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Where is your label?

Sexual orientation can be a touchy topic among single people on the dating scene. Some people want to know immediately; some try to guess, while others make a fool of themselves with assumptions. Do you think it is rude and impolite to inquire about sexual orientation?

I am a pretty friendly person so a lot of times I like to get clarification about whether I am engaging in friendly chat with a stranger or if we are checking each other out for potential romance, number exchange, or whatever. I have simply asked outright. Not in a malicious way or to offend, I just put it out there so I can get clarity: Do you date women, men, or both?

Do you ask people their orientation when you first meet them? Have you ever been asked the “which team are you playing for” type of question? How did you react?

I have known women who consider themselves bisexual. I am not sure if it means anything, but they currently are seeking/are in relationships with men. Their attraction for women is still there and they openly tell men about their past experiences and it does not seem to impede them.

Guys, what do you think about women who have had relationships with both genders? Could you see yourself in a serious relationship with one?

Ladies, if a man admitted to having prior experiences with other men, is that an immediate turn off for you? Do you feel comfortable discussing this type of thing with someone you are getting to know?

What do you think about sexual labels: straight, gay, bisexual..etc. Are they necessary or not important?

Touchy topic, so let’s keep the discussion adult and clean.

864 comments Add your comment

Poppa Grande

June 24th, 2009
4:22 pm

Cee

Now forwarding Mrs. G the EPT since you burned all the old school

While you are joking, she did take an EPT over the weekend. It all came back negative.

Her monthly bill was little late but it has arrived.

-W8©(thoroughbred... I dont play nor hate)

June 24th, 2009
4:23 pm

Atleast you know where you live..and knowing is half of the battle

Melo

June 24th, 2009
4:23 pm

Tmac- Thx for the compliment! When can I get those McDonald’s coupons from you?-CAM

you also believe I work at Mcdonalds too ha?! what a moron-TMAC

Tmac,hw u gonna call a lady,..moron??? ha!
That dont sound right.

Blah,u answering my qstion or not??

bs trying to get to the puddy w/o getting to even know the woman first
Every man that hollas has a horizontal desire.Why do females always want to make it look hard,winding and long drawn out?? Getting puddy is the strongest sign a man wants to know u.
Men appreciate ladies who can handle the truth,str8 up.

Page1908

June 24th, 2009
4:23 pm

Spoiled Lioness- Been Keeping It 100 Since Birth!

June 24th, 2009
4:24 pm

Melo- That fool is just waving his rainbow flag to us.. That’s all

THE INFAMOUS DK

June 24th, 2009
4:24 pm

Swing Down sweet chariot and let me ride
Swing down I wanna ride
Swing down I wanna ride
Swing down I wanna ride
Swing down I wanna ride
I can feel the mothership
I can feel the presence of the mothership
I can feel the mothership is somewhere around
feels like the mothership is getting ready to some down
Swing down I wanna ride
Swing down I wanna ride

For Real

June 24th, 2009
4:24 pm

PG/abc: The Patriot Act is just plain wrong and is an assault on the Constitution. Gore vs Bush the highest court in the land set a precedent to kill “one man one vote”

Cafe: So are you saying you couldn’t decide not to be gay? If you did what would happen to you? Just curious….

Kym: No, unlike abc I believe some women are capable of telling the truth but all women believe they put forth more effort in a relationship.

Dan

June 24th, 2009
4:25 pm

@abc

It’s never about convincing me of anything.

If you have a case, with facts, make it as I have made mine and we go from there.

But I’m headed to the crilla, so we can debate that at another time perhaps.

@abc/PG

If Americans weren’t fat, intellectually lazy, there would have been riots in the street for Bush v. Gore.

But there was shopping and eating to be done.

“Who really cares who the President is?”

Cemeeli

June 24th, 2009
4:25 pm

I’m taking this John Legend right with me to the pool for about and hour today.

Chicken wings anyone?

Tazzee - countdown to NFL season

June 24th, 2009
4:26 pm

Cemeeli – I’ll take some lemon pepper ones – with fries please TYVM

Leggs (Karyn)

June 24th, 2009
4:27 pm

“Getting puddy is the strongest sign a man wants to know u.” What a crock!

