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City & State or ZIP Tonight, this weekend, May 5th...
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City & State or ZIP Tonight, this weekend, May 5th...
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Keep It Real

I received an email from a reader who has a little dilemma. She says that she has not been “authentic” with her man when it comes to the bedroom stuff. She pretends to be inexperienced and lately she has been pulling a “Meg Ryan” and faking it. (I don’t think Meg Ryan will ever live down that diner scene!).

Since the relationship is pretty serious now, she wants to be more honest with her man. She is concerned about his reaction to the truth: there are times when she has her own tricks that she wants to try. There are also times when she is too tired and doesn’t have the energy.

So how do you keep it real with your mate in the bedroom? Do you prefer full disclosure, tell me every thing approach? Do you want things to be said in the moment or while you two are at brunch?

Guys, do you want your women to be real in the bedroom or are you perfectly fine with the fake out? Ladies, do you find it hard to keep it real with your man when it comes to things like this?

Happy Friday  & Happy Mother’s Day to all the mothers!!

365 comments Add your comment

lurker

May 8th, 2009
3:41 pm

Oh and Angie something is wrong if your knee deep only after 3 days…seriously.

LIONESS-Crickets

May 8th, 2009
3:41 pm

Lurker- After 3 days, feelings were already involved…??? This doesn’t sound like a sane person to me..

Tazzee - all moved in (sort of)

May 8th, 2009
3:42 pm

Shoot, I took a picture with Deepo the last time I went to the Aquarium the kids were in the photo with me

AmazonRed™

May 8th, 2009
3:42 pm

LMAO at everyone else noticing the crazy. :lol:

3 days??? :lol:

lurker

May 8th, 2009
3:44 pm

But if you’re gonna…please do it and hush up about it. It’s not even a cute read for a blog

Poppa Grande

May 8th, 2009
3:44 pm

AR

Did you say yesterday that you tried El Pollo Loco?

Yeah, I posted it yesterday. I actually had the food last Sat.(5/2/09)

Cemeeli

May 8th, 2009
3:45 pm

AwwwwTazzee was it you blog friend Cee that you hugged? Awww!

lurker

May 8th, 2009
3:45 pm

Lioness…seriously girl, something is wrong with that picture.

you're my AIR . . . i don't want to be your FRIEND anymore

May 8th, 2009
3:45 pm

**If you want to do it, go ahead, it’s on you.**

why do you guys keep saying this? when did i say i was going to continue something beyond a work relationship?

again, i’m sticking with plan A!!! lol.

lurker

May 8th, 2009
3:46 pm

On that note Angie I’m going home…my headache can’t take reading foolishness….

LIONESS-Crickets

May 8th, 2009
3:47 pm

Cee- I can’t help but laugh! You are HILARIOUS!!

Lurker- PSYCHO!!

mytw♥cents

May 8th, 2009
3:48 pm

I would think it’d be easier to open your mouth than open your legs. tee hee hee. Not like that, tho. ABC – Yes, this is a duplicitous woman. The energy she’s putting into her acting would be better served coming up with some new tricks to take his mind off where she mighta come up with whatever else. My snap judgment is that she had ulterior motives in selecting him or allowing him to select her in the first place. Cuz if you really wanna be down with someone wouldn’t you wanna give ‘em all ya got, and let the rest figure itself out?

Have a lovely weekend y’all… And no fakin’ your lack of skills. Well hopefully somebody gets to make use of some skills… ;)

you're my AIR . . . i don't want to be your FRIEND anymore

May 8th, 2009
3:48 pm

@CUTIE
you’ve never fallen for a guy after 3 days? gtfoh.

Professor

May 8th, 2009
3:48 pm

Ok, I took a break from work because it is crazy! I think I should have kept working because this is WORST.

After three days your feelings are involved?!? It should take longer than three days to recognize his voice on the phone if he calls from a different number. Three days, huh? I guess if old boy would have given you a month you would be in Mexico getting the swine flu and using his last name.

I am going back to work!

you're my AIR . . . i don't want to be your FRIEND anymore

May 8th, 2009
3:50 pm

i’m not talking about falling in love. just falling in like.

AmazonRed™

May 8th, 2009
3:50 pm

my headache can’t take reading foolishness…. – lurker

Ok, I took a break from work because it is crazy! I think I should have kept working because this is WORST. – Professor

You know what it’s like? It’s like you’re in school at the 7th grade mixer. Everyones laughing and having a good time then the special ed kid goes and wets his pants in front of everyone.

Kills the vibe you know? :lol:

you're my AIR . . . i don't want to be your FRIEND anymore

May 8th, 2009
3:52 pm

y’all are forgetting that i met in him august.

MELO

May 8th, 2009
3:52 pm

I bet if uall say its okay for angie to get screwed,she will, this weekend!
shes looking for ur validation.
Too bad this aint just a guys blog and u over there in Cali.
With that long dick pining post,if u were up here in cobb,dekalkb or gwenetico,u wld have have claimed a new zip code today thru sunday evening :lol: :evil:

Tazzee - all moved in (sort of)

May 8th, 2009
3:53 pm

Cemeeli – it was December 2007, were you the Deepo volunteer back then?

AmazonRed™

May 8th, 2009
3:53 pm

AmazonRed™

May 8th, 2009
3:54 pm

With that long dick pining post,

:lol:

Tazzee - all moved in (sort of)

May 8th, 2009
3:55 pm

You know what it’s like? It’s like you’re in school at the 7th grade mixer. Everyones laughing and having a good time then the special ed kid goes and wets his pants in front of everyone.

