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Free to be me

There are certain relationship milestones that women look forward to. We’re sentimental enough to relish the one year anniversary. We get giddy at the house key exchange. It’s something in our DNA that loves when a relationship reaches the next phase. What we – well, what I don’t look forward to is when our guys let it all hang out, literally.

The burping, farting, dirty jokes, or going to the bathroom in front of us. It is a romance killer sometimes. Why, I’m not sure. I remember when a guy used the bathroom at my house with the door ajar. We weren’t even to date number three! Perhaps I just prefer to keep the mystery as long as possible, but what’s wrong with that?

Ladies, at what point do you let your lady guard down? When do you feel that you are free to be “regular” around your man. When you are comfortable with a guy, do you still think it is important to retain a little of the spice that first caught his eye?

Guys, do you really notice when your girl has become comfortable around you? Do you like it when it gets to this point? How soon do you let down your guard? Are you pretty much the same as when you first meet her? Is it a turn off if you see your woman doing “human” things like burping?

Have you ever dated someone and felt that you weren’t really free to be yourself?

How much “free to be me” do you think we can really even handle in relationships?

679 comments Add your comment

Melo

June 22nd, 2009
4:26 pm

I dont think i bathed myself well and clean today!

Staceye AKA Black Mamba AKA Xiomara

June 22nd, 2009
4:26 pm

DEMI…boy you are crazy! :lol:

Spoiled Lioness- All Natural & Loving It!

June 22nd, 2009
4:26 pm

Melo- WTHeck made you think that NOW?

Leggs (Karyn)

June 22nd, 2009
4:27 pm

@PoppaG, no, I too think of Minnie Ripperton w/the high octaves. Just think of “singing first thing in the morning when voice is raspy” as coming from Rick James/Teena Marie and she adopted it.

First tim I’ve actually seen this in print :arrow: Mrs. Nick Cannon. I recognize the respect you’re giving him!

kimmie(Sheree)

June 22nd, 2009
4:27 pm

Melo – And who’s problem would that be?LOL!!

Melo

June 22nd, 2009
4:27 pm

A person’s hands are the SPLITTING image of their feet!

well,thats true of Oprah!
:lol: :lol: :lol:

-W8©(insert witty innuendo here)

June 22nd, 2009
4:27 pm

All I know is that that girl on Page’s camera has ugly feet…yall saw them at barley’s

Beautiful

June 22nd, 2009
4:29 pm

**since none of yall are talking to me please stop sending me emails…geesh..**

lmao. did W8 just go off?

hey babe!

Cemeeli

June 22nd, 2009
4:30 pm

W8 – Good deal, setting your babygirl up like that. I applaud.

Hey, I couldn’t even date detective guy for long. He had all my “herb enthusiast” friends all scared-up & paranoid when he came around them hanging out. Then he would ask for a “dranky drank” and told them “yall cool” they’d be like “Cee is your boy is cool to be “the folks”….He had a going away bbq and HIS cousins were more off the chain than mine. lol

Poppa Grande

June 22nd, 2009
4:30 pm

Leggs

First tim I’ve actually seen this in print :arrow: Mrs. Nick Cannon. I recognize the respect you’re giving him!

Nick Cannon was on the Today show this morning. He is the new host of America’s Got Talent.

He did mention that they celebrated their first anniversary back in April. There is no hate.

If negro smurf can land Janet, anything is possible.

Page1908

June 22nd, 2009
4:31 pm

LOL W8. Her feet are not that bad. Ok, I am gonna look at them again lol.

Spoiled Lioness- All Natural & Loving It!

June 22nd, 2009
4:31 pm

Melo- GROSS :evil:

W8- Why do yall talk about that girls feet ALL THE TIME?? They were short & stumpy.. That’s all! Ya’ll must love them if yall KEEP talking about them. I have seen FAR worse than those :lol:

Angie- Be Easy Suga ;)

-W8©(insert witty innuendo here)

June 22nd, 2009
4:32 pm

@Demi- First you need to get a wig with dredlocks then you need to get some height increasing shoes..and then you are in there with Staceye..lol

abc

June 22nd, 2009
4:32 pm

There’s only 4-4.5 trillion worth of gold in the whole world. Our national debt is about to be 3 times that. Ain’t no going back to a gold standard. The ‘new prosperity’ is based on what, exactly? The richest people manipulating things to make it look like they’re making lots of money.

