Yes we tend to be a little more tolerant when we find ourselves really into someone. We tend have broader allowance when blinded by infatuation.

I don’t know if it is that I looked the other way during the early years or if mi marido is actually more forward in his actions since he’s “got me” now. Either way I make it my business to derail such blatant actions of presumptuousness.

The problem??? He doesn’t get it. He doesn’t see himself doing it.

A small portion of a recent situation…

Me: Mason you are doing it again.

Mason: Doing what? What am I doing?

Me: Taking me for granted.

Mason: How? You keep saying that but how am I taking you for granted?

Me: Because you…yada, yada, yada

Mason: What?

By this time the discussion is no longer about what he did but has turned to the great debate as to whether or not he is actually aware of what he does.

That hits pretty close to my boiling point because I wonder why he doesn’t realize he is doing it. Outside of the fact that he can sometimes be a pretentious arsehole. But you know what he clearly understands or gets?…that I am being unreasonable and unfair when I don’t his grungy smug paws on me after he has tried to take me for granted. You can my “wrong” but not your own???

There are other things but this is where I am bright and early this morning…

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Wow…I did not mean for my post to be that long…I really am pretty simple either it is a go or a no go. I do not have a lot of in between area and I do not think my list is that long, but I failed to mention respect which is huge…I have been turned off by how a guy treated others…I find it a turnoff when a guy calls women bytches etc. So please add that to the boiling list…all of the snooping and stuff I never really had a guy do that except for one and I will not share that story because I am embarrassed for him.

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There are obvious no-brainers like abuse of any kind, cheating, stealing that are for many and should be for more line-crossers. But we all know that.

It’s the little ones like the snooping, the unauthorized use of cell phones and computers, the showing up unannounced time and time again, the extreme habitual tardiness and more like those that we sometimes allow passes for given some circumstances also depending on how much we like the person.

But it’s like a balloon. You can only fill it with so much air before it burst. Every relationship has its balloon. Even the good and healthy ones. This is a matter where flaccid is better than the alternative. Don’t let it build up. Let more air out than you allow to be injected.

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Have you ever crossed the line with someone you were dating? Did they give you another chance?

One of my cardinal dating rules is to NEVER cross those lines….I don’t hack email accounts or cell phones and I don’t snoop around b/c I wouldn’t want that done to me and I know that,me being me, all sorts of helll would pop off. Have I been tempted to YES but out of mutual respect I haven’t. Now I’ve had this dont to me by an ex who tried very hard to control me.

Long story short I left him at my apartment downtown while I was at work one night only for me to return to find that he’d rifled through some of my personal things found a letter from a highschool friend and some pics they sent and tore them all up into little pieces and left them in the middle of my bedroom floor. Mind you I had just seen “Thin line between love and hate” with Martin Lawrence and I was on fire. Sooo I ever so politely packed all of his clothes in a plastic trash bag,caught a cab to his apartment(told the cabbie not to leave cause it wouldn’t be long) and dumped all of his shyt on the middle of his yard. It had just rained and all of his cousings were outside and saw the whole thing. Needless to say we were done after that and I felt sooo good. The cabbie laughed the whole time and didn’t even charge me for the ride. Revenge is a dish best served COLD

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Morning everyone!

I can’t remember a time when I’ve crossed the boundary line. I don’t eavesdrop, play coy, or sneak into accounts. All this is a waste of my time and energy. I don’t believe in snooping. If I want to know something I ask. If he snoops around in my things without asking, then Houston, we have a problem and I won’t ignore that flag!

Like Raqi stated, tolerance level is heightened when you’re really into someone, but certain situations need to be addressed head on before it escalates!

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Let me re-state: Agreed upon / understood boundaries are good. And those boundaries may go farther for some couples than for others. It’s really about what you as a couple are comfortable with.

That is also true for the level of openness. Mine shared something with me recently that let me know how open he is with me. And it gave me one more thing to admire him for.

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HAPPY BIRTHDAY, HAPPY BIRTHDAY, HAPPY BIRTHDAY, LIONESS! Hope you had a fabulous b-day week!

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I don’t have any little things, because for some reason the people I deal with were above those games for the most part (the ones I kept around). For me there are certain key elements that set the foundation for a relationship. Hence the big things if those things are in place you are good. For me a liar will snoop in your stuff, therefore I don’t deal with liars so I do not have the snooping issues. The control freaks will try to manage your time and deal with you when they want to deal with you, thus I stay away from control freaks. Those that are abusive and show signs of this will damage your property or you (even if it is just pictures or a letter), therefore I stay away from these guys…if you can do an assessment of the big things you will see patterns.

Sure there are aggravating things we all do to each other in relationships, however those things should not be character issues. I think the aggravating things are you did not brew another pot of coffee, and to me a pot of coffee is not grounds for a break up…IMO.

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@Sassy good for you in handling him…

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I know that I have given one to many chances. I was seeing a girl long distance and she came to visit me. Long story short, a couple times I caught her snooping through mundane things that had no relevance to her. She said I am the type that if I want to know something, I get down to the bottom of it. Why not ask?

Then a couple occasions, she would play dumb and be like can I use your phone, and attempt to go thru my stuff but the worst situation was when she took my phone and locked herself in my bathroom and went through my calls, pictures, picture mail,etc….crazy anyone? Man I am glad I am out of that situation…now anyone touching the communications….cut off!!!

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OMG!!!!OMG!!!! 2CAN IS IN THE BUILDING!!!!

SexyCool faints like she’s at a Michael Jackson concert.

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-Riddle me this, what happens to the boundaries when you are in love? Why is it that otherwise normal people toss out their logic and reasoning when they are head over heels?

Good Morning Blog Family!

