Cougar Duty
In an attempt at full disclosure (sort of) of my dating life, I have to confess that yours truly is dating a younger guy. He is a solid 9 years younger than I am! It started out pretty innocently because I had no idea just how young the guy was until our first date. He just looked my age and I was too distracted by his muscles to card him!
After polling my friends for their opinion (sometimes I live my life by committee), I received some interesting advice. It ranged from “give him a chance” to “why not play a little bit with him”, and not one person advised me against it.
An older woman and younger man relationship can bring it’s own unique set of dating issues. Not to mention how some folks think that younger men date older women because they have “Mommy issues”. What do you think? In your opinion what is the prognosis for such relationships?
Guys, have you ever dated an older woman? How much older was she? What attracted you to her? Do you have an age limit to how old you would date?
Ladies, am I completely insane for dating a 28 year old? Would you do it? How young would you go before it’s too creepy for your taste?
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Demi...(via pda)
May 22nd, 2009
8:29 am
what’s the?!
WD…you know you r asking for it….age is nuttin but a number…it all depends on the level of maturity and confidence of each individuals…every thing elseis just plan ole bullish.
now beginning two hour work out…
ImAPeach404
May 22nd, 2009
8:43 am
WD – 28 is the magic number these days. I think the every dude I have met this year, less about 5, have been 28. Strange. Anyhoo, I’ve never been one to get caught up on age, but as of late, I find the guys in this age range to still be “playing” and since I’m done “playing” and want to be in a SERIOUS, functional, adult relationship – 28 is NOT where it’s at. I have a dude on the team now who is 25. He seems nice enough and hasn’t said anything stupid yet, but I don’t take him seriously. Oh, and I’m 32 by the way.
I can agree that age doesn’t/shouldn’t matter if you’re looking to date and have fun. But if you’re looking for a more serious relationship, then it is a factor. In my experiences anyway.
WD, you know what is see as a huge factor in these types of relationships? The kid thing. I don’t mind the younger man sometimes, but they all want to have kids one day and I don’t! I know you guys are just dating so maybe this hasn’t come up. I actually don’t even know your stance on this but… do you foresee that being a problem?
Raqi...The Wife of one Sleepless in Seattle
May 22nd, 2009
8:47 am
When I was growing up I would hear a lot of older folks say that girls mature (mentally) faster than boys. That statement is probably more true than not, however I have do believe that there is a span in life that they catch up. Sometimes that catch is forced as a result of the trials of life. Who knows? I personally just think it’s the way we girls are wired. We are born in relationship mode. LOL From the time we are 2 years old we are playing house, dressing up, some being motherly…just already an ingrained take charge mode. Boys? Not so much.
That to say, if he seems mature and level headed then why not. If he makes you happy then go for it. Happiness is all that counts. With almost a 10 year age difference there will probably be some disconnect in the way that you think and do things but I believe that all things are possible. Anything is possible if it’s what you want. Heck just being male and female brings about differences. Go for it.
My friend Lacy dates younger guys, but her motive most of the time is “jackrabbit”. No real relationship expectations.
On another note: We rented our other house to my husband’s cousin who was 23 at the time and dating an older woman. Lawd have merci that whole ordeal was a boat load of drama.
Vick
May 22nd, 2009
8:48 am
Guy Here,
Never dated a woman my own age. Always older or younger. If you are having fun, don’t mess it up with the age question. Ever noticed that puzzle pieces fit together because they are opposite ? I’ll guess you and your ‘date’ are just opposite enough to spark very interesting conversation.
Enjoy!!
Tmac
May 22nd, 2009
9:09 am
Yes, age matters. If you dont believe me try to date 15 yrs old. Na, I get it but I think age matters to a certain age. 9 yrs age gab could be rediculous or it could be Ok depending on how old you are. So WiseDiva, how old are you
Leggs
May 22nd, 2009
9:10 am
Good morning everyone!
Age definitely is just a number. If you guys are compatible, can converse on various levels, he respects and treats you like a woman and the sex is good (if you’ve gone there already), go for it. Life has some very interesting curves and a 9 year age difference shouldn’t be one of those curve balls you want to spend time analyzing if everything else seems to be in place!
Raqi...The Wife of one Sleepless in Seattle
May 22nd, 2009
9:18 am
If Mason was to die and I found myself on the dating scene again, I would not avoid the younger guy however I would try to avoid the ones that are needing to be babysat. While they may be fun to hang out with, but if when it comes to being responsible and knowing when to be serious he needs someone to hold his hand or guide him, then no can do.
LIONESS-On Pet Duty
May 22nd, 2009
9:24 am
Good Morning All
Diva- Live your life! As long as he makes you smile & you are happy then that is all that matters. You have some TRUE friends! Real friends have your happiness in mind
I LOVE that!
On Topic: I’ve done it before and it was not for me. I LOVE a man that is older than me but not by much..
Raqi...The Wife of one Sleepless in Seattle
May 22nd, 2009
9:28 am
A lot of time our level of maturity determines how we respond to and deal with problems. It’s ideal to be with someone than can offer support and help you thru a matter rather than creating them or making them worse.
Raqi...The Wife of one Sleepless in Seattle
May 22nd, 2009
9:36 am
I guess in a situation as such one should ask themselves “Can the relationship survive outside of Montego Bay?”. Not literally the place but the mindset.
NY2GA, Inc.
May 22nd, 2009
9:36 am
@WISE
I agree with the other posters. It does depend on maturity. I have dated younger before. So, no, you’re not insane. You’re just being a woman who is exploring her options.
How young would be too creepy? Well, if he takes you to the mall food court for a date and he has to make sure he leaves before the 6PM mall curfew…that indeed is a problem. Or, if his momma drops him off at your house for a date and says “Take care of my son”. LMAO. J/K.
Roar, Cougar…ROOOOOOOOOOOOOAAAAAAAR
Deeva4Life
May 22nd, 2009
9:38 am
Good Morning…Great topic WiseDiva…and timely
I struggle with this situation at times. I don’t have a problem dating younger but how much younger is ok? I’m currently 31 and I’m being pursued by a 21-year-old. He’s supersexy and his conversation is engaging but he’s 21
Like someone stated, I desire a “SERIOUS, functional, adult relationship” and I’m don’t feel at 21 we’re on the same page. Maybe if I were 41 and he were 31 it would be a little different. I just don’t feel he’s lived enough yet…I mean, he’s just now legal…LOL
I’d also like to give a shout-out to all my fellow Gemini’s…GEMINI’S ROCK!!
Tazzee - all moved in (sort of)
May 22nd, 2009
9:39 am
Morning all!
Wise – Go for it!! Enjoy it until you have reason not to. This happened to me twice in the last year. The first guy was 31 and the second was 28. Funny thing is, I ran into the 28 year old again about 2 months after I first met him (and blew off his calls/texts). Part of me wants to say ‘consider what you’re looking for in a relationship and see if he’s on the same path’ but what I really want to say is have fun!
Deeva4Life
May 22nd, 2009
9:40 am
That should have read “I don’t feel at 21 we’re on the same page“
Tazzee - all moved in (sort of)
May 22nd, 2009
9:41 am
Deeva4Life Back at you fellow Gemini! My birthday is exactly one week from today. Let’s all pray for sunshine at the beach
M'
May 22nd, 2009
9:44 am
There definitely seems to be a trend of sorts with the older woman and younger man…and much less of a stigma as well ablut it.
While I do not do any traditional “dating” as a rule…I have kicked it with some men who have been younger than myself…my last longstanding relationship was with someone who was 4 years younger than I was…and I had a brother here who was 13 years younger than me that seemed very much interested in a “relationship”…and in the VA the youngins make no bones about being attracted to older women…lol…shyte, I had to card some of them brothers…lol.
But what I have decided, at least for me, is that most younger men are looking for things in long term relationships that are not of interest to me…like ImaPeach said, some want kids…some have kids and my daughter is almost 26…so raising some else’s youngins ain’t on my radar…and I have also decided that there must be a cut off age, like no more than 10 years in age difference…I do not want to be competing with the young women in my daughter’s age group…just a matter of principal with me…but I also try to keep a realistic focus on the situation…meaning?…well, givne the number of men in my age group who need enhancement measures to sustain some pleasure…uh, the young cats do not
But, I say that if it is an interest that is mutually shared…go fot it…why not???
Raqi...The Wife of one Sleepless in Seattle
May 22nd, 2009
9:44 am
You know what NY2GA during the time when it seemed like every time you turned to the news another teacher was sexing one of her underage students a friend and I were talking about why and how these women get caught in that kind of situation. I have a 20 year old son and of all the times he has brought his friends to the house I have never looked at one of them as anything but a child. The same with my 14 year old now. Any guy that is less than 10 years older than my oldest son is too young for me to even look at or consider in a dating, romantic, sexual, intimate manner. That’s just creepy.
Cemeeli
May 22nd, 2009
9:46 am
What??? Who has set the school busses on fire!?!?!? whoa…
As I remember the last days of school folks having food fights, toilet papering the trees/yard, steal the clocks, take doors off the bathroom stalls, toilet paper the ceiling in the bathroom, smoke weed in the teacher’s lounge & parkinglot, take the principal keys and leave a message in his office that says “Your fine azz wife was with <—(insert 17y/o that was always hitting on teachers here)last night”
Lol…as you can tell i’m product of APS schools.
Morning! I have the Friday song on deck,…whenever ya’ll ready!
Cemeeli
May 22nd, 2009
9:49 am
WiseDiva – I have a friend that is in this same situation. She is “happy as a clam”….you know my mantra.
LIVE!
Demi...(via pda)
May 22nd, 2009
9:53 am
Demi os at the QT on Lawrenceville…these jokers have cases of 12 packs sitting out front…thinking of a quick come up…my boy got a pickup …I could see the plan forming…awwwww ishhhh bish…Deklab PD was standing right next to me grinning!…lol
404….your company is trippin…these folk won’t release the overtime…but r fuggin wit us about the heavy volume…I am only doing 100 per msoc and that’s it..
AmazonRed™
May 22nd, 2009
9:54 am
Well go head WiseDiva!
I don’t see anything wrong with “Cougar relationships” as long as you have the same goals. Most never married women in their mid to late 30s I know want to get married and have kids relatively quicky after entering a relationship. A lot of guys in their 20s have no desire to be married in the next year or two and start families.
As long as that obstacle is addressed, I don’t see the problem. Besides the sex drives should be similar!
Happy Friday before a 3-day weekend all!
Cemeeli
May 22nd, 2009
9:55 am
Anthony Hamilton and MusiqChild tickets go on sale in 5 minutes!
Mo (aka Moeisha- wishing she had a hammock, a good book and some fresh lemonade)
May 22nd, 2009
9:58 am
TGIF and a long weekend!!! Add to that a win by Denver and all is alright in Mo’s world!
My ex hubby was younger than I and as someone stated, it all goes back to maturity. As of late I have been approached by younger men mostly and its cool.
Demi – now you know the peoples dont want to give you no extra monies!!
Cemeeli – go on with that friday song chica, Im ready!
NY2GA, Inc.
May 22nd, 2009
9:59 am
I hear you Raqi. I made my comment to Wise in jest. However, we do see alot of cases where adult women (and men) are messing with younger folks. I may be dating myself, but do you remember that movie The Graduate…when he seduced by Mrs. Robinson? That’s the cougar phenomenon in a nutshell. It’s just that some modern day cougars take it too far. Those are the ones that don’t need to be dating, they should be in jail for messing with kids.
Professor (living for the 3 day weekend)
May 22nd, 2009
10:03 am
It’s a beautiful morning, and hello to all.
From the time I was 20 I always dated older guys, but recently I was in a relationship for a 1 ½ with a gentleman that was four years my junior. The relationship started out fun, but in the end it was not the age thing that made the relationship tumble, but there were a lot of things I feel age related that contributed to the cause.
WD- I say go with what you feel.
Tazzee…thanks for the code and I do have my tickets for 06.25.2009. Now it is time to find something to wear.
@ M’ I agree with a cutoff age.
@ Cee…yep that is how we used to do it in the APS…LOL. Shoot I had left some of that stuff in the closet whew…I need to say my Prayers and ask for forgiveness again.
Raqi...The Wife of one Sleepless in Seattle
May 22nd, 2009
10:04 am
Besides the sex drives should be similar!
