Vengeance is not mine, although I have been consumed by it I have never acted on it. That would have just fed into a cycle of stupidity. Plus the person who is doing the act of vengeance really looks the weakest. Hurt in private, surround yourself with good friends, pray, wipe the dirt off of your shoulders and live better than before. Besides when you get into revenge, the other person is expecting that reaction and you are giving them what they want. When you act like they never existed and you are living your life better, that hurts them the most. It’s like they were never a factor in your life, just a small rain shower on an otherwise sunny day.

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Hey Purple-

How did you enjoy your weekend? Did you get away?

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Hey czBrat!

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GM all –
hey PR, how was the weekend?

on topic:
@2CPTG – i have had the same experience. the only one who got under my skin like happened to be theone who gave me my son. i’ll admit, bad custody fight turned me to thoughts of revenge. but as you stated, theres that child to think about. and for his sake, had to learn to be civil and swallow it all. dont need him growing up dysfunctional cause i cant get in check.

Love your enemies. It makes them so damned mad.
P.D. East

@PR – exactly. acting like the whole situation has had no effect other than to make me stronger has helped. both my attitude, and to get him to stop attempting to provoke me (it helped that my house is bigger than his, lol)

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Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. That sort of thing is rarely initiated by a man. I’ve been on the receiving end of stuff like that, though, and while it was a pain in the butt and cost me some dough, it only really served to reinforce that it was better to be rid of such psycho beeyotches. Only one of them brought a gun.

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Good Morning Good People!!!!!!!!

DD and 2 good posts!!!!!!

Hey PR!!!

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hey Diana, cz

czBrat – whitewater rafting? that sounds so scary, maybe just cause i cant swim lol, but still, howd you get in the boat? id have been terrified

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@czBrat ohhhh that sounds like fun! Did you surprise your SO with the excursion or did he know about it in advance? I am happy it went over well.

@Purple the spa is always nice. Which resort did you decide on?

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Dirty, we went to the Villas of Amelia

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Wow…someone brought a gun? Wonder what made her so made…hmmm

Anyway, while I agree with the “hell hath no fury……” statement, we are all in control of our actions. Anybody that’s ever been in a relationship has probably been taken to the point of wanting to “go there.” I for one have only had 2 men that shook me to my core where I was almost blind with fury. The ONLY thing that honestly kept me from doing all the evil that crossed my mind is how I was raised. Vengeance belows to God….no matter the evil or crime or dirt done to you, it’s NEVER the green light to avenge your ownself. While that may not be easily done as written (because I know), if you make an effort to move past and beyond, that old adage about time heals all wounds is a true, every word of it. You don’t have to be there to see it, you don’t have to know the facts of what the payback was, as God is always in control, everybody gets back what they’ve dished. How I let it go though, is to totally dismiss them…may seem childish but that’s what works for me. Anything that becomes a constant aggrevation is getting removed. During the time I’m moving on and getting beyond, I’m not in the capacity to communicate (i.e. calls, emails, texts), I don’t acknowledge, I totally avoid. Once I’ve reached a point where nothing will resurface, I can then be mature enough to do a quick “hi” or display manners in passing or whatnot. That’s just me though and how I deal.

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Diana, I have worked to hard to have the peace and life I have now after losing it all before. I would die protecting my serenity if it were attacked.

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Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. That sort of thing is rarely initiated by a man.

I would really like to make this a teaching moment. I usually don’t teach on the blog, because I do not get paid to provide that service here. However, we need to stop thinking that only women seek revenge when the most violent relationships occur between two men. Not to mention most of the domestic violence in the home is initiated by men. The point I am making is this STOP THINKING WOMEN ARE THE ONES GOING AROUND BREAKING WINDOWS AND SEEKING REVENGE I HAVE SEEN SEVERAL MEN PARTAKE IN THESE ACTIVITIES. I am done teaching unles ajc/cox send me a check or direct deposit a little token into one of my accounts.

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I would die protecting my serenity if it were attacked.

@Purple I understand, but the police better come before the grits get hot j/k maybe not

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Yeah, right, Diana. Chicks have posted their revenge stories in here before. This is not revelatory.

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Do you ever think of an ex who you hurt you?

Once in a while… I may be doing something totally random and a song or something may come on or I may see someone that reminds me of an ex and for a few minutes I’d think about him and then pooof…it’s gone. No harm done…no foul.

