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Can I Get Open-Ended?

I used to think that relationships always reached a point where you either had to break up or get married.  The end of the road just comes up and you have to make a decision about what to do next. I’m sure this still applies to many couples, but it seems as if some of us prefer/need/seek to have open-ended relationships.

What are these open-ended relationships? Some of you may be in one right now. They are the pseudo relationships that don’t consist of much relating at all. One or both of you are saying and doing just enough to keep the person around and interested. Perhaps you are waiting for someone better to come along, just in case. These don’t end well, usually. Both individuals deserve better than to be in a non-relationship, wasting time and energy.

I think it is always good dating practice to let someone know that you have absolutely no intention of getting married or being exclusive. At least let them know what to expect. So how do you date someone with no goal of marriage or commitment?

I think it’s harder than many of us think. I know many single people who say that finding someone who just wants companionship is tough. Even when they are able to find someone to go along with this casual, companionship plan, someone begins to want more.

Would you be willing to be in an open-ended relationship? If you met someone that could meet all your “needs” for companionship, do you think you would tell them there was no promise of a commitment?

What would you do if someone you met and got along great with told you they aren’t into exclusive relationships? Could you handle that kind of arrangement?

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Kym-I am the mystery in the room

July 30th, 2009
8:44 am

Is that what it is called? I thought it was just two people keeping company and if it is not broke don’t fix it…Anywoo in the words of Mr. For Real, state your intentions up front. ” I am not looking to get married, I want companionship, not entrapment. Just make it plain. If the other person can’t deal then they have the option to leave, if they choose to stick around…well they knew the job was dangerous when they took it.

mytw♥cents

July 30th, 2009
8:55 am

Bless your heart, Wisey. You’ve had so much sun you forgot you’re on vacation, still posting your heart out…Smooches!

Your Open-Ended is a classic Strung-Along. This is not good because it implies someone is being kept in the dark about the dead end. However, some of us have strung ourselves along (raising my hand) because we focused on what ‘could be,’ rather than what actually was.

I thought you meant it’s open ended because there’s no marriage ending. Which is probably the problem for many who don’t consider it a viable option. They see marriage as an ending, rather than a beginning. Then there are others who have taken the vows before and don’t see a benefit in going down that road again. Or so they say, although as an outsider I wonder if that disillusionment is based in fear, maybe of the same outcome? I don’t know, but it’s a sad motivator for any action/inaction. (Hopefully IV Real, DK, Leggs other lurkers who don’t wanna go back there will address this theory. #506)

But back to open-ended just meaning not ending in marriage. I waver with that one because I’m not into the huge wedding. Some people’s feelings will be hurt to find me fresh back from an island nation with a new last name and maybe never even hearing of our courtship. Because I believe the vow is private and just between God and us two. Which you don’t need a marriage license for. Technically. So depending on the day of the week, long term commitment would work for me.

dw

July 30th, 2009
9:13 am

It’s called “monkey-barring”. Think back to your playground days when you played on the monkey bars. Remember how you would swing between the two bars until you were confident that you could reach the next bar? That’s what people in these types of relationships are doing. They hold on to the first bar(person) as long as they can until they are confident that they can reach the next one.

Ms QC

July 30th, 2009
9:25 am

Good morning Bloggers….have a great day! ;)

Professor...in a great space

July 30th, 2009
9:29 am

Good Morning All:
I am going to make this quick. WD, I agree with this statement, “Even when they are able to find someone to go along with this casual, companionship plan, someone begins to want more.”
Guess what, that is why I don’t do the casual relationships it is always a difficult pill to swallow when you have to explain to someone that you do not have more to give. I find these conversations awkward, and not to mention the fact that I feel like I misled dude. On the flip side, I am spoiled and I like getting what I want so it is disappointing wanting more and knowing dude doesn’t have it to give me. Hence I stay away from this drama, unless I am being deceived and my red flags go off quickly.
What would you do if someone you met and got along great with told you they aren’t into exclusive relationships? Like that ‘80s song I would keep on moving don’t stop no…keeping on moving don’t stop no.
Could you handle that kind of arrangement? I chose not too, I think I am worth more than that at this moment in my life, more importantly I have more to give, which would overflow this small arrangement…pass me the bigger cup that is what I want to fill.

SexyCool - Did you realize your were a Champion in their eyes?

July 30th, 2009
9:43 am

Three Words Daily – Possibilities are endless.

Sassy Me...juicy fruit is NO ONE'S after thought ... :-)

July 30th, 2009
9:43 am

What would you do if someone you met and got along great with told you they aren’t into exclusive relationships? Could you handle that kind of arrangement?

Been there and done that when I was in college. I was totally consumed with school and a relationship just was not what I needed at the time and I knew that I couldn’t commit to one and put in the work to make it successful. I just chose to focus on my education.

I know many single people who say that finding someone who just wants companionship is tough. Even when they are able to find someone to go along with this casual, companionship plan, someone begins to want more.

This is where I am right now…..sometimes I think I might want a relationship and there are other times I know I don’t….and I don’t want to hurt anyone so I fly solo. I’m sure one day I’ll make up my mind or I might meet “him”…who knows.

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

July 30th, 2009
9:46 am

Good morning beautiful people!

I think there is a place for this type of relationship, a just-companionship type of arrangement. Like Mytwo mentioned, people that have been married before and don’t want to do it again, people that just realize that marriage or long-term exclusive committment are not for them, recent divorcees or widows/widowers, etc. Marriage and commitment are just not for everyone. These people need to find each other!

The issues come in when you have folks like Wise mentioned, that are just hanging on until someone they think is better comes along. Or those that have not been out front with their intentions. Or they might be just commitment phobes. Either way, it’s awful for the other person involved with them. They might be a great person overall. Its hard when they meet a person and ARE upfront with their feelings, but the other person says ok at first, but later catches feelings and thinks if they just HANG IN THERE, PUT IN THE WORK, BE PATIENT – they can get them to change their minds. Usually does not work out well. Count me among those that have gotten their hearts broken and wasted precious time.

See, I remember the discussion we had about this a few months back. I think it was East Point, and a few other dudes chimed in, about how they did not believe it when a woman says she does not want a long term commitment or marriage. They say they continue to see her & her mind usually changes. Suppose you’re one of those ladies that will NOT change her mind?

See, we’ve talked a lot of BS on this subject, but bottom line it is a hard thing to pull off successfully. No matter how careful & upfront you are, unless the 2 of you are of the EXACT same mindset, somebody usually gets hurt!

SexyCool - The Closer

July 30th, 2009
9:48 am

Non-Relationships – great way of describing certain situations.

Earlier this year, someone attempted to steer me into one of those non-relationships. At my point of realization (one late,late night call too many and the phrase “booty call” actually being spoken), I let dude know that I was not interested in that type of relationship.

I told him that I desire more, expect more and am worth more. And if that is where he is in his life, then I would respect that. But for me, I was cool on all that.

I let it lie where it fell and moved on.

Professor...in a great space

July 30th, 2009
9:48 am

I think it is always good dating practice to let someone know that you have absolutely no intention of getting married or being exclusive. I concur 100%

At least let them know what to expect. Yep, I think it shows the lack of character when you do not let a person know what to expect, and if you don’t know that is fine let them know that too, and when you realize what you want communicate that with your dating partner.

So how do you date someone with no goal of marriage or commitment? I cannot answer this one because that is not my thing.

Pretty Wings

July 30th, 2009
9:53 am

Good Morning Good People!

Sometimes things aren’t what they seem, people aren’t who we thought they were and circumstances don’t go as we expected them to. Sometimes when we internalize these “situations”, we can be hurt…spiritually hurt and it can be emotionally painful. There’s a thing called trickery, floating around in the universe and it is used by certain negative “energies”, in order to attack & destroy us spiritually and sometimes…sometimes we are blind sided (or not) and blinded from the attack! All we see are the “niceties” that surround us at the time. The strokes to our egos, or the false promise of a fake friendship, or maybe even the temporary five minutes of fame w/a side order of cars, green and bling. However, we must remember that it is just a trick & it is the mission of these negative “energies” to destroy the positive “energies” that was bestowed to us by birth (if we are vulnerable and/or if our spirits aren’t right), by any means necessary…and again, we can be hurt. Nevertheless, if we find ourselves a victim of trickery and wounded from these spiritual attacks, we must learn that in order to heal, we have to forgive the perpetrators of these tricks and ourselves for not having the wherewithal to have avoided them in the first place. If we are so blessed to be able to open our eyes the day after the battle, then we have persevered…Persevered in FAITH!

Game Over!

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

July 30th, 2009
9:56 am

So people, what do you do when you’ve told a person upfront that you don’t want commitment, yet you’ve been seeing this person for awhile and you get the vibe that that person is catching feelings? Do you have a discussion with them, break it off?

How long can you have such a non-relationship? Do they have an expiration date? Or is it just until somebody starts to catch feelings or wants more, otherwise it goes on indefinitely?

It would definitely not work for me. If I’m spending a good deal of time around a man, it means I at least like him & enjoy his company. I probably even find him attractive. Feelings are going to come, no doubt about it. Other than that, he’s just a platonic buddy – which is not the topic of discussion.

mytw♥cents...Electric Relaxation

July 30th, 2009
10:09 am

DW – I like the monkey-barring, sounds about right.

You’ve found it to be a difficult conversation, PROFFESSOR? I haven’t because I do believe in self-preservation. The times in the past when I agreed to casual and I began to like them as a person too much, I literally told them that. I double checked if they still didn’t want a girlfriend and politely removed em from my contacts list.

KIMMIE, We do talk lots of BS on this and I still don’t get the discrepancy between why it’s okay for folks – let’s just say menfolk- to state their desire to continue monkey-barring – and the woman who’s being allowed to put in months or years alongside him, while HE knows he don’t wanna take her to the next level or SHE know he will only do so under durress – but it’s not okay for us womenfolk to call it out as settling. Why do men get offended when we call a spade a spade?

Oooh did I just break my own run-on record? It’ll be worth it if I can stir up a good battle of the sexes! ;)

SexyCool - The Closer

July 30th, 2009
10:10 am

Bob Dylan, John Mellencamp and Willie Nelson perform at the ampitheatre in Alpharetta this evening. Why do I SO want to go? Anybody got a hook-up on tix? (lol)

THE INFAMOUS DK

July 30th, 2009
10:10 am

Im Back on the soil and feeling well rested and relaxed.

I am INFAMOUS for pulling a “turning off your oxygen” You know where I do just enough to keep you interested but all the while I’m mingling and replacing you. Oh and its done so in the end you can cut me off and I say you broke up with me. While it was in the plans all along..

Page1908

July 30th, 2009
10:15 am

The problem with people saying they “just want companionship” and nothing more, is this in my opinion…coming from a woman’s perspective, of course, in these type of situations, when the man says this, more often than not, he really wants all of the things that come with a relationship, such as companionshiop, sex, spending time together, spending the night, going out on dates, etc, but doesn’t want the committment or the title of being exclusive. To me, I see the term “companionship” as “friends”. Meaning, we may talk occasionally and maybe even go out once in a blue moon and that’s it.

One of my guy friends told me recently that he just wants companionship only because he is focusing on school. He said it’s hard for him to find that on the dating scene. So, I said “ok with all of the single women here, why do you think that is”? He said he didn’t know. So, I asked him what his definition of companionship is, and he said “you know…just hanging out, going places”. The I said, “what about sex? Do you want to have sex with her”? And he was like “yeah, of course! I mean if I am spending MY time with her, then yes, I expect to have sex”! I’m like “so, ok, you want all of those things, PLUS sex, but this person is not good enough to make a committment to”? Good luck finding that, buddy!

I guess what I am really trying to say is that a lot of the times, the word “companionship” is just a nice way of saying “I don’t want anything serious with you and I don’t want to make a committment to you, but at the same time, I do want to have all of the other aspects of an actual committed relationship”.

Page1908

July 30th, 2009
10:16 am

OMG sorry for the long post. I think that was my first long post ever! *Totally rad*.

mytw♥cents...Electric Relaxation

July 30th, 2009
10:17 am

KIMMIE One guy I reminded him that he said he didn’t want a relationship, so I hadn’t considered it. But he was demanding relationship typ-o-thangs from me. Check Ins, ETA, dinner, tricks in addition to treats… I gave him the opportunity to verbalize why that was… i.e. he had changed his mind so I could see if I’d change mine. He couldn’t or wouldn’t, so I had to reject that. It was for the best because conversations about his ex let me know his resolution to situations/arguments was to go along with whatever shut her up but then he was bitter with her for ‘making him’such n such…

SexyCool - The Closer

July 30th, 2009
10:18 am

I think if anything, I have found some difficulty (not on my part) in ending non-relationships when someone comes along that you want to focus on.

You know letting a person know that you are not as available to them as you once were, that they can no longer pick up the phone and call you at midnight just to talk or that you won’t be available for your usual Sunday afternoon patio lunch.

The other party can make it awkward.

THE INFAMOUS DK

July 30th, 2009
10:19 am

I also throw a “I want you back” in there for good measure so we can be friends later. I find that women feel better about being the dumper instead of the dumpee. She will be able to tell her friends Girl see he wants me back, he messed up and I have moved on. Once this happens she feels like she is in control and we can move forward and be friends, because the scorn has been minimized.

Professor...in a great space

July 30th, 2009
10:23 am

@My two…I find the conversation awkward if dude is feeling me and wanting more, because I am candid in stating my desires upfront, so I always check myself because I feel like I misled him. I do know I am a bit of a flirt so I always hope that I did not lead him on thinking more of me was available. Now on the flip side if I find myself wanting more the conversation is cool because I have the gift of goodbye I will keep it moving if I develop feelings and he is not available to give more. I guess that is how the cookie crumbles, huh?.

@Pretty wings I agree with your post.

Sassy Me...juicy fruit is NO ONE'S after thought ... :-)

July 30th, 2009
10:24 am

See, we’ve talked a lot of BS on this subject, but bottom line it is a hard thing to pull off successfully. No matter how careful & upfront you are, unless the 2 of you are of the EXACT same mindset, somebody usually gets hurt!

Sometimes this happens and it’s unfortunate that someone gets hurt….especially if “relations” are involved b/c that definitely changes things with some people.

mytw♥cents...Electric Relaxation

July 30th, 2009
10:24 am

We’re on the same PAGE 1908 of this tired azz Non-Relationship book lol Except the spend the night part. Most of them think that if they don’t let the dawn catch em cuddled up, it’ll somehow curtail your emotional attachment.

INFAMOUS WHY???????????? WHY do y’all think that is some kind of brilliant strategy? We already know what you’re doing and it pisses us off that you all weren’t man enough to just throw deuces. Well, us smart ones, and I am confident you don’t like the dumb-dums. The spend the night thing to. You are now tasked wiht answering from all men, since you’re so much of a man hahaaaaa

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

July 30th, 2009
10:27 am

Page – Imma AMEN your 10:15! See, this is how things get messed up – in my book a companion is a buddy, not a FWB! In fact, I think that is a big part of the problem with these non-relationships – everyone has a different definition of what one exactly entails!

SCool – Your 10:18 highlights another issue with these non-relationships!

Why don’t we call these non-relationships what they are – Friends With Benefits?

mytw♥cents...Electric Relaxation

July 30th, 2009
10:30 am

PRETTY WINGS You’re preachin’ bout life, so say that!

DK I tried to limit it to Infamous. But the ‘I want you back’ forces me to revert to the FILTHY VILLANOUS label that I ♥ 4 U. Just so much more appropos :razz:

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

July 30th, 2009
10:31 am

DK – When you gonna grow up man & come up with some new mack moves? Most of us caught on to that mess in high school!LOL!!!

Sassy Me...juicy fruit is NO ONE'S after thought ... :-)

July 30th, 2009
10:38 am

Why do men get offended when we call a spade a spade?

Mytwo for some reason they still think we’re just not supposed to be up on game….but I’ve told ‘em before and will tell ‘em again “game recognizes game all day” and they never believe me until they make that Lisa Lunchmeat mistake….thinking I’m slow or rode the short bus to school.

Once this happens she feels like she is in control and we can move forward and be friends, because the scorn has been minimized.

Why play games?…if you want out then man up and say so….and why would a woman want to remain friends with someone who chose to play games instead of being upfront about what’s going on? Buut if it works for you then by all means do you.

Professor I experienced what you posted in your 10:23 a few times and luckily it’s always ended amicably.

Mo (aka Moeisha-)

July 30th, 2009
10:39 am

Well I see the ladies are holding it down today.

SCool – I agree with your 10:18. How do you break-up with someone that you arent really with? As you stated, you find someone you want to focus on and now telling your no-relationship companion that you arent as available is a bit awkward.

Professor – I dont feel bad if a dude is feeling me more and I have to step away only b/c, like you, I make my intentions known upfront. So if you start to catch feelings then I cant feel bad per se b/c you knew what the deal was. Now the same goes for me, if I start catching feelings knowing you dont want a committment then I will back off. We all make a choice in those situations.

INFAMOUS – whats good man, lone dude holding it down today huh?

abc

July 30th, 2009
10:44 am

I suppose from a typical man’s perspective, what it’d take to inspire and motivate a desire for commitment is a chick that he wants to be his exclusively. If she requires that exclusivity to be a two-way street, bingo, you have commitment.

