Open Mouth, Insert Foot
I’ve learned that when you are dating a young guy, sometimes they will say something…well, stupid. There’s no malicious intent or ulterior motive behind it, the guy just blurts things he really shouldn’t. I’m trying to be understanding and I’m sure I have my own “open mouth, insert foot” moments too. The interesting part of it all is that he is completely oblivious until he sees a look of unbelief on my face.
Ladies, you have to explain to men when they say something crazy to you. If you don’t, you can’t complain about it later. It’s best to address it when he says something that bothers you.
Have you ever had an embarrasing moment with someone you are dating? Did they say something or do something that embarrassed or humiliated you?
Have you ever dated someone that has absolutely no filter? I’m talking about the tactless, thoughtless type that should to take a crash course on How to Win Friends and Influence People.
Have you ever said something to someone that you wish you could take back? How did you make up and recover for it?
accessAtlanta Partner Sites
Sections
Advertise on accessAtlanta.com »
Reach the audience you want by advertising on accessAtlanta.com
Join the Access Atlanta Network »
Advertisers and Publishers, expand your reach by joining the Access Atlanta Network.
Tell us what you think about the site
Visitor Agreement | Privacy Statement | About our ads
© 2009 The Atlanta Journal-Constitution
396 comments Add your comment
i'm swiss (aka Buckshot Prior)
July 15th, 2009
8:47 am
FIRST! Hot d@mn!
i'm swiss (aka Buckshot Prior)
July 15th, 2009
9:01 am
That’s never as fun as I think it will be…. oh well…
On topic — Never dated anyone like that; I have worked with people like that, though. But I think we’ve all had moments where we wished we could stuff the words right back in our big mouths. It happens, but when it happens all the time, that’s not a good look. It’s only cute when little kids do it…
And on that note, a funny story:
A few years back, I was at Stone Mountain — I’d just finished lugging my lazy arse up the mountain & was resting & taking in the views at the top. There was a family nearby with a little boy (couldn’t have been more than 2 or 3). As we’re all standing there, this dude comes jogging by & he’s committing pretty much every fashion violation possible: short-short (and I DO mean waaaaaaay too short) jogging shorts, no shirt — flabby, wrinkly, old love handles & man-boobs giggling all over the place. It was ugly. Well, the little boy has a gander at this dude & is enthralled. This kid starts jogging behind the guy, tailing him all over the top of the mountain, pointing & yelling, “HA! HA! Look at that man!” over & over & over.
I’m pretty sure dude never left the house looking like that again.
Professor
July 15th, 2009
9:06 am
Good Morning All:
I try to go easy on my words (when I can) just in case I have to take them back. It is never fun to stick your foot in your mouth and sometimes it is even harder to recover.
@Swiss thanks for the morning laugh…great story.
Demi
July 15th, 2009
9:08 am
Wise…Demi is an a$$hole…Even I watch what I say 90% of the time. regardless of your age…one should be mindful and respectful at all times.
Demi just opened a face book using my real name…now working on my twitter’s own now
Professor
July 15th, 2009
9:13 am
Demi I have not done the whole twitter thing yet. Let me know how you like it…it took forever for me to do FB.
Demi
July 15th, 2009
9:15 am
i’m swiss…like why are some old white dudes are so quick to put their 1970’s gym short on…with tube socks…and no shirt?! Isssh, I know his fool in my office,who is still rockin the “Jeri Curl”. That ish stank!!!
Page/W8…y’all should see that fool and the ish be dripping!!
I am like, Bish you need to mop that ish up!!
Demi
July 15th, 2009
9:16 am
Professor…will do. I am trying from my phone…may take a minute, LOL
Cemeeli
July 15th, 2009
9:17 am
Swiss Was it anything like you had dreamed?
Count down is vastly making it’s way. I have my Tina skirt in the Cleaners…
i'm swiss (aka Buckshot Prior)
July 15th, 2009
9:18 am
“like why are some old white dudes are so quick to put their 1970’s gym short on…with tube socks…and no shirt?!”
Demi, I wish I had an answer for you. All I can tell you is that some of my cousins are some weird mofos…. Sometimes I just don’t understand my own people…
Grace
July 15th, 2009
9:18 am
Good morning, I’ve never had that problem with a date/relationship, but like Swiss I too work with some folks who NEVER think before they speak.
