Okay Awesome
Just when I set my sights on relocating to San Diego, Atlanta offers something so tempting that makes me want to stay forever! Aside from the great weather, restaurants, culture, and good looking people, Atlanta is now considered a sexually satisfied city.
Oh, it’s not just Sex in the City, people. It’s Great Sex in the City! Who knew?! As I read the article, I was mildly amused by the “unscientific” study that was sponsored by Trojan, of course. Who are the people they surveyed? Married or single? Committed or casual relationships? What, specifically made their intimacy so satisfying?
What do you think about the study? Does it make you want to move to Houston, the only city more satiated than Atlanta?
What about the people who rated their satisfaction level low? What happens when it’s not scratching the itch, so to speak? How would one broach the subject with their partner? Would your approach depend on the nature of the relationship?
Happy Friday!
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DJ Demi
July 17th, 2009
8:26 am
Crying, moaning, just can’t wait til morning
Waiting too long
Finally yuh come a long
Baby love
Explain yuhself, baby girl
Lead out! Lead out, lead out, lead out
Like a clock ticking on the wall
Seven days a week
So weak I need yuh body next to mine
Cyaan eat nor sleep
Like a club to a screw
Ohhh I do you
So neat
Spread your feet
Lord (Hear mi tell di girl!)
Girl flex, time to have sex
Long time yuh have di rude bwoy yah a sweat Girl, flex time to have sex
Look how long yuh have di rude bwoy a sweat
W8©(went to sleep real...woke up rilla)
July 17th, 2009
8:55 am
On the “not scratching the itch” it depends sometimes I am more carnal in nature where I just want to “beat beat beat beat beat” or I just need to let this pent up frustration and freakiness out..so scratching that itch is not a problem…but if there is a relationship involved other than sex and we are not there mentally…I know I am not going to be there sexually…I might go thru the motions but at some point I am going to be saying to myself..”this woman gets on my damn nerves”..she doesnt deserve my best. Buuuutttt when that late text…”it’s getting late text”..I need you to come by and hit this a “little later tonight” text comes in….and it’s just a pure sexual thing…oh she will definitely get that itch scratched..no strings attached…
If a guy can’t get enough good sex in Atlanta either:
A) He doesnt want to
B) He doesnt want to
C) He doesnt want to
***If you aint top shelf you need not apply for the permanent position, but I will call a temp service every now and then to get the job done***
Pretty Wings
July 17th, 2009
8:58 am
Good Morning Sexy ATL Bloggers!
ImAPeach404
July 17th, 2009
8:59 am
I didn’t read the article yet but my initial thoughts are this – if all I was looking for is sex then maybe I’d find Atlanta “satisfying” but since I’ve set my sights beyond some good d**k for the night, Atlanta is doing NOTHING for me right now…
Professor
July 17th, 2009
9:00 am
Good Morning All:
Interesting unscientific study! Hmmm I am not awake enough to write on this one. I will post more in a few…
Page1908
July 17th, 2009
9:02 am
OMG WD! Some of my favorite phrases are “okay awesome”! LOL. Oh and you already know I have a biased about San Diego lol. I *heart* San Diego:)
I’m reallyyyyyy homesick this week big time. I’m kinda blahhh and maybe in a bit of a bad mood for the past couple of days. ugh.
Professor
July 17th, 2009
9:05 am
After thought, I have never been into casual relationships, and I this point in my life I like the long-term committed relationships with substance attached. So if all I wanted was sex that would be easy, but unfortunately when I factor in other things I find myself respectfully declining the free magic stick even when promises have been made.
ImAPeach404
July 17th, 2009
9:06 am
…hey Demi
Turd Ferguson
July 17th, 2009
9:07 am
The study sounds correct to me and I hope I helped in some way!!!
If I might be of further assistance to the ladies please advise accordingly.
On another note. I must give props to Ms Diva. Often times my comments could be considered offensive etc. yet Ms Diva tolerates them when other blogs on the AJC site simply block me from commenting.
My thanks to Ms Diva for letting Turd Ferguson express his comments without fear of the overused/abused yet ever popular “block”.
Pretty Wings
July 17th, 2009
9:12 am
@Professor- I agree! That really shows what makes it good for women maybe different for men.
@W8 – Be safe- so you can stay top shelf ready!
Grace
July 17th, 2009
9:15 am
Enter your comments here
AmazonRed™ - the wall is winning
July 17th, 2009
9:16 am
Aw Lawd, a sex topic on a Friday. I’m taking cover.
But yes, I can say I am sexually satisfied here. I think that’s why I don’t trip off my sex life. There are plenty of willing participants, that look pretty good too, whenever the mood strikes me.