If he doesn’t want that exclusivity from her, or if she doesn’t require it to be mutual, then a typical man won’t have much to motivate him toward commitment.

I suppose that could go both ways, for men and women alike.

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

July 30th, 2009
10:48 am

abc – So are you saying that everyone WANTS commitment? Those that say they don’t just have not met the right person?

Sassy Me...juicy fruit is NO ONE'S after thought ... :-)

July 30th, 2009
10:50 am

Most of them think that if they don’t let the dawn catch em cuddled up, it’ll somehow curtail your emotional attachment.

INFAMOUS WHY???????????? WHY do y’all think that is some kind of brilliant strategy? We already know what you’re doing and it pisses us off that you all weren’t man enough to just throw deuces.

Mytwo you betta preach then!…but why is that? I mean do men really think these old azz tricks really work?…don’t insult my intelligence…..just like Mytwo said, throw the deuces and keep it moving shyt we all grown.

Page1908

July 30th, 2009
10:51 am

Kimmie and My2- Exactly. It’s crazy. An older lady friend of mine I used to work with back in like 2003 was dating a guy here in Atlanta. Well, this was when I was still in San Diego, and so was she. So she said dude in Atlanta was her bf and I was like “ok he lives in Atlanta and he is dating you in SAN DIEGO”? come on! So, long story short, she dealt with him for 2 years and then one day she emailed me and said she had enough. She said “i got tired of him getting what he wanted and I never got what I wanted, which was a committment”. I was like good for you.

The other day my ex from San Diego like back in 1998 sent me a FR on FB and I was like omg, I couldn’t believe it. We chatted for a while just talking about the old days on the dating scence. Back then, I don’t remember anyone saying “yeah I just want companionship”. Back then, it was like you met people at school or work or through friends, or out or wherever, then it was like ok, you like me, i like you, we are in a relationship. That was it. There was no online sites, speed dating, blogging, texting, etc. I think the internet was in, but it wasn’t big and back then it was dial-up lol. The most we did was send texts on pagers lol.

Now, this new scence of dating has become more complicated with all of the definitions, codes, limitations, etc. It’s like everyone wants EVERYTHING but do not want to put in ANYTHING to get it. That’s the part I don’t understand. We need to treat our relationships like we treat our jobs.

Biatch Pleeze

July 30th, 2009
10:58 am

If you women are so up on game why are you letting it be ran on you? Why don’t you throw the deuce up yourself? A woman will always try to find a way to make herself look good in a breakup situation. “I already knew what you were doing”, “I knew you were flipping the script”. Just another way to save face. It is what it is.

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

July 30th, 2009
11:04 am

A woman will always try to find a way to make herself look good in a breakup situation.

So what’s wrong with that? I don’t see the issue? It’s all a game and if one chooses to play along and let you THINK you ran game, what’s the harm?

And do we have to resort to namecalling? It hurts to know your game is wack, doesn’t it?LOL!!!!

mytw♥cents...Electric Relaxation

July 30th, 2009
11:08 am

BIATCH PLEEZE Perhaps if you dealt with women you didn’t consider biatches or weren’t one yourself, you could grasp the concept of how one could live & learn. Now go back, read Pretty Wings and Have a sunshiney day!

Biatch Pleeze

July 30th, 2009
11:09 am

To the victor go the spoils while the loser is making themselves “look good”.

Biatch Pleeze

July 30th, 2009
11:15 am

Only the biatches respond, us real women recognize “game” before stepping on the playing field and do not get involved.

The Real Rell - one man wolfpack!!

July 30th, 2009
11:17 am

lol…game recongize game…women dont have game….only way a women can get game is from a man…not your girlfriends…lol…you dont ish until we show you the play….i agree with biatch pleeazee..lol

Pretty Wings

July 30th, 2009
11:17 am

@ Kimmiie LMAO

mytw♥cents...Electric Relaxation

July 30th, 2009
11:17 am

SASSAFRASS I’m just sayin’… if s/he’s yearning for you, it’ll happen whether the person is there in the flesh or not… Folks are overthinkin it. Just speak plainly and have no worries.

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

July 30th, 2009
11:20 am

Page – This kind of “flakey” dating thing, folks wanting something for nothing, people stringing folk along, waiting until something better comes along – has been going on since the beginning. It didn’t just start because of the internet either. When we all were young & innocent or in college & all it was going on, it just didn’t have a lable.

The Real Rell - one man wolfpack!!

July 30th, 2009
11:22 am

Perhaps if you dealt with women

- for some reason some of you ladies think you are different then the rest..lol….its just funny how elistist you can be….we all have been duped….ok….we did not recongize game…we got had…we were wearing the sucker on our heads…get off it….

Pretty Wings

July 30th, 2009
11:23 am

@Rell- Game Recognize Game Huh? That is looking real familar. What’s this, homies ova hoe’s day?

THE INFAMOUS DK

July 30th, 2009
11:24 am

Ha ha!!! This is funny.. The reason it still works is because ya’ll dont ever want to look bad in a situation. No one talks about it when women do it.. I’m just honest enough to say it.. Not one woman has womaned up and said she has done it before. Ya’ll are the masters of dropping a bomb on a dude. Ya’ll know months maybe years before ya’ll gonna break up with a dude but will string him along as long as you can. I only do what ya’ll do. Ya’ll always talk about dudes running games but nobody ever talks about women running games.. Cause ya’ll do. Ya’ll just stick together and make it seem like its always our faults when ya’ll are extra slick and greasy. Heck one of my favorite lines came from women.. Do you have a Girlfriend? No but I am dating.. I love that one and the look on a womans face is priceless when they hear it. Oh its going down today ya’ll.. Lets get it..

East Point's Own

July 30th, 2009
11:24 am

mytw♥cents @ your 10:09 post I think its wrong for either sex to create a “monkey barring situation” I say let go of one relationship before starting another… But as far as folks staying in “open ended relationships” from a man’s point of view if we say ” I don’t want to be in a relationship now or with you” and the woman sticks around we feel like we have done our duty, we gave the woman the chance to go on her merry way… now if she decides to stick around for years after that we don’t see it as out fault because we told her up fron… even if it was 2 years ago that we did not want to go there. Sometimes women assume that after we have been seeing each other a few months that the relationship has morphed into something greater.. while men say things are the same as before until one of us verbally changes the rules.
http://hispointofview.com/2009/07/groundhogs-day/

mytw♥cents...Electric Relaxation

July 30th, 2009
11:26 am

BP You’re clearly simple minded or think others are if you wanna go down the road of claiming to have been born knowing it all. And for you to be a woman, calling other women that off top speaks volumes.

RELL … OK… You’re allowed to learn things along the way, or from others, but women aren’t? OK…

I wish y’all had more joy in your lives.

Pretty Wings

July 30th, 2009
11:26 am

Note: There are No Damsels in Distress……..The real one’s keep it moving. Have a great day!

THE INFAMOUS DK

July 30th, 2009
11:29 am

Pretty Wings – Thats the problem Cats need to get back to Bros before Ohs because all this pillow talk is killing game.

Kimmie – You actually think you can get an abbreviated version of this good stuff and understand it. No babe this is tip of the Iceberg and I’m way more complex than I can write about and also way more charming than I lead on, in my writings..

Fan

July 30th, 2009
11:30 am

I’ve been reading these posts for months now. Always interesting … but never really felt the need to chime in. Today, however, I’d like to share something I’ve learned from experience (I’ve been on both sides of this issue), and I hope fellow readers find it helpful.

NEVER LET SOMEONE BE YOUR PRIORITY WHEN YOU ARE ONLY THEIR OPTION.

Be very careful of getting close to someone who is not of like mind as to what your relationship goals are, morals, faith, family, etc. Sometimes we allow initial attraction (sparks, chemistry whatever you want to call it)to cloud our good judgement and cause us to gamble. That’s all fine and good until someone gets hurt because they were hoping things would change.

Simply put, I believe honesty is the best way to get through this type situation. The two of you may eventually decide to commit, but if you should part at least there’s a good chance you’ll gain a lasting friendship and learn something from the experience.

Have a Great Thursday : )

THE INFAMOUS DK

July 30th, 2009
11:32 am

A old man told me once the one thing you want to do with your woman is come to an understanding and everything else will fall into place.. Thats what I believe cause when you come to an understanding there aint no room for lies and BS because the groundwork has been laid.

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

July 30th, 2009
11:34 am

Not one woman has womaned up and said she has done it before.

DK – Actually I did in my first post. I think we all have been there – both women & men have at one point in their life fallen for the okey doke. But that’s not what the topic is about. Why the mean-spiritedness from the guys today?

SexyCool - The Closer

July 30th, 2009
11:35 am

It’s all the metaphorical game, really. The difference in just playing to play or playing with a strategy to win.

Smart women recognize the game and only get involved when the win is guaranteed.

SexyCool - The Closer

July 30th, 2009
11:37 am

Let me restate that last line – Smart when LEARN TO recognize the game and only get involved when the win is guaranteed.

The Real Rell - one man wolfpack!!

July 30th, 2009
11:38 am

@2c…of course you can learn…but the whole game recongize game thing…so cliche overused and lame…again you dont get wisdom before the experience..you gain it after…..

W8

July 30th, 2009
11:39 am

Got my concubines doing their duties and I look up and see that “bat signal”

Lol@b*tch please- you are right. Besides both women and men run game. Difference is once to a certain point men don’t care whereas women will try to “shine” and place blame on the man. Everyone has had it run on them at somepoint and its your own fault if it keeps getting run on you or if you are an easy target. Now runteldat….tried to flush the toilet..but don’t you hate the “floaters” lmao.

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

July 30th, 2009
11:41 am

You actually think you can get an abbreviated version of this good stuff and understand it. No babe this is tip of the Iceberg and I’m way more complex than I can write about and also way more charming than I lead on, in my writings..

DK – Uhh..okay???? Don’t know where that came from or why you think I care, but okay.

I wish y’all had more joy in your lives.

It beared repeating, Mytwo!!LOL!!

anonymousella

July 30th, 2009
11:46 am

Would you be willing to be in an open-ended relationship?

i am in one. we are in a long-distance relationship that could lead to marriage. or it could continue being a long-term, long-distance relationship. we’ve talked about both scenarios, but we haven’t made any decisions or concrete plans, partly due to circumstance. he’s okay with that ambiguity. i am learning to be. (he’s a laid back cali boy. i am a neurotic ex-new yorker / control freak.)

If you met someone that could meet all your “needs” for companionship, do you think you would tell them there was no promise of a commitment?
no. if you are meeting my needs for companionship, then why aren’t we in a committed relationship?

What would you do if someone you met and got along great with told you they aren’t into exclusive relationships? Could you handle that kind of arrangement?

how fine is he? lol. seriously: it depends on the circumstances and the chemistry. i am usually the type who tries (and fails) to make a relationship out of those scenarios. but sometimes you meet someone who you don’t even want to have a relationship with. you just want to do things while naked. i certainly can’t rule it out.

THE INFAMOUS DK

July 30th, 2009
11:51 am

THE TRUTH HURTS.. Look at how many babes are upset.. Calling for more joy in our lives and that we are being mean spirited..

Let me see Joy in my life. Just got back from vacation. I have more than one girlfriend, oh wait I’m dating. Just bought a new pair of shoes. Got a hot date this evening. Money in the bank. I’m not married. Handsome Smart Mannerable Son. Lively Jack Russell. Oh and sex anytime I want it.. Heck I think I got joy on lock over here.

Wrote a song about it wanna hear it here it goes.
Happy happy joy joy happy happy joy joy..

Kym-I am the mystery in the room

July 30th, 2009
11:53 am

@W8 Concubines..what the hell? Did I miss something?

And what is this about game?

I am going to lunch I had a horrible, horrible football daydream just now…I dare not type or speak it for the horror of it..is just too much.

Cemeeli

July 30th, 2009
11:53 am

Hey folks…

..peeking in on what? Of course….why not?….lol…:)

Any dude or lady playing games after a certain age (maybe), or after they learn & are real stand-up grown folks, they are playing the “scorned game”. Yea, it’s a diversion of such…

…Hey… just come correct. Or don’t at all.

If a guy that I’m romantically involved with tells me he wants an open-relationship. Lol…hahahah. …Go head…do your thang. I’m out, I let him have that.

Lol…I’m cool, you little buster.

Then, if you wanna re-visit the possibility. Politley. I would not allow you to get that close to me. By that time youa lame, I can tell it ain’t hittin on nuthin.

Walk.

Lol….i’m off.

THE INFAMOUS DK

July 30th, 2009
11:54 am

Please forgive me today. I think Im smelling myself, feeling some kind of way and feeling myself all at the same time.

Mo (aka Moeisha-)

July 30th, 2009
11:54 am

Fan – I love that saying as well, says a lot..”NEVER LET SOMEONE BE YOUR PRIORITY WHEN YOU ARE ONLY THEIR OPTION.”

INFAMOUS -okay I can love that 11:32

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

July 30th, 2009
11:54 am

DK – Live your life like its golden, baby!

Cemeeli

July 30th, 2009
11:54 am

P.S. Do not insult my intellect…Parasites. Who attract maggots, ‘sides parasites?

THE INFAMOUS DK

July 30th, 2009
11:55 am

W8 – Whens the big trip..

Rell – Hold ya head pimpin.. and Keep keepin it 1 hunnid..

mytw♥cents...Electric Relaxation

July 30th, 2009
12:02 pm

FILTHY I’m not one who talks about women runnin games/playin games cuz all that’s elementary.

PERNT I’m with you on the terms and conditions of the verbal agreement only subject to change when stated outright.

RELL Your 11:22 proves my 10:09. We’re elitist because we didn’t just fall off a turnip truck? Why are you mad that some chicks just ain’t as simple as Simon and don’t need to continuously repeat cycles. You agree with BP, so you think game has been run up n thru us…based on that,what would it say to never, ever get the lesson? Would you wanna deal with someone like that?

W8

July 30th, 2009
12:05 pm

@Kym- you haven’t missed anything..just adding fuel to the fire..lol. I’m in all UGA gear today fitted cap, golf shirt, and jeans with a UGA buckle. I can’t wait for football season.

@DK its the 13th. But I will be back before the 18th. I’m ready though

Hey Mo hey Kimmie…

The Real Rell - one man wolfpack!!

July 30th, 2009
12:09 pm

@MY2…FO DA LAST TIME….i am not mad at all…a lil horny…but not mad..for what…i am alive right….i am still in the game

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

July 30th, 2009
12:11 pm

East Point – Was it you back a few months ago that said you didn’t believe it when a woman said she didn’t want marriage or a relationship? If so, you see where I’m going with this, right?

THE INFAMOUS DK

July 30th, 2009
12:12 pm

My 2 – Youre so cute.. I just had one of those light bulb moments. Women dont consider what they are doing as running game because they are so used to doin the BS they actually believe it. Its like a compulsive liar. After a while they just start believeing the lies to be true. WOW! Thanks for youre help with this amazing breakthru..

THE INFAMOUS DK

July 30th, 2009
12:17 pm

I guess my point is this. Ladies ya’ll gotta start taking responsibility for some of the mess ya’ll be doin. The things ya’ll read and agree to, should be taken back and disseminated amongst and used to influence your circle of friends. When ya’ll know you wrong or your girl is wrong call her on it. Dont just be her support group just to be her support. Give her strong correction when necessary.

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

July 30th, 2009
12:18 pm

Rell/DK – Speaking for myself, I’ve been posting on this blog a few years now. I’m also over 30, like quite a few of the blogettes on here. That old “Imma make her/him miserable so she’ll break up with me first” thing is just that – old! EVERYBODY over the age of 18 has probably had it run on them before! Been there, done that! And it happens in various degrees all the time – sometimes it’s more subtle – the dates & phone calls start falling off & you get the message. Not that anyone is really trying to run a game, it’s just run it’s course!
But it all just sounds so silly coming from supposedly grown folks on here! JUST MY OPINION!!!!

THE INFAMOUS DK

July 30th, 2009
12:19 pm

And together we can make the world a better place.. We are the world. We are the children.

Tazzee - countdown to Pensacola Beach

July 30th, 2009
12:21 pm

Afternoon Folks!

DK your 11:51 cracked me up. Do your thing and hang on to that joy.

SexyCool You were in my dream last night, telling me about your love interest…

mytw♥cents...Electric Relaxation

July 30th, 2009
12:21 pm

Well I guess we’ll call my quest for a battle successful…

I must’ve lost track of the breadcrunbs cuz y’alls posts are all over the place as far as making sense.

FILTHY 111:32 makes all the sense in the world but lots of your extra seems a counter productive to working towards that. And you do come across as charming and that’s probably where the danger lies for the unsuspecting woman.

RELL It seems like you’re contradicting yourself to me. Pick one line of defense & go with it.

W8 LOTS of people think they’re far better at runnin game than they actually are.

KIMMIE Sangria, PLEASE!

Jamoca aka Anck-Su-Namun (reincarnated)

July 30th, 2009
12:21 pm

Ok, after reading the introduction of today’s discussion for the 3rd time…I personally would not define the examples listed as “open ended” but moreso FWB (as it has been already stated). To be honest, I was thinking more along the lines of one (or in some cases both) parties never really putting in stone the termination of the relationship, due to one or the other (or BOTH) not being fully ready to “let go” of the relationship, and therefore labeling with an open ended status.

