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One size fits all

A little tip to the men: women like to feel as if she is special. Yes, we know that it can be annoying to you at times, but it is the truth. If a woman is dating a man and he doesn’t make her feel special, chances are he will lose her interest.

One of the ways we like to feel special is knowing that the man has put some real effort into getting to know her. Then doing thoughtful things that shows he, in fact, paid attention. It’s all really simple, actually. If you have some routine that you use that has worked on previous women (and by worked, I mean it got you laid), it doesn’t mean that your object of desire will like the same things.

I think some women can tell when a guy is going through the motion, using his same tired wooing techniques. Some of which are horrendous and don’t work. One size fits all does not apply to dating all the time. Mix it up, listen to her likes, and let her know that you think she is special by her special, customized treatment you give her.

Ladies, do you think single men use the one size fits all approach to dating and relationships? How can you tell when that is happening? What would you do if you noticed a guy doing this? Do you try to switch things up when you are seeing a guy?

Guys, why do some men use one size fits all? The same lines, routine, dating destinations, etc. Is it because it works so well? Perhaps it is just easier? If you meet a wonderful woman that you want to impress, do you make more efforts to make her feel special? Have you ever noticed a woman who tries to use the one size fits all approach with you? How did you know?

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Page1908

June 25th, 2009
4:24 pm

lmao @ big piece of chicken. My dad always got the bigger Chimichanga. lol

Poppa Grande

June 25th, 2009
4:25 pm

Long Beach is the one. My friends live in LBC.

Melo

June 25th, 2009
4:26 pm

do you need the actual Jet-Skis?

yes, sir

AmazonRed™ - in SC signing the anti-sloppy pimpin bill

June 25th, 2009
4:27 pm

My dad always got the bigger Chimichanga. lol

:lol: HA!

PG – Sorry Roscoes disappointed you.

Page – I’ll have to check that group out.

Page1908

June 25th, 2009
4:27 pm

LOL PG, see I knew it. I made the mistake of going to that one once, and no thanks. People (tourists) get all hyped about Roscoes when natives know the best one is the one on Pico.

Cemeeli

June 25th, 2009
4:28 pm

ARed/Page I would love to got to Venice Beach for a vacation and spend a whole weekend out there. Do they allow grilling on Cali beaches? Just certain ones?

AmazonRed™ - in SC signing the anti-sloppy pimpin bill

June 25th, 2009
4:28 pm

Oh, PG, you went to the Long Beach one. Yeah, you got gypped. I’ve never even been to that one, everyone tells you its a waste.

Page, I’ve been to the Hollywood one all of once! I grew up within walking distance of the one on Pico.

-W8©(thoroughbred... I dont play nor hate)

June 25th, 2009
4:29 pm

@Melo- If you have a truck call these people
770-932-3366.
If you need to rent them at the lake call these people
770-887-2690

West Point Lake is cheaper and it has cleaner water if you need a secondary spot

Kym-has confronted the issue and is not sure what the next step should be.

June 25th, 2009
4:29 pm

@W8 why are you laughing at me? The State Fair is an event..this is not that parking lot stuff over at Turner field. You talking about a big steak I am telling you..the fatted calf was killed. We ran out of money last year..I am going to start my state fair fund next month that way by October I will be ready for the weekend. You can bring your city ways along if you want..but errr you might want to leave those gators at the house. Oh and UGA fans are all over down there.

Cemeeli

June 25th, 2009
4:30 pm

@ W8 – Awww man you ain’t ready. Mine is so good no one ever wants sauce on their grilled meat.

Page1908

June 25th, 2009
4:30 pm

No, Cee, you can’t grill only in the desigated areas. Venice Beach is “ok” more of a tourist spot though.

AmazonRed™ - in SC signing the anti-sloppy pimpin bill

June 25th, 2009
4:31 pm

I would love to got to Venice Beach for a vacation and spend a whole weekend out there. Do they allow grilling on Cali beaches? Just certain ones?

Cemeeli – Cali beaches are good to visit, but they kinda suck. The water is cold and gray. But you have to experience it. One of my favorite beaches was in Clearwater, FL and if that doesn’t impress you, you can see what I’m working with in CA. :lol:

Come to think of it, I’ve never really seen folks grill on the beach, so it’s probably NOT allowed. But I do know they have designated grill areas at some. But the grills are provided I think.