Page1908

June 22nd, 2009
4:33 pm

lol @ Staceye’s dred head dude. didn’t he have glasses on, too? ctfu.

Cemeeli

June 22nd, 2009
4:33 pm

Never should have shown black people the internet.

awww now! Cain’t treat it like the “wanna hide something from blk folk, put it in a book”….Wes innanet savvy now! :lol:

Demi

June 22nd, 2009
4:33 pm

Tazzee…you got ugly feet…bout time your prettyintelligentsexya$$ have a flaw, LOL

Tazz is now attempting to claw Demi’s eyes out with her claw like toes

Tazzee - countdown to NFL season

June 22nd, 2009
4:35 pm

Lioness – not being hard on myself, I’m just stating the facts. I’ve been told that I have very pretty hands. My feet are, shall I say, different. Now, like Raqi said earlier, my Sweetie says my feet are pretty but everyone else that sees them (including me) doesn’t think so. I don’t sweat it though – that’s how God made me and it’s all good.

I was just refuting your comment that hands are an indicator of feet.

Cemeeli

June 22nd, 2009
4:35 pm

If negro smurf can land Janet

PoppaG is silly to. :lol:

Melo

June 22nd, 2009
4:35 pm

Melo – And who’s problem would that be?

Mine.I woke up tired tday and didnt pay attn,i guess.
Busy making the sex tape for Father’s Day last nite.

Creating memories wit my Queen!
(all of u can only see it if u pray for our acrimonious divorce,then i be happy to leak it to my in-laws and the internets)
:lol:

Spoiled Lioness- All Natural & Loving It!

June 22nd, 2009
4:35 pm

Cee- :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

DEmi- That was MEAN!! :evil:

-W8©(insert witty innuendo here)

June 22nd, 2009
4:36 pm

@Ce-lol she has four Unlces two aunts and a bunch of male cousins and we all box and fight..and she had to learn how to throw them thangs…she sick with them..it’s a comfort at times..cuz I know she can handle herself at 12 she whooped a 17 year old boys azz..at church for “scooping” her butt…then I jacked him up too after that to drive the point home just in case he thought he was going to get some get back

@Lioness/Page- well maybe I am used to pretty feet because those were the worst I have ever seen

Beautiful

June 22nd, 2009
4:36 pm

hiya ALVIN!

hello CEE! may i call you sista CEE as well. :)

Spoiled Lioness- All Natural & Loving It!

June 22nd, 2009
4:36 pm

Taz- If your man loves them then they are BEAUTIFUL!!

Spoiled Lioness- All Natural & Loving It!

June 22nd, 2009
4:38 pm

W8- Naomi Campbell has some OOGLY a$$ feet!!

Page1908

June 22nd, 2009
4:38 pm

LOL W8, I know, but I am trying to be nice about it.

mytw♥cents

June 22nd, 2009
4:38 pm

W8 You’re reviving my suspicions about making me your secretary. You ain’t slick… And if we’re gonna air our dirty laundry then pls note how you disregard my greeting, which clearly states “Please leave a message if you’d like for me to return your call!”

Spoiled Lioness- All Natural & Loving It!

June 22nd, 2009
4:39 pm

Demi

June 22nd, 2009
4:39 pm

W8…dude kept buggin me about Staceye…I set his a$$ up to get played…I dude, her name is Meukew and you just may be her type…I was laughing my a$$ off…

He’s a cool dude though…not all about that bullish.

Poppa Grande

June 22nd, 2009
4:39 pm

abc

I agree that there is no going back now.

I know that the gold standard thing wasn’t the only thing. We spent tons of money on useless things. Why did Reagan put so much money in trying to develop a Death Star like thing?

Well, capitalism feed off of gluttony and greed. So, you have to make it look like someone has something.

Leggs (Karyn)

June 22nd, 2009
4:39 pm

I am hollering at “If negro smurf can land Janet, anything is possible.” OMG, that was hysterical and so very true!

-W8©(insert witty innuendo here)

June 22nd, 2009
4:39 pm

@Ce- I always tell folks I am not the arrest you guy nor do I pay attention to small things..thats why I dont tell people what I do even some family members cause people start acting all uncomfortable and crap..lol

Melo

June 22nd, 2009
4:39 pm

then you need to get some height increasing shoes..and then you are in there with Staceye

Demi is out.
I dont think Staceye is patient enough to wait for smebody to get a ladder be4 they get on her Big azz behind.Shes always on the fast lane.
Demi :arrow: sorry!!