Professor
July 15th, 2009
9:20 am
Demi/Swiss
I always think that maybe they are so into their workout that they are not concern with that outward appearance…all about heart rate. Shoot, that does not stop me from smdh.
Demi
July 15th, 2009
9:22 am
Professor…I couldn’t start my account using my cell. For whatever reasons, my pda was unable to read those weird ’special characters’. I use my yahoo account and now I have dang near 25 people to twit.
hold on…I am now trying to twit from my cell now
i'm swiss (aka Buckshot Prior)
July 15th, 2009
9:24 am
“Count down is vastly making it’s way. I have my Tina skirt in the Cleaners…”
Look out now, Cee — don’t get me in trouble on my wedding day — you know I can’t look away from a nice pair of legs…
And, yes, the clock is ticking… We had to spend all day Saturday at this engaged couples “workshop” so the catholic church will let us use their building for the wedding. (What’s the pope gonna tell me about marriage? Swiss Miss isn’t an alter boy or anything.) For part of it, they had this lady giving a presentation on “natural family planning” — and then she got on this kick about how it would be a great idea for all the couples to abstain until the wedding night. I was sitting there thinking, “is Wayne Brady gonna have to choke a bytch?????”
AmazonRed™ - a ray of sunshine
July 15th, 2009
9:26 am
Morning all,
Well, I know I’ve said somethings to guys that haven’t been appreciated. Just this weekend some guy interrupted my thoughts and asked me what I was thinking. I kindly said to him that it was none of his business and he got all huffy.
But for folks I actually know and care about, I try to leave the filter on. My family and I will lay it all out there. My sister told me the last time she saw me that I had huge hips. Thanks sis.
But not everyone rolls like me, so I try to stay mindful that it’s not always what you say but how you say it. In relationships, you gotta fight fair cuz even if you are forgiven, it’s often isn’t forgotten.
And yes, if a guy comes at me sideways he’s quickly shut down. You may mean well, but I’m gonna check you so it doesn’t happen again.
Cemeeli
July 15th, 2009
9:27 am
Morning…
“I have my own “open mouth, insert foot” moments too”
Yea, I regret EVER saying this one thing my guy remember from a year ago! Not anything demeaning, or disrespectful towards him or who he is. A wrong choice of words on my part. And then after it was returned to me, not in my favor i was sour about it.
Tip to the ladies: Leave your independant statements to self when talking with your old man about more eminent things of your relationship.
lovelyliz
July 15th, 2009
9:31 am
Young guys. Trust me it can happen to any guy or anybody, really. Being that I am too picky about certain things, I’ve seen this quite a bit. Perhaps it’s becasue people make assumptions about me that just don’t jive with who I am and what I tolerate.
There are certain assumptions made when around a white, middle class, military veteran, Christian woman who has lived in the South much of her life. Make thoise assumption about me and what I tolerate and am into and you would be wrong. My politics lean towards the left. I appreciate diversity. I am tolerant and pretty much a live and let live kind of person. Maybe I just put of that vibe, but the whole racial epithets and snide remarks just set me off. The best I can do it maintain my silence and roll my eyes.
As for the lack of malicious intent I am evidently really judgemental there too. I don’t like guy making fun of my love of soccer over American football. Or the ones still fighting the Civil War. Again the best I can do it maintain my silence and roll my eyes.
Professor
July 15th, 2009
9:32 am
Hey Cee!
You made it back I know the club, I meant blog stayed open late last night. I totally agree about the independent statements
Cemeeli
July 15th, 2009
9:33 am
We had to spend all day Saturday at this engaged couples “workshop” so the catholic church will let us use their building for the wedding.
Swiss Good call! I’m sure it’s a beautiful church. You’re not Catholic i presume. Swiss Miss did she choose the facility?
and then she got on this kick about how it would be a great idea for all the couples to abstain until the wedding night. I was sitting there thinking, “is Wayne Brady gonna have to choke a bytch?????”
Please let’s not play “Truth or Dare” when at the “engaged couples workshop”.
