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Defining Moments

It’s been surreal the past 24 hours. When news broke yesterday that Farrah Fawcett and Michael Jackson passed away, I got pensive. I usually become this way around birthdays (mine is Sunday!), just to reflect. However,  growing a year older just as the pop icons of my youth pass away, I definitely begin to recognize my own mortality as much as theirs.

I think we all have defining moments in our lives that shaped us who were are as people. It may have been good or bad, involving love or hate, but it had an impact on us. I think one of my defining moments involving romance is my first heartbreak. When someone I cared about did something unforgivable, I think it transformed my ability to trust.

When you have someone you thought you loved do something horrible to you, it makes you second guess yourself. It was a defining moment that I continue to work through. What’s an experience that’s shaped how you are today?

If you don’t care to share your defining moments, feel free to talk about what’s on your mind. Think of today as a day to reflect, laugh, and appreciate life. Life is beautiful. Life is short.

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Sassy Me...juicy fruit AKA Victoria but I'm also a Thriller :-)

June 26th, 2009
3:08 pm

That’s supposed to be GREAT but you guys know what I mean…okay now I’m out……..

AmazonRed™ - Pretty Young Thang

June 26th, 2009
3:08 pm

Raqi gets what I am saying, too. The reconciliation was a farce

And while I don’t doubt that, I still think he shouldn’t have agreed to it. He’s not the victim here.

Basically, I DON’T have sympathy for him.

Beautiful

June 26th, 2009
3:08 pm

@W8
oh you trippin’ now! smh.

**That is all that is, manipulation.**
he has a duty to respect the marriage. it’s not manipulation. it’s what is expected of him.

Page1908- The Countess

June 26th, 2009
3:09 pm

Yes, Tazzee apparently she is preggers, which is a whole other story lol.

Melo

June 26th, 2009
3:10 pm

Blame lies with both of them – she’s no more the villian here than he is.

thats one thing that baffles me with females.
U neva stick for ur own!! And i wldnt be surprised one of u here is sleeping with the handsome gov,after this! :lol:
Us guys wld be like,”u got caughtman,thats how it goes smetimes.Dont worry about it,leave her alone a lil bit,she be alright! Be more careful next time.
NEED A beer??

Kym-Smooth Criminal eating Varsity for Lunch

June 26th, 2009
3:10 pm

SAY IT AGAIN TAZZEE

I wish someone would warn me. That man is free, white and well over 21..he can go and see who he likes when he likes.. She warned him..oh I must have glanced over that part cause the idea of warning another adult about anything other than”Hey Dude watch out for that tree” is crazy. She warned him. You can ask, you can beg, you might even suggest, but warn. Hell he booked his flight right after that convo.

Page1908- The Countess

June 26th, 2009
3:11 pm

LOL ARed @ 3:08…tell us how you “really” feel lol. I love that “we were on a break” episode.

AmazonRed™ - Pretty Young Thang

June 26th, 2009
3:11 pm

Even though, I am not a parent. I can see it how it could affect him though.

Wah wah. His azz didn’t care. But at the very least, he wasn’t really thinking past his own selfishness at the time.

Beautiful

June 26th, 2009
3:12 pm

@PAGE1908
what’s crack-a-lackin’ this w/e?

and what does 1908 mean?

Tazzee - countdown to August 1 when I can watch NFLN again

June 26th, 2009
3:12 pm

AmRed – I had a Ross and Rachel episode, he got a girl pregnant on that break. Although, based on her delivery date I think he dipped earlier than our break date – or maybe it was the day after

W8©(thoroughbred... I dont play nor hate)

June 26th, 2009
3:13 pm

lol@melo..true true

Page1908- The Countess

June 26th, 2009
3:14 pm

hey Angie. I leave for Orlando in the morning for work, so that’s what i’m doing. what about you? 1908 respresents my sorority.

AmazonRed™ - Pretty Young Thang

June 26th, 2009
3:15 pm

thats one thing that baffles me with females.
U neva stick for ur own!!

Yeah, I’m a little surprised at the sides too.

Your man cheats on him and says he wants the relationship to work. You tell him you need time and space to think and tells him he can’t see his hoe.

And it’s wrong for her to ask it…let alone EXPECT IT?

Sad.

Raqi

June 26th, 2009
3:15 pm

Okay this is my last one. I was upstairs when this came to me.

Your boss tells you that he/she does not want you there anymore. However you all may can work something out later. But while you wait to see you will not be allowed to work there, you will not get paid and you are not allowed to go find employment any where else.

Now who is willing to accept those terms.