Speaking from personal experience, I am my biggest advocate, especially when it comes to protecting myself from being hurt emotionally, physically or mentally. If the guy I’m dealing with is doing suspicious things I will give him the opportunity to explain. If 1 and 1 is not adding up to be 2, then YES I’m going to investigate! Now if I don’t love him, then I don’t care what he’s doing and as soon as the story doesn’t add up will simply move on. However, it’s something about being in love and feeling vulnerable that won’t allow me to rest peacefully until I find out the truth. (If you look, you will find. If he’s not doing anything wrong, you will find that out as well)

The logic and reasoning is there, but it is totally ignored sometimes! No one wants to get played or be used as someone’s doormat. Respect me, be honest and communicate effectively and I will equally do the same. The bottom line is, if your S.O. is doing things that continue to raise your suspicion, then just let it go. As much as it may hurt, just let it go!

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Sup, No. Fla. Bwoi?

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Ok, I am running off of 3 hours of sleep and omg 2CPTG! Is that you or am I dreaming? Heyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy! *kisses and hugs*

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the people I deal with were above those

Do we ever really know who is above what?

Was Michael Jackson above being a drug addict?

Was OJ Simpson above murder?

Was Mike Vick above illegal dog fighting?

The thing about people, you never really can know what they are until the do it.

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2CPTG Big hug to ya. Good to see you pop in.

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Morning blog gang!

Well I mentioned the other day about the guy that was surprised when I DIDN’T snoop thru his things when he left me alone at his place when he went out for food. Set little traps & everything. I’m just so not that nosy, insecure, crazy, whatever you want to call it!

DO NOT, I REPEAT, DO NOT – Go in my purse & wallet, mess with my cell, computer, read my mail, go thru my drawers! It won’t end pretty! I was raised that way & I expect anyone I deal with to be that way too. In our home growing up we could set our wallets, purses, money, jewelry, whatever down and come back and it would not be touched. If I let you in my personal space like that I expect you to respect it, like I respect you & your privacy & personal space. That’s the only way to be in my book.

I had a guy to steal half my hard drive from my computer & set up a stalker virus on it. Other than to let him know I discoved his treachery, I have not spoken to him since. And I really probably could have f’d him up real bad & got him in trouble cause he worked for the Pentagon. I’d never had a man to steal from me! I’ll give you my last if you ask for it, but don’t steal!

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Hi 2C, bring me a Samuel Adams, please (from what the news reported, only two bottles were consumed 4 bottles are somewhere on the White House property).

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Set little traps & everything

That’s one I have a problem with. If I feel the need to set traps, the feeling itself is all I need to know what I need to know.

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Atlanta Housewives – Best Trainwreck TV on the PLANET!!!

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Professor, it was like that with us too – dad never went in mom’s purse & she never went in his wallet, unless they gave permission. I think it is a matter of respect. I don’t have anything to hide & I’ll ask SO to answer my cell at times & he’ll ask me to grab his, but that’s as far as it goes.

Raqi – I know this could potentially be another topic one day, but to answer your question, again its a matter of respect to me. I just can’t get with – “since we are together we should let it all hang out” line of thinking. I know, I’ve never been married, but it is not what I observed with my parents’ marriage and my grandparents & others I’ve been around. The purse & wallet were just a little sacred, not to be entered unless permitted, but not hiding anything either. I just don’t think marriage means a COMPLETE loss of privacy.

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I’m really gone need to hear Bob’s side of the story. Sheree dogged him out totally. Lost even more respect for her on that one – if that were possible.

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“My momma don’t like him cause he got a lotta kids.”

“How many kids he got?”

“Six.”

SexyCool faints AGAIN…

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Hey 2Can!

Personally, if I feel I have to go snooping, that’s too much drama & stress already for me, so I’m out.

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morning…

Moca – What?

Hey 2? Auh, yea.

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2C – Post me a number from 8:15 please.

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Atlanta Housewives??? That show is embarrassing.

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hey Cee!!!! number? you lost me……

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Yall just have to say no to reality TV programming.

The reason that there’s mostly crap on TV to watch is because, evidently, people will watch dayum near anything! It’s even become difficult to find a movie to go watch these days!

I’m back to boycotting reality TV altogether. The only one I’ve really watched is American Idol the past 2 seasons, and then only because my girl likes it, but that show is pure BS sandwich with a side of fried stupid. I watched NeNe for about 2 minutes some months back; Housewives of Atlanta, you have got to be kidding me. Just say no. Maybe folks will be forced to come up with something better if nobody watches that drivel.

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Raqi – tell me about it.

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oh……hehehehehehe, 30! what, you thought someone was impersonating me?

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@BP- Girl stop using my phrases

On the crossing the line now what? Hmmm…. I have been presented with this situation and I am very slow to make a decision. Usually I just cut off all ties…but now I just sit back observe and watch patterns…I slide into an eagles eye view rotation pattern…I usually dont pay attention to that kind of stuff when I am dating someone because I know once I become inquisitive I can find out all sorts of stuff…and that requires a special discipline not to…but when folks come at me and try and get into mine…that opens the floodgates on my part and I find out everything I can…I dont mention it…It’s just good to know as I sit back and watch them make a fool of themselves

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No. sigh…grown folks…please stop.

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@Kimmie I agree with the certain amount of respect you should have for others…that is how it was growing up for me. I am going to try your sangria recipe this week so I know it will be fabulous…

As for the “Housewives” I cannot watch that show or “Tiny and Toya” etc.

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LOL @ W8 being tricked into watching the show.

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Cemeeli keep an eye on this baby while I run downstairs. (Elizabeth now under Cee’s virtual guidance)

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Cee – LOL. Ain’t no what, chica. I’m so blowed….

ON TOPIC

As it has already been stated…and I will agree, we tend to let our SO’s slide with petty issues…and in some cases give the opportunity for them to “make it up” to you, in the event that there was a line crossed.

