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Free to be me

There are certain relationship milestones that women look forward to. We’re sentimental enough to relish the one year anniversary. We get giddy at the house key exchange. It’s something in our DNA that loves when a relationship reaches the next phase. What we – well, what I don’t look forward to is when our guys let it all hang out, literally.

The burping, farting, dirty jokes, or going to the bathroom in front of us. It is a romance killer sometimes. Why, I’m not sure. I remember when a guy used the bathroom at my house with the door ajar. We weren’t even to date number three! Perhaps I just prefer to keep the mystery as long as possible, but what’s wrong with that?

Ladies, at what point do you let your lady guard down? When do you feel that you are free to be “regular” around your man. When you are comfortable with a guy, do you still think it is important to retain a little of the spice that first caught his eye?

Guys, do you really notice when your girl has become comfortable around you? Do you like it when it gets to this point? How soon do you let down your guard? Are you pretty much the same as when you first meet her? Is it a turn off if you see your woman doing “human” things like burping?

Have you ever dated someone and felt that you weren’t really free to be yourself?

How much “free to be me” do you think we can really even handle in relationships?

679 comments Add your comment

Cemeeli

June 22nd, 2009
11:52 am

Is Truth okay? hmmph.

Leggs (Karyn)

June 22nd, 2009
11:52 am

@swiss, I pretty much knew you weren’t talking about all out tongue thrusting. Thought you meant playing on the perimeter of her honey pot. Still, it was funny. And, that rhyme made matters worse!

BTW, if anyone partakes in that and comes up with blood all over their mouth, SHE’S the one that doesn’t need to be engaging in sexual activity if her flow is that heavy. I’m just saying….

East Point's Own

June 22nd, 2009
11:53 am

Ladies How’s this for an answer… there is no tissue dispenser beside the urinals in men’s bathrooms… so wiping is not even an option…LoL shaking is the method of choice…

AmazonRed™ - off the hook!

June 22nd, 2009
11:53 am

Not only do I use wipes after I use the bathroom, but I use ones with witch hazel for extra cleanliness. A guy shouldn’t be turned off by being with me after I pee.

Cuz apparently after he pees, all I get is a couple of shakes. Now which one of us should REALLY be grossed out!

i'm swiss (aka Buckshot Prior)

June 22nd, 2009
11:54 am

“Question- Since we are sort of on the topic of sucking things.. Do any of yall suck toes? I don’t but just curious”

Um, do I even need to respond? I think we all know my answer to this one already… :lol:

Cemeeli

June 22nd, 2009
11:55 am

Tazzee – I got “Epiphany” on CD finally!

Demi

June 22nd, 2009
11:56 am

lion…LOL…I clean behind myself after I take a leak…(never in a public room though)…I am use to hear a woman pee…no biggie for me…besides, wang will be wash before any slobbin start…

Spoiled Lioness- Referring My Man To Nitpickers Anonymous

June 22nd, 2009
11:56 am

Sexy- Thx :)

EPO- Not good enough cause there is at least ONE stall in there

Ared- EXACTLY!

Swiss- Yes Mr. Honey pot!

East Point's Own

June 22nd, 2009
11:57 am

Although we may only shake to dry… at least its dry when you get it… When you start with something that’s already wet you never really know what you are getting yourself into… LoL

http://hispointofview.com/2009/06/forgot-or-just-ignorant/

Spoiled Lioness- Referring My Man To Nitpickers Anonymous

June 22nd, 2009
11:57 am

Melo- SMDH!!

-W8©

June 22nd, 2009
11:57 am

So I wonder how Alabama’s probation will affect their football season

Spoiled Lioness- Referring My Man To Nitpickers Anonymous

June 22nd, 2009
11:58 am

EPO- Huh? Already wet from??

Page1908

June 22nd, 2009
11:58 am

LOL @ Lioness.

AmazonRed™ - off the hook!

June 22nd, 2009
11:58 am

can’t wait to get back to South Beach in August.

Same here Sassy!

Demi

June 22nd, 2009
11:58 am

(Do any of yall suck toes?)
(Hell Naw,but i wil suck her dudu hole)

Melo…said in a good way…you nasty muggafugga!!! lol

SexyCool - I dance like I've got diamonds at the meeting of my thighs.

June 22nd, 2009
11:59 am

I think it’s suffice to say that unless your partner just got out of a shower – there is a likelihood that you may encounter urine or other body fluids/matter in some amount…

-W8©

June 22nd, 2009
11:59 am

@EPO- Men are closed organisms…women are open organisms..

i'm swiss (aka Buckshot Prior)

June 22nd, 2009
11:59 am

“…so wiping is not even an option…LoL shaking is the method of choice…”

Actually, I prefer the downward squeeze, followed by a few firm taps. More controlled that way. If I go straight for the shake, there’s no telling where those drops might end up… :lol:

Spoiled Lioness- Referring My Man To Nitpickers Anonymous

June 22nd, 2009
11:59 am

Poor W8.. PG is too busy to engage in your convos today.. Sorry :evil:

Cee- Mail Call

East Point's Own

June 22nd, 2009
11:59 am

Spoiled Lioness LoL so ever man in the bathroom is supposed to go to that one stall and get tissue? what if its occupied?
And then waht are we supposed to stand there in front of everybody and wipe ourselves? You must not know how little privacy there is in Men’s bathrooms. We are doing good if there is even a divider between the urinals. We must focus on our business, and not even looking like we might be glancing too far left or right… lol As as was said before if you shake too many times the dudes in the bathroom will look at you funny.