How do you let all that go? I retreat….regroup and take time to honestly deal with my feelings. I want space to feel what I’m feeling and the time with which to do so. I don’t take revenge on anyone b/c what goes around does come around and vengeance in mine sayeth the Lord so I just don’t indulge. Have I wanted to…sure I’ve wanted to do some sick isht to make me feel better…only thing is I would’ve also looked real ignant and no man is worth my self respect and dignity.

The best revenge is to live well…therefore I do.

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good point DD!!!!!!!! I am proud I have NEVER threw a brick or cut tires! LMBAO! I am truly scared I would be locked up and that overrides the thought! I DON’T DO JAIL! that’s all! LMBAO! Silence is golden though…….

~Move on gracefully with class~

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Blue I mean “YOUR BIG DAY IS COMING” lol

Hey Sassy!

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The cops tend to think that chicks acting out like that is rather funny. They say “What on earth did you do to her!” In general, it’s not much worth calling the cops for stuff like that.

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Forgive but never forget.
no sense in wishing revenge; you don’t want to mess up your Karma.
But if you are going to do it anyway, remember that revenge is a dish best served cold.

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It is best to put fear in that woman on the front end, so that she does not act up later. LOL, not saying to beat her but live the lifestyle that she knows. “he does not mess around with that type of crap” I am just speaking from a male perspective. Women if you deal with a guy who does revenge stuff …well he is just “moist”..get you a real man to go and have a “talk” with the moist one.

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Dayummmmmm, it’s not even 10:00 yet and already there are 40+ posts….must be a whole lot of vindictive heifers out there.

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M., I like your second point

I Am, that is a dangerous game to play. You do not know the persons mind set of which you are exacting revenge upon.

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Good morning folks??

By saying wronged what exactly wld the other party have done for anybody to consider warfare with them to the extend of wanting to inflict harm??

any examples??

I have always consider datinbg and luv as a selection process……no need for warfare.

Either I choose her or I dont and vice versa.

No need for that kinds juvenile mess.

Ofcourse I have deliberately avoided Bible thumbers(wrongly or rightly) in the past for fear of the unknown and hidden crawzzy that may have been lurking in their past.

I never concsiously dated emotionallly vulnerable pple.

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I had a friend who carved “LIAR” in a guys car.

Yeah I had one of those types,too….lil retard keyed her baby daddy’s new girlfriend’s truck….but just to show you what goes around does come around…he lied to her telling her he needed some money for something really,really serious. The money she gave him…he gave to old girl to get her truck repainted….for a minute after she found out I thought we were gonna have to put her on suicide watch cause she was ape sht batty…but she deserved it for what she’d done. Needless to say I’ve definitely put distance between she and I b/c that’s the kind of drama I soo don’t need in my life.

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my point is a minor acts could leave to a big blow ups………don’t go out looking for it too…..i am a believer everything will be revealed if you are paying attention……

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Blue I am turning 31 too soon I have a sideways look though honey it is something about the “1″ lolololololol IDK what the feeling is but its a feeling!

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but men don’t typically go around keying cars, slashing tires, breaking windows, trying to sabotage you at work,

Maybe you’re spouting this to replies but you can’t be serious about that…there are stories in the news all of the time about men who’ve done these very same things to women…you know the man who doesn’t want to be alone so he tries to control EVERYTHING around him and when she leaves him…he FREAKS the eff out. What do you think the stalking laws are for?…for the simps that follow her to work,sit in the parking lot..key her car or slash her tires. And oh please don’t let her start dating someone new…I don’t even have to finish that one. You don’t have to admit it b/c we know better…so push on.

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Stories of psycho men that go nuts and kill their exes are in the news pretty regularly, but men don’t typically go around keying cars, slashing tires, breaking windows, trying to sabotage you at work, all the stuff that chicks typically do.

Hmmmmmmm I have seen just as many men sabatoge at work. On the receiving end, I would rather have my window broken than to be sitting in the morgue with a tag on my toe. Less not forget the countless stories of men taking the women’s car and coming back several days later…give me a break all of mankind are in this same boat my point again this is not just women.

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Hey Everyone,

When I was younger I was probably more worried about the revenge part. However, Now that I’m older its like eh onward and upward, have a great life buddy.

