of my life…I didnt hit old girl but dayum she was taking me there.I mean she literally hid the keys to the deadbolt..I couldnt get out of the house..she threw crap..slapped..hit me..called me all sorts of names etc etc…I just spit in her face..i am very sad about that to this day..I should have had better control….

For Real

August 4th, 2009
12:08 pm

“I’d hope he’d put his bravado aside and roll out.” – And yall wonder why there are so many b*tchass men out there. Funny thang tho yall then will turn around and expect that same dude to protect you when you can’t run. WOW!!

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 4th, 2009
12:09 pm

ARED – The reason I would have said we aint going nowhere is because I keep it with me at all times. I’m licensed to carry it and have repo’d a few cars where people say “I’mma Kill you” so seeing as though I wanna get back home to my Lil Guy I just keep in on my person at all times. Then on top of that I wouldnt be a a$$ about it like yeah I got ya girl. I would just keep doin my thang and not being all extra and if he came up I would try and holla at him like a man. Most dudes understand when another dude tell them “this really dont have anything to do with me” and he aint trying to pop fly but he’s standing his ground.

lurker

August 4th, 2009
12:09 pm

Rell If a man is man enough to sleep with your wife, at that point is it really worth it? Seriously.

Kym-Don't want no Paper Gangsta

August 4th, 2009
12:12 pm

@For Real please don’t drag me into your male-female bash sessions. You ask me to define the word I did. Foolishness and BS can apply to both sexes.

The Real Rell

August 4th, 2009
12:12 pm

@lucker..its the principle at that point..dayum her…you disrespect me and you think you slick with it

Melo

August 4th, 2009
12:14 pm

Recognize the signs and bounce out

ARED:
have u have loved someone so much but still had a major,animated disagreement with them?? If u luved and disagreed,did u bounce then or stayed?

AmazonRed™

August 4th, 2009
12:16 pm

And yall wonder why there are so many b*tchass men out there.

For Real – I don’t wonder why, I know why and that isn’t the reason.

Dude is questionable for being with that married chick anyway. But if some dude and I were out and he walks away from a fight, especially with some dude that ain’t got it all kosher upstairs, that doesn’t necessarily make him btich made.

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 4th, 2009
12:17 pm

Rell – I understand that.. Cause its rules to this and dudes act like they dont know married women are off limits. I was taught you dont mess with married women cause a man will kill you bout his wife..

W8©

August 4th, 2009
12:17 pm

I am so glad I am not 21 anymore

AmazonRed™

August 4th, 2009
12:18 pm

ARED – The reason I would have said we aint going nowhere is because I keep it with me at all times.

DK – Yeah, you have a weapon so now you can feel like big Willie. How are you without your piece? :???:

W8©

August 4th, 2009
12:19 pm

Hmm you must protect momma bear at all cost..some dudes just have to be made an example out of…and yes married women are off limits…you check her if she cheats in your own way..but the dude she cheated with has got to get it…sorry Man Law

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 4th, 2009
12:19 pm

Rell – Exactly because dudes know what it is.. “Yeah man I hitting this married chick, and I be doing everythang to her.” “I dont see how he kisses her, Ha ha ha”. I feel like you get whatever is coming to you if you mess with a married babe or married man.

SexyCool - I'm in charge.

August 4th, 2009
12:20 pm

I keep losing my posts on this…oh well

But dude didn’t run from a fight. He was escorted out the mall because of another dude. I’m not saying that confrontation should have been forced. But, just turning tail, seriously? I couldn’t see Mine going for that.

Plus, I’m too cool to do some ish like that anyway. LOL

AmazonRed™

August 4th, 2009
12:20 pm

ARED:
have u have loved someone so much but still had a major,animated disagreement with them?? If u luved and disagreed,did u bounce then or stayed?

Yes and I still didn’t feel I was in harms way. No one says crazy ish to me like “I’ll step to you in person” except for crazies on here.

But seeing as I’m single…I’ve always eventually bounced out. But not for reasons like thinking he was unstable.

W8©

August 4th, 2009
12:23 pm

People yall be careful crime is WAY up in Atlanta and there is a reason it not all being reported by mass media…I am not going into that..but dang this stuff is abnormal for a growing city..even in this controlled recession it is bad. Just be careful and watch your surroundings.

Kym-Don't want no Paper Gangsta

August 4th, 2009
12:24 pm

@W8 if every there was more foolishness that 12:19 is right there on top. It ranks up there with the married dude I dated trying to regulate who I date. You can’t run your house and mind..we is not a couple.

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 4th, 2009
12:24 pm

ARED – Im also a brown belt in Hapkido, Black belt in Karate and a state wrestling champ from the 80’s. Really good with my hands. See I dont seek to open a can of whoopin but if I have to I aint running from nobody. I will never pull my tool unles I plan on deadin you anyway I was taught that too. Never pull a gun unless you plan to use it.

Melo

August 4th, 2009
12:25 pm

I was taught you dont mess with married women cause a man will kill you bout his wife..

THATS ONE “CRIME” THEY NEED TO TAKE OFF THE LAW BOOKS

elijah( Dinner, Dancing, Sexing! That's want I'm talking about

August 4th, 2009
12:26 pm

Good Afternoon Folks!

@Rell …. After you get thru sowing I guess you will upgrade huh!

@Red…. You show signs of being good wife material! Your words are laced with wisdom to have a good marriage!

@W8 …Way to go Eight ruining all the good ladies….Now send me the number to that Hawiian sistas I will be their in 4 months!

@Grace…. You sound like you ready to get turn-out by H8!

What’s up Sassy! :wink:

Hello Sexy Cool! :Lol:

For Real

August 4th, 2009
12:26 pm

Ared: Lets stick to DK’s story. Ole boy was led out of the mall by the chick cause she was scared. That’s says alot about ole boy and how much he cares for that chick. – Piece of advise if your dude ain’t willing to stand up for you he don’t give a ish about you. Now, I’m not talking about some random fool that wants to fight for no reason. Is that what you are talking about?

Kym-Don't want no Paper Gangsta

August 4th, 2009
12:26 pm

@DK and another thing so what if she saw you in the mall. Your boi was not there at the mall, what were you going to do fight the dude for your friend? Call him to come to the mall and hold the guy until he gets there? “Come on dude I got him hemmed up in the bathroom.” or was your plan to follow her and dude around the mall?

AmazonRed™

August 4th, 2009
12:28 pm

@W8 if every there was more foolishness that 12:19 is right there on top.

Kym – I agree. Some of the dudes on here really sound mentally unstable. I understand venting, but some of this stuff are actual thoughts and real life EXAMPLES. Gas face for real.

W8©

August 4th, 2009
12:28 pm

What are you talking about Kym? In my 12:19 I stated that if my wife..the queen of my household the mother of my children cheats..I will check her…that does not mean physical violence at all…but the dude she messed with there is no limit as to what I will do to him..sorry you see that as foolishness but thats the consequence if you come messing with mine..There are no rules to that sitaution..so you get what’s coming if you mess with a married person..you have no rights…sometimes you may get caught and your ass whooped or sometimes you may get off scotch free..lol@ saying what is foolishness…foolishness is someone stepping out on their spouse

Sassy Me...juicy fruit :-)

August 4th, 2009
12:28 pm

I have never, ever, felt threatened in ANY relationship I’ve ever been in. Recognize the signs and bounce out. Most importantly, don’t spend time throwing salt in the wounds of an already hurtful situation. Just roll!That’s when the “indiffernce” side comes in handy.

Sassy now having a reflective moment……I’ve had to fight one man in my life that I was in a relationship with…ONE. See I grew up watching my parents fight….my dad is 6 feet even and my mom is 5′2″ and he took advantange of that. That is until one day she picked up a fork and gave him four across the face with it….he never touched her again….luckily they got divorced.
After seeing that I swore that no man would ever do that to me and I mean it. As for the one dude I had to fight all I can say is I don’t know what he was thinking b/c we were in the bish moving furniture and shyt cause I had lost my everlasting mind. I said that to say this: a man will only get away with some ish that he’s either gotten away with before or he’s trying you. I am by no means a bad azz but when you aggress me like that with some bull ish your fragile ego can’t take then “get it how you live cause it’s on”.

I don’t hit men(outside the bedroom) b/c I don’t want that to happen to me….but I’m not about to be a punching bag either.

lurker

August 4th, 2009
12:28 pm

Wow….So, “messing with the married” and merits “angry to the point of death” does that apply when married men have sidepieces? Oh, that’s not today’s topic.

Melo

August 4th, 2009
12:29 pm

W8© what changed u about Atlanta crime??
I said so 2 weeks back,u said it was normal for a metro this size.
U got new stats now…i read that waay back :lol:

lurker

August 4th, 2009
12:29 pm

foolishness is someone stepping out on their spouse

I hope we’re not being on-sided today and I hope this goes full circle and includes a man cheating on his wife as well….stepping out is stepping out.

Melo

August 4th, 2009
12:29 pm

Oh, that’s not today’s topic.

thats not todays topioc lurker!
Drop it!

AmazonRed™

August 4th, 2009
12:30 pm

*In my Rick James voice* Testosterone is a hellava drug!!!

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 4th, 2009
12:31 pm

Kym – No I wasnt goin to do nothing thats why I was laughing and waving at them. It was super funny that she was booking up out of there.

For Real – Exactly that lets you know where you are with one another.. Cause if that was my girl I’m loving on.. Yeah I would lay down my life for her. Aint no dude finna run me nowhere bout my love. Now some random chick. Oh yeah lets boogie or when dude comes up and confronts her I might walk away..

AmazonRed™

August 4th, 2009
12:31 pm

Wow….So, “messing with the married” and merits “angry to the point of death” does that apply when married men have sidepieces? Oh, that’s not today’s topic.

I am seeing the double standard as well. Cheating is prevalent and one of the ultimate signs of disrespect….SO WHY DO SO MANY MEN do it???

Melo

August 4th, 2009
12:33 pm

but the dude she messed with there is no limit as to what I will do to him

what if the dude didnt know she married w8?

Kym-Don't want no Paper Gangsta

August 4th, 2009
12:34 pm

@W8 of course infidelity is not right( this from a woman who specialized in dating married dudes) but all the same why attack the dude? He didn’t trick her into pulling her clothes off. She tossed it up he caught it done. Same with dudes that cheat..no one tricked them into cheating..”Yeah baby she pulled a David Copperfield on me and bam my dyck was in her mouth.” But he didnt have to take the coochie..or ole girl didnt have to go with the hubby to the no tell motel..Chicken or the egg..folks chicken or the egg.

W8©

August 4th, 2009
12:34 pm

Yall women are so jaded you cant even read straight. I said stepping out on your spouse…Did I mention a gender

@Melo- Yes new numbers and stats on crime and its growing crazy

And the wonderful thing is non of yall women have to ever worry about dating my crazy ass…so it’s all good..lol

W8©

August 4th, 2009
12:36 pm

@Melo- Sometimes there is no time for an investigation..

AmazonRed™

August 4th, 2009
12:36 pm

@Red…. You show signs of being good wife material! Your words are laced with wisdom to have a good marriage!

Elijah – Thanks. I’m just all about a harmonous home and a harmonious life. Break ups are bad enough. I don’t need to play games when it’s ending. If he did me wrong, I believe he’ll get his.

That’s not gonna stop me from moving on with my life though. Dude will just have to DEAL.

For Real

August 4th, 2009
12:36 pm

Lurker/Red: They all said messin with married folks is off limits. Folks in this context mean male and female. Men cheat because:

1. We like sex

2. We like sex

3. We like sex

4. We ain’t getting sex

5. We ain’t getting sex

6. We ain’t getting sex

Now why do women cheat?

Sassy Me...juicy fruit :-)

August 4th, 2009
12:37 pm

Hi Eli…..how YOU doin’? ;)

Kym-Don't want no Paper Gangsta

August 4th, 2009
12:37 pm

Dang it ajc. what is up with losing my post.

Melo

August 4th, 2009
12:37 pm

W8, u know Shirley and Pennington are still touting that robbers or violent crimes are down.Thats the biggest lie of 2009, i think!

W8©

August 4th, 2009
12:38 pm

Melo- I will go on record and state that is misleading…there are talking about “Atlanta” which is technically different than the metro area..feel me?

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 4th, 2009
12:39 pm

W8 – That is a man law.. See thats what women dont understand. Its just certain stuff you cant do to a man. Nor are they trying to take the time to understand that kind of stuff.