Cafe

June 24th, 2009
4:28 pm

@For real – yes – that’s what I’m saying and nothing has happened to me. I have not been sexually abused, or abused at all. I grew up in a very loving accepting environment etc… I’ve been attracted to women since the age of 4. I did try to date guys (dating=no sex) for about 6 months but I just couldn’t do it as it’s just not who I am.

Professor

June 24th, 2009
4:28 pm

I was going to try to catch up, but never mind that is too much.

Cee, do you have lemon pepper wings…my weakness?

Is Melo still here?

-W8©(thoroughbred... I dont play nor hate)

June 24th, 2009
4:29 pm

@Ce- you still talking..lol

Cemeeli

June 24th, 2009
4:29 pm

Dang, what does it feel like to do that EPT? lol…i’m teasing ya’ now cause i know ya’ll were sitting and waiting on that thing to change like a kid waiting to see what’s on his report card.

PoopaG

Was you nervous? I love it! Auuwwww….Won’t ya’ll just gon’ and get pregnant! Whatcha’ waiting on?

Poppa Grande

June 24th, 2009
4:29 pm

abc

. What would have happened if Americans had protested election fraud the way Iranians currently are?

Americans would get a little bit of the Elian Gonzalez treatment. Gov’t would act in the necessary fashion to get the desired result. It may not go as far as invading people’s houses without warrants, but warrants could be drawn up somehow for those planning to “overthrow” (as they would probably write) the gov’t.

We talk about Bush violating the Constitution, but Abraham Lincoln did his share of violating the Constitution. It is justified by saying that he was preserving the Union. That is what leads me to the paragraph above.

AmazonRed™ - Toning ↓ my sexy...

June 24th, 2009
4:29 pm

Getting puddy is the strongest sign a man wants to know u.

It’s the strongest sign that a man wants puddy. Half the time you don’t even want to know our names.

Try again!

Spoiled Lioness- Been Keeping It 100 Since Birth!

June 24th, 2009
4:29 pm

I wonder if people know when they are a H.A.M.?

mytw♥cents...la di da di

June 24th, 2009
4:30 pm

CUTIE Are you flirtin’ with danger? I’m just reading bits n pieces but sounds like your kinda pastime, you minx.

Jamoca

June 24th, 2009
4:30 pm

….Cee, I told you! Jamoca now saying to herself…”it’s no wonder PoppaG did not reject the baby dust I sprinkled over to him and the Mrs. on yesstidaay” …she know checks to make sure the leftover babydust (for Cee n’ Mistah) is where she last hid it —>inside of her little purple Crown Royale pouch

Dan I know that I’m late …but I did not fully understand your question posted to me, on the 7th page. What do you mean “how will I accept it” ?…you mind elaborating for me?

Rasa in my best New Yawk accent…”you in da jungle baby!” Lmao

-W8©(thoroughbred... I dont play nor hate)

June 24th, 2009
4:30 pm

Get the mind the puddy will follow

Cafe

June 24th, 2009
4:30 pm

@For real – I can not imagine NOT being a lesbian. It’s who I am and it’s all I know. What would happen to you if you decided not to be straight? Or is that NOT who you are?

Cemeeli

June 24th, 2009
4:30 pm

Oh – Was i ‘pose to be hushin’ up?

You ‘tol me to get in the back.

Beautiful

June 24th, 2009
4:30 pm

**What a crock!** here, here!

**“Getting puddy is the strongest sign a man wants to know u.”**

negro please!

Poppa Grande

June 24th, 2009
4:31 pm

Cee

Was you nervous?

No. Whatever happens, happens. We knew the possible consequences before doing the act.

Professor

June 24th, 2009
4:31 pm

Wow Café…I am sitting here thinking I would have been freaked out if a little girl gave me (I am a girl) the eye in kindergarten. I used to slap the boys around for looking at me…

-W8©(thoroughbred... I dont play nor hate)

June 24th, 2009
4:31 pm

What is H.A.M.?

Beautiful

June 24th, 2009
4:32 pm

**Get the mind the puddy will follow** TRUTH, is that you?

Jamoca

June 24th, 2009
4:33 pm

DK – I’m hollaring at your latest selection —> Swing Low, sweet chariot??? Lmao Aw heyal, you’ve been cuttin’ up all day!