But like several others, snooping is a no-no. I don’t feel with the idea of doing it, let alone carrying it out. And like I’ve mentioned before, the moment I’m second guessing his words vs his actions then, I’m doing a little self evaluation and really asking myself “how did we get to this point”?

So naw…I don’t snoop, actually, I REFUSE to snoop, period. And I’m looking at the man real crazy if he even ponders the idea that he has to snoop around in my belongings.

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Correction: I don’t feel comfortable with the idea of doing it, let alone carrying it out.

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LOL W8

BK- Dude, totally omg. Hey there:)

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reality tv= visual malt liquor

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LOL @ W8 being tricked into watching the show.

I did that,too…..tricked..

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Professor – It’s different every time I make it somehow, but always good! Yeah, let me know how it turns out!

As for ATL Housewives, they are a trainwreck, but no more than the NJ or NY or OC Housewives. They don’t embarrass me cause they don’t represent me or my city! In fact, on the NJ Wives, they all seem like they’re in the mafia & once they were all in this nice restaraunt and one got mad & turned over the table. All the women on all the shows are ghetto cause if they truly were wealthy & had good breeding & class they would not even submit to doing such a show.

Just a guilty pleasure I tune into from time to time to laugh at & talk about, nothing more for me!LOL!!!

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Page, Jamo… what up yoll? All I can say is it’s Friday. Ain’t no tellin’ who might come to dinner. Seeumsayin’?

Hey, I gotta put this out to the A. Anybody finding a black leather satchel type shoulder bag containing one Motorola cell phone, Canon digital camera (with a lot of pics of my kid), and a Crimson Red Nintendo DS, email me @ blue_kolla@yahoo.com.

I suspect that I left the joint at an orientation meeting up at Arabia Mountain High School.

And I’m handing out a serious reward too!!!

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We’re grown; you cross me and you’re out the door. No ifs, and, or buts.

I second that motion.

Off topic: It’s raining…….CLAP….CLAP

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And for all them folks talkin’ ’bout, “What’s the reward dude?”, the answer is CASH!!!

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Blue – What’s the reward, mayne? $$$ LOL @ The Bulletin addressed to the ville’s Lost n’ Found.

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@Sassy, here I am trying not to think about it and here you go with CLAP CLAP!

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I’m a top level executive and I’m gone need you to respect my top.

LOVED that line so much – I HAD to repeat it….

LMAO!

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As far as Bob and Sheree go, Bob roots for her success. I know them both.

She and Bob were one of those couples that were together a long time before getting married. If I remember correctly, they were together about 5 years or so before even getting married.

All I’m gonna say is that he doesn’t let anyone get over on him. His sibling had to propose a business plan in order to get assistance on tuition. He rode them to attend class and then made them work it off either through Patchwerk studios or some other venture. He doesn’t believe in anyone getting a free ride. For example, one sibling had to be his driver for some time.

Even with Sheree, he got her a spot for a boutique on Howell Mill called “Bella Azul”. She had an opportunity to have her own business. It is now closed.

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Sure I have. I was never caught at it, sneaky bastid that I am. As maturity grows, though, so does a realization of the importance of 1 Cor 13. In addition to that, “Love is not jealous. Love trusts the other person.”

Strongly agree. Just because I’m grown and don’t entertain this type stuff and being all secure with me and who I am, if I’m in doubt or there’s seriously a reason to not trust, I’m just not doing it. Not looking, lurking, shuffling, sneaking, investigating…..NOTHING! Who has the time and energy for that when you can just keep it moving.

Atlanta Housewives….just trashy. How you gon have a “coming out” or whatever the theme, party. They they waaaay too much of themselves and really, way too much time on their hands.

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Page

I have a cousin LA who is a production assistant on Baldwin Hills (BET) and omg! All of those shows have writers, editors, etc.

Yeah, I have a friend that is a writer for MTVs From G’s to Gent and she also does some work for that Charm School show.

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Jamo You know ya boi Blue can’t be cloned.

Sassy Come on slim, lay off of that attention grabbin’ lingo ===> >…then again I don’t have anyone to call soooooo…

If you got one, you can get one.

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TGIF All!

Snooping – I mentioned before that I had it done to me and my relationship never recouped from that. When you snoop you have to be ready to handle what you might find. I personally am not doing all that, I respect yours so please respect mine. Not going thru emails, cell phones, nothing….

Okay I didnt see the Housewives of ATL last night but heard plenty of it this AM on the radio. Dont know if I want to get sucked in since I watch little to no reality tv.

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Raqi

Poppa it is embarrassing to the city they claim to represent.

Not really IMO.

It just plays into stereotypes. When I saw the finale to the New Jersey Housewives, I just thought that just played into the stereotypes of all the NJ and the mafia. One lady bought EVERYTHING in cash. She pulled out 100,000 in cash in a furniture store. The only thing that they failed to do was to go the the Bada Bing and ask for Vito or Michael Corelone.

What’s really embarrassing is what the news and seeing Rabbi’s and politicians really getting arrested for money laundering. That really happened in NJ recently.

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Yeah, Mo – I plan on getting ‘nice’ over the weekend.

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No, what was embarrasing (a scene shown last night I believe in the recap from last season…first time REALLY watching), was when NeNe’s husband was trying to explain to her the difference between 1/2 and 1/3…she was supposedly helping her son with his homework and dad came to their aide. You’re a grown woman, showing out on tv and call yourself being polished…bad grammar, diction and all….and you don’t know simple fractions. I just about passed out when he tried to mentally paint the picture of what’s the most “half or third.” Nope, not embarrased but she should be.

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@Mo, stay away from the light, stay away!

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Kimmie

All the women on all the shows are ghetto cause if they truly were wealthy & had good breeding & class they would not even submit to doing such a show.

I agree. Also, the producers know what they are doing. They want controversy. All you have to do is look back to the “Real World”.