Where Raqi at? I know she would say Mase would Harm a dude about her. Heck he was gonna get her ex just on GP because he hurt her feelings.. Now that that shes his wife.. A dude will get the business about her eventhough we know she aint gonna do nothing.

AmazonRed™

August 4th, 2009
12:39 pm

Ared: Lets stick to DK’s story. Ole boy was led out of the mall by the chick cause she was scared.

For Real – I am sticking to DK’s story and DK doesn’t know WHAT ole girl said to make them leave. Depending on what was said, walking away might have been the smarter move, especially since DK stays packing a piece. Anyone can be the big man with a gun.

elijah( Dinner, Dancing, Sexing! That's want I'm talking about

August 4th, 2009
12:39 pm

Married is just a title, no one can commit violence because your spouse cheated! Keep it moving life is too short to be mad, upset, angry about what another person had done to the relationship!

We break our vows with GOD all the time but he does not strike us down!

Now we men are allow to choke our ladies during passionate moments!

Who needs to get choked this weekend? :smile:

M'

August 4th, 2009
12:39 pm

http://www.ajc.com/news/nation-world/4-107481.html?cxntlid=homepage_tab_newstab&cxntlid=thbz_hm

Wow…dat some nasty revenge…put Krazy Glue on the man’s parts…wife and his various lovers…oh wow.

W8©

August 4th, 2009
12:40 pm

Ever notice single women have all the answers to relationships…lol

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 4th, 2009
12:40 pm

And the sad part is Dudes know there is a possibility they can get the business about a married chick. They know this of top so when they proceed its only right to break em off proper. Then send her over the with him after you have assaulted him and contacted your attorney.

Professor

August 4th, 2009
12:40 pm

Stepping in…

As for running, I just like a man that has the ability to make a good decision and if a good decision means “flight” instead of “fight” I am with him.

@DK I agree with you about pulling your weapon…if you pull your weapon it should be for two reasons (1) you are taking the person out or (2) you are a hunter and you see dinner.

Hey Melo.

No comment on the spitting in the face, that entire matter was horrible, but I think I would snap if someone spat in my face…I guess old girl had already snapped anyway judging from her behavior.

AmazonRed™

August 4th, 2009
12:41 pm

Seem like single men do too. :lol:

Sassy Me...juicy fruit :-)

August 4th, 2009
12:41 pm

And the wonderful thing is non of yall women have to ever worry about dating my crazy ass…so it’s all good..

Well said…straight and to the point…cut off the fat and just gimme that meat. See how easy that was?…

AmazonRed™

August 4th, 2009
12:43 pm

And the wonderful thing is non of yall women have to ever worry about dating my crazy ass…so it’s all good..lol

:idea:

Kym-Don't want no Paper Gangsta

August 4th, 2009
12:43 pm

Let me try this one more time…

@W8 Of course stepping out on one’s spouse is foolishness(this comment comes from a woman who specialized in dating married men) However, why are you blaming the dude or the other woman? Dude did not trick the wife into pulling down the panties..she tossed it up he caught it. The woman did not trick the man into cheating. “Damn baby she pulled a David Copperfield on me..there was smoke a flash and bam my dizzle was in her mouth.” Let’s get real. Well he/she knew she/he was married…well hell so did the married person..were they not at the wedding..still didnt stop them.

W8©

August 4th, 2009
12:43 pm

things that will get you checked “in my crazy world” when it comes to my woman/lady/girlfriend/wife

Mess with or disrespect my wife/girl.

Come by my house when she is there and you know I am not.

Put her any where near harms way…

lurker

August 4th, 2009
12:44 pm

If you’re not mad enough to stab your own self when you’re hollering at a potential side….all the while married, don’t be getting so mad you can’t see straight when someone does your wife. Keep it in perspective.

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 4th, 2009
12:45 pm

ARED – I got a piece in my pants too but that dont mean I go around brandishing it or just pulling it out on folk. I only pull my piece when I plan to slaughter someone. Dont hate babe cause I got my bases covered and dont mind smacking a dude if I have to or letting that thing blow to protect myself cause im going home. It might be 7 to 10 years later but Im going home..

Sassy Me...juicy fruit :-)

August 4th, 2009
12:45 pm

Uuum AmRed I don’t think they saw your 12:31….would you re-state the question for the jury Ms. Lady M’aam?…inquiring minds want to know.

AmazonRed™

August 4th, 2009
12:45 pm

Lurker/Red: They all said messin with married folks is off limits. Folks in this context mean male and female. Men cheat because:

For Real – I’m addressing the SEVERAL men who feel that the man “deserves what he gets” for messing with another man’s wife.

Steve McNair deserved something, but he didn’t deserve to be harmed and he was the one stepping out.

M'

August 4th, 2009
12:46 pm

@Kym

That dang on David Copperfield trick get it every time…lmao…it was all an illusion…cuz what had happened was…lol

W8©

August 4th, 2009
12:47 pm

@Kym- do you..but know every playing field is not the same

@Sassy- that was directed at those who disagree with my “style”

and most of the single men on here don’t state that they have the answer they are just answering the “if and then”

Sassy Me...juicy fruit :-)

August 4th, 2009
12:47 pm

“Damn baby she pulled a David Copperfield on me..there was smoke a flash and bam my dizzle was in her mouth.”

LMMAO :) :D :lol:

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

August 4th, 2009
12:47 pm

Yall women are so jaded

W8 – Is that not the pot calling the kettle black, especially today!LOL!!!

This all is a bit much for me today. Yall scaryin’ me!LOL!!!!

M'

August 4th, 2009
12:48 pm

Messing around can get your “manhood” krazy glued to your stomach…lmao

AmazonRed™

August 4th, 2009
12:48 pm

Dont hate babe cause I got my bases covered and dont mind smacking a dude if I have to or letting that thing blow to protect myself cause im going home. It might be 7 to 10 years later but Im going home

DK – You never have to worry about me “hating” on you, especially over that.

You do what works for you. Like I said, I never feel threatened in my relationships so you can shoot up all of Perimeter Mall if you have to. Enjoy.

W8©

August 4th, 2009
12:48 pm

Hmm seems as if according to Time, U.S. Today and other polls that women cheat more than men…I guess women are better at not getting caught…lol

W8©

August 4th, 2009
12:49 pm

@Kimmie- lol.some folks just need a reality check..lol and they say we have double standards…ZIIIIPPP!!!!!!!

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 4th, 2009
12:49 pm

Kym – Thats just it dudes mess with married women to be disrespectful and they know they ramifications of this and since you cant knock her block off you just almost have to take the agression out on him. Now she gotta go too or you’ll look like a sucker..

Elijah – Have you ever been married?

Melo

August 4th, 2009
12:50 pm

Men get agitated when their women cheat coz they feel their ego has been put down.
To us men,we define ourselves by 1: Our Egos(that ego, and how we pack it)
2: our money and trappings.

when another man is chomping on ur home ground, a man feels the way he does coz he feel the woman stepped coz he wasnt bringing it.Its like another man challenging him to a physical fight.
No wonder the angst.
Ive neva found my woman cheating on me but if that where to happen,it wld be coz 1) the bacon hasnt been there in the home and maybe ive been trifling 2),i aint packing the heat 3) i was the 1st to step consistently.

If all three are on point,then no other man is gonna enjoy her adnauseam.
Smebody is getting liquidated. :lol:

W8©

August 4th, 2009
12:51 pm

My heart is very happy with my decisions..but I am not like Demi and blogging all about it..lmao

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 4th, 2009
12:51 pm

ARED – So what could she have possibly told him to get him out of there? I was the friend.. I wasnt the husband.

AmazonRed™

August 4th, 2009
12:51 pm

and most of the single men on here don’t state that they have the answer they are just answering the “if and then”

So do the women. No one is saying their opinion is the one and only way.

Poppa Grande

August 4th, 2009
12:52 pm

Kym

However, why are you blaming the dude or the other woman?

I don’t read W8 as saying that he blamed the other dude.

However, I do read W8 as saying that there are consequences to other dude’s participation in said behavior and the other person is being dealt with accordingly.

If I am wrong W8, feel free to correct me.

Melo

August 4th, 2009
12:53 pm

(1) you are taking the person out or (2) you are a hunter and you see dinner.

what a way to step in!

Hey Proff!

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 4th, 2009
12:53 pm

ARED – Dude was a chump.. He was.. A real square that didnt want any problems. She put him in a bad situation though cause he didnt know what was going on.

W8©

August 4th, 2009
12:55 pm

@PG- you are correct and thank you for making it a little more clear

AmazonRed™

August 4th, 2009
12:55 pm

ARED – So what could she have possibly told him to get him out of there? I was the friend.. I wasnt the husband.

Doesn’t matter. If I tell me dude that the man I just saw is trouble or unstable and may want to pop something off with his gun or his martial arts skills. I don’t want my dude like “so what, bring it on!” It be one thing if he ran after you came after him. It’s another to not even go there.

To me, you waving at them like some looney didn’t make you seem “normal” either. Homechick knows the kind of mess she’s in. Leaving was the better option.

No way they should have left if things had been progressing amicably. Things were not though.

Kym-Don't want no Paper Gangsta

August 4th, 2009
12:56 pm

M’ sorry I got tricks but not those kind. I never once did I have to pull some trick out of the bag to catch a married dude..I have dated on accident and because I was pursued,woo, and caught..but never once would I claim to be Blackstone of the infidelity world.

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 4th, 2009
12:57 pm

ARED – Steve McNair didnt deserve to get killed by his jumpoff. Now if his wife had got at her and put hands on her well she was justified. She would even be justified giving him a good smack.

AmazonRed™

August 4th, 2009
12:58 pm

ARED – Dude was a chump.. He was.. A real square that didnt want any problems. She put him in a bad situation though cause he didnt know what was going on.

DK – Well, I like squares. :lol: Not chumps though.

But I’m sure he knows ole girl is married, so he’s a chump anyway. I’m not excusing that in the least.

I don’t see what’s wrong in now WANTING any problems. Who does?

But if he’s messing with a married chick, even during divorce, he can’t say that.

Professor

August 4th, 2009
12:59 pm

@Ared I totally agree! There is not reason to flex muscles or pull out the switchblade, 9 or just wrestle in the mall until the police comes and take them to jail. I guess I like a man that has a brain and knows how to use it…

AmazonRed™

August 4th, 2009
1:00 pm

Now if his wife had got at her and put hands on her well she was justified. She would even be justified giving him a good smack.

DK – Where is the line? So she’s justified in whooping her azz but not justfied in killing?

I mean, just walk away. Seriously. Go live a life that will make your ex look foolish for even thinking of stepping out of you.

Everyone wants to take justice in their own hands. I just think it’s sad.

Poppa Grande

August 4th, 2009
1:01 pm

My grandpa used to say that a man’s two main jobs in life are to provide and protect. Some of my cousins seem to have added procreate.

With that in mind, we are very territorial when it comes to us and what we consider ours.

Sometimes it works for us and the ladies. We have a protection mindset to those things that we consider ours. Whether it be our rides, rims, or women. Sometimes it works against us. as it did Vernon Forrest. (Dude got robbed and them ran after the robbers) Sometimes it work for us, when we keep our family safe from day to day.

We have different mindsets than females. Just like y’all are calling some of our mindsets foolishness, we feel the same about those females that get into a tizzy over who said what to whom.

lurker

August 4th, 2009
1:03 pm

We break our vows with GOD all the time but he does not strike us down!

….and an amen from this corner

W8 so typical of a dude to call foul (i.e. your all the single ladies comment), when a chick don’t easily agree. Wrong is wrong. And don’t assume folks are single cause the speak against something. Guess if I’m quiet I laying like rover and taking it huh?

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 4th, 2009
1:04 pm

ARED – How bout the chick was wrong and she knew she was out of bounds. And yes I was waving like get the F outta here cause you dead wrong for this ish..

You never see a woman in the wrong its always one excuse after the other. Now I’m worng for making the chick feel unwelcomed. She wasnt welcomed. Thats my patna and I dont know dude so you know who my loyalty lies with. To me it was dirty and to him it was dirty so thats all that matters. And to be honest if dude wouldve popped off I wouldve whooped him just on GP.. Like Ol boy said in TOMBSTONE
“Whay are you helping Wyatt”
“Because he’s my friend”
“well I got plenty of friends”
“I dont”

SexyCool - I'm in charge.