It’s not impossible (for some) to abatain until the wedding night. lol @ You pulling a Wayne Brady!
lovelyliz
July 15th, 2009
9:33 am
There there was the time my then roommate was having a party. One of her male friends loved my that he loved my big, fat ass. I was mortified I later explained to her her that us white women don’t take that as the compliment it was intended to be.
Demi
July 15th, 2009
9:33 am
(Sometimes I just don’t understand my own people…)
Swiss…I am right behind you on that one…My folks are just as bad, LOL!!
(I always think that maybe they are so into their workout that they are not concern with that outward appearance)
Profess…that agument will not hold up in court!! That’s about as bad as those old dudes in LaFitness, rockin underarmor…with a beer belly…trying to holla at ms. coke bottle…LOL
On twitter…I am now twittin my arse off with my cousins…They like, Dang cuz…you’re late as hell!!!
Demi
July 15th, 2009
9:36 am
Also, the messages are in real time
Tazzee - in need of some beach time
July 15th, 2009
9:40 am
Morning Folks!
I’m really good and filtering what comes out of my mouth – it’s my facial expressions that need work. My friends get on me all the time about that. My guy will do or say something and then ask me ‘what does that look mean?’
Cemeeli
July 15th, 2009
9:41 am
Professor If i could rewind the time and HUSH! I would…Before we got real serious he always told me i’d learn how not to sass him. And yea, i’ve scaled back ….
Thanks to you and Moca for helping refresh my memory on stars, and the galaxy…i WAS a lil lost. Moreso cause i was cooking and tryna watch the grill And the t.v. is on. The HDs are hypnotic…:) lol.
Professor
July 15th, 2009
9:41 am
Demi I surrender…that was my best argument…I tried.
Leggs
July 15th, 2009
9:42 am
Good morning everyone!
No doubt I had foot in mouth, hard to retrieve moments. (Keep it quiet Jamoca). However, a lot of my honesty was truthful.
Yes, indeed the blog was open late last night.
@Professor, who on here pays attention to your ears.
SexyCool - Can I borrow your EBT card?
July 15th, 2009
9:43 am
Three Words Daily – Everyday brings opportunities.
Cemeeli
July 15th, 2009
9:47 am
@SexyCool – Gurl you got me over here crackin up!!!…oh, my side hurt.
I’m tryna borrow the EBT card with you.
Professor
July 15th, 2009
9:47 am
@Tazzee I am big on the facial expressions as well…one eyebrow up one down, I wrinkle my nose, and do all sorts of things with my eyes. I try to control them but they just take over. In fact the class that I am teaching talks about gestures and faces…I hate teaching that section!
@Leggs…Stick-up
AmazonRed™ - a ray of sunshine
July 15th, 2009
9:50 am
Yes, indeed the blog was open late last night.
Wait…the y’all were blogging after working hours? Like, taking time away from your actual lives outside of work (for those who have one…). LOL
Well, okay.
Professor
July 15th, 2009
9:52 am
That EBT card is gone for all of those trying to borrow it, but I may cut a deal for a small fee.
SexyCool - Can I borrow your EBT card?
July 15th, 2009
9:52 am
I rarely suffer from Hoof in Mouth disease. I have learned to say what I mean and mean what I say. Anyone who suffers offense from my words, it is an unintended consequence, but I make no apologies.
Professor
July 15th, 2009
9:53 am
ARed, the blog help me make it through IT support or lack of support and going over some routine papers…
SexyCool - Can I borrow your EBT card?
July 15th, 2009
9:54 am
I received a text last night, while I was on the ballfield, about the bootleg blogging going on.
Interesting conversation to say the least.
Demi
July 15th, 2009
9:55 am
Professor…LOL
AmazonRed™ - a ray of sunshine
July 15th, 2009
9:55 am
ARed, the blog help me make it through IT support or lack of support and going over some routine papers…
Hey Professor, no need to explain.
Leggs
July 15th, 2009
9:58 am
Ok, Professor, so who’s Stick-up?
Anywhooo, I had a quite a few laughs last night.
@Wisey, I was informed not to send you a text stating that the blog was still open (like I would have done that).