According to Mrs. PG, Kandi Burress (formerly of Xscape) is replacing Eric Snow’s wife because she wasn’t in everyone’s business and such. Producers of said shows know what they are after.

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Rell Man, this joint is funny. Names of characters change, but the roles remain the same.

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@Head Nurse <=== Is that synonymous with Managerial Nurse or Fellatio Nurse?

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Blue Kolla – Greys is my favorite show, but in reruns now.

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@bk…Fellatio Nurse!!!!!

@head nurse…lol…is that what you think….whats ya phone namber….maybe you can come find out…other than that here is 8 inchs acrasss ay mouth byyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy tch

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The only thing that they failed to do was to go the the Bada Bing and ask for Vito or Michael Corelone.

PG – Okay!! And one had the nerve to get offended when people wrote in suggesting they were in the mob! Did you see the chick, I think it was the one that bought the furniture cash, turn over the table in the restauraunt!

Every city has their “element”! Folks should understand when they watch these shows that the entire city is not like those 4 or 5 women & their families!

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BK LOL you are right. Law and Order is a 24 hour running series of shows. Any day, any time.

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BK

McCoy is just doing his job. He (and the ADAs) represents the State of NY. As long as he following the Code of Professional Responsibility and the laws of the State and County,it is all fair game. Both sides push the envelope.

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Pop McCoy is just doing his job.

I guess that’s the Big Joker ha? That excuse ain’t gon’ cut it at the Big Dance.

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Enter your comments here

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Raqi

I don’t know if you watched or remember the very first cast of the Real World. However, they were “normal”. They had jobs and did what most people do. They were in NYC. It didn’t that well.

It took the Real World San Francisco to make that show a success. Puck who was just disgusting. Pedro had AIDS. There were others. However, that dynamic pretty much set the course for what we have today.

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I think imma make a boring turkey club sandwich for lunch…I think.

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@ Raqi – I am huge fan of Law and Order, you too?

Jimmy Fallen last at night is cool too.

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The Closer is still my show, when i can get a chance…

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SexyCool – I plan on being ‘nice’ this weekend too, my fridge is already cooling some ’spirits’ for me!

PoppaG – I used to love the Real World but then with every season there came more outrageous stuff. And the cast wasnt as diverse to me either as it started out to be. This past season in New York with the transgender individual did it for me….

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PG one of my soror’s was on one of the Real Worlds, I can’t remember which one now. It was back in like 96 I think. Anyway, they hardly ever showed her because they said she didn’t have enough drama or whatever. She went to school, studied and only went out occasionally.

I remember back in 04 I think when they did RW in San Diego and omg those people were off the chain. I remember seeing them at this club in downtown San Diego fighting, and plus the camera crew follows them around. One of the girls ended up getting arrested and booked into Las Colinas women’s detention facility. At the time, I was a Social Worker for Child Protective Services and I happened to be at the jail interviewing a mom because we (CPS) had taken away her newborn baby because it was a pos-tox (tested positive for meth) baby and I needed to prepare my reports because I had been subpoenaed (sp?) to testify in juvenile court. Anyway, I was quite surprised when I saw the camera crews showing the girl talking to one of the roomates. Oh and it was alleged that one of room mates raped a girl at the house. Oh this was the season where there was that black dude named Jaquease or something like that. He wore glasses.

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@PoppaG, I saw the first cast of the Real World and loved it. My entry into reality tv. Those kids were off da chain. By the time Puck came around it was unbelievable how nasty that man was, but yes, he put the show on the map!

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Raqi

yes, the Real World. The kids that watched that show on MTV back in the 90s are now adults watch similar antics on other shows.

BTW, the show was called The Real World, not Our Real World. If it was called Our Real World then bills, diapers, work would apply.

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What’s y’all take on ‘lie to Me’?

BK…your boy got busted flying a buck seventy a few month back…no ‘busa for me, LOL

2can…Sup!!

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Raqi’s Jealous Chick Questionnaire

1. Who are/were you talking to on the phone?
Answer: [crickets]

2. Where have you been?
Answer: [crickets]

3. Where are you going?
Answer (If I feel that it’s general convo): I’m kickin’ down to blah blah… You need something while I’lm out?
Answer (If I feel that slim is trying to check me): “Out, I’ll be back.”

4. Who are having lunch with?
Answer: I’ll tell her with whom and where we’re going.

5. How do you know him/her?
Answer: I’ll tell her from where I know the chick.

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Mo- The girl that got arrested name was Robin.

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the best new series is on HBO its called HUNG..i actually thought about doing something similiar…still might do it

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Or I forget to include…

Changing diapers

Warming bottles

Doing a thousand tons of laundry

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Poppa Showtime…

I always knew when my oldest son was watching The L Word. He would always scrabble to change the channel when I walked in.

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Raqi

If you have tons of laundry, you be better off served just opening a laudromat out of your house.

If you are already doing tons, then a few more pieces won’t hurt.

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@PG- I dont like “The Closer” at all

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(If you have tons of laundry, you be better off served just opening a laudromat out of your house.)

LOL

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I like Lie to Me. It may be the only Fox show that I watch even though I am not a Tim Roth fan.

I learned a lot of that facial stuff back in school. Some of it is exaggerated for TV, but a lot of it is true.

It probably is the reason that I am not a fan of telephone conversations. I like seeing body and facial language.

It annoys the hell out of Mrs. PG. I could read her face pretty easily. She doesn’t hide stuff well.

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LOL Poppa if feels like a ton.

My delicates – 1 load

His and Hers Darks – 1 load

His and Hers Neutrals – 1 load

All shades of red – 1 load

His and Teenager Whites – 1 load

Teenagers Everything else – 1 load

Baby Whites – 1 load

Baby others – 1 load

Towels – 1 load

Linens – 1 load

Kitchen items – 1 load

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Oh yeah, you all were talking about The Hangover yesterday, we saw that yesterday evening. Good movie.