Amazon that would be grand if sex was the only thing that mattered.
Blow Me
May 22nd, 2009
10:05 am
Good Morning All
Blogging before the Big GETAWAY again..I love to travel.
Anywho..seeing that I am 28 dating young would be nothing but trouble….I mean getting a guy my age of sound quality is a hard feat.
Dating under 28….I can’t do it. What do I look like dating someone who is 25…and truly expecting something serious out of it? Not going to happen. I will wait for those COUGAR days..I think I have another good 10 YRS before then anyways
M'
May 22nd, 2009
10:05 am
@Raqi
That is why I put a cut off age range into place…with the guy that was 13 years younger than me…all I could think about was that he was in kindergarten when I was graduating high school, 10 years old when I moved to the ATL at 23 and 17 years old, graduating high school when I was 30…and I could never quite comfortably wrap my had around that…so hence, age cut off became a real consideration…I am more comfortable with 10 or fewer years in age difference…lol
ImAPeach404
May 22nd, 2009
10:05 am
Hey Demi! I’m not there anymore. I was a contractor and got the boot SOON as AT&T took over.
I’m now with Verizon and MUCH happier!
I’ve been approached by much younger guys my whole life – thanks to great genes, I currently look to be anywhere from 24-26 so it’s inevitable that younger guys approach me. I LOVE the look on their face when I tell them I’m 32. Fun times to know their wheels are spinning in overdrive trying to change their game plan
I heard that Old School Saturday is the SPOT for May-December hook-ups… can anyone confirm this Atlanta Myth???
Cemeeli
May 22nd, 2009
10:08 am
“As of late I have been approached by younger men mostly and its cool.”
Hey Mo it’s’ on you….
I’m gonna get my Cougaring on….I’m gonna get my Nick Cameron Lok-alike-on, on….I’m gonna get my “younger men are broke!!!” <– Hunh ….aaaaalll weekend long.
You havta watch that Cee
Raqi...The Wife of one Sleepless in Seattle
May 22nd, 2009
10:08 am
NY2GA I have never seen that movie but I have heard about it. I actually thought about that situation when Demi Moore married Ashton.
In a situation like that, I would hope that I could trust the guy but it would be hard to do when he is closer to my daughters in age and mentality.
I do remember the movie Class where the college student fell in love with his friends mother.
AmazonRed™
May 22nd, 2009
10:11 am
Amazon that would be grand if sex was the only thing that mattered
Yeah, that’s why it was listed as the afterthought.
Demi...(via pda)
May 22nd, 2009
10:15 am
Mo…be want me to do all of this extra ish…and have a meeting on my a$$ about high productivity level and how to bring my level back down…I am sitting there with a WTF!? look on my face…some how they fround I am trying to tranfer out of this camp…and ask me what wrong…I wanted to tell the truth…fields got married to cooks…and that screwed my whole sexual fantasy up!!
Beautiful
May 22nd, 2009
10:20 am
age aint nuttin’ but a numba! giggle.
Cemeeli
May 22nd, 2009
10:22 am
Shoot I had left some of that stuff in the closet whew…I need to say my Prayers and ask for forgiveness again.
Professor is now professing that “The debil issa Liiiieeee”…
Deeva4Life
May 22nd, 2009
10:23 am
Dear Lord,
Please let it be sunny at the beach so Tazzee can have a Fantabulous birthday.
Amen,
Deeva4Life
There you go Tazzeeall done
Cemeeli
May 22nd, 2009
10:23 am
Oh – Why ya’ll didnt tell me his name is Nick Cannon? <— some kind of friends…
Raqi...The Wife of one Sleepless in Seattle
May 22nd, 2009
10:24 am
M’ any guy that would be into the same music and fashions as my sons would probably be too young.
And yeah if you think back to certain events comparing ages and get creeped out, then he is too young.
Mo (aka Moeisha- wishing she had a hammock, a good book and some fresh lemonade)
May 22nd, 2009
10:24 am
Cemeeli – now I do have a cut off, if dude is the same age as my younger sis then I cant hang wit’em. On the other side if he is more than 2yrs older than my brother I can do it!
Im gonna get my cookout on, Im gonna get my cougar flirt on and Im gonna get my chill on…all weekend loonnnng!
Demi...(via pda)
May 22nd, 2009
10:27 am
blow is sound quality now..who knew?
Demi...(via pda)
May 22nd, 2009
10:32 am
404….dayuuuuuum yooooooou!! (Demi is now mean mugg sexy A$$, fo oh fo)
I am glad things work out for ya…it is getting ugly in this camp…things are calm here…ish may hit the fan soon…
Raqi...The Wife of one Sleepless in Seattle
May 22nd, 2009
10:34 am
Ya know Moeisha that getting my chill on sounds just about right when thinking about what I want to do this weekend.
I was talking to Mason on the phone last night and we have decided that we are not going anywhere. He is so ready to come home to his own bed he is not interested in doing nothing else. I. am. so. glad. From what it looks like now it is suppose to rain on Monday so we may throw a couple of burgers or so on the grill but that will be about it. No visitors and no visiting.
I told my oldest to stay at home and I hope my youngest will go away. LOL
Demi...(via pda)
May 22nd, 2009
10:35 am
Mo…you look 5 going on 10…you got the baby johnson’s baby soft look about you, lol
Beautiful
May 22nd, 2009
10:37 am
good morning ladies!
i took the age thing out of my rule book recently. i was tellin’ myself that dating a man under 36 yrs old was a no no. i realized that i could be missing out on some great guys.
my co-worker went on a dating website and of course i made sure to put my .02 in the mix. i asked her to keep the age range as wide as possible. she frowned, but agreed. she later told me that it made a lot of sense, because she had more to choose from and most of the males she was interested in were either way older or a lil younger.
Cemeeli
May 22nd, 2009
10:41 am
Mo …as we wait for the next blogger that’s happy it’s Friday, and they are blessed, well, able blog, to jump on the Friday song… with us.
The guy at the sporting good store (21 as of April 22 y/o) hit on me in front of the son of mine and was using his knowledge and likes of my sons athleticism to conversate with me. I thought was interesting b/c as he asked me to sign up for the Memeber Discount program and asked my son to “sample” some of the newest equipment in the store. I saw “THE LOOK” and i knew he was going for the kill once my son became occupied with the new toys. So long story short he asked if he could take me and the son out to a sporting event (can’t remember if basketball or football) and then onto Grand Prix…i thought it was sooo cute…awww…him was on his game with Cougar Hunting (hush Jamoca…:)
Leggs
May 22nd, 2009
10:42 am
Well, all I can say is this certifiable “Cougar” is going younger. I have to because the men older than me are just plain OLD. They’re settled. Don’t want to party occasionally, don’t want to stroll around the park, don’t want to go to brunch, don’t want to do much of anything but sex it up, watch tv or complain about ailments. I can’t stand it any longer!
AmazonRed™
May 22nd, 2009
10:46 am
I have to because the men older than me are just plain OLD.
Leggs – This 49 year old hit on me recently. When this happens the first thing I do is ask them if they date women their own age! He admitted that he likes younger women and if the lady is over 42, she doesn’t have much of a chance.
His reasoning though was that women his age were OLD too. I thought about giving him your number and you showing him what’s what! 
Beautiful
May 22nd, 2009
10:47 am
@LEGGS
are you watchin’ the cougar reality show with whatserface? i haven’t taken the time to catch it, but looks interesting.
Cemeeli
May 22nd, 2009
10:51 am
Lol@ Leggs – Don’t take that! Do you know the Friday song?…come on sis.
Demi...(via pda)
May 22nd, 2009
10:51 am
Angie…I think you will enjoy guy in the 19 thru 24 age range…
Leggs…you need to stick with the 36 thru 45 age range..for serious dating…use the 28 thru 32 for the much needed puddy beat down, lol
Beautiful
May 22nd, 2009
10:53 am
**I thought about giving him your number**
i’ve thought about this over the years. if your gf told you that a guy approached her and was really interested in her, but she wasn’t interested in him and thought that you would be a better match. is this ok with you?
Beautiful
May 22nd, 2009
10:57 am
@ALVIN NOT DEMI
depending on the maturity, i’ll go as low as 28! oh and shuddup! lol.
Leggs
May 22nd, 2009
10:57 am
@ARed, you should have given him my number. I know I enjoy life and don’t look nor act my age, but come on, what’s up with all these men and their ailments and all the medication they have to take? Some folk are aging too dang fast. Go find that dude and tell him to call me. First, was he cute to you?
@Beautiful, no, I’m not watching it.
Well…..I’m gonna get my cleaning on, and I’m gonna get my bbqing on, and I’m gonna get my drink/bid whist on, all weekend along. Hey, fellow blogger, its on you, so whatcha gonna do?
Leggs
May 22nd, 2009
11:00 am
Hey Cee, I hadn’t refreshed my screen before I posted my Friday song, but now have to laugh at you calling me out to post when I already did. Why you guys acting like you know me!
Beautiful
May 22nd, 2009
11:00 am
i’m gonna get my datin’ on, i’m gonna get my chill on and i’m gonna get my sleep on . . . all weekend loonnnng!
Leggs
May 22nd, 2009
11:03 am
@Beautiful, I did that exact thing. This guy was interested in me, but I wasn’t interested in him. Thought my gf would be a better fit for him and told him. He resented me for suggesting one of my friends would really like him when he was trying to get at me. I still laugh when picturing his face when he first approached to the disgust on his face when he walked away.
Demi
May 22nd, 2009
11:04 am
i’ve thought about this over the years. if your gf told you that a guy approached her and was really interested in her, but she wasn’t interested in him and thought that you would be a better match. is this ok with you?
Holy Cow Manure!!! A darn good question.
I do this all the time for my boys…providing there was no sex involve. I think it’s best to introduce both parties in a neutral environment…if sparks fly, they fly…if not, just keep it moving.
No harm no foul.
AmazonRed™
May 22nd, 2009
11:04 am
Go find that dude and tell him to call me. First, was he cute to you?
Very handsome, very fit. I could tell he stays very active because he had the body of someone 20 years younger. I didn’t think he was that old when I saw him, so 49 caught me by surprise.
Leggs
May 22nd, 2009
11:04 am
@ARed, how the heck do you get multiple lols in a row????
Demi
May 22nd, 2009
11:06 am
Angie…LOL
Leggs
May 22nd, 2009
11:06 am
Well, you already said he said a woman over 42 was too old. Hell, I’m past that (not by much (LOL)).
Bah humbug, it’s going to be a rainy weekend!
Blow Me
May 22nd, 2009
11:06 am
Demi- Don’t start…And yes I am..lol
Beautiful- How old are you again?
Leggs
May 22nd, 2009
11:06 am
Anybody going to the Decatur Festival this weekend?
AmazonRed™
May 22nd, 2009
11:10 am
Well, you already said he said a woman over 42 was too old. Hell, I’m past that (not by much (LOL)).
Leggs – Right. But remember, he said that because he had the same complaints about women his age as you do. I think that both of you would date a person your age if they did more than lay around and talk about ailments.
To get the multiple
s you have to put a couple of spaces in between each one.
Melo
May 22nd, 2009
11:13 am
I’m currently 31 tht was at 9.00 am,u still 31 still Deeva?? Oh, and 21 yrs is kinda young,young, i mean the boy,i mean man dont even know how to drive properly yet?? cmeon.21 sounds desperate!
Diva,has he watered the garden yet coz thats where that matters??.U what 37? so u know u are at that stage when u going to peak and ebb.Go with a raging bull, i say.I say YES YES YES!!!!!
And u know Demi Moore looks young, just like Ashton.Must be smething in that younger juice juice!
M'
May 22nd, 2009
11:13 am
@Raqi
Yes, I am not very comfortable with the idea that the young dude was learing to read and write as I was out exploring the world…so to speak…something about that is a little weird…it was funny, when I thought about the year that he was born…mayne, I was jammin to some cuts…I was already in my rites of passage age when he was still doing diapers…lol
@Leggs
Yo…what is up with some of these oldheads…dudes have 17 vials of meds to take…and inevitably the meds interfere with other body functions…this don’t wokr, that don’t last…this needs fixing…lol…bedtime at 7 pm…neveh mind.