AmRed – that visual is hilarious :lol: You are wrong for that.

LIONESS-Crickets

May 8th, 2009
3:56 pm

Angie- It is Very hard for me to fall in anything with anyone ESPECIALLY my married co-worker

you're my AIR . . . i don't want to be your FRIEND anymore

May 8th, 2009
4:00 pm

@MELO
not true and you know it! stop. lol.

as soon as he said he was married, that was it for me. not looking for validation.

i’m just not gettin’ down with JUST anyone. you just want to join in the fun of throwing daggers. lol.

Leggs

May 8th, 2009
4:00 pm

@Lioness, that’s my issue w/Otega too. Only a matter of time.

@Angie, you really didn’t need to post all of that. But since you feel better, now go sit down!

AmazonRed™

May 8th, 2009
4:01 pm

Tazzee – You know I say what most of y’all are really thinking.

If she showed up at your crib, you’d hide the knives!

Cemeeli

May 8th, 2009
4:01 pm

@ Lioness – Keep laughing, to keep from crying.geesh

Tazzee No i was in 2008 (last Spring). I’ve been volunteer a little over a year i think.

You know ARed is silly as heck too. Lemme go get some paper towels and tissue. Again!

you're my AIR . . . i don't want to be your FRIEND anymore

May 8th, 2009
4:01 pm

@CUTIE
pay attention mami! i didn’t know. i didn’t phuckin’ know. lol.

Leggs

May 8th, 2009
4:02 pm

@JtJ ~ you got mail!

Professor

May 8th, 2009
4:04 pm

“the 7th grade mixer” and the “long dick posting” is making me sniggle and giggle…LOL!

you're my AIR . . . i don't want to be your FRIEND anymore

May 8th, 2009
4:04 pm

@LEGGS
you know i’m gonna do what i feel on here. they need to learn how to skip. i had an issue and this is one of the ways i dealt with it. period.

AmazonRed™

May 8th, 2009
4:05 pm

Cee – I hope all is okay. I’ll make sure you laugh today. :D

you're my AIR . . . i don't want to be your FRIEND anymore

May 8th, 2009
4:06 pm

@Professor
guys don’t giggle.

AmazonRed™

May 8th, 2009
4:06 pm

they need to learn how to skip.

Why? Your posts help me to remember to count my blessings for simple things like common sense and sanity.

Leggs

May 8th, 2009
4:07 pm

Yeah, yeah, yeah…I know you are!

JtJ

May 8th, 2009
4:07 pm

Somebody need to go sit in the corner, twirl their hair while sucking their thumb, and take their behind to a HAPPY PLACE!!!!

MAKES NO SENSE I TELL YA!!!!

you're my AIR . . . i don't want to be your FRIEND anymore

May 8th, 2009
4:08 pm

i don’t wish this on none of y’all. well, at least one of you. lol.

Professor

May 8th, 2009
4:08 pm

@ you’re my AIR, moon and stars…I want my married co-worker after 3 days.

I AM woman hear me roar!

Cemeeli

May 8th, 2009
4:09 pm

Dang ARed well I normally give everyone a pass, a chance, and HOPE to do better! I really do, But DAYUM!!!

Leggs

May 8th, 2009
4:09 pm

@Angie, i believe Professor is a woman!

you're my AIR . . . i don't want to be your FRIEND anymore

May 8th, 2009
4:11 pm

@JtJ
y’all saying a whole lotta nothing. what doesn’t make sense to you?

AmazonRed™

May 8th, 2009
4:11 pm

i don’t wish this on none of y’all.

Wish what? You voluntarily enter into these situations.

Duh.

you're my AIR . . . i don't want to be your FRIEND anymore

May 8th, 2009
4:14 pm

@Professor
i apologize, my bad.

i saw him around the office starting in august, we started flirting earlier this year, he made a move to take it to another level recently.

so your comment **I want my married co-worker after 3 days.** doesn’t apply here sweetie.

JtJ

May 8th, 2009
4:16 pm

@ Beautiful….Ain’t nothing to say that isn’t or hasn’t already been said……..why even entertain it any further????? You got the truth, STEP OFF! LEAVE HIM ALONE.

Tazzee - all moved in (sort of)

May 8th, 2009
4:16 pm

You guys sure make my Friday afternoon much more amusing. I just love Fridays!

you're my AIR . . . i don't want to be your FRIEND anymore

May 8th, 2009
4:17 pm

**You voluntarily enter into these situations.**

not true.

LIONESS-Crickets

May 8th, 2009
4:18 pm

Angie- After the 3rd day of dry humping he told you that he was married and that should have been the end of it.. There is NO WAY a man could sweep you off your feet in 3 days..

AmazonRed™

May 8th, 2009
4:20 pm

not true.

Oh really? Who is putting a gun to your head and forcing you to befriend this man?

you're my AIR . . . i don't want to be your FRIEND anymore

May 8th, 2009
4:20 pm

@JtJ
who said i am entertaining anything? and how do they now this. everything at work has went back to normal.

this is why i waited to the end of the day. yw.

you're my AIR . . . i don't want to be your FRIEND anymore

May 8th, 2009
4:24 pm

**There is NO WAY a man could sweep you off your feet in 3 days..** really? ok.