August 4th, 2009
1:05 pm

I don’t profess to try and understand Man Law, Man Thought, or actually ManSh*t period. But when it comes to me and Mine, I respect the hell out of it.

Kym-Don't want no Paper Gangsta

August 4th, 2009
1:05 pm

I see so somewhere in some dusty part of the male library there is a volume that says if a married woman rubs your dizzle and says fire it up daddy you are suppose to walk away and say sorry..I will break the code. Yeah okay…free coochie and a dude is turning it down? Isn’t that one of the signs of the apocalypse(sp).

AmazonRed™

August 4th, 2009
1:05 pm

we feel the same about those females that get into a tizzy over who said what to whom.

Yeah, but I’m not going to say someone “gets what they deserve” by doing it either.

One of my friends spray painted her exes car with “man wh-ore” and “btich made.” He did her dirty. But he didn’t deserve to have his belongings vandalized.

I can’t co sign on that type of behavior, even if she’s a female or my friend.

AmazonRed™

August 4th, 2009
1:06 pm

You never see a woman in the wrong its always one excuse after the other.

DK – You might as well get off that soap box right now. I’ve already said that h0 is wrong. So pay attention. I don’t ride to foolishness just because it has a va.gina.

W8©

August 4th, 2009
1:08 pm

..some people do a lot of barking and some just bite…some like it str8 …some need a chaser…some make excuses…some deal with it…some of these fellas are bytchmade and some of yall ladies still loving them…maybe because you can still control them…LMAO marinate on that

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 4th, 2009
1:08 pm

ARED – In the jungle do the lions walk away. Its a most basic Male instinct to fight when challenged. I guess that what makes me who i am.. I will never be put in a skirt and I will never let some dude chump my gril/wife/mom or sister off. If i had a daughter and a young man disrespects her. I WILL knock his head off. Now I’ll let a dude talk all day but if he tries me you better know its on and all you need to do is crank up the car and get ready leave quickly.

M'

August 4th, 2009
1:08 pm

@Kym

What I meant was that there will always be a REASON the exonerates the guilty party from accepting responsibility for the decision that led to the incident occurring…even if it means using extreme justifications like the David Copperfield explanation…lol.

What had happened was…that is the key phrase a buddy and I use as an indicator that you gettng ready to hear BS…Copperfield comment fit so well into that…lol

Sassy Me...juicy fruit :-)

August 4th, 2009
1:11 pm

Yeah okay…free coochie and a dude is turning it down? Isn’t that one of the signs of the apocalypse(sp).

Kym you’se blaspheming guul…..but that was on point,though.

Sassy Me...juicy fruit :-)

August 4th, 2009
1:13 pm

…some of these fellas are bytchmade and some of yall ladies still loving them…maybe because you can still control them…

:shock: Well then…….

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 4th, 2009
1:13 pm

ARED – Thats just it.. There really isnt a line when you married and people get all crazy about spouses. People lose sight of that line really quick when in that situation. And yes Steves jumpoff was sanctioned to get whatever because she knew he was married. Now if she didnt know that would be a whole different ball of wax.

W8©

August 4th, 2009
1:14 pm

The end must be near cuz I turn free puddy down all the time…no some good head..I probably aint turning that down…lmao…read yall in a few hours I have to go buy some crab legs…lol

Kym-Don't want no Paper Gangsta

August 4th, 2009
1:14 pm

@M ooohh my bad..

@PoppaG and W8 I guess I am from the school of responsiblity. Because anything I have ever done I take responsiblity for it. I have had one woman, one time, try to hem me up, trying to figure out if her husband was dating me. He was not, he was just a old friend, but since she was looking I gave her something to look for. I told that story on here a few years back. Dushawn told me I was evil for what I did. Which I most likely was.

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 4th, 2009
1:15 pm

Kym – Dang that was cold.. ;-)

Demi

August 4th, 2009
1:16 pm

A.red…I am in agreement with a lot of your posts today…but there is always…X-factor.

Life has a way of throwing some mean curve balls

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 4th, 2009
1:18 pm

Kym – It comes down to ones principles. I for one cant get with a married chick.

Poppa Grande

August 4th, 2009
1:23 pm

Kym

PoppaG and W8 I guess I am from the school of responsiblity

I am as well.

Yes, who said that W8 or myself wouldn’t have to take responsibility for dealing with either the spouse or the sideazz? Everyone involved would have to face consequences.

Raqi

August 4th, 2009
1:24 pm

I for one cant get with a married chick

Infamous so this ^ means we are over??? :cry:

LOL Let me stop before I get an innocent man gone.

Demi

August 4th, 2009
1:25 pm

Most man wh-ores are bish made….

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 4th, 2009
1:28 pm

Raqi – read my 12:39 comment

elijah( Dinner, Dancing, Sexing! That's want I'm talking about

August 4th, 2009
1:31 pm

@Kym….I like that Kym…. Tell it like it is! That is a real sista not making excuses!

@DK…. Look my woman is my woman and if you get stupid I will have to put you down! Age and experience has brought me to a level of piece!

@Sassy….. Can you tell me how juicy that fruit is? I like some juicy fruit! :wink:

Poppa Grande

August 4th, 2009
1:34 pm

Kym

Also, there is no such thing as free puddy.

In general, nothing in life is free. Life itself isn’t free. Time is the price that is paid. For some, it is a reasonable cost. But it is still a cost. That time that you spend with that puddy is time that you will never ever get back.

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 4th, 2009
1:36 pm

I stick to my statement.. I dont mess with a married chick cause that is something that will make a dude unstable even if she is supahead. Dudes cant see straight when it comes to their wives.. Most cant cant handle it when it comes to their girlfriends. And if you get with a married chick/man and get your wig split you got what you deserved.

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

August 4th, 2009
1:38 pm

I’ve been kinda sitting back and reading this stuff today. Life is not fair sometimes and everyone has to take responsibility for their OWN actions.

I was thinking about the earlier statement made about “making a person what they are today”. The below example came to mind. It might not be what Rell meant, but that’s what that “made what they are today” comment made ME think of.

I’ve stated here before that my late father was a physician. Well, growing up I remember he & my mother talking about some trifling behavior of some of his peers. There would be dudes who had women stand by them while in med school, some even helped them substantially pay for school, open their first offices, give birth to their children, make the house a home. Even put their own dreams on hold for these men. Making things easy so they could become the doctor that they dreamed of being. Some of these same dudes, once they “made it”, would trade wife in for a newer, younger model. Parade the other woman all over town. Now how hurt & disrespected do you think the wife felt. But nobody ever got killed. But fate has a way of getting back. Some had careers that were less than stellar, some had other unfortunate things to happen to them.

Did I let this cloud my judgement of all men? Absolutely not. Neither my dad nor mom condoned the behavior of either party – the men nor the other women. But they did instill in me that if you treat people ugly, there is a price. Be it a man or woman, treat others as you would want to be treated. Period.

Demi

August 4th, 2009
1:38 pm

On Married women…Demi don’t do them…Demi maybe a former w’hore…but Demi doesn’t cheat.

Raqi...The Wife of a Weekend Jail Bird

August 4th, 2009
1:40 pm

LOL Infamous I missed that. I have baby issues today.

But you are right. I will not go there and he would definitely…I’ll just say he wouldn’t like that too well.

Demi

August 4th, 2009
1:43 pm

Dudes cant see straight when it comes to their wives…per the good book…A jealous husband should be feared…there is no telling which direction his wind is blowing.

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 4th, 2009
1:43 pm

Kimmie – Thats a good read and thats some knowledge.

“I’m not saying I agree with OJ but I can Understand”

lurker

August 4th, 2009
1:45 pm

If the OJ situation can be understood…then so can steve mcnair’s…just not understanding how we’re dividing

The Real Rell

August 4th, 2009
1:48 pm

raqi could you please way on this…

@dk…love the movie and vk role in it..and that was a defining line
hell i just watched a movie…green street hooligans..about english “firms”….and there motto was no matter the number…you stand your ground!!!!!

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 4th, 2009
1:48 pm

Lurker – Dang that was Chris Rock. Google it.. I’m not saying I agree with OJ but I understand.

Kym-Don't want no Paper Gangsta

August 4th, 2009
1:48 pm

@Poppa G I understand nothing in life is free. But, all this anger and violence that is not going to do anyone any good. I am with ARed..destroying someone else’s stuff shooting up the mall(where other people who don’t know you or your drama can be harmed) that is foolishness. Bullets don’t come with names.

Sassy Me...juicy fruit :-)

August 4th, 2009
1:51 pm

Can you tell me how juicy that fruit is? I like some juicy fruit!

Oooh Eli…you so Nasty ;) ……Aquafina……CLAP…CLAP ;)

Raqi...The Wife of a Weekend Jail Bird

August 4th, 2009
1:51 pm

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 4th, 2009
1:53 pm

Kym – Dang now Im gonna shoot a mall.. I see how stuff can be taken out of context. Seriously I dont advocate violence cause a punk beats a woman.. But I can understand how stuff pops off

Leggs

August 4th, 2009
1:53 pm

HAAAAAA to anyone understanding OJ’s actions. OJ walked around flexing like he’s the alpha dog only to wind up crying in court like a punk ass biotch! He cheated on his wife constantly (no proof on my part), but when he suspected she was doing the same, he went berserk. Back to all of you who say “don’t mess w/a married chick” because you don’t know how crazy the hubby is. He was beyond crazy, he always rode on the stupid train.”

lurker

August 4th, 2009
1:53 pm

No matter how trifling that woman was, her life shouldn’t be discounted less than his or anyone else that’s taken a bullet under those circumstances. Both she and he are now positioned to face their creator. If her life was sooo insignificant, then she wouldn’t have to face her deeds…but she was and so she must give an account…as he. Frankly, I can’t dig anybody taken the life of another in a fit of rage. She and Steve are neck and neck and God ain’t gonna give him a free pass because, according to society, was of a different caliber and she’s considered a skank.

AmazonRed™

August 4th, 2009
1:53 pm

ARED – In the jungle do the lions walk away.

DK – Humans are not regular mammals. They have the power of rational thinking.

You don’t go around fighting at every little sign of disrespect for a reason. I’m sure you encounter “signs” of it daily.

Demi

August 4th, 2009
1:54 pm

Raqi…Mase is 6a,12n,5p,11p..news material…that dude adores you, LOL

AmazonRed™

August 4th, 2009
1:56 pm

And yes Steves jumpoff was sanctioned to get whatever because she knew he was married

DK – We’ll just agree to disagree then.

The Real Rell

August 4th, 2009
1:56 pm

@kimmie…thats what i meant.

lurker

August 4th, 2009
1:57 pm

and yes, reaping what you sowed ain’t no joke….not only did OJ do all the dirt he could do while married to that woman and was too punk to take what she dished, he was too ignorant to go sit his trifling behind down somewhere. So, since he supposedly “got away” with what he did, he’s paying now. No stones go unturned.

AmazonRed™

August 4th, 2009
1:57 pm

A.red…I am in agreement with a lot of your posts today…

Demi – I was wondering where you were today.

AmazonRed™

August 4th, 2009
1:59 pm

Most man wh-ores are bish made….

Demi – Loving that!!!!

Raqi...Will Cut a B!tch...No, Seriously

August 4th, 2009
1:59 pm

Demi actually he is very collected yet very territorial. And I adore love him also.

Poppa Grande

August 4th, 2009
1:59 pm

But, all this anger and violence that is not going to do anyone any good.

Sleeping with married folks isn’t either.

Anyways, anger doesn’t come until there is a reason.

Honestly, I believe that it will get worse for generations to come.With schools taking simple things like dodge ball out of school and stopping honor rolls because kids feelings get hurt isn’t preparing kids for the real world of layoffs and furloughs. Add to that our cultures glorification of violence, it is a bad mixture.

The Real Rell

August 4th, 2009
1:59 pm

@dk

see how stuff can be taken out of context

- yep it does….i am always taken out of context

@raqi….how your husband would feel if you stepped out on him…

Poppa Grande

August 4th, 2009
2:02 pm

Kym

Let me put it to you in legal terms, knowingly sleeping with married folks = Assumption of the Risk

Demi

August 4th, 2009
2:02 pm

Aquafina……Sassy…I love a woman…who…can…spray water…while coming on my Africa.