Beautiful
May 22nd, 2009
11:13 am
@LEGGS and DEMI. i wouldn’t like it one bit. the key words are INTERESTED IN HER. i’m not saying though that i would turn him away, but i would be one step ahead to the fact that he may still be feelin’ her.
Mo (aka Moeisha- wishing she had a hammock, a good book and some fresh lemonade)
May 22nd, 2009
11:17 am
Demi – why thanx! Add the fact that Im so short and there you go, Im a prime younger man target!
Cemeeli – that is cute!! I get all the old dudes when me & Lil Mo are out.
Leggs
May 22nd, 2009
11:18 am
No doubt, he needs to meet me! And I’m not laughing (said w/hands on hips mean mugging). Wait, that’s an old person’s stance!
Tazzee - all moved in (sort of)
May 22nd, 2009
11:18 am
if your gf told you that a guy approached her and was really interested in her, but she wasn’t interested in him and thought that you would be a better match. is this ok with you?
Yup, I am a firm believer of the referral system, as long as there was no physical.
Professor – glad you were able to get your tickets. I got first row in the first balcony, great seats!
Deeva4Life Thanks!!!
Cemeeli
May 22nd, 2009
11:18 am
Go Leggs -
Get your bid whist oooon….get your cleaning ooonnnn, get your partying oooon….aaaaaalll weekend long!
AmazonRed™
May 22nd, 2009
11:23 am
No doubt, he needs to meet me! And I’m not laughing (said w/hands on hips mean mugging). Wait, that’s an old person’s stance!
Leggs – I’ll see if I can pull a bait and switch on him.
I’ll agree to a date, and then you can show up. 
Besides, I wouldn’t want to have kids with a guy who is 50. He’d be someone’s grandpa at graduation!
Raqi...The Wife of one Sleepless in Seattle
May 22nd, 2009
11:24 am
LOL Leggs so you don’t do aged men.
Leggs
May 22nd, 2009
11:25 am
@M, you are so right with all the medication. I’m quite fortunate at the moment. I am not on medication for anything and I still like to skip and jump! Hell, I’ll even still play a game of dodge ball if I could find one.
Melo
May 22nd, 2009
11:27 am
Yup, I am a firm believer of the referral system, as long as there was no physical
Cmeone Tazz,at least the other lady has already guinea pig tested herself for STD and quality so u know when u mess,there wont be no stress!(ryhme?i want to be a songwriter now)
DJ Sniper
May 22nd, 2009
11:27 am
I’ve never really dated a woman older than me. When I was 18, I messed around a couple of times with a 25 year old chick, but that was about it. Now my brother-in-law could speak on this topic. He’s 23 and his wife is 35. They got married last August and now they are expecting their first child together. The age difference doesn’t seem to be a big deal for them at all. She’s just as goofy and silly as he is, yet she does keep him on the up and up. She’s also a good role model for his daughter from a previous relationship. Now if only we could figure out how to completely eliminate the daughter’s mother from the picture, life would be great. lol
Raqi...The Wife of one Sleepless in Seattle
May 22nd, 2009
11:29 am
She’s also a good role model for his daughter from a previous relationship
DJ how old is the daughter?
Melo
May 22nd, 2009
11:30 am
Now if only we could figure out how to completely eliminate the daughter’s mother from the picture, life would be great
murder for hire is one otpion
Beautiful
May 22nd, 2009
11:31 am
@TAZZEE
**as long as there was no physical** GREAT POINT!
@LEGGS
i think he would be able to handle you. ;o) go for it!
Leggs
May 22nd, 2009
11:32 am
@Raqi, the men I meet that are my age act old. Don’t know what happened, but there zest for life is a slow crawl. I would love to meet an aged gentlemen with spark and spunk in his spine! But I’m not so I’m going to try the younger generation. (I see Demi running toward me, must trip him when he gets to me).
Leggs
May 22nd, 2009
11:34 am
@Beautiful, what am I going for? He approached ARed, not me!
Beautiful
May 22nd, 2009
11:37 am
@LEGGS
nevermind chile’.
AmazonRed™
May 22nd, 2009
11:37 am
your bait and switch. I could actually see him doing a dbl take asking “where you come from, you’re shorter and hair is a different color?”
Raqi...The Wife of one Sleepless in Seattle
May 22nd, 2009
11:43 am
Leggs I guess it all depends. The only woman that I know personally that married a much older man did so because she wanted a guy that was done with running the streets, partying and chasing skirts. She wanted a guy that is settled. They vacation and travel together and all that but the partying and all that is out.
And it could very well be because she is of childbearing age and wanted a good settled man to father her kids. They have three and he spends time with his kids as a family man would rather than hanging out allllll the time with his buddies.
It just depends on where you are in life I guess.
Demi
May 22nd, 2009
11:45 am
(He’d be someone’s grandpa at graduation!)
providing he live that long…
(Now if only we could figure out how to completely eliminate the daughter’s mother from the picture, life would be great. lol)
Dj…ain’t you a sniper, LOL
Angie…you need to be a bit more opening minded bey…you never know how things will turn out…to often we are blinded by what’s not for us…when what’s for us is standing right in front of us.
Yes he was ‘INTERESTED IN HER’…but because of that fact…you chose to over look that person…like I said, as long as no sex is involve, you are good to go:
Yuh up inna di club and di music sweet
Yuh fi jook gal (Jook gal jook gal jook gal)
Hand pon di wall, look inna di mirror
And jook gal (Jook gal jook gal jook gal)
Hand pon di ground bumpa inna di air
And jook gal (Jook gal jook gal jook gal)
Junk in di trunk, wine up yuh rump
And jook gal (Jook gal jook gal jook gal)
Shake that ass (Wine wine) y’all lookin fine (Wine wine)
One ting deh pon yuh mind (Wine wine) bend over and wine (Wine wine)
Di Jamaican girls (Wine wine) di New York girls (Wine wine)
Mi see di down south girls dem a (Wine wine) ([Lil' Jon:] Hey!)
Dem a wine wine dem a wine wine
Leggs
May 22nd, 2009
11:45 am
Seriously, you said he could handle me that I should go for it. There’s nothing to go for. Metaphorically yes, but you….aww nevermind chile!
Raqi...The Wife of one Sleepless in Seattle
May 22nd, 2009
11:46 am
Beautiful I don’t think I could do the date referral if the guy approached me first. Even now being married I can’t see myself telling a guy “Unfortunately I am spoken for, but I have a friend that you might like to meet.”
M'
May 22nd, 2009
11:46 am
@Cee…did not deliver…send me the addy again
-W8(at the barbershop and off the clock for the weekend)
May 22nd, 2009
11:48 am
I like a “seasoned” woman. I checked a 40 year old who had the body of a 22yr old. Mmm mmm mmm..some younger women tend to still have somthings to work out..lol
DJ Sniper
May 22nd, 2009
11:49 am
Raqi, his daughter is 3. Her mother’s is trifling to the nth degree. Granted, my BIL ain’t perfect and he’s made his share of mistakes, but the mother is way worse.
Melo, we did think about that option! LOL!! On the real though, for the longest, my wife was just waiting for an opportunity to administer a beatdown to her for all the nonsense she’s pulled.
Beautiful
May 22nd, 2009
11:50 am
@ALVIN NOT DEMI
**i’m not saying though that i would turn him away, but i would be one step ahead to the fact that he may still be feelin’ her**
did you actually READ my post?!?
Cemeeli
May 22nd, 2009
11:51 am
“I get all the old dudes when me & Lil Mo are out.
Mo – Have you started going to the sporting event/store. Lil Mo is your pawn, USE HIM!
Beautiful
May 22nd, 2009
11:53 am
@LEGGS
i was being supportive and at the same time kiddin’ witcha bout he can handle you.
M'
May 22nd, 2009
11:53 am
Speaking of being a grandparent at graduation…did y’all read the 66 y/o woman who preggars for the first time???…wow
Grace
May 22nd, 2009
11:54 am
Happy Friday! Way to go Wise, I’ve dated a younger man, he was 6 years younger. For me it was more of the thrill of dating a younger man than the actual date. Although it was short lived, I enjoyed every bit of our time together, I doubt I’ll ever date a much younger man again, I’m more in tuned to older guys.
Cemeeli
May 22nd, 2009
11:55 am
M’ I heard about the 66 year old pregnant women the other day. So she will be 85 when baby is in 12th grade.
Raqi...The Wife of one Sleepless in Seattle
May 22nd, 2009
11:57 am
did y’all read the 66 y/o woman who preggars for the first time
M’ I heard about that. She must have been a late bloomer because God in heaven knows I hope I have gone thru menopause by that time and getting knocked up can be the furthest thing from my mind.
Beautiful
May 22nd, 2009
12:00 pm
@RAQI
but from what we’re reading, it seems like we should keep our friends in mind. i’ve never thought of referring the guys i meet to my single gfs.
i’m bout to send out a blast text message and get ev1’s pov on this. and if the response is good, i guess it’s on then!
M'
May 22nd, 2009
12:00 pm
@Cee & Raqi
Yes…mid-80’s and getting a child ready for prom…uh!!!!…and yes, I would not want to be in the baby making stage at that age either…heck, I am done with it now…truly.
Demi
May 22nd, 2009
12:03 pm
(did you actually READ my post?!?)
Hellz NO!!! LOL
Mad badd…angie, if I read wrong.
Cemeeli
May 22nd, 2009
12:04 pm
Speaking of graduation, i’m going to my first High School graduation party tomorrow at 5pm. Know it’s my co-workers son, but HE told her to ask me if i was comming…now does that say i’m young at heart and can “hang” with the youngins’? OR does that say he wants a fiya gift? Cause he know imma set him up!
He’s going to HBCU on a band scholarship and he has heard my tales many of times about what THIS summer’s band-boot-camp will be like. He’ll loose about 15-20 lbs in the first 6 weeks rehearsing the formation and routines alone.
Im partying with the youngin’s tommorrow…imma get my “stanky leg” oooon. but not for real…
Demi
May 22nd, 2009
12:04 pm
>>>my baad
Leggs
May 22nd, 2009
12:06 pm
@Raqi, your absolutely correct. It all depends on where you’re at in life.
Beautiful
May 22nd, 2009
12:07 pm
@ALVIN
it’s all good babe! (wink)
Professor (living for the 3 day weekend)
May 22nd, 2009
12:10 pm
@ Tazzee… my tickets are ORCH CT, row HH
@ Cee- LOL about the debil is a lie…shoot I is the prof now
@ Beautiful- The only time I redirected a guy to one of my friends was when I knew the guy pretty well e.g. a guy at work trying to hit on me and I told him about one of my friends…usually a situation like of that matter. When I was younger and hanging out if one of my friends “called” out a guy (you know admired him from a distance) I always respected that and if the guy approached me I would say something like she was just talking about you and redirect him to my friend. I stopped doing that when a smooth brother told me, “ok, because I am trying to talk to YOU.”
Raqi...The Wife of one Sleepless in Seattle
May 22nd, 2009
12:11 pm
M’ I am going to be almost 60 when my daughter graduates high school.
LOL The other Mason and I were talking and he said that he will 72 when our daughter goes on her first date and 77 when she gets married.
Demi
May 22nd, 2009
12:11 pm
W8…back when I was a gym head at age 23…I dated this 52 years old aerobic instructor…Mayne, she was a workout in it’s self!!!
we still when out and ran 2miles after our sessions
I was on the slow side of things…she was hoggin me to herself, LOL
Demi
May 22nd, 2009
12:14 pm
(I stopped doing that when a smooth brother told me, “ok, because I am trying to talk to YOU.”)
Professor…let me guess, you’re fly and your girls are alright…LOL
Raqi...The Wife of one Sleepless in Seattle
May 22nd, 2009
12:14 pm
Beautiful I am not against keeping a friend in mind to introduce to a guy that may be single. I just can’t do it if his initial interest is in me.
Now this is coming from a woman that is married to a man that was friends with her first husband. LOL
M'
May 22nd, 2009
12:17 pm
@Raqi
Being 60 when she GRADUATES and getting preggars past 60 ain’t the same…lol.
Cemeeli
May 22nd, 2009
12:18 pm
But you know what Raqi?
The other side of coin when getting “knocked up” is….and you can tell by my next line–>….”she gots that glow”…somma of us don’t have it, yet!