Funny story though happened to One of my bro’s frat brothers chick put bologona slices all over his car, pulled the paint right off as he pulled the bologna off. sad but true.

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Women tend to slash tires, key cars, throw bricks, sabotage you at work and your life/relationships. Men just go nuts and kill the woman and not all of that other stuff.
exactly, reign. as i’m reading over some of these posts i’m thinking women tend to do more nuisance type revenge; men go for straight violence. still nobody wins.

blue/professor, it wasn’t a surprise. it was what he wanted to do for his b-day, so i set it up. there were spots of level 4 rapids, but much of the 5-mile stretch was pretty calm. we’re going to try a more challenging course next year. no worries about falling out, they show you how to sit and how to wedge yourself in good. there were a few casualties, but none from our raft. i felt bad for one raft that was made up entirely of a kid crew – on one particular rapid they all went in the water; only the guide stayed in the raft, and everyone along the bank was scrambling to drag the kids onto land. there are lots of other rafts out there with guides all prepared to throw lifelines and get you back in the raft. there are also safety lines along the bank in case you have to swim for it.

ok, back to our scheduled topic.

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Melo we were in college, I think he probably did at least notify camups security but, he was such a ‘ho he didnt’ know which chick did it.

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Sasssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssy exactly on that 10:03! I am a single woman that dates I have seen men cut a fool…lie, mess with cars, call my phone 50-11 times, drive by etc.

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Painful breakups…when he’s a jerk at least you have your anger to help get you through.

The worst ones are when he’s not a jerk, there is more right than wrong, and you just come to a point where you have to accept that you aren’t on the same page.

That’s the most painful one of all.

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Good morning erybody.

this is funny. the only time something like that happened to me was in high school. I was banging the whole cheerleading squad and instead of getting mad at me or each other, they all got pissed at the chick they saw me with from another school and call themselves goin on a vandalizing tantrum. the chick calls me one morning and says you wouldn’t believe someone put ketchup, mustard,honey and flour and tampons all over the old lady next doors car and carved leave him alone bytch that is our man all over her brand new car. She was all upset that happened to her neighbor, and the whole time I wanted to tell her them dumb heffa’s did the wrong house. They thought it was your car. I went over there all concerned and the neighbor was like 67 years and outside crying talking bout her husband has been dead for years. Who would do this? I was dying laughing on the inside.

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Biggest revenge I’ve gotten on a jerk of an ex… well, I happened to get word that he cheated on his current girlfriend. The word is small. So small that it didn’t take long for the word to get back to the girlfriend. Yes, I could have kept the gossip to myself but in that instance I didn’t.

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DIG

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@Sassy Me…Chocolate Cutey

I agree with your 10:03am post and there are alot of these emotional Carl Thomas guys out here. I think its really deeper than the woman breaking up with them. This is the first woman that gave them play and now they are puttin all their eggs in the basket.

It all boils down to him not having any options! When you dont have any options and you lose your biggest investment, you do desperate things. Look what happened with LeBron James and how his owner started showing out after he left. Cleveland has no other options.

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While I don’t particularly call it revenge I did let my anger be known with an ex by breaking up some of his stuff when I was moving out.

I have mentioned that before on here. I did it, that’s that, all parties have moved on.

Maybe in my next life I will be born perfect but in this life I am perfectly okay with just having learned to do better. LOL

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@Slim- Now that dude was truly crazy. Better the car than her tho.

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Melo

Yep sure was however when he was dating a chick he was faithful but the in-between times , he is now what i like to refer to a reformed ho LOL

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Must’ve been some helluva good puddy hole)

@Slimone??

I’m sure YEAH LURKER will have some to say later tday about that kinda of fillet mignon puddy!

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I am a single woman that dates I have seen men cut a fool…lie, mess with cars, call my phone 50-11 times, drive by etc.

OKAY?! Dirty Dianaaaaaaaaa they’re tryna act like it doesn’t happen…even now as I type these words the name Brian Nichols comes to mind. That fool not only went to his exes home but kidnapped n assaulted her….

So umm does that mean you likey M?

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‘Now that dude was truly crazy. Better the car than her tho.’

Dig That – well her and her son were in the house at the time of the fire…he did it in the wee hours of the morning and a neighbor just to happened to notice the blaze out in the driveway. So they were able to get out without injury.

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LOL DD!