Such as…relationship of the past. You get the phone call. Wants to catch up on what’s new in your life (aka “new love”)…only to reveal that he never got over you and (in his book) does not recall “giving” you the “official clearance” of the relationship. So in his mind, he still feels as if he should automatically get first dibbs or rather should be granted consideration over anyone else because of the history. Haaaa but n/r!

So in other words, he sees the relationship left as open ended because both parties simply fellback and during all this time he’s been having a hard time trying to decipher whether or not he loves this woman or is in love with her…before he puts his foot in mouth about where/when/how to proceed with his thoughts and therefore his actions…. now thinking back to dw’s analogy of swinging on the monkey bars. Hmmmm

Now personally, I sensed some entitlment going on, but I could be wrong. However I can somewhat see how he could mistake this as open ended (per my definition)…although I most certainly beg to differ.

And uhhhh, Ms. Main I’m gone need you to stop with the confessions of droppin’ babygirl TWICE on her po’ cranium, sis. Where’s DFACS when you need em…? Lol

Raqi

July 30th, 2009
12:22 pm

It hardly ever fails, one or the other usually catches feelings.

IMO once any type of agreement is made it closes the end. Whether you agree to date to marry, agree to have a life long committed exclusive relationship, agree to an indefinite open relationship or agree to be convenient FWB, the agreement closes the end.

I don’t know of too many people that date for too long not waiting to see where it leads.

East Point's Own

July 30th, 2009
12:22 pm

kimmie I can’t say that all women want marriage, because I kno wthere is always that slim margin of folks who are just weird…. but 98% of women probably want to get married at some point whether they admit to it or not… Practically no one wants to grow old alone. But I am sure there are a couple folks who do.. but nowhere near as many as that claim that they never want to marry.

But yeah I know what ya mean.

THE INFAMOUS DK

July 30th, 2009
12:22 pm

Kimmie – So what is it call when a woman stays with a dude knowing shes gonna leave him months before he has a clue?

Because we have read it here plenty of times that ya’ll prepare for the breakup months in advance. What is that called?

Sassy Me...juicy fruit is NO ONE'S after thought ... :-)

July 30th, 2009
12:23 pm

Got my concubines doing their duties and I look up and see that “bat signal”

Concubines? :???:

We’re elitist because we didn’t just fall off a turnip truck? Why are you mad that some chicks just ain’t as simple as Simon and don’t need to continuously repeat cycles.

Mytwo I just don’t think they really want to admit that there are some women who just won’t go for the BS they spew….like we’re just not supposed to recognize game. True there are some hell-a-clueless women out there but is that really the caliber woman you want? And for the record just b/c you tell a woman you don’t want a commitment or a serious relationship and she stays around IT DOES NOT ABSOLVE YOU FROM GUILT IF YOU CONTINUE TO USE HER.

mytw♥cents...Electric Relaxation

July 30th, 2009
12:26 pm

Oh and the Joy comment was directed @ BP & Rell at the time. His rhetoric sounds like it morphed, tho.

SexyCool - The Closer

July 30th, 2009
12:28 pm

Taz – LOL. There certainly is a lot to say about Mine. Your post just made me smile and smile.

The Real Rell - one man wolfpack!!

July 30th, 2009
12:30 pm

@2c…i love you

THE INFAMOUS DK

July 30th, 2009
12:31 pm

My 2 – You know I like bein a controversial figure ;-) .. Im actually a little more reserved in person. Im the unusual suspect. I get that Im a nice guy alot with a disarming smile. Dont get it twisted I treat the ladies very nice and we have womnderful times but I am flaky on the relationship side. I know this and I tell women that. Allbeit I do it with a smile and a joke though so it lessens the impact. Its not what you say its how you say it and how you present the facts.

Sassy Me...juicy fruit is NO ONE'S after thought ... :-)

July 30th, 2009
12:33 pm

When ya’ll know you wrong or your girl is wrong call her on it. Dont just be her support group just to be her support. Give her strong correction when necessary.

Ummm okay DK so the next time one of whatever male friends you have starts doing some real lame,mangina type stuff call him on it…..cause there’s definitely some men who should’ve been checked a long time ago and it’s ” even Stevie Wonder can see it” obvious ’cause.

W8

July 30th, 2009
12:34 pm

@DK-they never will

@my2-who cares if they are good or not running game. A lot of times people assume that are more important than they really are and in reality some women place themselves in that position due to their own mindset or their meddling friends who need a life of their own. So where some folks think they are having game ran on them its not the case at all…well not from the guys perspective.. I’m a one man wolfpack.watching my own lane..lol

Cemeeli

July 30th, 2009
12:35 pm

…excuse me for this P.S.A.

The 3rd Annual “GlenHOOD Day BLock Pary” & RE-Grand Opening of “Images of Us Barber Salon.” In the East Atlanta Village from 2pm-close.

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If you all know anyone in that area. Pass the word.

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

July 30th, 2009
12:35 pm

what is it call when a woman stays with a dude knowing shes gonna leave him months before he has a clue?

DK – Sounds like this is something you’ve been thru before! I don’t have a clue, hon! I’ve never had any of my friends tell me “I’m seeing this dude, but imma break up with him in a few months”.??? Huh?? Now I have heard of golddiggers doing this to sugar-daddies – but the arrangement is “understood”. Either way, I was not raised this way & don’t know of any of my friends that are. All my friends except one are married.

Maybe a person might do that if they are unhappy in a marriage and they are working up the courage to ask for a divorce or hoping things will change before they just up & run – I really can’t help you with that!

Cemeeli

July 30th, 2009
12:37 pm

Moca hey maam.

(reincarnated)??

Jamoca aka Anck-Su-Namun (reincarnated)

July 30th, 2009
12:38 pm

I honestly don’t see how some of you can actually say/post that you’ve never seen/read any of the ladies here admit when they dun’ fugged up and allowed not only themselves but the individual involved, to keep the same program going in hopes that things will progress for the better. In some cases, visual is not enough…so a more hand’s on experience gives some a bird’s eye view on “what not to do” to next “go-round”.

We share these stories at least every other day. But I must say, it’s as if some of you want us to wallow in it, while “you” whip folks with the mistakes (also know as life’s lessons) they’ve made. Damn.

Why beat a dead horse?

Raqi

July 30th, 2009
12:40 pm

So what is it call when a woman stays with a dude knowing shes gonna leave him months before he has a clue?

Infamous I have actually done that. I kept giving it a chance to see if things would get better or change. I told a friend of mine about three months prior to breaking up with the guy that I was going to do it. I let it drag out longer than it should have.

Cemeeli

July 30th, 2009
12:40 pm

If you want to donate to the kids & help out @ the Block Party…

Donations can be made at any SunTrust Bank under the “Images of Us” account or contact us and we will make arrangements to pick up items/donations.

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mytw♥cents...Electric Relaxation

July 30th, 2009
12:41 pm

FILTHY VILLANOUS INFAMOUS INFURIATING… WHATEVA! Did you read my first post? Do y’all ever process the times when we take ownership of what we did or allowed? Of course not, cuz it would water down that bs logic some of you wanna cling to.

RELL Not literal. And who ain’t horny? Can we all use that explanation when we take it to the far left?
“If ya horny & ya know it, clap your hands!”

THE INFAMOUS DK

July 30th, 2009
12:41 pm

W8 – Aww good point.. The “Girl I wouldnt take that from him” syndrome is running rampant these days. Girlfriends are killers of more relationships/marriages than the plague. Cause Girlfriends will have a chick thinking bout something she wasnt even thinking about.

Like Dude comes in the house takes his shoes of at the door and has done so forever. Girlfriend comes over and sees the shoes sitting at the door and says “Girl why he leave his shoes at the door. There is a place for them, he must want you to clean up after him”. Then comes the “Girl I wouldnt take that from him”. Then dude has a problem when there wasnt one.

Sassy Me...juicy fruit is NO ONE'S after thought ... :-)

July 30th, 2009
12:42 pm

So what is it call when a woman stays with a dude knowing shes gonna leave him months before he has a clue?…..What is that called?

Wow this cat is really stupid…..but beween the sheets dude is the BIZNESS….guess I’ll just keep him around for the wood ’til I find something new.

I might tbe wrong but that could be ONE of the names it’s called…it has several aliases you know. :mrgreen: I’m jus’sayin :lol:

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

July 30th, 2009
12:42 pm

Jamoca – Girl, you preaching today!!

DK – All my friends are grown-azz women. I don’t go around correcting grown women. What they do in their relationships is their own business.

Cemeeli

July 30th, 2009
12:42 pm

Lol…sorry.

In the East Atlanta Village
Saturday August 8th-
2pm til close.

Block Party & RE-Grand Opening of “Images of Us Barber Salon.”

Jamoca aka Anck-Su-Namun (reincarnated)

July 30th, 2009
12:45 pm

“If ya horny & ya know it, clap your hands!”
LOL…some folks know they need to clap their hands AND FEET.

Cee Yes, ma’am, I am she. How you? lol

SexyCool - Conspiracy Theorist (lol)

July 30th, 2009
12:46 pm

w8 – We’ve had a lot of interesting posts over the last few days. Didn’t you tell me that you know how to check IP addys?

Sassy Me...juicy fruit is NO ONE'S after thought ... :-)

July 30th, 2009
12:48 pm

CLAP…CLAP…. :mrgreen:

THE INFAMOUS DK

July 30th, 2009
12:48 pm

Kimmie – I didnt expect you to tell the truth, but I did expect you to come back with a half a$$ed attack on me.

The funny thing about it is you think you are so smart and I bet you just kill yourself by thinking “Youre getting someone told”.

Cemeeli

July 30th, 2009
12:49 pm

@ Moca – Maam i’m handlin’ mine.

Waiting on my lunch to get here. How are you love?

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

July 30th, 2009
12:49 pm

DK – If all a friend of mine had to complain about is where her man left his shoes, I’d tell her she had herself a winner!

Dang, what kind of women are yall dealing with that would actually allow a girlfriend to come between her and a good man?!! As hard as it is to find one! Geez!!

THE INFAMOUS DK

July 30th, 2009
12:52 pm

Sassy – Honestly I do call my dudes on some Fcuk Ish. Like if I know he has a good babe at home and he’s tripping. I’ll tell him youre tripping. Only once but I’ll mention it because after that its on him. I’ve called my patnas on plenty of mess and just said youre wrong and they have done it to me. We have that kind of relationship. Now we also have the type of relationship where if youre are being a sucker we’ll mention that too.

Jamoca aka Anck-Su-Namun (reincarnated)

July 30th, 2009
12:52 pm

LOL @ Sassy! Blog Confession for the ladies – #937,562,711. Blog Confession for the Menfolk – #347.

…anybody else???… I mean, since folks want to keep track these days, instead of reading. It’s fundamental, ya know.

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

July 30th, 2009
12:53 pm

DK – If it came off like I was “getting you told”, I sincerely apologize. Cause that was not the intent at all. Maybe I touched a nerve, but again I am sorry.

Obviously you got blind-sighted by someone. We’ve all been there too, I will admit to it.

I think I am of decent intelligence, but I know so many that are smarter. I’m humble, no matter how great I think I am, it’s always somebody out there greater.

Sassy Me...juicy fruit is NO ONE'S after thought ... :-)

July 30th, 2009
12:54 pm

That’s what’s up DK. I don’t think you can call yourself a true friend if you’re not willing to tell them the truth and check ‘em when need be.

Tazzee - countdown to Pensacola Beach

July 30th, 2009
12:54 pm

Jamoca – I think it’s because we don’t talk about the times we were played EVERY time the subject comes up. Doesn’t matter if it happened 5 years ago – the guys want us to bring up those times EVERY time the subject comes up…

DK – I am blessed that I don’t have any “I wouldn’t take that from him” friends. Well, they may be the type but if they are they know that I would come back “well what ARE you taking from your man? Oh that’s right, you don’t have one” But I will tell my friends if they are wrong in a relationship. Not in a nasty way, but more like “Didn’t you tell me God blessed you with this man? Has he ever given you reason to think [insert alleged offense] before? Then why are you doubting him now?” Funny thing is, the last time I had to have that sort of conversation with one of my married friends – another friend was in her ear with some mess.

Cemeeli

July 30th, 2009
12:54 pm

it’s as if some of you want us to wallow in it, while “you” whip folks with the mistakes (also know as life’s lessons) they’ve made. Damn.

Moca

Lol..If you embraced half of some of this crap or these tangents about being platonic cut buddies, you’d find yourself hanging off Glenwood, over the I-20 bridge tombout “I’ma free myself”…

I know you could giva a rats….but you know..i’m jus sayin’.

W8

July 30th, 2009
12:54 pm

@scool- yes I’m able to..I have software from work that helps with that..but if you search google really really hard and know what you are doing..you can also

I’m a wolf..no need for sheeps clothing..but no need to “cry wolf” if I’m not in the area

mytw♥cents...Electric Relaxation

July 30th, 2009
12:57 pm

W8 if you don’t know why it’s important to be good at runnin game if that’s in fact what you’re endeavoring to do… I can’t explain it to you at this juncture either. Lawdammercy!

I heart you maddening men too. Mwah! (B@stards LOL)

JAMOCA You gonna get on the 1s n 2s? These hardheaded dudes got me on some ol Ghetto Boys My Mind Is Playin Tricks on me type shii…

CEE I’m plannin the brunch. Jus cuz…

Cemeeli

July 30th, 2009
12:57 pm

Tazzee You say LEMON PEPPER HOT WINGS to much. ….twiddling thumbs. I ordered, but they arent here. That’s not cool. I was good and got salad, as a side.

Tazzee - countdown to Pensacola Beach

July 30th, 2009
1:01 pm

Cemeeli I haven’t said lemon pepper wings in almost a week. Why you wanna get me started? LOL

Sassy Me...juicy fruit is NO ONE'S after thought ... :-)

July 30th, 2009
1:06 pm

I’m a wolf..no need for sheeps clothing..but no need to “cry wolf” if I’m not in the area

Big girls don’t cry….

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

July 30th, 2009
1:06 pm

I stay out of my friends’ relationships. Unless one of my girls is getting beat up or on drugs/excessive alcohol, I learned to stay out. You’re always on the outside looking in. Other than those extreme circumstances, I have seen too many times situations that looked one way and were something totally different when the real story came out. Had folks to turn on ME when I thought I was doing good & being a friend. So I stay out. If you need a place to stay or a shoulder to cry on, I’m here though.

Jamoca aka Anck-Su-Namun (reincarnated)

July 30th, 2009
1:07 pm

Contrary to popular belief, not all women are so easily moved by their friends…nor do we all tell/share every dayum thing either…and that goes for family as well. Heyal, she’s just asking for trouble by doing that.

I for one am very glad to have the very FEW folks in my circle who not only encourage me, but inspire me to challenge myself…my thoughts and/or my fears. However, I don’t mistake the fact that these same folk will call me out on some bull if they spot it. And if I’m mad, so be it. But they’re real with me, regardless…even if it hurts for them to tell me so. And I am the exact same way…I expect to be checked on some foolishness by those who truly have my best interest at heart.

And yes, I’ve known a few folks in the past who feel that if you’re both cool with the other, that when some bs comes into play, that you should not call them on and turn a blind eye. Nawww…I don’t roll thatta way over here. My folks will have to just get over that. Because if I really have a geniune interest/friendship…or whatever with a person, I’m quick to let them know, the moment that I have nothing to say on important matters, that’s when you’ll know, I truly don’t give a dayum.

THE INFAMOUS DK

July 30th, 2009
1:08 pm

Kimmie –

Raqi – Thanks for your Honesty. I know I can depend on you to be 1 hunnid.

Cemeeli

July 30th, 2009
1:13 pm

But they’re real with me, regardless…even if it hurts for them to tell me so. And I am the exact same way…I expect to be checked on some foolishness by those who truly have my best interest at heart.

Who you called to the carpet? Wun me! Lol

Black Mamba AKA Princess Xiomara

July 30th, 2009
1:14 pm

OPEN-ENDED??? WTF? :lol: Oh my bad…my mind was in the gutter…as usual!

INFAMOUS…”Not one woman has womaned up and said she has done it before.” Let me be the first to say that I have ran game…and got over on a few dudes! Dats right…I said it! :lol: Now what????

W8…Concubines???? MMMMM….do tell! What do sheep taste like? Taste like chicken???? :lol:

SASSY…girl high 5 on your 1:06….we don’t cry…

Cemeeli

July 30th, 2009
1:14 pm

@ Tazzee – They’re heeeeere.

I’m only eating 6, and save 4 for Lil Cee. He gon be looking crazy…lol

THE INFAMOUS DK

July 30th, 2009
1:14 pm

Taz – Everyone needs friends like that. Friends that have to understand there are two or three sides to the story. I have had friends to ask me when I was having issues with my EX. Well tell me what you did first and I have to explain the entire situation before they would even offer advice on it. If the story was tooo her laden then they would stop me and tell me I was leaving something out. We know each other and know how we react to certain situations so its no pulling wool over eyes.

Jamoca aka Anck-Su-Namun (reincarnated)

July 30th, 2009
1:17 pm

Cee – That 2PieceChick dun’ called me to the caw-pet on several occasions. She used to be on a sis ’bout that fear disguised as pride…haaawwwd! now that’s a lawduhmercy… Lmao.