Leggs (Karyn)

June 22nd, 2009
12:00 pm

@Page, stop acting like I don’t know what I’m doing. I open up pics all day long and you know it cuz I send plenty to you. You’re a trip. It’s not that I don’t know how, if the file is too big company email won’t let us open them. It has nothing to do w/my knowledge. Just back the phuuck w/you always coming on here saying what I know or don’t know. Sheesh, always putting a spin on something that needs no damn spin!

Spoiled Lioness- Referring My Man To Nitpickers Anonymous

June 22nd, 2009
12:01 pm

Ared- What brand of wipes do you use with Witchhazel in them?

East Point's Own

June 22nd, 2009
12:02 pm

i’m swiss that’s funny.. but it sounds like it might just work… hmmm

Lioness do you really need an explanation?

Page1908

June 22nd, 2009
12:03 pm

UMMMMMMMMM OMG leggs, r u serious? did i not say (LOL) at the end? why are your du-nun-da-nuns in a bunch?

AmazonRed™ - off the hook!

June 22nd, 2009
12:04 pm

Do any of yall suck toes?

Lioness – That would be a negative. Besides, think it looks crazy when a girl goes it to a guy.

I don’t like to have mine sucked either, so he’s off the hook.

I went to this event last year, and to pamper the ladies, they had a station where guys were giving girls in stilletos foot rubs. I thought it was a pretty gross thing to be rubbing on random girls feet. But apparently, the dudes volunteered! :lol:

Spoiled Lioness- Referring My Man To Nitpickers Anonymous

June 22nd, 2009
12:04 pm

EPO- Explanation of what? Oh ok.. NOPE!! I’m good :)

-W8©

June 22nd, 2009
12:04 pm

I think the SEC stacks up well again this year and someone form there will win the National Championship

Cemeeli

June 22nd, 2009
12:05 pm

So those protest overseas are getting crazy..although I respect them for it though..American we protest by sending chain emails and blogging…

lol..ahahahah…

W8 I have one! Remember my dilemma with the manchild? My little guy’s best friend is back from NY as of this weekend and is at Camp today. When they say each other this morning, they did the cuttest handshake thing i hadn’t seen since school days. The little sister was looking at me like “awwww…here we go”. They are truly best friends. awwww….The buddy is coming over tonight after Camp is over and i’ putting them to work while i have both together, they have no clue! I know they ain’t gon’ help do nothing unless i tell ‘em what to do…Drink, and eat up everything, looking for Nick showes, while grinning and playing ball. Gotta make these kids do some work!

Children, and childhood is a blessing indeed.

Raqi

June 22nd, 2009
12:05 pm

Sassy just clip it with a clipper before it grows down in to the flesh and gets too bad.

Page1908

June 22nd, 2009
12:06 pm

W8- I don’t know about Alabama, but the NBA Draft is this Thursday and of course, I can’t W8. *wink*

Spoiled Lioness- Referring My Man To Nitpickers Anonymous

June 22nd, 2009
12:06 pm

Ared- A LOT of men have foot fetishes.. :lol: :lol: :lol:

Raqi

June 22nd, 2009
12:07 pm

I meant Lioness not Sassy. You two sound (read) just alike. LOL Sorry.

Spoiled Lioness- Referring My Man To Nitpickers Anonymous

June 22nd, 2009
12:07 pm

Cee- That is WONDERFUL!! How long is he back for?

Spoiled Lioness- Referring My Man To Nitpickers Anonymous

June 22nd, 2009
12:07 pm

RAqi- How is your little Petunia?

-W8©

June 22nd, 2009
12:08 pm

@Ce-lol that’s to cool…but that bond is probably going to last a lifetime…lol

Demi

June 22nd, 2009
12:08 pm

(Do any of yall suck toes?)