Page1908

June 25th, 2009
4:33 pm

LOL ARed. The water, typically south of Orange County, get polluted like every summer because of the backflow of gack from Mexico lol. Gotta love the pacific ocean! lol.

AmazonRed™ - in SC signing the anti-sloppy pimpin bill

June 25th, 2009
4:33 pm

I go to the state fair every year… in NY. :lol:

Tazzee - countdown to August 1 when I can watch NFLN again

June 25th, 2009
4:34 pm

I went to this gourmet burger joint the last time I was in Cali – can’t remember the name though. It was good. I wasn’t too impressed with In-N-Out though.

Kym – I’ll be your detox partner, I can complain to you about how hungry I am and save my guy the heartache :lol: I’ll have to check the dates of the fair against the Falcons schedule and get back with you.

Cemeeli

June 25th, 2009
4:35 pm

Thanks Page/ARed. I’m taking the kid to see his kindred out there one day.

We ARE country, you can grill on top of the squirrels out here, AND grill the squirrels, and no one says a word.

-W8©(thoroughbred... I dont play nor hate)

June 25th, 2009
4:36 pm

@Kym- It will be a cold day in hell before I own/wear a pair of gators…lmao..I love those fairs..lol..I think the State Fair was a blog off topic a few weeks ago and folks planned on going..lol

@Ce- Bring it ROOKIE!!!

Page1908

June 25th, 2009
4:36 pm

Tazzee! Not impressed with In-N-Out Burger? Come on! lol *shrugs*

Kym-has confronted the issue and is not sure what the next step should be.

June 25th, 2009
4:36 pm

@Tazz that will work. Don’t let the Fakecons keep you from the fun. (What am I saying I know I am not going to miss a game the Steelers play on TV)

Poppa Grande

June 25th, 2009
4:37 pm

Well, we were on the way to visit the friend and he wasn’t home yet from work. So, we stopped when we saw one near his house.

We went to this place in Hollywood called Pizzeria Mozza. It was pretty good.

-W8©(thoroughbred... I dont play nor hate)

June 25th, 2009
4:38 pm

The Cloister @ Sea Island Yall need to drive there for a mini summer vacation

AmazonRed™ - in SC signing the anti-sloppy pimpin bill

June 25th, 2009
4:39 pm

The water, typically south of Orange County, get polluted like every summer because of the backflow of gack from Mexico lol. Gotta love the pacific ocean! lol.

Page – Yes, that’s quite disgusting. I don’t really recall ever really swimming in the ocean out there. Good thing there is plenty to do on Venice and Santa Monica beaches.

I think you asked if I went to Dorsey. Nope. I went to the beach school. ;) So we could walk down to the beach after school and it was nice because it was more residential then tourist. We would watch Baywatch being filmed as we drove in on PCH.

Poppa Grande

June 25th, 2009
4:40 pm

We also saw a taping of the Price is Right. I didn’t think that they taped in the Summer, but they tape until June.

I think that it is still the only one that I’ve seen with Drew Carey.

Cemeeli

June 25th, 2009
4:41 pm

lol @ Page saying Venice is touristy. Sis I am a tourist if i visit! The i’ve been out west bet not to the beaches.

:)

Page1908

June 25th, 2009
4:42 pm

LOL ARed. Yeah, I am picky about the beaches I swim in on the west coast. Ok, so you went to Palisades or Santa Monica? I don’t know why i thought u went to dorsey or st. bernard’s lol. oh that’s right, you know some dudes that went to sdsu with me. lol.

AmazonRed™ - in SC signing the anti-sloppy pimpin bill

June 25th, 2009
4:42 pm

We went to this place in Hollywood called Pizzeria Mozza. It was pretty good.

PG – Crap. If you were in Hollywood, you should have gotten a hot dog from Pinks. Every time I go home, I stand in that line for 70-90 minutes. You have no other choice if you want one! Even the celebs have to tell their drivers to get out and stand in the line. :lol:

Tazzee - countdown to August 1 when I can watch NFLN again

June 25th, 2009
4:43 pm

Alright folks I need to shut it down so I can get out of here by 5pm. Have a great evening all!

Cemeeli and Professor, I’ll see you ladies at the concert tonight.

