When you are fresh off a painful break up you aren’t always thinking clearly. If your ex has been particularly grimy and awful to you, you probably want them to feel the same amount of distress that they inflicted on you. This is when you need a voice of reason (not a partner in crime!) to talk you off the crazy cliff.
I’m not the type to exact revenge on men who have wronged me. I’ve done my own dirt and karma has visited my address, plenty of times. Sometimes it’s really best to let go and move on.
I have to admit that there are those moments that I think about getting revenge on an ex-boyfriend though. I dwell on it for a few hours and start cooking up some crazy idea to make him miserable. Do you ever think of an ex who you hurt you? How do you let all that go?
Have you ever done something crazy and irresponsible to get back at an ex? Did it make you feel better at all?
How do you learn to forgive and forget without taking revenge?