Okay I got stuff to do. I won’t be back. LOL

Ralph

June 26th, 2009
3:16 pm

I read this blog from time to time and I really think abc is a clown. This is the first time that I’ve commented and I feel compelled to really let the world know this. I know you’ll think of something really witty to say as a comeback, and thats cool. You’re always talking from this perceived perspective of wisdom when you’re really just a loser that blogs all day because you probably have a boring a$$ life. You’re a clown. Oh yeah have a good weekend everyone and rest in peace MJ

Melo

June 26th, 2009
3:17 pm

and you certainly shouldn’t be getting azz from the person that was a reason for the “break” in the first place

hes an actor then coz what u say here is the absolute truth.
U dont even need to go to argentina to go break up with a hoe that knows u married.
But if u continue phluccking on the side but asking for forgivenes at home,u proly been playing this game for long and proly there is more we dont know about his pimping.
Hes too phine(face wise) a politician for his age just to be phluckking one woman in SC,i know that state,lots of beautiful white chis! :lol:

AmazonRed™ - Pretty Young Thang

June 26th, 2009
3:17 pm

Should have read “your man cheats on you”

Poppa Grande

June 26th, 2009
3:17 pm

Where did I say that I have sympathy for him. He’s a grown azz man. He can make bad decision like we all do.

You asked a question and answer it from a male perspective.

Cemeeli

June 26th, 2009
3:17 pm

Tazzeeee Mae Gal, if you don’t stop calling folks “sucka”! Lol :)

How about you get yourself over to a Varsity this weekend cause i’m not sure how you still have not been!

Page1908- The Countess

June 26th, 2009
3:17 pm

lmaooooooooo @ Ralph.

East Point's Own

June 26th, 2009
3:18 pm

Oh, ok.. I never went to Epcot… just MGM & Disney WOrld…

Kym-Smooth Criminal eating Varsity for Lunch

June 26th, 2009
3:19 pm

Amazon why is she the whore? Seriously this is the crap that gets me. He’s a dog the woman is a slut or whore. Naww this is between him and ole girl. Ms. Argentina should not be the fall gal for this.

AmazonRed™ - Pretty Young Thang

June 26th, 2009
3:19 pm

U dont even need to go to argentina to go break up with a hoe that knows u married.

:lol: *hollers* :lol:

PG says they might not have had sex. :lol:

Maybe they just spooned.

Beautiful

June 26th, 2009
3:19 pm

since MICHEAL had so many looks over the years, what’s your favorite?

mine is the BILLIE JEAN look.

Tazzee - countdown to August 1 when I can watch NFLN again

June 26th, 2009
3:19 pm

Melo – I’m sorry but I’m not supporting anything that’s wrong. Now if it was my girl, I wouldn’t bust her out in public but I would let her know she was dead a-double-snakes wrong.

Page1908- The Countess

June 26th, 2009
3:20 pm

Cee- this is my 19th month in Atlanta and I have not gone to the Varsity for the same reasons Tazzee stated lol. I have a weak stomach and having the bubble guts does not sound like fun lol. *shrugs*

AmazonRed™ - Pretty Young Thang

June 26th, 2009
3:21 pm

You asked a question and answer it from a male perspective.

Um…all I asked is if we could have a topic on sloppy pimpin. It was directed at WiseDiva.

You’re the one who wanted us to remind us he was “human” like we somehow forgot.

Page1908- The Countess

June 26th, 2009
3:21 pm

lmao @ “maybe they just spooned”! lolol CTFU. totally!

Tazzee - countdown to August 1 when I can watch NFLN again

June 26th, 2009
3:21 pm

Cemeeli – I told you, I’z skurred, LOL. I don’t know what’s worse, the fact that I haven’t been to The Varsity or the fact that I’ve never watch Friday (or any of the sequels) in their entirety.

Page1908- The Countess

June 26th, 2009
3:22 pm

lmao at ARed and PG

Beautiful

June 26th, 2009
3:23 pm

lol @ RALPH!

@PAGE1908
kel and i are going to a WWE concert on sunday. i still haven’t told him yet. he is gonna die! hehehe.

y’all should have seen him play bb yesterday. the boi got skills. he is standing 6′2 now.

AmazonRed™ - Pretty Young Thang

June 26th, 2009
3:25 pm

he is standing 6′2 now.

For Real’s son is 7′4″!

:P @ For Real. :lol:

kimmie(Sheree)-Her Royal Highness The Princess

June 26th, 2009
3:28 pm

U neva stick for ur own!!

Why do we need to stick up for some rich swiss woman who’s actions don’t have jack to do with our lives? In fact, neither one of them need taking up for in my book. We don’t know what’s going on behind closed doors but we know what’s going on in the news. And they both look like stupid hypocrites. And neither give a flip about their kids, otherwise they would not put them thru all this mess. Air your dirty laundry at home.

And SC gov is not handsome, with that fake tan and is a class A punk!

