One of the random things about dating is finding out who we actually are drawn to vs who we aren’t. I know many of us have had people who are interested in us, yet we don’t have the same attraction to them. Is it a cruel twist of fate? Does it mean we are always drawn to the wrong people at the wrong time?
I have met guys who from one standpoint (um, my mother’s) should be ideal matches for me. Yet, when I am with them it’s zero chemistry. Zilch, nada, not even a mini-spark. Now, this begs the question: if we convince ourselves that we need chemistry to be drawn to a person, why is chemistry so inexplicable?
Do you think that you have no chance at a relationship when the chemistry is not there? Do you have a definition for romantic chemistry? Have you experienced it firsthand?
What happens when you miscalculate the chemistry? When the chemistry is gone, do you follow it out the door?