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Because He Kept Me Off the Pole

Sunday is Father’s Day, a rare day when some men get as good as they give. If you are fortunate enough to have a father that is still here, I urge you to spend time with him. If that is not possible then I think a card or phone call can go a long way!

I am so thankful for my Father, for always being there for me. He has been such a great example of what a good man is. I remember listening to comic Chris Rock joke about being a father to his daughters and the importance of being a good dad: I realize my only job in life is to keep her off the pole. I mean they don’t grade fathers but if your daughter is a stripper you messed up.

I love my Dad because he’s kept me off the pole and kept me from doing outrageous things to a man on a dance floor (I’m still in disbelief, sorry). I love my dad because he is always supportive, loves me unconditionally, and has always been there for me. In a lot of ways, I think he has set the standard for my relationships with men.

Ladies, why do you love your father? What has he taught you about dating, relationships, and men?

If you are dating a single dad, do you plan to celebrate Father’s day with him? Do you show him that you admire him for being a wonderful father?

Guys, do you have daughters? What kind of lessons do you think they should learn about men? Have you ever dated a woman who had “Daddy Issues?” or was not raised with a father in the home? How did you handle it?

How do you think our relationships with our fathers impact our dating and relationship habits?

To all our readers who are fathers HAPPY FATHER’S DAY!!

643 comments Add your comment

AmazonRed™

June 19th, 2009
4:20 pm

@Ared Ce was probably talking about you

Oh, but she couldn’t be cuz she saids straight up she’d call me out. ;)

In any case, I would never care that I looked “silly” to random strangers who don’t know me on a blog. :lol:

-W8©

June 19th, 2009
4:21 pm

LOL@Demi- He really is at the strip club yall and posting on the blog..lmao

MACKNIF

June 19th, 2009
4:21 pm

My potna dem…my potna dem

LOVE THAT JOINT…and i amnot all into that swag music

Melo

June 19th, 2009
4:22 pm

Cee u tall
Prof,u too..

Uall pre-qualified
:lol:

Staceye AKA Black Mamba AKA Xiomara

June 19th, 2009
4:22 pm

PAGE…me siento….era un error. Signifique Alt”o” no alt”a”. :lol:

Page1908

June 19th, 2009
4:22 pm

LOL @ Buckshot.

SexyCool - Sexual Chocolate. (And drops the mike.)

June 19th, 2009
4:22 pm

What I’m feeling right now is…that Jeezy…

I put on for my city,
on on for my city…

SexyCool - Sexual Chocolate. (And drops the mike.)

June 19th, 2009
4:23 pm

Melo – 5′5″ is tall? YOU short. LOL.

Page1908

June 19th, 2009
4:23 pm

Esta bien Staceye. Tu eres loco:O

Melo, you think 5′6 is tall? I’m 5′9 lol.

Leggs (Karyn)

June 19th, 2009
4:24 pm

What’s the deal, WD asked for jokes. I posted one. She didn’t say for you ignore the corny ones…answer the jokes, corny ones and all!

MACKNIF

June 19th, 2009
4:24 pm

would never care that I looked “silly” to random strangers who don’t know me on a blog

- i feel the same way

-W8©

June 19th, 2009
4:24 pm

@SexyCool- You are welcome
@Macknif- You know us Atlanta folks with throw a “chant song” on ya in a minute..lol
@Melo- below 5′9 is not tall
but short women are DEEEEEPP……mentally..lol

Tazzee (Linda) - countdown to NFL season

June 19th, 2009
4:24 pm

Looks like I’ll be working late on a Friday. Oh the Travesty!

Leggs – when it’s open/closed?

Page1908

June 19th, 2009
4:25 pm

Oppps, “loca” not “loco” lol

Leggs (Karyn)

June 19th, 2009
4:26 pm

Sorry, didn’t mean to come off all high and mighty. Forgot to :wink: at the end! :lol:

Leggs (Karyn)

June 19th, 2009
4:27 pm

@Tazzee, you’re not saying it right. open or close it’s still a door!

MACKNIF

June 19th, 2009
4:27 pm

j money – first name, last name…..

-W8©

June 19th, 2009
4:28 pm

Cause we like her and we like her too
and we like her and we like her too
and we like her and we like her too
and we like her and she like us too
and ooooooh…

Beautiful

June 19th, 2009
4:28 pm

i don’t know about y’all but i don’t like to be lumped in the *y’all looked beautiful last night*. single me out! lol. i’m jus sayin’.

Melo

June 19th, 2009
4:28 pm

Hw tall u are Scool,6,5′?

B-team ReporterDemi (on the way to discover the cost of puddy and why the cost of puddy is on the rise)

June 19th, 2009
4:29 pm

yeah…next I know I will be driving her state to state…for her to sale that a$$…I lived that live and payed the price…naw…I am cool…I just like slippin on strong island and just enjoy the view…at lease strokes have pool tables…I follow the same rule..buy a few drinks not dance…you’lll get puddy with the lease amount of work…still not worth while

AmazonRed™

June 19th, 2009
4:30 pm

Hw tall u are Scool,6,5′?

:lol:

-W8©

June 19th, 2009
4:31 pm

Quarter Brick, half a brick,
whole brick (Aaay!)
Quarter pound, half a pound,
whole pound (Okay!)
100 pillz, 1000 pillz,servin major
weight
JuiceMan and Gucci Mane make the trap
(Aay)

Beautiful

June 19th, 2009
4:31 pm

Melo

June 19th, 2009
4:32 pm

Page,if u 5′9,we may need to have dinner!

