I hope you all had a safe and wonderful holiday! It is so important to remember all our military service personnel and honor those that gave their lives. What did you do this weekend?
Since there was a little rain this weekend, I made a point to watch Love Jones, one of my favorite films, again. Do you remember the scene in Love Jones when Nina and Darius returned home after a date and Nina decided to put him on the couch? Although they had been intimate before, on their first date, it seemed really important to her that they not sleep together that night. She wanted to “save some for later.”
Ladies, have you ever done that before? What were your reasons? Ever had first date sex regret before? How did you handle it?
Guys, if the mood has been set and things are progressing, what do you think when the woman puts the brakes on the evening? What about first dates, do you usually try to “seal the deal” on the first date? If so, why do you think it’s a good time? Is it about comfort level, convenience, or something else?