Tazzee - in need of some beach time
July 15th, 2009
9:59 am
I wish someone would have told me the blog was open late. I was at work until 10pm…
Melo
July 15th, 2009
10:00 am
Did they say something or do something that embarrassed or humiliated you?
I do have an open mouth.But it is a very honest mouth.
If it feels right and true, i will say it,ask u the qstion or say my opinion.
Guys need to say stuff even more so you can see where these girls are,mentally.She may blush,appear embarrased etc but it dont mean they dont know.A lot of times chics play dumb,hoodwinking us into thinking they are all innocent.
So guys,when the relationship is just starting,just say it.It wont hurt.
On another note:i wished the blog had stayed a lil longer last nite.
It felt like a mini nuclear explosion.
Chics can start drama at the blink of an eye,i tell ya.
Morning folks!
Cemeeli
July 15th, 2009
10:00 am
Professor You and SexyCool don’t have any kids. Please stop hoggin’ the blessing that will take the strain away from my debt card.
I’m tryna figure out how a neighbor had EBT and drove a Lexus Coupe and stayed cleaned all the time. The kids…now let’s not get on their up keep.
‘explain that.
Mr. Mike Jones
July 15th, 2009
10:00 am
Good Morning,
I think I’m the opposite. I bite my tongue ALOT, trying to no to hurt someone elses feelings. Because I know if I get started I’m going to GO HARD and thats not a good. So I usually take the high road for better or worse.
Demi
July 15th, 2009
10:01 am
EBT cards are the junk!! Before, Demi was cutting corners and only buying Kroger nasty a$$ brand…Now, thanks to my ‘blessings’…Demi can now purchase name brand items…Thanks, EBT Gal!
Wise…delete this post please!!! LOL
Professor
July 15th, 2009
10:01 am
Ared it was not an explanation just a quick note. In fact, we had a few folks lurking (I suppose) and changing monikers I guess after hours they flip the identity thing. Hey being the chick that I am I don’t change monikers or throw out words I just blog the truth and use LOL if I am playing.
Cemeeli
July 15th, 2009
10:02 am
@ Tazzee – I thought about you too, cause i know you work late quite often. I got txt-msg. and came to the lounge.
THE INFAMOUS DK
July 15th, 2009
10:04 am
Murning.. I dont get into foot in mouth disease becasue if I say it I mean it. I am always aware and dont fall victim to the first that pops in my mind falls out my mouth..
Sidebar: I am cracking up this morning over the Failblog.. This is some funny stuff.. Failblog.org
Cemeeli
July 15th, 2009
10:05 am
there was a Stick-Up someone tryna get Professor’s diamonds. You need to pack when hanging out in the Lounge after hours.
Like the salon ladies…lock the door, and keep your strap ready! Lol
Professor
July 15th, 2009
10:06 am
Cee I do not have an EBT card I wish I did. For some reason (at least that is what I am told) that I do not grocery shop right.
Demi is the one over there with the EBT hook-up. We need to ask him so my Whole Foods and Publix bills will go down.
SexyCool - I don't even like cotton candy.
July 15th, 2009
10:06 am
Cem – If anybody knows somebody with the EBT hook-up have them get at me. And I am SO sincere…
Sassy Me...juicy fruit callin' out all fakes :-)
July 15th, 2009
10:06 am
Morning blog fam
I’m not known for mincing words but I do have tact and use it even when that other me doesn’t want to. Naturally in business settings the filter is on but with my friends and fam there’s no pretense. I will sugar coat things for children but never for adults b/c hellooo we’re grown. Usually when I make a remark that has others clutching the pearls it’s something that the masses have THOUGHT but only I had the ballz to say….or if some random person invades my thoughts or my space I let them have it and watch them recoil with that “WTF” look on their faces….shyt I surprise myself at times. Plus you guys have seen hints and glimmers of that other SASSAFRASS
SexyCool - I don't even like cotton candy.
July 15th, 2009
10:08 am
Or not…
Professor
July 15th, 2009
10:08 am
Cee I will take my “carats” off the next time I am in the lounge after hours.
THE INFAMOUS DK
July 15th, 2009
10:09 am
People that say hurtful things are hurting.. Grandma says it all the time.. Hurt people hurt people..