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blue, i think from 30 on i stopped feeling older and just started feeling better each year. has a lot to do with personal/spiritual growth and taking good care of yourself.

Slim that’s insane!
Raqi, i’m guessing it boils down to that primal “it’s MINE!!” mentality. there is a fine line between protective and possessive.

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Sassy, i honestly believe that on some level we always ’see it coming’.

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@Slim- Before now I have always been a true playboy so I really had no concept of a girlfriend. I really can’t think of anything that would make me act in such a manner and I have had some of the best puddy imaginable.

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Morning all!

I’m scared of everybody, always have been. You just don’t know when somebody is going to SNAP. I’ve always been able to keep my emotions against a jerk ex in check for that very reason. It would just be my luck to do something stupid to a dude’s property and have it end violently for me. I don’t get away with nothing. So I’ve learned to EASE AWAY. I told you all about that guy that cried his eyes out when I broke it off with him – that scared me & I know if I hadn’t EASED AWAY, he was the type that might do something you’d be seeing on the news.

So my best “revenge” is living well! I keep on looking good and taking care of myself. Sweet “revenge” was years later, seeing 2 of my exes that thought they were all that, no longer “buff” – beer bellies and all, with chubby wives/girlfriends in tow!LOL!!

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I would rather have my car scratched or possessions destroyed than to have my life taken.

Amen Raqi

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@Dig That – yeah, could see as a teenager too ahrd to get the laughter under control to hlep out lmao. at least she was covered tho
@Princess – reformed ho, lol. should make them recovering hos, put them in a group, like AA…
@Sassy, Diana – dead on ladies. men are just as crazy, jus arent as ready to admit. i’ll admit there are times ive thought about cutting someone….did i do it…no.
@Raqi, cz – “its MINE!!” mentality is sure what it seems like, complete with the “it” instead of her or she. a true possession. makes you glad you got out of dodge when you did

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with chubby wives/girlfriends in tow!LOL!!
now THAT’S awesome!!

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It would just be my luck to do something stupid to a dude’s property and have it end violently for me

@ Kimmie same here!, I’ve never done property damage cause we will have a major problem if dude comes around trying to do some property damage to my ish.

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I’ve never done property damage cause we will have a major problem if dude comes around trying to do some property damage to my ish.

Princess – Oh yeah, don’t touch my stuff! Don’t start nothing, won’t be nothing!

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I am well sir thanks!

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@kimmie – lol. beerb bellies and all, lol. gotta love those. the cheaters who get cheated on. the buff who gain a million pounds. the “im better than you”s working a job their embarassed to tell anyone about. priceless.
@M – Snapped….scary show dude…..lol. guys craziness most definietly exists. what has me all is why do so many of them have to be soooo overboard. i mean, you shoot her once, shes dead. she doesnt know you shot her 27 more times. you havent “shown” her aything at that point.

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The dude that took the chick’s money was a bigger azz than she was stupid. KNOWING he was done with her. Doesn’t matter how much of an ex or how dumb the chick was, he got it by lying. If she was that much of an ex, then he should have been bumming off his current.

For sure it’s me I get what you’re saying. They were both stupid if you ask me. My friend knew what she was doing when she keyed old girl’s truck and her child’s father knew she’d done it. See whenever he broke up with her she’d use their daughter as a reason to see him but it just didn’t work so she got desperate/stoopid. Was it worth it…it never is.

You know what cz maybe you can see it coming with some but there are a few who you really just don’t know about…the unassuming ones. I get your point though cause hindsight is 20/20….sometimes it’s hard to see when you’re caught up.

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Im confused what you meant by the statement above.

Did you like the moniker?…that’s all. Sorry if I confused you.

you been watching ochocino…you know he loves that phrase

Princess waaay before the show he starting saying that as a way to say eff you….but since he couldn’t say that on tv and in interviews he started saying “chile pleaze”. So whenever you heard him say that you know he really meant something else.

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It would just be my luck to do something stupid to a dude’s property and have it end violently for me

theres the problem, cause i think most women have a crazy bone, but not all women have a criminal bone, and you need that criminal to get away with the stuff. without it, you go to his house to key his car and brick his windwos, and somehow get run over as he pulls out of the driveway. emts come, ask what happened and u blurt the whole thing out. off to the er in handcuffs……

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9dfZyfckKPk

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Sassy

I know , I didn’t realize he and Keyshawn Johnson are cousins though I was watching some countdown on NFL channel and came across that info.