Cemeeli

July 30th, 2009
1:21 pm

I subscribe to SI Golf Nation here at work. Why not it’s free for most in my dept/team?.

Why the boss man come asking me if i’ve ever travel for a game with the associates here? I politeley said, no. But i add that i like to be knowledgable enough to discuss it because in my culture it’s a unique sports entity & combined with the social networking power.

He then goes on to say…No, it’s about spending the company’s dime on an activity that’s accepted as “business meetings” from the finanacial VP.

Okay, so now i will attend one “meeting”…jus cause. What do i wear? Lol…hahahahha

Cemeeli

July 30th, 2009
1:23 pm

lol @ “hawwwd”. Moca – You are a mess.

Sassy Me...juicy fruit is NO ONE'S after thought ... :-)

July 30th, 2009
1:23 pm

I stay out of my friends’ relationships. Unless one of my girls is getting beat up or on drugs/excessive alcohol, I learned to stay out.

I have a VERY small circle around me and usually I find myself being the one they call when they need to vent. So like a good friend I listen…..and listen…..and listen. Now if some ish was to jump off where someone is “puttin hands” on one of my girls then they also know to call me b/c I will take a ride if it comes to that…..

Maxwell Snark

July 30th, 2009
1:26 pm

I worked with a man and woman who dated. They never got married and never lived together. They dated for 15 or 20 years … until he died suddenly.

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

July 30th, 2009
1:27 pm

Everyone has different ways of running their relationships & looking at things. That does not mean they cannot be my good friends, just cause we look at things differently though. For example, one friend of mine has what appears to be sort of a volatile, passionate relationship with her husband. They’re not fire & ice – they’re BOTH fire! And extremely jealous and possesive with each other. They constantly have to check up on each other, she goes thru his cell phone & computer & mail constantly. He thinks every other man wants her & one day she might leave him for one of them! It’s crazy, but it seems to work for them. I just listen when she talks about him. What kind of advice can I offer her? Me & SO don’t have all that stuff going and I work from a position of trust until you do something to break it. Not her.

Sassy Me...juicy fruit is NO ONE'S after thought ... :-)

July 30th, 2009
1:28 pm

Mamba ¿Cóma está?’ chica?…we don’t cry….we get even….

Jamoca - Now All We Have Is Memories

July 30th, 2009
1:28 pm

2PieceChick How about a lil Mary for ya’…besides I think it may go along with the subtopic of the moment.

Okay, I had this song on repeat after my first/last “serrus” LT committed relationship of putting so much more into the relationship, that I had nothing left on reserve for myself. Lived, loved and learned the hard way. rolling eyes

All those pretty memories,
I know you can hear me now
For the record,
I love you, I love you
[Repeat]

[Verse 1]
When I found out that you were leaving me,
I couldn’t sleep thinking about
All the things that we’ve been through
Now all that I want to do
Is tell you that I, (I)
Miss you…so much…
(You know I really really miss you…)

[Chorus]

[Verse 2]
Now that I’m on my own
I know that in time I’ll find somebody new
(Who’ll treat me better than you)
So I’ll go all alone without you
But I still love you
You know I’ll never live without you

[Chorus]

I wish you’d change your ways soon enough
So we can be together
You just don’t understand good enough
But now all we have is memories…

[Chorus]
Memories we shared
No one else could compare
Ohh, I miss you, I miss you
Oh I miss you

…of the way we used to be,
Oh, those pretty memories

THE INFAMOUS DK

July 30th, 2009
1:28 pm

Black Mamba – Dang! Like that.. Hey but it is what it is. See we have instincts to but usually we are so territorial that we get caught up in another Dog pissin in our yard that we miss the fact that shes already gone. We dont want her but dont want anyone else to have her. I mean that in a non Domestic Violence kind of a way though. By the end we are usually looking at ya’ll more as possessions than the other piece to the relationship.

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

July 30th, 2009
1:30 pm

I mean that in a non Domestic Violence kind of a way though.

LOL!! Cute!

Black Mamba AKA Princess Xiomara

July 30th, 2009
1:36 pm

SASSY…”Mamba ¿Cóma está?’ chica?…we don’t cry….we get even….” Es la verdad chica! Tu sabes! That’s cause we are Wolf Tamers!

INFAMOUS….why we gotta be possesions? LOL

Iminthewrongblog

July 30th, 2009
1:39 pm

Most of You sound like Hollywood starlets. So much for diseases.

W8

July 30th, 2009
1:40 pm

Lol@Staceye atleast you admit it.

@Sassy/Staceye-what yall know about taming a wolf..lol

@DK-when I’m done I’m done I hope and pray that when she becomes an ex that she finds another man fast. I’m a one man wolfpack..lol

Black Mamba AKA Princess Xiomara

July 30th, 2009
1:42 pm

W8…my girl Sassy and I know plenty….we will whip and bite that a$$! Now what? “who’s my b*tch?” :lol:

Sassy Me...juicy fruit is NO ONE'S after thought ... :-)

July 30th, 2009
1:43 pm

That’s cause we are Wolf Tamers!

You know I know :)

Cemeeli

July 30th, 2009
1:43 pm

Thanks for making a donation!!!

Go blog!

Alpha Female

July 30th, 2009
1:43 pm

That wolfpack thing is kinda sexy. Kinda.

Sassy Me...juicy fruit is NO ONE'S after thought ... :-)

July 30th, 2009
1:45 pm

W8…my girl Sassy and I know plenty….we will whip and bite that a$$! Now what? “who’s my b*tch?”

Watch out Mamba….he likes it rough like that ;)

Jamoca - Now All We Have Is Memories

July 30th, 2009
1:45 pm

in my best voice of Mr.Clarence…”donations!do-naaations!”

Black Mamba AKA Princess Xiomara

July 30th, 2009
1:46 pm

SASSY…I know he does huh…ok..new game plan…we tickle him to death. It will blow his mind!

RelldaRake - one man wolfpack!!!

July 30th, 2009
1:47 pm

Can we all use that explanation when we take it to the far left?

- i hope you have all this air in your chest if/when we ever cross paths!!!….lol

@staceye….lol, you got ova on dudes..the dayum grand pooba of the she-male men hating club…”we dont believe you..ya need more people”…lol

W8

July 30th, 2009
1:47 pm

@Staceye/Sassy- I probably am a two woman job…”Hungryyyyyy like a wolf!!!!!!”

…I don’t know if yall two are running game on me but I am not going to end up open-ended…lmao…lol

Black Mamba AKA Princess Xiomara

July 30th, 2009
1:49 pm

RELL…I’m no Tranny! :lol:

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

July 30th, 2009
1:50 pm

W8 – Somebody is probably running game on you, laying back in the cut, while you try to figure out Staceye & Sassy!

Sassy Me...juicy fruit is NO ONE'S after thought ... :-)

July 30th, 2009
1:50 pm

I know he does huh…ok..new game plan…we tickle him to death. It will blow his mind!

Hmmm…tickle him(oooh wonder where) with one of those little feathery things they sell at the novelty stores perhaps….

Black Mamba AKA Princess Xiomara

July 30th, 2009
1:51 pm

W8….Wait til’ you are in the dungeon with Sassy and I…. :wink:

Black Mamba AKA Princess Xiomara

July 30th, 2009
1:53 pm

SASSY…you know I got a few of those laying around my lair…amongst other things! :lol:

RelldaRake - one man wolfpack!!!

July 30th, 2009
1:54 pm

@staceye….lol, i know but i cant believe you would engage in that type of f uckery getting ova on dudes..not you…lol

Sassy Me...juicy fruit is NO ONE'S after thought ... :-)

July 30th, 2009
1:54 pm

Somebody is probably running game on you, laying back in the cut, while you try to figure out Staceye & Sassy!

Kimmie that’s usually how it goes….send in the candy to distract ‘em and then……BAM!

Side note: It’s raining really hard right now…..CLAP…CLAP! :mrgreen:

W8

July 30th, 2009
1:57 pm

@Kimmie-well I hope she is enjoying herself and winning…cuz (in my Chris Tucker voice from Friday) “I don’t give a phuck!!”. Lol

@Sassy/Staceye- (in my business voice)”I think I’m goingto leave you two alone because I think yall are serious,I’m scared and I don’t want to get raped”

Leggs

July 30th, 2009
1:57 pm

I too will admit that I have gotten over on a guy or two. We have all been played, used, tossed to side. This part of life not many escapees walk amongst us. Some do, but not many!

“Hungryyyyyy like a wolf!!!!!!” – everytime I read these words I think of Farrah Fawcett. She played a lovesick woman who killed her kids because her then boyfriend didn’t like kids. This was the woman’s favorite song.

Black Mamba AKA Princess Xiomara

July 30th, 2009
1:58 pm

RELL….those guys deserved it…for initiating the phuckery! :lol: They start it…I finish it! :wink: The Karma Kitty will bite you in the a$$!

Sassy Me...juicy fruit says O is for Oochie ... :-)

July 30th, 2009
1:58 pm

Wait til’ you are in the dungeon with Sassy and I….

Sassy and Mamba saying to W8: Ssshh..don’t be scared…you gone like it….just relax

RelldaRake - my FRAME is correct

July 30th, 2009
1:58 pm

where is vick going?

Jamoca - Now All We Have Is Memories

July 30th, 2009
1:58 pm

I’m no Tranny! LMAO.

Okay, see now….this here deserves a chuckle. Menfolk say they want a signed blog confession from any of the ladies who’s ever gotten ova on a dude. Then, when they’re handed one (per Xio)…notarized, signed, sealed, delivered….then the rebuttal is —> …”we dont believe you..ya need more people”…lol What got-danggit, which is it?! May be, I’m not following, but please clarify. What-in-deh-heyal-ya’ll-want?

Please note: Although I’m scratching my head, it’s just a question? So please, keep this here —> !!!…to a minimum. Thanks.

Black Mamba AKA Princess Xiomara

July 30th, 2009
1:59 pm

LEGGS…I saw that Lifetime movie! Girl she was crazy!

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

July 30th, 2009
2:02 pm

Leggs/Staceye – I love that movie too! I think it’s called Small Sacrifices. Farrah was my girl, she could play crazy,trailer-trash like nobodies business! RIP

Jamoca - shake it, shake it, shake it, shake it

July 30th, 2009
2:03 pm

Black Mamba AKA Princess Xiomara

July 30th, 2009
2:03 pm

SASSY…I got that blindfold..and cuffs for him… :lol:

Cemeeli

July 30th, 2009
2:03 pm

Leggs Yep, i think i remember that. Kinda…You know all that Farrah Fawcett stuff was ‘for my time. :)

Who else saw “Hawthorne”? Mosses’s mom was hilariou. She straight stole the Doctor’s artifical titanium leg. How you just steal someone’s fake leg, like it ain’t nuthin?

Sassy Me...juicy fruit says O is for Oochie ... :-)

July 30th, 2009
2:03 pm

where is vick going?

I was thinking Miami maybe… but so far at least 18 teams have said no.

mytw♥cents...Electric Relaxation

July 30th, 2009
2:05 pm

JAMOCA And for all that fighting against the call to the carpet, you get/got real resist to the idea that I’d keep mytw♥cents to myself… luckily, I’m willing to let those I give a damn about cut their eyes, suck their teeth and cuss at me under or over they hot breath :grin:

And once again how you gonna be a DJ if you won’t eva spin the records the folks be requesting! Ima let it slide… since its my gurrrl, Mary. Hmmph

Leggs

July 30th, 2009
2:07 pm

@Kimmie, yes “Small Scrafices”! “she could play crazy,trailer-trash like nobodies business! RIP” Yes indeed, yes indeed! She acted her tail off in Burning Bed!

@Cee ~ hey chica. Yes, before your time. That’s cute!

THE INFAMOUS DK

July 30th, 2009
2:07 pm

Who ever Vick goes to will be lucky because that dude is gonna be the truth. He is going to dedicate himself and have one of the greatest comeback stories ever told.

W8

July 30th, 2009
2:08 pm

@Sassy/Staceye- Stay away from my azz…..

21 Teams have said no to Vick two have expressed interest though. I think he will end up with the Vikings, Saints, Patriots, Ravens or Raiders

Sassy Me...juicy fruit says O is for Oochie ... :-)

July 30th, 2009
2:09 pm

Mamba…I’ve got a riding crop I haven’t used in a while…lol

Raqi

July 30th, 2009
2:09 pm

I am blessed that I don’t have any “I wouldn’t take that from him” friends.

Tazzee those type of friends are poison. I have one really really close friend that I even that deep with. When it is a “him” thing to offers her advice but when it’s a “me” thing she will say in a heartbeat “girl you need to cut that mess out”. True friends are priceless.

Cemeeli

July 30th, 2009
2:10 pm

Leggs – Hey love. I will wear a Farrah Flip, in a minute though. Don’t get it twisted. lol…i’m a fan of that hair.

Black Mamba AKA Princess Xiomara

July 30th, 2009
2:12 pm

SASSY…girrrrrl…I ain’t mad at ya with riding crop! :shock: :lol: Giddy up!

Black Mamba AKA Princess Xiomara

July 30th, 2009
2:13 pm

W8…come sit on mama’s lap! :wink:

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

July 30th, 2009
2:13 pm

On Vick, yeah DK I agree, the team will be lucky & he’s gonna give it all he’s got, which is alot!

W8 – You see that article in ajc today asking if the Dawgs can win a title under Richt. Whatchu think?

RelldaRake - 8inchs of limp dizzle

July 30th, 2009
2:15 pm

open relationships are cool….actually it may help lead you into a long term deal..both parties get a chance to test drive without all the expectations

DJ Demi

July 30th, 2009
2:16 pm

My love,, do you ever dream of
Candy coated raindrops?
You’re the same, my candy rain

Have you ever loved someone
So much you thought you’d die?
Giving so much of yourself
It seems the only way
Tell me what you want, and I
And I will give it to you
‘Cause you are

My love, do you ever dream of
Candy coated raindrops?
You’re the same, my candy rain

My love
Did you ever dream that it could be so right
I never thought that I would find
All that I need in life
All I want, all I need now I know
I know I found it in you
I found it in you
‘Cause you are…

Raqi

July 30th, 2009
2:17 pm

Man it’s raining outside and I just want to go back to bed. I have been at home for 8 weeks and today is the first day that I slept late and didn’t get up at 6am. I didn’t get out of bed until a little after 9 and now I want to get back in.

Cemeeli

July 30th, 2009
2:18 pm

I cain’t wait til Micheal Vick plays against thet Falcons. I bet the die hard fans will wear their Vick jerseys in full attendance! I’ll be at that game too.

Jus cause.

Black Mamba AKA Princess Xiomara

July 30th, 2009
2:18 pm

RAQI….how did you manage that feat of sleeping late? Princess is out with Daddy or Grand Auntie?

Jamoca - shake it, shake it, shake it, shake it

July 30th, 2009
2:19 pm

2Pieces – LOL. You know I switched it up for old times sake, besides I knew you’d neva reject Mury . And speaking of the carpet call, all that yappin’ was really their way of asking for a confession to go along with Luda’s —> Youza Ohhhhh! Lol Of course, they’re some who feel it AIN’T trickin’ if ya’ got it! Dunno about that…but I’ve had a family member or two tell me I was thoopid for NOT taking a man (that I was seeing) for all he had…down to not accepting mutiple dranks from folks (because I’m not a seasoned drinker like somma ya’ll)…I got the —> Gurl, we know you don’t go pass two, but that doesn’t mean we can’t! I just couldn’t do it. I’m still thinkin’…I know I’ve got a confession in the time machine, I’m still diggin’ though…so many of them. I need to write a book. Lol

Demi

July 30th, 2009
2:21 pm

Black Mamba…yousa tranny…And I be taking sneak peeks at your behind…I feel soooooo GAY…

Demi is now standing outside in the rain with tears in his eyes…Purple rain purple raiiiiiiiiiin

Jamoca - shake it, shake it, shake it, shake it

July 30th, 2009
2:23 pm

Demi – LMAO. Da heyal!… and if you play CandyRain on here one mo’ time…

Black Mamba AKA Princess Xiomara

July 30th, 2009
2:23 pm

DEMI…. :lol: I am gonna kick your a$$! OMG!

Demi

July 30th, 2009
2:24 pm

Just to upset ALL dawg fans

HELLZ NO!!!!

W8 is now coming at a Demi in full gears…with 10 of his jump crews

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

July 30th, 2009
2:25 pm

Sister Cee – Your sister will be sittin right there next to ya! Cheering him on!

Sassy Me...juicy fruit says O is for Oochie :-)

July 30th, 2009
2:25 pm

Stay away from my azz…..

Whatchu talking ’bout?…we’re not going there. Sassy now giving W8 a reassuring hug as she lays him back down….shhhh..it’s okay

Raqi

July 30th, 2009
2:25 pm

Staceye Mason doesn’t leave for work until 8 so he gave her her morning bottle. When he got ready to leave he put her in the bed with me and we both slept until she was ready to eat again.

I was talking to one of my friends about how since I have been home I have the opportunity to sleep late but my body has it’s own built in alarm. Every morning I am up at about 6. I knew by the time it was nearing my going back to work I was going to finally be adjusting to lazying around the house. Come 4 weeks from now it’s going to take a bulldozer to get me out of bed to go to work.