Sassy is now attempting to murc a Demi

lurker

August 4th, 2009
2:02 pm

@raqi….how your husband would feel if you stepped out on him…

blank stare

Raqi

August 4th, 2009
2:03 pm

Rell I would never step out on him. But I have a very good idea of how he would feel and/or react.

AmazonRed™

August 4th, 2009
2:04 pm

Did I let this cloud my judgement of all men? Absolutely not. Neither my dad nor mom condoned the behavior of either party – the men nor the other women. But they did instill in me that if you treat people ugly, there is a price.

*putting $10 in the collection plate*

Like I said, folks are too busy trying to take justice in their own hands. Chill out. It will work itself out.

The Real Rell

August 4th, 2009
2:06 pm

@lurker..is that not a valid question…since we talking aobut it…and most of you split tails are railing against how we men stand on it…lets hear from a married women…how would her husband react…you act like we men like drama or danger….or having to go across somebodies pearly whites to keep our pride and respect..we dont…trust me i have at folks in defense of my life..and after words i was still worried if i hit someone or not….trust me all this tought talk is not easy…but its how a majority of us feel

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August 4th, 2009
2:06 pm

Enter your comments here

Sassy Me...juicy fruit :-)

August 4th, 2009
2:06 pm

With schools taking simple things like dodge ball out of school and stopping honor rolls because kids feelings get hurt isn’t preparing kids for the real world of layoffs and furloughs.

How true. I was watching Black in America over the weekend and one of the guests were talking about a school district in either Lousiana or Mississippi where the principal wanted to lower the academic requirements on tests and a slew of other scholastic standards so that OUR kids would have more passing than failing…..talk about injustice. That’s part of the problem.

AmazonRed™

August 4th, 2009
2:07 pm

No stones go unturned.

*nods head* As a person of faith, you gotta see the bigger picture then your dumb azz hurt feelings. We ALL have them.

Poppa Grande

August 4th, 2009
2:07 pm

Lurker

I’ve always felt that the OJ verdict was more about LAPD not getting away with something than it was OJ getting away with something. He was held liable in the civil case.

LAPD made way too many mistakes (they contaminated that crime scene and then tried to cover it up by trying to frame a guilty man) and OJ had the money to hire counsel that could exploit their f-ups to his advantage.

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 4th, 2009
2:09 pm

ARED – Youre right but when the trail derails nobody knows where it will end up..

AmazonRed™

August 4th, 2009
2:09 pm

I believe that it will get worse for generations to come.With schools taking simple things like dodge ball out of school and stopping honor rolls because kids feelings get hurt isn’t preparing kids for the real world of layoffs and furloughs. Add to that our cultures glorification of violence, it is a bad mixture

PG – I completely agree. And that is one of the reasons I really feel no pressure to have children. Even if I homeschool them, they’ll have to deal with other kids growing up with these mentalities.

AmazonRed™

August 4th, 2009
2:09 pm

Sassy Me...juicy fruit :-)

August 4th, 2009
2:10 pm

Aquafina……Sassy…I love a woman…who…can…spray water…while coming on my Africa.

Now see there Demi…if your phone rang right now you’d be all “shook up” wouldn’t ya?…… :)

Demi now stomping his feet and putting him thumb in him mouf

AmazonRed™

August 4th, 2009
2:11 pm

ARED – Youre right

:shock:

:lol:

Poppa Grande

August 4th, 2009
2:12 pm

Sassy

How about there have been reports that some teachers across the US have taught that slaves were allowed to go home on the weekends to be with their families? There was one teacher in Meriwether County, GA that was caught doing that and she said that didn’t want to make the black kids feel bad.

Now that is foolishness.

That was one of about a dozen teachers found throughout this country.

Demi

August 4th, 2009
2:13 pm

AmazonRed…I just lurk today…I am in no mood for Wisdom to sent me one of her all knowing textings.

But I’ve notice…right before she text or calls…my nostril is filled with her scent.

Raqi…smile LOL

The Real Rell

August 4th, 2009
2:13 pm

ok

PG how would you react

Raqi

August 4th, 2009
2:14 pm

Rell it would make him extremely unhappy. Extremely.

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 4th, 2009
2:14 pm

ARED – Youre right. We will have to agree to disagree but not without a parting shot.. Take that and that and that..

Poppa Grande

August 4th, 2009
2:15 pm

As a person of faith, you gotta see the bigger picture then your dumb azz hurt feelings. We ALL have them.

As a person of faith, I recognize that I am not perfect. We ALL have some bit of Doubting Thomas in us. It is what makes is human

Leggs

August 4th, 2009
2:16 pm

Inside buzz has an email addy asking if anyone in Atlanta knows of the party planner that had a catfight with Sheree Whitfield. Seems nobody in Atlanta knows him (so they say).

AmazonRed™

August 4th, 2009
2:16 pm

We will have to agree to disagree but not without a parting shot.. Take that and that and that..

:lol:

Testosterone is a hell of a drug. :lol:

Kym-Don't want no Paper Gangsta

August 4th, 2009
2:16 pm

Poppa G I know it is assumption of the risk…like I said I only had one problem. If a person is going to screw around at least don’t be sloppy. If you get caught own it. I told this guy if drama follows you then it better not be while you hanging with me..I may not be an alleybat but I can play one on tv. Don’t let the smooth taste fool ya. Oh yeah and adultery is a misdemeanor.

Demi

August 4th, 2009
2:17 pm

Sassy/A.red/My Bey(she does not blog)…Dayuuuuum Yousssssssssse!!!

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August 4th, 2009
2:20 pm

Rell No that’s not a valid question…coming from a man. You’re a man and obviously in agreement with the rest that said they’d kill if their wife cheated. I’m sure she’ll say her husband would be angry/upset/mad or whatever but she can’t answer from a man’s point of view…seriously….cause she ain’t a man. She may be in tune with him but and can tell up what he likes and how she can move him but IMO, only he can answer that and truthfully if ever placed in that situation. No, I don’t think you men like danger or drama but I would think by now you would have a better handle on your EMOTIONS and can think through a situation before sporadically reacting. I mean I understand at the height of your anger, sound thinking ain’t a rationale but to the point of death, naw not getting that. Here’s why. Sadly your wife cheated. I’m not going to discount the level of anger and hurt but, think about it. Cheating has been going on since the world existed and killing has not been the resolution. If every man that’s been cheated on killed then I’d say yeah, it’s evident that that’s the needful and an automatic reaction but no, it’s not. There are some that kill but there are many that stand tall and deal, whether it’s working through it or walking away. I won’t say killing wasn’t a fleeting thought but it’s not automatic, as played out today.

Demi

August 4th, 2009
2:21 pm

But this time, I was actually looking forward to hearing her voice.

demi now understand how bish iggas feels…not really

Sassy Me...juicy fruit :-)

August 4th, 2009
2:22 pm

Awwwww Demi…….ssshhhhh it’s okay….WOO..WOO..WOO :D

Poppa Grande

August 4th, 2009
2:22 pm

Rell

PG how would you react

She knows that I’d catch a case. I am extremely protective of her.

One time we were in NYC right outside of Madison Square Garden. This dude came by and he flick his hankerchief and it hit my wife in her face and he started laughing. I walked up to him and said nothing. I gave him a quick chop to the throat and walked away. I heard him gasping for air.

I don’t play when it comes to her, respecting her as my wife, etc.

AmazonRed™

August 4th, 2009
2:23 pm

Kym – Thanks for bringing back “alleybat.” Automatic chuckle!!! :lol:

Raqi

August 4th, 2009
2:23 pm

Who’s making love to your old lady while you were out making love?

Most men get sloppy when cheating. Women are better liars and decievers therefore better at cheating.

I have a theory about men cheating. Either your wife is just too damn naive and stupid to see it OR she couldn’t care less because she has her own thing going on.

lurker

August 4th, 2009
2:25 pm

PG I hear what you’re saying and no matter who contaminated what, he knows he either killed or had his wife killed. H may have been able to pay his way out of that one but in the grand scheme gotten by during that trial, he didn’t get away…as evidenced now.

Rell that 2:20 was me…I couldn’t get my screen to refresh.

Poppa Grande

August 4th, 2009
2:25 pm

Kym

You were really lucky.

Depending on the facts, assault can be a misdemeanor, too.

AmazonRed™

August 4th, 2009
2:26 pm

One time we were in NYC right outside of Madison Square Garden. This dude came by and he flick his hankerchief and it hit my wife in her face and he started laughing. I walked up to him and said nothing. I gave him a quick chop to the throat and walked away.

PG – Very nice. As stated before, if trouble comes and starts something with you, I’d expect a person to defend themselves. This includes women too.

But you know there are plenty of folks that see trouble coming. Like a madman gunmen in a croweded shopping mall. Some folks would stay and fight, others would hot tail it and run. I don’t think it makes you less of a man if you chose to roll out!!!

Sassy Me...juicy fruit :-)

August 4th, 2009
2:26 pm

I walked up to him and said nothing. I gave him a quick chop to the throat and walked away. I heard him gasping for air.

That’s what I’m talking ’bout…..cause if a chick did some shady stuff and disrespected my man(if I had one) I’d be on that azz like a bad rash in mid-July.

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

August 4th, 2009
2:26 pm

Sassy – On Black In America, that was Louisianna and that tired governor Bobby Jindal. He wanted to lower the graduation standards so more students would pass & make the state standards look good and also offer more training for blue collar positions.

PG – I agree with your last paragraph in your 1:59. These kids are not going to be equipped to handle anything. No survival skills at all.

abc

August 4th, 2009
2:27 pm

I’m not saying that I’d take violent action against a man that committed adultery with my wife. But. I know some Shiite refugees hiding out with the Bahai brothers in KC that work cheap. They can tie him to a tree, douse him with gasoline and set him on fire, or beat the hayell out of him, wrap him in duct tape and throw him on a train headed for Nevada, for the same low price.

But I’m not saying I’d do anything violent to him. She’d be single for sure, though. And to whoever said ‘marriage is just a word’, or a label… don’t get married until you understand what it is!

Poppa Grande

August 4th, 2009
2:29 pm

Rell

I’ve always evaluated those situations based on how much I’ve got to lose.

In my early twenties, I had more to lose than many twenty year olds. So, I knew that they were didn’t care what went down.

I have a lot to lose now. Chances are that I’d would really go the O’ran Juice Jones (cat that did that song “The Rain”..) rout and cut the credit card accounts and things like that.

Raqi

August 4th, 2009
2:31 pm

My youngest son’s father was very on point about our birth control method. At first. He got sloppy. I got pregnant. He was the one married unbeknownst to me.

AmazonRed™

August 4th, 2009
2:31 pm

I’ve always evaluated those situations based on how much I’ve got to lose.

I wish more people did.

This is why I respect, PG!

lurker

August 4th, 2009
2:32 pm

Most men get sloppy when cheating. Women are better liars and decievers therefore better at cheating. ABC will give you kudos for that admission…albeit true

I have a theory about men cheating. Either your wife is just too damn naive and stupid to see it OR she couldn’t care less because she has her own thing going on. I always say, gut/intuition is about the greatest thing a woman possesses.

Melo

August 4th, 2009
2:32 pm

I know some Shiite refugees hiding out with the Bahai brothers in KC that work cheap

:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

Hello Mr Sullivan!! (waving at abc in Thailand)

Poppa Grande

August 4th, 2009
2:32 pm

Kimmie

Also, thanks to No Child Left Behind school funding is tied to performance. Money plays a roll in everything. I think that the cheating by teachers and administrators(both here in GA and around the country) show that tying money to tests leave the door open for some foul stuff.

The Real Rell

August 4th, 2009
2:32 pm

stand tall and deal, whether it’s working through it or walking away. I won’t say killing wasn’t a fleeting thought but it’s not automatic, as played out today.

- THATS WHAT I AM DOING..i dont even think about it anymore…life goes on….i guess no one here ever let there emotions slip…again perfection at its finest

Kym-Don't want no Paper Gangsta

August 4th, 2009
2:33 pm

@PoppaG I wasn’t cheating with dude. His wife was checking up on his every move and email. He emailed me to say hello and chat..Dude in another state. She gets my email addy and begins sending me messages as if she was he..asking questions that made no sense. So when I picked up on it..I got mad. I said fine she wants to be Inspector Gadget..riddle this..I sent to the email pictures of two little kids, boy and girl same skintone as ole dude and put under the captions doesn’t Tee-Tee look like daddy and Savannah has her daddy’s eyes.