Grace
July 17th, 2009
9:18 am
I can see the survey leaning more to singles, since singles are the vast majority in Atlanta, I’m worried that if the sex scale is high so are STD and AIDS too.
Demi
July 17th, 2009
9:24 am
404…how are you doing sis?!
W8…you know it’s bad when Demi is turning down new booty for a long term relationship. I don’t know what has got’in into me…
Late night text
White girl: I am horny…can you come over right quick?
Demi: Naw, I am praying to Jesus!!
WG: WTF!?!?! Hell are you talking about??
Demi: You need to pray to Jesus too.
WG: FuuuugU DUDE…WHATEVER!!!
Demi: Jesus says…”Blank” you too!!
W8©(went to sleep real...woke up rilla)
July 17th, 2009
9:33 am
@Pretty Wings- Always!! Gotta be real particulat even if it means saying no or going without
@Grace- The fear of STDs is what slowed me down before the though of another wife did. I was with a group of guys and the topic of STD’s came up. and suprisingly I was the ONLY one who had never had an STD and that was an eye opener for me…cuz Lord knows..i was on the prowl…With my job we do blood test every two weeks, credit check and physicals every month…so I kinda just took that stuff for granted until I heard those guys speak…I think I would be going to jail if a woman gave me a STD.
W8©(went to sleep real...woke up rilla)
July 17th, 2009
9:38 am
@Demi- You have to turn some down..it’s hard at times..sometimes it’s easy..sometimes we are strong sometimes we slip…keep Jesus on the mainline!!!…lmao
Leggs
July 17th, 2009
9:38 am
Good morning everyone!
I didn’t read the article yet but my initial thoughts are this – if all I was looking for is sex then maybe I’d find Atlanta “satisfying” but since I’ve set my sights beyond some good d**k for the night, Atlanta is doing NOTHING for me right now… Taking from ARed, here’s $20 in the colletion plate..AMEN!
@WD, I see the tag for MIA no longer says “2 singles dating on the forefront’ (something like that). It’s all you, and you’re doing a fantastic job!
SexyCool - Undescribable.
July 17th, 2009
9:39 am
Three Words Daily – Show gratitude daily.
SexyCool - Undescribable.
July 17th, 2009
9:41 am
Glossed over the headline this morning without reading the article and thought to myself, “Well, I can certainly relate.”
DJ Demi
July 17th, 2009
9:44 am
Turd Ferguson…DUDE!! That cause Wise has to put up with my crazy a$$…watch this:
I got a pocket full of money and my wrist all froze
So fugg what you heard we don’t love them ‘oes, heeyyy
Do the dayum thang, do the dayum thang
A ‘igga might grin but it ain’t still funny
Got a pocket fulla that, do the dayum thang money, heeyy
Do the dayum thang, do the dayum thang
My phone is tapped and so is my livin room
We cant hide the money here, we need a bigger room
Let me show you what I stand fo,
Jesus Schwarzenegger call me commando
On that Remy Martin, ‘igga matta fact
I ain’t Fat Joe but I can make em lean back
Save your ammo don’t waste it
Got him dodgin bullets like he in the matrix
Jeans strapped and ya better dip
Carvin 15, got six clips
Pilsbury ‘igga, got a lotta dough
Call me bossan george, got a lotta ‘oes
They place orders, so I bake cakes
I’m a bodybuilder, pump a lotta weight
You see the diamonds in my dayumu chain
It ain’t hard to tell, I do the dayum thang
Rell - sex code red
July 17th, 2009
9:44 am
Well i am a slump right on the sex side of things…any pointers?
Professor
July 17th, 2009
9:45 am
@Grace/W8 I agree about the STDs. I had a late dinner with a friend last night and being cordial I asked him how his cousin was doing. It was shocking when he told me that his cousin had just found out he had herpes, and the sad thing is the guy is still “going,” with a don’t care attitude .
Sassy Me...juicy fruit callin' out all fakes :-)
July 17th, 2009
9:46 am
..I need you to come by and hit this a “little later tonight” text comes in….and it’s just a pure sexual thing…oh she will definitely get that itch scratched..no strings attached…
When I’m not in a relationship at the time I usually have options on the side who “come through” when I NEED to be seen…..I don’t make myself readily available to anyone so when I make the call the first and only thing I ALWAYS hear is “Im on my way” ….
I think that’s why I don’t trip off my sex life. There are plenty of willing participants, that look pretty good too, whenever the mood strikes me.
AmRed it’s always good to have options girl…..always. For some reason during the summer they come from out of the woodworks and they’re everywhere wantin’ to offer it up…..go figure….yeah I said “offer” ’cause when it comes to the wood some guys will give it up in a New York minute…..get at me.
