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Love them like my own

NFL player Tom Brady has a child from a previous relationship with actress Bridget Moynahan. When Brady dated his then girlfriend Giselle Bundchen, I remember reading a comment from Bundchen about Brady’s son:

“I understand that he has a mom, and I respect that, but to me it’s not like because somebody else delivered him, that’s not my child. I feel it is, 100 percent. I want him to have a great relationship with his mom, because that’s important, but I love him the same way as if he were mine.”

Now I thought it was a noble and endearing perspective to take, but after talking to a couple of real parents, it seemed to strike a nerve. If you have children, wouldn’t you want the person your ex is dating (seriously) to care for your child as if they were your own?

Have you ever dated someone with children and became close to their children? Did it cause a problem with their parent because you were too close?

Have you ever been in a relationship with someone who treated your children like their own? Isn’t that a little litmus test to see if the person is compatible to you and your kids, since you are a package deal?

Is there a line that one should not cross when it comes to dealing with someone who has children in terms of parenting them? What would you say are the boundaries? Do you set those ground rules with your significant other and their children?

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Melo

June 18th, 2009
3:53 pm

Cam,for u to roll into Central Station,u might want to get ur neck tat first.That way,they think u roll with them.
Cause those hood chics might molest u if u walk in there plain plain.
First they mean mugg u in ur plain eye sight,biaacth about ur behind within ur earshot, whislt ur azz is smelling itself at the counter getting a drank and if u make the mistake of talking back,they smack ur tiny fragile azz.
U be lucky if after that,the hood shims dont take u to their E.Point hide out for a phuck fest just to spite u.

Spoiled Lioness- No Clouds In My Stones

June 18th, 2009
3:53 pm

Staceye- Girl, we are NYers FOR REAL!!! LMAO @ the flask!!

Cee- W8 has nothing to worry about.. I will be preoccupied anyways :) Bring your sweet self on!

MYtwo- The Ultimate is cool just the first & last time I was there I was TOW DOWN!!! The news guy from channel 2 was there and trying to feed words into my head! We did the WHOLE of Old Nattie that night.. It was the night that time fell back an housr and we used the HELL out of that hour! Lawd!

-W8©*N8*

June 18th, 2009
3:53 pm

Ce- Whats wrong with your hair?

@Staceye- Only the devil likes Skull and Bones…just saying

For Real Ballwood

June 18th, 2009
3:54 pm

For Real now pickup up the brush they threw in Poetic Justice and handing it to Cee.

mytw♥cents...the most beautiful

June 18th, 2009
3:54 pm

STACE I can see you after Turkgolu since he’s off the beaten path. Now pass me the vaseline. SASSAFRASS must know that me & AI have reconciled and are tryna make this work. Why she gotta let his name come out her mouth?!?!

Leggs (Karyn)

June 18th, 2009
3:54 pm

That big body of water with all the big fish underneath is mind boggling, HUH?

Spoiled Lioness- No Clouds In My Stones

June 18th, 2009
3:55 pm

PG- THANK YOU!! Sometimes I feel that you are one of the FEW people on here that get me :lol: :lol: :lol: Like I really care who doesn’t but ya know :)

-W8©*N8*

June 18th, 2009
3:55 pm

@Central Station- thats like a free strip club…was in there under cover a few times

AmazonRed™

June 18th, 2009
3:55 pm

Or get him drunk watch him pass out and then get his wallet and then call me and get me drunk

:lol:

That may be doable. I asked him if he was checking bags (avoid fees!) and he said yes because he has a big ole bottle of Henny that he’s bringing with him. I had to remind him that we have liquor stores here, but that bottle is already paid for. :lol:

mytw♥cents...the most beautiful

June 18th, 2009
3:56 pm

CUTIE/STACE I was just thinkin’ I need a new, engraved one. I keep getting my silver one mixed up.

