I think the toughest part of dealing with heartbreak is realizing that part of you gets so jaded. After you have given your all in a relationship, you have to actively work on not letting it make you bitter about love. I think there are many wounded souls and broken hearts that probably don’t realize how cold they are toward romance.
It’s what happens when good girls go bad. It’s how bad boys are made, it’s called post-heartbreak behavior. The things you start to do as a direct result of having your heart broken. From dating or sleeping with B-list people you have no future with, to acting cold and ambiguous to anyone who expresses an interest in you.
Instead of taking a break from dating, the walking wounded starts to wreak havoc and cause their own destruction! How do you spot them though? How can you tell when someone is not emotionally open to having a relationship?
Have you ever met someone who was jaded about love and romance, yet still wanted to date around and hook up?
What is your post-break up behavior? Do you go solo for awhile or hop right into the dating scene immediately?
Do you agree with the statement that it is better to have loved and lost then to never have loved at all or is that a myth?