I don’t know what happen after that but last message I got was direct from her own email asking had I seen him..I ask her why did you lose him? You want to play games I can play right along.

lurker

August 4th, 2009
2:34 pm

As the old folks use to say….they bury the dead not the scared….

Poppa Grande

August 4th, 2009
2:35 pm

AR

It doesn’t mean that I wouldn’t do anything, but I would evaluate if I were willing to pay that price.

I doubt that I’d pull a Fred Tokars on her, but I’d probably cut the finances. She is a grown chick and an attorney so she can take care of herself.

For Real

August 4th, 2009
2:37 pm

Ared: Baby did you hear that!

Dude: mmm like dat Angie

Ared: (hitting him in the head) Get yo azz up!

Dude: Huh, what, why you hit me!

Ared: I heard a noise downstairs…

Dude: Probably the cat, I’m going back to sleep

Ared: We ain’t got no dayumm cat!! Take yo azz down there and see what it is!

Dude: Alright fine (walking down the stairs see a dude) Screams like a h0 in church – their Atari and VCR) Screems like a h0 in church

Ared: BABY WHAT GOIN ON!!!

Dude: CALL 911 DEY IN DA HOUSE AND DEY STEALING YO ATARI AND VCR!!!!

Ared: WTF!! MY ATARI??? Where you going?

Dude dives out the bedroom window and pulls a Usain Bolt

Ared: Awwww wook at my big smart man. Dayum he fast to death!

Raqi...Has a dark side.

August 4th, 2009
2:37 pm

As it stands now I don’t think I would try to do anything to a woman that my husband chooses to step with. She is not the one that will have betrayed me and my trust. I would deal with him.

And if a woman feels like she can take my husband and manages to do so, I have to admit they are meant for each other. However I would not kill him or try to, that’s too easy. I would just make sure she has $$$$$ less of his funds to utilize every month.

And I would never give him or her the satisfaction of me marrying someone else. I would more than likely get with someone else but we will just vacation on the Caymans on his dollar.

lurker

August 4th, 2009
2:38 pm

Rell – THATS WHAT I AM DOING..i dont even think about it anymore…life goes on….i guess no one here ever let there emotions slip…again perfection at its finest

I hear you man…and I believe you’re bringing things back in tow. No I won’t like and say I’ve never lost grip with my emotions but I’m a hot head and quick tempered and if I’m pushed hard enough so mad I can’t see straight but guess what…I’ve learned to drop foolishness, walk away and not look back and as someone stated earlier, adapted to becoming indifferent. Can quite remember which person quoted but that should be engraved or bottled and sold. Get angry beyond what’s humanly allowed is sooo draining and tend to adversely affect only you…unless you taking folks out…lol…I kid I kid

AmazonRed™

August 4th, 2009
2:39 pm

It doesn’t mean that I wouldn’t do anything, but I would evaluate if I were willing to pay that price.

PG – I know.

Sassy Me...juicy fruit :-)

August 4th, 2009
2:40 pm

Kimmie thanks for the clarification…They’re doing our youth a HUGE injustice. Do they not know that the chirren are the future?….

Poppa Grande

August 4th, 2009
2:41 pm

Sassy

My personality is one that stands around and have a verbal fight.

I’ve seen plenty of fights where two guys stand there saying what they are gonna do to each other and nothing really happening.

I am not a person that will tell you what I am gonna do. I just do it and let you figure it out afterwards.

I got detention twice during high school and both times were for fights. I swept one kids legs so fast that his fact hit the cafeteria floor and knock out a tooth. The other just got picked up and thrown into the shrubs in front of the school. I said gave no warning to either.

Demi

August 4th, 2009
2:41 pm

(Most men get sloppy when cheating. Women are better liars and decievers therefore better at cheating.)

Shoot…Eve was thought by Satan in garden…Nuff Said.

AmazonRed™

August 4th, 2009
2:42 pm

As it stands now I don’t think I would try to do anything to a woman that my husband chooses to step with. She is not the one that will have betrayed me and my trust. I would deal with him.

Raqi – I guess that’s why the men deal with the man who is creeping with their wives. At least it’s “acceptable” to hit another man.

But yeah, every time I read a story of a woman getting $44,000 a month in child support, I’m thinking someone has gotten just desserts. :lol:

Leggs

August 4th, 2009
2:43 pm

@???, most know who you are! :wink:

Melo

August 4th, 2009
2:44 pm

but we will just vacation on the Caymans on his dollar.

ure’sa bad muffccka b*** Raqi! :lol: :lol: :lol:

Melo

August 4th, 2009
2:45 pm

every time I read a story of a woman getting $44,000 a month in child support, I’m thinking someone has gotten just desserts.

ure’sa bad muffccka b*** Ared! :lol: :lol: :lol:

lurker

August 4th, 2009
2:45 pm

Where is Beautiful

Demi

August 4th, 2009
2:46 pm

My personality is (NOT) one that stands around and have a verbal fight.

AmazonRed™

August 4th, 2009
2:48 pm

ure’sa bad muffccka b*** Ared!

Yes…I am. ;)

Poppa Grande

August 4th, 2009
2:48 pm

Kym

I wasn’t cheating with dude.

Adultery being assumption of the risk is a general statement. It applies to all involved, especially given the STD rates.

I wasn’t talking about you specifically. I had no idea of the circumstances around your situation.

It was more of general statement.

For Real

August 4th, 2009
2:48 pm

I don’t blame the teachers or the system. I blame the parents. I bet if they start kicking john-john’s dumb azz out of school and the parents are forced to pay for his education john-john would be smart to dealth.

Poppa Grande

August 4th, 2009
2:49 pm

Thanks Demi.

Not is correct. I don’t proofread these post like I do for class.

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 4th, 2009
2:50 pm

Raqi – See thats how ya’ll think but guess what a real dude will recoup and regroup those funds.. And on top of that the courts dont work like that no more..

Demi

August 4th, 2009
2:51 pm

You know…in my early 20’s. Anger and hatred, where the only thing keeping me going…day in and day out.

nearly destroy me as well

For Real

August 4th, 2009
2:52 pm

“every time I read a story of a woman getting $44,000 a month in child support, I’m thinking someone has gotten just desserts.” – See you do believe in “getting even” sometimes it’s money sometimes it’s “dead to deaf”.

mytw♥tatas

August 4th, 2009
2:53 pm

I feel like mixing up some new concoctions and being my own test dummy. Never really experimented with Apple Juice. Wonder what I could create with some tequila, whiskey, or sumthin like that… Libations lovers – Any suggestions?

For Real

August 4th, 2009
2:54 pm

Apple Juice and Zipppppppppp!!! That cool refreshing drink.

Raqi...Revenge is a Bi-atch

August 4th, 2009
2:55 pm

LOL Melo Nah, not really. I just try to be the best wife I can be now and in doing so I am just going to roll over and play dead if he gets foul.

My husband loves his money. I have a joke that I say to him all the time about him marrying me and his money at our ceremony. He was holding my hand with one hand and had his other in his pocket. I say he was holding hands with his money and he stated his vows. He was really just nervous but I know that man loves his money.

The only thing that would be worse to him than him shelling out $$$$$ a month for child support (he wouldn’t have a problem with CS) AND alimony is me using his money to live the good life with another man.

Heck to spite him even more I would a get young tenderony. 23-25 years old eccentric kinda guy. With dreads. (My husband hate dreads and lazy deadbeats) His daily occupation would be simply doing me.

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 4th, 2009
2:56 pm

PG – Yeah I’m pretty bad about that too. I’m known to steal on a joker.. All that tongue wrasslin aint gonna solve nothin.. Heck I wish you could just whoop a joker these days and he would take his beating like a man but it aint that simple no more. Cause dudes will call the police on ya.

Raqi...Revenge is a Bi-atch

August 4th, 2009
2:57 pm

Correction:…I am just NOT going….

Kym-Don't want no Paper Gangsta

August 4th, 2009
3:00 pm

@PoppaG I know but you said I was lucky so I figured why not explain.

Mo (aka Moeisha-)

August 4th, 2009
3:00 pm

Mytwo – apple juice…..hmmmm…lemme think

For Real – wassup witcha?

Poppa Grande

August 4th, 2009
3:00 pm

Rell

One more thing…I learned that my dark side has to be kept at bay.

I darn near killed a kid in the 5th grade. He called me the n-word while on the school bus. He told me that I was supposed to sit in the back, too. I refused. So when i got off and the school bus was out of sight, he jumped me from behind. I grabbed a handful of dirt and threw it in his eyes and got a handful of his nuts. I then dragged him to the street curb and slammed him onto the asphalt and grabbed his hair and started slamming his face into said curb. I saw his eye start to roll and the next thing I know my dad was pulling me off that kid.

I learned then to control myself a little bit.

Melo

August 4th, 2009
3:03 pm

Raqi u right,i know.
Most dudes i know hate to be blowing $$$ on a gone chic,worse when shes being pinned on all 4s by a young one.
Thats why i aint messing with my Queen. And i got insheraance to get the best viagra,when i cant raise it to attn at will……..
I luv her dark roast behind bad bad bad,dang.mfcccker!!! :lol:
(im counting dwn to vacay)

The Real Rell

August 4th, 2009
3:03 pm

I learned that my dark side has to be kept at bay

- i do it daily

Proud White Man (not Demi)

August 4th, 2009
3:03 pm

Do they not know that the chirren are the future?….

Above statement does not apply to youth of color.

Sassy Me...juicy fruit :-)

August 4th, 2009
3:03 pm

I am not a person that will tell you what I am gonna do. I just do it and let you figure it out afterwards.

Me too Poppa…..my thought is either you gone do sumthin’ or shut the eff up.

AmazonRed™

August 4th, 2009
3:05 pm

See you do believe in “getting even” sometimes it’s money sometimes it’s “dead to deaf”.

For Real –

I’ma need people to pay attention. Yes, I believe that there are consequences for actions!

I DON’T believe in taking justice in your own hands just because you got your feelings hurt. Get over it.

Poppa Grande

August 4th, 2009
3:06 pm

DK

I have no problem with them calling the police on me. After all, it take two to tango. I am not going around starting ish for no reason. take me to jail and we sort this thing out later. Being that I am in the legal field, no one wants to take me up on that. They feel that it is unfair that I know attorneys and stuff.

I have a problem more with if you beat they azz they wanna come back with guns and stuff. They can’t take an azz whoopin’.

I’ve gotten beaten up and I’ve beaten some up.

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

August 4th, 2009
3:06 pm

For Real – Your 2:48 – for real.

AmazonRed™

August 4th, 2009
3:06 pm

You know…in my early 20’s. Anger and hatred, where the only thing keeping me going…day in and day out.

nearly destroy me as well

Seriously though. Why has life been for so rough for folks. I can’t believe all this drama is not a result of poor choices one has made.

Some folks are dealt a rough hand, but others just make bad decisions. Which is it?

SexyCool - I'm in charge.

August 4th, 2009
3:07 pm

Long, long, long, long time ago when I used to fight alot, I wouldn’t argue. Anybody that ran up on me, I’d just pick up something and hit them with it. I figure there’s no use in wasting energy bumping gums. Use the energy for the fight.

Raqi

August 4th, 2009
3:07 pm

And on top of that the courts dont work like that no more..

snickering okay.

Demi

August 4th, 2009
3:07 pm

You know…a man who can’t control his own emotions…is less than an animal…

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 4th, 2009
3:08 pm

See you do believe in “getting even” sometimes it’s money sometimes it’s “dead to deaf”.

I second the motion

Kym-Don't want no Paper Gangsta

August 4th, 2009
3:09 pm

@PoppaG I know about the darkerside of Kym..it is not a happy place. I have learned that being defensive and itch at times is one thing. But I can think of some horrific stuff to do..if pushed.

AmazonRed™

August 4th, 2009
3:10 pm

I have a problem more with if you beat they azz they wanna come back with guns and stuff. They can’t take an azz whoopin’.

Amen. That’s why you can’t take on every fight either these days.

Elijah( Unhappiness is a tool of the devil)

August 4th, 2009
3:11 pm

…PG I am with you on that, No Talking just a barrage of knuckles coming at you in bunches.