My Boring…

Making out like teenagers in the movie theater at the ripe mature ages of 41.

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Dark Blue is a damn good show!

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Snoop..Snooop…Snooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooop!!!!

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SEXYCOOL… flashback of last night…” who gon’ check me boo?”

RELL…you goona be a male ho? I love that show Hung.

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Demi – I guess its kinda obvious I like the show since i have Tristan Wilds (Michael) and Idris Elba (Stringer) on the walls at my desk!

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LOL please no flashbacks of last night Mamba!

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LOL Mamba yeah because you are a Vampiress woman lol. Speaking of, we need to get our Halloween costume ideas rolling soon lol.

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Stace – Don’t get me started on that again.

Ya’ momma’s a btch…

Just wow….

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Staceye- I think that I’d like True Blood better if I hadn’t read the books.

That happens a lot with books that I’ve read. Movies and shows don’t live up to what I pictured.

It is not the same if I see the movie or show before reading it.

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Staceye

I love vampires too. I loved the Anne Rice books.

I like werewolves too. American Werewolf in London (MJ inspiration for the Thriller video) is one of my favorite movies of any genre.

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PG…yeah the books are different…Tara is not Black in the book and Sookie is a size 10 not 4. I feel ya…

PAGE….you know I LOVE costumes!

SCOOL…”yo’ mama…who says that anymore? ”

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Black Mamba…please be a vamp this halloween!! You will look hot as a Queen of the Damned.

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pg…I was speaking of how well she can read the body linage of others.

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The Vampire Lestat…The dude was once my hero, LOL

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Speaking of vampires I have been wanting to see Twilight. Maybe I’ll get around to it soon.

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Amazing Race is probably the best reality/game show there is today.

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My favorite reality shows are Deadliest Catch and Whale Wars…I dont even know why I like those two shows

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>>at your battle station.

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Weight, Mason likes to watch Deadliest Catch. He also likes Dirtiest Jobs and Cash Cab. We are supposed to be going to NYC next month and he says we wants (rather hopes) to get on Cash Cab.

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Demi – I love those dudes! And yeah Snoop was a bad chick, til my boy took her out. She was doing him wrong…..

I cant do too much reality tv. As far as shows: Hawthorne, Young & the Restless, CSI Vegas, Private Practice/Grey’s, Law & Order and of course some Family Guy

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Mo
I’ve got DVDs of family guy.

Thank you Netflix

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>>>are

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PoppaG – Im working on getting all of Family Guy on DVD, I so love that show. Stewie is by far my favorite

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@Demi- i have seen a few folks on that show die

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Girl got me wanting to learn how to play the bass….for real

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Deadliest Catch is so serious.

Those men are out there for months, so long from home like soilders.

The episode when the guy found out he had lung cancer and was rushed to the hospital, and his buddy had to man the ship. Buddy was kinda scared, you can tell. I felt bad for the captian.

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W8 – Whale Wars just started, the votes still out. It’s catchy though.

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That crap will make a man out of you, LOL

Demi I feel the same way about Dirty Jobs. Some of the stuff that he has to crawl thru and inhale…

Sometimes while watching that I just think “that is really somebody’s job”.

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@Cee- after watching the behind the scenes I found out that they are not out at sea for really that long at all..just the way its filmed makes it seem like it. So they go crabbing..fill up come back for a day or two then head back out. They are several crab seasons in a year Opilio and King Crab on the show the Deadliest Catch both season are regulated by the Alaskan Fish and Game they set the mark on how much crab can be caught in a season King Crab is from October to November and Opilio is in January. Some seasons may very and depend upon the weather on the Bering Sea some can last for 5 days to 2 months and depending on the ships quota for the season I believe last years Opilio Crab Season was 250 Million Pounds with a fleet of 86 ships the season can end quick because each ship can hold between 180 to 200 crab pots. During a season if the boat reach maximum load they either can head to Dutch Harbor or St. Paul to offload their first catch and go back out to more before the season is done.

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@Cee- I am usually up all night so I just flipped on Whale Wars..and got hooked..those fools dont even get paid..running around chasing ships..ramming them getting rammed…trying to do clandestine moves to break the props of the whalers..etc…I love it

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But you have to respect the Bering Sea. 2 days in those those waters can be hellz!

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@ W8 – When i’m up late at night….like after 10 (hush Jamoca. I watch Sport reruns or play the Wii. I am active when i first wake up. I usualyy need something to do i cain’t just chill or sit…ect.

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@Demi- we did some training up there when I was in the military..from a helicopter we would jump in then board a submersible….scary stuff. where 20 foot waves is the norm

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@ W8 – Come on mayne!….please don’t get it started talking about crab boils.

On Deadliest Catch,…i figured they go back to dock several times….all those crabs bins get full, overly full at somepoint. Some of the boats get 400,000+ count of crab…

WHEW….i need something to drink….this is to much crab talk.

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doing laundry, scrubbing baseboards, mopping the kitchen, watching The Secret, loving myself, coming up with new ideas to take over the Free World, or planning more discovery of the New World.

He Momma, when did you start blogging here?….Lol

Why my momma call me last at night (don’t care if i’m asleep or awake) asking me if i’m watching QVC and if i want the Hotel Eygptian Cotton sheets sets, camcorders, vacation package….I’m usually like, Momma??? I’m sleep!

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Hotel Eygptian Cotton sheets sets

Ah, Yeah.