Cemeeli

June 26th, 2009
3:28 pm

Page – I was responding to Tazzee because she has stated on here before that she has been slated to go, just hadn’t made it there yet.

Not refuting the grease content in some of the food.

Okay boo-boo? :)

Tazzee - countdown to August 1 when I can watch NFLN again

June 26th, 2009
3:29 pm

Let me just state that I am one that believes if the issues are that bad then divorce, terminate the relationship. But I also know that if I’m controlling and doing things to intentionally hurt my husband that there will be some consequences.

I think the entire affair was wrong – I’m just saying I can see where dude is coming from based on what appears to have happened. And as far as Mrs. Stanford – there’s nothing to ’stick by’ concerning this situation.

That’s like saying if I’m cussing my husband out when he gets in every day and treating him like a dog, and he subsequently finds comfort elsewhere that I have no blame in this situation. I just don’t think it’s all his fault. Now his hypocritical actions in condemning other adulterers – that’s another story.

Page1908- The Countess

June 26th, 2009
3:29 pm

LOL @ the names Baron Von W8 and Kimmie Her Royal Highness…lol. You see I am The Countess!

Page1908- The Countess

June 26th, 2009
3:33 pm

LOL I know Cee, I was just saying that I haven’t been yet, either.

AmazonRed™ - Pretty Young Thang

June 26th, 2009
3:34 pm

See that’s where Carrie Bradshaw messed up. She wanted to stay friends with Big, even after she cheated with him while she was with Aiden. If you are gonna stay in your relationship and work it out, you can’t be kicking it with the folks you were hoing with.

I watch too much TV. :lol:

Cemeeli

June 26th, 2009
3:34 pm

Tazzee Be cautious. But the frosted orange is a cooling treat. If i had remembered i would have invited you for a swing by last night while we were in that area. I went home the North Ave. route..not traffic. Varsity stays open late. But it’s been those GaTech robberies in that area, so naaaaahhhh…later for that.

I’m still laughing at my earlier correlation to Hamilton.

Poppa Grande

June 26th, 2009
3:35 pm

AR

Maybe they just spooned.

That is a possibility. I don’t think that he went to Argentina to break up with her. But, it doesn’t mean that they had sex that time. All he said that he’d been unfaithful. He didn’t say when.

AmazonRed™ - Pretty Young Thang

June 26th, 2009
3:37 pm

But, it doesn’t mean that they had sex that time.

PG – Wake up dude. He lied to a host of people about his wearabouts. He got some tail. Let’s be real.

Baron Von W8©(thoroughbred... I dont play nor hate)

June 26th, 2009
3:38 pm

Being unfaithful is not always a sexual act.

“What you know about eggs?”

Page1908- The Countess

June 26th, 2009
3:39 pm

lol it seems to me, ARed, that if this was a regular average couple and the blog women said “well, maybe dude just went to ole girls house and didn’t have s3x”, the blog dudes would have probably said something like “yeah right! women need to get a grip…dude definitely hit it” lol.

Baron Von W8©(thoroughbred... I dont play nor hate)

June 26th, 2009
3:39 pm

Enter your comments here

Melo

June 26th, 2009
3:40 pm

Melo – I’m sorry but I’m not supporting anything that’s wrong

this lady hasnt done anything from what we hear ion the reports,just pure speculation.
Damn u chics,this woman was cheated on…..see hopw us guys give cheated wives sympathy,then end up sleeping with them like Govenor did to aregentinian chic?

Damn, im really feeling Queen today!
Im go home,have dinner,wait for her to finsh dressing up and rock that sexxy summer dress that lets her booty waaay out there and her straddling model legs look long,then we head to the Micjael Jckson tributes at the club,velvet or Haristons,wl see.
I just wanna hold her near and dear,merry on gin and sprite and let her drive us home.
Funny,i aint even in the mood for sexx,so we just go home and crush after the party!
Unless im poked ofcourse.Neva refuse a biaaatch’s advances in bed lest she thinks u getting old and lame!

AmazonRed™ - Pretty Young Thang

June 26th, 2009
3:41 pm

:lol: @ Page.

PG is definitely ready for the courtroom. :lol:

AmazonRed™ - Pretty Young Thang

June 26th, 2009
3:42 pm

Only you melo. :lol:

Enjoy your bride this weekend. :lol:

Melo

June 26th, 2009
3:42 pm

watch too much TV

i was gonna asking u about those characters,thanx.
The names sounded tvish tho!

Page1908- The Countess

June 26th, 2009
3:43 pm

lol ARed, he definitely is, I can tell!

Cemeeli

June 26th, 2009
3:44 pm

“What you know about eggs?”

What do YOU know about eggs?!?!?!

lol