On Cheating… men can cheat just as good as women do! We just get to a point where we do not care anymore! When I was in the game I was running it very smoothly, I would tell the ladies who can except it and continue to phluck the one who cannot accept it!

Melo

August 4th, 2009
3:11 pm

Some folks are dealt a rough hand, but others just make bad decisions. Which is it?

in either circumstance tho,there is no excuse for not pulling ur weight out of it.
Some are born poor and others rich but it dont mean the poor cant wrk their way to riches.

Its all abo ut choices really,bad or good!
U make ur bed,u lie on it!

Sassy Me...juicy fruit :-)

August 4th, 2009
3:12 pm

I learned that my dark side has to be kept at bay

Shyyyyt who you tellin’. That’s an ongoing thing with me….I don’t start ish b/c I know how I am but if you start with me then I almost feel compelled to finish it. I’ve gotten a better handle on it as I’ve gotten older but once in a while I’ll let it go.

The Real Rell

August 4th, 2009
3:12 pm

I’d just pick up something

- yep like two big cokes….lol….

Mo (aka Moeisha-)

August 4th, 2009
3:13 pm

SexyCool – liking that 3:07 chica…just get to it already

Elijah( Unhappiness is a tool of the devil)

August 4th, 2009
3:13 pm

Speaking on married women! My work-out partner is about 6ft5 250lbs bka Mr. Gym personality. A good portion of the married women in the gym are offering him le panties!

Men need to mount up and take care of their wives because they are on the prowl!

Raqi

August 4th, 2009
3:13 pm

My mother told me many years ago that a woman’s scorn runs just as deep as the love her heart housed.

I got my name Scorned from my brothers after my rough ride with Whitebread and I only was just mildly fond of him. If Mason wrongsme I will become the Evil Azz Scorned B1tch, because my love for him engulfs my entire being.

SexyCool - I'm in charge.

August 4th, 2009
3:14 pm

LMAO!!! – But that wasn’t a fight.

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 4th, 2009
3:14 pm

Poppa Grande – I understand that. I have touched and been touched up.

Sassy Me...juicy fruit :-)

August 4th, 2009
3:14 pm

On Cheating… men can cheat just as good as women do! We just get to a point where we do not care anymore! When I was in the game I was running it very smoothly, I would tell the ladies who can except it and continue to phluck the one who cannot accept it!

:shock:

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 4th, 2009
3:16 pm

RAqi – That is scary love right there. Thats Im gonna kill you love.. See everybody pay attention if Mase tries to leave Raqi he’s gonna get it..

Melo

August 4th, 2009
3:16 pm

Today uall made m remember that UGA professor who blew his cheating wife away,then ran off and blew himself off too,not be4 hiding in that little hole he dug himself…For whaat? :lol:

Tragedy can be comdeic ha??! :lol:

(i feel sorry for the other innocent older dude who was caught in crossfire)

im sure u infer what i think about the other cheating dude and the trifling hoe wife.. :lol:

AmazonRed™

August 4th, 2009
3:17 pm

So I guess the guys will disagree with me but I think Vernon Forrest should have taken the “L” rather than run after the dudes that car jacked him. I KNOW he took off thinking it was a fight he would win.

Elijah( Unhappiness is a tool of the devil)

August 4th, 2009
3:17 pm

Sassy I got something for your darkside!

Sassy Me...juicy fruit :-)

August 4th, 2009
3:17 pm

My work-out partner is about 6ft5 250lbs bka Mr. Gym personality. A good portion of the married women in the gym are offering him le panties! Men need to mount up and take care of their wives because they are on the prowl!

I’m more than sure he’s gettin’ more than he shake his stick at.

SexyCool - I'm in charge.

August 4th, 2009
3:18 pm

Okaaaayyy, Mo – It actually ended up keeping me out of more fights than anything. Nobody wanted to fight me. They’d be like, “Uhnt-uh, I don’t mess with her. C is crazy.”

And that is especially funny cause I used to be one of the skinniest chicks around.

Sassy Me...juicy fruit :-)

August 4th, 2009
3:18 pm

Sassy I got something for your darkside!

I’m more than sure you do Eli…more than sure ;)

Tazzee - looking for Friday

August 4th, 2009
3:20 pm

Anybody that ran up on me, I’d just pick up something and hit them with it.

SexyCool – last night in the gym, this guy just came running up behind us folks on the elliptical machines. I kid you not – I was ‘this close’ to jumping off my machine with my metal water bottle to knock him out. He had left his keys on another machine and he was running to get them – but his moves were suspicious…

I had to laugh at myself after he grabbed his keys and walked away.

Sassy Me...juicy fruit :-)

August 4th, 2009
3:20 pm

I think Vernon Forrest should have taken the “L” rather than run after the dudes that car jacked him. I KNOW he took off thinking it was a fight he would win.

I think so,too….especially in the part of town that he was in….rough,rough hood. Sadly it doesn’t really matter what part of town you’re in.

The Real Rell

August 4th, 2009
3:23 pm

@SC…it should have been a fight..lol

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 4th, 2009
3:23 pm

Look ladies because we are men we do certain things. If we were like yall we would not need to war but we arent and every now and then you have to go cross a fool head.

ARED – Now me personally if buddy got the drop on me he got that cause I was slippin, but in no way shape or form am I chasing anybody near machanicsville into no nearby apts. Yeah I would have took the L but believe me my westside cousins in dixie hills/pittsburgh would be notified and somebody would get seen about.

Pretty Wings

August 4th, 2009
3:23 pm

How about just living “sucka Free”? Instead of trying to get all the Na na/Dizzle that is thrown at you, just have courage to turn it down. Then you don’t have to worry about the drama.

I don’t belive in getting even, I’d rather get ghost. More times than not for me I aint hanging around that long.

A wannabe called me last night and I had to remind him, “dude we have’nt been talking, what part of I not interested don’t you understand. I think he was use to women falling all over him……..sad.

Tazzee - looking for Friday

August 4th, 2009
3:24 pm

yep like two big cokes….lol….

:lol: :lol: :lol:

Professor

August 4th, 2009
3:24 pm

Melo just when I was getting ready to tell you to get your azz out of Thailand and finish crunching those numbers, you are not on vacation yet, you hit us with some real talk.

****Some are born poor and others rich but it dont mean the poor cant wrk their way to riches.*****

I totally agree work pays off…I am trying to catch up a little here.

Melo

August 4th, 2009
3:25 pm

I think Vernon Forrest should have taken the “L” rather than run after the dudes that car jacked him

well,everyone in here who proclaims to be a fighter gets beat too,on ocassions.Thats the risk u take for standing up to fight.
Noone is a guaranteed winner,not by a long shot!

AmazonRed™

August 4th, 2009
3:27 pm

If we were like yall we would not need to war but we arent and every now and then you have to go cross a fool head.

DK – No one is asking you to be like us women. No one is saying there is never a reason to fight either, you are selectively reading.

Raqi

August 4th, 2009
3:28 pm

See Infamous it had happened like this…

I was doing just fine. I had gathered all the pieces of my heart back and locked it away in a solid steel box. The key was melted and used to fill the key hole of the lock. Never to be touched again. I was good. Living fine.

But he came along and chiseled at that box until it was talcum powder dust. Then he took the pieces of my heart and cemented it back together with his love, his loyalty, his generosity, his tender kisses, his understanding, his patience and made it whole again branding it with his mark.

I have always the one who gets me would the one who “gets me”.

That’s how it happened. LOL

Melo

August 4th, 2009
3:28 pm

Professor,im counting down.
Its getting tame here,cleaning up my spot…by friday,i be ready!

AmazonRed™

August 4th, 2009
3:28 pm

A wannabe called me last night and I had to remind him, “dude we have’nt been talking, what part of I not interested don’t you understand. I think he was use to women falling all over him……..sad.

:lol:

I had a dude come into town and get his feelings hurt that way. We’re cool but we are clearly not dating. Don’t ask for time like we are!

SexyCool - I'm in charge.

August 4th, 2009
3:29 pm

Taz>/strong> – You showed up just to laugh at that. I am HOLLERIN’….

Naw, Rell – he wasn’t worth and neither was she.

still laughing at Taz…

Professor

August 4th, 2009
3:29 pm

For the real fighters in the room, fighting is mental anyway you should already know your POA…you just don’t start hitting folks and all that mess that is how you get that head splattered open or gutted like a fish. I digress…I guess I have handed out too many azz whoopings, but I am so glad that I am pass that stage in life.

Raqi

August 4th, 2009
3:29 pm

Now you got me feeling all loving and mushy. What time is he getting home??? I need him.

Cemeeli

August 4th, 2009
3:30 pm

…hello.

@ Melo – Where are you and Queen going for vacay?

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 4th, 2009
3:30 pm

ARED – Its that time of the day where I start messing with you and crossing up your statements to see if you’ll keep playing with me..

AmazonRed™

August 4th, 2009
3:32 pm

ARED – Its that time of the day where I start messing with you and crossing up your statements to see if you’ll keep playing with me..

DK – I’m flattered. :???: :roll: ;) :lol:

And still not FLAKY. ;) :lol:

Professor

August 4th, 2009
3:32 pm

Melo I am over here working hard, so I am glad you are getting your desk cleared. If I am not on here (probably will though) make sure you have a safe trip and plenty of fun.

Sassy Me...juicy fruit :-)

August 4th, 2009
3:33 pm

No one is asking you to be like us women. No one is saying there is never a reason to fight either, you are selectively reading.

Sho ain’t read me……….

Melo

August 4th, 2009
3:33 pm

Raqi, u love him or u adore him??

Raqi

August 4th, 2009
3:33 pm

I have never been one to just fight without really being pushed there.

Alvin

August 4th, 2009
3:33 pm

(Seriously though. Why has life been for so rough for folks. I can’t believe all this drama is not a result of poor choices one has made.)

AmazonRed….LOL…I loss my hearing aid this weekend…I’ve ordered a new one…(for a cool 2k).

Try this…buy some ear plug…and try to have a normal convo with them…do this for 20 years…as child first…watch how little you will be treated…by family and friend…now tough it out…even your love one get tired of trying to have a convo with some one who can only hear 25% of what is being said.

I was 20 the first time I’ve ever heard a bird sing, hear the phone ring and really hear my mom’s voice.

Yeah sis…I’ve spend a lots of years working on myself…People only see the semi-finish product today…not the painful and angst product of the past.

Some folks are dealt a rough hand, but others just make bad decisions. Which is it?

I don’t know…I just thank God for give me the strength to endure my trials.

Tazzee - looking for Friday

August 4th, 2009
3:34 pm

SexyCool – actually I had posted something regarding your pick something up and hit folks comment but that got lost. But yes, I did have to laugh at that one…

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 4th, 2009
3:34 pm

Raqi – Aww dang I threw up in my mouth twice for those last two comments.. In my Napoloean Dynamite voice “DANG!”

Lord Velonese (insert trendy Quote here)

August 4th, 2009
3:36 pm

No, Seriously, Hasn’t a topic like this been covered already?

Professor wrote: Are we not willing to take risks in dating anymore?

Nope, when there are no clear benefits for a successful man, even minimal benefits are dwindling; I see NO REASON to risk going for broke for a woman. Regardless of women’s beauty I have NEVER met a woman that is worth risking it all because that’s normally that’s what they go for. Ask yourself do you think they would do the same for you? Probably not, women have it in there head men are here to serve them especially when you have money/ are successful. Women are excellent manipulators to get what they want; too bad they hit a roadblock when it comes to someone like me (and no flashing your cleavage doesn’t work). If I had a dollar for every time a woman used the “watch how my boobies and booty shake” tactic well it would be nicer than it is now.

Cemeeli

August 4th, 2009
3:36 pm

Alvin – Cee don’t cry on Tuesday! Stop it…

AmazonRed™

August 4th, 2009
3:36 pm

Try this…buy some ear plug…and try to have a normal convo with them…do this for 20 years…as child first…

Alvin…while it’s not 25%, I can relate to your analogy above. And that’s all I’ll say on that one. :)

But I wasn’t just directing it to you. A lot of people have alluded to having anger issues. I’m wondering what is going on.

Melo

August 4th, 2009
3:36 pm

@ Melo – Where are you and Queen going for vacay

Our own Martha’s vineyard on Hhead.
We got our own pvt beach there too,in our plantation,so we dont sunbath with uall regulars who come to vist.
A mandingo like me, i feel like Obama right now,1st Prezedente of these U S A

Melo

August 4th, 2009
3:37 pm

thanx Professor!