AmazonRed™

June 19th, 2009
4:33 pm

melo – Please sit your horny married azz down somewhere. :lol:

Melo

June 19th, 2009
4:33 pm

Beautiful
i think u romantic

-W8©

June 19th, 2009
4:34 pm

” don’t know about y’all but i don’t like to be lumped in the *y’all looked beautiful last night*. single me out! lol. i’m jus sayin’.”

@Beautiful- If you were there and vibed like the rest of us I would have said so. This is the second week we met up we had fun and kept it real..no issues no concerns just real beautiful people having a good time..actually it’s kinda relaxing and chill all at the same time..no stress

Tazzee (Linda) - countdown to NFL season

June 19th, 2009
4:34 pm

Leggs – umm, when it becomes open? Girl, I don’t know :lol: Are you eating popsicles again?

Melo

June 19th, 2009
4:34 pm

buy a few drinks not dance…you’lll get puddy with the lease amount of work

jus say u cheap Demi

MACKNIF - halle berry, halle beeeeeeeeeeery

June 19th, 2009
4:35 pm

she fine den a mutha….where dey at

@demi…i bet you got the best view in the A right now…..lol

Melo

June 19th, 2009
4:37 pm

@Melo- below 5′9 is not tall

i know they all look good in heels,5′6,5′5 or 5′1.
I like for my woman to look good in short skirt and heels just so the other men can pine and mess up their pants.

MACKNIF - halle berry, halle beeeeeeeeeeery

June 19th, 2009
4:37 pm

@melo…players that know the game…know that the women despise TRICKS…but we knwo you have thing for trickin….i have dated plenty of dancers and did not spend ish on em….

B-team ReporterDemi (on the way to discover the cost of puddy and why the cost of puddy is on the rise)

June 19th, 2009
4:38 pm

Angie….ok

all yall ladies, but (Angie)…are some beautiful women…it can’t be helped…dimes…dimes I tell ya, lol

mytw♥cents...what's the scenario?

June 19th, 2009
4:39 pm

ZULU Didn’t we have this chat before? 5 6 (and don’t 4get the half) What pictures are you paintin in ya dirty lil mind?

W8 Why come you ain’t thrown out the hook ups for your blog ladies who wanna trick off (not .02). Maybe the lurker fam hahahaaa

Melo

June 19th, 2009
4:39 pm

Ared, i know when u get to 35,ur perception of married men as it relates to u being laid by them, changes and ur list of dateable gets bigger.So im still hopeful.
Ask ur seniors i know here
:lol:

-W8©

June 19th, 2009
4:40 pm

lol@Demi wanting to play pool at the strip club..he couldnt even focus at Barley’s lastnight and the women were dressed

Oh yeah I am not a breast man

Beautiful

June 19th, 2009
4:40 pm

@W8
i was speaking in general terms. was referring to you but not really.

@MELO
huh? ——-> in the corner.

Page1908

June 19th, 2009
4:40 pm

Melo how tall are you?

Cemeeli

June 19th, 2009
4:41 pm

mytwoTNT I owe you box of fruit or something for your b-day don’t i?

I still have Tazzee’s housewarming to get. Until she cooks something for me. I’on play! That’s right you havta give me a cookie or something. Lol….jus playin.

…something wrong wit me? I am addicted to tissue, and pretty wraps, bowes, expensive 5 dolla gift bags from the Hallmark store. i think i comes from me working the job at Godiva and doing weddings when i was at Affars To Remember.

-W8©

June 19th, 2009
4:41 pm

@Beautiful- Its okay….I got a big ego, (hahaha)
I’m such a big ego, (hahaha)
I got a big, (hahaha), Ego,
She love my big, (hahaha), Ego,
So stroke my big, (hahaha), Ego,
I like to joke around a little bit but here we go,
Welcome to the wonderful world,
Of go play the earl coz,
Everything I throw up, blow up,
Talking to the girl,
She said, know what, grow up,
You nasty,
I don’t understand why they trippin

Leggs (Karyn)

June 19th, 2009
4:42 pm

HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA, yes I’m eating popsicles. This is a very old joke but we’re running out of time so I’ll give you the answer

When is a door not a door ~ when it’s ajar…get it….a jar! HAAAAAAAAHAAAAAAHAAAAAA, who the hell just slapped me!

Melo

June 19th, 2009
4:42 pm

Page 6′1,taller than u

We need to get tgther.Ask all of them here,i dont bite!

Cemeeli

June 19th, 2009
4:43 pm

Oh – W8 yea, you have to be bodygaurd for Melo. Cause i sure can tell he’d easily get in trouble on a night out.

AmazonRed™

June 19th, 2009
4:43 pm

:lol: Demi, you are a fool. But you gave her what she asked for. :lol:

Leggs (Karyn)

June 19th, 2009
4:44 pm

Like I said, Tazzee, you just wasn’t saying it right, but on the right path.

-W8©

June 19th, 2009
4:45 pm

@MY.02- What do the ladies need to know..lol?

AmazonRed™

June 19th, 2009
4:45 pm

Ared, i know when u get to 35,ur perception of married men as it relates to u being laid by them, changes and ur list of dateable gets bigger.So im still hopeful.

melo – There is so much I wanna say to you about the above right about now!!! :lol:

-W8©

June 19th, 2009
4:45 pm

@Leggs I dont know why I am laughing at your goofy butt

Page1908

June 19th, 2009
4:45 pm

LOL Leggs omg. I would laugh but I am soooo tired right now. My legs are too sore to laugh. *shrugs*