Comments on: Light-Switch Moments

By: Lurky lurked

Lurky lurked — Mon, 27 Jul 2009 21:17:02 +0000

Str8 control by fear not good

By: main lurker

main lurker — Mon, 27 Jul 2009 21:03:59 +0000

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By: Mo (aka Moeisha-)

Mo (aka Moeisha-) — Mon, 27 Jul 2009 20:29:55 +0000

Pretty Wings – guess so chica! PG is the lonely dude holding it down right now!

By: kimmie-livin my life like it's golden!

kimmie-livin my life like it's golden! — Mon, 27 Jul 2009 20:26:10 +0000

We didn’t force something to be there that wasn’t. Things just happened on their natural pace. We supported each other in his/her endeavors but we let each still live our lives.

PG – Best thing I’ve read all day. Every successful relationship I hear about has this in common – nothing was forced, things progressed at a natural pace!

By: Pretty Wings

Pretty Wings — Mon, 27 Jul 2009 20:20:22 +0000

Hey Mo! Looks like a meeting in the ladies room!! LOL

By: Poppa Grande

Poppa Grande — Mon, 27 Jul 2009 20:19:06 +0000

Kimmie

But I DO know that I would not stand to be TREATED like 2nd choice, or leftovers!

Now that is sensible.

By: Pretty Wings

Pretty Wings — Mon, 27 Jul 2009 20:18:49 +0000

Hey Kimmie- Imma need that light bulb to be a energy saver as well, meaning no drama!

By: Mo (aka Moeisha-)

Mo (aka Moeisha-) — Mon, 27 Jul 2009 20:17:28 +0000

SCool – That last post……on point chica….

By: Pretty Wings

Pretty Wings — Mon, 27 Jul 2009 20:10:55 +0000

@Sexy Cool – Yes!

By: Poppa Grande

Poppa Grande — Mon, 27 Jul 2009 20:10:49 +0000

Pretty Wings

How did you know you had made the right choice?

LOL…You would ask me that today. She danced all on that last nerve over the weekend.

Anyways….I don’t recall a light switch moment for the wife. It was a gradual thing.

However, like the other guys, I have had light switch moments when it wasn’t the female was the one.

We didn’t force something to be there that wasn’t. Things just happened on their natural pace. We supported each other in his/her endeavors but we let each still live our lives.

We both are very competitive (she was a gymnast) so many folks have wondered how we have made it work. (She might be tad more competitive as I’ve found out on air hockey at D&Bs)

Respect is there and it is mutual.