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Who mentioned a crab boil?? I may need to call my mother-in-law…..dayum….add some crawfish to that and Im good! Plus she is the best bartendar ever

When Im up late – writing (journaling/poetry), reading…music is always a must…..maybe some cleaning…and a glass of wine

SexyCool – LOL @ loving myself

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lol…

CORRECTION – Momma calls me late at night.
Not – “last night”.

lol

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I am not one for having to be up on all the latest ballings, hitting up all the latest raved club scenes, rubbing shoulders with B-list celebs. I don’t need all of that to have an enjoyable life

I was just telling the kid in the car this morning, that sort of mentality means nothing. When it’s all said and done status, money, cars, balling, clubbing doesn’t mean anything and really is not what “living” is about. I told her, make the best life she can make, be happy and content with her station. If her station can be improved (as always), do the needful and grow. More than anything, I want her to know there’s an account to be taken for what we do while we’re here and she will, as I and all others, will have to answer that call.

My kumbaya moment for today.

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Main – Good stuff.

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Who has a big huge gumbo style pot that I can borrow?

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The thing that gets me about on friend in particular is we all have the “respect my house, don’t call too late” understanding. But she will call because she really does need something yet say never mind.

Heifer you called my house at 2am, now speak up. What’s ailing you?

She has done this like twice…but still.

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Momma did just call me though. all loud…

SexyCool You be in your own world, and is not really moved by things/folk around you. …I can dig it…

My mom is OCD too. If you drink water out of a glass, you HAVE to wash it as soon as you finish. Mom wants her bathroom spotless at all times, no soap left on the shower curtian. She likes pillows fluffed everytime you make up bed, she like vacuum marks on the floor after vacuuming.Had to dry the dishes after everywash and put them away.

Whew..i’m so glad i do my own thing now that i’m grown. Some of that stuff i let ride.

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Cell Phone and house phone….people who have the house phone number is work and close family members who know not to call late unless its an emergency

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Raqi – Ditto. Don’t wake me. I’m a bigtime sleeper, I love naps and all…I remember when i was pregnant and fell alseep during early morning….woke up it was dark out side..i had sleep 12+ hours. Woke up cleaning walls.

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And you know what main lurker I don’t feel the least bit bad or inferior about how I roll. My life is my life.

Keep telling your daughter that I will be arranging a marriage with my son and her in about 14 years. What’s your dowry looking like? LOL

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@ SexyCool – Calm down grasshopper. I ain’t never understood the vacuum marks…lol…but Oooookay.

What is it about that?

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yall some non pot having folks

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What is it about that?

If you don’t see the vacuum marks you didn’t do it right. And they all better be going the same direction.

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@ Raqi – The floor/carpet is clean? Check! Okay, i’m good.

I grew up with hard wood floors and cleaning and staining all the time.

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Little known fact(and its really not a secret..almost all high level criminals know this)..even if you take the battery out of a cell phone..they all still have an internal battery in them…also if you have a cell phone that is on tmobile,att,sprint/nextel or verizon…it can be turned into a listening device “bug” without the owner even knowing…even if you turn it off…just keeping you in the know..lol…but we can’t listen in on criket and metro phones or any other pre-paid for that matter.

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You don’t loan pots, you give them as Christmas gifts.

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W8 and Demi,u can take me to body tap next Friday! I be ready to wild out coz next morning saturday,im off to the beach.
W8,lemme know mayne.
I be exhausted come next friday,so we can chill and jus play with the nice booteys.
Hit me up plays!

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@melo- next friday is bad for me..Saturday is the party so I will be cooking and grilling friday night and saturday..lol

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whaaaa W8….dude was right bout people listening to him lol and I thought he was crazy

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yall some non pot having folks

W8…A cousin stole my gumbo pot a month ago…ish cost me 50 bucks…that was around the time I posted, ‘no mo play in ga’ and added family into the mix.

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In fact I am against loaning anything except money. If you like my jacket I will give it to you before I loan it.

I used to loan stuff and yep Cemeeli, not get it back. Then to see that person wearing it two months later in front of you acting like it don’t even belong to you. Folks will lie when questioned and say they bought it knowing good and well the borrowed it from you.

But get this, I let a lady a work borrow a CD and she never gave it back. One day at her desk I asked her for my CD back that she had right there on her desk and she tells me ‘this ain’t yours, I lost yours. This is mine. I just bought it.’

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You too Demi…I didnt know folks were so sensitive about their pots..lol

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No Stress, No Stress, No Stress… Happy Friday, lurkin fam, bloggin fam, et al.

What’s poppin? Errybody ready for a fab weekend?

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Well folks it’s tax free weekend and Princess W8 is ready for daddy to take her shopping…yall have a good one…enjoy life to the fullest and let no person be in control of your joy….life is good!!

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Oh, Demi – quit lyin’…you know nothing of how to make that gumbo! Lol

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SCool <> <>

Melo boy hush

Raqi Dowry? A hopechest of dishes and an unopened sheetsheet, kitchen utensils, and a couple of nickels from the summer job…lol

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I have never been able to take advantage of tax free weekend. I always misses it…I need to either stop being so fast or stop waiting till the last minute and do the darn thing right!

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Cemeeli the thing is it was not my CD. My case had a crack in it and the one she had was obviously new. But how is it she did not see the need to replace mine after losing it but could buy herself one since she no longer had mine to listen to

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jamoca/Grace…I don’t know crap about making gumbo…I am on the lazy side…When I had that pot, i was quick to throw in some blue/snow crabs, cobbs of corn, tiger shrimps, crawfishs, conch, red potato, SMALL red snappas (WHOLE), squids (don’t judge me!), and my New Orleans crab boil (powder form) mix.

Fugg wit!!!

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Grace if they can sell you a 100% area of flooring for 40% of the cost, then it’s already 65% overpriced.

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Demi – thanks for the confession, but I already figured that. Lawd, help you…you don’t know any better. LOL …and here’s a quick question for you: Which pots are the best ones to cook in? Meaning the brand new ones (expensive ones included) or those great big ones that are already “broken in” for you? Hmmmmm

MyTwo – Well you’re in a sunshiney mood aren’t cha? Just carried ya’ joy on over into Friday, huh chica?