Sassy Me...juicy fruit says O is for Oochie :-)

July 30th, 2009
2:27 pm

I will wear a Farrah Flip, in a minute though. Don’t get it twisted. lol…i’m a fan of that hair.

I think she started that hair style. What I liked most about her was that 1000 watt smile she had.

RelldaRake - 8inchs of limp dizzle

July 30th, 2009
2:27 pm

@demi…i am jealous..you got a peek at that round brown…i wanna see…and touch it…lol

W8

July 30th, 2009
2:28 pm

@Kimmie- I think 2010 season will be our year. Tebow will be gone then also..lol

@Demi-You are silly…with your gay self looking at a tranny’s azz..you’d still hit though huh?

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

July 30th, 2009
2:29 pm

W8 – I just want us to act the fool on Florida like we did in 2007. And we do the blackout thing that day too – wear all black. That was cool! If we don’t win any other games, that’s the one I want us to win. Can’t stand the gators.

W8

July 30th, 2009
2:30 pm

@Rell- That dude Staceye got a phat azz…lmao..you coming to the party right? You will see it there

Page1908

July 30th, 2009
2:30 pm

LOL @ Staceye’s dungeon lair. Girl, I know where you stash your “toys” lol.

SexyCool - Just SexyCool, that's all - nothing else.

July 30th, 2009
2:31 pm

Speaking of trannies…um, dude/chick/dude on Making His Band last night was a beast…but was singing her/his/her behind off!!!

Demi

July 30th, 2009
2:31 pm

Jamoca…Look Ms.Tampa:

Candy Rain Candy Raiiiiiiiiiin…

I am Baad!!! I am Baad and you know!!! LOL

Mamba…Girl stop!!! I am five seconds away from pulling out my BlowPop and licking it in a way…you are guarantee to rub them lovely thighs together…LOL!! How are you today?

Page1908

July 30th, 2009
2:32 pm

Demi! LOL @ Purple Rain! *ctfu*

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

July 30th, 2009
2:32 pm

W8 – They are saying your frat brother Damon needs to fire the defensive coordinator. We need somebody that won’t choke when it gets down to the wire. Somebody that will keep it classy like Richt but go buck when needed!

Black Mamba AKA Princess Xiomara

July 30th, 2009
2:32 pm

RELL/DEMI/W8…I am going to get all of ya’ll! You know I’m iz all woman! :lol:

PAGE….Shhhh girl…don’t be telling my secrets! Quick…to the Batcave! :lol:

Cemeeli

July 30th, 2009
2:33 pm

All you wanna do is holla at the cutest broad to get up in them dr__ws. Don’t try to buy me bottles, got my own dollars. I could buy up the bar if I wanna.

Moca What if i’m in Florida tonight? :) Where can i go dancing on a Thursday night?

Page1908

July 30th, 2009
2:34 pm

LOL @ Batcave! Baby got baaaack!! lmao. All, I can say is “skull and crossbones” lmao.

THE INFAMOUS DK

July 30th, 2009
2:35 pm

Speaking of Trannies.. Ms Sophia on V1033.. Awww Mayne.. He needs to quit. I love when Ryan gets on there and calls him a dude all day. Frank acts like he a girl for real. Frank is suspect to me anyway. Doo Doo Brown says it all.

W8

July 30th, 2009
2:35 pm

@Kimmie- True we need a new DC..and how do you think I get on the sidlines every game and the locker room during halftime. Damon is the man

@SCool- That show is actually good and that tranny could sing..

@Demi- Who is your college team?

Cemeeli

July 30th, 2009
2:35 pm

Sister Cee – Your sister will be sittin right there next to ya! Cheering him on!

@ Kimmie – Girl. My country cousins had a Vick Release Party for that man. Can we say “they are ready”. lol

Demi

July 30th, 2009
2:36 pm

(@Demi-You are silly…with your gay self looking at a tranny’s azz..you’d still hit though huh?)

W8…Nope…I am already taken…you be my guess, LOL

Rell…yeah she’s a looker…but has other qualities that out shines her good looks. Under the krazy…is a gem.

Leggs

July 30th, 2009
2:37 pm

I am not a football fan, but I too believe Vick is going to come back with a vegenance and will play better ball. I’ll take a stab and say he’ll probably go to the Saints or Raiders. He has a lot to prove to those who wrote him off and the best way is to be the best! He’s going to reinvent himself to the world of football!

Black Mamba AKA Princess Xiomara

July 30th, 2009
2:37 pm

PAGE… Baby got Rack…go ahead girl…work that rack! :lol:

abc

July 30th, 2009
2:37 pm

kimmie, yes, exactly. But without motivation of wanting commitment from the other person, and that person requiring mutual commitment, it’s not likely to happen.

Demi

July 30th, 2009
2:37 pm

W8…sorry arse UM. I am a Miami boy at heart.

Demi

July 30th, 2009
2:38 pm

W8…who did I teach to do the strippa chest bounce?

Page1908

July 30th, 2009
2:39 pm

lol Staceye. Rack of ribs is the ony rack i have. lmao.

W8

July 30th, 2009
2:40 pm

@Demi- Miami used to be tight…but not anymore. And I aint trying to go nowhere near Staceye’s crazy except for the threesome she and Sassy have planned for me..I will post the vid on youtube!!!!..even if they make me scream like a b*tch

Tazzee - countdown to Pensacola Beach

July 30th, 2009
2:41 pm

Cemeeli – Vick is cool and all. I hated they did him like that. But when he steps foot in the Dome to play against my Falcons, I’m going to hope they put him on his a-double snakes like any other QB. Oh, I’ll probably wave to him as he goes in and out of that tunnel…but when the whistle blows it’s on.

For Real

July 30th, 2009
2:41 pm

What up Blog Fam!

I haven’t read any of the comments but since the topic is sooooo me let me respond.

1. No such thing as a “non-relationship” that’s any oxymoron. Chicks need to stop creating illrational saying and then trying to live by them but that’s another jam in my toe. Oh and if chicks stop over estimating their value to a dude it would save yall a diaper full. Oh, back to my point; If I tell you upfront I don’t want nor will I…. and you sign on then wha-la relationship and whenever you need reminding I will tell you again and iffin after that you still need reminding, I will show you by leaving you alone. Relationship: An understanding between two people.

2. How do you date me? – Easy, be accountable, be rational, control your emotions and truly, truly like yourself and have some 70’s breastestesess, and nice ankle to calf ratio, and nice lips, and some soothing eyes, and like sex, and some quite sometimes.

3. Not sure this came up but I’m sure it did – For ME, not wanting to be married has nothing to do with fear. Once you experience marriage and know what it’s about you discover you can get the same thing without the certificate. Oh and samething include commitment as well not just sex (unless you gon do it)

4.

W8

July 30th, 2009
2:41 pm

Demi we are NOT supposed to talk about us and the ladies going to a stripclub after the comedy show on the blog..OKAY DONT SAY NUTHINN TO NOOOOOOOOOOBODY!! IT’S A SECRET!!!!

mytw♥cents...Electric Relaxation

July 30th, 2009
2:42 pm

I’m being Suzie Sunshine over here. But some of this stuff is too easy.

DEMI I thought it was just me, but I’m sick of that tune too. That chick must got you on a sugar high. Selector, come down!

SEXYCOOL I like how he funked it up, but the looks gotta be toned down a titch cuz it’s so draggy. At least make it a lil softer. And uhm don’t know why Diddy actin like he couldn’t tell.

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

July 30th, 2009
2:43 pm

W8 – Okay, you know you gonna have to help a sister out? It does not have to be a major game, I just want Ginseng & the 2 teacups to experience Sanford Stadium with me just one time! Whatever I gotta pay, name your price! I’ll start socking away some money. I’m serious!

Page1908

July 30th, 2009
2:44 pm

LOL W8 and Demi! I’m still crackin up at how Demi had his chair turned around in front of Pat Brown! Lmaooo.

Black Mamba AKA Princess Xiomara

July 30th, 2009
2:44 pm

DEMI & W8…now see…why I gotta be crazy…huh? :lol: Have I be nothing but sane each time we meet? :lol:

Cemeeli

July 30th, 2009
2:44 pm

@ Tazzee – Have you forgotten how many die hard Atlanta Falcons fans turned die hard – “I love Vick” fans when that man was on the team?

You see how many folks still wear his jersey, right? And, he’s going to do a lil something for Matt Ryan when he play against him. FOR REAL sis.

I ain’t trippin’, i’m just sayin’. :)

Jamoca - shake it, shake it, shake it, shake it

July 30th, 2009
2:44 pm

Jamoca now ducktapes Demi by the back of his neck, facefirst into trannya$$

Cee – Uh, hey chick…if you don’t quit playin’ with my emotions. Yeen’ in my area. Girl Stop! But whenever you do…

Page1908

July 30th, 2009
2:46 pm

LOL Mamba. Yeah if you are sane every time, then those mosquitos didn’t attack me at the pool! lmao.

W8

July 30th, 2009
2:47 pm

@Kimmie- I cant get the whole crew on the sideline just one of yall and the kids in the locker room is a big no no. But I can get you in the pre-game meal..the ride over to Sanford with the players and all of yall can do the dog walk into the field prior to kick off..Just get me my damn pie and we got a deal..lol

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

July 30th, 2009
2:47 pm

Sister Cee – I got chills over here thinking about a game against Vick! Almost as bad as I can taste the Dawgs beating FLA down!LOL!!

NotSexyCool - I'm not saying I was there. I'm just saying.

July 30th, 2009
2:48 pm

Er, um. What happened to Vegas Rules?

Black Mamba AKA Princess Xiomara

July 30th, 2009
2:49 pm

PAGE…what you trying to say? :lol: You must be crazy too because you hang with me…now who is REALLY crazy? HMMMM?

Cemeeli

July 30th, 2009
2:50 pm

@ Tazzee – My last post about Vick. That’ll be me callin out that crap” you said in your 2/41.

I’m going to hope they put him on his a-double snakes like any other QB.

To be exact.

RelldaRake - 8inchs of limp dizzle

July 30th, 2009
2:50 pm

@demi, i am sure she is coo….i just want to get close enought to squeeze the sharmin…lol…been trying to get a look for some years…but she is a slippery one….

Page1908

July 30th, 2009
2:51 pm

LOL Mamba! Oh yeah I do hang with you. *ok, I take it back* lmao. SIKE!

LOL SCool.

W8

July 30th, 2009
2:51 pm

@Page- You are a whole other level of crazy..I’m not calling you crazy..but then again I am..you’d cause Dr. Phil to kill himself…just saying…love ya though!!! lol

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

July 30th, 2009
2:52 pm

W8 – When you say on the sidelines, do you mean that literally or do you mean tickets to the game? The game, the ride – all that would be incredible!!! Heck, you can have 4 or 5 pies!!!

Jamoca - shake it, shake it, shake it, shake it

July 30th, 2009
2:52 pm

Ohhh-kaaayyyy!!! I got it! I got a confession!…

Demi

July 30th, 2009
2:53 pm

W8…My baaaad…it was on the 11 0′clock news, LOL

Page…I love how Pat pause a bit when she realize had a fine chocolate brother in front of her, LOL…

Demi is short right…her “print” was right in my line of sight

Staceye…you were? Demi is now looking for knife marks

RelldaRake - 8inchs of limp dizzle

July 30th, 2009
2:53 pm

lol@vegas rules…

W8

July 30th, 2009
2:54 pm

I have tickets to the booth and the actual sideline on the field out there during warmup the game and everything..

Page1908

July 30th, 2009
2:54 pm

LOL *mean muggin @ W8*! who me?

mytw♥cents...Electric Relaxation

July 30th, 2009
2:54 pm

I wonder what goes through mens minds right before they cop a free feel off women they don’t or just barely know. My guess is “Two tears in a bucket, fuhhh it….” It’s like they convince themselves it’s really gonna be worth the curse out or slap.

(Not that I think Rell is really gonna make a grab for your azz Stace, but not that I don’t think he might, either hahahaaaa)

W8

July 30th, 2009
2:55 pm

@Kimmie- It’s more of a sideline pass/locker room pass and tickets to the booth

Page1908

July 30th, 2009
2:55 pm

LOL @ Demi. I saw her scoping the “Chocolate Baby” out. lmao.

Demi

July 30th, 2009
2:55 pm

Ohhh-kaaayyyy!!! I got it! I got a confession!…

Jamocha it is too late for to to confess your love for Demi!!

My .02…I don’t know when love will pass my way again…so I am going to milk the cow for all it’s worth, LOL…within logic of course

For Real

July 30th, 2009
2:56 pm

“Ohhh-kaaayyyy!!! I got it! I got a confession!…” – ZIPPPPPPPPPPPPP!!!!

Tazzee - countdown to Pensacola Beach

July 30th, 2009
2:58 pm

Cemeeli – I’m not doubting that there will be Vick fans in the Dome. But as much as I loved Warrick Dunn – when he walked on the field in that Bucs uniform I was screaming for them to take him down. The same will be true for Vick, probably even more because I didn’t like him as a QB that much anyway. But when he was MY QB, couldn’t nobody talk bad about him.

I hope he does well in the league and proves all the haters wrong. But when he steps foot in the Dome – all that well wishing is over from me.

W8

July 30th, 2009
2:58 pm

@ForReal- lol@Zipppppp

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

July 30th, 2009
2:58 pm

W8 – I’ll take anything, I get excited just thinking about it all!! Those kids are gonna freak out!! They were wearing their Bulldog t-shirt just this past Sunday!

RelldaRake - 8inchs of limp dizzle

July 30th, 2009
2:59 pm

@2c…dont worry i will squeeze you too..prolly pick you up..thats my thing i hug and lift you off your feet…but would i cop a feel on staceye…negative…just a jokey joke…girl wonder knows me and my pursuit of happiness..she just not going to give it to me….but you i see you have a special brand of attention for me….so if you want you can email me dwilliams2022@hotmail.com..you always seem like you have alot to say

W8

July 30th, 2009
2:59 pm

I hope Vick doesnt play in our division

Demi

July 30th, 2009
3:00 pm

Page…even more important…I look on y’all faces throughout the night was priceless…I pull out some serious charms to get our beautiful hostess to give us the best seat, LOL

Page1908

July 30th, 2009
3:00 pm

For Real! LMAOOOOOOO @ zipppppppp. Omg not again, please!

Cemeeli

July 30th, 2009
3:01 pm

Enter your comments here

mytw♥cents...Electric Relaxation

July 30th, 2009
3:01 pm

DEMIGOD Love & Logic? That’s a novel idea. And please stop with the graphics about her milkin the… oh my bad, I misread that. <— SASSAFRASS, can you tell I’m doin a soul clap over here ;)

IV REAL musta used your ESP to address my earlier commentary. Now put that thang away. Pusha Gal claim she ain’t tryin no eel, no matter how much of a delicacy it is. At least that what she had told me yesterday.

Page1908

July 30th, 2009
3:02 pm

LOL Demi and we appreciated it very much.

Demi

July 30th, 2009
3:02 pm

For Real….HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!! Mayne…don’t get wang caught in the zipper…think: ‘There’s something about Mary’…LOL

Cemeeli

July 30th, 2009
3:03 pm

@ Tazzee- I will always be a Dunn fan. Even when he played us coming with a Buccs uniform on.

Now we are not going to fight this year ’bout Dunn cause you can have him. I got my own tag football teammate. :wink:

Mo (aka Moeisha-)

July 30th, 2009
3:03 pm

okay so what are we talking about?? :smile:

Demi – behave ya’self! LOL! You know I got my eye on you and since we are both short you are easy to spot! HEY CHOCOLATE BABY!!

For Real – I need you to put the dolphin away! LOL!

Whaddup Err’body! And I cant wait to see Vick play but dayum I hope its not in black & gold

For Real

July 30th, 2009
3:03 pm

“I’ll take anything, I get excited just thinking about it all!!” – ZIPPPPPPPPPP!!!!!

Black Mamba AKA Princess Xiomara

July 30th, 2009
3:03 pm

RELL….you so nasty! :lol: Maybe if you play nice…I’ll let you cop a feel! :lol:

DEMI….I’m still going to get you…stop trying to lay your head on my azz! :lol:

Demi

July 30th, 2009
3:03 pm

Y’all are welcome!!!

Sassy Me...juicy fruit says O is for Oochie :-)

July 30th, 2009
3:03 pm

8inchs of limp dizzle

Sooooo not a good look :???: :mrgreen: :lol:

(Not that I think Rell is really gonna make a grab for your azz Stace, but not that I don’t think he might, either hahahaaaa)

Well alrighty then…….

Cemeeli

July 30th, 2009
3:05 pm

@ Moca – Will you tell me where to go to dance. just do…i cain’t be telling what’s up right now.

Page1908

July 30th, 2009
3:05 pm

LOL Mo. Luckily we were in the front because if we weren’t I don’t think you and Demi would have been able to see the show lol. Oh and ole dude with the black cap on, too. lmao

Sassy Me...juicy fruit says O is for Oochie :-)

July 30th, 2009
3:06 pm

Maybe if you play nice…I’ll let you cop a feel!