Pretty Wings

August 4th, 2009
3:37 pm

@ AREAD – You know I did’nt mean any harm and was very gentle with him
but damn……..

You know folks one for certain and two things for sure…….I’ve been on the come around and the go around. It is my mission never to cause harm to anyone ever.

So, I never really worry about anyone doing wrong towards me, I actually am mature enough to feel sorry for them.

Demigod33

August 4th, 2009
3:37 pm

A.red not at you in ANYWAY

I AM THE DEMIGOD BISH…FUGG WHAT I AM GOING THROUGH, FUGG WHAT I’VE BEEN THROUGH, AND FUGG WHAT FOLKS THINK ABOUT ME.

Get use to it…I am in this BISH for life!!!

Raqi

August 4th, 2009
3:38 pm

LOVE, LOVE, LOVE.

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 4th, 2009
3:38 pm

ARED – Yeah we we Boca Raton cheri sui. You like my France baby?

Melo

August 4th, 2009
3:38 pm

1st Prezedente

1st,VERY BLACK Prezedente OF U S A (i meant to say)

Cemeeli

August 4th, 2009
3:38 pm

I don’t belive in getting even, I’d rather get ghost. More times than not for me I aint hanging around that long.

I agree. I value life/my heart/my peace, too much to be dealing with someone’s son bs.

Demi

August 4th, 2009
3:39 pm

Yeeeeeeeeeeeeaaaaahh (What’s my favorite WORD) es!!!!

Raqi

August 4th, 2009
3:39 pm

LMAO Infamous. Is that type of love and passion now only a memory buried your mind of lost love???

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 4th, 2009
3:40 pm

Ared – I dont have anger issues myself.. I’m just passionate and feel strongly things I feel strongly about. yeah thats it..

Professor

August 4th, 2009
3:42 pm

Lord V I don’t know you, but you always sound like you are hurting. Shall I send you a get well soon card?

Cemeeli

August 4th, 2009
3:42 pm

@ Melo – Sounds like a good lil set up there in Hilton Head. Beautiful.

Cemeeli

August 4th, 2009
3:43 pm

Swiss in here?

AmazonRed™

August 4th, 2009
3:43 pm

Ared – I dont have anger issues myself.. I’m just passionate and feel strongly things I feel strongly about. yeah thats it..

You are my gentle flower, DK. *batting eyelashes*

Pretty Wings

August 4th, 2009
3:46 pm

@Professor – I love your passive aggressive approach to anger. LOL

Melo

August 4th, 2009
3:47 pm

If I had a dollar for every time a woman used the “watch how my boobies and booty shake” tactic well it would be nicer than it is now.

u must go to strokkers every day,dont u??

AmazonRed™

August 4th, 2009
3:48 pm

Foul play..used to be Jazzyone

August 4th, 2009
3:49 pm

SO I read a few of the earlier blogs and flakiness from either sex is called “Just not that into you” doesn’t take a rocket scientist to figure that out. If someone is into you it doesn’t fade as fast and the gleening isn’t off the table. LOL..

Melo

August 4th, 2009
3:49 pm

No woman out there thats intelligent,well dressed,smart and well put to attract ur good intentions Lord Velonese??

Some aint right!!

Pretty Wings

August 4th, 2009
3:50 pm

I heard CRAZY GLUE SALES JUST WENT UP. LMAO

Foul play..used to be Jazzyone

August 4th, 2009
3:51 pm

On topic, no it doesn’t take me long to figure out if someone is for me or not. I know what I want out of life and a mate if they don’t fit in my inner zone of a romance than they can still be a friend. I don’t throw the term around loosly so if not a friend then hey nice meeting you and be gone…

Alvin

August 4th, 2009
3:51 pm

AmazonRed…I know sis, I just wanted to show you how unique and special we (as human) truly are. Each of us have a story to tell or needs to be told…some folks not at all…But regardless, it is up the individual to decide how he will play the cards he was given. Personal accountabilities are a MUST!!!

Pretty Wings

August 4th, 2009
3:52 pm

I Still LOVE Bill Clinton!!! Getting those girls released is kinda sexy.

Tazzee - looking for Friday

August 4th, 2009
3:53 pm

Clinton got the job done – North Korea freed the 2 U.S. journalists.

http://www.cnn.com/2009/WORLD/asiapcf/08/04/nkorea.clinton/index.html

I first got the news from another source on twitter but I know AmRed would only believe it if CNN reported it ;-)

W8©

August 4th, 2009
3:54 pm

You don’t win every battle on the way to winning the war…

Got about 10lbs of crab legs..ya better come on in….lol

Professor

August 4th, 2009
3:54 pm

Pretty wings, what did I do (in my steve erkle(sp) voice…while giggling.

W8©

August 4th, 2009
3:55 pm

Happy Birthday “44″ aka President Obama

Poppa Grande

August 4th, 2009
3:55 pm

Tazzee

ARed also would have believed it if it was posted on Fox News after all they are fair and balanced.

Cemeeli

August 4th, 2009
3:55 pm

@ Tazzee – Right. That thread about Clinton, i’d been keeping up since early this morning.

Good call.

Cemeeli

August 4th, 2009
3:55 pm

@ Tazzee – Right. That thread about Clinton, i’d been keeping up since early this morning.

Good call.

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 4th, 2009
3:56 pm

ARED – now ya talking lets get this show on the road

Pretty Wings

August 4th, 2009
3:57 pm

@Alvin – Thats why most people blog, because they are not only keepers of stories, but infact the new version of storytellers!

W8©

August 4th, 2009
3:58 pm

Bill Clinton is the new Jesse Jackson

Melo

August 4th, 2009
3:58 pm

Clinton got the job done

Number on,that short man in Korea luvs attn.Clinton was the cojuit way to grab the attn.

Number two,any man that cajoles a woman to bone him in the white house,in plain view of all the frolicking secretaries,assistants etc traversing those busy halls,and not being caught,is not a man to play with as far as mouf skills is concerned!

Raqi...

August 4th, 2009
3:58 pm

AFTER WE MAKE LOVE by Whitney Houston

I’ve been waiting such a long time
For a love that’s real to come my way
Gonna take some getting used to
Now that love is here to stay

After we make love
I’ll be lost in the afterglow
You’re all I’m dreaming of
I just can’t, I just can’t let the feeling go
After we make love
There’s no doubt in my mind
I’ve been touched by
All that heaven and earth will allow
All that matters is right here and now

Cemeeli

August 4th, 2009
3:59 pm

@ W8 – He is 48y/o today. Whew…and still a minute before the girls even make high school.

AmazonRed™

August 4th, 2009
3:59 pm

But regardless, it is up the individual to decide how he will play the cards he was given. Personal accountabilities are a MUST!!!

Demi – Very true.

I just sit in wonderment of the folks who struggle to maintain their anger level. Life is not supposed to be that way. Really.

Just my opinion of course.

Raqi...

August 4th, 2009
4:00 pm

Bill Clinton is the new Jesse Jackson

That is just blasphemy.

Tazzee - looking for Friday

August 4th, 2009
4:01 pm

Bill Clinton is the new Jesse Jackson

W8 you beat me to it – I was JUST about to post that.

Raqi...

August 4th, 2009
4:01 pm

Tazzee That is just blasphemy.

Professor

August 4th, 2009
4:01 pm

Ok how did I miss this one?

u must go to strokkers every day,dont u?? LMAO now that was funny.

Cemeeli

August 4th, 2009
4:02 pm

cream on inside….clean on the outside….ice cream paint job

Alvin

August 4th, 2009
4:03 pm

Pretty Wings…For real…I will never tell my family any of the crap I just posted today…doubt they would get it, LOl

I am off to buy shrimp.

W8©

August 4th, 2009
4:03 pm

Tazzee glad you got the joke..Clinton is the new hostage liberator..lol

Alvin

August 4th, 2009
4:03 pm

AmazonRed™

August 4th, 2009
4:04 pm

ARed also would have believed it if it was posted on Fox News after all they are fair and balanced.

PG – Quiet you. :lol: You too Tazzee Mae!

How come I get Fox News on my lineup but not MSNBC?!? :evil:

Raqi

August 4th, 2009
4:05 pm

Poppa was that you that was commenting about the furloughs for schools???

i'm swiss (aka Buckshot Prior)

August 4th, 2009
4:07 pm

You rang, Cee? :-)

Tazzee - looking for Friday

August 4th, 2009
4:08 pm

Raqi – you just reminded me I need to pre-order Whitney’s new album. If I do it on iTunes I get the remix of “I Didn’t Know My Own Strength” – I’ll be doing that tonight.

Melo

August 4th, 2009
4:08 pm

The headline on foxnews is that the leader says the journalists are pardoned.
No credit to Bill.

FIXNEWS ????????????????????

SexyCool - I'm in charge.

August 4th, 2009
4:09 pm

Yeah, Me 3. I was thinking that exact same thing, w8, Taz.

Raqi

August 4th, 2009
4:10 pm

Tazzee I was asking a friend the other day when is that coming out.

W8©

August 4th, 2009
4:10 pm

The official Korean Central News Agency said early Wednesday from Pyongyang that the order was issued following a request from former President Bill Clinton

Poppa Grande

August 4th, 2009
4:11 pm

Raqi

I stated that some schools have stopped honor rolls and dodge ball because kids feeling get hurt. Then I stated that type of action does not prepare the kids for the real world (as in when they get to be adults) when there are layoff and furloughs. They aren’t equipped to handle disappointment.

Tazzee - looking for Friday

August 4th, 2009
4:12 pm

Raqi – it comes out August 31. Moved up from the original release date in September.

I’m also anxiously awaiting Ledisi’s new CD – it drops August 18.

Ann Cox Chambers...Not Raqi

August 4th, 2009
4:12 pm

Cemeeli

August 4th, 2009
4:13 pm

Swiss Hey! August is already here!!!!

I hope you have my name & placecard set? I’on wanna get there and havta get Ike on the assitant tryna sit me next to the caters section.

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 4th, 2009
4:14 pm

Whitney Houston (Twisting my lips to the side) where they do that at?

Pretty Wings

August 4th, 2009
4:14 pm

THIS IS DEDICATED TO ALL THE DADDY”S GIRLS –
Verse 1:
Back when I was a child
Before life removed all the innocence
My father would lift me high
And dance with my mother and me and then
Spend me around till I fell asleep
Then up the stairs he would carry me
And I knew for sure I was loved

Chorus:
If I could get another chance
Another walk, another dance with him
I’d play a song that would never ever end
How I’d love love love to dance with my father again

Verse 2:
When I and my mother would disagree
To get my way I would run from her to him
He’d make me laugh just to comfort me(yeah, yeah)
Then finally make me do just what my momma said
Later that night, when I was asleep
He left a dollar under my sheet
Never dreamed that he would be gone from me

Chorus:
If I could steal
One final glance
One final step
One final dance with him
I’d play a song that would never ever end
Cause I’d love love love to dance with my father again

Verse 3:
Sometimes I’d listen outside her door
I’d hear how my mother cried for him
(2x) I’d pray for her even more than me

I know I’m praying for much too much
But could you send back the only man she loved
I know you don’t do it usually
But dear Lord she’ s dying to dance with my father again

Every night I fall asleep
And this is all I ever dream

Raqi

August 4th, 2009
4:16 pm

Oh Poppa I was speed reading. However, my son and I were just talking about the Peach County furloughs (overturned) that was trying to get enforced.

He was saying that he wished he had to only go to school 4 days a week but I was telling him how that move for those teachers and kids would not be a good one. And all that good stuff.

But nevermind since that is not what you were talking about.

W8©

August 4th, 2009
4:17 pm

.. i bet you think this song is about you…

THE INFAMOUS DK

August 4th, 2009
4:17 pm

Deez are dedicated to Daddy Girls also..

Raqi

August 4th, 2009
4:17 pm

Thanks Tazzee. I lovez me some Crackhead Houston. That girl can sang.

lurker

August 4th, 2009
4:18 pm

If I had a dollar for every time a woman used the “watch how my boobies and booty shake” tactic well it would be nicer than it is now. WOW

Melo u must go to strokkers every day,dont u?? LOL
I didn’t think strokkers per se, but I wondered too, where in the heck he’s meeting chicks

AmazonRed™

August 4th, 2009
4:18 pm

I lovez me some Crackhead Houston. That girl can sang.