Raqi...Come see the live σπέρμα swimming in my hystera.
July 17th, 2009
9:46 am
This is very interesting. I have mixed feelings on this. In an article such as that it could very well be saying this place if full of promiscuous horn dogs and saggies that lack self control. I too would like to know the relationship status of those interviewed. I don’t buy the whole dating is better in this place or that.
While I feel that my marido and I have a good healthy physical relationship I would not say it is so because of where we live. It’s because of who we are and what we do and are for and to each other. But that’s just me.
I do realize this is meant to be a fun topic so I will stop here and leave the fact findings to the Alphabet Man.
But I do wonder how is it that a large certain crowd all end up in the same place. Do they move to that place for it’s reputation or does being in the place convert you??? (TIC)
To stick to what’s intended let me just say I gotz live tadpoles in my ute. And yes imma have some TMI fun today. LOL
AmazonRed™ - the wall is winning
July 17th, 2009
9:50 am
For some reason during the summer they come from out of the woodworks and they’re everywhere wantin’ to offer it up…..go figure….yeah I said “offer” ’cause when it comes to the wood some guys will give it up in a New York minute…..get at me.
Sassy – I feel you about the summer time. I sometimes related to the stock market and in warm months my stock is up. By the time the cold weather rolls around, they want one of the husky ones to feed em and keep em warm.
Raqi
July 17th, 2009
9:52 am
I think my first comment got blocked.
Raqi...Come see the live σπέρμα swimming in my hystera.
July 17th, 2009
9:53 am
Yep, it did.
ImAPeach404
July 17th, 2009
9:53 am
Dudes turning down the nootsie???? I memba when if you called, they came. Now… these 2009 kneegrows got too many options. There is an influx of open legs these days!
W8©(went to sleep real...woke up rilla)
July 17th, 2009
9:54 am
Spring= Everything is blooming (gym time)
Summer= Hot(showing what ya working with)
Fall= cooler(people are cooling off on folks)
Winter= Cold (when it’s cold outsiiiiideeee…girl who are you holding?….you’ll be holding meeeeeeeeeeeee…well welll welll wellllllll………if ya think ya lonely nowwwwwwwwwwww…W8 until tonight girl)
lmao
Raqi...Come see the live σπέρμα swimming in my hystera.
July 17th, 2009
9:54 am
Reposting…
This is very interesting. I have mixed feelings on this. In an article such as that it could very well be saying this place if full of promiscuous horn dogs and saggies that lack self control. I too would like to know the relationship status of those interviewed. I don’t buy the whole dating is better in this place or that.
While I feel that my marido and I have a good healthy physical relationship I would not say it is so because of where we live. It’s because of who we are and what we do and are for and to each other. But that’s just me.
I do realize this is meant to be a fun topic so I will stop here and leave the fact findings to the Alphabet Man.
To stick to what’s intended let me just say I gotz live tadpoles in my ute. And yes imma have some TMI fun today. LOL
Sassy Me...juicy fruit callin' out all fakes :-)
July 17th, 2009
9:55 am
By the time the cold weather rolls around, they want one of the husky ones to feed em and keep em warm.
I’m saying’ though…..why is that AmRed guul? I’m not husky in the least and I know I know how to make it hawt.
Raqi...Come see the live σπέρμα swimming in my hystera.
July 17th, 2009
9:56 am
What, specifically made their intimacy so satisfying? It’s the damn humidity. (Just kidding)
Last night we end up going to some friends instead of staying home. They have a nice back yard patio thing going with the tall yard lanterns that make for an excellent atmosphere. The perfect lighting, the soft background music, good eats, sitting next to the beau, a little hand touching during conversation followed by a 35 minutes drive home…
The baby slept in the onesie that she wore to the dinner outing.
Yep it’s this Hotlanta humidity.
Cemeeli
July 17th, 2009
9:57 am
Uh-oh! Gotta go…
Boys and girls, I just wanted to ask you all if possible we could keep it clean (yea o.k.) today…i’ll be more than willing to show my newest addition to my Ginko collection.
You are either gansta witit OR, desperate for a sharp instrument consisting of a blade, of steel and having a sharp edge for cutting. <–Lol
Now, that’s ^^^^ how you keep it real and clean.
Happy Friday gang…:cool:
W8©(went to sleep real...woke up rilla)
July 17th, 2009
9:58 am
@404- thing is men now have the options that women always had..and women are not used to men with that mindset…back in the day..a woman could tell any dude no because she knew there would always be another dude..and that one dude didnt have any other women…but now guys have those same options…lmao…some of us have always had those options.I aint scared or ever have been to tell a girl no…
Demi
July 17th, 2009
9:58 am
W8…Let babe be a Keys, a Ciara, or a Jennifer “fine a$$” Hudson…ISssssh!!! I am breaking out the Magnum behind the glass which reads: “Emergency Only!!”…with a quikaness!!
