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That’s not my name

Today’s post is courtesy of “Brian”, a 29 year old man from Smyrna. Brian wanted to offer his perspective  after a recent experience he had with a young lady he was seeing:

I have been going out with someone for a couple of months. A couple of weeks ago, when we were in the heat of the moment, she said someone else’s name. I think it was her ex-boyfriend or something. I didn’t say anything about it at the time but it is making me question if they are still seeing each other. Even if they are not in contact, he is obviously in her thoughts. It was probably an honest mistake but it has never happened to me before.

Wow, Brian, that’s quite the conundrum! I can’t say that has happened to me before. I don’t think it has, anyway. Ladies, have you ever made this mistake? Did you own up to it or ignore it? Do you think Brian should bring it up even though it didn’t just happen? What would you do if you were with a guy and he called you another name by mistake?

Guys, how would you handle it? Have you ever used the wrong name with someone you were seeing? What happened? Did the lady completely flip out about it?

Do you think it means anything when someone you are seeing brings up the name of their last significant other/partner? How many mentions are too many? Are you more understanding if the person was with their ex for a long time?

Happy Thursday

479 comments Add your comment

-W8 (bringing back the 3 man rap group"it's on you so what ya gonna do")

May 14th, 2009
4:51 pm

@Ared- being that I’m a Federal Law Enforcement officer I can do whatever I want, whenever I want, wherever I want….next question

AmazonRed™

May 14th, 2009
4:53 pm

I think I’m in love. :lol:

Jamoca

May 14th, 2009
4:54 pm

Oh, yeah…them too, but I was really fishing for WillieD…he kind of reminds me of PoppaG in his post as far as maturity goes.

W8 – Nobody’s running anyone off…well not intentionally. Lol Just be consistent with what you put out here…and you’ll have nothing to be offended about in the long run…and pics are a perfect example…b/c if you come up on here braggin’ when ya look like you’re related to Methusa or as if someone ran over your face IN REVERSE…them somebody betta call da law!!!…We go from being civilized to bottles being thrown in Harpo’s Jukejoint!…jus’ don’t do it…please! LOL

-W8 (bringing back the 3 man rap group"it's on you so what ya gonna do")

May 14th, 2009
4:54 pm

@Kimmie- e’tu? Go Dawgs!!! (shakes my head)

kimmie

May 14th, 2009
4:55 pm

W8 – I’m scurda you!!!LOL!!

Demi

May 14th, 2009
4:55 pm

Sup Jam, I am all late’n'ish…I just had a meeting on how to lower my productivity…

(A.red…do your eye roll thingy for me bey)

Leggs

May 14th, 2009
4:55 pm

That just might have shut her up (no offense)…I doubt it…too funny!

AmazonRed™

May 14th, 2009
4:55 pm

b/c if you come up on here braggin’ when ya look like you’re related to Methusa or as if someone ran over your face IN REVERSE…them somebody betta call da law!!!…We go from being civilized to bottles being thrown in Harpo’s Jukejoint!…jus’ don’t do it…please! LOL

BWA HAAAAA HAAAAAA HAAAAA :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

I’m sooooo done! :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

Melo

May 14th, 2009
4:56 pm

Yeah,i like a cuttie’s rough on me Kimmie,it gets me amorous :lol:

My facebook page has no pic and i go by a middle name,my real first name that most except close family,know off.Nice diguise.I dont want old ex pudsyies falling off the facebook so-called walls. :lol:

Demi

May 14th, 2009
4:56 pm

(Ared- being that I’m a Federal Law Enforcement officer I can do whatever I want, whenever I want, wherever I want….next question)

So………you are a criminal?

AmazonRed™

May 14th, 2009
4:57 pm

Leggs – None taken. He is my baby’s daddy! *swoon!*

-W8 (bringing back the 3 man rap group"it's on you so what ya gonna do")

May 14th, 2009
4:57 pm

@Jamoca- I can be nobody but me…2 people on here seen my pic and one person on here knows me in real life. I am who I am…which has usually be defined as “aszzhole” but hey it’s me…lmao

Demi

May 14th, 2009
4:57 pm

W8…most I know are crooks, are you one of the good ones?

Tazzee - all moved in (sort of)

May 14th, 2009
4:58 pm

Facebook helped me reconnect with all my line sisters and we’re planning a reunion next year. While some might, I would never use a social networking site as a replacement for face-to-face interaction.

As with anything – moderation is key.

For Real

May 14th, 2009
4:58 pm

For Real now on FB watching a video of Ared’s parents when they forgot to turn the camera off.

Oliva: Murry why is yo zippa away open?

Murry: Still can’t help yoself huh?

Oliva: Why you so nasty, come here let me zipit

Murry: Don’t bother it’s broke

Oliva: Den why are you wearing them

Murry: Cause des is my favorite pants!

Oliva: Here let me pin it close

Murry: Okay but don’t stick Mr. Husky!

Oliva: Hold still now

Murry: What taken you so long

Oliva: Hold still!

Murry: You ain’t been down dere that long since 62′

Oliva: Oh hush up now

Murry: Heyyyy watch now, you know that’s how Ared got made.

Leggs

May 14th, 2009
4:58 pm

That was not nice, Demi!

Leggs

May 14th, 2009
4:58 pm

You are stupid funny, ARed!

-W8 (bringing back the 3 man rap group"it's on you so what ya gonna do")

May 14th, 2009
4:58 pm

AmazonRed™

May 14th, 2009
4:59 pm

*AmazonRed is now in the kitchen making biscuits and gravy* :lol:

Tazzee - all moved in (sort of)

May 14th, 2009
4:59 pm

melo – I guess when you got something to hide the disguise is needed ;-)

Demi

May 14th, 2009
5:00 pm

Leggs…I am being honest. They be pulling over a speeding Demi…d’ain’t right!!

-W8 (bringing back the 3 man rap group"it's on you so what ya gonna do")

May 14th, 2009
5:00 pm

@Demi- I do what I need to do, I can’t speak on your interpretation of what I do. On the flip side others interpretation will not hinder the mission.

kimmie

May 14th, 2009
5:00 pm

Have a good one crazy gang, I’m out! Peace!

Leggs

May 14th, 2009
5:00 pm

Wait until Truth hear about you, Turncoat!

Staceye AKA Black Mamba

May 14th, 2009
5:00 pm

FOR REAL..you are a friggin’ Nut case! :lol:

Demi

May 14th, 2009
5:01 pm

Leggs

May 14th, 2009
5:01 pm

You speeding…it’s there job to pull your reckless behind over!

-W8 (bringing back the 3 man rap group"it's on you so what ya gonna do")

May 14th, 2009
5:02 pm

@Demi- I said Federal

DJ Sniper

May 14th, 2009
5:02 pm

Ya’ll is straight retarded up in this camp today!