…going to lunch…
Professor (living for the 3 day weekend)
May 22nd, 2009
12:18 pm
@ Demi I am fly, and my girls are fly too…LOL.
That just sounds conceited, but I am very humble and I value my mind more than my face/body. My Daddy used to say there is nothing worse than a dumb woman, and being pretty is not enough. Long story short I have always strived to be a lifelong learner.
Raqi...The Wife of one Sleepless in Seattle
May 22nd, 2009
12:20 pm
Honest question…
Are men really okay with being passed off to someone else?
I wouldn’t like it if a guy I like tried to pass me off to a friend for whatever reason.
Like I said earlier, without the initial interest being there is one thing, but after he has approached me that’s that. Now should he meet a friend of mine in a different place and time and they get together that would a horse of another color. I had nothing to do with that.
Leggs
May 22nd, 2009
12:22 pm
@Raqi, been meaning to ask, is your husband very nervous?
Demi
May 22nd, 2009
12:23 pm
Watch ya now, it name
A pretty face and bad character
Dem the kinda livin can’t hold Chaka (follow me!)
A pretty face and bad character
Dem the kinda livin can’t hold Chaka
Seh gal yuh pretty
Yuh face it pretty
But yuh character dirty
Gal yuh just act too flirty flirty
Yuh run to Tom, Dick, an also Harry
An when yuh find yuh mistake
Yuh talk bout yuh sorry, sorry, sorry (Come now!)
AmazonRed™
May 22nd, 2009
12:26 pm
Being 60 when she GRADUATES and getting preggars past 60 ain’t the same…lol.
Amen!
I read these stories of 70 year old men who start families with their 30 year old brides and just feel it’s selfish. You kid deserves to have you around, barring any accidental death!
But from what I can tell, the 66 year old woman was taken by surprise? I’d be so heated!
Demi
May 22nd, 2009
12:27 pm
(Are men really okay with being passed off to someone else?)
Nope, as long as the girl is cool and fly…
Professional Lady…cool
Tazzee - all moved in (sort of)
May 22nd, 2009
12:28 pm
Raqi – I think when two mature people realize they don’t click, there’s nothing wrong with a referral. My best friend went out with a guy and discovered he was VERY involved in church. She goes when I ask her at the right time – so she told him about me. He and I both were open to meeting so we went on a date. Now would she have tried to work with him if he were cuter? I don’t know
Raqi...The Wife of one Sleepless in Seattle
May 22nd, 2009
12:28 pm
Leggs Nervous??? Not yet. He gets rather “concerned” if he knows I am hurting a little. If I am not feeling well when I go to bed he will wake up if I get up to go to the bathroom and ask if I am okay. But right now he is more excited than nervous.
Professor (living for the 3 day weekend)
May 22nd, 2009
12:30 pm
@@Raqi…I think the guys I have passed off at work understood that I do not date people that I work with. The guys that I met out when I was younger hanging out seemed ok except for that one brother that called me out. Long story short at this point in my life I cannot remember the last time I did the pass off. I guess if it came up now I would do a little thinking and if it adds value to my friend I would do it…
Raqi I don’t know if I shared this but my mom had my brother when she was three months shy of turning 44…the labor and delivery went well and my brother is 23 now…he has really been a blessing!!!
Raqi...The Wife of one Sleepless in Seattle
May 22nd, 2009
12:30 pm
Now would she have tried to work with him if he were cuter? I don’t know
LOL Tazzee The things that motivate us to give it a try.
Tazzee - all moved in (sort of)
May 22nd, 2009
12:31 pm
I’d be heated if I was taken by surprise with pregnancy at 38, so I know I’d be ready to give up the ghost if it happened at 66.
Demi
May 22nd, 2009
12:34 pm
Raqi…most dudes are trying to get it how ever they can…we rarely turn down puddy…no matter how crazy the puddy maybe:
Ah rather wait outta patience
Loving she get dat will be sufficient
Ah rather wait till ah cyar wait no more
X-amount ah loving hardcore
Me ah listen just to hear she knock pon de door
Only to touch and me no wha dat no more
Gyal flex time to have sex
Look how long yuh have de rude bwoy ah sweat
Gyal flex time to have sex sex sex sex sex sex
(Demi is at now at Mo’s desk…in full ‘FLEX’ mode)
Tazzee - all moved in (sort of)
May 22nd, 2009
12:35 pm
surprise pregnancy is surefire motivation for abstinence
AmazonRed™
May 22nd, 2009
12:35 pm
I’d be heated if I was taken by surprise with pregnancy at 38, so I know I’d be ready to give up the ghost if it happened at 66.
Exactly! But at least at 38, you know that the possibility exists. 66 is just cruel. You should be long past that “worry!” Whoo chile!
Raqi...The Wife of one Sleepless in Seattle
May 22nd, 2009
12:35 pm
Professor 44??? Wow.
Since Mason feels that we will live to be 94 and 95 I guess it is a good thing that we are having a child at this age. We gonna need somebody to change our diapers and feed us soup. LOL
DJ Sniper
May 22nd, 2009
12:37 pm
I have no issue with being passed off either.
Mo (aka Moeisha- wishing she had a hammock, a good book and some fresh lemonade)
May 22nd, 2009
12:38 pm
Demi (Chocolate Baby)- get the heck away from desk with all dat!! coming over here getting ya Chippendales on! LOL!
A pregnancy at 66!! Hell I dont want to be preggers after 35, much less 66!! DAYUM!!
Leggs
May 22nd, 2009
12:38 pm
I heard on the news that she got pregnant via vitro!
Beautiful
May 22nd, 2009
12:39 pm
lmao! i rec’d a call from two gfs. one said “hook a sista up witcho picky azz!” lol.
so that’s 2 YES – 0 NO.
Raqi...The Wife of one Sleepless in Seattle
May 22nd, 2009
12:42 pm
LOL Tazzee I just hope to be worry free at 66.
While this little I am carrying now was surprise, she was not a surprise.
Raqi...The Wife of one Sleepless in Seattle
May 22nd, 2009
12:44 pm
Demi and DJ passed off for random trim I get, but would it be okay if you are seeking a serious relationship.
AmazonRed™
May 22nd, 2009
12:44 pm
I wouldn’t like it if a guy I like tried to pass me off to a friend for whatever reason.
Like I said earlier, without the initial interest being there is one thing, but after he has approached me that’s that.
It’s really about ego. The person you’ve approached is telling you that you don’t have a shot with them, but that you might be a good fit for someone else. I find that a compliment in the midst of a “diss.” I might not like it at first, but realize it’s just a pride thing.
Might as well give it a shot.
The only thing I’d caution against is if the two friends hung out a lot. Cuz the guy may hit it off with your referral, but may still want a shot with you.
The Truth-Developing a camel hump
May 22nd, 2009
12:44 pm
Whats up folks?
On topic: Go for it WD. Dating you is prolly gonna be a thrill for that cat. School him, it’ll help his developement.
When I was 18 in germany I met this 32 yo chick that was going thru a divorce. She really liked me, prolly cause I still smelled like milk. Anyway, I could not wait to hit that thang. The big night came and I got drunk and went down there and blew a flat. The worse part was I had to jump out her window in the snow because they were checking the rooms. Took a whole week to get a second chance. LOL
My last three gf’s have been in their late 20’s, early thirties. At that age they still like having fun and arent pressed for kids, yet.
After 35 its a race to get knocked up and anybody including Jeb the janitor is game.
AmazonRed™
May 22nd, 2009
12:45 pm
I heard on the news that she got pregnant via vitro!
Oh, well that’s just silly and selfish!
I remember in elementary school, one girl had a 70 year old dad. We used to tease her cuz her dad was ANCIENT! I think he died before she got out of middle school.
Professor (living for the 3 day weekend)
May 22nd, 2009
12:47 pm
Yep she had him at 43 in January and turned 44 in April. I found this out recently at the time her doctor told her although she was 43 she had the body of a woman in her late 20s to early 30s…her doctor was in complete awe. My mother is in her 60s now and she still looks good. My brother was heaven sent…there is a 17 year difference between him and my oldest sister…I am about 10 years older than him I would not trade him for the world.
I must say this; I do not understand how my mom dealt with the outside criticism. This was in 1985 and her sisters gave her hell saying she was just too old. It tickles me now when her sisters need his help since they were the main ones talking.
Leggs
May 22nd, 2009
12:49 pm
Hi Sir Truth. I’m cleaning out my desk and came across the lyrics to the song you and I both like. I fondly remembered our short marriage and smile ear to ear at our divorce! (Stevie Wonder “All I Do”)
Beautiful
May 22nd, 2009
12:50 pm
**if it adds value to my friend I would do it…** ANOTHER GOOD POINT!
**I would say something like she was just talking about you and redirect him to my friend. I stopped doing that when a smooth brother told me, “ok, because I am trying to talk to YOU.”**
ummm, this is a different situation and a sticky one. you have to be careful cause you don’t want to lose a gf over a nicca. they come a dime a dozen. now if you triflin’ do you! but i can tell PROFESSOR HEAR ME ROAR that you’ll do the right thing like i would.
AmazonRed™
May 22nd, 2009
12:50 pm
After 35 its a race to get knocked up and anybody including Jeb the janitor is game.
It’s refreshing to be on here with so many 30+ sistas who aren’t trippin to have kids.
On another note, Angie is picky?
Tazzee - all moved in (sort of)
May 22nd, 2009
12:50 pm
She really liked me, prolly cause I still smelled like milk.
Always good to read you The Truth
Jamoca
May 22nd, 2009
12:53 pm
ow’s everybody?…hmph, I’m doing much better myself, now that it’s Friday! now spinning around in my chair Weeeeeeeeee Lol…yeah, right!
ON TOPIC: Can’t say that I’ve ever been interested in someone younger…since I can remember, I’ve always been into older men. At one point, I was seeing a much older fellow, who was just as vibrant and extremely active (indoors and outdoors…from yard work to the lair) and looked dayum good for his age (could have been all those roots and concoctions he’d brew and drink?! Lol
But…he was adamant about only dating younger women…but he was a charmer himself. However, I now find it a little funny that he’s really toning things down, when it comes to dating. He also divulged to me, that of all of the women he’s known…he could only trust me when it came down to personal matters, family/state of affairs…heyal, even on the financial end. And how he tends to the needs/wants of his home, his children (and their grown) and especially…his woman.
Like I said, we’ve known each other for awhile, so I’ve witnessed this to be true….but I believe that he’s just lonesome and being that he’s getting older, eventually he’ll have certain health issues that’ll need some “tending” to”…so he’s really seeking not only for that special someone, but that special someone that he can truly trust. And it’s funny that I said these words to him a long time ago, when I referred a few people to him (for auto body work)…when we called ourselves catching up on each other.
I thought for a minute that maybe at the time, he thought that maybe I was too young to take on anything more…well whatever the conclusion he came to, I was my “genuine self” ….and he could not really recall that character trait with anyone else he’d seen/been with in the past….talk about living like Anna Nicole!…IF that was my nature of course NOT!…(and don’t bother asking how old the man was).
Understandably, he could always hire help if need be (he tried that with me too…and told him upfront that whatever he was hoping for was not going to happen)….but I’m sure he’d rather have a loved one there to help him out when necessary, instead of paying a stranger (and boy, have I heard some stories)!
Leggs
May 22nd, 2009
12:55 pm
Talking about getting knocked up. I found out I was pregnant when I kept my apptmt with my gyn to take a fertility test. I got sick in his office and we took a pregnancy test instead. True story!
DJ Sniper
May 22nd, 2009
12:55 pm
Raqi, I honestly wouldn’t mind either way.
Jamoca
May 22nd, 2009
12:55 pm
Of course, in my greeting…I meant “how”? Anyway…
Raqi …I told my oldest to stay at home and I hope my youngest will go away. LOL ….but when Liz Adalyn arrives, she’ll be here to stay! Lol…had to add that!
Btw, your 11:43 definitely hits home for me in a big way. Having some good moments/memories of our own….well, of course! But I’ve enjoyed some who had come out of the “ol mid life crisis”…or somewhere in between. However, I also found that just because their driver’s license state that there older, does not necessarily mean they’re mature. Overtime, I’ve also found that being with that younger woman/or man, can bring up and about some underlying insecurities. That can be exhausting too…for both parties involved.
