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Keep It Real

I received an email from a reader who has a little dilemma. She says that she has not been “authentic” with her man when it comes to the bedroom stuff. She pretends to be inexperienced and lately she has been pulling a “Meg Ryan” and faking it. (I don’t think Meg Ryan will ever live down that diner scene!).

Since the relationship is pretty serious now, she wants to be more honest with her man. She is concerned about his reaction to the truth: there are times when she has her own tricks that she wants to try. There are also times when she is too tired and doesn’t have the energy.

So how do you keep it real with your mate in the bedroom? Do you prefer full disclosure, tell me every thing approach? Do you want things to be said in the moment or while you two are at brunch?

Guys, do you want your women to be real in the bedroom or are you perfectly fine with the fake out? Ladies, do you find it hard to keep it real with your man when it comes to things like this?

Happy Friday  & Happy Mother’s Day to all the mothers!!

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AmazonRed™

May 8th, 2009
4:24 pm

After the 3rd day of dry humping he told you that he was married and that should have been the end of it..

:lol: :lol: :lol:

And today’s topic is “keep it real” :lol:

MELO

May 8th, 2009
4:25 pm

Angie,who is more handsome,him or me??

LIONESS-Crickets

May 8th, 2009
4:25 pm

Angie- You are right! A man culd sweep a desperate woman off her feet within a few hours..

you're my AIR . . . i don't want to be your FRIEND anymore

May 8th, 2009
4:26 pm

i am keeping it real. are you? i don’t hold back on here and never will. so get used to it!

is it time for y’all haters to go home yet? lol.

Leggs

May 8th, 2009
4:27 pm

HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!!!

Mo (aka Moeisha- looking for a new haircut)

May 8th, 2009
4:27 pm

Ok I am just peeping in and I must say you all are hilarious!!

ARed – the comment about the SpEd kid wetting his pants was classic, I am still laughing at that one!

AmazonRed™

May 8th, 2009
4:28 pm

Yeah, I keep it real.

And the real is that I’m NOT bat.shyt.crazy. :D

abc

May 8th, 2009
4:28 pm

I hate to be too critical, but Air, are you about as stupid as a box of hair, or what? You’ll cozy up to a married man, at work. Don’t be such an idiot.

Such actions with prior knowledge and awareness of what you’re doing, frankly, you deserve the large helping of sheeot you’re about to be served. Enjoy. Shut up about it.

you're my AIR . . . i don't want to be your FRIEND anymore

May 8th, 2009
4:28 pm

@CUTIE
not desperate, just ready.

@MELO
you of course. ;o)

AmazonRed™

May 8th, 2009
4:28 pm

You are right! A man culd sweep a desperate woman off her feet within a few hours..

Great point. :lol:

Cemeeli

May 8th, 2009
4:29 pm

Ya’ll remember when you be playing outside with you friends, and get caught outside after the lights come on, and you ack like you just tired and going in the house, before she starts calling your name?

I still think i need my momma to call me inside from playing with the wrong friends.

Leggs

May 8th, 2009
4:29 pm

OMG, I hate to laugh at this stuff, but abc that was funny!

Cemeeli

May 8th, 2009
4:31 pm

Re-post.

Ya’ll remember when you’d be playing outside with your friends, and get caught outside after the lights come on, and then you ack like you’re just tired and going in the house, before she starts calling your name?

I think I hear my mamma calling me.

MELO

May 8th, 2009
4:32 pm

@MELO
you of course. ;o)

okay,i will phuckk u myself then!
Quit flirting with that man or else.
Ill send u a ticket for memorial weekend if u feeling a lil itchy over there.
Hws that???
say hie to the kids……

AmazonRed™

May 8th, 2009
4:32 pm

Angie – You don’t find it odd that we are all so different but EVERYONE can pretty much agree that your stories are just downright stupid and bring unnecessary conflict to your life.

That doesn’t tell you anything does it? *smh*

you're my AIR . . . i don't want to be your FRIEND anymore

May 8th, 2009
4:33 pm

**You’ll cozy up to a married man** it’s not like that at all. i work with this man and i refuse to have my work area become uncomfortable just because he has a problem. i am respecting him and his wife . . . believe me.

JtJ

May 8th, 2009
4:33 pm

@ Beautiful…you are or have entertained this mess if you talking about your feelings are involved and you feel screwed….why? He told you the truth, so you should walk away and go on about your buisness.
All of what happened in those 3 days, went out the window when he said those 7 letters….”MARRIED”

Sybil

May 8th, 2009
4:36 pm

It’s nice to not be the only crazy person I know.

Tazzee - all moved in (sort of)

May 8th, 2009
4:36 pm

are you about as stupid as a box of hair, or what?

I’m in tears now – need to get some tissues :lol:

I need to go pray…

you're my AIR . . . i don't want to be your FRIEND anymore

May 8th, 2009
4:37 pm

**bring unnecessary conflict to your life.**

i think you would be surprised at how drama free my life really is. i really don’t consider this mishap drama. shiit happens. believe it or not, i only have blog drama.

AmazonRed™

May 8th, 2009
4:37 pm

LMAO @ Sybil!!!! :lol: :lol: :lol:

You are pretty sane tho, sorry to break it to you. I bet you couldn’t come up with the stuff Angie does if you tried. :lol:

abc

May 8th, 2009
4:38 pm

Just sayin. I don’t want to be too critical. Certainly, I’ll avoid the topic in the future, and skip past the posts about it. BUT, scroll back and read what you yourself typed, and then tell yourself “it’s not like that at all”. BS. I suggest less coffee, or less crack, or something.

you're my AIR . . . i don't want to be your FRIEND anymore

May 8th, 2009
4:38 pm

shaddup MELO! lol.