Yep…that’s why ladies with pretty feet is a must! Any woman I am seriously seeing…will get:

li-li-li-lick you from your head to your toes
And I wanna move from the bed, down to the down to the to the floor
I wanna uh-uh, you make it so good I don’t wanna leave
But I gotta kn-kn-kn-know what’s your fan-ta-sy

I wanna get in the Georgia dome on the fifty yard line
when the dirty birds kick the tree
and if you like in the club we can do it
in the DJ booth or in the back of the VIP
whip cream with cherries, strawberries on top
lick it don’t stop
with the doe lock
don’t know while the boat rock we go buy
robots or they got to wait till the show stop
or how ’bout on the beach with black sand
lick up your thighs and call me pac man
table top or just give me a lap dance
the rock to the park to the flat lands
that man (DEMI) (woo) in the public bathroom
or back or a classroom
how ever you want it lover lover gonna tap that a$$ soon
see I cast ‘em and I past ‘em get a tight grip and I grasp ‘em
I flash ‘em and out last ‘em
and if ain’t good then I trash ‘em while you stash ‘em
I’ll let ‘em free
and the tell me what they fantasy
like up on the roof roof tell yo boyfriend not to be mad at me

Demi also

East Point's Own

June 22nd, 2009
12:08 pm

What do you do with your feet since you think rubbing feet is so gross????

Kym-Game On!

June 22nd, 2009
12:09 pm

Are we still on topic? Or have we moved on to something less likely to make me hurl my breakfast. It’s lunchtime already..I wouldnt mind chinese.

Cemeeli

June 22nd, 2009
12:09 pm

W8 At the crib. 2 Kappas and one AKA. And she was skanky too. I told them times have changed. Then i had to call my own mom b/c i wondered if she thought of me and my crew like that.

PoppaG Tell me Mosley was like a nun’s yard this w/e please! I promise if i saw another tatted leg or breast i was going to proclaim “holy water” on my sisters.

wowo!

-W8©

June 22nd, 2009
12:09 pm

@Page- Nobody cares about the NBA when football season is aroung the corner and besides you are a Lakers fan..so the draft wont be to good for you all anyway..You are in Football country

AmazonRed™ - off the hook!

June 22nd, 2009
12:09 pm

BTW, if anyone partakes in that and comes up with blood all over their mouth, SHE’S the one that doesn’t need to be engaging in sexual activity if her flow is that heavy. I’m just saying….

Leggs – Right. Now, I have been in a ton of long distance relationships and sometimes, he happens to be in town when Aunt Flo is visiting. If I’m not on my last day, we’re not even having intercourse. I’m sorry, you’re with me for more than the nana. :lol: We’ll just have to make up for lost time…NEXT time!

Leggs (Karyn)

June 22nd, 2009
12:10 pm

@Page, even with your LOL at the end, you’re always belittling. Don’t know why you like doing that but you do. This is not the first time and pretty sure it won’t be the last time. Your LOL’s mean nothing to me when you continue with negative shyt. Am I serious. You have got to kidding me! Am I serious? No sweat, it’s definitely a done deal. Pretty sure it’s just me, but we always rub each other the wrong way. So, I will bypass your posts going forward.

AmazonRed™ - off the hook!

June 22nd, 2009
12:10 pm

Do any of yall suck toes?
Hell Naw,but i wil suck her dudu hole

I really, really, don’t want lunch today!!! YUCK

Page1908

June 22nd, 2009
12:11 pm

Whatever! Nobody cares, but I do, so I guess I am nobody. Nobody cares about a lot of stuff, yet we still talk about it, right? Duh.

Randyt (aka Been there, Done that, Got a Closet FULL of t-shirts)

June 22nd, 2009
12:12 pm

I have few if any hangups, sexually or otherwise, BUT…that said, I have never understood why someone would want to take a dump with someone watching, fart/burp intentionally with an audience (accidents can and do happen), or anything that some others (read “love interest” might consider offensive or degrading.

There is a reason for the expression “familiarity breeds contempt”. I know the first response might be “I want to be liked for who I am”. If one totally embraces this belief, then maybe people occasionally need to take a really careful look at “who they are” if the “who they are” takes a dump with the bathroom door open.

Page1908

June 22nd, 2009
12:12 pm

-W8©

June 22nd, 2009
12:13 pm

@Kym- I am trying to change the topic

@Ce-LMAO on the skanky..lol, I keep my grown folks chill spots on the low..I dont like my areas over populated or for them to become to trendy..When I see some tats I am like what were you thinking..it took me two years to do research on my tatts and placement is key

Page1908

June 22nd, 2009
12:13 pm

LOL ARed. Like Kym said earlier, I thought the topic would be changed by now, but this is probably one of those topics that could go on and on all day. *shrugs*

Cemeeli

June 22nd, 2009
12:14 pm

W8/Lioness Christopher is dark like Melo’s nephew, and my kid is light brown. So they are TRULY like “night and day”. They probably are fighing right now! But will still be down come by the time i get there. They are funny fellas. They fight over silly stuff and then wanna hang out after the fights.

Lioness I Chris goes to Texas next for the late summer visit. He’ll be here for month+ or so.

My mother is ready for her grandson. She’s been “shopping”…so i gotta get a busy schedule.

lurker

June 22nd, 2009
12:14 pm

What if you have ugmo feet? What is a girl to do? A pedicure doesnt help ither. I inherited them from my dad.