Cee LOL…why I gots to hurssshhh, chick?!?! Jamoca now challenges Cee’s stanky leg to my Halle Berraay…
Demi I was actually thinking the same thing with Snippa..LOL! And who told you to come out with the Elephant Man “Jook Gal”?!
Beautiful
May 22nd, 2009
12:57 pm
**On another note, Angie is picky?**
i am! and it’s a curse. i could actually be married right now. holdin’ out for the ONE could be a bad idea. whatcha think?
Beautiful
May 22nd, 2009
12:59 pm
i wouldn’t mind having another child. a lil girl would be nice! sasha.
AmazonRed™
May 22nd, 2009
12:59 pm
(Stevie Wonder “All I Do”)
That song is in my head today. Maybe it’s because I want to go to his concert and it’s one of my favorite songs…
AmazonRed™
May 22nd, 2009
1:00 pm
whatcha think?
No comment.
Beautiful
May 22nd, 2009
1:03 pm
@AMAZON
you picked the wrong time to be nice gurl!
AmazonRed™
May 22nd, 2009
1:04 pm
Raqi...The Wife of one Sleepless in Seattle
May 22nd, 2009
1:05 pm
she was 43 she had the body of a woman in her late 20s to early 30s
Okay I have read statements like this numerous of times and especially on here. How does one accomplish that? How do you stop the aging of your body while your mind and heart just functions right along?
I am 41 and I have a 41 year old body. All of my close friends are within 1-2 years older and younger than I am and we all look pretty much the same physically. Will someone please tell me what product can I buy to preserve my body that it does not age another year.
(Disclaimer: That is Raqi being a snide b1tch.)
This is how I see it. Being healthy and fit has no age in adults. I try to eat right for the most part and I get in what form of exercise that I can. But I am 41 years old and so is my body. I love it, my husband loves it.
If all 25 years olds looked exactly the same. Were all shaped and cut the same then I would see how one could say that they are close to having a the “body” of a 25 year old.
Even the fittest most healthiest individual’s body is the age that it is.
Tazzee - all moved in (sort of)
May 22nd, 2009
1:06 pm
AmRed – that song is in my head too, because it was on my iPod when I fell asleep last night. Did you go when he was here last time? I saw him in Houston and had a ball. Still trynna decide if I want to go see him this year – I mean why do we keep having concerts in the middle of the week? I doubt I can handle Stevie on a Wednesday and Anthony Hamilton ‘nem on a Thursday – all during my busy time at work.
Raqi...The Wife of one Sleepless in Seattle
May 22nd, 2009
1:08 pm
Jamoca Elizabeth is going to be her father’s child. LOL Where he goes, she will go.
AmazonRed™
May 22nd, 2009
1:09 pm
Tazzee – I didn’t go when he was here last time, and you know we were told it was “the last time.” We could ever see him.
I know Anthony Hamilton is the next day, but I’ma pass because I’ve seen him and I don’t really care to see Musiq in concert. Not a fan enough.
But wouldn’t you know, new boo is not a Stevie Wonder fan!
Professor (living for the 3 day weekend)
May 22nd, 2009
1:12 pm
Hey Beautiful, you are correct I will do right by my friends…I do not “roll” with just anybody so most of my friends go back 2.5 decades.
As for “could actually be married right now. holdin’ out for the ONE could be a bad idea. whatcha think?” I think you should keep holding out for the right one…the last thing you want to do is marry the wrong one that would be an abomination I meant to yell on that ABOMINATION!
@ Raqi…as stated her doctor told her she had the body of someone in her late 20s or early 30s. I do not think her doctor was judging her by “club” standards I would think he was applying medical standards and backing his medical opinion by the fact that she did not have complications. Fast-forward she now in her 60s and she is doing well no medical problems and she is not on any maintenance medication e.g. diabetes, high blood pressure, cholesterol etc. Maybe it is genes because my doctor told me keep doing whatever it is that I am doing because my medical report is always excellent.
Tazzee - all moved in (sort of)
May 22nd, 2009
1:13 pm
WHAT!?!?! NOT A STEVIE WONDER FAN?!?!?!
That’s cause for dismissal in my book. You definitely should go – do like I do, get two tickets and whoever’s lucky gets to go.
hmph, not a Stevie Wonder fan…blasphemy!
When I went the crowd was VERY diverse and everyone was rocking to the music. I’m talking myself into trynna go…
-W8(out drinking-shopping-just blessing the "A" today)
May 22nd, 2009
1:13 pm
@Ared-Go Nuggets
@Demi- yeah my older woman experience was cool until I took a trip south and saw a strip of gray hair(that freaked me out)..so I bout some stuff and shaved it for her…weekly. I actually prefer a woman over 33 but younger than 45…but there are exceptions to the case….
Its friday and I don’t have a thing to do…just going with the flow!! I’m at Danatana’s having a drink and a cigar..who’s coming..lol
The Truth-Developing a camel hump
May 22nd, 2009
1:13 pm
Leggs, that was a brief but exhilirating marriage if I do say so myself. We must do that again.
I was so hooked on All I Do I wore the grooves off it. I get stuck on songs like that. Then its over.
Ared, you can believe whatever these chicks say but I bet when they meet a cat in the breeding mode they arent screaming that I dont want kids noise. They’re prodding and starting with that lame azz “you’d be a great father” mess. Check please. LOL
AmazonRed™
May 22nd, 2009
1:14 pm
WHAT!?!?! NOT A STEVIE WONDER FAN?!?!?!
That’s cause for dismissal in my book.
Raqi...The Wife of one Sleepless in Seattle
May 22nd, 2009
1:16 pm
Professor I have had diabetes since I was a teenager, how old does that make my body?
Okay let me stop. I just find some comments rather interesting. And BTW you are not the first one to make such a statement so no it’s not you.
AmazonRed™
May 22nd, 2009
1:20 pm
Ared, you can believe whatever these chicks say but I bet when they meet a cat in the breeding mode they arent screaming that I dont want kids noise.
Truth – If my husband really wanted kids, I wouldn’t deny him that. But he’d have to sell me on it and make it sure we lived a lifestyle where we could properly support them.
And if we split, he’d have to take em with him.
Professor (living for the 3 day weekend)
May 22nd, 2009
1:20 pm
@ Raqi, although I have three degrees I am not a medical doctor…you can forward that question along with your co-payment to my uncle who is a medical doctor. I am merely a professor of business and human resources.
LIONESS-Doing one too many things @ once
May 22nd, 2009
1:21 pm
I just made it into my 30’s and I have craving a baby for minute but I am too picky to have one with anybody.. If I don’t have a child by 35 then it is a WRAP
Beautiful
May 22nd, 2009
1:21 pm
**I think you should keep holding out for the right one…the last thing you want to do is marry the wrong one that would be an abomination I meant to yell on that ABOMINATION!**
@Professor
i’m hoping that you read me right on this comment, but i do have doubts SOMETIMES. and i shouldn’t because then i’m doubting what God has in store for me. (why am i thinking about SEXYCOOL right now?) but i don’t want to grow old alone. i’m not going to put an age on it, but one morning i’ll prolly wake up and just pick one. lol.
i know what i like, and everytime i find it it’s bad timing.
Tazzee - all moved in (sort of)
May 22nd, 2009
1:26 pm
AmRed – yeah, I guess if he’s not from here, I’d give him a pass. My guy said that he’s not a big EW&F fan, I told him he’s lucky he has such a beautiful smile because I might have had to let him go
AmazonRed™
May 22nd, 2009
1:29 pm
My guy said that he’s not a big EW&F fan, I told him he’s lucky he has such a beautiful smile because I might have had to let him go
What is up with these dudes! I love love love, EWF. I’m not going to their concert but LOVE. THEM.
Demi
May 22nd, 2009
1:33 pm
Mo…Where’s my MONEY?! LOl
W8…ish, the gray looked good on her, LOL
Raqi…Again that’s no problem…providing there was no sex involve. I hang with mostly lesbian women nowadays…so I know I will get some good picks…because those ladies know my favor for now…D’s, thick wit, and a gap of an a$$ (a seconds from pancake booty, LOL)
With my home boys…I don’t date any woman they’ve slept with…ladies, that is cool with Demi!!
they like what I like
(My girl got a girl friend, that sex be that whirl wind)
Note: Demi is currently celibate…just in no mood to hang out with straight women…unless they’re blog folks.
Poppa Grande
May 22nd, 2009
1:35 pm
Stevie gives a great concert. I’ve seen him perform a couple of times. One time Al Green also performed.
One show he got on top of the piano. The look on people’s faces was priceless when he got close to the edge.
On topic
Two words….”Do you”. If it works, it works. If it doesn’t, it isn’t for nothing if you learn something from it.
I served my Cougar duty as a 24 year old with a 41 year old. It really wasn’t a relationship, it was just what it was.
We more or less met at the designated place at the designated time for the designated activity.
AR
Kenyan Martin told me to give you this message (and pass it to your Laker Lovin’ friends):
“It’s not going to be us and Orlando laying down so those two could play in two weeks. It ain’t going to happen,” Denver’s Kenyon Martin vowed. “I’m going to make sure it don’t. Y’all can go home and play ‘NBA Live’ if y’all want to see that matchup.”
Raqi...The Wife of one Sleepless in Seattle
May 22nd, 2009
1:36 pm
Demi actually 95% of the men I know are lesbians.
Leggs
May 22nd, 2009
1:40 pm
@Raqi, “where he goes, she goes” = built in GPS system.
I love, love All I Do. I pulled into the gas station last week and the song was blazing. I cranked up the volume and had the lady in front of me singing and the man on the side of me laughing at us both.
Who doesn’t like Stevie Wonder. His clothes maybe, but not the man himself!
AmazonRed™
May 22nd, 2009
1:41 pm
PG – I know you are not listening to K-Mart’s ghetto azz!
Tazzee - all moved in (sort of)
May 22nd, 2009
1:41 pm
PoppaG How in the world did I miss that Kenyon comment? Prolly cause I was sleep, but that’s classic!
Tazzee - all moved in (sort of)
May 22nd, 2009
1:43 pm
His clothes maybe – and his hair…
AmazonRed™
May 22nd, 2009
1:45 pm
Who doesn’t like Stevie Wonder
I think that happens when you find out that the good seats are at $145 a pop plus fees.
Willie Dynamite
May 22nd, 2009
1:45 pm
Afternoon all,
On Topic- As an 18 yr old college student my 1st real GF was a 27 yr old. I’ve since had several older women as I seem to be able to relate more with them. Young gurls really couldnt do nothing for me but a few thangs then bounce.
Leggs
May 22nd, 2009
1:46 pm
@W8, you had me laughing at freaking out on the gray!
@Truth, the next time you’re in between wives look me up. Do you remember who your attorney was for our divorce. Just curious?
Mo (aka Moeisha- wishing she had a hammock, a good book and some fresh lemonade)
May 22nd, 2009
1:48 pm
PG – I heard that Kenyon Martin comment and laughed hard! He is a mess…..but I agree!
And how in the h3ll can you NOT like EWF or Stevie Wonder?!?! That just isnt right…..I know I would have look at a dude straight crazy if I heard some blasphemy like that. My favorites by the two are Love’s Holiday and AS…..gets no better…
Mo (aka Moeisha- wishing she had a hammock, a good book and some fresh lemonade)
May 22nd, 2009
1:49 pm
Demi – What money?? Mo now stuffing all the dollars Demi earned in her bra like the old ladies do!
Raqi...The Wife of one Sleepless in Seattle
May 22nd, 2009
1:51 pm
Speaking of Stevie, how ghetto would it be for Mase to sing “Isn’t she lovely” at Elizabeth’s christening?
Melo
May 22nd, 2009
1:53 pm
until I took a trip south and saw a strip of gray hair(that freaked me out)..
U kidding me,grey hairs there too??!!
Leggs,can u confirm,from ur experience that its possible.If she dont shave,and its ur first time to see her nekked,then ur wondering,why does this chic want to do this and play with lil chickens same time.Coz it sure looks like shes tryin to throttle a young chic tween her leggs.
Poppa Grande
May 22nd, 2009
1:53 pm
Mo
Did you see Dwight Howard mock LeBron’s Power thing? He did it last night at the end of the halftime interview.
Both the Magic and Nuggets players have started talking about the LeBron/Kobe commercials including the puppet ones.