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Oh yeah, don’t touch my stuff! Don’t start nothing, won’t be nothing!

True,true…

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good assessment blue!!!!!!

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yeah Sassy Like 2nd or 3rd cousins I believe

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How do you let all that go?

never had an ex be grimey towards me. but my last relationship stung like a nest full of japanese wasps.

how did i let it go? i realized slowly that he wasn’t good for me or to me. i got angry and resentful — not at him but at myself for not seeing things sooner. as soon as that fool said didn’t like dogs, i should have bounced. but i was on some “oh, give him a chance. get to know him b.s.” and wound up losing myself.

then i realized that i had no idea what to do next. at some point, i thanked him for my freedom — that would have been a seriously unhappy marriage — and figured out what i’d like to do next. so now, i am working that out.

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Dirty Di-anaaaaaaa I’ve watched a few bits n pieces of T.O.’s show and I have to admit that the episode with him going back home and finally making piece with his father brought me to tears b/c of my own situation(or lack thereof). It also did something to me to see him cry…it showed his humanity.

Now as for Chad’s show…never made it past the first 10 mins of the first episode…just can’t do it.

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should’ve been *peace* not piece…but I digress

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as soon as that fool said didn’t like dogs, i should have bounced.

LOL

I dont like cats either!

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@Diana, Princess, Lady, cz – “I don’t have time for this mess I am 30 years old.” yeah got that feeling, like time for me to get a move on and those of who still wana stay the same as youve always be, dont have time. less patience for mess, drama, and all the rest. looking forward to taking some time to get to know me a little better. got married, had kids young, so seems always been wife/mom. who else is in there? already found out short hair isnt really for me, but lets try some other things…am i really a dog person? maybe im, oh, a parakeet person….who knows

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Now, I got tired of Chad when he was on DWTS

Never watched him on that show….however I did hear recently that he had the hots for his Latina dance partner…hence the uproar over the choice of women thus far on his show…you know the tandard Beckys and a slew of Latinas n such…and maybe ONE of us. But to each his own.

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Sassy & Diana

I Love T.O. Show, although Mo gets on my nerves! But Chad, I only like seeing his homeboy “B-Twice” he is quite handsome.

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Sasssy my mom stopped watching DWTS because of him…he bought his dance partner a diamond ring and a diamond necklace. I heard a clip from the show Wendy Williams did with him asking him about how all he had on his show was Maria and Becky….he gave a real BS answer and the crowd did not clap or say anything.

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Melo,

I cant wait for 2.00 pm when the topic will proly change!

I say you change the topic now, and tell us a good story or something you did before you married Queen

Does anyone have change for a $10 or $.80 I want some cheetoes out the vending machine?

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On the real Princess I’v always thought of T.O as a pompous a**hole b/c his football antics but seeing the parts of his show that I have thus far, has shown another side of him. What I find interesting is the vulnerability that’s instantly present on his face when convos of his ex come up. You get so see that other T.O..

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You get *to* see…

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blue- I don’t think they’re able to take over this topic like they did yesterday, thus the crickets from the guys!

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he bought his dance partner a diamond ring and a diamond necklace

I didn’t know that….scandal I say.

he gave a real BS answer and the crowd did not clap or say anything.

I don’t think his answer was bull hockey I think folks didn’t clap cause it wasn’t what they wanted to hear. But he said ultimately the show is about him and he’s going to appease HIM. When he said that chile people were looking like and clutching the pearls in disbelief. I was shocked that he used the word appease correctly, myself.

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@kimmie – lmao. there was some steamrolling yesterday wasnt there….

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@czB ~ I’m here, I posted this morning. How are you? I don’t have any revenge stories. I see no point in it. Well, I do understand it can make a person feel better for a moment, but its shortlived and often times regrettable after the fog clears!

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gina, that’s one thing that always keeps me looking forward. if i thought this not-quite-right situation was all that, how amazing will the truly right situation be! now i say that with one word of advice … know when to stand and work to make that not-quite-right situation better rather than always thinking the next one will be THE ONE.

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I feel sad for the lil baby that lost the head of his dycck in a botched circumcision..ajc headline….

To lose ur wang chips like that as it relates to the wang_sensory glands??

no amount of compensation can bring back the joy..and that kid will be a financially rich kid but sexxually angsted and scorned adult for the rest of his lyfe .