SexyCool - I don't even like cotton candy.
July 15th, 2009
10:12 am
Lovely Liz – your 933a gets the prize for the funniest ish posted this morning. LMAO!!!
Mr. Mike Jones
July 15th, 2009
10:13 am
THE INFAMOUS DK
Grandma knows what she is talking
Cemeeli
July 15th, 2009
10:14 am
My conservative sister recieved food stamps (the original ones with the brown book you tear the paper voucher out) when she was in college. But she told me i’d havta move off campus to get them.
I still to this day dont know HOW a college student is eligible to get them. But they gave ‘em to her.
Her fridge stayed on swole…When i visited her i took all her snacks.
Cemeeli
July 15th, 2009
10:16 am
@ Infamous – I agree. People who hurt, say hurtful things to hurt others.
M'
July 15th, 2009
10:25 am
^5 DK and SCool
I measure my words, tone and intention very carefully on the front end…so, if I do say something…I meant it…and retracting it is not an option…I will, mind you, attempt to tactfully state whatever I have to say…unless I am not left that option.
lurker
July 15th, 2009
10:26 am
Wow….blogging til almost 10:00pm….I’m sooo jamming to Third Day…just love love love ‘em
Nope, no foot in mouth disease. I’m known for being rather frank but if I say it, it’s probably deemed.
Professor
July 15th, 2009
10:26 am
@DK…I agree with Grandma
@Cee I remember those when I worked at Winn Dixie we had to count that “colorful money” and put rubber bands around it (before T.I. was the rubber band man)….
As for the college students getting them, the gov base it off your income and if you are living off campus with bills etc. and most students are not making a lot of money they qualify. I think it is a good thing for them…
Melo
July 15th, 2009
10:28 am
Proff, i see why uall pple are making 6 figures!
U racking in the obertime!!
Blogging and pretending to wrk till 12 midnite???
Cemeeli
July 15th, 2009
10:29 am
There will be a wood-grill food challenge with Mike LaDuke on Food Network July 19th at 9.
I will have myself in front of the t.v.
Professor
July 15th, 2009
10:30 am
@Melo…you know I am exempt no overtime here.
Demi
July 15th, 2009
10:32 am
(I still to this day don’t know HOW a college student is eligible to get them. But they gave ‘em to her.)
Its base on income…I sent time at “BLANK” college…at the end or beginning of the month. College students need cash you know.
that’s all the hookup info Demi will be giving concerning EBT
lurker
July 15th, 2009
10:33 am
Don’t you just hate being exempt…that’s why I’m up outta here when it’s time….unless something is really pressing and an absolute need, naaah, I’m out as soon as the clock strike.
lovelyliz
July 15th, 2009
10:34 am
Let me try this again:
There there was the time my then roommate was having a party. One of her male friends told me that he loved my big, fat ass. I was mortified I later explained to her her that us white women don’t take that as the compliment it was intended to be.
Cemeeli
July 15th, 2009
10:34 am
Professor I’ma need my son to get an apartment off campus when he goes to college then. Shoot, he goes through more than a good 240 a month for food alone. My BJ’s membership is not olny for gas anymore now when i stop on my way home i get grocery too. Which is so new to me.
Trader Joe’s/WF’s grocery i havta rash out protions to him. That stalk ate all my corn salsa one day, oooohhhh i was so hurt! He apologize but the kid is truly ALWAYS hungry…
M'
July 15th, 2009
10:36 am
I just got my EBT card
Professor
July 15th, 2009
10:37 am
Demi I just knew you was going to hook us up with the EBT.
@lurker for the most part I do not have anything that comes up at the last minute (knock on wood), but yes when it happens I hate it. Also I hate it when I travel for work a few weeks ago I was in the midwest those were 14 hour days at least.
lurker
July 15th, 2009
10:39 am
Professor Also I hate it when I travel for work a few weeks ago I was in the midwest those were 14 hour days at least.
that sux
M'
July 15th, 2009
10:40 am
@Demi
If a college student is eligible for a federal work-study program as a Pell Grant recipient…then they can apply for food stamps…that is what I did when I was in school.
Angie
July 15th, 2009
10:41 am
morning!