Spoiled Lioness- All Natural & Loving It!

June 22nd, 2009
4:40 pm

Tazzee - countdown to NFL season

June 22nd, 2009
4:40 pm

Tazzee…you got ugly feet…bout time your prettyintelligentsexya$$ have a flaw, LOL

Forget you Demi!!! I had to laugh though. When I met one of my Sweetie’s friends he asked me ‘what are you doing with this knucklehead??’ So he looked me over and started asking me questions:

Him: You got a job?
Me: Yes
Him: You got your own spot?
Me: No, staying with a friend while I look for mine – just moved back to Atlanta
Him: I can understand that – you got any kids?
Me: No.
Him: You crazy, right? You just got out the asylum?
Me: (cracking up) NO!
Him: (looking me up and down, looks at my hands, then says) You got ugly feet don’t you!?!?

All I could do was laugh…he was like ‘I knew you had to have a flaw to be with this knucklehead’

Leggs (Karyn)

June 22nd, 2009
4:41 pm

@W8, those were the worst you’ve ever seen. Come on, her feet wasn’t that bad. Have you forgotten about the feet in Boomerang???

Tazzee - countdown to NFL season

June 22nd, 2009
4:42 pm

Lioness – you are SO WRONG for posting that picture. I didn’t even look at the second picture, I almost lost my lunch and afternoon snack with the first one :lol:

-W8©(thoroughbred I dont play nor hate)

June 22nd, 2009
4:42 pm

@Lioness- I would shoot those feet

@Demi- you knew that guy…lol..why u do your boy like that..you know Staceye got cobwebs downthere

Spoiled Lioness- All Natural & Loving It!

June 22nd, 2009
4:43 pm

Leggs- YES!!! They go hand & Hand with Naomi’s!!

I LOVE to rub my feet on my mans legs, chest & even his face if he lets me :lol:

-W8©(thoroughbred I dont play nor hate)

June 22nd, 2009
4:44 pm

@Leggs- I’m sorry but those were the worst that I have seen, but then again i dont go looking at everyones feet..im to tall for that..lol

Demi

June 22nd, 2009
4:44 pm

Lioness..nope, that was sweet of me…I know Tazzy is smiling behind her monitor…I list all of her best qualities first, LOL

Funny ish…I showed SexyCool my hearing aid…she was like, “what the hell is this, a bug!?!?” LOL

Cemeeli

June 22nd, 2009
4:44 pm

W8- shhh…when dude would get comfortable and they saw how he “interacted” with me. They knew then…oh hell ole boy tryna handle Cee she aint having it. It always broke the ice.

My mom thought we’d make it….but NOOOO…i cant hang for all the indifferences with quality time and work.

Spoiled Lioness- All Natural & Loving It!

June 22nd, 2009
4:44 pm

My girlfriend has ugly feet! pictures?!help?
she wears flip flops alot alot and i dont know how i mean im could i take her to get a pedicure without it seeming like i am trying to tell her she has ugly feet?
even with a pedicure her toes will always be ugly i mean her big toe is huge!!!! it freaks me out.

Tazzee - countdown to NFL season

June 22nd, 2009
4:44 pm

Just re-read my recount of that conversation – when dude looked at my hands, he said to himself “pretty hands, no ring or ring tan..) and then asked about my feet.

Reading back over that made it seem as if he thought my hands were ugly therefore proving Lioness’ point :lol:

-W8©(thoroughbred I dont play nor hate)

June 22nd, 2009
4:45 pm

HELL NAW FEET In the face..I dont care how nice your feet are..I dot even like for my face to be touched…it’s just personal space…get your kiss on and then get the hell on…yuck yuck yuck

Spoiled Lioness- All Natural & Loving It!

June 22nd, 2009
4:45 pm

Spoiled Lioness- All Natural & Loving It!

June 22nd, 2009
4:46 pm

W8- YOu like your face licked though…

Page1908

June 22nd, 2009
4:46 pm

W8, my feet are cute:)

-W8©(thoroughbred I dont play nor hate)

June 22nd, 2009
4:47 pm

Spits out my Green Tea- Demi you gave her you hearing aid? Why?..lol

Page1908

June 22nd, 2009
4:47 pm

LOL @ that picture. the feet are messed up and the toe nails are black. gross.