SexyCool - Mad at TMac

June 24th, 2009
4:33 pm

TMac – Boy, you know you had me on that McD’s ish that day, hook, line and sinker. (Giving you the mean mug). :d

AmazonRed™ - Toning ↓ my sexy...

June 24th, 2009
4:33 pm

Get the mind the puddy will follow

:lol:

Though telling a woman straight up that you want sex will get you points for honesty. But that ain’t enough to get the panties (at least for most of us…)

-W8©(thoroughbred... I dont play nor hate)

June 24th, 2009
4:33 pm

@Ce- why you so hungry..we just left Zestos

Poppa Grande

June 24th, 2009
4:34 pm

Cee

Chicken wings and the pool? Don’t you know that you have to wait before swimming? j/p

Cemeeli

June 24th, 2009
4:35 pm

Tazzee – You know I know you like lemon pepper! Sis please!

Cee sitting across the table from the waiter and Tazzee says in her Atlanta slangish “Lemme get 10 Medium wings with blue cheese and celery, no fries” looking as Miss Tazzee and saying in her innervoice “My girl love her some lemon pepper” Watch dis?

Waiter: And you maam?

Tazzee: Lemme get 10 as well, but i want Lemon Pepper.

Cee InnerVoice: Chic, you shole know what you be talking ’bout, that’s why i like talking to you.

THE INFAMOUS DK

June 24th, 2009
4:35 pm

A real dude understands that the poon is secondary. We gone have some mind sex, so when I finally lay hands on you, it will be like a bootlegg preacher healing ya. I gonna speak to your soul a little to see what makes you tick.

Leggs (Karyn)

June 24th, 2009
4:35 pm

H.A.M.? Does that stand for Horny Arse Monkey?

Jamoca

June 24th, 2009
4:35 pm

Cee – what kind of drank ya’ got to chase down those wangs? (no pun) LOL

AmazonRed™ - Toning ↓ my sexy...

June 24th, 2009
4:37 pm

hot azz mess, folks

-W8©(thoroughbred... I dont play nor hate)

June 24th, 2009
4:37 pm

Though telling a woman straight up that you want sex will get you points for honesty. But that ain’t enough to get the panties (at least for most of us…)

Who just wants sex nowadays?

THE INFAMOUS DK

June 24th, 2009
4:37 pm

Also a real dude knows he can get sex when he cant eat.. See when you dont put some much importance on the sex aspect it kinda just falls into your lap literally and figuratively.

Jamoca

June 24th, 2009
4:37 pm

Demi, mayne …where are you? I’ve got a request…

Beautiful

June 24th, 2009
4:38 pm

@INFAMOUS
your 4:35 is wassup! *wink*

Kym-may still be under the effects of the Texas Gold-nawww

June 24th, 2009
4:38 pm

Well for all my apparent “gay-bashing” (insert eye rolling here) today.

The Source has saw fit to bless me with a free ticket to the America I AM exhibit at the Civic Center. So I have to decide what day I am going to take my happy hetro ass over there.

AmazonRed™ - Toning ↓ my sexy...

June 24th, 2009
4:38 pm

Who just wants sex nowadays

W8 – Apparently the guys I’ve been attracting lately, in my heels and short skirts!

-W8©(thoroughbred... I dont play nor hate)

June 24th, 2009
4:39 pm

@DK- You are telling to much man shhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh..these chicks are going to stop thinking that we actually care about what they are saying..shhhhhhhhhh

Spoiled Lioness- Been Keeping It 100 Since Birth!

June 24th, 2009
4:39 pm

-W8©(thoroughbred... I dont play nor hate)

June 24th, 2009
4:40 pm

@Ared- well thats different…lol…

Beautiful

June 24th, 2009
4:40 pm

**Who just wants sex nowadays?** not i said the cat!

Cemeeli

June 24th, 2009
4:40 pm

PoppaG I ain’t swimming, i’m dipping. lol

Jamoca – You know i likes a Arnold Palmer. But with wings i’d get a Sprite.

Kym-may still be under the effects of the Texas Gold-nawww

June 24th, 2009
4:40 pm

Please no sex talk I am debating something right now..