AmazonRed™ - a ray of sunshine
July 15th, 2009
10:41 am
Don’t you just hate being exempt…
Hellz naw. I thought I would, but with the economy they are telling the hourly workers that they can’t get no over time.
And I can take long lunches and it not hit my paycheck. There is some relief in knowing that even if you can’t make any more…you can’t make any less either!
Professor (No clouds in my stones)
July 15th, 2009
10:42 am
Cee- I agree, but you might want to let him live on campus his freshman year. Do you think he will let me use that EBT card for a small fee? Nahh he is going buy all the groceries and eat all the food.
Sassy Me...juicy fruit callin' out all fakes :-)
July 15th, 2009
10:45 am
There will be a wood-grill food challenge with Mike LaDuke on Food Network July 19th at 9.
Cameeli I love watching those types of shows….they also have different types of challenges(hamburgers,steaks,bbq,etc.) and I like to see the different types of recipes that people ideate.
Professor (No clouds in my stones)
July 15th, 2009
10:45 am
Lurker when I travel it is grueling…I get off the flight and head to a meeting and from there it keeps going and going. I love to travel, but I hate traveling for business. In fact, I need to go to the northwest, but I keep putting it off.
AmazonRed™ - a ray of sunshine
July 15th, 2009
10:45 am
Hey being the chick that I am I don’t change monikers or throw out words I just blog the truth and use LOL if I am playing.
Professor – You know I can respect that.
Skimming through the posts after “closing” looks like y’all added two extra pages.
Funny how Angie called me a coward, knowing that I was not even on the blog. How…cowardly.
For the record Angie, I’ve met bloggers from on here. I don’t have to come behind the screen for someone like you because I wouldn’t waste any of my free time with someone like you. Recognize the difference.
lurker
July 15th, 2009
10:46 am
ARed Actually, I was referring to Professor working late and not get that extra extra….oh, I’m good with leaving early, long lunches and whatnots, with either not having to make up the time nor using my personal/vacation time or seeing deductions from my check. Okay, let’s say there are pros and cons
Melo
July 15th, 2009
10:47 am
Proff,next time u scheduling travel,lemme know.I be in tow to make it kinda interesting.
I got lots of vac days just 4 ya!
Professor (No clouds in my stones)
July 15th, 2009
10:49 am
@ARed…a nod to you! And, I don’t laugh if it isn’t funny or grin trying to hide stuff in the name of just playing.
Cemeeli
July 15th, 2009
10:51 am
Demi/M’ Okay…See big sis did not explain it back then. I just saw her pull ‘em out at the market when we got grocery while i was visiting. She told me to get what i wanted and i did just that. All snacks though.
Professor My sister live on campus one semester and got a one bedroom apartment (furnished by mom & grandma) She is a spoiled something. But my turn, i scruggled. Yea, my son is a natural jock, i can see him either way (dorm or apartment) but with roomates of course.
Professor (No clouds in my stones)
July 15th, 2009
10:51 am
Melo I am not messing with you! Where is my article?
Professor (No clouds in my stones)
July 15th, 2009
10:53 am
She was living the life Cee!
Cemeeli
July 15th, 2009
10:54 am
oh boy….
Cemeeli
July 15th, 2009
10:56 am
Sassy – Girl i’m all over the Food Network & Iron Chef on Sundays after church. That day they had cow tongue, i was like …”Are you serious?”
Bobby Flay is so serus bout his cooking…I like his concentrating.
lurker
July 15th, 2009
10:59 am
And, I don’t laugh if it isn’t funny or grin trying to hide stuff in the name of just playing.
I sooo cosign this
AmazonRed™ - a ray of sunshine
July 15th, 2009
11:00 am
Okay, let’s say there are pros and cons
I work late too sometimes, and I really don’t need the blog open after 5!
Leggs
July 15th, 2009
11:01 am
@Cee, cow tongue wasn’t tasty to me. I think my mother cooked it 2-3 times and I had it, but after that anytime she made it I went to bed a little hungry!
AmazonRed™ - a ray of sunshine
July 15th, 2009
11:02 am
@ARed…a nod to you! And, I don’t laugh if it isn’t funny or grin trying to hide stuff in the name of just playing.