Van Gundy used LeBron’s catch phrase at half time of game one when he talked to his team. He told them that they were just out there “wtinessing” LeBron and the Cavs, but not playing against them.
Poppa Grande
May 22nd, 2009
1:53 pm
Powder thing not Power.
Melo
May 22nd, 2009
1:55 pm
I’ve since had several older women as I seem to be able to relate more with them
Do ur thang..oh wait!! U divorced now man?? Sorry to hear that.
Leggs
May 22nd, 2009
1:55 pm
I don’t think that’s ghetto at all. Don’t forget that there’s a part that says the meaning of her name.
Poppa Grande
May 22nd, 2009
1:56 pm
Well, I must admit (I think that I have on here before) that I can take or leave Frankie Beverly & Maze.
Raqi
I’d say more Cheesy than ghetto.
AmazonRed™
May 22nd, 2009
1:56 pm
Do ur thang..oh wait!! U divorced now man?? Sorry to hear that.
melo – You are just messy.
Demi
May 22nd, 2009
1:57 pm
Mo…mayne, you know T&T folks don’t like to tip…just look, LOL.
(Demi actually 95% of the men I know are lesbians.)
Raqi…you see…You women need to get with the program!!!
Raqi is now beating Demi to the white meat with her baby’s bottle
Tazzee - all moved in (sort of)
May 22nd, 2009
1:57 pm
Raqi – it would only be ghetto if he can’t sing. Or if he has to do it through a karaoke machine. Or if the family has a choreographed ’sway’ to his serenade.
AmazonRed™
May 22nd, 2009
1:58 pm
Well, I must admit (I think that I have on here before) that I can take or leave Frankie Beverly & Maze.
Yeah, but we weren’t talking about them. To me, they never blew up like Stevie or EWF for that very reason. Seems to me their appeal is stronger in certain regions.
Leggs
May 22nd, 2009
1:58 pm
Melo, I literally almost choked. Can’t believe you called me out on that grey shyt! You are truly crazy.
Yes, some grey strands there but none on my head…go figure!
Leggs
May 22nd, 2009
2:00 pm
You are not divorced, are you????
Raqi...The Wife of one Sleepless in Seattle
May 22nd, 2009
2:01 pm
Leggs I know, but I have already figured out how that can be fixed using her name. I know Mason would do it because not only does he love to sing, the words to that song are appropriate for how I know he feels.
Poppa Cheesy is good. Ghetto is to be avoided. LOL
Mo (aka Moeisha- wishing she had a hammock, a good book and some fresh lemonade)
May 22nd, 2009
2:01 pm
PG – yes I did!!! Classic!! They are making this thing so entertaining!!
Poppa Grande
May 22nd, 2009
2:02 pm
AR
I will say this much….in the post game comments last night, Carmelo kept saying that the Nuggets gave away game one and refused to let that happen again.
I actually agree. If they knew how to in bound the ball late in game 1 Trevor Ariza doesn’t get that crucial steal.
Either team could be 2-0 in that series. Both teams are lucky to be 1-1.
Leggs
May 22nd, 2009
2:03 pm
And btw, the first time I saw it, I freaked. I stared and stared all the while holding it in disbelief!
Raqi...The Wife of one Sleepless in Seattle
May 22nd, 2009
2:04 pm
if the family has a choreographed ’sway’ to his serenade
LMBO Tazzee I have met some of his folks so maybe we will save the singing portion for the reception afterwards.
Willie Dynamite
May 22nd, 2009
2:05 pm
Enter your comments here
Leggs
May 22nd, 2009
2:05 pm
@Raqi, since you’ve figured out that part, the song will be perfect. Although I don’t know him, the things you do say has given me a good picture that would be the perfect song coming straight from his heart!
Willie Dynamite
May 22nd, 2009
2:06 pm
No not divorced I was speaking of my single days with the since then quote. Should have said until I was hitched. Dont wanna be in the Divorce pile. Definitely dont wanna be in the game anymore. If I was I’d be more of a GM or VP of player personnel. j/k bnr
AmazonRed™
May 22nd, 2009
2:06 pm
in the post game comments last night, Carmelo kept saying that the Nuggets gave away game one and refused to let that happen again.
Good for him, and K-Mart. The Lakers are not about to just lay down tho, so even though they aren’t on TV making “guarantees” it’s still anyone’s game.
Nice sound bites tho, I’m sure the NBA appreaciates all the extra attention.
Poppa Grande
May 22nd, 2009
2:08 pm
Raqi
Cheesy is good. Ghetto is to be avoided.
Chessy is like some of the Wayne Brady stuff (not counting the Dave Chapelle skit).
Ghetto would be like Mase letting out his inner “Lil Jon” with a “Ooookkkaaayy!!” or “WHUT!!!”.
Willie Dynamite
May 22nd, 2009
2:11 pm
Pops- wouldnt it be cool if wayne brady did a role as a bad guy. He is just so corny/cheesy that he needs something diff to get him outta that type-cast.
Melo
May 22nd, 2009
2:16 pm
Is Staceye gone home for the holiday,Leggs? I really wanted to hang wit her this weekend,i told her be4.Next time then.
Poppa Grande
May 22nd, 2009
2:18 pm
AR
The Lakers are not about to just lay down tho, so even though they aren’t on TV making “guarantees” it’s still anyone’s game.
I think that their issue isn’t as much with the Lakers as it the NBA. The same goes for Orlando. Both teams seem that taken the commercials and hype as motivation. How many times does that Vitamin water commercial play that cuts back and forth between LA and Cleveland?
Neither Martin nor Anthony really even referenced the Lakers directly. They seem to say “Don’t overlook us”. I don’t think that they are saying that Lakers will lay down.
As for me, I just don’t think Phil Jackson is the coach that everyone bills him to be. He hasn’t built a team into a winner. He got teams AFTER they got their main pieces. He got the Bulls after Jordan. He got to the Lakers after Shaq and Kobe were there.
Melo
May 22nd, 2009
2:20 pm
You are not divorced, are you????
were u talking to me Leggs??
Well,Im hitched but anything is possible in lyfe.I wont rule that out,lyfe has no guarantees.She cld run away with a cougar hunter boy and same as me.So any singles out there wondering how married lyfe feels and pining to have wild and rough zulu love-making sessions eve nite,holla!
Poppa Grande
May 22nd, 2009
2:20 pm
Willie Dynamite
Did you see him in the Dave Chapelle skit? That was funny.
He has been a bad guy in a couple of movies. In one movie, he was a crooked sports agent. They weren’t big movies, but hey, the point is he’s tried.
Unless he produces, directs, etc, he is at the mercy of what is offered.
Leggs
May 22nd, 2009
2:23 pm
@Melo, Staceye is in Miami. No, I wasn’t talking to you. I thought you said WillieD was divorced. Do you crack yourself up?
Willie Dynamite
May 22nd, 2009
2:23 pm
Pops- Yeah I saw it and LMAO. Another classic Chappelle skit. Funny thing is I thought Chappelle was corny until he did his show.
AmazonRed™
May 22nd, 2009
2:24 pm
30 minutes til happy hour…
Leggs
May 22nd, 2009
2:26 pm
@PoppaG, I saw that skit and I was inholding my stomach. It was hysterical. Never seen him in anything like that since!
AmazonRed™
May 22nd, 2009
2:26 pm
They seem to say “Don’t overlook us”.
Wah wah.
On another note, Wayne Brady is the absolute worst. His Asian wife left him too.
Leggs
May 22nd, 2009
2:28 pm
I won the lottery, anybody want to meet for drinks.
Melo
May 22nd, 2009
2:28 pm
Ared u got plans with that New new this weekend? U dissappoint me a bit.Why u pass over the blog guys?? or maybe u dated but they too lame or too ghetto and cheap that none ignited ur ambers….nosy me
DJ Sniper
May 22nd, 2009
2:29 pm
“Is Wayne Brady gonna have to choke a b***h?”
CTFU!!!!! I was done after that skit!!!!
Demi
May 22nd, 2009
2:29 pm
PG…true…but not many coaches are able to get their star players to along for 4 years plus, LOL.
I am glad lakers loss…losses seems to make Phil J’son teams hungry…they were lookin like bored strippas, with no fool to dance for…
who watch, ‘Do you think you can dance’, last night?…I didn’t know Dever build women like that, Big pretty leggs!!
Leggs
May 22nd, 2009
2:31 pm
@Demi, I watched the show. This year they have a plethora of talent. It’s going to be very interesting. Hope they get another female pop locker this season!
Melo
May 22nd, 2009
2:33 pm
He got to the Lakers after Shaq and Kobe were there.
and u seem to be dismissing the players around the 1 or 2 stars u mention,even those that came after Phil.Where do they come in and do they matter??Its not like u can pick me and i go in there to fill the roster and the lakers are a contenter or maybe,can i(i dnt wanna shot change me,so modesty is always my mantra,plz rate my b-ball-skills)
I thought this was a team spot….
Tazzee - all moved in (sort of)
May 22nd, 2009
2:33 pm
30 minutes til happy hour…
I’m jealous. I’m leaving early today, but that’s to meet with my trainer. He ditched me yesterday morning because of his firstborn deciding to show up.
AmazonRed™
May 22nd, 2009
2:34 pm
Ared u got plans with that New new this weekend?
No, actually he invited me to Florida but I have pre-existing plans out of town this weekend.
As for the blog guys, I’ve just never seen this forum as a hook up spot for me. Online hooking up in general just doesn’t do it for me. Even when I do online dating, I never want to meet the guy in person. Maybe if the well runs dry in real life I’ll think differently. Not like I rule it out completely, but something big would have to happen to get my attention.
Cemeeli
May 22nd, 2009
2:35 pm
“Did you see Dwight Howard mock LeBron’s Power thing?
PoppaG I missed that! Where was I? oh but, my son loooooooooooveeessss…loovves…loves that D. Howard broke the goal in that Magic/Cavs game.
Time to go? ina minute, ina minute.
AmazonRed™
May 22nd, 2009
2:35 pm
I’m leaving early today, but that’s to meet with my trainer. He ditched me yesterday morning because of his firstborn deciding to show up.
Tazzee – I saw your tweet about it. The text message had me LMAO!!!!
Raqi...The Wife of one Sleepless in Seattle
May 22nd, 2009
2:35 pm
He ditched me yesterday morning because of his firstborn deciding to show up.
The nerve of him.
Tazzee - all moved in (sort of)
May 22nd, 2009
2:44 pm
AmRed – I was HEATED because I didn’t want to get up and go to the gym anyway. Then I didn’t have my iPod to help me through that 5am workout.
Raqi – the nerve of that baby!
Poppa Grande
May 22nd, 2009
2:44 pm
Melo
Jackson didn’t win a darn thing without Michael Jordan, but he still have Pippen and Kukoc.
He hasn’t won a ring without Shaq either.
I give the players more of the credit than him. The triangle system that he uses was gonna revolutionize the NBA. However, he has seen that the system isn’t so good without a Air or some Diesel to fuel it.
Melo
May 22nd, 2009
2:44 pm
Dever build women like that, Big pretty leggs!!
U like Big pretty leggs,bwa?? With ur short frame,u literally go undercover ‘tween those!
Smebody: where u aaaat Deeeeemi!!?? (hollering)
Demi: here,,mwaaa,mwaaa (busy licking stuff)
Smebody:where(looking around)
Demi: here,shaquinda has me ‘tween her leggs,cme on maayne,here,u cant see me(demi raising his hand)
Smebody: Lawd have mercy….. it wont help,coz both of u are as dark as a sudanese..u blend there nicely demi(demi takes effort to cover his nekked butt)
Raqi...The Wife of one Sleepless in Seattle
May 22nd, 2009
2:46 pm
Who wants to go to the airport for me at 6am tomorrow? I’ll pay you $200.
Raqi...The Wife of one Sleepless in Seattle
May 22nd, 2009
2:49 pm
LOL Tazzee the thing about babies is, they ain’t coming until they are ready (unless you cut them out) and once they are coming ain’t no stopping them.
I hope everyone have a safe and enjoyable holiday weekend. I will read you all later.
Melo
May 22nd, 2009
2:50 pm
Im thinking about Frankie B and Maze and K.Edmonds,uall think that show will be real good at Chastain?? Help me out coz 2 tickets for 150 and change,it better be wrth it!
watchu all think???