Ms. Main – I’m diggin’ ya kumbaya moment at 1:48, chick.

Raqi – Twilight was pretty intriguing….not half bad. I was surprised that I liked it myself. My daughter talked me into watching it with her. So it’s no surprise that she’s all geared up for the sequel…and yes, she wants me to take her to see it on a little Mom/daughter night out.

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Just like if you buy an original $5.00sqft quality of carpet for $2.00sqft, they will increase the price of padding and installation to make their money and then some.

Always ask for a breakdown of cost. And always get a cost for delivery only versus delivery and installation at the same time.

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(those great big ones that are already “broken in”)

I know that…I just wanted my owe pot…I will learn to make gumbo one day, LOL

the pot was good for cooking king crabs during the winter.

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Demi – No okra? LAYSW

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crossing the line for me would be (when getting to know someone): looking in my purse, looking in my glove box, medicine cabinet, showing up at my door w/o calling first, answering my cell or seeing who is ringin’ ya gurl.

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looking in my purse, @ Beautiful I don’t allow my kids to look in my purse/pocket book.

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It’s it funny the things we place more value on over our own bodies??? And hearts.

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Demi – So you don’t know naythin’ bout that roux? Sometimes I throw it in…sometimes I don’t…depends on how I feel about it. Deep dark or light roux…all depends.

I own all sizes…(regarding pots)…love my big old ones (they’re broken in just right too), but the newer ones are for transfering.

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Why do folks who are already living together (2,3,4 years) when deciding to get married create this freaking ginormous expensive damn registry of all the stuff they could have bought while already living together?

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My mom taught me not give anyone anything you would not wear or want your ownself.

Raqi – Same here. Don’t have many folks raised like that anymore. Or they were/are and don’t put it into practice.

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Uh actually it does not go hand in hand with why bother to get married.

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right Raqi…it’s all to complex for me. I guess there are somethings are open ended questions.

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IMO I don’t think most people aren’t just satified with just living together, at some point you’re going to want to get married and when you do, you’ll want all the glitz that comes with it.

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Mo – sounds convenient to me! Actually my childhood friend and her family are from N.O. I would spend plenty weekends with them on the base and her mother taught me how to make it…I was about 14/15 at the time. She’d just pull me to the side and show me little by little, till I had it downpat (to include several other dishes). But between my great grand, grand, ma, aunts…they had me doing all sorts of things since pre-k. Thing about it…once I’ve done all that work, I seldom want to eat. Too tired…but very seldom is there a lot to put away at the family gatherings. Them folks ain’t no joke. Lol

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Danggit where did Cemeeli go with my baby? I asked her to hold her for one minute (4 hours ago)…I gotz to go to the store.

Cemeeli imma go upstairs and grab my purse, I’ll get Elizabeth on the way out the door.

You all have a good one.

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In Response to Raqi’s first post:

Taking for granted… Oh how that can be subjective. From a mans point of view I know that a lot of women don’t appreciate the things a man does for them because they aren’t the things they want. For example: I cook in my house. Everday. Every meal. I don’t necessarily do this for me, I can deal with sandwiches and fast food for the most part. Don’t get me wrong, I love a NY Strip or a Pot Roast as much as the next guy, but I wouldn’t put in so much effort for just me. I cook because my wife loves my cooking and it pleases her. Now, I know she would rather me give her bubble baths and chocolate to show my appreciation, and I do it occasionaly, but I consider my cooking (and fixing things and mowing and yada yada yada) to be my way of showing it. It’s a man thing. We are providers by nature (it’s the animal instinct in us) so that tends to be how we show our affection and appreciation… By providing.

Also, women tend to want in a fairy tale sort of way. It’s the romance novel syndrome. Women want the rest of our lives to be like they were the first month we were dating, while a lot of men are happy in the comfort of a lasting arrangement. The newness wears off. It’s a fact. Granted, in my case at least, it is replaced by comfort (which in my opinion is a lot better) but it still wears off. Ladies, I ask you this: Go to your closet and pick out that pair of jeans that you love but haven’t worn in a while. Now, make yourself feel about them like you did when you first bought them. You know, all excited about a pair of jeans that fit just right. You can’t. The newness has worn off. It has been replaced by an appreciation for the jeans, a happiness for all of the times your @ss looked good in them, but the same feeling isn’t there. Not to say the new feeling is worse than the first, I think it’s better.

We have to have realistic goals in marraige. Just because your husband isn’t telling you everyday that he adores and appreciates you doesn’t mean he isn’t showing it. Sometimes you just have to open your eyes to see it.

Now to get to the point of the article. For me, the boundary is cheating. I have a wonderful wife who trusts me so I don’t have to worry about her checking on me. And I have given her full right to do so. But if she were to cheat on me I couldn’t forgive her. That is my line.

Have a great weekend!

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You can buy a brand new Chevy truck that gets 15/20 through the Clunkers program. It’s nothing but a handout to provide cheaper new cars for consumers and tax money into the car industry. I think it sucks; if people can’t buy a car, or don’t really need one, why use this amount of tax money to subsidize something they don’t need or can’t afford? If the desire is to have greener cars, then force alternative energy on car manufacturers, and get away from oil. This isn’t a green initiative; it’s an economic stimulous initiative. Calling it green is simply politicians being their normal disingenuous selves.

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Jamoca..k

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@Kimmie, I heard that crappy letter this morning. She’s now fed up w/her relationship. 26 years later. She had already given ole dude the blueprint to the makings of the relationship probably in year 2. He knew what he had and how he could manipulate her. She has to pay him rent. WTF is that. He has her in such a chokehold she can’t see straight. She’s too blame for not having backbone sooner to do what’s right for her. Perhaps her writing that letter and reading it back to herself will help to see what’s clearly already there. He doesn’t give a rat’s arse about her! She’s shown him far too long just how much of a weak, lowly woman she is and how tolerable she if of his shortcomings!