I mean, I might say “unsavory” things, but at least I say them under one name and one name only. Funny or not. (it’s always funny in my head, lol)
I have forgotten the topic.
Melo
July 15th, 2009
11:03 am
I sent it,check ur box,if not not ur popo over there scrubbed it.
U need pvt mail!
Angie
July 15th, 2009
11:03 am
something happened yesterday evening that i can’t wait to blog about. i rec’d a phone call from someone special. could this be the next chapter in my life? hmmmm. i’m acting all nonchalant about it, cause i tend to get excited too soon. since things seem to make sense now and things are coming together . . . i slept like a baby last night.
to be continued . . .
on topic – if i say it, i mean it. 5% of the time i will apologize for what i said. i wish i can be real with it and not worry about hurting feelings. straight with no vaseline.
Cemeeli
July 15th, 2009
11:03 am
Professor – I think she could of had a life that didn’t require a full apartment freshman year.
Cemeeli
July 15th, 2009
11:06 am
Leggs All the cow ain’t edible. That tongue is one example.
QC
July 15th, 2009
11:07 am
Morning Bloggers….EBT CARDS…Twitter, Facebook…hey DEMI!! Hope you all have a great day!
Melo
July 15th, 2009
11:10 am
CEE,hte tongue is edible altho i dont eat it.
But its a delicasy for some.
Me?? I like those intestines and the tripe plus the cow feet..good stuff!
Cow feet are good for men balls!
Poppa Grande
July 15th, 2009
11:13 am
Cee
I’ma need my son to get an apartment off campus when he goes to college then.
You better hope that Lil Cee doesn’t get an athletic scholarship because he may or may not be able to get that EBT. It just depends on how that hypocritical NCAA views it.
NCAA wouldn’t even let players whose parents were facing foreclosure work to help their parents. So they had to pick between school and work. (Or taking funds under the table which could lead to the school getting sanctions.)
If Lil Cee gets an academic scholarship, NCAA isn’t involved.
Cemeeli
July 15th, 2009
11:14 am
its a delicasy for some. I like those intestines and the tripe plus the cow feet..good stuff!
Cow feet are good
Melo I just threw up a lil bit.
…aint nobody tongue going down my thoat, except that one…
W8©(Roses really smell like boo-boo)
July 15th, 2009
11:15 am
Extra words cause me to lose interest. I mean what I say and say what I mean and I really don’t care who agrees or is offended. I have my own peace and my own state of mind. If you bring mess into my life and those I love I protect that peace at all cost. Do I have tact…nope…do I care..nope. I have love for those that are close to me and have love for me, everyone else is expendable. Recently, I have tried a new approach and let my guard down and watch what I say and I deal with way more “verbal” now than I am accustomed to…phuck that chyt…that doesn’t work for me… Naturally I am mean quiet to myself person who let’s very few people get to know the real me. I will shuck and jive but I keep the inner me for myself and those who are close to me. I am not easy to get along with but oh well…. I do have a small group of good associates and a even smaller group of friends….real talk
AmazonRed™ - a ray of sunshine
July 15th, 2009
11:16 am
Recently, I have tried a new approach and let my guard down and watch what I say and I deal with way more “verbal” now than I am accustomed to…phuck that chyt…
Grace
July 15th, 2009
11:17 am
I am exempt no overtime here – Professor/AmRed I don’t like being exempt. I see it as a way to get more out of me (long hours) and not paying me for it. Although it has it’s perks like long lunches when needed, coming in late sometimes and being flexible. I guess somehow it does balance out.
Professor (No clouds in my stones)
July 15th, 2009
11:18 am
@Cee yep that was a bit much, but there is nothing wrong with being a diva.
@Melo it is a private acct I will check it shortly
@ Ared I agree…one name and one name only is key….
Poppa Grande
July 15th, 2009
11:19 am
Cee
Melo I just threw up a lil bit.
Girl, quit playing. If you’ve eaten beef bologna or beef hot dogs you done eat some of that stuff that Melo posted.
They say beef, but don’t say what part.
The only exception is the Kosher Hot Dogs like the Hebrew National Ones. The Jewish have rules about the parts of meat.