Poppa Grande
May 22nd, 2009
2:50 pm
Who wants to go to the airport for me at 6am tomorrow? I’ll pay you $200.
$200. I need more than that for bail.
Need to add a couple of zeros and commas.
AmazonRed™
May 22nd, 2009
2:52 pm
$200. I need more than that for bail.
And PG, what would you need bail for??? You’re helping out a pregnant lady in need?
Poppa Grande
May 22nd, 2009
2:52 pm
Cee
oh but, my son loooooooooooveeessss…loovves…loves that D. Howard broke the goal in that Magic/Cavs game.
Dwight seems to be a good guy. That bring the shot clock thing down was something.
Tazzee - all moved in (sort of)
May 22nd, 2009
2:54 pm
Have a great weekend Raqi!
Melo – I’ve seen Frankie B and Maze so many times, I can’t imagine paying to see them. But Babyface puts on a GREAT concert. He performed songs I didn’t even know he wrote.
Tazzee - all moved in (sort of)
May 22nd, 2009
2:54 pm
PoppaG – I think she just wants you to go pick up Mason…
Leggs
May 22nd, 2009
2:55 pm
Dang, just ignore me why don’t cha! I’ll stop and have a drink by myself! :frown:
Leggs
May 22nd, 2009
2:55 pm
HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA, wasb’t sure if think that “frown” would work!
Poppa Grande
May 22nd, 2009
2:55 pm
AR
And PG, what would you need bail for??? You’re helping out a pregnant lady in need?
Have you dealt with APD at the Airport on a holiday weekend in the pickup/dropoff zone? They can get a little bit power happy, and want the line to keep moving.
I would have to drive slowly considering I probably wouldn’t know what the person that I was looking for looked like. I’d get aggravated and it could get heated and so on….
Cemeeli
May 22nd, 2009
2:56 pm
Okay so Jamoca you like dance challenges hunh?
AmazonRed™
May 22nd, 2009
2:57 pm
Leggs – The frown is just a sad face. : + ( =
Melo
May 22nd, 2009
2:57 pm
Tazz, u mean theyr’e boring or they all too familiar to u by now??
AmazonRed™
May 22nd, 2009
2:58 pm
Have you dealt with APD at the Airport on a holiday weekend in the pickup/dropoff zone?
No sir!
And Leggs – You know better than last minute invites before holiday weekends!!!
-W8©
May 22nd, 2009
2:59 pm
Hello good people..I hope you all have a wonderful weekend lined up
Cemeeli
May 22nd, 2009
3:02 pm
I may have to work MONDAY???!!!!
What the DEVIL?
I cain’t stand our fiscal year end close the month of June will be crazy!!!
AmazonRed™
May 22nd, 2009
3:03 pm
Everyone have a safe and restful holiday weekend. Stay dry!
Leggs
May 22nd, 2009
3:04 pm
Sorry, sounds like I already took a few drinks. HAAAAAAAAAA!
Leggs
May 22nd, 2009
3:06 pm
@ARed, I keep forgetting it’s a holiday weekend. My daughter who’s been mad at me for the past 2 days is now my bestest friend. She wants some of my $$. I ain’t stupid and she ain’t slick!
Leggs
May 22nd, 2009
3:07 pm
:+(
AmazonRed™
May 22nd, 2009
3:08 pm
Take the plus sign off Leggs.
Leggs
May 22nd, 2009
3:09 pm
Tazzee - all moved in (sort of)
May 22nd, 2009
3:10 pm
melo – I’m not much of a Maze fan so seeing them multiple times at the Essence Music Festival, at Chastain and on the TJMS cruise – performing the same songs each time – makes me not want to pay to see them. But if you’ve never seen them or if you’re a big fan, I think it would be worth it.
Tazzee - all moved in (sort of)
May 22nd, 2009
3:11 pm
Leggs – did you really win the lottery? Congrats! I considered going to your spot this evening to watch the game, but opted to stay in my neighborhood.
Leggs
May 22nd, 2009
3:12 pm
I like Maze and have seen them in concert about 3x. However, if I hear “Before I let you go” one more time I might flip out. As soon as the music starts on the radio I’m flipping the channel.
Tazzee - all moved in (sort of)
May 22nd, 2009
3:13 pm
PoppaG – I always pick up/get picked up downstairs and unless it’s a super busy holiday, we’ve never had problems with the po po.
Wise Diva
May 22nd, 2009
3:17 pm
Hey everyone!
@ Imapeach he seems mature, I’m concerned about if that is a facade LOL
His last girlfriend was 42 so umm yeah, wonder how that ended
Poppa Grande
May 22nd, 2009
3:19 pm
Tazzee
I always pick up/get picked up downstairs and unless it’s a super busy holiday, we’ve never had problems with the po po.
I have actually seen them pull a lady out of her car and handcuff her. I think that it made the news later
I’ve seen them get quite aggravated particularly some of the female ones.
As for me, I have an Entertainment Book and they have coupons for Park’n Ticket and others on Camp Creek. I’d rather just go to my car than wait for someone to pick me up.
Darlin*One
May 22nd, 2009
3:20 pm
When I was 38, I married my then 29 year old husband. We’ve been married 31 yrs.
Knock yourself out.
Melo
May 22nd, 2009
3:21 pm
So Wise,u only talk to Imapeach?? I asked u a qstion too,u know
whats up with that??? have u,ughhh, cough,cough yet…….??
Tazzee - all moved in (sort of)
May 22nd, 2009
3:25 pm
Cemeeli working on Monday?!?! Sorry to hear that, maybe we can grab lunch or something. Or you can come by the house, I’ll ‘prepare’ lunch for you notice I didn’t say cook
-W8©
May 22nd, 2009
3:26 pm
@W8- “Hello good people..I hope you all have a wonderful weekend lined up”
Aight, man..you do the same. I catch ya next week….LMAO
Cemeeli
May 22nd, 2009
3:28 pm
Tazzee – I’m so not crunk for the holiday. My boss just left and said we might ave to. The program and balances for May are off, and June is our year end close.
okay, i’m taking up your offer if i have to come in. i’ll bring …me.
Leggs
May 22nd, 2009
3:33 pm
Yeah, I got some spending money ($500). My child says she’s half of me and should get half. I told her to bad today is the last day of school because she needs more math lessons!
Tazzee - all moved in (sort of)
May 22nd, 2009
3:35 pm
Heading out of here. Have a great weekend all!
You too W8, LOL!
LIONESS-Mani Pedi time
May 22nd, 2009
3:36 pm
Leggs- Where are you having drinks & when?
Poppa Grande
May 22nd, 2009
3:39 pm
Leggs
Congrats on the scratch….
My uncle (my mom’s baby bro & he and I are a couple of year apart) recently hit fantasy five and won $75,000 and some change after taxes.
Saddly, it won’t be me because I don’t play.
Jamoca
May 22nd, 2009
3:41 pm
Okay….now I’m sleepy…especially with the nice shower going on outside.
Cee I’ve always liked dance offs, so you’d better start gettin’ your moves together…and in the words of Old Man Sam…. CHALLENNNNGE!
Oh and WD I guess that I never answered your question to the ladies….and that is: Of Course NOT. Why would your decision be considered insane? Now if you were to say that you wanted to marry (any) dude (no matter his age) after the first few dates??? Now that’s just insane.
But you’re only really getting to know the man, so try not to jump to conclusions about what will/won’t happen right now or even in the future…deciding to enter into any relationship is a gamble if you ask me, since none of us can foresee the future; so try not to pick it apart. Enjoy it for what it is right now and address whatever concerns/issues as they come/present themselves…or just through light discussion, unless there are already some concerns to raise your eyebrows about. Otherwise, you’ve already given the relationship a headstart onto a negative path.
Enjoy him and allow the man to enjoy you. You’ve both engaged the situation, let alone each other this far, so he must be somewhat mature enough to converse with…even to the point of considering an actual relationship. And I’m happy for you!…so gon’ head Stellah and letcha’ hair down.
Leggs – okay all this hitting the numbers twice in a row for the same amount???…WE need to talk about the inside connection you have not told us about.
Tazzee - all moved in (sort of)
May 22nd, 2009
3:41 pm
Nevermind…not leaving early
Cemeeli
May 22nd, 2009
3:43 pm
Leggs – I’m there to…the child has been falling off in 2 subjects. He needs and is getting English/language/spelling lessons/tutorials.
God knows the minds of someone who is a English Major and it ain’t me!!!
‘Cause sometimes i can’t make any sense of his writings and writing webs. But i DO NOT want to crush his creative/writing b/c i’m not intuned.
Thanks mytwosense.
Cemeeli
May 22nd, 2009
3:46 pm
Tazzee siiiiister you can come over in to the section with me chica…
Cemeeli
May 22nd, 2009
3:46 pm
thumb suck….:(
David
May 22nd, 2009
3:48 pm
As long as the relationship passes the 7 Year Rule, then it’s fine. (Cut the age of the older of the two of you in half, and add 7. That’s the youngest you can go.)
Go get ‘em Tiger.
foxdog
May 22nd, 2009
3:51 pm
My wife is 7 years older than me, we will celebrate our 24th anniversary in June…if she doesn’t run me off before then ;>)
Melo
May 22nd, 2009
3:52 pm
Summer is here: Please don’t pee in the pool-CNN
I dont know of any sane person that wld be in a pool, leaves the pool,walks a couple of yards jus to go pee!!Its common sense.U dont do that.
U in the pool,U pee in the pool!
They say cdc says it causes this and that…puleeeeeze,whoever died of that????
Leggs
May 22nd, 2009
3:57 pm
@Jamoca. I played my b-day (129) and hit. I believed this to be a good number so I reversed the numbers (921). I played 921 for 14 days. I knew it would come back. Hit last night. Cash 3 favors 9’s 8’s 3’s and 1’s.
Stopping at O’Charley’s and may wind up at Dugan’s (close to home and it’s raining).
@Cee, lil leggs has an A in Algebra. Was making fun at her for thinking she should get half of the $500.
Jamoca
May 22nd, 2009
3:57 pm
Melo – Funny you say that. At one of our theme parks here, if you urinate in the water, everyone will know its YOU, since the chemicals in the water turns the urine into a different color! LOL But on another note, that is why I get on children that allow themselvess to somehow swallow pool water, public or private.
Demi
May 22nd, 2009
3:59 pm
leggs…I need the women to step up to the plate this year…Joshua has set the standards high!
Melo…not far from the truth…since most women I date are 5′6 thru 5′9 and thick wit it…
Mo (aka Moeisha- wishing she had a hammock, a good book and some fresh lemonade)
May 22nd, 2009
4:00 pm
Cemeeli – Chica say it aint so!! I was an English Major in college and Mom-Dukes was an english teacher! I loves all reading/spelling/etc…..but give me some numbers and I quickly go dumb!
Demi
May 22nd, 2009
4:02 pm
Saddly, it won’t be me because I don’t play…I heard that.
Cemeeli
May 22nd, 2009
4:03 pm
No Leggs i’m S.E.R.I.O.U.S!
Lil Cee is struggling in English/writing. And I need ppl with English majors to help balance me and him, because the writing web drives me crazy when i have to work on it.
I struggled with the Math as a kid. but look, my favorite teacher in the world Mrs. Foster 9th and 10th grade Algebra and Trig, and LOOK at my line of work now, you cain’t tell i was a rebellion against MATH as one point!!!
mytwo
Professor (living for the 3 day weekend)
May 22nd, 2009
4:05 pm
@ Leggs 127 has always been my lucky cash 3 number. I have not played in a while, usually I will play on Saturdays if I am chilling out with my mom she hit on 333 a few weeks back $5.00 straight.
Cemeeli
May 22nd, 2009
4:05 pm
Mo -Pah-lease give me the numbers…allll day!
Tazzee - all moved in (sort of)
May 22nd, 2009
4:05 pm
Well, I’m leaving earlier than I have all week – but not in time to meet my trainer.
Cee – call me later, I might be at the wing spot watching the game tonight.
Wise Diva
May 22nd, 2009
4:07 pm
great great points Jamoca, thank you!
M'
May 22nd, 2009
4:08 pm
@Leggs
I would join ya…but you know how limited in transit we MARTA bound peeps is…enjoy…and evryone enjoy the weekend…stay safe!!!