Mamba make sure he gives you some candy first….then let him cop a feel ;) …..or at least that’s how it used to be…lol

RelldaRake - 8inchs of limp dizzle

July 30th, 2009
3:06 pm

@sassy….whats wrong with 8inchs of limp dy ck….lol….all you have to do is open your mouth and hummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm…dont matter just dont bite it…..lol

Cemeeli

July 30th, 2009
3:06 pm

@ Mo – Got that popcorn?

gametime.

Black Mamba AKA Princess Xiomara

July 30th, 2009
3:06 pm

MO…stop trying to act all innocent…you were there too! :lol:

PAGE…do you remember at your crib you asked W8 if he had a mic… :lol: then For Rea said…Zziiiiiiiip!

THE INFAMOUS DK

July 30th, 2009
3:07 pm

It would be a travesty if the Boy Vick went to the Saints and came back to kill the Falcons. That rivalry runs deep.

Demi

July 30th, 2009
3:07 pm

Mo…LOL, I am just I can kiss you on the forehead…Page’n'Staceye…Look Ma, my own standing pillows

(demi is going to pay for that!!)

Black Mamba AKA Princess Xiomara

July 30th, 2009
3:08 pm

SASSY…you right….I can’t be cheap….the ground round grabs aren’t free. Rell, I will need candy first! :lol:

Cemeeli

July 30th, 2009
3:08 pm

Moca – Do ya’ll have a Royal Peacock?

Page1908

July 30th, 2009
3:08 pm

LMAO STACEYE OMG! I remember that! Everybody was lookin at me like WTF! I shoulda known with those fools For Real and W8 that it meant something else. lmao. *pervs*!

Sassy Me...juicy fruit says O is for Oochie :-)

July 30th, 2009
3:08 pm

I know Rell…..put in you moouuuuth….in your mother effin mooouuuuuuth….I’ve had to tell one or two that myself…it’s magic I tell ya!

For Real

July 30th, 2009
3:08 pm

“Not that I think Rell is really gonna make a grab for your azz Stace, but not that I don’t think he might, either hahahaaaa)” – 2E’s booty is soooo big she didn’t know about the people place their drinks on that portion of her booty that was sticking out the back of the chair.

Black Mamba AKA Princess Xiomara

July 30th, 2009
3:09 pm

DEMI…wait until I see you boy! :lol:

mytw♥cents...Electric Relaxation

July 30th, 2009
3:09 pm

RELL Uhm that’s probably not what’s gonna happen. Your comment just made me ponder, like the comments of so many others. And FYI, I listen at least as much as I talk, which is how I arrive at so many worthwhile things to say.

I thought it was already clear – especially after stating it – I am being Ms. Suzie Sunshine over here!

Jamoca - shake it, shake it, shake it, shake it

July 30th, 2009
3:10 pm

Demi – Oh, sit ya’ shawt self on down somwhere! Don’t nobody lubb your little OoompaLoompa self! …well besides Lil Miss Demi of course. And she’s got you wrapped around her pinky finger. That chick dun’ pulled a Jackie-O on the YingYangTwins on you! Too cute! LOL

Actually I had three confessions:

I would eat the grapes while in the grocery store shopping, before purchasing…of course after rinsing them off with my bottled water. Lol

I’ve allowed someone to fill my tank in my car, just because they asked.

….aaaaannnnd….When I was about 19/20 yrs old…
iveperformedonstageduringamateurnightataclubforagrandprizeof1,000andwon! It was fun too! Whew!…and the truth shall set me free!

Sassy Me...juicy fruit says O is for Oochie :-)

July 30th, 2009
3:11 pm

It would be a travesty if the Boy Vick went to the Saints and came back to kill the Falcons. That rivalry runs deep.

For real DK and I would be right there wearing my “Ron Mexico” jersey cheering for Michael.

Page1908

July 30th, 2009
3:11 pm

Rell, just give Mamba some Pixi Stix and a candy necklace! lol

Black Mamba AKA Princess Xiomara

July 30th, 2009
3:12 pm

FOR REAL….OMG…I am SO gonna get you! :lol: Leave my booty alone…it has done nothing to you!

RelldaRake - 8inchs of limp dizzle

July 30th, 2009
3:14 pm

you asked W8 if he had a mic

-wow only the cool kids

@sassy….one love and respect your real

@2c…yea right…rolling eyes…these attention grabbing chicks kill me

@4real…actually its not the body i wanna see…i wanna see that sex appeal she try to hide..that lil persona of hers…that vixen if you will…thats what i want to experience…her booty may stink…lol

For Real

July 30th, 2009
3:15 pm

“I would eat the grapes” – a.k.a ZIPPPPPPPPPPP!

“after rinsing them off with my bottled water” – a.k.a That cool refreshing drink – a.k.a ZIPPPPPPPPPPPPP!!!!

“I’ve allowed someone to fill my tank” – a.k.a ZIPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPP!!!!!

Grace

July 30th, 2009
3:15 pm

Hi Everybody!

One or both of you are saying and doing just enough to keep the person around and interested. Perhaps you are waiting for someone better to come along, just in case. These don’t end well, usually. Both individuals deserve better than to be in a non-relationship, wasting time and energy. – I was in that very same thing a year ago. Dude told me that we we’re not in an exclusive relationship but we were monogamous, what kind of mess was that?? A non exclusive monogamous relationship?? That was my clue to get out and place myself back on the dating market, atleast mentally I did, emotionally I was a wreck. I saw the writings on the wall but choose to stay thinking things would change for the better, I was too lazy and stubborn to move on. I couldn’t handle that kind of arrangement then and I can’t now. It’s so easy for dating to take the turn of being open ended if you’re not careful by becoming laxed with the way things are going by keeping the peek of interest and creating a pattern.

Mo (aka Moeisha-)

July 30th, 2009
3:16 pm

Page1908 – that old dude in that black cap was trying his hardest to make eye contact!!

Hey Staceye!!!

Cemeeli – girl I been on popcorn all day, ask Demi (he tried to steal some popcorn from me)

Sassy/DK – like I said, please dont let Mike be wearing Black & Gold, my heart cant take it

For Real – you are stoopid!! LOL!

mytw♥cents...Electric Relaxation

July 30th, 2009
3:19 pm

PAGE You say candy necklace…W8 will think of Pearl Necklace…the cycle continues. Or is that your evil plan? :evil: lol

Fellas,watch out. I think PAGE 1908 is the chick with allllaaa da game on here. She tosses those seemingly innocent phrases and bats those long lashes. Do ya thang, thang!

SASSAFRASS How long you been here? My brother scarred me for life by playin that when I was young n innocent. (Well I still am) They used to play that darn Akinyele erry week at the Club Jaguar. That’s back when it existed and we partied from Wed-Sun.

Jamoca - shake it, shake it, shake it, shake it

July 30th, 2009
3:20 pm

BahahhahahahahaaaaaHAAAAA!!! Oh, Shaaaddduuuppp ForReal!!!

Besides, me don’t likey the anteaters!…sumthin’ tells me you aren’t circumcised either if the AA is shaped like a dolphin. Now if PushaMayne got that Ballwood???…I’oun know. First thing first…INSPECTION!!!

Page1908

July 30th, 2009
3:21 pm

LOL @ 2 Cents. Who me?! *winking eyelashes*

W8

July 30th, 2009
3:21 pm

LOL@Old dude in the black cap “huh huh huh huh”(thats his laugh)

Demi

July 30th, 2009
3:21 pm

Mamba/Jamco/.02/Page/Mo…crap, you know that woman just called and ask if I was behaving!!!!

I was just hitting my stride too!!! I am calling foul on the play!!!

Demi is now mean mugg all the blog ladies…you too Mamba LOL

Cemeeli

July 30th, 2009
3:22 pm

@ Mo – We need to meet me at the spot. I’m talking about Eastside.

I’ll be there this and next weekend.

NotSexyCool - I'm not saying I was there. I'm just saying.

July 30th, 2009
3:22 pm

Those really were the best seats in the house. And it was my first time ever making it rain. (Okay, drizzle, but y’all know what I’m talking about.)

Except I’m not admitting to actually being there.

Cemeeli

July 30th, 2009
3:22 pm

MOCA!!! I’m so serus, sis.

NotSexyCool - I'm not saying I was there. I'm just saying.

July 30th, 2009
3:23 pm

For Real – Big on the top. Little on the bottom.

Sassy Me...juicy fruit says O is for Oochie :-)

July 30th, 2009
3:23 pm

SASSAFRASS How long you been here?

Mytwo I was wondering if anyone caught that….I’ve been here since 1991 and been loving it ever since.

Page1908

July 30th, 2009
3:23 pm

LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO OMG W8- YOU ARE SO FIRED FOR YOUR 3:21 COMMENT! LOL OLE DUDE. OMG. LOL *now fainting*

Jamoca - shake it, shake it, shake it, shake it

July 30th, 2009
3:23 pm

that when I was young n innocent. (Well I still am)

Lmao! Chick, I can’t wait to bust Lil Trini’s bubble when she finds out the truth.

Tazzee - countdown to Pensacola Beach

July 30th, 2009
3:24 pm

Speaking of the Falcons – I just ordered my Falcons license plate :)

Page1908

July 30th, 2009
3:24 pm

LOL SexyCool made it rain. lmao @ drizzle. Opps, you were not there, I forgot!

W8

July 30th, 2009
3:24 pm

JAM did you just speculate if For Real was circumcised..that has funniest thing I have read on the blog..lmao

@Rell- we were discussing music and DeeJay equipment for the party and Page goes “W8 do you have a mic”(I just put my head down..then after a moment of silence For Real goes”ZIPPPPPPPPP!!” lol

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

July 30th, 2009
3:25 pm

NotSCool – Okay Miss “I didn’t inhale”!!!!lol

Page1908

July 30th, 2009
3:25 pm

LOL Demi- Awwwwww she is making sure her Chocolate Baby is in check!

Leggs

July 30th, 2009
3:25 pm

@Infamous, I know and that’s why I picked the Saints. Payback hurts like hell!

W8

July 30th, 2009
3:26 pm

@SCool- LOL@Drizzle

Sassy Me...juicy fruit says O is for Oochie :-)

July 30th, 2009
3:26 pm

I was just hitting my stride too!!! I am calling foul on the play!!!….Demi is now mean mugg all the blog ladies…

Come now Demi…you know she had one of those women’s intuitive moments and was like “lemme call this fool and see if he doin’ right”….and snatched her phone up to call you. :)

Page1908

July 30th, 2009
3:26 pm

W8- Yeah, DUH cuz someone said we should have karaoke and that’s when I asked you if you had a mic. lmao.

Cemeeli

July 30th, 2009
3:27 pm

mqew’s spot Girl, the next time i’m looking at a sign off Lithonia Industrial and there’s a special, tell me before i venture off to something else.

Poppa Grande

July 30th, 2009
3:28 pm

DK

It would be a travesty if the Boy Vick went to the Saints and came back to kill the Falcons. That rivalry runs deep.

Vick to New Orleans doesn’t make sense to me. Why create a QB controversy where there isn’t? Drew Brees has a total command of that offense. It is the Saints defense that has been letting NO down. Brees and Co. score 40 points but the defense gives up 41.

The only in division team that makes sense would be Tampa. Garcia is gone. Josh Freeman (the Bucs first pick in the draft) doesn’t look ready. I just don’t know.

I also think that Chicago is a possibility (even though it may be a QB controversy too) Lovie and Dungy are friends. The NFL is more about relationships than anything else. Who do you know. Dungy has been assigned to be Vick’s mentor and that is where the Lovie Smith/Tony Dungy relationship comes into play. (Tony has a relationship with Tampa as well.)

One more thing….Tazzee reads like a real fan for her team.

In team sports, the name on the front should matter more than the name on the back.

That is reason #4080 that I like college football over the pros. Tazzee supports her team first and foremost and that is how it should be.

Raqi

July 30th, 2009
3:29 pm

One day that thing is going to get caught in that zipper.

Jamoca - shake it, shake it, shake it, shake it

July 30th, 2009
3:29 pm

Cee – I’mma quote Rell and say : Sis, don’t believe you (yet)…ya need more people. And it depends, what kind of dancing you talking about. Now don’t get me wrong, no one’s trying to get you to go buckwild, but two-steppin will get you put on blast or put out. But I don’t doubt you’re the two steppin’ kinda chick. Shoot, I never know…messin’ with you, we may just shut the place down.LOL

I’ll hit you up if ya serrus’. Don’t play.

Black Mamba AKA Princess Xiomara

July 30th, 2009
3:29 pm

PAGE…stop lying…you know were NOT talking about that type of mic. :lol: Remember….”I love…… :lol:

NotSexyCool - I'm not saying I was there. I'm just saying.

July 30th, 2009
3:29 pm

Kimmie – sssshhhhh!!!!!

Mo (aka Moeisha-)

July 30th, 2009
3:30 pm

Demi – LOL! She is checking on her Chocolate Baby! Ya’ll so in WUV!!

W8 – That dude looked like a chester, had me feeling all violated!

NotSexyCool – LMAO!! Drizzle!!

Cemeeli – gotcha chica!

Page1908 – if dude had made eye contact he was swooping in!!

Page1908

July 30th, 2009
3:31 pm

*mean muggin at Mamba* lmao. I *heart* ………. no comment. U know i didn’t say that. That is sooo not totally rad!

W8

July 30th, 2009
3:32 pm

@Kimmie- Where you been? LMAO..thats what you get for missing curfew…lmao

Sassy Me...juicy fruit says O is for Oochie :-)

July 30th, 2009
3:34 pm

JAM did you just speculate if For Real was circumcised

Oh my :shock:

Black Mamba AKA Princess Xiomara

July 30th, 2009
3:34 pm

W8…you know by calling Kimmie out…you will never get your sweet potato pie now! :lol:

Page1908

July 30th, 2009
3:35 pm

LOL Mo- I saw ole dude and he was exactly how W8 described him lmao.

Tazzee - countdown to Pensacola Beach

July 30th, 2009
3:35 pm

One day that thing is going to get caught in that zipper. :lol:

PoppaG – I agree that the Tampa Bay is the only NFC South team where I see Vick fitting. I really don’t want him in our division either. I’m glad Dungy is working with him – which reminds me I need to catch up on his blog.

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

July 30th, 2009
3:35 pm

W8 – Lol!!!!

Cemeeli

July 30th, 2009
3:36 pm

Dungy has been assigned to be Vick’s mentor.

PoppaG I didn’t know that. I read Dung’s book.

You calling it to the carpet too? Lol

And Tazzee has many time shown her love for our Falcons. But that does not excuse the skill of one QB vs another. That was the debate, not the “die hard” fan issue.

What color is the Vick jersey now? Red & Black w/ Falcon’s written on it.

I’m still jus’ sayin’. …as i sip on my green tea.

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

July 30th, 2009
3:36 pm

Staceye – Naw, he’ll get his pie. He’s holding me hostage, dangling Bulldogs over my head!LOL!!!

Cemeeli

July 30th, 2009
3:37 pm

@ Moca – Okay.

Mo (aka Moeisha-)

July 30th, 2009
3:37 pm

Page1908 – that dude was straring HARD! Like I said, I felt violated!! LOL! But the great ’spirits’ made up for that….. :smile:

W8

July 30th, 2009
3:37 pm

@SheDevil-Kimmie promised me a pie…mmmhmmmmm

NotSexyCool - I'm not saying I was there. I'm just saying.

July 30th, 2009
3:37 pm

If I had been there, I didn’t see dude.

See – that’s why I don’t go over my two drink maximum.

Sassy Me...juicy fruit says O is for Oochie :-)

July 30th, 2009
3:39 pm

Alright y’all I’m out….I feel a wild hair growin’….

Jamoca - shake it, shake it, shake it, shake it

July 30th, 2009
3:39 pm

One day that thing is going to get caught in that zipper

LOL. I just thought of something. I’ve contributed to that very incident happening to someone in the past. It was hilarious. He had a little scratch on it and everything. I couldn’t touch it for a week…and neither could he! LMAO. And boy did he let me have it for not only lost time, but for being the “main source” behind his discomfort.

W8 – I’m sayin’ though. If it’s being named after a dolphin, then I’m assuming it probably gets narrow at the tip (resembling well….a dolphin). Uh-uh!!! I’oun want it. Isn’t there excess skin surrounding the head? Man, you can hurt a gal with that thing alot worse than it being built like DonkeyKong! LMAO

Melooooo??? Where’s our residential ZuluWarriorKing? Where he?

W8

July 30th, 2009
3:39 pm

@Kimmie- so now I have a bargining tool huh? lol

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

July 30th, 2009
3:40 pm

Sister Cee – Yeah, I’m die-hard too, I’m down for all GA pro teams at all costs. Now college is a different story, at least when Tech comes to mind. I don’t root for them ever under any circumstances. Unless they were somehow playing FLA, then I’d have to relent!

Page1908

July 30th, 2009
3:40 pm

LOL Mo- I think ole dude knew Staceye or something lol.

Sexy- LOL, girl, “if” you were there you would not have noticed ole dude, but I am sure he noticed you…”if” you were there lol.

Mo (aka Moeisha-)

July 30th, 2009
3:40 pm

SCool – 2 drink maximum, LMAO!! And he was no looker so you didnt miss anything

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

July 30th, 2009
3:41 pm

W8 – Yeah, you got me!