:idea:

I hope she’s back for good!

Professor

August 4th, 2009
4:19 pm

@Pretty Wings I am not going to read or sing along with those lyrics today would have been my daddy’s 65th birthday. So I am trying to keep it together…

Poppa Grande

August 4th, 2009
4:20 pm

Raqi

From my understanding, most furlough days were teacher workdays. If that were the case, then kid’s would still have to go to school without missing many days.

AmazonRed™

August 4th, 2009
4:21 pm

Aw…I’m sorry Professor. May he RIP.

Cemeeli

August 4th, 2009
4:21 pm

Swiss – Is your head spinning. A year ago where were you? Had you already imagine this? Been dreaming about growing old with Swiss, how long?

I’ve always been one to ask questions like that right before someone gets married. Usually with my friends they have had afew drinks….and you’d be amazed at the response. PURE COMEDY!

Pretty Wings

August 4th, 2009
4:21 pm

@ Professor – A Sister hug for you……..I miss my dad as well.

Cemeeli

August 4th, 2009
4:24 pm

Instead of pouring out a lil to your old single lifestyle, I’ma hit that Wii Tennis real hard!!! To honor you and Swiss.

Don’t ever say i didn’t do anything nice for you.

Professor

August 4th, 2009
4:25 pm

ARed and Pretty wings…thanks so much.

i'm swiss (aka Buckshot Prior)

August 4th, 2009
4:26 pm

Hey Cee… Yup, it’s just around the corner… tick, tock, tick, tock….

As for the place card, um, I’ll have to refer you to Swiss Miss on that one… I have not been granted authority to issue any statements regarding the guest list… :lol:

But, between you & me, those Tina legs will get you anywhere you want to go… ;-)

Raqi

August 4th, 2009
4:26 pm

Poppa from what I heard this morning Peach County was looking at having 4 days school weeks for the kids permanently in an attempt to save on utilities and gas. That’s what my son was asking me about. Let me see if I can find an article on it. I didn’t hear the entire story.

Let me see what I can find.

Leggs

August 4th, 2009
4:28 pm

@Tazz/Raqi ~ it was moved up so it could meet the deadline and be nominated for the grammies/music awards!

Countdown time, Swiss. You doing good? I already know you’re calm, cool and collected. You so hip, who’s quote is that…Just Kidding!

Melo

August 4th, 2009
4:28 pm

Speaking of furloughs,the republican Cathy Cox(sup for schools) was on the news on saturday and said she was thankful for the stimulus money,otherwise they wld have furloughed teachers.

Now,coming from a woman from the NO Obama, party,that was kinda refreshing and innocently truthful at the same time!

I wondered tho later,if she wld be chided by the bigwigs in her party for mis speaking.

Poppa Grande

August 4th, 2009
4:29 pm

Raqi

Oh, ok.

I remember Sonny closing school a couple of years ago to save on gas and money.

Cemeeli

August 4th, 2009
4:31 pm

@Swiss – Awww…do go getting all “guest list” on my now! Use to be my legs could get me….oh, i’m not to say.

Okay, i understand code.

Raqi

August 4th, 2009
4:31 pm

Melo

August 4th, 2009
4:31 pm

Now ladies:
U now understand fully why Hilary stuck it with Bill,right???

I wish i had just an ounce,like 10% of Bill’s pimping skeelz!
:lol: :lol: :lol:

Kym-Don't want no Paper Gangsta

August 4th, 2009
4:32 pm

@ Melo Kathy Cox is the Republican..Cathy Cox was the former Sec of State for GA.

Leggs

August 4th, 2009
4:32 pm

@PoppaG, Sonny did in fact close schools in 2005 to save gas…

Poppa Grande

August 4th, 2009
4:33 pm

Melo

Folks are trying to take her to court over the money that she won for the kids on “are you smarter than a 5th grader?”

Her house has been listed as up for foreclosure a couple of time. I think that her husband works in construction and things haven’t been very good in that arena lately.

She still says that the wants that money to go to the kids. I think the School for the Blind and School for the Deaf.

Cemeeli

August 4th, 2009
4:34 pm

Pimpim Bill Clinton’s skills?? Gon now!

Pretty Wings

August 4th, 2009
4:36 pm

@ Melo – That’s just it he does not have pimpin skillz……he’s got power!

A friend of mine who is really only a little better than average to look at, get’s all the girls, because of his personality…….it makes him sexy. I asked him what lines does he use and he said none…..those are skillz.

Cemeeli

August 4th, 2009
4:36 pm

PoppaG “Don’t let the smooth taste fool ya.” :) …lol i just wanted to say that.

Poppa Grande

August 4th, 2009
4:38 pm

Raqi

That’s just dumb. Georgia kids need every single day possible in school.

Melo

We’ll see just how good Bill’s pimping skills really are. Now, he is gonna talk about N. Korea and them shooting missiles. Let’s see what he can do about that.

Wise Diva

August 4th, 2009
4:38 pm

I don’t care what she sounds like now, I am buying Whitney’s album. I am just glad she is still with us!

i'm swiss (aka Buckshot Prior)

August 4th, 2009
4:39 pm

Cee — Thanks for the Wii tribute! :-D I’m getting all misty over here…

Nah, my head’s not spinning — between last minute wedding details, work & trying to sell my place, I’ve been to busy to really stop and think about it all. But I’m ready.

Where was I a year ago? I had actually just proposed to Swiss Miss. Now then my head was spinning — partly because I couldn’t believe I had actually landed such a fine catch (I seriously out-kicked my coverage, I have to say) :lol: — and partly over the $$ I just dropped at Tiffany for the ring… :lol:

Actually, the hardest part so far was what I just did — order the groomsmen’s gifts. I got each of them a set of bar glasses w/ their favorite team’s logo on it and 2 of the guys are Tech guys — that was the most painful purchase of my life… :lol:

Pretty Wings

August 4th, 2009
4:39 pm

Two Kathy/Cathy Cox’s = Jedi mind trick

SexyCool - I'm in charge.

August 4th, 2009
4:39 pm

Bill’s pimp hand is strong. Cemeeli – I just wanted to say that. LOL

Melo

August 4th, 2009
4:39 pm

Kym,the sup for schools is demo or repub??

Poppa Grande

August 4th, 2009
4:40 pm

Cee

“Don’t let the smooth taste fool ya.”

:lol: :grin: :lol:

Melo

August 4th, 2009
4:42 pm

Poppa,i bet Obama’ opinion polls are gon go up, i presume Bill went coz he asked or he(Barack) agreed to it.Im sure the familiess had sme to do with it too.
Either way,Obama will get a bumb in the polls i think.
What u think??

Poppa Grande

August 4th, 2009
4:43 pm

Cathy Cox ran for governor against Sonny Perdue. She is a Democrat and former Secretary of State. Grad of Mercer law.

Kathy Cox is School Superintendent for GA. She is Repub.

Melo

August 4th, 2009
4:44 pm

Bill’s pimp hand is strong.

girl, i see u sly self… :lol: u skoping Bills left hand doing smething as he steps up to a lady??

Melo

August 4th, 2009
4:45 pm

Kathy Cox is School Superintendent for GA. She is Repub

thats what i thoght,i may have spelt her name wrong,lets see!

AmazonRed™

August 4th, 2009
4:45 pm

That’s just dumb. Georgia kids need every single day possible in school.

:lol:

My sister is a teacher in S. Georgia. She is required to take 3 days off in furlough. And she wants to work and she wants her money.

Cemeeli

August 4th, 2009
4:46 pm

Swissauuuuuuuuuwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww…..

I am such a girl right now!!!…You guys will be married, and you read all blissful ‘n stuff.

Mayne, i need a tissue!!!!!!

Tazzee - looking for Friday

August 4th, 2009
4:48 pm

Wise Diva – I so feel you. I would be buying Whitney even if I hadn’t heard those two songs. Not sure if I’ll ever get to see her live, but I’ll be singing along to that album.

Professor

August 4th, 2009
4:49 pm

Stepping out…have a good evening it is sprinkling over here.

Cemeeli

August 4th, 2009
4:49 pm

Swiss

Wait…You went to n got it from Tif?…they still…auh, Where they do that at? lol :)

I had shared with my blog friends i needed more “cousins”…

Poppa Grande

August 4th, 2009
4:49 pm

Melo

The current President has to give the ok for previous presidents to act on behalf of the US.
After all, their time is up.

His bump in the polls will happen if the senate extends the cars for clunkers program.

I don’t know how many people really cared about those ladies freedom. I’m sure that most people didn’t wish them harm, but given the other issues that affect us daily like employment , the ladies were down the list.

I heard one lady say that she wanted President Obama to lower the price of a gallon a milk. That would impress her. I don’t know how he could do that without the government taking over the dairy industry. I ain’t for that.

Tazzee - looking for Friday

August 4th, 2009
4:52 pm

alright folks – I’m finna bounce. Trying to get in a brief workout before dinner.

Have a great evening!!!

Pretty Wings

August 4th, 2009
4:53 pm

Although I’m not a Rep.I’ve met Kathy Cox and overall I give her a B grade. She is doing a great job in cleaning up the data. Afterall, that’s what making AYP in these schools is really about.

For Real

August 4th, 2009
4:54 pm

Hostage negotiating with Bill.

Bill: What is love? What is this longing in our hearts for togetherness? Is it not the sweetest flower? Does not this flower of love have the fragrant aroma of fine, fine diamonds? Does not the wind love the dirt? Is not love not unlike the unlikely not it is unlikened to? Are you with someone tonight? Do not question your love. Take your lover by the hand. Release the power within yourself. Your heard me, release the power. Tame the wild cosmos with a whisper. Conquer heaven with one intimate caress. That’s right don’t be shy. Whip out everything you got and do it in the butt.

70’s Jumpsuit: Fine take them!

Bill: Ya know, when a man works hard his entire life enduring hundreds of ladies, many of whom he does not even remember you’d like to think that at the end of the day he will be given a lot of money, without having had to earn it.

70’s Jumpsuit: Okay, you can stop now I said take them!

Bill: Yeah, well, you suffer from homo-unerectus. That means your wang is hugeified not by women but by a man.

70’s Jumpsuit: Awww now that was not call for… I haven’t been feeling well. Somebody get dem bytches so he can get the fugg out N.Korea

Cemeeli

August 4th, 2009
4:55 pm

Lol Tazzee is that a hint? okay. Stay strong girl…

See ya.

W8©

August 4th, 2009
4:55 pm

lol@Bill Clinton..Leon Phelps

Melo

August 4th, 2009
4:55 pm

If the clunkers thing is improved,just know,im making money!

Poppa Grande

August 4th, 2009
4:56 pm

Suisse</strong.

The flower girl for our wedding was the daughter of a Tech player from the 1990 championship season.

I got him a mug that said “I graduated from the Joke by Coke”. But it part of basket that my mom had made from the bottles of alcohol that they serve on airplanes. So he got what my groomsman got….a lot of liquor.

i'm swiss (aka Buckshot Prior)

August 4th, 2009
4:56 pm

Cee — I’m definitely a happy camper. And, yep, I did go to Tiffany. See, now you know I love Swiss Miss’s fine little @ss, when I’m willing to overpay by about 75% just because it’s her favorite store… :lol: But seriously, I have to admit, it is nice. ;-)

For Real

August 4th, 2009
4:58 pm

My name is Sweet dy ummm I mean Bill Clinton, and to those of you that are uninitiated, I am an expert in the ways of love. I have made love to many fine ladies from the lowliest bus station skank to the classiest most sophisticated, educated, debutant, high society… bus station skank.

SexyCool - I'm in charge.

August 4th, 2009
4:58 pm

I’m out. Gotta go by some lemons and onions. I’m trying a new recipe.

Cemeeli

August 4th, 2009
4:59 pm

PoppaG You know kimmie and W8 gonna come in here and try to trip you and Swiss up for mentioning Tech. :)

Groomsmen gifts?….Giftcards!!! To said places…lol don’t hate on my idea!

i'm swiss (aka Buckshot Prior)

August 4th, 2009
4:59 pm

PG — Yeah, I can’t tell you how hard it was to click “submit” on that one… At least it was countered by 2 of the guys being UGA guys.

W8©

August 4th, 2009
5:00 pm

I HATE TECH!!!

Wise Diva

August 4th, 2009
5:01 pm

Have a good evening, all!