Its a shame……

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Monkey in the girdle !?!?!

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@Melo – saw that one. his parents say the other little boys are picking with him cause it doesnt look right. poor little guy….

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@Melo- That is a shame. I don’t say this often, but I feel sorry for lil man

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@Melo – they mentioned another case like that last year, where they cut off too much (oww).
“The tip of the penis was placed in a biohazard bag and might have been reattached if he’d gotten attention in time”….

can you imagine being hte person walking around carrying the tip of some kids stuff in a baggy…..

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That is awful, and when they settle the case I hope the money goes in an account for lil man where his parents can’t spend it up

Me too because he is gonna need that for Vodka and hookers.

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I hope the money goes in an account for lil man where his parents can’t spend it up

I don’t know Di…how can you not touch 11 milli? The parents probably already called their jobs like ole dude did in Harlem Nights after Sunshine whooped that “young lady”(hey D K) upside his head.

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Melo,

Maybe by the time he is ready to start using it there will be some advancements in the medical field, and he will be ok.

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time he is ready to start using it there will be some advancements in the medical field

@Dirty??

that gotta be within the next 12 to 15 years and by that time,his emotions wil be messed up…..u hear of all these cases of dudes who are swicth hitters who say they were molested as teens or tots etc…..it starts early coz even as lil tots,the other other tots will be looking and laughing at ur peta(ur word) LOL..calling him girl etc…by 15 he already thinks hes a girl.

hes gon be a str8 up switcher, i tell u!

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lets say they dont touch it till he turns 15, can someone just tell em what 12 years worth of interest looks like on 11 million….

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Melo,

He should just hide his peta until the time is right.

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i plead the fifth. that is all.

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just..wow…really?…wow…

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Melo you have been mannish for a long time…hehehe

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Melo, actually the greatest level of pleasure he will be able to receive will only be compared to that he has received. With the head being damaged now as a child his first experience will be what it will be.

It likes a person born blind. They don’t miss seeing the colors red, blue and green because they have never seen it. In their growing process they learned to VIEW objects with their hands and that is how they live.

We as human learn to adapt to our circumstances and surroundings and live well.

I hate that happened to the little boy but he will manage and I believe he will find satisfaction for what it will be to him. You can’t miss what you have never had or experienced.

At least his parents didn’t opt to have him given a gender change like some parents did years ago with the first trials of laser circumcision that went wrong. That little boy should have been given the opportunity to grow up to be a man but his parents took that away from him. Our gender is more than the parts on our body but it’s our inner workings also. That choice by those parents probably has that child confused wondering why SHE like woman when in fact HE is a man.

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@Melo she became very jealous as I started moving up at work and of my other friends then she started spreading lies and got caught.

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@Dirty??

now talking of stumped limps..back in the day, i knew a dude whose hand hand been blown off from the wrist in a dynamite accident. That had happened when he was a teen….

i met him when he was an adult(28+) and dude always had his hand in his pocket…we always wondered why that was so untill somebody told us that his hand had been blown off and dude was shy to bring it out….so nobody knew exactly how the hand looked……and nobody asked him in public to bring it out….
there was mystery about his hand tho…

legend had it that the only time he wld bring his hand out “comfortably” was when he was alone in the woods,tending to his cows and goats etc or hunting by himself…..now the joke was that still,there was no way anybody could get a clear shot of that stump coz the moment dude heard a slight movement while in the woods..his stump wld move into the pocket like a flash…..u wld need a space shuttle camera to capture the pic,if at all……

One day however,the dude had gone to the woods,tending to his goats,sheep and cows and in the comfort of it all,had also taken a dump…now he had not fixed his pants properly so his zipper portion of the pants was not well aligned and his pockets were not well in place…

some other dude happened to be in the area also looking after his goats and cows and as stump_hand dude heard some commotion,he quickly snapped his stump back to try and fit into the pocket..the pocket was not in the usual place,unfortunately so his stump caught just a portion of the pocket and coz his hand was not well positioned,he was kinda caught still trying to adjust the hand….

other dude caught the action and was like and short hand dude was like and at being caught while in the act!

can u imagine the embarassment??

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@Melo – LMAO, stump_hand dude, ROFL……hte pop eyes are too funny….ok, time for lunch….lol

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Melo,

That was a good one…I cannot imagine!