-W8©*N8*

June 18th, 2009
3:56 pm

Lioness going to Barley’s yall can count me out

-W8©*N8*

June 18th, 2009
3:57 pm

Even more out than i already am..lol

Demi

June 18th, 2009
3:57 pm

I tell yuh if yuh come wid yuh competition come straight way
Cause yuh come sideways rudebwoy, phenomenon one, oonu listen

There’s nothin you can do that make me run away from this clash yah, this clash yah
And there is no DJ can put the competition to Ninja, Ninja
Yes I’m tellin yuh from the start I will break yuh little heart
And leave oonu dung a ground cause I’m the real poison dart
There’s no word you can say that it could offend the Ninja, yuh tell mi

Chorus:
Mi gone murder dem, murder dem inna competition a go murder dem
Yuh tell oonu murder dem, murder dem
Inna competition mi a go murder dem

For Real blows back out…trying to keep up with Demi’s serious Reggie move…,peep this=========>In flip flips…

Spoiled Lioness- No Clouds In My Stones

June 18th, 2009
3:57 pm

Melo- They could TRY all of that and be PLEASENTLY surprised that I don’t play a quarter of that! Don’t let the cute face fool you ;)

Melo

June 18th, 2009
3:57 pm

and expect some praise for some “shyt” that they are supposed to do.

The capitol building downtown has been hit by alien asteroids or else some is gonna happen today,watch fox five news for updates!

Poppa cursed today! :lol:

Sassy Me...juicy fruit AKA Victoria :-)

June 18th, 2009
3:58 pm

Now pass me the vaseline. SASSAFRASS must know that me & AI have reconciled and are tryna make this work. Why she gotta let his name come out her mouth?!?!

Mytwo that’s cool y’all go ‘head and work it out….so long as I get “my turn” first…he can leave and go back to you afterwards…..OOCHIE WALLY WALLY OOCHIE BANG BANG ;)

mytw♥cents...the most beautiful

June 18th, 2009
3:59 pm

ARED Is he staying with you? Regardless, I need for you to work that equation out. He’s bringing liquid courage to fuel his weekend with you. At the very least he’s gonna try to give you a taste test, ya know, as a sign of his appreciation for your hospitality. :mrgreen:

Spoiled Lioness- No Clouds In My Stones

June 18th, 2009
3:59 pm

W8- :evil: Peace bro man! Your loss not mine ;)

Cemeeli

June 18th, 2009
4:00 pm

Page…Page I will send the message.

Are you hanging too? You are still the voyager i’ve always known.

Melo

June 18th, 2009
4:00 pm

thats like a free strip club…was in there under cover

U absolutely sure about that strip club ref, W8 ???,
might have to go there then, myself!

:loL:

Spoiled Lioness- No Clouds In My Stones

June 18th, 2009
4:01 pm

My two & Stac- What yall drinking out of a flask? I mix my drank & put it in a dixie cup and drive wherever I got to go..

-W8©*N8*

June 18th, 2009
4:02 pm

@Melo- Those girls in Central Station…bust it open and bring it back

AmazonRed™

June 18th, 2009
4:02 pm

At the very least he’s gonna try to give you a taste test, ya know, as a sign of his appreciation for your hospitality

Chile, he’s tried since I’ve known him. He’s flown to see me a full weekend before. He will be staying 1 night as he only has a hotel for 3. And now I have a house with guest bedrooms.

Spoiled Lioness- No Clouds In My Stones

June 18th, 2009
4:02 pm

Sassy & Mytwo- LAWD!!!!

-W8©*N8*

June 18th, 2009
4:03 pm

@Lioness- Drinking and driving is not cool no matter how you look at it..

Spoiled Lioness- No Clouds In My Stones

June 18th, 2009
4:03 pm

People that go to Central Station blaze where EVER!!! Smelling tail & weed all throughout the club

-W8©*N8*

June 18th, 2009
4:04 pm

Hey Melo my partner owns Body Tap now…just saying

Spoiled Lioness- No Clouds In My Stones

June 18th, 2009
4:04 pm

THE INFAMOUS DK

June 18th, 2009
4:04 pm

Lioness – I knew you were gonna tell on yourself.. You aint spoiled drinking out a dixie cup.. Gangsta maybe but not spoiled

Cemeeli

June 18th, 2009
4:04 pm

@ W8 – My hair is jacked up! I’m wearing it pulled back.

@ ForReal – Poetic Justice brush? i’m lost. btw- I went to State waaaay after your time. You old.

Demi

June 18th, 2009
4:04 pm

Central Station- thats like a free strip club…it is.

W8…y’all don’t bust weed smoker do you…that would sucks…Demi doesn’t do drugs…does beatin and eating puddy count?