W8

July 30th, 2009
3:41 pm

@SCool- you were so drunk..you kept saying “i’m cool..I’m cool” all night

Now me I was sober and no I didnt make someone turn around and not come in the show..shut it up Staceye

NotSexyCool - I'm not saying I was there. I'm just saying.

July 30th, 2009
3:42 pm

Mo – I was about four in that night. Or so it is alleged.

Page1908

July 30th, 2009
3:42 pm

LOL @ 2 drank maximum. Mo, yeah that’s why you and “you know who” was like “dang Page, how long u gonna babysit that drank”? I was like “huh”? lmao. i was already full from the cheese dip lol.

Raqi

July 30th, 2009
3:43 pm

Dungy has been assigned to be Vick’s mentor.

Football. Right now I feel the exact same way I feel when the marido is rambling on about football. I only have one statement. Or rather, question.

“Oh yeah, is that a good thing?”

For Real

July 30th, 2009
3:43 pm

Pusha Gurl: Remember Dolphins are aerodynamic for speed and deep diving.

Scool: Lol….

Raqi: “One day that thing is going to get caught in that zipper.” – Not today… put the baby down first….. ZIPPPPPPPPPPPPP!!!

Tazzee: I’m with on the Vick thang cause I been down with the bird 4life.

“He’s holding me hostage, dangling over my head!” – SLOW ZIPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPP!!!!

NotSexyCool - I'm not saying I was there. I'm just saying.

July 30th, 2009
3:43 pm

Okay. Now I KNOW I wasn’t there.

I don’t get drunk.

Page1908

July 30th, 2009
3:43 pm

LOL W8. I kept telling Staceye “girl, look at SexyCool…ole girl is totally gone!” lmao

Poppa Grande

July 30th, 2009
3:43 pm

Cee

NFL Commish Roger Goodell assigned Dungy to Vick as a condition to Vick’s transition back to the NFL.

Rooting for a player against “your” team is suspect, period. In this age of free agency, a team is more likely to stick the the fans than any player.

For example, I am a Raiders fan. I know that we stink like hot maggot infested summertime garbage right now, and will continue to stink until the Crypt Keeper (Owner Al Davis) backs away from the team or dies (whichever comes first). However, I root for them first, but root for any former Raider players second.

Black Mamba AKA Princess Xiomara

July 30th, 2009
3:44 pm

PAGE…that man was oggling your huge hooters! :lol:

Jamoca - shake it, shake it, shake it, shake it

July 30th, 2009
3:44 pm

Cee – Sis, I gotchu’ sis! :) …watch dis’ ma…watch dis..

and for some reason…now I’m in the mood to watch The Notebook….(sigh) beautiful story.

Demi – Like I continue to say to you….don’t you eff this one up! Or you will be hearing from me personally. I mean that!

Tazzee - countdown to Pensacola Beach

July 30th, 2009
3:44 pm

Cemeeli – as far as pure QB skill, Ryan wins. Vick is definitely the better athlete and while some say he was regressing when he got sent up, I think his last season with the Falcons was one of his better ones ‘QB’ wise. IF Vick steps foot in the Dome, he won’t have anything for Ryan – he’ll have something for the Falcons defense. Until we get a solid secondary, I think he can do a little damage. But in the grand scheme of things, I don’t expect him to blow up the league – at least not this year.

If he can combine that athleticism with truly being a student of the QB position, he’ll do some great things. He still has that height disadvantage.

I said all that to say – Ryan is the better QB but that doesn’t mean that Vick can’t be in the future.

Demi

July 30th, 2009
3:44 pm

(Page1908 – that old dude in that black cap was trying his hardest to make eye contact!!)

I thought old dude was having a seizer…eyes poppin out of his head, LOL!!

Sassy/Page…Still ain’t right…now sucking thumb like a two year old, who can’t have his way

Raqi

July 30th, 2009
3:46 pm

LOL Jamoca. You broke his weewee.

Cemeeli

July 30th, 2009
3:46 pm

Now college is a different story, at least when Tech comes to mind. I don’t root for them ever under any circumstances. Unless they were somehow playing FLA, then I’d have to relent!

@ Kimmie – I know…i know….lol…YOu and my cousins would be a blast to watch go head to head GA vs GaTech on a Saturday game. She has a red-eye to Gators too!

Lol…funny.

Black Mamba AKA Princess Xiomara

July 30th, 2009
3:47 pm

I thought W8 was gonna catch a case…boy I will not sell a kidney to get you out of jail! :lol:

And SEXYCOOL was not drunk…she was “tipsy”…riiiiigggght! :wink:

NotSexyCool - I'm not saying I was there. I'm just saying.

July 30th, 2009
3:47 pm

Boy, if you could put Staceye’s behind and Page’s chest on one person….that would be ummmmm….

What would that be?

Page1908

July 30th, 2009
3:47 pm

lol @ hooterz. shuttup

lol Demi.

Demi

July 30th, 2009
3:47 pm

Jamoca…yes ma’am

Poppa Grande

July 30th, 2009
3:47 pm

Raqi

“Oh yeah, is that a good thing?”

i believe that it is a great thing for Vick. Vick doesn’t seem like a bad guy to me. He was young and dumb and had a pocketful of money. Those are the key ingredients for serious mischief.

Getting outside your circle of friends isn’t always a bad idea. Dungy has a bigger circle of friends and more resources that can help Vick not only as a football player, but rebuild his life outside of football.

Page1908

July 30th, 2009
3:48 pm

lol Sexy at 3:47. Haha Jajaaaaaaa omg. i.caint.breafe.

NotSexyCool - I'm not saying I was there. I'm just saying.

July 30th, 2009
3:48 pm

Yes, Stace IF I would have been there, I would have been approaching tipsy.

Sassy Me...juicy fruit says O is for Oochie :-)

July 30th, 2009
3:48 pm

You broke his weewee.

LMMAO!!!!!!!!!

NotSexyCool - I'm not saying I was there. I'm just saying.

July 30th, 2009
3:49 pm

Page – Get your inhaler.

W8

July 30th, 2009
3:49 pm

LMAO@put the baby down..zipppppppppppppppppppp

@Taz-I agree

I Hate Tech the Gators and any other collegiate team that wears orange

Cemeeli

July 30th, 2009
3:49 pm

@ Moca – Before i dozed off too lala land lastnight. The lil G and i put a dance move together. He still rubbin his head doing the stanky leg. You should see his old spirit dance moves.

Soo we were doing the “mortorcycle” and I got it shawty. Trust, if we do it for the “block party” promotion I’m only doing it at the Westside party, not on the East…The Shop is all for it but i know them folks ready to challenge us.

Too funny.

Poppa Grande

July 30th, 2009
3:50 pm

Raqi

One more thing….You better be prepared for more football talk. Football season is basically here. Preseason practices are starting all over the NFL. I think that the Falcons have a game on August 14 (or somewhere around there).

So, I will truly begin in earnest.

Plus, I think that Tazzee gets NFL Network back on Saturday.

Cemeeli

July 30th, 2009
3:50 pm

Shawty by Nature a.k.a. Mo You read the blk prty post right?

Jamoca - shake it, shake it, shake it, shake it

July 30th, 2009
3:51 pm

LOL Jamoca. You broke his weewee.

LMAO. I didn’t mean to, Raqi…well….anxiety will do that do you, if it’s worth the fuss. But that was him. Totally self inflicted. Told him to take his time, cuz “it” wuddn’t going anywhere. Lol…But nooooo, “He Ready”!!! So because I was the target, the reason for his rising blood pressha, it was all my fault. Women…nothin’ but trouble, we are. But also, thanks to me, I revived it!…well, once it healed properly. Hahahaaa

Sassy Me...juicy fruit says O is for Oochie :-)

July 30th, 2009
3:51 pm

…now sucking thumb like a two year old, who can’t have his way

I know Demi…I know. It’s a necessary evil that has to be done…..

Raqi

July 30th, 2009
3:52 pm

Poppa I don’t know much about football, but Mike Vick’s entire situation is a great life lesson.

He had it in the pocket. To put something so much more valuable on the line for something so useless and lose it all. Man I tell you.

Just think about all of life situations that is covered by that.

W8

July 30th, 2009
3:52 pm

@SCool- Pages Chest and Staceye’s butt on one woman be a hot azz mess…but amazingly that woman would still have no hips…LMAO Staceye got all that azz without an inch of hips…Kimmie can we borrow your hips please…LMAO

Asthmatics are no fun…lol

For Real

July 30th, 2009
3:53 pm

Tazzee: Okay I have to disagree with you on Ryan being better than Vick. People tend to forget Roddy and Jenkins were playing with two right hands when Vick was the qb. Come on now you know on alot of Ryan’s passess last you were like WTF he caught that??? And to this day, Vick is the only qb I have seen sacked on a 3 step drop. And don’t get me started on the coaches and play calling. How you gon call 2 str8 bootlegs and he runs 50 yards and then call a passing play expecting him to be accurate????

Raqi: Pusha Gurl a.k.a Weewee Breaker

W8

July 30th, 2009
3:53 pm

LMAO@ SHAWTY BY NATURE!!!!!!!!!!!!

Demi

July 30th, 2009
3:54 pm

What would that be?

and your chocolate look…A Hellafine Sista Fine-fine!!!

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

July 30th, 2009
3:54 pm

Raqi – As Poppa said, thats a VERY good thing – Dungy & Vick! Dungy is an outstanding individual.

Black Mamba AKA Princess Xiomara

July 30th, 2009
3:54 pm

Wee wee breaker…. :lol:

W8…I do have an inch of hips….just an inch..thank you!

Jamoca - shake it, shake it, shake it, shake it

July 30th, 2009
3:55 pm

LOL ForReal! Well if you’re fond of ya’ AA Dolphin, don’t point the “head” over here…you’ll be limpin’ back. Don’t start none. Won’t be none. :D

Poppa Grande

July 30th, 2009
3:55 pm

Kimmie

It sounds like hate Florida as much as I hate the Tennessee Vols.

As a South Carolina Gamecock, I don’t like Florida either. But there is something about those orangesicle uniforms that get to me.

Plus, I hate the way that they celebrate Peyton, but Tee Martin brought them the Nat’l Title.

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

July 30th, 2009
3:55 pm

W8 – Yall can have half of this ish, and some thighs too.LOL!!!

Mo (aka Moeisha-)

July 30th, 2009
3:56 pm

Cemeeli – you know err’body on the Eastside knows about Glenwood Day! Plus that is in my neck of the woods! LOL!

NotSexyCool – your 3:47, hilarity!! And if you had been there you would have been ‘nice’

Jam – I heart “The Notebook”

Demi – black cap dude was trying, bless him heart

Black Mamba AKA Princess Xiomara

July 30th, 2009
3:56 pm

RELL…don’t punch me in the booty like W8 did. :lol: It came out of nowhere…then For Real asked was it hard or soft! :lol:

Cemeeli

July 30th, 2009
3:57 pm

PoppaG – Okay gotcha. And for the record. Hot maggots in the garbage…I’m over here rollin’.!

Tazzee I wont concede to Ryan better than Vick. 2nd, i’m a Falcons fan.

Black Mamba AKA Princess Xiomara

July 30th, 2009
3:57 pm

DEMI…step away from the Notebook! :lol:

Jamoca - shake it, shake it, shake it, shake it

July 30th, 2009
3:58 pm

Now, I don’t know if I am no match for that Ballwood, but I’m game. Hahahaaa!

Cee – Yeah, sis….I can see the two of us with Lil G…the crowd would be sold out. From the stanky leg to the booty do to walkin’ dat walk! We need to go on tour! Lol

Demi

July 30th, 2009
3:58 pm

Sassy…y’all ladies win this round.

I am OUT!!!

W8

July 30th, 2009
3:59 pm

Demi is all in love until he hits a strip club…”I wanna make luvv in dis club…in dis club..” LMAO

and WTH is “The Notebook”?

Jamoca - shake it, shake it, shake it, shake it

July 30th, 2009
3:59 pm

I know right, Mo! I love that movie.

here it comes….5,4,3,2….

Raqi

July 30th, 2009
3:59 pm

Jamoca I broke one with my knee by mistake once. But he soon got alright after about an hour. LOL

Play wrestling can be dangerous. Especially when the torpedo is gearing up to launch.

NotSexyCool - I'm not saying I was there. I'm just saying.

July 30th, 2009
4:00 pm

Yes, Mo – NICE – I like that…and she giggles…some more…lol…

Page1908

July 30th, 2009
4:00 pm

LOL @ no hips. Staceye u can have mine. Yeah W8 punched it right before you fainted when we saw Dwight Howard. lmao.

LOL Kimmie.

Tazzee - countdown to Pensacola Beach

July 30th, 2009
4:00 pm

PoppaG – YES!! Saturday August 1st, I’ll arise and turn on the TV to watch NFLN as I get ready to go up to Flowery Branch for training camp. What a wonderful day that will be, LOL.

Jamoca - shake it, shake it, shake it, shake it

July 30th, 2009
4:01 pm

W8 – I’m waiting for PoppaG to give you the male (critic) version of The Notebook. Lmao.

OR….you can just watch it yourself. It is a good movie. Story of a city gal and a kuntry bowaay. Classic love story.

Cemeeli

July 30th, 2009
4:03 pm

@ W8 – Don’t hate. You want a nickname too, dontcha?…:)

W8

July 30th, 2009
4:04 pm

@Jam- Nope I aint watching it uhh uhhhhhhhhh

Jamoca - shake it, shake it, shake it, shake it

July 30th, 2009
4:04 pm

Dang, Raqi. You probably didn’t kick him hard enough…unless he had that Supa___. LOL

Mo (aka Moeisha-)

July 30th, 2009
4:04 pm

W8 – the Notebook is the cutest dayum love story but ummm yeah, I’ll let PG give his male critique! LMAO!!

NotSexyCool – ‘nice’ is the way to be! LOL!

Tazzee - countdown to Pensacola Beach

July 30th, 2009
4:05 pm

Cemeeli – I never said you weren’t a Falcons fan. But you said you were going to root for Vick in the Dome…

As far as Vick vs. Ryan – I hope we get to prove our theories this season. Meaning, I hope Vick gets to see the field.

Jamoca - shake it, shake it, shake it, shake it

July 30th, 2009
4:07 pm

Cee – Gone’ head and give the mayne a nickname…hmmmmmm….Lol

…and W8 – you know you’re going to check it out. It’ll be late night, when you’re by yourself. Be carefuh’ tho….it’ll make you cry too. LOL

Lord Velonese (insert trendy name here)

July 30th, 2009
4:07 pm

What would you do if someone you met and got along great with told you they aren’t into exclusive relationships? Could you handle that kind of arrangement?”

Of course! But every woman I try to just be friends with ends up wanting more. In some cases I have a had a woman claim we are a “thing” without even informing me of it to divert other lady friends. I’m passed the stage of considering marriage from landing a successful career. I’m no Bill Gates but I do live comfortably and that makes me a target and my trust for women is in the toilet ( I’d rather trust a rattle snake, at least I know the snake is going to bite me). Thank god we don’t have a common law marriage anymore or someone like me would have been screwed a long time ago. But back on topic, it’s either Open or nothing at all.

W8

July 30th, 2009
4:08 pm

@Ce- Nawwww I have to many nicknames as it is…but “Shawty by Nature” is hilarious

@Mo-Nope dont want to watch a love story that a woman calls cute..that means its extra mushy

Fellas dont you hate it when you watch a love story with ya girl then she gets all fiddy afterwards? Wanting you to do some of that cheesy stuff that was in the movie..lmao…girl that’s a movie..lol

Jamoca - shake it, shake it, shake it, shake it

July 30th, 2009
4:09 pm

Cemeeli

July 30th, 2009
4:09 pm

@ Tazzee – I conceded on that.

Raqi

July 30th, 2009
4:10 pm

Yall want to see something??? http://bittersweet-rose.blogspot.com/2009/07/pork-new-white-mean.html

We are going to the movies tonight so we are having an early dinner. Sorry you swine haters, but you cannot deny that’s a nice piece of meat.

W8

July 30th, 2009
4:10 pm

@Lord V- There is no more common law marriage..ahhh sookie sookie now

Jamoca - shake it, shake it, shake it, shake it

July 30th, 2009
4:11 pm

Raqi – You are SO wrong for THAT! lol but n/r.

Mo (aka Moeisha-)

July 30th, 2009
4:12 pm

W8 – LOL! Extra mushy!

Raqi

July 30th, 2009
4:13 pm

You probably didn’t kick him hard enough

LOL Jamoca I try not to do things that takes away a benefit from me.

Poppa Grande

July 30th, 2009
4:13 pm

The Notebook is the #1 reason that Mrs. PG is on Movie choosing probation.

I endured that horrible excuse of film and precious time off my life that I will never ever ever eva…eva….eva….(remember the scene from Friday when Smokey tells “Janet” to never call him…insert that many evas).

It is a chick flick. It is in the league with Message in a Bottle.

The wife and I don’t see many movies together after that. I see movies like the Hangover by myself (sometimes with my homies). She sees those things usually with her Soror that lives near us.

Mo (aka Moeisha-)

July 30th, 2009
4:15 pm

PG – LMBAO!! Now I didnt do Message in a Bottle though, I couldnt hang there

Raqi

July 30th, 2009
4:15 pm

Jamoca by the time some of you are leaving work walking to you cars, we are going to have eaten and on our merry way.