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@Sasssy That sounds like fun. Is this your high school reunion, or college?

@Blue Melo tells the best stories. Do you remember the one about the jar of wangs, or the one about the young guy that got in the chiefs magic viagra potion????? Simply funny!

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Is this your high school reunion, or college?

It’s my highschool reunion….I went to college here in the “A” @ GSU. My friends wanted me to go to an HBCU but I was like “ahhh y’all got HBCU money?”…so to GSU I went.

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Thank you cz will definitely do. I’ll going wihthe attitude of having lots of fun(legally) and doing it up ’til the wheels fall off.

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I think its down right neeeesty for a woman to take a power walk at lunch time then come back to the office without showering!

Imagine the nxa nxa mix of sweat and fluids in ur armpits and inner thighs and veejay and all that funky mess smell….worse if u aint even shaved that cootie….

uall need to do better!

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nxa nxa mix of sweat and fluids in ur armpits and inner thighs and veejay and all that funky mess smell

*nose crinkled at just the thought*

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@melo – ewwww, just nasty….
@Diana – @Blue Melo tells the best stories. Do you remember the one about the jar of wangs, or the one about the young guy that got in the chiefs magic viagra potion????? Simply funny!

wait a minute, i think those may b before my time here. jar of wangs? magic viagra? WTH

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blue, I want to read those stories too. If I was here I missed them.

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uall need to do better
is it still that same chickadee in your office committing these offenses? stop yelling at all women and go put a bar of soap on her desk like raqi said.

a’ight, good people. time to go fly the friendly skies.

ciao!

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poppin’ in….i did an early vote I knew i would be busy today……..

more interesting news…..but not anything new…..lol

http://kiss1041fm.com/blogs/kiss_connects/2010/07/reports-say-whitney-is-spendin.html

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that’s part of the reason I have undying love for my alma mater cause even on scholarship it was still kind expensive.

Princess luckily for me attending GSU wasn’t that bad but it still wasn’t cheap. I’m just glad I finished with that part when I did cause they’ve gone up on tuition several times since then…well heyal college tuition has gone up everywhere.

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Melo, I bet Roy Barnes vs. Karen Handel will result in Roy winning the governor’s race. Handel gets enough press off of Palin’s endorsement to win the primary, but that’s not enough to win in November — same thing with Nicky Haley in SC, I think.

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me too sassy she is truly one of my favs and I am sticking with her but i tell ya……..drugs kill!

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‘Course, I didn’t think a middle Georgian named Sonny, of all things, could lie to teachers about testing and salaries and to rednecks about the state flag and get elected, but he beat Roy to do it, and then won re-election after proving to be a liar on those issues. So, go figure. We’ll see.

I’d be surprised if Cynthia McKinney was ever elected again, and if by some miracle she is, I seriously doubt she’d be effective at all on the Hill. She kind of made herself into a joke through self-induced scandal a few times at the end of her Congressional career. But then again, even in her case, the Green Party ran her for President in 2008. That’s about crazy, though.

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Frankly, no, Karen Handel is a scandal waiting to happen. It’ll be the Handel Scandal. She’s a powder keg!

I don’t think that anything affiliated with the Tea Party movement will be very successful in November. Moderates vs. Democrats, sure, that’ll unseat some people — but then, there’s a strong anti-incumbent attitude, so anyone currently in office could be said to be at risk.

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@SassyMe ~ leaving NYC I didn’t want to go to an HBCU either. My friends and I said we would go to a school where all 4 of us were accepted to. GSU accepted all of us and here we remain. We all got accepted to different schools, but all 4 received yays from GSU.

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CYNTHIA MCKINNEY DUMB STUPID IGNORANT RETARDED AND AN EMBARRASEMENT TO THE BLACK PANTHERS

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Leggs – That’s cool being able to go to school with your friends! Did you like GSU – I really enjoyed it. Of course it was very different from UGA, an entirely different experience. I was in grad school at GSU and it was all business then. Great professors, great business program.

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We all got accepted to different schools, but all 4 received yays from GSU.

That’s what I’m talking ’bout….okay holla back y’all.

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Melo – He was 83 and I think had cancer. He was a part of the old guard somewhat of a rebel. The people I grew up around were in politics or very politically active – walked among the local greats, so it was nothing to be part of a campaign. I lost my taste for working in politics a few years after college though, when witnessing the backstabbing and whatnot on other campaigns I worked on. Just not for me.