Shoot…rolling with the fellas this weekend…Let me get the mini-axe ready
Melo
July 17th, 2009
9:58 am
There are plenty of willing participants, that look pretty good too, whenever the mood strikes me
The topic,coming on a morning when i had a pretty good romp last nite,thats awesome.
I was holding on to Queen’s nakkeid butt,whew…..i feel blessed,relaxed and at peace.
And its pay day too!!
What more does a man need.
Good morning folks!
Cemeeli
July 17th, 2009
9:59 am
went to sleep real…woke up rilla)
Mayne…if you’un gone somewhere. Me too!
THE INFAMOUS DK
July 17th, 2009
10:00 am
Rell – I got a good for you.. Go to the Camp Creek Market Place and just stand there with your johnson in hand..
No Seriously.. Get out. Get out. When I was going through the Big D I had to force myself out the house. It didnt matter what I was doing but I made myself get out the house. Hold ya head and smile/speak to any random female you see. to reiterate I would say just get out and Nah you aint gotta do the club thang just get out of your cave for a minute no matter how much you just wanna chill. Go get reconnected with old friends.
W8©(went to sleep real...woke up rilla)
July 17th, 2009
10:01 am
@Raqi- Did you say you have live tadpoles in your ute? LMAO LMAO
I used to say “she swallowed my babies”..LMAO
I think WD is trying to pull a Jedi mind trick on us by starting off todays topic with Sex and not Dating..just to see if it will have the reverse effect
Professor
July 17th, 2009
10:01 am
Dang Melo!
Sassy Me...juicy fruit callin' out all fakes :-)
July 17th, 2009
10:01 am
I am breaking out the Magnum behind the glass which reads: “Emergency Only!!”…with a quikaness!!
Hmmmmm…is it the gold or black Magnum
Rell - sex code red
July 17th, 2009
10:02 am
I don’t make myself readily available to anyone so when I make the call the first and only thing I ALWAYS hear is “Im on my way” ….
- REALLY….then your snapper must bite if the dudes are running to you like that…or you got that fie head….
they want one of the husky ones to feed em and keep em warm.
- WOW did this beanpole just say husky….lol…..its someone for everyone love…in atlanta the fie sale on sex is between march and now…next month the teachers that has been busting it opening and bring it back….are back in chill mode because they have to get focused for the kids…most summer romance are either fizzled out or coupling up for the rest of the year…the next time the fie sale on sex hits is right around halloween folks trying to couple up for the holiday run to V-DAY…thats the repeat cycle here that i have experience and i have been here since 95…so my next chance of getting some real fie sex is not until around or after my bday…dayum….how did i get here
THE INFAMOUS DK
July 17th, 2009
10:02 am
Spring and Summer is Mating season in the wild anyway so its only natural that we as humans/animals would want to mate along those same lines
Demi
July 17th, 2009
10:04 am
Now… these 2009 kneegrows got too many options. There is an influx of open legs these days!
Really Where???
Demi is now prowling strippa clubs along 285 in search of “infux of open legs”
Ahhhhhhhhhh!!!!
I see and Believe it to be true
Grace
July 17th, 2009
10:05 am
W8 Your job is on top of things
Professor I guess your friend’s cousin is wearing the valtrex commerical on his sleeve.
I wonder/worry about things like that. Even though herpes is not a life threatening disease some people feel as if they’re not priviledged to tell their partner.
W8©(went to sleep real...woke up rilla)
July 17th, 2009
10:06 am
BOA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Cemeeli
July 17th, 2009
10:07 am
oh NAW – Not my TJMaxx!!
The insurgents don’ got Maxx too!
East Point's Own
July 17th, 2009
10:07 am
I don’t think it much matters if the responders were married or single. If you do a “random sample” nothing matters except for the questions asked and how truely random the sample is. My question is where did they find the 1000 people? I mean were they all people who visited trojans.com or something? Or was it a pop up survey on a site vistied by a large cross section like cnn.com or ajc.com??
I mean we all know that most folks claim to get less sex after marriage, so if the majority of folks in ATL seem to be satisfied that will include married, folks in relationships, and single folks.
http://hispointofview.com/2009/07/indie-films/
Demi
July 17th, 2009
10:08 am
Sassy Me…looking at the wrapper…came in the mail from a Trojan Promo…It is a Gold wrapper that says, “Trojan (trade mark) MAGNUM: Ecstasy
W8©(went to sleep real...woke up rilla)
July 17th, 2009
10:10 am
@Cee- yeah they got the TJ Maxx too