Just give you something to dream about on your ride home. LOL

W8

July 30th, 2009
4:15 pm

Nope not going to watch it

Page1908

July 30th, 2009
4:15 pm

OMG PG The Hangover was soooo totally bananas!

Leggs

July 30th, 2009
4:16 pm

LOL, I watched Message in a Bottle last week (3rd time).

mytw♥cents...Electric Relaxation

July 30th, 2009
4:17 pm

I’m confused about the male eye cutting, but, okey dokey.

JAMOCA That’s the oldest trick in the book. Pretend you visualize one thang so they can show you it’s another. Mmm hmm, you and PAGE ain’t slick. Me and Trini gonna sign an oath so we stay ‘in tact’ cuz we don’t know nuthin bout that…

DEMIGOD You gone? That’s so tweet. Her got you on a curfew, huh? Well Floating on Cloud 9 should get you home sooner or later. Be kefful out there.

Page1908

July 30th, 2009
4:17 pm

Omg the baby in Hangover was so cute.

I think W8 likes watching Lifetime, so of course he would totally *heart* The Notebook. lmao

W8

July 30th, 2009
4:17 pm

I watched The Hangover last week (3rd time)

Raqi

July 30th, 2009
4:19 pm

Poppa Mason picked out a movie the other night and he chose it because he likes James Garner and Bill Cobbs as actors. It’s “The Ultimate Gift”. The movie is sorta chick flickerish so at first he was kinda disappointed but he had to admit it was a good movie. Watch it, you’ll like it.

Tazzee - countdown to Pensacola Beach

July 30th, 2009
4:20 pm

DANG RAQI!!! I’m sitting here hungry. Ate a light lunch because I’m partaking in restaurant week tonight. That does look good…

I though Hangover was hilarious, my guy didn’t like it as much. Watched parts of The Notebook the other night. I asked my guy if he’d ever seen it and he said ‘no, looks like a chick flick to me’ – then he left the room…

W8

July 30th, 2009
4:20 pm

Why watch Lifetime? So dude is always getting killed by his wife or some check is taking a man for all he is worth…I hate Lifetime and strongley dislike most women…I dont watch “o” either

Poppa Grande

July 30th, 2009
4:21 pm

Page

PG The Hangover was soooo totally bananas!

Yeah it was. That baby makes me laugh even when I just think about it.

I’ve seen it twice. Once by myself and then my best friend wanted to see and invited me. So, I saw it again.

Now the wife wants to see it. She wasn’t interested before the hype.

Ms Ice

July 30th, 2009
4:21 pm

How do you make the heart? It’s cute :)

Cemeeli

July 30th, 2009
4:22 pm

@PoppaG – “The Ultimate Gift” = A good one.

Cemeeli

July 30th, 2009
4:23 pm

“The Notebook” comes on PSP Media Diskettes for $4. And it shows great on the unit.

Poppa Grande

July 30th, 2009
4:23 pm

W8

Yeah, I tell the wife that Lifetime is “woman done wrong and avenges said wrong done to her in some way” formulated movies.

W8

July 30th, 2009
4:25 pm

Look at lil Carlos playing with his weenis….not at the table Carlos

Ms Ice

July 30th, 2009
4:25 pm

THE HEART BY A COUPLE OF NAMES; HOW DO YOU MAKE IT?????

IT’S KEYUTE!!!!!

Raqi

July 30th, 2009
4:27 pm

Tazzee did you ever watch The Heartbreak Kid? I remember you talking about how you like to sing in the car and there is a scene where the new wife is singing in the car on the way to their honeymoon destination. At first he thinks it’s kinda cute but by the time the get to where they are going he is totally annoyed. LOL

Oh and don’t get this movie to watch while you have the kiddies over. There are some very unchild friendly scenes.

W8

July 30th, 2009
4:27 pm

lol@Ms Ice..no need to yell..lol

NotSexyCool - I'm not saying I was there. I'm just saying.

July 30th, 2009
4:28 pm

What is you yellin’ fuh? LOL!

Poppa Grande

July 30th, 2009
4:28 pm

I asked my guy if he’d ever seen it and he said ‘no, looks like a chick flick to me’ – then he left the room…

Sounds like a smart man to me.

I saw that mess in the theater. So, I paid nighttime box office prices to be miserable. I decided at that point to go our separate movie ways.

I had to watch Independence Day after that to get my man card back. Independence Day has enough explosions as stuff to make hair grow on ya chest.

THE INFAMOUS DK

July 30th, 2009
4:30 pm

PG – “What chu talkin bout Willis?” Said in the chinese dude voice. and Mother fuc….. as he rolls up the window.. I guess the funniest part of the movie was the end when they tied it all together.. I didnt think anything could be funnier than SUPERBAD but the Hangover was way crazy… Zack and Miri make a p-rno is funny too.

Poppa Grande

July 30th, 2009
4:31 pm

Cee

I’ve heard that the Ultimate Gift isn’t bad.

Dang, you confiscated Lil Cee’s PSP to watch chick flicks….ewwwwwwww

Cemeeli

July 30th, 2009
4:31 pm

Speed/jump channels that are set on my t.v. timer are EPSN Sports Center, Deadliest Catch, Survive in the Wilderness, Discovery hype, viewer.

If you turn my t.v. on right now it’s ESPN or Discovery.

Ms Ice

July 30th, 2009
4:31 pm

mytw♥cents...Electric Relaxation

July 30th, 2009
4:32 pm

Hi Ms. ICE – Feel free to do like I did. Copy & Paste it! I have it saved in my email in case of emergencies :)

I’m so in love with baby Carlos! He’s a cutie-patootie!!!!

THE INFAMOUS DK

July 30th, 2009
4:32 pm

Well I take that back.. The Griswolds national lampoon still holds a place in my heart as far as comedys go oh and PORKY’s.

Black Mamba AKA Princess Xiomara

July 30th, 2009
4:34 pm

W8…Sassy and I are going to tie you down and make you watch the Notebook. :lol:

SexyCool - Back in da Bldg

July 30th, 2009
4:36 pm

What About Bob? gets a funny movie vote from me.

Tazzee - countdown to Pensacola Beach

July 30th, 2009
4:37 pm

Raqi – I remember you mentioning that movie before, I just put it in my netflix queue.

DK – I missed the ending of The Hangover, had a flight to catch. Then when we got to the airport the flight was delayed.

Poppa Grande

July 30th, 2009
4:37 pm

Infamous

Sounds like you are a Judd Apatow fan, too. You, Sir, are a gentleman and a scholar!!LOL

Apatow is the producer of 40 year old Virgin, Knocked up, Superbad, Talledega Nights/Ricky Bobby, Forgetting Sarah Marshall, etc.

I’ll probably see his latest movie called “funny People”, too.

I thought Superbad was slightly better than the Hangover (but it was a win by decision not knockout.)

Cemeeli

July 30th, 2009
4:37 pm

Dang, you confiscated Lil Cee’s PSP to watch chick flicks….ewwwwwwww

PoppaG

Yep…when he’s getting a hair cut and i don’t have my book to read. He has a PSP library of movies “Are we there yet”….”Robot” w/ Will Smith, “Taribithia” (sp?)…he’s a movie buff.

Infamous Now you got me intrigued to view “Hangover.” SUPERBAD was crazy thupid. My brother gave me the DVD…

Seth was the fool. Gimme that….“All right, you look like a future pedophile in this picture, number 1. Number 2: it doesn’t even have a first name, it just says “McLovin”?!

RelldaRake - 8inchs of limp dizzle

July 30th, 2009
4:37 pm

@dk….i love the first national lampoon….yea the hangover was funny as hell…dude said….phil when have you ever been around kids….this fool said jellybean…lol….i was wonder why tyson knocked the bwoi out..then i found out why…lol…they had that pic with them over tyson sleeping….mayne i want a vaca like that….but when he called dude fat jesus…i almost choked from laughing so hard

Page1908

July 30th, 2009
4:39 pm

LOL @ Weenis.

Mo (aka Moeisha-)

July 30th, 2009
4:40 pm

PG – Talladega Nights and the 40 yr Old Virgin = HILARITY!!! Too freakin funny! I LMBAO at both of those! I may have to watch Talladega Nights tonight…..”dear Big Baby Jesus….”

RelldaRake - 8inchs of limp dizzle

July 30th, 2009
4:41 pm

yo phil how do i look over there – you ok…

its at the corner of f uck off and get a map…

lol

Page1908

July 30th, 2009
4:41 pm

LOL 2 Cents. Carlos was the bomb!

Something About Mary and Office Space are my funny all time moves.

mytw♥cents...Electric Relaxation

July 30th, 2009
4:41 pm

PG I luv those movies & writers. I always say I have the sense of humor of a teenaged boy. And Jerry Bruckheimer films.

But of course, I love my Beaches, Steel Magnolias, Pretty Woman type of stuff too, cuz, ya know, I am a female.

But ain’t none of em as good as my COMING TO AMERICA & HOUSE PARTY!!!! Stellar movie making if I do say so myself.

Now who wants to host movie night?

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July 30th, 2009
4:41 pm

W8

July 30th, 2009
4:43 pm

Al:Counting cards is not illegal..it’s frowned upon..kinda like masterbating on a airplane

Phil:I’m pretty sure thats illegal too

Al:Only since 9/11, when everyone became all sensitive…thanks alot Bin Laden

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July 30th, 2009
4:43 pm

lmao House Party. OMG 2 Cents, W8 said he saw a dude walking down the street with a Gumby!

Mo (aka Moeisha-)

July 30th, 2009
4:43 pm

mytwo – dat aint nuttin but a ultra perm! I heart Coming to America

For Real

July 30th, 2009
4:44 pm

My favorite line from The Hangover – “I can’t believe I had to ask you twice to put on some pants”

The Hangover is up there with Dirty Rotten Scoundrels – Favorite line:
“Look Dr. Van Hussien, he so happy he’s crying”

SexyCool - Back in da Bldg

July 30th, 2009
4:44 pm

Al: That’s not our Doug. Our Doug’s a white.

Poppa Grande

July 30th, 2009
4:44 pm

Lately, Porky’s has been on Comcast’s Demand through Encore. I don’t know if it still is, though.

I was sneaking and watch that stuff back with Playboy channel was called “Dirty Thirty” in my hood. (It was channel 30 on the old converter boxes with the dial& you could fix the dial right between the 30 and 31 and the swiggly lines would go away…lol) Teenagers find a way…lol

Cemeeli

July 30th, 2009
4:44 pm

Okay Rell.

I need to see it, homey.

W8

July 30th, 2009
4:45 pm

I’ll take you to the candy shop…

Fame.. I want to leave for everrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr I want to learn how to fly..HIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIGH

Not Black Doug….

What happens in Vegas stays in Vegas…except herpes…that chyt will come home with ya…..LMAO

W8

July 30th, 2009
4:46 pm

LOL@PG- I used to do that also…lmao

Page1908

July 30th, 2009
4:47 pm

lol Porky’s! wow, you took it way back. lol

mytw♥cents...Electric Relaxation

July 30th, 2009
4:47 pm

PAGE That’s my SHIIII. P.S. I think those gumbys get you all hot n bothered hahahaa! Okay, I may have to break down and have the movie nite. But I don’t wanna hear nuthin when I recite the lines cuz I gets into character lol

W8 I need to know how many takes it took cuz I woulda busted out laughin everytime he said it.

I luv What about Bob and Steve Martin movies. What’s the one when he’s a sheister and him & the other dude try to out sheist each other. It’s gonna drive me crazy. Dirty Rotten Scoundrels?

Poppa Grande

July 30th, 2009
4:48 pm

A Fish called Wanda was on last night and I love that movie. I am a Monty Python fan.

Mo

Be careful watching Talledega Nights, you might develop the urge to get thrown out of an Applebee’s.

For Real

July 30th, 2009
4:48 pm

I didn’t think Superbad was that good. It had a few spots but no where near as funny as The Hangover.

Raqi: The Heartbreak Kid was funny as hell my favorite line: “F uck me like a black man”

You can’t a list of funny movie without The Jerk. Favorite line: “Ma I finally discover the purpose of my special friend”

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July 30th, 2009
4:49 pm

LOL 2 Cents! Ok, it’s official…move night at 2 Cents house!! You gotta dvd player, right? I hope you don’t still have a VCR or…..dare I say it….*gulp* a BETA! lmao

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July 30th, 2009
4:50 pm

OMG Napolean Dynamite was funny too. LOL @ the girl with the side ponytail. lol

Black Mamba AKA Princess Xiomara

July 30th, 2009
4:50 pm

FOR REAL…. :lol: you are officially on punishment!

Jamoca - shake it, shake it, shake it, shake it

July 30th, 2009
4:51 pm

LMAO @ PoppaG! I knew’d it!…just a matter of time.

LOL @ NotSexyCool —-> “what is you”?…”what is you goin’ thru”?…”what cho’ name is”?…”what is you cryin’ foh’”….”Is you crazy”? Lmao…I love my people. Luv em, luv em…luv em.

I don’t do Lifetime. Love Pretty Woman. Love Fried Green Tomatoes. Coming to Ametti-cah is a classic. —-> MyTwo: “Would you taste the soup?…Alright, I’ll taste the soup…where’s deh spoon? Ahhhaaa….ahhhaaa…! LOL

mytw♥cents...Electric Relaxation

July 30th, 2009
4:51 pm

Lil MO – The Hugh Hefna on High… He helped GILLIGAN! Chick don’t make me challenge you to a showdown :)

IV Real Stop with that ESP!

Tazzee - countdown to Pensacola Beach

July 30th, 2009
4:51 pm

Have a good night all – headed to dinner and a play

Tazzee - countdown to Pensacola Beach

July 30th, 2009
4:52 pm

Enter your comments here

RelldaRake - 8inchs of limp dizzle

July 30th, 2009
4:53 pm

i smell some of that devils lettuce…lol

i know how to cure a jelly sting bite

from the heartbreak kid

Grace

July 30th, 2009
4:54 pm

Bought the movie Superbad neva watch it…..burn after reading was too funny…odd but funny

Poppa Grande

July 30th, 2009
4:55 pm

Coen Brothers movies are odd, but funny movies Grace. They did Fargo. That was odd but funny.

Black Mamba AKA Princess Xiomara

July 30th, 2009
4:56 pm

Good day all….and to all a good night!

SexyCool - Back in da Bldg

July 30th, 2009
4:56 pm

Jam – My fave – Now, what IS we gone do?

mytw♥cents...Electric Relaxation

July 30th, 2009
4:56 pm

JAMOCA ACHHHAAAAA, ACHHHAAAAAAAA… When I reflect I realize that me and that cat go about explainin thangs the same way.

PAGINA 1908 See, I told you bout my Beta collection in confidence! lololol It’s cheaper to buy the flixx in that format anyway. See if I ever hit you on ya Skypager again, hmmmph!

Jamoca - shake it, shake it, shake it, shake it

July 30th, 2009
4:56 pm

I’m Gonna Get You Sucka – Deh shootin’..deh shootin’!…

duh soulja dude, you know the soulja dude…

don’t make me hop after you…

I jes’ want one rib…I shole is hone-gry! Got change for a hundred?

Lmao!

W8

July 30th, 2009
4:57 pm

Now it’s time to say goodbye…to all my negro friends……

bye b*tches!!!

mytw♥cents...Electric Relaxation

July 30th, 2009
4:59 pm

GRACE Burn After Reading is a CLASSIC!!!

For Real

July 30th, 2009
4:59 pm

Paging Dr. Faggot!!

Oh my god it’s the cans!!! They don’t like the cans!!

It wasn’t a comedy but it still of my favorite line: “man you always talkin about how to make money when yo azz is 30 cent away from a quarter”

Another non-comedy but funny as hell “nou, nou Anne May, I don gave up dem nakotits”

PG: “I fart in your general direction” and “Goddd has given us these 15… oh ish… 10 commandment”

Jamoca - shake it, shake it, shake it, shake it

July 30th, 2009
5:02 pm

LOL @ SCool! Who cho’ mama nem’ name IS?…how many months IS you (pregnant)…man I can go on. But I love em…I heart my people so much.

LOL @ 2Pieces! Girl, I love the barbers and the pastor. “This is beautiful, what is that velvet?” …”He helped Gillliiiiiigaaan, get off da’ island! Lawd! Lmao.

Okay, I’m watching The Notebook and CTA tonight. Need a good laugh.

mytw♥cents...Electric Relaxation

July 30th, 2009
5:05 pm

Okay JAMOCA – when you shake yo tail, click yo heels or whateva you gonna do to get here…cuz I know it ain’t gonna be a flight. We’ll have a Movie Marathon Pajama Party, k?

Jamoca - shake it, shake it, shake it, shake it

July 30th, 2009
5:07 pm

Cee – Umm, (thanks to Raqi)if you can …be a doll and overnight me a poke chop sammich, that would be lovely. Thanks sis.

Everyone, have yourselves a good one.

Jamoca - shake it, shake it, shake it, shake it

July 30th, 2009
5:09 pm

MyTwo – Bet it! It will be soon enough, sis…real soon. Just make sure Dwina is in the building, and I’m down.