Poppa Grande
May 22nd, 2009
4:08 pm
Cee
There are tons of computer programs that you can get that can help, at least until you can get him some help.
I think that studies show that males have a harder time with English. (which make sense if we aren’t verbally stimulated) It definitely something that I had to really work on. I eventually got it, but only through repetition. My parents got me a spelling dictionary.
The funny thing is that numbers came naturally to me. Math was my thing. In college, I tutored people in Physics even though I didn’t have to take it. AP Calculus gave me college math credit while in high school. Geometric proofs were my specialty.
Melo
May 22nd, 2009
4:09 pm
(close to home and it’s raining).
lemme look out the window 1st.Leggs,u mean its raining now,will rain later or u saying ur plans include induced personal raining later, tonite….what u mean precisely?
LIONESS-Mani Pedi time
May 22nd, 2009
4:09 pm
Have a Fantabulous Weekend All
Read you sometime next week if I get the time 
Beautiful
May 22nd, 2009
4:09 pm
**@Truth, the next time you’re in between wives look me up. Do you remember who your attorney was for our divorce. Just curious?**
THAT WAS THE MOST FUN I HAD ON THIS BLOG! LOL.
Willie Dynamite
May 22nd, 2009
4:10 pm
Leggs- Tell the gang I said hello. heyal they prolly dont even remember me its been so long. lol!!!
Tazzee - all moved in (sort of)
May 22nd, 2009
4:11 pm
David – never heard of the 7 year rule. I’ll have to file that one away, LOL.
Melo
May 22nd, 2009
4:11 pm
not far from the truth…since most women I date are 5′6 thru 5′9 and thick wit it…
Really..look at utchu Demi,im so proud!!!
That rap song,Aint neva scared,neva scared…..,or sme to that effect,must have been composed jus for U!!
Leggs
May 22nd, 2009
4:14 pm
Where are you M, call me (770) 270-7842. Leaving at 5:30.
@Cee, I use to be an English major. What’s his writing style like!
@Melo, it’s raining now so perhaps I stay close to home since I don’t have any invites anywhere!
I’ve been playing 371 for the past week. I only play evening and it 713 fell midday yesterday. I’m going to play 371 for a while. I’m also playing my daughter’s b-day 8/29. 928 fell about 2 weeks ago but I played it wrong and got $40.00. So, I’m waiting for 829 to fall (straight)
Melo
May 22nd, 2009
4:15 pm
Hey Lioness,holla at me later.
Leggs
May 22nd, 2009
4:15 pm
@WillieD, when they see you they will remember you, but I will tell them you said hello!
Beautiful
May 22nd, 2009
4:16 pm
@Tazzee
it’s kinda like the sign rule. the sign that you should match up with is the third one over. for example, if i’m a CANCER i should be with a LIBRA.
Melo
May 22nd, 2009
4:16 pm
Strokkers phone# on blast!
Leggs
May 22nd, 2009
4:16 pm
@Beautiful, you’re right, that was a funny blog day!
Tazzee - all moved in (sort of)
May 22nd, 2009
4:18 pm
Beautiful, I guess I need to know the order of the signs for that to work. I’m a Gemini, so I should be with someone born under the August 21 – September 21 sign? If so, then I’m with the right person
cocobrown
May 22nd, 2009
4:19 pm
I have to say live your life. Do not base it on numbers financial,material and definately not in a relationship. If you are happy do not put more into it or think any less. My husband is a year younger than me however in my 20’s I was dating a 17 year old that I did not know was 17 until his 18th birthday because he had a fake id and I was new to ATL,however his maturity and ability to handle his business has far surpassed any relationship I have ever had period. My financial,mental,emotional and physical needs were totally fufilled he just got caught up with the wrong people and I left him and now he has to pay the consequences in a very unfortunate way. He really had a great future ahead of him. Remember live your life as it is whatever is happening is suppossed to and it will not be altered by no one but GOD.
Mo (aka Moeisha- wishing she had a hammock, a good book and some fresh lemonade)
May 22nd, 2009
4:20 pm
Cemeeli – whats your email addy chica. I’ll be glad to help if I can.
And Im glad I know I have friends that are great with numbers…you & PG!
Professor (living for the 3 day weekend)
May 22nd, 2009
4:20 pm
Ok Beautiful I am a Capricorn…so let me know which signs I am capable with or vice versa?
Demi
May 22nd, 2009
4:23 pm
So I’m outside of da club and you think I’m a puuuuuuuunk
So I go to my loaded tech 9 that’s off in the truuuuuuuunk
I told that muthafuka
I ain’t never scared (eastside!)
I ain’t never scared (westside!)
I ain’t never scared (southside!)
I ain’t never scared (northside!)
I ain’t never scared (southside!)
I ain’t never scared (eastside!)
I ain’t never scared (westside!)
Melo…shoot, I be hatin on y’all tall dudes time to time…Demi is mad he gets no play from JustMe or Jazzone…
I brought all of this tree climbing gear for nothing…Now kicking rocks,/i>
Wise Diva
May 22nd, 2009
4:24 pm
Alright, you guys know the blog is closed Monday, right? I don’t know how to do the alerts on this new blog platform, so this is your official notice, LOL
Melo
May 22nd, 2009
4:25 pm
My husband is a year younger than me……… 20’s I was dating a 17 year old ……..his maturity and ability to handle his business has far surpassed any relationship I have ever had period
See how chics do husbands? The old flame is rated waaaaay more than current hubby…. smdh
Mo (aka Moeisha- wishing she had a hammock, a good book and some fresh lemonade)
May 22nd, 2009
4:26 pm
Tazzee – I always read that Geminis were most compatible with Libras. I have a book that I bought recently dedicated to my sign and I must say everything I have ever read (including this book) says the same thing in terms of compatible signs. I have never heard the “3rd over” rule Angie speaks of but it could work
Demi
May 22nd, 2009
4:29 pm
Wise Diva I am proud of you bey…giving us young bucks a go, LOL
Poppa Grande
May 22nd, 2009
4:30 pm
Mo
I really can’t explain it.
Mrs. PG takes shopping with her because I can calculate the discount from the percentages in my head. I’m usually pretty close.
Cemeeli
May 22nd, 2009
4:30 pm
PoppaG/Leggs Okay he just “clocks out” on his assigned/homework english/writing. But when he’s able to freely write, it’s beautiful! I mean he IS creative and handwriting is very precise. Cursive writing is better than some grown-ups i’ve seen. But when you start talking “writing rules” and “langauge “clauses” sequence and sentence structurals, he’s like…okay i’m out!
Good thing is he took his spelling skills from his mother’s DNA
Tazzee - all moved in (sort of)
May 22nd, 2009
4:31 pm
Mo – Libra, that’s Sept-October, right? My best friend is a Libra, but the worst romantic relationship I ever had was with a Libra too. That’s why I don’t mess with that stuff, LOL. I just read online about Geminis and Virgos (I think my guy is a Virgo) and it said the relationship would crash quickly. I think Imma break up with him tonight…naw next week – AFTER my birthday
cocobrown
May 22nd, 2009
4:31 pm
The truth is the truth Melo,don’t get it twisted I love my husband he is my king for life, there is always one in someones life that you feel got away or you still wonder if about if you choose to deny it or not that is if you are human. Next thing i am not a chic I am a lady and a good one at that I guess that is why I have been faithful to my husband for 9 years this is all his and only. It is not about ratings boo the past is the past and the past is real and as long as you live you can live in it or get past it.
Demi
May 22nd, 2009
4:32 pm
See how chics do husbands? The old flame is rated waaaaay more than current hubby…. smdh
Yep…that’s always the case, LOL
Melo
May 22nd, 2009
4:33 pm
Cursive writing is better than some grown-ups i’ve seen
u havnt seen hw bad mine is but they say i was supposed to be a gynocologist!
??
hw did i miss that…??
Raqi wld have been my patient right now…wanted to see that belly scar
Melo
May 22nd, 2009
4:35 pm
cocobrown
boo,its all good.Jus as well u telling us whats really in ur inner brains!
Mo (aka Moeisha- wishing she had a hammock, a good book and some fresh lemonade)
May 22nd, 2009
4:35 pm
Tazzee – Well one of my most compatible signs is Cancer and my ex is a Cancer. Im trying to stay away from that as well. I have found though that my guy choices have (ironically) fit the signs Im compatible with. I like checking out the sign for charateristics. But I could see how the ‘Twins’ and the ‘Scales’ might not agree! LOL
Melo
May 22nd, 2009
4:36 pm
Im Aquarious,so who come under me ??
Poppa Grande
May 22nd, 2009
4:38 pm
Cee
Okay he just “clocks out” on his assigned/homework english/writing.
That’s it. Sounds like he probably just doesn’t like being told what or how to write. I had that issue some. I hated being told what to read. I hated some of the books that we were assigned in HS. I loved to read, but I hated reading assigned things. I refused to read The Diary of Anne Frank. To this day, I can’t stand any Charles Dickens after Oliver Twist. (Too descriptive…just get to some action.) . I wanted to read Stephen King not that.
You said that he is closing in on his teenage-dom. That is when my stubbornness kicked in. Sounds like he likes freestyle, but hates the restriction put on him by the rules.
Tazzee - all moved in (sort of)
May 22nd, 2009
4:39 pm
alright, packing up to go to the gym now…
have a great weekend all – chat with you guys on Tuesday.
Demi
May 22nd, 2009
4:41 pm
Melo…I know a dude back in the day who was a gynocologist. Mayne, some of the ish he said about some of the problems puddies be running into…left me like:
WHOA!!
We bag it, then flip it like WHOA!
Cars we jack it then strip it like WHOA!
Fully equip it, front to back, like WHOA!
Spittin on fiends that come for crack like WHOA!
Askin for shorts and ish ‘igga like WHOA!
Half on his krunk, now ‘igga that’s WHOA!
Flow so properly you’ll see I’m WHOA!
Ain’t no stoppin me, I’m deep like WHOA!
Guns be poppin B, we creep like WHOA!
Hear my name in these streets it’s like WHOA!
Must I pound the concrete like WHOA!
Fill his bish a$$, head to feet like WHOA!
Your man ain’t WHOA! The judge ain’t WHOA!
C.O.’s ain’t WHOA! P.O.’s ain’t WHOA!
Play y’allself I get the G.I. Joe
D-I-C, K riders ain’t WHOA!
Cemeeli
May 22nd, 2009
4:42 pm
@ Tazzee – I will hit you up. I have to drop kiddie off at swimming, I think.
Texas Pete
May 22nd, 2009
4:45 pm
I don’t have any problem dating my 14 year old girlfriend even though I’m 32. Her Mom is ok with the situation and is glad an experienced worldly man is taking care of her daughter.
Gary
May 22nd, 2009
4:48 pm
When I was in my 20s in Sandy Springs, I used to looove to get caught by some cougars. When I was 23, I had a hot six-month affair with a 39-year-old whose husband had left her for a 23-year-old. I also had short-term relationships with a couple of women in their 40s, one in her 50s. They were all mega hot. Now I’m 46.
Leggs
May 22nd, 2009
4:49 pm
I think PoppaG accurately stated what the problem might be!
Melo
May 22nd, 2009
4:52 pm
ok guys im out.My curfew is from now till 4.00 am tmrw,so i better use it.
u need me,holla takpat78@gmail.zulu
Cemeeli
May 22nd, 2009
4:53 pm
PoppaG You are his adult Lil Cee shadow! I’m serious. Cause what you said is JUST like him!!! it really is it in a nutshell.
Buuuuuuttttt…..the “rules” I pay for the RULES. Remember he’s in tuition base institution. So he has no other choice but to do alll that work. All of it.
It’s going to be a looonnnnnggg summer. But maybe not.
Demi
May 22nd, 2009
4:53 pm
Texas Pete…go head R.Kelly wit yo bad self…I heard they love men like yourself in the pent.
Cemeeli
May 22nd, 2009
4:56 pm
I’ll be here for a minute…I need this blog open so i wont go nuts…
but it’s overcast so i can do another 30-60 min….
Gary
May 22nd, 2009
4:59 pm
At first I thought Blanca had made the post and isn’t she like 25? I was disturbed.
Demi
May 22nd, 2009
5:02 pm
(Now I’m 46.)
And alone…sad.