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Mo/Jamoca…I think the aroma while cooking, some how tricks your body into thinking you’re full….my experience from cooking

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I’ll try reposting — this thing ate my last one. AJC, the likely reason it does that is when the PHP code gets 2 simultaneous submissions, losing one or both/all of them.

You can get a new Chevy truck with Clunkers, 15/20 MPG. It’s not a Green initiative, it’s a stimulous initiative. Words to the contrary originate in politicians’ usual mendacity, er ah, ability to relate to the public.

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abc

I just talked to a friend at Bellamy Strickland in McDonough. Chevy pickup that gives 15 mpg does not qualify. 18 is the lowest for a pickup/suv.

Why does it have to be either a stimulus or green initiative? Dual intent is possible.

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Leggs/Grace – If she’s working full time, $300 a month plus groceries is not a lot. So over 26 years she should have quite a stash put away if she played her cards right. That way, she’s in the drivers seat in her own life if she chooses to leave him. It would not matter if her name was not on the house or car. If something happened to him, she would not have any obligations! He would have done her a favor. But I bet that is not the case.

If she’s gone 26 years without a ring, no use ranting about it now. Like Steve Smith said, it was something that kept her there all these years so she has only herself to blame. No, at this point the major problem I would have with him is the crappy way he treats her & talks down on her. But hey, you teach people how to treat you!

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abc????!!

did u read about auto nation’s CEO on cnbc this morning?
the cash for clunker program is helping some companies stay open coz its pushing their inventories.
Capitalism is not perfect! uall need to stop reading the repgs talking points.
China passed a bigger bailout than evebody else and the asian economies are roaring.They are at it again,buying up all the american debt.
I support that clunker program,the money went out in one week and it shows,folks are paying attn.Businessess are loving it and so are the consumers.
As for freabies,boy or boy,there are lots of goodies being dished out to companies everytime coz of lobying etc farmers,insurance companies,drug companies,exporters etc and way be4 Obama took office,mind u!! US capitalism is rife/loaded/bloated with subsidies financed by taxpayers so i dont know/understand why abc is whining……….nor why the Repugs want to make it a big deal this time.
Lets leave Obama to shine and cure this Bush economic mess he inherited!

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CAN..WTH??? where you at Frat???

WHat up ya? Boundaries yes well everyone needs them in relationships. For me blatant disrespect,abuse of any kind and all around the basics..if you don’t get it? I can advise of you of what I expect and Visa vei..we agree or not and if not we keeps it moving very simple. Love doesn’t blind me at this age I don’t have the energy, motivation or time to be playing around with some womans son who has no clue even after I give him one. Too many fish in the sea..and that real!

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That was a mouthful DrinkSlinger>…I actually like what you said.

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Melo – 4:17 is very thought-provoking. I wish I had a clunker to sell!

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Ahhh gotta love blogs, start with one topic and 8 1/2 hrs later completely diff subject lol. Well I think I found my new hobby while at work! Keep me entertained yal…lol

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the cash for clunker program is helping some companies stay open coz its pushing their inventories.

I agree…..I thought it was moreso for ailing businesses….not so much being stupid just because. I thought it was a good move. Not perfect but the right intents

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Proff,hey!

Go do it..it has been extended by another injection of 2 bill$,hopefully the vote will pass monday i believe.

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Apparenty, HE’S NOT CROSSING IT!

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Good lookin out Leggs, I like the blog fam already!

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reading backwards here….let me go check out the strawberry letter….most days I can’t frequent that spot….too much foolishness…from the writers and those chiming in.

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Usually there are 2-3 discussions going on at the same time,

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u know purists (capitalists) say that the economy cures itslef.That the market is perfect(from an economic standpoint) and that it weeds losers(inefficient players) and rewards those who are efficient coz,as they say,the playing field is level,no arbitrage coz info is freely available.In reality,BULLCRAP!!
I was speaking about “perfect” in that economic sense.
As we now know or proly do,the markets aint perfect,big playas have leverage over small ones,insider trading is rampant,capitalism goes in cycles,peaks and valleys and eve 5 or so yrs,its needs help from the policy makers.

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**WARNING, WARNING, WARNING** = Red:

It can get pretty violent up in here. Here’s your blog vest. Don it all times (even on good days cuz those quickly change). Bad blood, harsh words, snickers in the bleaches all day everyday. Stay your ground and defend yourself at all costs. Got at it!

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@main lurker, those are the words he used with her. You’re right, after tolerating something for 26 years, you look foolish trying to put your foot down now!

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@Grace, yes it’s all in love and that’s why we keep coming back for more.

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First rule Red, don’t ask what’s up for the weekend at 4:57. No one can answer you…blog closes at 5:00.

Goodnight everyone!

He who laughs last, thinks slowest.

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@Red…welcome to the blog!

@Melo I will let you know if I ride out in a new one this weekend!

Stepping out…it is Friday and my outfit is ready…pass me a sangria.

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Leggs and you know I’m not knocking her but I just don’t see some things…gheesh. I mean we’ve all either had our fair share of being on the bottom in a situation or will have, because that’s just life but only so many times are allowed in each age bracket. You living with someone, Imma give you the benefit of the doubt and say you moved in at 18, that’s what 44 years old, if that. Uh uh, you gets no sympathy because that number should have taught a few things by now. I wouldn’t stay anywhere that long but for the sake of love, let’s say you stay 3 years….no results…I would be so ghost. Unless we’re moving towards a goal and the can see some results in being together that long with no concrete underneath me, I’m soooo out. My uncle use to say (not that everybody lives by this), after two years, a man pretty much knows what he wants to do. He said, heck before then but give him to to give him the benefit of the doubt.

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