Happy Friday everyone! I had plans for a guest blogger today but we had to postpone for another day. I am fighting a cold and feeling woozy right now. So instead, I am running a post that some of you may have read before, enjoy!
Are there any questions that you always wanted to ask the opposite sex but were too afraid to ask? Or maybe you were too mad, frustrated, or irritated to really articulate a coherant question. Perhaps we can offer each other a little insight into the dating trends, attitudes, or behavior that we have seen, heard, or experienced.
My friend Panama had two doozies to start us off: Why is it that you all are allowed to be maniacally inconsistent, but when a man does it, it’s a problem?
When you’re mad at me, you can turn your back in the bed, but if i do it…I’m wrong? Why can’t I roll over? If you start showing me your back, I’m going to show you mine.
I have some for the ladies too: Why do ladies sleep with a guy and then try to decipher if he wants a relationship or not? Why don’t some women understand how important it is to have a life, friends, and interests other than men? Why do women spend so much energy into what men are thinking, and where the relationship is headed? Are we genetically predisposed to not just enjoy the moment?
Of course I have a few for the guys:
Why do you think it is ok to stare and gaze at other women when you are in the company of a lady you really like? Why is it so tough to admit when you make a mistake? Why don’t you call your woman after you are in a committed relationship? Why do you feel like being in a relationship means the end of your freedom?
Why do you guys like to pretend that communicating with us is so difficult? I just don’t buy into the myth that men don’t talk. Why do women have to guess what you want or feel?
Maybe we can get some of our questions answered or hear a new perspective. Ask those burning questions, weigh in on other questions, share your experiences that may shed light on this rollercoaster ride we call dating!