Page1908

June 25th, 2009
4:43 pm

PG that picca place is not that good lol. man you really got gypped lol.

LOL Cee oh yeah you are a tourist lol.

PG I have been on the Price is Right 4 times. Once I did make it to contestants row, but i didn’t win lol

Cemeeli

June 25th, 2009
4:43 pm

I’ll be checking Sea Island out. Jekyell Island is fly too.

Page1908

June 25th, 2009
4:44 pm

I *heart* Pinks!!

-W8©(thoroughbred... I dont play nor hate)

June 25th, 2009
4:44 pm

@Ce- it’s real grown out there..I like it

Page1908

June 25th, 2009
4:44 pm

picca= pizza lmao

Page1908

June 25th, 2009
4:45 pm

I need to get my swerve on.

Poppa Grande

June 25th, 2009
4:45 pm

AR

If you were in Hollywood, you should have gotten a hot dog from Pinks.

I saw that line.

The travel channel had a special about hot dogs, hamburgers, etc around the country. Pinks was one the featured spots. Of course, the Varsity was featured for the Southeast.

I am picky about hot dogs. I usually want to cook my own.

Kym-has confronted the issue and is not sure what the next step should be.

June 25th, 2009
4:45 pm

@W8 ohh just checking you seem to be acting brand new too.

Cemeeli

June 25th, 2009
4:46 pm

I’m will only be a ROOKIE once. But that’s not on the grill…

AmazonRed™ - in SC signing the anti-sloppy pimpin bill

June 25th, 2009
4:47 pm

lol @ Page saying Venice is touristy. Sis I am a tourist if i visit! The i’ve been out west bet not to the beaches.

Yes Cemeeli, you have to go, even though after you go you’ll say “Venice Beach is not all that!” But you have to do it to say you’ve been.

I can’t believe Tazzee wasn’t impressed by In-N-Out. I want to fly her out there for a do-over!

Page, my sister went to Bernards.

Melo

June 25th, 2009
4:47 pm

Poppa Grande

June 25th, 2009
4:47 pm

I actually like that the pizza place. I am a plain jane kind of Pizza eater anyway. They had what I wanted and how I wanted it. The price wasn’t bad. Especially considering that we were in Hollywood.

-W8©(thoroughbred... I dont play nor hate)

June 25th, 2009
4:48 pm

Okay yall be easy…time to make the doughnuts!!

AmazonRed™ - in SC signing the anti-sloppy pimpin bill

June 25th, 2009
4:49 pm

I am picky about hot dogs. I usually want to cook my own.

PG – I’m picky of my time. If I’m gonna stand in a line for an hour and a half with total strangers for a hot dog, it’s worth it.

You’d like it!

Poppa Grande

June 25th, 2009
4:52 pm

Kym

BTW, I am not acting brand new. The roads that she grew up on JUST got a name about 10 years ago other than Route and a number. The roads are still dirt. A good summer rain makes for a bumpy ride. You have to wait for the county to scrape the road smooth again.
Tara Boulevard has been paved as long as I remember.

I visited down there a couple weeks during each summer. I got up at the butt crack of dawn and get eggs from the hens. Fed the chickens, turkeys, hogs, and such. Deal with that mean azz rooster at 5AM.

Poppa Grande

June 25th, 2009
4:55 pm

We spent only a limited amount of time in Hollywood. My wife is a NYer and she was feening for some pizza and that was close to where we were. It wasn’t a NY slice, but we knew where we were.

I will say though. I’ve never seen so many Mexican Eateries in one place in my life. (I’ve been the Mexico numerous time..lol) They were like liquor stores in the hood. One on every corner.

AmazonRed™ - in SC signing the anti-sloppy pimpin bill

June 25th, 2009
4:57 pm

I will say though. I’ve never seen so many Mexican Eateries in one place in my life.

Yes…I sincerely miss Mexican food here. ATL ain’t doing it.

Why do you think Page and I love TACOS! :lol:

I miss a good taco stand!

Page1908

June 25th, 2009
4:59 pm

LOL! I *heart* tacos! (and chimichangas, burritos, quesadillas, chorizo, etc.) lol

AmazonRed™ - in SC signing the anti-sloppy pimpin bill

June 25th, 2009
5:01 pm

Wise Diva

June 25th, 2009
5:05 pm

Have a fantastic evening blog family :)