Tazzee - all moved in (sort of)

May 8th, 2009
4:38 pm

It’s nice to not be the only crazy person I know. :lol:

LIONESS-Crickets

May 8th, 2009
4:39 pm

Angie- You are ready for?? Drama?

**off with my head for this request** What did the poem say?

I really hope this person REALLY exist!

Tazzee - all moved in (sort of)

May 8th, 2009
4:39 pm

I suggest less coffee, or less crack, or something. now my abs are hurting!

AmazonRed™

May 8th, 2009
4:39 pm

i think you would be surprised at how drama free my life really is.

I think you’d be suprised at how little I actually care.

You’re blog entertainment. That’s it. I don’t care about your lonely nights at home with your dog and a jar of peanut butter. I assume that is a pretty drama free life. :lol:

Cemeeli

May 8th, 2009
4:40 pm

Tazzee What had happened was…my momma called me and then i came back and abc came out to play…i’m so done!

LIONESS-Crickets

May 8th, 2009
4:40 pm

abc- LESS CRACK.. HEElarious!!

Tazzee - all moved in (sort of)

May 8th, 2009
4:40 pm

I need to go to the ATM – I have exactly $8 on me…

AmazonRed™

May 8th, 2009
4:40 pm

I suggest less coffee, or less crack, or something

*tears are literally streaming down my face* :lol: :lol: :lol: I can’t take it.

Mo (aka Moeisha- looking for a new haircut)

May 8th, 2009
4:41 pm

Oh this ish is PURE COMEDY!! Too bad I cant catch up on everything!! Even abc is clowning!! WOW!! Im like Tazzee….where is the tissue cause I am crying over here….and my stomach hurts from laughing

Grace

May 8th, 2009
4:42 pm

I suggest less coffee, or less crack, LOL abcyou got me cracking up over here!!!

Leggs

May 8th, 2009
4:43 pm

I suggest less coffee, or less crack, or something. :lol: :cry:

You guys are on a roll!

LIONESS-Crickets

May 8th, 2009
4:43 pm

you're my AIR . . . i don't want to be your FRIEND anymore

May 8th, 2009
4:43 pm

**talking about your feelings are involved and you feel screwed** don’t know how else to put it, but don’t feel that way today. i’m good.

and i just noticed that he hasn’t texted me today. things are getting back to normal. thank goodness. :o )

i agree that i over exaggerated. lol.

MELO

May 8th, 2009
4:43 pm

but Air, are you about as stupid as a box of hair

As a,(former) musician, abc is ryhiming at ur hair post Air!

LIONESS-Crickets

May 8th, 2009
4:44 pm

:blank:
:eyeroll:
:cry:
:crying:
:blush:

Leggs

May 8th, 2009
4:44 pm

That and the box of hair has got to be the funniest lines posted today!

you're my AIR . . . i don't want to be your FRIEND anymore

May 8th, 2009
4:46 pm

**I suggest less coffee, or less crack, or something** shut up! lol.

AmazonRed™

May 8th, 2009
4:46 pm

All jokes aside, you have people that don’t pay you or your issues any type of mind on a regular telling you this isn’t the type of friend you should have. Speaks volumes. *shrugs*

But you’re a “smart girl” :lol: <—sorry can’t type that without laughing. :lol:

Tazzee - all moved in (sort of)

May 8th, 2009
4:49 pm

you're my AIR . . . i don't want to be your FRIEND anymore

May 8th, 2009
4:49 pm

@CUTIE
i’ll post just for you girl!

**I really hope this person REALLY exist!** you shut up too!

Tone,
Skin Tone
That glows like the morning sun, secretes salutations of morning embrace.
Movements of definition and assurance, embodies the one who moves in elegant language.
The language of love that knows my face, and my desires for her.
My mind lost in future, pastimes that glare.
Long walks here, Fun times there,
Little moments of intimacy do we dare…share.
Still after, still I care…
For you like the first time my eyes met you that morning of an August wind.
Uncontrolled feelings of wonder, whirled past my winded soul, and walked through the door of my waiting heart.
Mesmerized by the…

Tone,
Skin tone
That said hello in simple words that I know.
A touch of reality places me back in space of distance between us,
But I long to be a space invader to her space
Wanting to leave no space
Between me and her

LIONESS-Crickets

May 8th, 2009
4:50 pm

Angie is smart but probably not when it comes to men..

“and i just noticed that he hasn’t texted me today. things are getting back to normal. thank goodness.” Maybe he is with his wife & chilren..
I don’t think this person actually exist.. I need PROOF! What did the poem say?

Leggs

May 8th, 2009
4:50 pm

:blank stare: ?

LIONESS-Crickets

May 8th, 2009
4:51 pm

LMMFAO!! Homie REALLY texted you that? What kind of phone do you have cause that shyte would have taken up at 80pgs on my dinosaur..

AmazonRed™

May 8th, 2009
4:52 pm

He needs to be reported to HR.

Leggs

May 8th, 2009
4:52 pm

Nice poem, but he never should have given it to you. He just as dumb as that box of hair! Bet he gives that poem to all those he’s smitten with by simply changing the month! Anything is possible.

Cemeeli

May 8th, 2009
4:53 pm

Lioness – Shad’up!!!

Leggs

May 8th, 2009
4:53 pm

He didn’t text her that…that’s the poem he wrote for her.