If I were to write a single woman’s manifesto, I would declare that every moment of joy, pleasure, and sheer happiness should be savored. One of the (many) things I admire about men is that they are able to enjoy things without feeling guilty.
If it makes them feel good or brings them pleasure, there is little anyone can do to make them feel bad about it. Perhaps it’s part of that double standard of society that exists for men and women, but men seem to get to indulge more. They are hard-wired to have no anxiety or guilt about their indulgences.
Now, I am not complaining here. I love being a woman! I just think women can and should find more things that brings them joy, and make no apologies for it. Do you think that men get to indulge more than women? Why do you think women feel so much guilt about indulging themselves ?
What brings you joy in your life? What are you “guilty pleasures”? You know the random, quirky things on your life that make you immensely happy? It should be safe to share them here and no judgment! We are all different and unique for a reason. It would be a boring, dull world if we were all the same.