Spoiled Lioness- No Clouds In My Stones

June 18th, 2009
4:06 pm

DK- :lol: :lol: :lol: That is what I try to tell people that INSIST that I am spoiled.. If they only knew I am the MOST down to earth SPOILED Lioness that they will EVER meet in their entire life!!!

-W8©*N8*

June 18th, 2009
4:06 pm

@Demi- I dont go after weed smokers..I turn the other way..

Melo

June 18th, 2009
4:06 pm

Hey Melo my partner owns Body Tap now…just saying

so are u saying,with ur promo code, i can get goodies on the hush hush and low low??

lemme know takpat78@gmail.com

Page1908

June 18th, 2009
4:06 pm

Sassy Me...juicy fruit AKA Victoria :-)

June 18th, 2009
4:07 pm

my partner owns Body Tap now…just saying

I’ve been there before it was under new mgmt. and it was aaiight. What I did like though was when the chicks would go waay up that pole and dance their way down……

THE INFAMOUS DK

June 18th, 2009
4:08 pm

Lioness – Ohh so you low budget spoiled. You go hard in Family Dollar spoiled. Oh OK I got ya..

Cemeeli

June 18th, 2009
4:08 pm

Infamous Lol…aaaaaahhhhh

What about drinking out of an old glass pickle gar? Like faithful sweettea glass.

Poppa Grande

June 18th, 2009
4:09 pm

Melo

Poppa cursed today!

:lol: :lol: :lol:

I do that from time to time. I used to be really bad about it. That what I heard on the football field from age 13 or so. Coaches cussed all the time. So, I did too.

Now that I am heading into law firms and such I don’t want to get into habit. Unfortunately, blacks are really underrepresented in the legal field and most CEOs of companies(aka clients or potential clients) will judge me differently than other races if I am foul me. How can I go to a business lunch being all foul mouth? So, I try to limit it.

If you’d met me 10 years ago, you thought I was a black Popeye with all the cussing that I did.

Demi

June 18th, 2009
4:10 pm

Melo…it’s wild there…see girls giving head on the dance floor all the time

Melo

June 18th, 2009
4:10 pm

Ared,if u really want ur friend on the str8 and narrow,give him a full demo class in ur house,then send him on his way!

Ur punish him and his wang coz i tell,he be hot as he leaves and then he will re-evaluate ur position since u so close,possibly to ur advantage.
(disclaimer:this only works on condition he hasnt taped ur azz in the past)

THE INFAMOUS DK

June 18th, 2009
4:10 pm

Lioness – We have progressed to the red plastic cups cause the regular dixie cups leak after a while and waste ya drank.

Page1908

June 18th, 2009
4:10 pm

smh drinking liquor out of a dixie cup and driving. wow.

ARed- Girl, you know they don’t call them “liquor stores” out here lol. You know they are called “package stores”. I just realized like 8 months ago that a package store is not like a place where you can got to ship packages lmao. How would I know a package store is a liquor store? lmao. And I just realized like back in January that the place called Taco Maco is not a mexican restaurant. lol. man i was pissed!!

Page1908

June 18th, 2009
4:11 pm

ctfu at going hard at Family Dollar.

Melo

June 18th, 2009
4:11 pm

full demo class

or s*,i meant pole dance class in ur house

THE INFAMOUS DK

June 18th, 2009
4:12 pm

Ce – Thats fine the old mason jar is the best for drinikn tea out of.. I do it all time in a wife beater on the porch. Its so funny. reminds me of my grandfather.. Thats how he used to do it. I just refuse to cut the toes out a pair of tennis shoes though..

Demi

June 18th, 2009
4:13 pm

(Demi- I dont go after weed smokers..I turn the other way..)

Whew…don’t want to bail my cousins out of jail…but mayne do y’all boys toss dudes left and right out of the place, LOL

-W8©*N8*

June 18th, 2009
4:13 pm

@Melo- youve got mail

So yall are meeting at Body Tap instead of Barley’s..lol

Page1908

June 18th, 2009
4:13 pm

OMG DK! ctfu lmao. totally omg.

Rell - playmaker!!!

June 18th, 2009
4:14 pm

see girls giving head on the dance floor all the time

- yep, i got some on my bday one year…it was wild!!!