But yes, I’m a proud liberal.

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as a proud HBCU graduate Kudos to those who chose your school of choice!!!! Diversity does ROCK!!!!!

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thinking back i wished i would have knocked this grad school out earlier but i digress lol

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LMBAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

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Leggs, you wouldn’t recognize it now, definitely has gone thru a lot of great changes! I enjoyed it because of the people I had as classmates – a lot were really doing some fantastic things and some were running businesses I actually recognized. The professors really treated us like adults and were interested in us actually learning the material. UGA kicked behind and a lot of the professors seemed to be interested in making things as difficult for the students as they could. It was survival of the fittest. Party school? Yeah, you could party yourself right out the door. Saw many that did not have the dicipline! But a great place, the ultimate college experience!

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@PR – interesting. didnt know that. laern something new every day…altho now i am wondering why you know that, lol

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@kimmie ~ I’m glad you enjoyed it. Even when I drive by I can see the change. GSC College of Law may have been opened a year before I graduated and I felt so at home when I studied there.

@Lady ~ I agree! Rock on to all the graduates and their school of choice.

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key word “graduates” leggs too damn funny! stop! lolololol

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~Positive or negative energy is exchanged like a fair trade, the more you give, the more you receive~

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@Lady ~ In your case, rock on to you. You graduated in order to get to graduate school. When I typed that I was thinking of one of our four who let a dude come between her and her schooling. She dropped out.

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Leggs/Lady – I feel blessed because I feel like I got some of all the college experiences. I got the HBCU experience by growing up around the Atlanta Univ center. My first summer job was at the AU center library. I had family that were professors and administrators there and my sister is a Spelman alum, mom a Clark alum and both younger brothers are Morehouse men. I am the lone rebel in the family! I wanted a big university experience and UGA had outstanding programs in what I wanted to major in, and GSU as well. I had a great college experience!

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That is fab, kimmie. I hope mine has a great experience as well. All the bumps and all the smooth sailing of dorm life. I feel like I’ve missed out on the college dorm life, but everything happens for a reason. I too may have gotten sidetracked if I wasn’t so sheltered in my own apartment! Who knows.

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@PR – always hit it off with the bad boys, dont know why…..ah well.

somebodys birthday around here, all i know is theres cake, and its chocolate…yum!

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now grad school traditional vs non traditional I am all for what goes with your schedule as an adult and possible parent…..But i tell you silently GA State is on my mind (If I transfer)…….lol….small thought…….lol

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Lady, okay imma let that GT thing slide cause I like ya. Don’t let it happen again, though!LOL!!

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ok kimmie!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! LOL

melo you need to stop and i do be catching up july has been and will continue to be a bad blog month for me i will be on the regular after labor day LMBAO!!!!! That’s all!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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@melo – wow, once again with the mental pictures….never had the opportunity to be around for that one….altho, fantasy to be that girl is another story……now thinking how can i work that out….hmmmm

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dd hot mess! lol

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I am going to tell on you making love on the copier.

@Dirty??

Im sure u been in that kinda of hearing!

bless those ethopian cleaners who see everything after hrs!

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Melo, Oxendine is a crook, but he won’t win the primary anyway, I think. Handel is just a sneaky snake with a rancid and vitriolic personality, we’ll all see the scandals come out when it gets down to it. Baker doesn’t stand a chance, Roy will win the Democratic primary. I’ve met Roy, he’s a regular straight up lawyer kind of guy — a lawyer nonetheless, but still by far the best choice among the candidates that are running, IMHO.

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@Dirty..i agree..

@blue..u need to spicy it up….

we sleep on the carpet dwnstairs sometimes,esp in summer like this when it gets hot in our upstairs bedroom…

it goes down on the carpet floor too….

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she was a chuuch lady and that was just too much for her

@Dirty??

i can imagine..u pple in hr witness all the horror stories!

LMBOF

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alritee, nite all!!!

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@Melo ~ I sure have had a tryst in a conf. room at work. Who hasn’t.

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I sure have had a tryst in a conf.

@Leggs??

smehow im so happy for u!

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@Melo ~ you’re a riot!

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To conquer oneself is a greater task than conquering others! ~ Unknown

Nite!

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